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I learned at a very early age (22) that ”you are only renting it” and your goal is to have fun while it's your turn

This might have been Rich's quote, that women are never embarrassed, but they are always offended. So true.

As my dad would say, " Any fool knows his mother, a smart man knows his father." 😂

Good discussion. I was the youngest child and very spoiled by my mother and sisters. I like being spoiled by my husband too. He buys me jewelry and brings me flowers. He cooks and fixes things. He has a great sense of humor and entertains me. We've been married for 30 years. He is my lover and my best friend.

It’s the neurochemicals which cause Oneitis. And yes, it is absolutely crippling.

I'm stuck in one itice and trying to get over it. This subject was perfect timing

24yrs old and grateful for this information. Everything the red pill teaches comes to fruition. Keep up the good work.

Yea, I had it. I had options with other women but it was still tough. I had to walk away and cut it off completely. I was going down hill fast. The distraction was brutal. Pulled me off my purpose.

Best way to avoid *oneitis* is don't sleep with them till you find out who they truly are. More often than not, you find out who they truly are... You're not going to want to sleep with em anyhow. If you're needing/hungering for the intimacy more than she is. You've already lost anyhow.

Biz Markie was warning us about when she says he’s just a friend back in 1989.

Good point about the energy vampirism. In practical terms you really just gotta keep it simple - if you repeatedly feel drained, burnt out and anxious after spending time with her - you gotta get out before it eats you up, because it will. In theoretical terms though; I was with someone like this a while ago, and it took me a long time after we separated to grasp what the problem was. We could have the most romantic and exciting weekends together, but at the end I would always leave feeling exhausted and confused, and I could never figure out why. There was just something wrong, something missing, but the reason was always a mystery. In this case she was mild BPD, but lots of women can be like this for various reasons. In any case, the reason you feel drained is that your subconscious is working overtime looking for patterns that it can recognize and relate to, but it never finds them. The conscious mind sees the person in front of you, but the subconscious sees empty space and can’t reconcile it. This is why you feel drained. Your brain is burnt out from trying to determine whether this person really ‘exists’ in the way that you would expect them to. You are pouring mental and emotional energy into a black hole trying to solve the enigma, but you’re not getting anywhere and none of the energy is being reciprocated. Energy vampires are sad, empty, and desperate people, but your gut will screen them out if you listen to it and trust it. 😎

Love when Troy say's 'Don't reward bad behaviour'...we were told that about our kids when they were about 2 years old.!

1. 1:42 2. 12:26 3. 28:26 4. 38:31 5.

With women’s, friends, employees, and business associates, always hire slowly and fire fast.....Richard Cooper. ( The Unplugged ALPHA)

It's the HOPE that the situation with the OneItis Girl will change to 'whatever it is you want' that keeps you attached to an unhelpful relationship. You need to recognise that HOPE is unrealsitic/false/not based on real world feedback, as a the 1st step of cutting it off.

It is shocking to learn that transactional sex happens so often in normal relationships. It is proof of how poorly women develop their own sexuality. If having sex with your man is akin to washing the dishes, it shows how women are completely dysfunctional regarding sexuality, orgasm, intimacy and real female/male connection. IMO this is the result of a highly sexualized culture where women are taught how to look and act “sexy” but are taught nothing about their own sexuality, orgasm, etc. These are still taboo subjects even among women. Thanks Rich and Troy. I am a 46 y-o woman learning a lot about female behavior from your content. You are very intelligent and eloquent. I greatly enjoy your videos.

5:15 bro you didn't think she might be bad news when she was cheating on her boyfriend 10 times a day with you? Bells and sirens bro

Best played at 0.5 speed, they both sound stoned 😎

For me it was hard for her to tell me she did not want me anymore. And when she told me that I have never called her It has been 6 months since that happened. I have More more money I bought a jeep and really I don't miss her anymore. I realized life is so much better without her. And I have met so many quality women.

Recovering from oneightous. Thanks for this info and knowing other men had the same issue

Love the honesty gentlemen, it helps us all

I agree with all of this except the hypnosis part...be very careful with that! I say don't even dabble with that part. Keep yourself so busy that thoughts of her don't have a place and when they do come into your mind block them up out...don't let them linger.

Never let Steve from accounting edit ur books again...

Thanks, guys!

I’m learning a lot. Thank you champs

WOW. Had no idea how deep the programming ran! Watching Simpson's and I gotta say- homer is the DOPE! Never good enough for Marge yet she begrudgingly accepts him- and than theres flander! The king of all BETAS! And he is THE MAN! -Terrible message but a big eye opener for how deep the programming runs! Keep up the good work! Keep opening mens eyes to the truth!

