Love you Charlotte ❤❤ See you next year 🎉

Enjoy your break Charlotte! You deserve it after serving us petty realness on the daily. Happy New Year!

Thank you for all you do for us! Rest rest rest Queen! You've more than earned it!!!!

Happy New Year Charlotte 👑 I will be ever grateful to have stumbled upon your videos on FB and hunted you down on KZfaq lol. You are a vibe and I look forward to more videos however few they are because you make my day. So Thank You❤❤❤ Stay safe Petty one. Cheers🥂

Take time for yourself Charlotte. Each upload will be all the more special. ❤️ Happy New Year to you and Mike and all my fellow potatoes.

This is actually really sweet, and it kind of made me tear up.❤

Love love love this!!! ❤❤❤

That's amazing. What an incredible couple! Aww I love that friendship for you!

These are the friends all decent, kind, humble ppl deserve. I'm sure you earned them. ❤

that there are some great friends! I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant and now crying over how sweet and caring your friends are 😭🥹

True, but things worked out for him too! 😊

Me too. But hey, better 5 years wasted than 50 years wasted and besides, he got a beautiful family with a new loving wife and 4 adorable children in exchange. 😊 So things worked out well for him in the end. ❤

​@@PrincessQ-fj9ly ta photo de profil est trop mignonne toi aussi tu es une enfant 😊

Period

Interesting you say it like that. Maybe the bride had some kind of personal vendetta against babies because she “blames” a baby for injuring her husband, him having to go through PT, and having to postpone the wedding. I didn’t think about that possibility until you put it that way. No way someone describes a new born as baggage to their friend without having a personal issue. I really dislike kids and even I would never say something that grotesque. It’s a crazy theory, but she sounds crazy enough for it to be possible.

That’s funny 😂

👏👏👏👏

I want to be this level of extra

That was freaking epic!

Where did you find...200 feet of paper for a scroll

Oh that’s so wholesome and cute 🥹

Your very lucky, please treasure that friendship always. I would love to have a friend in life like that. 😊

Have they never heard of photo shop? 😂

I really hope Charlotte does that again in the future. It was so much fun.

Absolute ZERO chance that mole story is real. I’ve had moles removed several times purely for vanity reasons so 100% out of pocket costs, not covered by insurance. The most expensive one was $250. I don’t care if you go to top flight A1 cosmetic surgeon of the world, nobody is charging $10k. And more obviously, nobody is paying that randomly to their wife’s friend because, duh, photoshop. That girl made a TikTok video so she could point out her mole to let everyone know how much she “LiKeS HeR apPeRanCe dESpiTe hEr FLaWs 🤪”

@@kevinkent6351what a hideous comment! Sometimes you can’t remove them for safety reasons and some people aren’t so fxcking vain!! It would fully be covered up by makeup also. You sound vile. Makes sense your names Kevin 😂

@@kevinkent6351 What a gross comment. 🤢 You should remove your comment.

Me too

He dodged a bullet

Talk about opposites. He was willing to die for a baby he didn't know, she couldn't even sacrifice having one friend at her bachelorette for the wellbeing of a baby who should have been her honorary niece/nephew. I'm sorry that poor guy had to spend 5 years with a self-obsessed jerk, and I hope his new wife is as good a person as he is.

Aside from just being a massive hero, I bet he's also FIIIINE. Bride is dumb af.

Im just hoping she didn’t benefit from divorcing him. What a horrible woman!

I was still in the hospital five days after my first... Lol

Shes also the kind of person that if she ever has a child will be mad that the baby shower gifts are for the baby and not for her

It's been decades since my last baby and yes. No-one is partying after giving birth.

Partying when you have trouble walking, a baby wanting to nurse every 45min, and are bleeding like a super heavy mega period... so much fun...

she can be traumatized but what she said... its a nogo who said this about a baby ?

I know right! It's simple things in life and the people who make best memories!

