Bride Can’t Get Mum On Board With Her Pink Dress Dreams!

Bride Can’t Get Mum On Board With Her Pink Dress Dreams! | Say Yes To The Dress

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Ай бұрын

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Tiffany wants to wear a pink dress for her big day but can’t get her mum on board. Next Up, Holly is here for her dress fitting with her three children. #SayYesToTheDress
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@m8trxd Ай бұрын

How awesome to find a husband and a mother in law that completely accept you for who you are 😊

@Shasha-jo5iv Ай бұрын

yeah, the proposal???! wonderful people who love her!

@Anna-fm7hh 7 күн бұрын

But it is easy for the mother of the groom, becuse the young couple will live close to her. I know that the mother of the bride should accept it,but it's her who is in a heart breaking situation, not the mother of the groom.

@SunBeeSmoked Ай бұрын

It's incredibly sad when someone else's mother makes your child feel more accepted than you do.

@s.susanmarandi9080 Ай бұрын

It is kind of understandable, though. The mother has been visualizing her daughter in her wedding dress since she was born; the mother-in-law has no such preconceived notions.

@SunBeeSmoked Ай бұрын

@@s.susanmarandi9080 it's not understandable at all. You shouldn't have those kinds of expectations that don't impact you or your child in any way. Having expectations to the point of your child feeling unaccepted for having likes and dislikes and preferences is just overbearing.

@Vincenty90 Ай бұрын

@@SunBeeSmokedit’s always 9000x easier to accept someone else’s kids life decisions rather than your own kid. If the kid down the block wants to dress as a furry to high school it’s fine. If mine does it he’s gonna get a whooping.

@oluwafisayoomikunle8237 Ай бұрын

It is because they are not their mothers. A mother will always be particular about her child that doesn't mean she won't support her child. There is an obvious bond between this mother and child

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@Vincenty90That is so true! My cousin had a baby out of wedlock, had a shotgun wedding and dropped out of college and my mom was so supportive. But if it was me, she would have killed me. Those are all things my mom does not expect from me.

@RevLeigh55 Ай бұрын

My daughter didn’t want the kind of dress I would have preferred, but I kept my mouth shut. Her day. Her way.

@ellenfoster9764 Ай бұрын

Good for you. I cannot get why all these mothers care so much!

@elena3476 25 күн бұрын

Honestly whats the point in bringing your mother to an appointment if you dont value her opinion or if she isnt honest with you(in a nice manner)

@tishguzman5116 25 күн бұрын

You are a considerate, wise mom. Your daughter is blessed to have you.

@kittys.2870 20 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@TheSuwanneeMama 4 күн бұрын

I agree. I wanted to wear my mother’s dress. I’m the only one in the family whose build would fit it. But it was white & it was my second marriage so she was horrified that I’d wear white. This was in 1994 so long past that rule!

@jennypage2005 Ай бұрын

The pink dress is GORGEOUS! And the second bride chose a beautiful dress.

@erinjaynes Ай бұрын

Yes!!! That delicate pink floral dress was completely stunning and feminine and gorgeous!!!

@connie27100 Ай бұрын

Beautiful floral dress. Stunning. Best choice

@Lynda007- Ай бұрын

My sister chose a pink dress. It wasn't super dark pink or anything. It was blush, but my mom loved it and so did everyone else and no one said a word.

@helsnheidi Ай бұрын

I will never understand how these mothers can’t understand that it’s not about them. It’s not their wedding and it’s not their dress. How can they seriously sit there and only focus on what they want?!

@jeswainston Ай бұрын

Because it’s about the spectacle of the wedding and it could be the mom’s didn’t get the wedding of their dreams or want to relive.

@morganablackwater2017 Ай бұрын

@@jeswainston still doesn't give you pass to ruin your dauther experience.

@jeswainston Ай бұрын

@@morganablackwater2017 I never said it did. Where did I say that? I was explaining. Yeesh. Calm down.

@helsnheidi Ай бұрын

Yeah I totally understand the psychology of what’s driving the desire. What I don’t understand is how they can think it’s ok to prioritise their own needs over their child’s.

