One of the most dangerous places to be is in your feelings. When you're there, you're prey for predatory women.

You guys are good enough to carry it even without callers...

Every women has a “me me me” mentality. If you decide to intake a long term commuted relationship. You need to start early to put it on check. For example, if you ask your girlfriend for a favor, big or small. Make sure she does it. Don’t give in. If you do, she will never forget that and put you in the weaker partner part of the relationship.

First caller: The theme is weaponizing oversensitivity. I think we are seeing it more and more. As people become more confident expressing their oversensitivity, using it for manipulative purposes, it begins more and more to pollute working environments. In the past few years, I have heard people use the term"walking on eggshells" to describe their work environment more and more. It seems like people are either walking on eggshells, or enjoying themselves by making other people walk on eggshells...The one constant I hear over and over again is tattling to human resources. HR is enabling this behavior. HOW DO WE GET RID OF HR?

What Richard said about revenge and victim mentality was golden. Love this show!

Guilt is feeling bad for what you've done, shame is feeling bad for what you are. Toxic mothers will shame their kids for being normal kids.

Reason first caller has an issue is because women don't accept negative comments or responsibility. They view critisism as shame. Therefor when you try to hold them accountable they believe it needs to be in the nicest way possible otherwise you're a monster. This is so sad.

Can you guys believe I ordered Richs book on Amazon and my wife found out and she cancelled it!! Un- F'in-believable!!! Even the wives are trying to silence the truth!! I'm sure this book is on point and by God I'll get it one way or the other. Thanks Rich! Keep the TRUTH coming man?

To the first dude. Make an appointment with HR and ask them if you need to hire a lawyer for defence against bullying. He may get sacked, its a gamble if HR are feminists, but if not it would very much put HR on his side of the park and set the narrative for any complaints lodged against him in the future.

Next week's BTT should be solely centered around the topic of ducks and masculinity.

I think holding down a long term relationship in today’s age is more difficult than ever. With the advent of social media and feminism it’s completely destroyed the dating and relationship game. The polarity of the sexes is skewed and this ultimately is the catalyst for all the problems encountered thereafter.

Y'all are both heros brother. This whole channel saved me

If one feels nought but dread before attending work, then something must change or try being elsewhere

I cant believe I just scrolled through this video, but this is some of the more informational and HELPFUL stuff you put out to men of all ages. Listen to this stuff fellows because it comes from real world experience.

You guys, rollo and pat campbell are great podcasts to keep me red pilled, its good to be more aware and and have clearer and more reasonable intuition about these topics

These 2 men are such bad assess! Building the world into a better place, and nothing less!

Wow these are great, might have to go back and listen to all of these early ones

“Tall men throwing around a ball” Richard you are the man!

Great Show Guys!

Just viewing this now Rich, excellent show.

Great content

Spidy senses..........hilarious! Luv your phrases Rich!

Great show and production.

Get Rudy Reyes on the show! He played himself in the HBO series Generation Kill, about the culture of men on the first convey to hit Baghdad. Rudy is Marine Recon/Sniper and was a martial arts champion before joining the military. Rudy is prime for the show because he epitomizes Tier 1 yet is extremely humble. .

With the woman who wants the check delivered in person, I'd recommend using online transfers. Just use the bank to transfer the funds electronically. WF uses Zelle, and its free for the transfer.

Watching 2 years later, this is a good assessment of how all modern corporations are going. Entire departments dedicated to bullying men into remaining silent and thinking there is something wrong with their gut feeling

I'm currently (re) listening to this podcast series while working out on spotify and had to come back to comment. The first episode was an absolute banger as well. My advice when looking at emotional manipulation is to also have a look at your family and close circle. About a year ago I had a pretty rough argument with my mom via text (already lived alone a few years at that time) because I was sick of her playing the "don't you love me" card (the main reason for confrontation was because she got another child and I didn't want my little sis to experience the same). I stayed calm and sent her links to some studies of what shaming tactics does to people exposed to it, especially coming from loved and close ones but of course she thought it was an attack on her. The "can't handle emotions so I try to adjust the behavior of the other person" reminded me of that argument. A few days later she apologized. Even though we always had a really good relationship it's even better now and I credit her for listening to what I had to say. If you have problems with someone close to you don't think like it's ok it has always been like that and it would be too uncomfortable to talk about it. I think to maintain healthy relationships you have to respect the other person and be honest and bring attention to such behavior. Maybe that's what they grew up with and no one ever bothered to tell them.

