Right she says “get a ‘difficult mother’ to sign a contract,” I think it’s the daughter who is difficult. The mother was so logical. But for some reason a short dress was the bride’s vision, so what can you do? Smh Waste of money to hack off a long expensive dress - I hope the designer can just make a custom short dress w/o wasting fabric.

@@keepyourheadup9183 Remember that's your opinion. Her day, her way.

Well, that's just your opinion.

She probably would have been better off then buying a dress from Macy’s that’s white if she is going to want something plain and short

KeepYourHeadUp 9 how was the mother logical? just because she wanted a the “standard dress” doesn’t equate to logical

She's getting married in a winery. That's pretty much a garden party.

It reminded me of a flower girl dress

Any dress can be a wedding dress as long as the bride wants it to be.

It honestly looked a bit cheep to me

She looked like a beautiful tulip... super cute but it didn't say "bride"

@Shar G. I was thinking the same thing... official part have the long dress and with the party zip the long skirt off and party along... win-win if you ask me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Exactly, one of my friends was all bussines for the church and pictures and then a miniskirt for the reception

Nothing happened to them, the bride just can’t afford one from a high end bridal shop. Her mom’s money could have stretched out a little more at a place like David’s bridal but bride probably just wanted to go on TV.

I’ve seen this boutique have brides who purchased the long dress with detachable skirt. With the alterations of this dress, it will be the same cost of buying that already made two piece dress. So I don’t buy the budget being as issue.

@@denM-ey3vb wedding dresses are rotated out of circulation every 6-8 months, they probably just don't sell that dress anymore

she will regret looking back at her choice after 10 years

Shella: I think shevwill regret it later on too. Her Mother said that the short dresses just "don't look like a mature bride." I immediately thought that its because she's NOT a mature bride IMO... I believe she's 22?

@@shellaphinisia9176 Remember, that's your opinion. It's not a fact. All that matters is that she stay true to herself regardless of what others want.

@@b.j.loveislove9090 So? Lol It's her day, her way.

if she likes short white dresses just go to a mall! She can buy something really decent for 1/8 of her budget

Also whatever the price wasn’t worth it. She could have put the money in other places if it was just gonna be a plain white dress. Especially with that budget.

For real !!! That’s what a friend of mine did and she saved so much and it was exactly what she wanted !

Exactly

That's a bit rude

Icy_Jay Gacha Lover I mean text doesn’t translate well in your head. How I am hearing it is advice. Which is she could have gotten some where else that’s true and mostly likely found something like that for cheaper.

I doubt she will like it once they cut it off

Exactly!

best comment analyzing the situation...

Her mother is living her dreams through her.

Ikr, with the whole contract thing and her saying she's a "difficult" mother

I totally agree.

Yup

Alterations are going to cost a fortune for that dress. They should have jacked her up in the short dress to show how it could look bridal.

Angrydonutface Have a look at “Say yes to the dress” Ireland or Leicester . Some absolutely stunning tea length dresses on both those. Also very flattering, but the people running those shows treat their brides with great respect and kindness. Personally, I think the dresses shown in this instance are all rather dreary.

I agree, she could have gone to retail stores to find a knee length dress and spent a lot less money.

Anything a bride wants/ makes her happy is flattering. Her day, her way.

@@ghostlyvel no 😂 but again, that's your opinion as well.

Gives me bridesmaids vibes

I'm glad it's not about you. She loved it and that's all that matters.

It made her look really short and young

@@ghostlyvel 😐

@@ghostlyvel she didn't love any of the short dresses, in the end, chose a long dress and thinks cutting it off will make her love it

I remember that dress. It was 🔥🔥

That would've made alot of sence. I also think that she didn't want a long dress because her wedding venue was a simple winery, and she may not think of herself as a 'girly girl'- why couldn't they just find a floor length dress that was simple and not too flowy and combersom?

She's not rich enough to buy it, She's just a pretentious brat, and she should wear a white prom dress that came from a cheap fabric than wearing dress from lori and monte's recommendation. She wasted an ink and a paper for a contract lol she's so stupid to think than short dress fits on her maybe she's forcing a short dress to get the most elegant 2 in 1 dress but she forgot she's not rich to buy it and her mom only gaves her 2,000 to buy a dress.

A dress with a tea length/mid-calf hemline or one of those hi-lo skirts (if done well) or would have been a good compromise, and I think it would have helped her get that extra oomph that was missing from the shorter dresses.

Yes yes yes!

Ikr!

Short wedding dresses make people's legs look 2 inches long!

Angrydonutface it depends on the person and their body type. For taller girls short dresses cause their legs to look longer however with shorter people short dresses may cause them to look more stout than elongated. Idk just depends

So? Is that a problem? It's her body. She can wear what she wants.