You had me at pizza

I think I would have just left the wedding... I mean who on earth wants to sit and do nothing for 4 hours?

That’s crazy! In my country, the ceremony is in the morning, then pictures, then reception with lots and lots of appetizers, great quality and hot if they have to be (we’re European after all). They may have a couple speeches at the wedding, but not necessarily. Dinner is ALWAYS served at a reasonable hour, and the food is usually great. Usually speeches and sketches are after dinner. Again, we’re European, food is important. 😂 The dessert may be after the dinner and funny skits, and after the dessert, the party starts. I don’t like weddings, but at least ours have great food and we don’t have to wait for it. 😂

I was just about to post! Pigs in a blanket and "little biscuits" is not enough to sustain adults (who are likely drinking) all day until dinner

What time did the reception friggin start like 10 pm 😂 got DAMN

​@naylas3908 my bestie (hired photographer the whole day) did pics FIRST, which is HELLA smart. 1. First look that's perfect for you and spouse with minimal crying because they can get the bride before the mascara turns into the black Nile all down your face lol 2. Not a ceremonies worth of crying, as some ceremonies can be long and with no one to hover and fix makeup, it's gunna be all cakey and weird and smeary, then yall can literally hug every guest as they make their way to the venue, maybe take a couple silly pics or something fun, or fuck it, skip aby extra all together! 3. Guests don't have to wait hours and YOU'LL be able to...guess what....ENJOY COCKTAIL HOUR! ❤ which imo ends up being th3 best part and sadly for my step sister they wrapped up as she got to the venue :c

You didn't do it on purpose, but thank you for the laugh. Ingest means take something by mouth, in jest means in a joking matter. Still, accidental hilarity 😂

Heck, on a normal day breakfast and lunch is like 5 hours apart if you have breakfast from 6 to 7 and lunch is usually between 11 and 1...lol

@@jewels2799Topical pun. But yeah, it was a nice lil satire.

@@eduardocruz4341yeah but they were saying the cocktail hour food was minimal. So think of maybe a bit of bread, possibly with meat inside, as what you get a couple of for breakfast along with a bunch of booze. You are going to be hungry sooner than five hours. And if it was like a two o’clock wedding, people may not have had a full meal since noon and if cocktails are 4 to 5 then dinner is after nine or even 10, that’s a long time without a full meal.

Right? I was about to lose my mind.

Yeah, no way that's real.

The part that makes me sure is that ANYONE criticized the guest at all. Not to mention her “it was just a blanket” admission, too hilarious to be real.

Some people are shameless tho I know a ex couple who had booked a holiday the guy (who paid) was hospitalised due to illness and the woman decided to go on holiday anyway. Still worked out in the end he left her for his nurse lol

I think so too.

Pretty sure it's not real because it sounds like a story I'd make up. I like making up really goofy stories when I'm with my friends and that wedding story is genuinely something I would make up at tell them about lmao

In France, it's not legal if it isn't a city hall wedding with the mayor as your officiant, so yep !

Ah, fellow Europeans know how to handle a wedding and host an amazing party for family and friends ;) I think that is a huge mental shift from North American ppl - they believe a wedding is for them and they're center of the universe at the expense of own guests, while Europeans, we tend to treat wedding as social gathering where our guests are equally important (if not more important) as bride and groom, hence the delicious and plentiful hosting plus superb entertaining. As it should be ;)

@@roksanamakowska-michalak369Mexico is part of North America so it’s not in North America only in the USA n Canada they are boring AF! We have 3 days weddings

Wowww.... That's so selfish! They better have paid for it!

@@schrdngrskat3847 they didn't

@@KaytieHltz18ugh that’s shitty

I think that specific one was satire

What r pigs in a blanket

The girl did a great job portraying a bridezilla lol

I know they were so sweet!!

I cried

Well said I agree with you 💯

You have to wonder how all these great women could be first with the bride in the first place! Bride was the black sheep of the group i guess...