The passive acceptance of evil is not a virtue. Brilliant

Dude at work. It seems like you entered a work place where people got away with being unprofessional. I had a friend who was in same situation. He was in power position so he fired one girl after another for bad work ethics and soon the rest got their shit togather. They tried to shame him too but he was gay so it didn't work

Problem is that women in general are awful at taking criticism - I've just dumped a 3+ year long GF because this was the precise problem, Apparently is was all my fault because my 'anger' was disproportionate. I was also told that my 'tone' was wrong and that i was 'too sensitive' - basically any excuse for her to avoid fessing up and saying that she fucked up.

You can cash a check regardless of the date in many states.

I think TV sitcoms, talk shows and commercials are the main vehicles used to make man shaming the default setting for socially acceptable and politically correct behavior.

Rich - Since each of my kids were born, I have told them everything that I have ever known. When they were young, my (ex)wife would say; "They aren't listening to you". ...but I knew that they, at the least, they were hearing me.

Best show yet!

I tottaly enjoy this show

Great video!

Shaming is about a achieving a financial goal.

Regarding this check - why not just put it in the mail so it will arrive the day you want? Every time - put the check in the mail on time. Period.

They can cash postdated checks in the US now. My landlord does it all the time. It isn't illegal. Not exactly sure when this change came into effect but it was within the past several years.

Hey Shawn, also located here in Denver, CO. Been dealing with some issues with a woman I hired here to be my GM for my company. Long story short, it didn't go well. Was curious about where I might be able to reach out and possibly discuss further? Thanks.

Divorce is like a knife in the chest in this country. The lawmakers should pay attention.

an argument brewing (calm before the storm) has no ending and to dissolve it fuels the thunder. ego combing can also be a combination. the dynamics and complexities of the argument if albeit no money or continuous problems should have no levy that begs you to raise your voice. i often find one subject changes to another time served debate (something you did wrong years ago) and then you unlock the door to vocal carnage. i find that when i reflect on what i COULD say, it obviously adds another stick of TNT to the already Hiroshima blast. dare you say nothing (remove incrimination) and make polite eye contact still drives the vehicle further. bottom line is, she owns the argument from the start, and its a power used for self gratification. i got home late a few times as i was leading projects that bulked at the end. she didn't understand the shit storm i entered before i came home to another. it almost felt like i was being transformed into her usher that opens the flood gates to my money/time/attention/tasks. i talked to her and eventually we had a balance but that took nearly 20 years to accomplish. my daughter wouldn't talk to me for 3 days even though her mother started the fireworks in effect training her how to manipulate. i brought the bacon home and upset two people at the same time.

Bullying is projection of the co-worker’s shadow self onto you. The best way of dealing with female manipulators and bullies at work is to tell them to do it to you more, and mean it. Expect it from them for real. It puts them in a safe position to admit it to themselves. “Oh right, I’m doing that.” This will both allow them to control their bullying and in some cases they’ll turn around completely and become your ally. At the very least it helps create a truce. With men, just tell them directly to knock off their aggression, but if they’re teasing you, let them tease you for a long period, then politely ask them to cease & desist it. Let them paint themselves into that corner then take them gently by surprise. It’s like a perfect triangle note in a symphony. They’ll stop when they see the joke’s been turned on them by you over a long period of time.

Great show..long time viewer..thanks for the insight

What type of custom is above your fire place?

In lesbian couples, the hypergamy is there. I'm a lesbian, and I've experienced this. Female nature don't change because they're dating the same sex. That's why I hang out in male forums. Lol... cause I'm dealing with the same issues as you guys. LOL.