@dietotaku Ай бұрын

@@jeswainston i didn't get the wedding of my dreams and i can honestly say that when/if my daughter gets married, i will be singularly obsessed with making sure she gets the wedding of HER dreams, not mine. will i let her know if something looks tacky or clashes? sure. will i help her find a way to achieve HER vision and inject HER taste in a way that still looks classy, like randy did with this bride? absolutely. THAT is my job as her mother.

@rosehavenfarm2969 Ай бұрын

The pink flowered dress is gorgeous. She looks beautiful in it.

@MsJubjubbird Ай бұрын

I don't like it. It reminds me of wallpaper

@jb6712 Ай бұрын

For a 2009 style, yes. That's when this was filmed.

@Kayenne54 Ай бұрын

I loved it. It was unique, extremely pretty, very feminine...totally looked fantastic on her and didn't overwhelm her either.

@deadlyfox666 Ай бұрын

@@jb67122004 not 2009

@shawroberts5149 Ай бұрын

But how does that dress fit in with the desired theme, it's pastel, $600 over budget and somewhat wishy washy? The dream was to match the decorative boxes from the engagement. The bride seems to be so easily distracted with her budget, style choices etc Her mother is aware of this, knows her best and can see this. Strong willed does not equate maturity here.

@ladyjustice1474 Ай бұрын

1st bride's mom, I understand that's her baby. But her daughter needs wings every bit as much as she needs roots.

@KickedMangoStudios Ай бұрын

Well said! Love that! 💕

@v.k.i9412 Ай бұрын

Well said.

@fieryphoenix2020 Ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more

@kaitlynwright2190 28 күн бұрын

That MIL is an angel. They’re both so lucky to have found each other. She gets to enjoy being a part of his family, and they get to enjoy how sweet she is!

@angelic8026 Ай бұрын

Her mil is a gem! The bride is strong willed and not swayed by any of the comments. Kudos to both of them

@helwigtwin Ай бұрын

The bride is the person who MUST CHOOSE HER DRESS!!

@s.susanmarandi9080 Ай бұрын

Well, she did, so I'm not sure why you're shouting, lol?

@moniqueengleman873 Ай бұрын

My mother bought and mailed my wedding dress sight unseen. My wedding was all about them. They (mom and dad) I was finishing up my masters degree and graduated and got married the next weekend. They did a beautiful job and at 500 people we cleaned up in the gifts department. It never bothered me. Not once. I was grateful. I am just not that girl who dreamed of a wedding. I dreamed of flying jets

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

That is why she should go alone or at most with one person who is supportive.

@catladyfromky4142 Ай бұрын

It depends on who's paying for the dress. If a mom is paying, then she gets a vote. Since Tiffany is paying for it herself, her mom's opinion is only as important as Tiffany gives it.

@cc-sb1is Ай бұрын

@moniqueengleman873 that is very bizarre, but I understand some people really don't give a flying f*** about their wedding and the details. After all, it's the marriage that counts! (Not choosing your own dress is really messed up though! imo)

@heyy13 Ай бұрын

She looks beautiful in that embroidered flower dress. I am so glad her mother in law is so supportive and loving.

@markcooke729 Ай бұрын

"getting married for her first time in a white dress" That speaks volumes about what her Mum thinks about her daughter's marriage! What a hateful thing to say!

@Fatimasroots Ай бұрын

I thought the same! So disrespectful

@OpheliaSees Ай бұрын

That was the mother-in-law not the mother who said it.

@juanitasterba7675 Ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one who caught that.

@mariesmith1616 Ай бұрын

She meant that it it would have been a second wedding a different color dress would be more acceptable.

@PinkieJoJo Ай бұрын

@@OpheliaSeesno. It was the brides mother that said it.

@jemmaj2919 Ай бұрын

That pink worked for her, she looked great

@Kat-zj5kd 8 күн бұрын

she is beautiful and the pink floral dress looked so pretty

@woowoochuggachugga Ай бұрын

"I picture Tiffany getting married......the first time...". Whoa, Tiffany's mom, that's below the belt shade. Poor form. No wonder they are moving to Colorado.