Have you noticed something about Red Pill Men - they're all very intelligent , you'll notice this as a common trait among them

4:35 This is amazing! That story that Troy tells in the beginning exactly happened to me, almost word for word. If you lived here in Prague, Troy, I'd almost say it was the same woman :) Oneitis doesn't always come from a lack of abundance per se but also from a lack of abundance of a certain type of woman. When the right combination of characteristics/interests meets in that one person, you might find it hard to believe that another one might be the right cocktail too. And when that one we fall for has something that the others rarely do, it's a big problem for us when she lets go.

Great content guys... Thank you and well done...

Greqt guest. This insights are spot on.

Great point from Francis about LTR in terms of time frame.

Sounds like Narcissist. They chemically bond you with the dopamine

Great conversation guys.... About the oneitis. Here’s my two cents: 1. I think it’s unavoidable for a million different reasons already discussed by yourself and others. I also think you kind of have to live it in order to avoid it. 2. I’ve had it really bad twice in my life. Each time I was spending way too much time communicating with and catering to the girl. So the key, for me, is to recognize the signs of an unhealthy attachment and limit the amount of time and mental embers I’m spending on her. Not easy to do I know. But it’s really your only course of action.

Solid one guys, thanks.

Infield demos sounds great, always best to teach by example.

Steve Pre, Steve Prefontaine, University of Oregon runner. Ground breaking athlete.

Great stuff, love Troy and hearing his advice.

I wish you could make an episode where you go deep into the topic of friendzone and oneitis.

Troy, the never smiling gent.

Great content

Hey Rich i'm so glad i found this channel and enjoy the content. I'm 50 years old never been married (so relieved of that) been engaged twice...never again. I spend my time working out and bike riding, chasing excellence not women. I plan on getting your book and reading it. Thanks again for the content you put out that i have been aware of, but you put it in a better perspective.

If you are a man or woman and currently sleeping on a sofa/sofa-bed.......and in a marriage...by law in Britain, it's ABUSE!!!

I'm 48 pushing 49... And the woman I've been seeing for 2 years is really pressing for the next level. I have to admit I'm a bit torn... Don't know what to do.

What a great video this is 👍👍

Guys, if she gives you the silent treatment and won’t tell you what’s wrong despite your asking - you either ignore her or simply exit the situation. Return when she is ready to be an adult again, but the more you follow her around trying to ‘fix’ the problem, the worse it gets for the both of you.

I always hate the "If you loved me you would know" which is similar to "If you loved me you would read my mind".

You really want to hear a woman admit to some dark sh*t. When I hear about men who kill themselves after a woman dumps them... My heart gives a little bounce. Because it reinforces what I DESIRE to be true... That men truly madly deeply love women. But of course I DO NOT want a guy who would kill himself if I dumped him... because I want a guy who can rise above his base emotions and be a functioning ADULT, who knows that life goes on without me. To put it bluntly I think most women are like this. They want a guy who DESIRES to cater to your every whim... But who does NOT because she wants to be with an ADULT who has other responsibilities: work, friends, family, religious etc.

Invest in you only. And reap the rewards and enjoy them on your terms. Don't forget how good it is to be totaly free. Besides, there is just too many of them out there, to bother with THE one that stops this good life you built. At 70, I'll make a killing with semi-retiered "silvers".

Like watching Troy and Rich

saw a interesting video from Rabbi Friedman about deeper connection in tinder age.. Wonderfull he said love is the worst thing in a marriage hahahah I saw alfie, and i feel sometimes like that guy, i dated a lot, but this Chrismas alone again. Or.. i have to get back with my ex gf who took me for granted. Love is 2020 seems like a loosing game

That war brides shit is the worst. Most mind boggling thing ever

Justin A. Friend, the PT from the gym

Why don’t you ever have Shawn on here anymore? His insight was great.

Do you have an email to ask a question or bring up a topic?

Hey Rich! Any Chance to get your book at Amazon germany? Thanks man!

15:03 just a note to myself

Rich: get some Xmas decorations up, man!

Whats the difference between the "soft next" and the "silent treatment?"

Finished Rollo's books moving on to yours Rich, just ordered it on Amazon. 👍 Thanks for all you and the rule zero panel are doing. Edit: If you happen to see this, what books have you read that you recommend on psychology? Mainly behavioral, but ill digest anything you would say is worth a read.

Anybody know why Troy was wearing a dinner suit in the video?

Women move on easy because they never actually do. The moment she has a reason to, she'll be back.

Hey I feel like your audio is a bit washed out on the lows. Francis sounds very clear but your audio sounds bassy and makes it harder to understand especially across the crisp audio on the other side. Just a tiny nitpicking observation, love your work, I wish I'd found you a year earlier, had oneittis earlier this year and going into my red pill jouney over the last few months. I was already a bachelor for the most part but definitely blue pilled. No longer thanks to you and a few others, keep up this NECESSARY work.