This is great

I just finished watching the show… & just giving my 2 cents to the guy where his ex cheated on him with his ex-best friend. Let me tell you this because out of all the callers… I can remark to this the best… But on my 26 birthday… the day of… a guy that I went to school with & a girl that I had a crush on both told me that they were dating each other (On my birthday itself. THE day of). That’s not as bad as finding out that your girl is boinking your bro… but out of all days… why tell tell me that on my birthday? And honestly I think that he went after this girl because I was into her. I felt that it was a violation of trust & just being mean. Just because they could. He actually liked someone else… but I think he went after the girl I liked because (1) He knew that I liked her. I think that in someways he was threatened by me, & by taking something away from me made him feel better about himself, & (2) He didn’t have the guts to pursue the chick that he did like. So getting the girl that I liked was an easy win. When it happened… I was more annoyed at myself than what actually went down. I’d say that I have more game than I did then… but what upset me about myself with the situation was that I had thought that I was smart enough where I’d be smart enough to avoid a ‘trap’ like this because of situations that I went through when I was younger. I was born with Cerebral Palsy, & when I was younger… I did have to put with some crap from some guys & girls because they thought that since I was handicapped, that they could pull a fast 1 on me. So I thought that I was smart enough to avoid certain things because of what I had learned from the past. I didn’t think that I was an expert at the time, but I thought that I had a lot more going on where I’d be able to side step something like this. So I was even annoyed at myself for getting into that mess. I was quite mad at myself actually. At the time I didn’t even want to be in a relationship… yet alone falling in love (or at least having very strong feelings for this woman). I was going to De Anza college in Cupertino CA at the time, & because there was a lot of craziness happening at that campus; I didn’t want to hook up with anyone there because I didn’t like the atmosphere. Especially with the selection of women that went there. The area where it’s at has a lot of money, & there’s a certain type of attitude that comes with it. There were a # of times that a friend of mine & I caught a woman (this happened a # of times) where we caught a woman walking out of a man’s bathroom stall after performing some sexual act on a guy. There was a teacher that went to jail because he killed his wife after he beat her to death. He was caught in the act of dumping her body at some freeway overpass after he found out that she’d been cheating on him. I don’t agree with cheating in any form… but she started cheating on him because he had like 5-6 GF’s on the side. Which I don’t blame her for… but she should’ve just left him. There was some dude that went crazy & was going to do a mass shooting by planting bombs & shooting people (Guzman I believe his name was). And right about the time that I left… there was a scandal with the soccer team where a couple guys date raped a girl at a party. Or were accused of it. All of this should pop up if you do a google search. I didn’t want to date any of the girls at that school because I didn’t like the caliber. So it annoyed me that I was addicted to this girl (& this situation) like an addict. It drove me nuts! It took me a year to get over it… but I did get over it. What I did was I tried to do as many things that I could do to distract myself from thinking about the situation. Just as an example, I did wrestling in JH & HS… & where I live… we used to have a very strong Japan-town. Down to having a Buddhist temple erected. I had a friend that was into Japanese anime… so we used to go down there a lot. At 1st I was tempted about taking some Judo because I did Wrestling… but started taking some Kendo classes just for something different. So I had some swordplay experience before I started taking European fencing at De Anza. Since I have problems walking… swordplay is a little tricky for me… but I enjoy the challenge. Fact is there was 1 time when I was in class (Fencing) all dressed up with sword in hand… & this guy that did what he did started to stare me down I guess in an effort to piss me off. At 1st I started to get angry because how stupid do you have to be to taunt a guy with a foil in his hand? There’s no cutting edge, but you can still break fingers & mildly cut someone up with a foil. But I kind of laughed at it afterwards because how stupid to even go there. Like years after all this went down. But I did things like weight lifting, 3d printing/scanning was a lot more primitive then then what it is now… but since I went to school to be a computer animator… that was stuff that I tinkered with. I just tried to keep myself busy. I don’t know what it is that you like to do to keep yourself busy… but I’d suggest finding whatever works for you… & just lay into it. But the point that I’m also trying to make is even though it hurt & I didn’t realize this at the time… in a way I think that both of them actually helped me avoid a major bullet… & made me grow as a person that I wouldn’t have probably been. If I were with that chick I most likely wouldn’t have had that chance to experience some of the things that I experienced in life & wouldn’t be the person that I am now. Which I definitely think is a benefit than a loss. I am kind of rambling here… so I am sorry about the long post. It would’ve been a lot easier to tell ya rather than write it… but just try focusing your attention on other stuff & not them because they’re not worth it. I’ve been lucky enough to see the girl I had a crush on & this guy later down the road… & in the end… they didn’t seem like they accounted to much. Nothing special about me, but I turned out to be the 1 that did better in someways than what they did. Which is what I am trying to say about you. Where you lucked out like a bandit & don’t realize it yet. It’s just that sometimes in life you’ve got to go through hell in order to get to heaven. Just chin up & stay strong man. Focus on yourself because I got a feeling that you’ll be surprised at the end results. And don’t underestimate the healing power of 'anger.' Don’t focus on them… but use that ‘aggression’ as fuel to accomplish the goals that you want in your life. Let it drive you. When you see yourself as a badass… it’s amazing what badass things that you actually do! Don’t focus on them because they’re the weak 1’s. You’re the 1 that’s actually strong. That’s something I think that I hear when you’re telling everyone about the situation. You’re strong, they’re weak, show how strong that you’re by nailing all the stuff that you need to by building yourself up. Cool? Stay strong man!