I personally think the shorter dress make her look taller and svelte. But the long dress made her look a bit dumpy! I can see a short dress for a winery wedding too!

agreed

😅😅😅😅😅for real I totally agree

I'm with you KC.It's a cute dress so to speak, but she will blend in with the guests.

Lol😄

A wedding in a winery is pretty much a garden party. Duh.

@@terrib627 except for she is the bride and others are the ones who are coming to her "garden party". If she is looking like everyone else, then ...well...offcourse its her choice.

So? She looks beautiful in whatever dress she put on. Her day, her way.

To be honest she can wear what she wishes. She should also be paying for it

the mother is a conservative church girl so I would take her fashion advice with a grain if salt

She probably has a job. Its traditional that the brides parents pay for the gown and should be her choice. But i agree she shouldn't of said that, but i don't believe she meant it in a super nasty way like your taking it. Ive seen a hell of a lot more brides on this show being completely spoilt brats, this girl isn't like that in my opinion.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@@shanniileah Yes, of course there have been worse but she took other shots at her mom besides the enemy comment. It's unnecessary. It's traditional that a bride's family pays, it's also traditional that a bride shows her family respect is gracious and thankful that mommy and daddy are here to support. It's a two way street, that part gets lost.🔃🔄

It’s just friendly banter, I doubt she meant in an offending manner, it honestly just shows how close they both are

It's also very likely this was a case of that very opportunistic editing that takes place. Very possible the daughter said this line about who-knows-what but it probably seemed convenient to frame it as if it's about the mother for the sake of drama.

I was just about to comment this exact thing!

Even prom is more formal than that dress. More like homecoming

That's more homecoming

Not even prom dress, more like a flower girl dress

I wouldn't even wear a short dress to homecoming or prom and I'm 11😂. The first three she tried on reminded me more of flower girl dresses.....

Exactly!

Agreed. I was wondering why they didn't look around for any of those.

My thoughts exactly

right, and it would be 10 times prettier than the short ones. but the bride said she wanted even shorter than the short dresses she tried on so i don’t think she would agree to compromise

@Kaitlyn Wright High-lows are for parties. I would never think of such a trendy hem for a wedding dress.

That's probably just disingenuous editing or the producers told her to say that. TLC is famous for doing both.

Exactly!!

It was a joke.

it was a joke theyre close and talk to each other a lot

Exactly, that would have been beautiful and probably would have made them both happy. It's just too short to be nice looking. I remember when Lori had dresses made for her daughter-in-law. One was a tea-length and so very pretty! I tried on a tea-length but I really wanted a ballgown so that's what I got! Soon to be married and so excited!

I think the dress she chose would be perfect as a hi-lo dress!!

Exactly. Less full, more A-line, Hi-lo, ruching at top.

Or even like a short dress with an over skirt on it??

Is the dress she picked at the end not a High-Lo dress?

Yeah, people are horrible. Hope she never reads the comments.

I was just thinking that! 🤣

I mean I think this specific dress isn’t perfect for her. There are way prettier short wedding dresses out there. I just think it’s sad that she had to chose from a very closed choice. But yes, in the end it’s her decision

I mean personally I hated all the short dresses to me she looked better in a longer dresss however it is her wedding so if she wants a short dress that’s what she wants

Agreed

That part made me sad... like yes her opinion matters because of that, but she’s also your mom! Your first friend, the person you love and respect!

Yes

@Kathleen Henson That's what I plan on doing when my turn comes. I'll be by myself so that way, I won't have to hear any drama from anyone! I like what I like and I'll also be paying for my dress. All the viewers have watched enough of SYTTD over the years to KNOW that 1/2 of the choices that people make are those who "cave in." And we've also seen enough of these episodes to know that when you have too many people's opinions, someone's feelings are bound to be hurt.

I'm guessing she doesn't have a very good relationship with her mother. If she felt the need to make her mom sign a contract saying that she would respect her choice, then there's probably a history of her mother being disrespectful and controlling towards her. Even at the end of the video, she mentioned that her mom is "difficult." I thought her mother seemed pleasant in the video, but if someone's own child has such a strong negative view of them then there's probably a reason and I'd have to give the bride the benefit of the doubt.

@@52hello25 don't forget that the Level of open disrespect of people towards their parents is on the rise in the western world, and it's disgusting

Yeah, it looks like a bridesmaid's dress

it’s her wedding though so it’s her choice not ours

I just think there are prettier short wedding dresses out there

Hoping she recovers soon! Lots of love

God bless her... Is she OK now ma?

Praying for your daughter and your family 🙏🏾♥️

Hi! I hope she's better. Sending lots of love and hugs to you and the fam ❤️ stay strong!

Sending love 💕

I think she still feels like a high school girl herself. That's the reason.

