Ikr what is up with that?!

The mother in law should respect hers too!

Exactly and it’s not about anybody BUT the bride! Why do people forget this MOST important detail!!

When does she say this

Exactly!!!! It’s not the Mother in laws wedding! She needs to get over it!!!

Thank you!! I literally had to rewind like "You took out a WHAT???"

Me either. I completely saved up and paid for my dress. I don't have a high paying job either, but I shoveled what I could away. I got a beautiful dress for just over 1000 and still had money left over for alterations. I couldn't imagine taking out a loan for just a dress. Take out a loan for something worth while, like a car or a home.

Absolutely agree. I've seen brides take out huge loans to pay for a 'fairytale' wedding. If they only knew who much it's not worth it. It's a major mistake and having those repayments draining your new marriage, on top of every other new cost, will often taint the memory of the day. Be smart, save up or budget down.

I don't need to get married if I need to spend that much but here we can just register in registration office and it's done😂

Perhaps the groom considers his bride to be’s happiness an asset 😏

🤣🤣😂😂😂 I laughed along with her

That was a wonderful moment ❤

Flo is the best💀😂😂

Best part so far, I paused it to see if anyone else enjoyed it as much as I did 😂

I know I bust out laughing also!

Freedom of religion is also freedom from religion. Been saying that for years.

Best comment man

She didn't say that and if the show had anyone there to explain the issue, non-Jewish people would find out that the mother-in-law was actually trying to spare her daughter-in-law from criticism later.

@@juliem.679 The bride clearly just wants to do her thing and not obide to anyone's religious bullshit. Never take shit from people you would never ever ask for advice.

@@jaydawilson7030 look, I think it's weird that the future MIL is at the wedding dress store at all! So much of this story feels contrived.

I thought her mother came off as very mean-spirited. The bride to be understood and was willing to cover her tattoo for the wedding. No one asked her to get rid of her tattoo, just to cover it for the wedding. If she couldn't do that compromise, that marriage is going to be an unhappy one. This bride was smart. She received points from her new family. Regardless of what you think, it's both families, not just the bride's. Something as simple as temporarily covering a tattoo is not the end of the world.

Unfortunately I'm going to have to disagree. She is not a Jewish girl and should not be expected to be held up to that religion's standards and culture. You can respect religion and opinion without conforming to it. My fiancè's family is very active Mormon. I'm not wearing their modest dresses and standards of clothing when we get married despite the beliefs and feelings of the family. We are our own unit and we make decisions based on us. It doesn't sound like her fiancé asked her to cover. Laying down these boundaries with parents are essential, especially if they are preparing to raise children together with either family being involved in that process.

We see enough mothers on this show that impose their will on their daughters

*choice not chose

Mzzie Productions maybe she wanted to save them from making this mistake again ??

Kk dragon • “I love that the bride’s mother stuck up for her daughter and respected her choice(s).” I agree completely. The tattoo was not done well, but the point is, to the bride, it represents her family’s lineage & culture. It is just as important as the Jewish things that the groom’s family is trying to push on her!

@@starry_yoongs4999 You are way too stupid to be here. I wrote 3 words in my previous comment, I offered no criticism, yet you're telling me to give them a break. So I shouldn't correct them? I'm learning French and would be happy with someone correcting me the way I corrected OP. Stop being a stupid person and grow up. Learning from our mistake is progress, not a hindrance.

Corona might have that covered.

@Kiraleisha 167 "other mother-in-law." Please explain? How does that happen?

Fr... Usually what happens on the show is a not-your-wedding problem. But in this case it's a not-your-child problem as well. So what she's religious, the bride isn't and she shouldn't be told what to do as an adult. That tat is so small anyways.

It's not like she's showing she has thong underwear or none!!!! Be thankful she's only got one tattoo!!!

Kiraleisha 167 That is a great story & was very intelligent of you to express your values at the beginning. Had you put up with it for awhile & then opposed her, she might have caused a big disruption that could have divided family members! Parenting is similar - you have to start with manners, rules, morals, & values, as soon as it is possible for the child to understand. Parents that are lax for years until there is a major problem in high school, have already lost the battle. It sounds as if you are or are going to be a wonderful mother (if that is what you want).