Same here. Don't you just love it when Karma does its work? 😊 I certainly do. 😊

@@BrianAndresScott Thank you, and Happy New Year! ♥️

@@Meanne77 I was thinking the same thing. Happy New Year! ♥️

We live about 2 hours from St. George Island in Fl. My cousin got married at a lighthouse privately then just had a reception on the island. It was awesome.

Same here, 20 guests $100 dress and local deli buffet and small cake!

No you did it right

Simple mariage are actually the best. No pressure. Precious moment with loved ones. You did a right and good mariage 😊

DID NOT DO IT WRONG.. I WANT THE SAME THING.. my wedding ** reception ** afterwords. I want like a 4 day destination wedding .. who w.e comes 👏👏 if u dnt wanna stay all 4 dayz leave early . I ant *!!! And everyone still gets a vacation Edit. [[ p.s it would be destination wedding cuz I live in Chicago.. so Florida Beach is glamorous 😊 ]]

This is why we kept our speeches to my Dad, husband, my bestie & my husband's Mum, & gave them a 5 minute limit. You never want your wedding to feel like your annual corporate meeting.

This is hilarious, your dad sounds like a hero.

*was sitting

😂😂 you're really here correcting people's grammar?

I understand your dad. He’s a real one 😂

I had a small carcinoma removed from my neck and I reacted to the suture material. I have what looks like a small bite for a scar. If anyone asks I say it's a eel bite.

Yes, it does leave a pretty good scar. It makes no sense to force someone to go through any kind of body modification just to attend or participate in the wedding. Stupid dumb, people need to do better.

I have also had 2 moles removed. 1 looked like I got shot, the scar was so big, and the other looks like I got stabbed. The moles were smaller than the scars but given a family history of skin cancer, I don’t take risks. That bride was just being ugly and I hope the lady kept the money.

Yeah, mole removal is not a thing to treat lightly. I've got a gnarly-looking scar on my upper chest from a childhood mole removal, and every now and then someone will notice it and assume I'm a melanoma survivor. No, that's just what happens when you cut a big mole off a young child- the scar stretches as you grow up, with the added bonus in my case of crappy suture marks because decades ago no-one cared about minimising the scar. 😅

I 85% think the story was bs. I too have had two removed. I love the internet bc ya all don’t know me. I was born with a raised mole on the lip of my who-ha. When I was five my mom had it removed. I remember it clearly, how scared and traumatizing it was to take off my tights and lay down with all those strangers 😢 I’m going to be 51 years old in a couple of weeks and I can feel how scared I was. And, it did scar! I have a scar on my who-ha! I’m definitely glad I don’t have that mole. Mom knew. The second does look like a bullet wound scar on my shoulder. So, yeah if it is true, she’d have a scar and they are freaks for asking.

I've never in my life spent 5 hours at a wedding. Not even my own, lol.

Many years ago, we attended a family wedding out of state. At the time, our children were 6 and 4. The rehearsal dinner the night before started with cocktails (no food) at 6 pm. When there was no sign of dinner starting by 7:30, I ordered food for my hungry and tired children. After they ate, I took them back to the hotel so they could go to sleep. Never got any food myself. The early afternoon wedding was lovely, but again there were cocktails, no food, for several hours before dinner. This time, we picked up some sandwiches after the wedding and went back to the hotel for naps. I didn't make it to the reception (kids slept for hours), but my husband did. The kids and I watched "Shrek" on the TV and ordered a pizza.

@@Traci2000 I have - we drove 6 hours to get there, the ceremony was nearly 2 hours, another 2 hours just waiting for the couple to show up to the reception, nearly 2 more before there was any food. Afterwards, because we were the furthest travelled, the couple invited us back to their home, where they decided it would be great to sit down and watch the video of the 2 hour-long ceremony!!🤪

Check the bushes. Lol

Or Door dash!