@alisons9740 Ай бұрын

She wanted the symbolism she raised her with, nothing wrong with that. Only if she had forced it, but she eventually was won over. Mom seemed pretty young herself, maybe not still with Dad and thinking ahead.

@fdm2155 14 күн бұрын

Nah, mom is ridiculously self centered. She should have STFU and supported her daughter from the start. Mom is probably 50 but doing all she can to look younger.

@agocataldig 29 күн бұрын

The mother in law of the first bride is being so supportive! I love it!

@annied3276 Ай бұрын

Oh my gosh! How could anybody not like that second dress? It's absolutely magnificent!!! The embroidery and colors are gorgeous!!!

@NancyGnome 25 күн бұрын

It's gorgeous but it doesn't fit the leopard/hot pink theme, I think, it's more like a formal China pattern. I love the floofiness of the first one!

@nannasally 8 күн бұрын

It looks like an eiderdown

@cc-sb1is Ай бұрын

Not only did her future MIL support her 100%, they look so alike! It could be her daughter, and now, through marriage, she IS. 💕

@marinam.2293 Ай бұрын

LOVE the second bride! "I wear peanut butter more than I wear real shoes" - classic mom statement! 😄 I also have three kids, and that's just reality.

@becartist13 29 күн бұрын

The dress the first bride chose is GORGEOUS!! I'm so happy she went with the cream floral one, it's beautiful!

@jessiejoseph1093 Ай бұрын

That pink gown is Gorgeous! What a beautiful bride!

@marysheffield190 Ай бұрын

I don’t understand why these wedding salons don’t have more variety of colored dresses. There was this girl in London who wanted a Steampunk wedding theme and they found her this stunning eggplant fitted gown. Everyone has a right to have their dream dress.

@mariesmith1616 Ай бұрын

These are old episodes maybe 2012. At that time, it wasn’t that common colored wedding dresses. Of course, anybody should marry as they please, they just want to go to the right place.

@MsJubjubbird Ай бұрын

Supply and demand. They have only so much space and a huge majority of their customers want white or ivory. Sometimes it might be better to go to a formalwear store.

@jb6712 Ай бұрын

It would be impossible and impractical for a bridal salon to try and anticipate all the various colors brides might want. They'd have to have salons the size of an Amazon warehouse to house dresses that would have bridal appeal for all of, what? Two months, max?

@lisamelroy2855 Ай бұрын

I saw that episode, and the bride and the dress were gorgeous!

@terrafletcher1930 Ай бұрын

They can always go to a non-bridal salon with ball gowns and evening dresses

@margaretmathis4775 Ай бұрын

I love the pink floral dress!

@timeforchange6818 Ай бұрын

These consultants who always say 'a little over', when it's more than $1000 over is cruel. She said $5000 for it ALL, alterations and veil included.

@thehungrygoldfish Ай бұрын

To be fair, in this case, she wanted something specific. And this episode is from over 15 years ago so there weren’t a lot of options outside of a white traditional gown.

@elsielinstrom Ай бұрын

Exactly!!!!

@smiley3239 Ай бұрын

she already asked and she agreed

@noirefit5954 Ай бұрын

Well sometimes ya don’t always get what you want

@catezaida8081 Ай бұрын

Problem is, when you want something outside of the box or what is normal off the rack, you should expect that it is going to cost you. So in my opinion, she got off lucky with only $600 more that what she stated. And for a look as special as that, it was worth it.

@nelleeh Ай бұрын

It’s so nice to see second time brides here. Having gone through a divorce myself it feels heart warming to see people getting a second chance.

@Beth-zg6gb Ай бұрын

I love that pink dress she picked! She looks gorgeous! Good for her for sticking to her guns! 💕

@ohbrother1967 Ай бұрын

Go mother in law!! I love how she is pushing for Tiffany!! That is so refreshing to see! Especially with her mom being so pissy.

@jenwanner4911 Ай бұрын

That pink flowered gown was spectacular. If I had it to do all over again, I'd go with that gown.

@pamelafox7677 Ай бұрын

The embroidered dress was so gorgeous. It was perfect. And the second bride was a good look too, amazing!