Yea that literally crossed the line.

Irish heritage my arse! Those are four leaf clovers 🍀 not shamrock ☘️. There is nothing Irish about a four leaf clover! It’s as close to a pickle as a shamrock. If your going to get all indignant about “your” culture you’ve got to do your research.

She was very disrespectful, having been persecuted for hundreds of years you'd think Jewish woman would be more tolerant 😪🙁😥

@@neadmc29 I would probably put that down to the quality of the tattoo more than anything... It's not the best one I've seen

@@neadmc29 take a hike dude. lots of Americans feel disconnected from their ancestors’ cultures and simply want to find out more about where they come from, which is a source of pride for them. the girl can do what she wants 🤦🏼‍♀️

I think that’s what got them on the show when they applied, so she’s really playing it up.

The marrage will suffer from this mother in law🤮.So so what she has a tattoo,its her body Not yours crazy women.Your son knew ist and still wants her😡

Exactly. Her main focus during the entire appointment was that tattoo, and not at all about the bride or the dresses.

Mother in laws are STUBBORN to their daughter in laws. Always have that “no ones good enough for my baby boy” attitude

If the tattoo was that big of a deal theres makeup that will cover it up so she could wear whatever dress she wants.

Hilarious 😂 😂😂😂

@Andrea Puri her son needs to put his mother in her place and I'm shore the couple was getting it on and in the Jewish community do that happen

Let's not jinx them and hope that ma-in-law is more understanding n supportive of the new member of the family.

I felt that too, been there done that myself. It's tiresome

Yep. Boundaries needed to happen upfront. A marriage isn't about the middle ground with the in-laws.

I would really like to point out that Say Yes isn't always candid. They play up the drama for show.

I know it might be wrong but I'm in love with Stacey's mom🎶

Stacy can't you see, you're just not the girl for me...

@@jessicathompson4945 she came out with just a towel o o o o on

No, she’s just rude.

@@HeatherHotcakes it's a song....

how do u know

Aaaw

Did she get another Tat for the other shoulder?

Aw yay a happy ending!

Coco Love last name Messing She looks so happy and in love!!

@Smileyrie.yeppoon Someone as ill mannered and rude as future MIL doesn't deserve tact. You get what you give, and she is old enough to know that.

Some mommies don't think anyone is good enough for THEIR boy. It's creepy, and gross.

My ex MIL called the preacher and asked what she could provide in the way of food because she didn't think that my mother wouldn't provide enough! Smart preacher, he said to ask my mom. She was Italian and expected sit down meals at weddings. We didn't have that kind of money nor did I want that kind of reception. What she should have been more worried about is making sure her only boy was man enough to be married! He wasn't and 40+ years later still isn't. When it was time to cut the cake, he didn't want to because he 'didn't like cake'. His mom had to come convince him to get up and go do the cake cutting ceremony. It went downhill from there. I wish I knew what kind of MIL to be careful of at that time. I would have never married him.

@@rachelg9873 Her son looked super friendly judging by the photos and the fact the bride is enamoured by him I’m just wondering how he could be her son lmao

@@salem8228 We have to be kind when our parents are butts.

And if their bodies are so important then wouldn't obesity be a sin also?!

@@vashti2389 okay...you popped OFF😳🤣🤣

@@elly_aura LITERALLY LMFAOAOOA

@@elly_aura lol

@@vashti2389 💀💀💀

lol that's not a good example at all

KORNBUDDY NATION

I wasn't expecting a Try Guys reference in the comments of a SYTTD video, and I am delightfully surprised. :)

@@gracehowell. same :)

LMAO

in Christianity either. Stop trampling on the values of others.

@@reginakniprode246It's not trampling on others. If it's against your religion, don't do it. But that doesn't mean you can expect others to fit what you deem proper. Sorry, honey, but your opinion isn't as important as you think it is.