Yeah, the bride is just being stubborn. Yes, mothers can be a little hard to bear, but that mother really was just trying to help.

i think she looked fine. especially looking back at the finished look

oml it was a jokeeeeee they're still close

Honestly they are more like flower girls dresses not even prom

I think even short dresses for prom are tacky. Long dresses are for fancier events. It looks like she wants to go to a cocktail party and not a wedding

nope it's a difficult mother trust me I would know

@42 jade With ya all the way on that

42 jade um “doesn’t care about her daughter” yet she’s paying for it? You’re joking, right?

@@hannahschrock7125 even calls her mother 'the enemy", the mother is a nice person and shares the same opinion as all of the commenters in this video. I hope my daughter never turns out so pathetic.

Munia Ferdoushi so true.

I can tell you with 100% confidence that it's the mother who's difficult I'm saying this from experience

Fairy

The magic is also called a script. 🤨

@@Areyoukidding621 Just what I was thinking!

It was a ribbon around the head in this case. :0)

@@Areyoukidding621 you beat me to it!

I agree, especially when didn't like any of the short dresses she should have changed her mind. But she was too stubborn, the mother is pretty reasonable

I got married at 22 in a short wedding dress. I don’t regret it at all. I’ve never felt comfortable or confident in long dresses, so a short dress made sense for me. Also, a 22 year old is not a child.

Or maybe she should wear a rag that she turned into short dress since she's so eager to have a short dress.

I was married at 23 and I certainly wasn't a child. If she likes the short dress, so be it. If she really regrets it later, they could always reaffirm their vows and wear a long dress 😊

Lol. Not ur wedding.

Mermaid, tea length, 2 in 1, hi lo......they’re all there!!

@@bellerain381 so true:) if I had the body, I would love mermaid style dress

Because she refused to let her be happy in the short dress. Her mom was rude.

But the mom would have to pay for 2 dresses then

I don’t like short wedding dresses or bridesmaid dresses it’s awful

My thought exactly!

I agree! Except the bride wanted the short dress they put her in even shorter. 🤦🏼‍♀️

My mother bought two dresses for herself and there was no money left for nine, so she took me to a shop to pick out a hire dress. It's was almost identical to the one my sister-in-law wore, so I went back by myself to ask if I could change it, I could but I fell in love with a simple A line and detachable train and bow on the back, it was brand new for sale, she only just put it on the mannequin. In the end she had me try it on, she cried and told me I shouldn't wear any other dress, it was perfect, and it was, she let me have it as a rental. My Mum-in-law made my three tier cake with hand made icing roses and lacework, bought my shoes, headpiece and veil she was very special, we were very close, I was just 17 and blessed to call her Mum.

Remember, it's your opinion. Her day, her way.

I agree! If she wanted a short super simple dress, she could find it somewhere else for a quarter of the price. Feel for the mom!

she has a difficult mom that's my grandma and I see her multiple times a year so I can tell you for sure she's the difficult one

I love her though she's great

all the flower girls at the wedding were like 8 at the oldest lmao

@42 jade There have been way worse ones. I wish my mom was as gentle as she is.

Yessss

i didn't think she was rude at all. They were just being silly. No sense of humor huh?

@@lipsohlips97 I do have a sense of humor and that's what I hoped it was until I watched the rest of the show. The bride is a nasty selfish person.

@@uphillhomestead6188 you sound like the kind of person a daughter would need to get to sign a contract.

@@ThePimmy11 wow! I can tell I'm older than you. The fact that you agree with the bride and think her selfishness is ok shows your sense of entitlement. The fact that a mother is hurt and wants to attend her child's wedding is "mean" shows how little you think of others

My mom would have beaten me in front of everyone.....#asian moms

But tea length short dresses, not those😬

Ya i dont get why everyone is being so extra in the comments lol. I didn't realize everyone was so basic!

Beautifully said!

That's true. Personally I don't like the fact that she's having her mother pay for it.

@@incharak1927 If we’re going off tradition the brides family covers the dress cost just like the grooms family helps with his suit. However, with standards changing and budgets not so high for most families I’m shocked.

I think it suits her well and she was certainly enjoying herself and she looked amazing after it was tailored and everything

I was obsessed before rona lol

you should've seen the wedding photos she looked gorgggg

I find that true in ALOT of episodes

Yes! But i think that they may be no longer continued dresses

Lmfao nah the bride just looks so old

High lows are ugly as shit

But it does.. it all depends on the dress style and venue

@@raqui174 It does not it’s up to the bride at the end of the darn day. If she loves it let her love it in peace‼️

I can tell you the wedding wasn't simple but the short dress surely went well on her

she did wear the dress and it looked great and I'm nit giving you her Instagram

it was smart on her part. the mom is veeery stubborn but in the end she tends to give in anyways

And the whole contract thing and how it was worded was immature too 🙈🙈

I will admit on screen the dress looked weird but it actually looked great all finished