@nikkib6604 Ай бұрын

The pink dress was gorgeous!! Randy scored on this one!!

@kimberlypfleuger4261 Ай бұрын

Loved the pink floral dress ! Much better choice than the leopard print sash and hot pink ruffled bottom ! Haha

@ndisfoshiz Ай бұрын

I remember this episode and really liking the first bride. I thought she was super cool and I loved the idea of a pink dress. I myself got married last year and my dress was a pinkish color

@lisasamuel8709 Ай бұрын

The dresses on both brides looked absolutely spectacular

@TG-fq6vy Ай бұрын

I don’t know why she didn’t go with a pink sash. The leopard print looks terrible unless you’re getting married at a zoo in front of the Leopard exhibit.😂

@michelleponzio Ай бұрын

I can never figure out why anyone but the bride has a say in the dress. They're obly there as another opinion, but it's ultimately the BRIDE'S DECISION

@cathybaldry7822 Ай бұрын

I would not have considered pink but geez these 2 pink dresses are soo beautiful. I really really love the dress she chose. I would love to see a version suitable for a party. Sooo sooo love it!

@katiuszaYT Ай бұрын

Loved when the mother said, "I pictured her getting married *the first time* in a white dress'.

@annehampton5807 Ай бұрын

A beautiful dress but a awful lot over budget, when you add on the veil and headpiece, also alterations. I guess when you want different, you are expected to pay for it. Second bride to be, also looked beautiful. Every happiness and best wishes to both couples ❤

@morganablackwater2017 Ай бұрын

If you want different you either pay a LOT or you do it yourself... That is a fact

@jb6712 Ай бұрын

This was filmed 15 years ago, 2009. They both likely have half a dozen kids each, and are long, long ago over their wedding dresses!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@jb6712Yup, my sister in law rented hers 23 years ago and no longer remembers her wedding dress. The wedding dress is not as important as people make it to be.

@joeytabucon3372 27 күн бұрын

FYI 2013

@emilybenck3780 Ай бұрын

The second bride just seemed like such a lovely and caring woman. I hope she gets everything good in life.

@user-gl1kd3wj77 Ай бұрын

Prince bride’s choice was perfect and amazing on her. The second bride looked really good as well

@jeniferkenney2984 Ай бұрын

The first bride's final dress was just perfect for her. I also like the all white dress with the leopard sash.

@kellicoffman8440 Ай бұрын

Not sure about a bride who thinks of her wedding as sweet 16

@electroQted Ай бұрын

Exactly! Gave the feels like she never grew past her sweet sixteen party that she might’ve wanted.. it’s okay to want to bring your dreams alive on your special day, but they’ve gotta have your other half IN the imagination, IN the wedding..

@donnawallace9938 Ай бұрын

She looks stunning in the flower dress

@absatwell8163 Ай бұрын

Her choice.

@melasoomarie952 6 күн бұрын

First btb .. the dress was freaking gorgeous..so glad randy convinced her

@PistachioDean Ай бұрын

1:23 small detail but I love that she mentioned her price point includes alterations and veil. So many times they'll go over that with just the dress alone. But it's a good boundary she has set. Edit: spoke too soon, they went over xD

@bibimbap5917 28 күн бұрын

They told her before she decided to try it on. Not like she was blindsided

@sahrlve 8 күн бұрын

I gasp when she came out with the pink floral gown. I was sad when she went back but I'm really happy she went with the dress. It's lovely

@catboxcleaner3532 Ай бұрын

I adore the second bride’s graceful gratitude for her groom and happy family. The first bride has a stunning dress and headpiece that suit her magically.

@celissewillis9399 Ай бұрын

The fiance's mom is more mom to the bride than the bride's own mother! The mom has it so set in her mind that her daughter "NEEDS" to wear white, just because she wore white to her first communion? Let it go! This is her WEDDING! Cheers to the Mom in law for telling her straight, it's her wedding, so GET OVER IT!

@gloriamoody7433 Ай бұрын

The second bride: "I feel pretty!" Me: "because you are pretty!!"