@@EclecticallyEccentric Are we at the Honey yet? That was fast. It doesn't look like you can stand the attitude of an old black woman in a wedding dress video. Which gives a pretty accurate picture of your values.

@@reginakniprode246 a black woman who doesn’t want a non Jewish woman marrying her son. This is the mother of her grandchildren

@@ReplyGuy22345 I don't understand what this has to do with Judaism? Do only Jews have values and customs? Would you please stop being so racist?

I have a baby boy and I hope one day that he will get married. I would never ask to attend my future daughter in laws fitting session. I would probably decline if asked. I definitely want to be there for my son’s tux fittings. It may not be as pretty, but it’s something that I can do with him. He can help me pick out my MOTG dress.

I want my mother in law there when I’m trying out :-) She only has boys and she’s the sweetest woman, so ofc I’ll invite her! I know she would just watch and enjoy the day

I just got two different perspectives from the replies on this comment. I guess in general, it all depends on the circumstances and God help those who have to deal with those crossing the line like this mother in law in the video.

Amen!

RexSixteen that’s so sweet. I’m lucky that I have a niece and I hope to be asked along to go shopping with her. Having said that, if you as my future daughter in law told me why you wanted me along, I would probably come with you. I would however have the good sense to keep my trap firmly shut!

Plus she’s obese. Obesity is much more of a desecration of the body than a tattoo. That MIL is going to be a problem.

@@NLR759 facts, though the earings are allowed obesity any addictions and linens arent allowed 😂

@@Ashford369 It is piercing the flesh with ensuing blood.

Right!!!

😅😅😅😅😅

Well, you probably DID look like a stuffed sausage in a casing. Do you want a MOTHER who loves you, and cares about how you look? Or polite "yes man" that will tell you what you want to hear.

But she was kinda mean and evilish

Nah, shes very rude and looks like she'll cause issues in their marriage because she doesn't like his mum, and probably isn't too fond of him either.

@@PringlesOriginal445 That might be true, but it also seems as if the groom's mother doesn't like the bride because of which she will try to create problems in their married life.

@@unicornglamour3582 I think the mother in law was just conservative. Doesn't mean she is a devil.

@@killphaser25 I never said that she is a devil, all I meant was that the mother in-law just didn't care about the bride's feelings but she cared about her "tattoo".

Exactly! Both religions are about being "equally yoked", right?

she will be...

Carolyn Franklin just because you marry someone of a certain religion does NOT means you need to convert to that religion

@@shannon4191 Have you been there?

@@carolynfranklin1447 Yes and that's not how it works, now you can CHOOSE whether to also be converted into the religion but if she doesnt then it doesnt mean the marriage is void. Shes a Christian.

Yes, but she won’t have a good day if all the bride hears is how bad the dress is, getting flack on her wedding dress all day. And whether it’s enjoyable or not, it’s a family dynamic she needs to manage and it’s the consultant’s jobs to make sure she’s happy by making sure they manage her family as well. They achieve letting the woman wear what she wants, and have a good day, by making sure they manage her family’s responses.

@@BarelyNoticeable Of course, which is why the family needs to learn that not everything is about them. If all they are talking about at the wedding is "how bad the dress is", they don't need to come. At the end of the day, loudly complaining about someone else's choices for an event that isn't about you is tacky and disrespectful.

I swear, on the bride day, no middle ground should be found. It’s what the bride wants, period.

seriously! gosh why do people get to dictate their religion to EVERYONE else! Not your wedding, not your day. Zip it.

"She" doesn't exist.

Don't tell me! My husband is MUSLIM and I have a tattoo!

In all fairness, in the First Covenant there is Leviticus 19:28 about the tatoos. Not sure how far that is up for interpretation, nor if there is something similar for Muslims. Nor what to do if you already got inked.

True

Technically it IS forbidden and so are many other things.. But the bride is not even Jewish so like what is she expecting?

@@yasmin4494 the bride not even being Jewish is the much bigger thing, actually...