I just got out a of a relationship with a traumatized, emotionally manipulative woman. It's no surprise that she's also a single Mom. the last month before I ghosted her. She tried to guilt shame me into playing stepdaddy to her 8y/o son. And She was also extremely lonely. I just got tired of her shaming, so I just ghosted her. She was judging me, when her life had gone to complete sh!t b/c of all the bad life decisions she made that put her where she was now: Broke, with no career prospects, owes $30+k in lawyer fees, forced to work a full time job, lost custody of her kid, living stage 4 lung cancer from chain smoking for 30yrs., and STILL SMOKING ciggies & weed!!🤯🤯🤯 a messed up brain from 15yrs. of abusing meth & coke. Also hooked on vicodin. And she wanted to judge me for trying to find a better career just like her!! I'm just glad I got out before it got any worse. I never met her kid either. But that didn't stop her from leveraging her kid against me: 'How is my son supposed to look up to someone like You?’ As soon as I heard that, I just ghosted right there. It's been so peaceful ever since😆😆😆 Never looking back!!

Colombian w/almond creamer from Sales

Considering the gentleman who was playing pool and the two women who sat in the encroaching seats: What is the best course of action? Should he stop playing pool, ignore the complaining women, or call them out on it? I think I would say to them: "Look, this is a public area. We are choosing to play pool. If you feel we are encroaching in your personal space, then you can either accept it completely and be silent on the matter, or you can relocate to a different part of the bar. It makes no difference to me. But to stay here and complain about it is not appropriate healthy adult behavior."

That live caller audio delay is so frustrating.

Feminists don’t discriminate. They pull this shaming and verbal assault on females who aren’t on their team. It’s so toxic.

In the usa banks dont look at dates. They cash the check regardless of the date on the check.

Take a bad ass who deals with most issues with force, C4, strength, and sharpshooting and pit him against an issue where nothing in his wheel house can be utilized and yes he will get his ass handed to him time and time again. He needs to be trained to deal with a different type of opponent. One who may be a part of his unit but just as easily can be the enemy. It is hard for these men to differentiate.

Use the duch for hunting wild game duck

Hi mate, just subbed to your channel and its great. I am part of a huge community in the Philippines expat/tourist genre which has well over a 100 channels and i was wondering if you would be willing to impart some of your great red pill info on my regular Saturday night livestream this weekend? You would get a lot of new subs as no-one in the red pill community has hit the Philippines genre although my last livestream last weekend was based on what i have learnt from your vids. Any chance or if you dont want to can you please recommend another red pill expert. Thank you.