@cellieauger7735 Ай бұрын

that second bride and her family were so wholesome omg

@atyaabjawadhameed5669 2 күн бұрын

That second dress was stunning 🤩 i love this mother in law ❤️

@merelhoekstra7330 Ай бұрын

The floral gown is beautiful on the bride! 🌺🌸🌼

@gardenplots283 Ай бұрын

Sometimes when I watch the old shows the dresses I thought were amazing then I think now are not so great but the pinkish dress with the embroidered flowers is still beautiful.

@haneeshakandala364 10 күн бұрын

The second dress was amazing

@user-gz5vo4ju5e Ай бұрын

Well the third dress did it ! with that beautiful bouquet and veil that Tiara Omg ! she looked very beautiful

@kathyjones3320 6 күн бұрын

Both of the pink dresses were beautiful.

@devirachman5442 28 күн бұрын

That pink floral is beautiful. I would wear it, for my wedding😀 it's her wedding, her happiness is most important...

@TheChristineLindsay 26 күн бұрын

the pink floral dress was truly gorgeous.

@mrc7530 10 күн бұрын

Randy did the right thing to put her in that pink embroidery dress. It is looking so beautiful on her! Beautifully unique dress! And it felt so good to see how supportive her mother-in-law was and that her husband didn’t interfere in her choice❤

@catezaida8081 Ай бұрын

Both brides were happy with their dresses, but that first one? WOW. You cannot beat Randy's style and choices for what the bride says she wants. He is spot on 99.9% of the time. If I was ever to get married, I am heading for Randy. Or Gok.

@mona9008 Ай бұрын

I love the dress she ended up with! Its just so pretty!

@angelasieg5099 11 күн бұрын

The pink flower dress was stunning on her

@debisybesma5855 Ай бұрын

being from "old school generation...." i know what wearing white used to mean, BUT.....with a lot of people living together these days, i'm not sure why sooooo many get zeroed in on the color anymore. it's not like everybody doesn't know that you've been living together for, 3/4/5 years so......what's the big whup please.

@user-em5cp5px9v Ай бұрын

White is for purity and virginity.

@jb6712 Ай бұрын

Precisely! And in the UK, they often live together so long, their kids are out of high school by the time the couple decides to get married...and the ridiculous brides still insist on wearing expensive white gowns. This was filmed 15 years ago, 2009.

@jordanrichmond6861 Ай бұрын

The second bride Holly is beautiful inside and out ❤

@mariesmith1616 Ай бұрын

I liked the first bride better in the first pink dress than the most expensive flowered dress.

@rosina1356 Ай бұрын

Sameeee it was so cute

@Latina-Sactown Ай бұрын

Kudos to her mom! 🙌🏼 🤩

@amarathibault3836 Ай бұрын

The floral gown is sooo beautiful ❤️ i wouldve never thought about something like that.

@pritik Ай бұрын

The floral dress is the perfect choice, suits the bride and looks beautiful. Something different from the regular gowns.

@user-gz5vo4ju5e Ай бұрын

Second bride with two children Looked pretty Congratulations

@zillafanz Ай бұрын

Good for her! Mom should be proud of her strong daughter.

@laland5752 23 күн бұрын

The pink flowered dress is gorgeous.

@francietunes Ай бұрын

Holly looks amazing in that beautiful dress!

@user-te1uv5qj6p Ай бұрын

3:48 es muy bonito 💕💕

@irnalonso Ай бұрын

At last one bride that really picks something different! I loved the color and the embroidery, it looked something custom-made. Most times they go for the traditional white puffy strapless and call it different or "never seen before". And I think "it's a white mermaid/ballgown/fit and flare dress"

@LaylaSmith-mi1do 22 күн бұрын

I absolutely love the second dress wow 😭😭

@cheyennepaulette8669 29 күн бұрын

Mom's like that annoy me like it's not your wedding!!!

@CarpeNutella Ай бұрын

I absolutely love the pink dress. I would love one slightly less pink with a feathered skirt

@qossl6727 Ай бұрын

A budget including alterations, finally someone with a grasp of reality

@revandenbroucke5198 Ай бұрын

I think the pink embroidery dress is gorgeous! Excellent choice❣️😍🩷

@mamavibetribe8878 Ай бұрын

I think the hot pink tulle with leopard sash and the last dress was better suited to her theme. Same with the first pink one. The second one is a different look. How does pale pink embroidery fit with hot pink and leopard?