I would tell him to handle it before I did

@@Wareaglegirl9960 her husband isnt white my love😂 in the black community u dont disrespect our mothers. They wont be allowed to show their faces at any family functions bc EVERYBODY will be talking abt how he allowed his wife to disrespect his mother

@@sparklebaby3607 what does being white have to do with that?

@@Wareaglegirl9960 the way yall raise ur kids is completely different. U dont have our culture our morals our struggles etc. A black man and a white man arent the same. U cant act the same way bc its not culturally acceptable.

@@sparklebaby3607just because we don’t have your struggles doesn’t mean we don’t have any and my parents taught us morals and definitely taught us not to be disrespectful to anyone, but if a mother n law is being hateful then the son or daughter needs to step up and talk to them and if they continue then you stand your ground and take up for yourself! That’s not a race thing that’s a human thing. No one should be allowed to disrespect your spouse or in law but no one should continue to take abuse either or let a mother or father n law dictate what you do with your children if they’re being taken care of.

The bride's mom was supportive, true, but in an obnoxious, in-your-face way.

Johnna Buzby I feel like she had to be over the top to counter act the MIL

@@brebitzer2066 true 👍

It's so rare

I’m thinking MIL just doesn’t like the bride, finding minor things to complain about so maybe she won’t marry her son

my boyfriend is jewish both ethically (he’s half Hebrew) and religious and he has 9 tattoos. this lady is crazy. he’s not like crazy crazy religious but he’s the basic jewish man

I agree. My friend has a lot of tattoos which has all to do with Jewish culture.

Yes but technically its not allowed to get a jewish funeral if you have tattoos. That's what I got told.

@@fan1985ful depends on the synagogue apparently 🤷🏻‍♀️

There’s no reason anyone should have a say in the dress. I mean it’s ridiculous how many mothers and sisters feel so entitled to “their vision” for someone else’s wedding. It just comes off as so narcissistic to think YOUR opinion matters more than what the bride and groom actually want.

My future DIL asked me to come with her when she goes to try on dresses, along with her mom, daughter and future step-daughter. So happy she thought to ask. I just want her to choose a dress that SHE loves and feels great in. She's a wonderful girl.

@@duckyluvsyou335 When I got married, I valued my family's opinion. They might see something I don't, or if I'm between two, knowing which one they think is nicer would help. Because even though the most important is to find a dress that you find beautiful, most brides also care that others find them beautiful as well. (Contrary to what this show portrays, I never had that "this is the one" moment, I made sure to try a ton of dresses and there were many contenders that I was completely in love with). I only brought my mom and my sister though. While I love my friends, their opinion on my wedding dress was not very important to me. I asked my MIL if she wanted to be at my dress appointments but she declined because she didn't want me to feel pressured which I thought was really thoughtful of her :)

@@diannelavoie5385 OMG you would be a great Mother in law. ☺️

@@monkiram If the bride wants her families opinions, that’s great and it’s fine when the family members are polite and respect when the bride loves a dress even if they don’t like it. My point was that families like the ones on this show just make brides feel self conscious, make brides choose dresses they don’t even really want, and so many are just flat out rude and hateful.

She said religion lol

I’m Jewish and I am going to get me a tattoo and there are 2 types conservative and non conservative

It kind of matters because it means she can't be buried next to her husband in an orthodox cemetery.

@@faitheverard8868 would she be able to get buried there anyway if she's not Jewish? Besides they're getting married in a secular building why would they automatically have to be buried in a Jewish cemetery?

This is NOT the culture clash I was expecting🤣

@PatronSaintOfTroll I really don't get your point. What does that have to do with anything?

Child, religious holidays are going to interesting in this family

I think your right it’s not really about the tattoo

PatronSaintOfTroll whats your point? black people cant be jewish? help me understand here

@PatronSaintOfTroll I'm Black and very much Jewish

Straight facts!!!!

even if she is paying for the dress. Using money to strong arm your daughter in-law into compliance is vile.