That's so sweet of her so you felt comfortable just being in the pictures just as you were a part of it?

@@happylittlevibe honestly walking down the aisle, it was two looks.. traditional African and traditional American dresses, a dance with bridesmaids and groomsmen...she knew I have fun but being in the aisle with all eyes looking...I can't do it. She sent me the website I could use to pick a dress and I'm still in the bridesmaid and bridal party photos...I just wasn't forced or guilted about not wanting to be in the actual ceremony. My older sister is about the only one that gets I have anxiety and I'm AuAdhd. Growing up in a black family my dad never believed in any type of mental health stuff and forced me to participate in all events. Used to call me antisocial.

@@DariasDealer Your sister really is awesome, looking out for you like that. I hope you can find a way to manage your anxiety better. Some people learn to, or so I have heard. I have not managed to make my own any less bothersome. But I hope you can find a way for yourself. :)

@@jamescurfman3284 I'm 37 so I'm finally at the point where I just don't do anything I don't want to.

@@DariasDealer That would help. I actually meant about putting yourself out there. What about the things I actually want to do, but I already know would make me anxious? How do I push through that? If you ever manage to get over that particular hump for anything, please share with the rest of us. Hope can be a motivator. :)

Yes, no one told me about the bleeding afterwards! I didn’t expect it, especially after a cesarean but it was awful and compounded by the fact that I have a bleeding disorder. New moms take 4-6 weeks recovery for a reason.

@@krystal6137 I remember it well. it was the "present" that kept on giving.

@@krystal6137Nobody told me either!!! Boy was I in for a surprise! I feel like the reality of postpartum should be talked about way more

sil just had a baby Dec 6th. they did not travel this Christmas. we saw them on zoom (they are in Indiana, the rest of our fam is in Utah and her fam is in Colorado)

I've read that the open wound left from childbirth is about the size if a dinner plate. If it was visible and on the outside of your body no one would be expecting you to go and party with friends.@@ndawn90

Congratulations on your retirement! 🎉

Thank you so much for saying this and happy retirement!!!

Ironically, this sounds like the sort of lovely event that should have been longer. X

I love the song request idea!

​@@lauraf4202I was thinking the same!

How lovely and thoughtful of you ❤

Omg as a Cubana I love that you had Cuban food. If I'm ever blessed with a wonderful person I would def serve Cuban food at our wedding.

I kinda wish I was there just to have a video to show the craziness. I bet someone would offer a large amount of money to get that video, especially since it was a 20k wedding. They wouldn't want embarrassing footage out there😂 Edit: had to change the amount I had written 40K rather than 20K. Reason is still funny

lol I’ll take that over some other weddings I went to

A $20,000 wedding should have wristbands for the drinkers with their name printed on it & a dedicated person to check ids and actually put the wristband on the guest😱. I can’t imagine that won’t catch up with that facility eventually.

That's why people don't want kids at a wedding. Parents don't watch them.

That's less than the average cost of a wedding in the UK. Were you saying it was a trashy cheap wedding, or an expensive one?

Love the rogue bridesmaids

Oh I love this 😂❤

J'ai hâte de te revoir au moins de janvier Tatie Charlotte 😊

RAWRRRR👹

ROAR!

This is the best I love this… roar 🎊😃

Same here! Jersey girl born and raised, that had me HOWLING

@@janedb85 me too. Proud jersey girl. I'm wheezing 🤣

Our wedding was a destination wedding in that the groom and I lived out of the contiguous 48 on two separate continents. If my inlaws hadn’t moved we would have flown my family to their location; we ended up having it in my home town because in involved flying the fewest amount of people and my family could do all the legwork.

It looks heavily industrial.