Hold Your Cource.

Women accusing '...you only care about yourself...' 🎉

I had a boyfriend with a beard. I adored him.

About child support payments : you shouldn't pay in advance for more then you have been compelled to do by the judge. Best is to do payment by bank transfert. As to the mother's behavior, that's gaslighting. She wants you to lose control and temper in front of the child and use it against you after that. Go grey rock - no reaction. This seems to be a Narc woman. My ex did that for more than 8 years, it never stops. Stop showing any reaction. Take care

Caller 1: if you and the organisation don’t suit then move on. Simple as that. As you said you would quit if the lodged HR ticket why wait? Maybe make some adjustments and then see if things change brother, good luck.

My Friend's girlfriend keeps shaming me when we get together on couples vacations cause i bring a different Girl and i told her i dont do exclusive relationships

Actually banks do that all the time. Checks are a promise note. If you deposit early, note THIS IS WHY they always without EVER missing a beat make you sign the deposit slip. That thus implies legality of the intent of the deposit. If the check bounced then ok a pain and all kinds of extra charges. However if check clears, and you needed that money in a few days you are screwed. The law varying from state, but once you signed a check it becomes a legal document and banks actually in most locales have a legal right to deposit/ cash the cheque. It is the intent and legal responsibility of the depositor that seals this deal. By the act of deposit and endorsement of the deposit slip you make such actions legal. In fact if the check bounced the bank can actually take the funds from other bank accounts the depositor has with that bank. And using an instant teller can change this legal position - since the depositor not signed (endorsed) the deposit - but now often use of your pin can be considered an endorsement. So if you deposit a check and say the cheque goes bad -YOU ARE liable (you the depositor) - even if the Bank confirmed that the check was good and cleared and it does eventually bounce. Be VERY VERY careful with post dated cheques - they can be deposited early and in most cases it's a legally binding obligation and contract based on the actions of the depositor.

So if I start dieting and exercising, will I be fit, shredded, or muscular in 30 days? No. Men just because we have found all this men giving us their knowledge, it doesn't mean we're red pill in 30 days. Come on we have a lot to learn. Don't go around flashing your red pill badge just because you read a book from Rollo. We have to read tons of books and several times before we say "I'm red pill". The more videos we watch from them will also give us more knowledge.

I have a question about cars Richard. I drive a Ram 1500.

1:22:45

Next time the francophone guy ask another woman managet to be with you when you give directions.

Denver Colorado home of avalanche

Late sorry but thank you guys just found Rich couple months ago after a divorce and a toxic after 13 years of shit I'm still treading water and doing a thousand laps in the pool thanks

Richard you are handsome

guys....learn how to get to the point faster. they always loose focus

greeting from the Caribbean why dont you use the subtitle in spanish? your content are deeply apreciate in spanish.

I had 2 black eyes from a boy in grsde 6.

Can you not just transfer money online in the US? I haven't written a cheque in the UK for literally 20 years - you just transfer online for free between any banks instantly. I own no cheque book.

Duck for supper anyone?

Mariana needs a dose of wake up.

Recently a situation happen in a live chat, I was 1 of the moderators. I was asked about my harley & I made a comment about "Blackie" & I being through 16 yrs of memories & how much my bike meant to me. She has giving me peace & freedom like nothing else ever. I said Blackie is a part of my soul. I was accused of offending a women by naming my bike "blackie" but I didnt use it in an offensive context. I used it in an endearingly. The lady took it out of my context and put it in negative context & got offended. Thats on her not me! Hell the women offended herself by doing that. Eric Clapton's beloved guitar is named Blackie & people aren't flipping out over it. I ended up in an argument with the channel creator because she felt I should apologize for offending the lady. I refused to do so because then that's an ommission of guilt & I wasnt guilty because I didnt say it offensively . The channel creator is a women & she ended up using a shaming tactic on me by asking me how many people I've helped in the chat? I pointed out that has nothing to do with what's going on her but since she asked... I donated enough money for her to buy a tire cause she didnt have the money. Along with volunteering my time to her channel & stop the trolls along with helping her make money by marketing her services. And helping the people in her chat. She didnt like that to well & proceeded to try & shame me more by telling me I come in her chats & make it about me. I thought at this point she had lost her mind. End result I removed myself from the ridiculousness of the situation & I wont return. We now live in a time where someone can place a negative connotation to any random & from now to eternity no1 can say it again with offending some one. Its ridiculous!