For real! If it’s not coming out of your bank account, suck it up, put a smile on your face, and tell your daughter in law she looks beautiful. Don’t ruin the whole experience for her with your nasty attitude and unnecessary comments.

My thoughts exactly

I was thinking the same thing!!! You can even get heavy duty camouflage makeup for burns, scars and tattoos.

yes, you are right

Right!!!!

True but she shouldn't be forced to do it

I was thinking this good to see someone else thought the same 🤦🏽‍♀️

So in that scene no one saw the confederate flag shorts …

@@bean5976 had nothing to do with the picture or the couple, so idk why you would 🤷‍♀️

NUARRRRR 😭😭

Looking for this comment before I made it myself. And she said it like it’s the most romantic thing ever 😂

exactly what I am thinking. She's everyone's worst nightmare for a MIL! Oh wait, I forgot, my MIL takes the cake!

Agree. The marriage looks doomed already 😔

Wedding preparations can be a difficult time since its the brining together of 2 families. In this case, religious rules and tradition, can determine what the future will be like. Especially when children come into play. Its true its the brides day, but it's their marriage. The middle ground is a good place to start.

Hopefully the mother in law does not get into their marriage too much or else there will be problems.

Nope, put the Witchypoo MIL up against yours! When she died there was rejoicing far and wide.

AND PLEASE TELL ME WHICH RELIGION they are raising the children in? The BRIDE also KNEW he and his family were JEWISH and SHE SHOULD HAVE found out about that religion, even attended services with him. I think she knew---WHEN you are getting married there are TWO people, A BRIDE AND A GROOM they both have families. BOTH families should be respected if they want it to work. She found the perfect dress, it respects her Groom's family and THE GROOM and started the marriage out on good terms. MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT COMPROMISE and if you don't know that then you ae looking at a high chance of divorce. SHE LOOKED GREAT IN THE DRESS AND TWICE AS GOOD TO THE GROOM BECAUSE SHE RESPECTED HIS MOM.

@@bethdavis7812 please finally someone who gets it, they showed the mother too extreme but i get why she did that cause my family has done stuff like that too

@@bethdavis7812 You have no idea what the groom thinks. For all we know, he doesn't a give a fuck and it's only his mum who's so obsessed with what other people do with their own bodies. (There's also no need to abuse all-caps like that.)

@@Ahshshhaha yes it was too done up for television to make the groom's mom look bad when the bride's mom was horrible for not respecting the groom's family. This bride was great at wanting to respect for his jewish side. (and I know I have seen a lower cut dress with straps...that is what I was expecting...and the make-up idea has been good too.)

Where is the mother-in-law's respect for a tattoo that represents the bride's heritage?

Did the MIL SAY halachah applied to her? No, but the implication is that Jewish guests at the wedding will see the tattoo if the bride chooses a revealing dress and that MIL doesn't want any remarks or controversy at the wedding over it because (this is my inference because nothing actually got spelled out past this remark of hers once they edited the show) it could reflect badly on her son and her family, in general.

I'm getting big Messianic vibes from her.

not true in centuries

so your a hair stylist... how you know her hair is chemically treated?

@@jhoust9675 it straight.so either way it's been altered. Most likely it's permed,also she doesn't naturally have streaks in her hair I'm pretty sure.

@@leannegibbs1064 it's possible that her hair could be straight due to a hot comb that's not chemically altered and chemically altered is not the same as desecrating when talking about hair

@@jhoust9675 well still,straightening it is changing it from its natural state. And we don't know for sure if it's perm or not

Honey, the Mother in Law is twice her size, she could turn her into a grease spot on the floor.

Those are edits. The camera team films them and the editing team outs clips together that make for drama. I thought you would know this in 2023.

I don't like the why they lie and say that they where christian. He shouldn't marry her because he has christian values and she's a sinner

Why are the replies on this so bitchy lmao, you didn't even say anything bad

In certain religions, a marriage is a religious ceremony. Sometimes, there are certain dress code requirements that one must meet. If a person can't do that, then that person should not marry someone of that religion.