@@ndawn90 that wedding might as well have been held in a parking lot in Newark. at least they wouldn't have to wait 3 hours for the boat cause they could just take the path train out of there and grab a slice of pizza in the city

True dat but to be brutally honest here this is not Disney world where everything and everyone goes smoothly. Life can and will sometimes throw a wrench 🔧🛠️ in the works so don't assume said Bride and/or groom will be all sunshine and unicorn 🦄 cause in reality things happen so deal with it or go home 🏠🏡 6:26

I checked on my venue so many times before my wedding.

Some people are addicted to stress and chaos.

It can get pretty stressful planning a wedding. It seems like everyone has a strong opinion about what should happen. All I cared about was tying my life to my husband’s. I wound up outsourcing. 🤣 You have opinions about the food (my mom)? Here’s the caterer’s number. They have the budget. You care about what we use to serve the cake (my husband)? Here’s the place where you can buy an engraved cake server. You care about the flowers (my mom)? Here’s the florist, budget and what I’m allergic to. Rehearsal dinner? Have fun, in-laws. Tell me when/where to be and who I’m inviting, and I will be there thankful and with a huge smile on my face. We’ve been married 24 years, and I still go with a ‘if you care so much, have at it’ philosophy. 🤣

@MrsWheezer I love this!! Absolutely perfect!!! 💯☺️

Also we had no catering. Everything was made by my mom and family. It was kind of like a pot- luck. The place we were at had a no alcohol rule because it is a camp ground for children's bible school but I still get compliments 2 years later about how much people enjoyed it.

We ate first then drank and danced and had speeches. It was great!

@@TsundeRea that sounds lovely

That's perfectly valid. If I ever get married, my ideal wedding is at the courthouse. I don't like ceremonies and being in front of people like that. Just a nice courthouse wedding, a small party (maybe) with family and some friends at the house. That's it. I don't even want gifts or cash.

The folks that could afford to come came to Jamaica with us for ours, and we had both a Zoom Meeting and I also did a TikTok live for the folks who couldn't come.

Isn't that eloping

@@anabltc Kinda, except it wasn’t a secret like eloping traditionally is.

@@NativeNYerChicHK eloping with love, I like it 😀

Aw Bessie, the people I've seen do the "ugly but happy" cry at weddings are my favorite people! I _know_ they are genuinely happy for the couple, and a sweet heartfelt, blubbering speech replete with mascara running and snot bubbles will always get me crying too! Never hold back when expressing joy, because it doesn't happen often enough. 🥲

Happy New Year!!!!

@@Sbarali7777 🙂

THAT'S how it's done!

I was thinking the same thing about the food, but maybe we worked for good catering companies and they hired subpar catering??

I can't do it anymore but I did that for years and yes, the food was the best perk of the job! And always the endless circling with trays of food, keep moving, keep moving! lol...ah memories.

Did almost exactly the same for my wedding!

My wedding was immediate family (and partners) only. We had the ceremony and then walked down to a pancake place for lunch. Our parents both offered to cover the meal. No speeches, no weird wedding food, just pancakes...

Sounds like a lotta fun. One a lot of people are I’ll always remember

Brilliant idea. For the 10k she pays maybe 600 to 1500 to a special fx cosutmer who makes a sillicone face prosthetic to cover it, glues it down and paints it by hand so it is perfect. Then keeps the rest.

Yes! This is exactly what I was thinking. Just cover it professionally for the event.

Yes especially because if she's american she'll get taxed on that money

@@justalittlealien No, she won't....receiving money to have a requested medical procedure done would not be considered "taxable income"....without checking with a tax accountant, I think it could even be reported as a gift, IMHO

Brilliant!

So glad this Administration "fixed" the gig economy! Pay your fair share! Said no one ever...well maybe not no one, politicians maybe. There are going to be some very surprised people this April when they get a 1099 in the mail this year...

@@gaminglowlights1941 I believe they have postponed it again. The IRS doesn't have the manpower to deal with it.