@leen34568 27 күн бұрын

i love when moms who lost soo much get a body of confidence and life when they try on the perfect dress.

@pawprintz7166 Ай бұрын

I love that dress at 3:46 omg it's so beautiful.

@goethefaust3504 17 күн бұрын

As a south asian bride I always dreamt of a hot pink lehnga dress instead of classic red. Many tried to convince me to go with traditional red but I went with my choice and even had to let it customly made. It was awesome. To date the most beautiful wedding dress I personally have seen ❤

@wintersanctuary 19 күн бұрын

Coloured dresses are absolutely gorgeous. Totally on board with the brides vision. You go girl!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

@lanamack1558 11 күн бұрын

My daughter got married in a royal blue dress. She looked stunning.

@wintersanctuary 10 күн бұрын

@@lanamack1558 How lovely 🥰. I bet she looked incredible! I personally got married in lavender grey with rose gold sequins. Totally loved it ✨🩶💜🤍✨

@keithgiblin2636 Ай бұрын

The mother knew she was being too much because she giggled when she realised how she sounded.

@missinformed9550 25 күн бұрын

Randy is the freaking cutest. Thanks Randy. 😅

@gracegoodenough5895 Ай бұрын

The bride is 23 yrs old, in Pharmacy School and her mother is having problems letting go of her? Mama needs to grow up!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

My late mom never let me go until she passed away.

@gracegoodenough5895 Ай бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I am so very sorry that you had to wait so long ♥️

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

@@gracegoodenough5895Thanks but I miss my mom a lot and I was her only daughter of 7 boys and we were very close. But she was overbearing and over protective which hurt me a lot.

@Raindropsinvalencia Ай бұрын

I agree with Randy, hot pink tulle would have been hideous. If you're doing to do pink, that elevated style is the way to do it.

@jeniferclemente1252 Ай бұрын

“A sweet 16” theme on a wedding venue is contradictory in terms when it sounds like “immaturity at a mature statement in life” But the second pink did look great on her. With a veil, it does make her look more like a bride and not a guest in her own wedding.

@Rat-qj1te Ай бұрын

I feel like she’s just trying to put her vision into words that make it easier to picture. And I also think that everyone puts too much pressure on brides to do the conventional thing rather than what they want

@jeniferclemente1252 Ай бұрын

@@Rat-qj1te that’s true. Yeah

@SunBeeSmoked Ай бұрын

Weddings don't need to be mature at all.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ай бұрын

I actually like the first pink one the most.

@23angel26 Ай бұрын

nothing wrong about liking cheetah print and pink…

@sharonv4633 Ай бұрын

I had an off white satin dress with lace appliques with a red sash. Red was our wedding color.

@Methequeen Ай бұрын

That mom is having a hard time letting her daughter go. Sad seeing her cry when she said her daughter moved far away.

@aponinaapu2973 Ай бұрын

Aaaw that girl look amazing in that flower dress

@timeforchange6818 Ай бұрын

What a lovely moment for a mother to let go of what she wants and rejoice in what her daughter wants. I hope the mother can move to CO too, because she'll be a great grandmother.

@kamilkapea7390 26 күн бұрын

That pink dress is gorgeous

@ericabenham2496 Ай бұрын

I absolutely love the 2nd dress

@jukes243 Ай бұрын

Lovely brides. Pretty gowns.

@girlfriday1608 Ай бұрын

They must have erased my freedom of speech but I will say it again. Mother-in-law's have no business At bride picking out her wedding dress. This is special between mother and daughter.

@absatwell8163 Ай бұрын

MIL was invited. This is all scripted for the most part anyway. As for my kiddo, I don’t care what she wears if she gets married as I know she will look beautiful and I will cry.

@lauraw9657 Ай бұрын

I totally agree!

@shawroberts5149 Ай бұрын

That MIL is trouble. Tiffany... you've been warned.