@@KatieBellino Or just accept that the partner is not the same religion why would you let a religion get in the way of who you love, you love them, have so much in common, are loyal to each other, but no you don't follow my religion so we can't marry

@@luiboots8243 Probably because religion is a huge part of someone's life.

@@amihayashi8651 That's tough

@@luiboots8243 If you are devout in a religion, your statement doesn't work. It just doesn't. "Have so much in common"? No, a religious difference is one of the big deal breakers depending on how different your religions are. Religion, politics, and finances are some of the biggest causes of divorce.

I agree... what in the heck? You’re going to go in debt for your wedding? It’s not worth it.

Hence why BF and I don't plan to get married . If we do it will be a simple courthouse thing .. seen enough drama with weddings

tabs157 you could also consider eloping! I was going to go the courthouse route until I decided I wanted gorgeous pictures. The dress, “venue” (Joshua Tree National Park), officiant, HMUA, and photographer was all less than $4k. Just make sure to do it how you want it with no added stress from other people or finances 😊

BANGBUTTON that money could go towards a house!

tabs157 yes! Like what happened to simplicity?!

i guess you could say stacy’s mom has got it going on

@@candyzombiee lmaoo

Common enemy syndrome

I honestly didn’t know that my (half)sister is Jewish and has been her whole life and she has tattoos all over her body and has multiple piercings

Some of my coworkers are Jewish and they have tattoos and piercings, so this personally confuses me.

@@gabis314 more modernized Jewish religion I’ve been told is more allowing

she does not like her. how may times did she complement the dress choice or how the bride looked? right .........

THANK YOU! I’m Jewish too and seeing so many people knocking the Jewish religion and culture who don’t know anything about this issue is so frustrating. Especially because there’s a lack of understanding about how Judaism is not equivalent to Christianity (whichever version).

Beautiful comment 💛

Jhalak Shishodia Agreed. She has the sweetest soul. I’m glad it all worked out for everyone. Very rare to actually see a kind, warm, beautiful person these days.

It honestly strikes me that MIL's issue isn't bride having a tattoo but bride herself....

i know i keep thinking about how she's going to treat her grandkids if they don't follow the Jewish faith to the letter and how many time those kids are probably going to end up being put down by her their whole lives and God if they ever get tattoos it's going to being raining h*llfire

I agree. The mil has trouble with the bride

@mary truhan I think people need to stfu regarding pushing their views/ values on others. Regarding your comment though, piercings do leave scars even when closed up, so I don't see your point in trying to differentiate them from tattoos.

@Mary Truhan idk, my parents pierced my ears when I was like 3 months old and that piercing has never closed. Pretty sure that's part of why they do it so young too

@Mary Truhan piercings absolutely do leave scars

@@pearlobrien5712 jewish people live by the old testament in Leviticus it says that you are not to mark your body. As a Christian I also believe in following this scripture

@alizaize havent worn eqring in uewrs holes still there earrings still fit

exactly! No way am I taking a loan out for any aspect of the wedding if I ever get married. I will save and spend the money that I have! I had a cousin who basically had a $15,000 budget... until the credit card got involved and it was over $30,000 by the end. That didn't include the private island for a week in Fiji for the honeymoon or the week after for staying in New Zealand (we're Australian). It took them years to pay it off and now they are separated. No way no how should anyone go down that round!

THANK YOU!!! I thought I was the only one who thought this was ridiculous

I came searching for this comment! I couldn’t imagine getting a loan for a dress 🤯 I also can’t imagine spending thousands on a dress or wedding either which is why I eloped. I had a gorgeous dress, “venue” (Joshua Tree National Park), and a photographer all less than $4k

I knowwww. That is just crazy to me. How much did it cost, that she needed to take a loan out?

If you are gonna take a loan at least make it an investment! University, a car, a house, or something. But not a dress.

But why should she? Her tat, her body, her wedding.

They could end up getting it on the dress

@@k.h.production22669 seems physically impossible to transfer makeup from your shoulder onto a strapless dress

The point is she shouldn’t have too ... and shouldn’t be made to feel she has too

Yeah really. You can cover up tattoos, if you want, but you can't cover up obnoxious.