​@@gaminglowlights1941 the 1% are so determined to dodge paying appropriately that they get their lobbyists to convince the politicians that it's the little guys rather than them holding everything back with their greed

I don't think she "owes" the IRS anything. If it's mis-reported then she may have to get it corrected but for an amount that large it's worth the hassle. IANAL but it looks like a gift to me which is not taxable to the recipient.

I would've still taken it

Happy New Year!

Right back atcha!

I always keep some fruit bars in my car. Mostly for not being forced to drive while being really badly hungry, as that can be downright dangerous. 🙈

I think you might be a genius.

I’m sure they check for their own benefit but is really helpful for you as well🙂

Good for you. I am a professional pianist /organist and have played dozens of weddings. One young girl called me to play for her wedding, and I showed up at the church for the rehearsal. The minister at the church didn't even KNOW there was a wedding booked for that weekend. He said no one had contacted him about it, and they are usually booked months in advance. Which meant the bride never made arrangements with the church. The pastor was shocked, but he would do it, because surprisingly THAT was the ONLY weekend that year that just happened to be open. But, he wasn't pleased at all, neither was I. Then, I tried to use their organ and it was locked. The pastor told me that NO one can play the organ except the organist they have, and that organist wouldn't play the wedding, at that late notice. The bride asked if we had any equipement that we could bring in.... (which we did) but it took going back home GETTING the keyboards, speakers, sound board, wires, and everything else. And, it would cost 600 dollars for this. The bride's father was LIVID....at me and my husband for charging for this, but we didn't goof up their wedding.....they did. They just didn't want to pay for it. Then.....everyone finds out that the groom couldn't make it for the rehearsal, so his buddy stood in for him, which was weird. The next day....when the wedding was taking place, thick white smoke and a horrible smell started coming into the sancutuary. Turns out, someone in the fellowship hall (where the reception was going to be,) had terribly burned the Sweedish Meatballs, and the smoke and horrid smell was going everywhere, including the sanctuary. It was nauseating, and I trying not to retch while playing the ceremony. Also, when I actually met the groom, I was shocked because he was so scary looking, and seemed like he was mad at the world, with a scowl and angry face, and demeanor. Maybe he was a nice guy, I just couldnt tell......anyway.....this was a wedding that I will never forget.

To number 2, I completely agree, though I've changed and not changed my hair for weddings. My hair was in horrible shape, and very oddly 2 colours for my sister's wedding. She paid for me to have it dyed one neutral colour. And my friends, I coordinated the wedding ,asked that I refrain from shaving my head until after the wedding. But both were superficial requests, and really the only thing they asked of me.

My SIL didn’t come to our wedding due to circumstances mostly under her own control. At the time I think I was mildly annoyed but I knew she felt bad about it and the feeling passed. Once we we all living in the same city, we had problems getting along for several years. After we worked things out, she mentioned she thought I had been mad at her because she hadn’t come to our wedding-😱 wait, what!? you weren’t there? I had actually forgotten🤣. We have a collage of wedding pictures hanging up so I could see she hadn’t been a bridesmaid but I think that in my memory she had made it to the wedding as a guest.

Yep. That about sums it up, and I agree with ALL of those lessons. ❤

I loved it when Charlotte played the bride and mother of the bride ...I have ALWAYS taken a protein bar to weddings. I've done it for years 😅

Start making new friends don't be a pushover learn the say no it's ok with no explanation people love to take advantage of sweet genuine people set boundaries beautiful!

Yo Candace, we probably don't even live anywhere near eachother but this makes me want to become acquaintances and maybe friends because this is awful. You sound great. Hopefully you can find new friends to chill, smoke and bond with

Me too girl! Wish we lived near each other because once I started saying no I lost all but 2 friends. I live in AZ lol

Oh honey I hear you ….much love for the person everyone depends apron and expects will rise to the occasion. The day I said no no not again I got screamed at by multiple people … welll we just you would do this ….yeah but my big major double digit birthday…nobody did a thing ..not a card nothing ….im done being nice

I just saw this, and that stinks. I'm sorry 💜