My opinion ia that women shame men to overcome their inequality in achieving financial goals.

Why are you dealing with cheques? Just set up an auto payment to her account. Done. And sacrifice Friday avos at work, pickup kids from school and drop to school on Monday, problem solved next to no contact... takes her power away...

the the guy at around 1h. Just fucking change the locks. and dont let her in if she's unannounced

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My woman put herself in jail. Missed court dates now wants bail. I dont have it and am not getting it. She can sober up in jail for 30 days. She is kind of lashing out at everyone but oh well. Im free and your not i have a home she dont. I survived a total bitch before, i dont take shit from them

A 🦆update....😂😂😂😂😂 The irony is that trying to get rid of this duck is like going through divorce... It just keeps coming back to haunt you 👻

I gave this one a thumbs down because I think you are being too soft regarding women's BS. My response to any kind of stuff like this is "My way or the high-way"

Blame it on biology, evolution, hypergamy.

Your Bald Rich!! 😁

Emotions is like sex for guys: good or bad is still sex.

Because of feminism my ex husband got the primary residence for the kids guys. I am a rarity in the divorce world. Is so weird but i will not contest a judge decidion.

I could answer why military men get beaten down by women.

No offense but you took less than 1% of the total eyeballs watching the NBA championship

Guys dont put up with female or male abuse in workplace. Have someone else there for support.

Hey Guys, with the internet being so massive! Please do this as a guy code so that obtain information as quickly as possible being that we all have family, situations, careers, and etc. . . Type the top lessons that we should understand of particular video at the top in comments. Helpful tip

lol, ducks are cool, you can even sit on them. theres this song: sitting on a duck of the bay

The girl girl couple have a higher divorce rate.

First caller. Maybe he's reading it right. Maybe he's doing shaming jokes. Or he hasn't learnt assertiveness. Is how it looks to me. If your managing staff get into your King, stop the teasing, stop the stupid jokes (which weren't even funny), save the dumb banter for your mates who appreciate it, learn assertiveness. If that doesn't work, sure get out. But everyone is the victim so check out your own victim first. Be better. Which is not complying with fragile people being coercive. And Richard and Shaun gave him a free pass, be challenging. How could he have done better. ?

Rich man come on.. everything you don't like you just dismiss so much, like basketball players are so terrible and just pointless? I think they're doing pretty well dude lol. They're pretty high-value males that have achieved great success with determination, practice and a lot of Heartache to get the positions where they're at. I'm not a huge basketball fan, haven't been following the finals or anything but come on dude men support men no matter what their sport or career. that's the tip top of basketball. Love your shit tho! Look forward to this podcasts every week. fucking great information you guys, love you guys!

I like the red pills pic on the caller, I wish I could swallow them all.

I hate to say it, but Rich you need to unplug from the matrix in regard to checks. All of your assumptions that you can’t cash a check that’s post-dated and everything is supposed to work functionally and above board are assumptions that are unfortunately very untrue. Checks are the most dangerous financial instrument that exist because they have so little oversight. I have successfully cashed customer checks that are post dated, checks without a date even, checks without even a signature. I’m also the victim of $15,000 in check fraud from when a checkbook was stolen out of my car and tweakers were successfully able to cash every single check in the book. My bank is Chase by the way, it’s not some podunk regional bank. Only after learning the hard way did I discover how unsecure checks really are. Since then I have refused to use checks personally or for my business, electronic payments are infinitely more safe and secure.

u gotto to do single mom content more my man , not these