She just needs to learn how to find her voice

@@laney8599 that mother in law can easily kill your love, that happened to me. I was told in the end son can find another wife but never another Mother. Good luck to all of them. He has same genes as his dear mama

@@luizas2345 I've never had an experience like this, so thank you for acknowledging me. Thank you.

The important thing is for him to respect his wife. If he does, she won't mind about his mother. But if he takes his mother's side against his wife, that'll be the end.

Brooke Berghuis Agreed!

I am also Jewish but I really want a tattoo!

I’m not Jewish but I agree. The mother in law was being obnoxious! The bride isn’t Jewish so why does she want the tattoo covered??!

@@jayapradamaddela8489 same

I’m catholic and I don’t ever want a tattoo but if others want them great, it makes them happy and I will say they do look really cool and it’s even cooler that a lot of them have special meanings.

@@axanthiccrestie2460 same tattoos are cool

i mean, as someone raised jewish, i do get it from MIL perspective, but uhhhh, yea, MIL is being a tad overbearing, its not like shes converted or its in a temple anyways >.> plus piercings arent allowed either soooo

I know!! I was like "has no one ever heard of makeup?"

I know! I was about to say

TBH, I would have gone for the beautiful strapless. Daughter in law is an adult and the fact she has a tat is actually none of MIL's business. Besides, MIL is sitting there with big ole dangly earrings in her *pierced ears!!!* so she has no business trying to force Leviticus onto her DIL when she, herself, is in violation of her supposed religious rules! Hypocrite!

@@danizucker2350 And MIL is sitting there showing earrings in her *pierced* ears, so she has no room to talk about "following the rules." She just doesn't like tats and probably that's because she really doesn't want her son to marry an Irish not Jewish girl.

I imagine if she was this controlling over covering a tattoo it will only get worse when they get married. If the bride doesn't put her foot down and have a husband who supports her its going to get ugly :(

Mj Machie....fully agree with you, the couple will have to set up very firm rules and establish from the start what values are important for their new family and both need to stand up for them....but I fear potential disagreement ahead of them especially when it is about the children/holidays etc. What I really do not understand is that the mother in law argues that her rejection of a tattoo said is based on her religion. She said (as far as I understood) that a tattoo is not allowed in the jewish religion as it “disintegrates” the body. Yet the same religion promotes or even requires male circumcision at a young age in order to enter a religious life. Circumcision is a non-revocable, life-long change to a human body and usually carried out well below the legal age of consent. A tattoo is revocable and only skin-deep thus superficial design and legally only allowed as off age of consent which the bride respected as she was 18 yrs old when she got hers. Ambiguity in standards ? I wish the couple all the best and that they enjoy their Hollywood themed wedding.

@@charlie1567 not that I pretend to fully understand this, but the circumcision is meant as a sign/part of the covenant with God. A sign that this "God thing" goes deep and affects every aspect of your life, even the children you will have. The tatoos however are a heathen practice, the very opposite you might say, and one of the things commanded not to do because those outside the covenant practice it as part of their religion. To my best knowledge, that is. Haven't read/thought about this in ages...

@@thekingsdaughter4233 The Bible did discourage tattoos and other markings, including piercings, because of the often pagan reasons and symbols associated with the practices. If we're not doing it for idol worship, we should be good. Also, I hope the groom's mother takes heed of Genesis, where the couple is no longer bound by parental authority, putting the marriage as top priority.

@@charlie1567 I believe the word you were searching for is "desecrates", not "disintegrates". No shade intended. 😊🙂

Agree with both of you, looks like the second strap broke of or something like that😂

Maybe it will look better when it's fitted to her; the strap was big on her.

@@motherofthreeb6337 I hope with the properly sized strap, the tattoo peaks out a little 😉😂

@@No-ue5pi That's what I kept thinking, just cover it up with makeup.

They tucked the corner of the other side in so it looks more finished