Where is sean?

Damn, "dumped by LTR and a year later she's living three doors down with my neighbor"? Maybe that neighbor was using those attraction soaps. Better buy yours.

The emotional wound is probably from your mother. The "love" you think you feel is an emotional wound otherwise you wouldn't feel like you need her. You'd be happy without her if you were healed.

Troy is using the wrong end of the mic...

UK Guy missed 2 buttons.

Wow That was AWESOME!!! I was only going to watch a little bit as I saw that it was 56mins long... Ended up watching the whole thing... Some Truly Amazing Advise with some Excellent Advise to live by... Thank You Rich & Troy... Really Interesting & Just Brilliant ;-)

Here's one, how do you deal with a inconsistent woman who after having sex with you 20+ times says she feels bad after sex gets distant then wants you again 2 weeks later but says same thing every single time?

Oneitis with baby mom and married, how to deal with it?

Not to be a lazy dude but yea it’s not worth it for a lot. It’s not worth the squeeze. Expend the energy somewhere else. 7:30 is not right, maintain your emotional health, new flings don’t do it

Folks, I'm new to this whole red pill community and I'd appreciate some guidance in a particular topic: I've seen that in some of Richard's videos he talks about how hypergamy doesn't give a fuck about relationships and that women will take every opportunity they are presented with, but then there are some other videos in which he talks about LTR's, which confuses me. I'm in my early 20's, still figuring out some things about life itself, but determined to succes. I have a girlfriend, whom I frankly have a really good connection to and love, so how do I do to ensure that she won't just get with some other dude as soon as she can? I mean, success is a process that won't ocurre overnight, how do I keep my girlfriend to myself in the meantime? If that's impossible, then what's the point in being in a relationship anyway? Thank you in advance for your opinios.

Whats a good bio on tinder you guys think?

30:11 IT'S ALL NONSENSE

What do you suggest if a man wants children?

How about you just process your emotions lol - you'll find that it isn't love, but an emotional pull. You can integrate it through presence.

Rich, I have a question: suppose you recognize all these red flags spot on, are you supposed to put these patterns in a spotlight and raise a conversation with her to address those issues? My experience is - women just get extremely defensive, the meltdown ensues and I get showered with even more red flags... I know it's painful, but is it reparable??

There isn't an easy answer to oneitis, abundance or not, notchcount or not. If you are extremely attracted to her, are monogamous with her and the woman has the ability to manipulate you with her femininity/sexuality, you are gunna be in strife if it goes pair shaped. Excellent video though guys.

Look! Oneitis is not evil... Oneitis with a bad, unavailable, or mismatched woman is very bad. There are women who STAY in abusive relationships because they have a "pair bond!" Pair-bonding is NOT bad. Pair-bonding is good. Rich it is good that you love and care about your offspring and it's not just simply a cerebral duty to care about your offspring... It is good if there are emotions that motivate you to care about your offspring and remain attached. If your love for your offspring meant you did not phone the police on them when they committed a crime... That is very bad! Rightfully so you lament today's woman's lack of ability to pair-bond... which is why I also get upset with men in the manosphere who sleep around and disrupt that ability. It is really important people rise above their lizard brain base instincts to be functioning adults in society. It is awesome when your lizard brain and you're prefrontal cortex both want the SAME thing... life is a lot easier that way. So if men have pair bonded with a bad woman... yes they should dump her. But pair bonding or oneitis is not evil in itself.

never had this problem and this is not posible for my to have all this biologic thing is soft stuff

Arener?

If she begs like a fiend. Kick rocks. If she asks and dances like a lady with some class, your on a lucky streak.

All the Redpill chatter is your fault. I see this clearly now.

Dear men, No matter how much you Master women... Look at King Solomon, he fucked up..so is every man on earth except Jesus.

Marinate on that guys 🥩🧂

Lol this guy sounds so close to stirling Cooper

Jesus christ Troy, I'm going through the same thing. I've known her 5 years, she's got a toxic boyfriend, belongs to a toxic group of friends, we've been seeing each other like 6 months, but she won't leave the boyfriend and I don't get it...

I really love your content, Rich. It's pure gold. But can you please fix your volume. It's so much lower than your guests'

Look I have been addicted to TV shows. Men get addicted to sports. I'm not sure who the hell I am. But do I have fans and some men are confusing "fandom for love?"

Not a great one the guest seemed interested a lot of the time.

I MUST say this again. A woman who cries a lot is NOT necessarily a problem. Wife: "Honey can you take me to the home show. I have my HEART set on going with you." (Note: I believe damn near every person who is not a psychopath SOMETIMES enjoys doing things they normally do not enjoy when people they love enjoy doing them. He-Man himself would LOVE taking his daughter to see Disney on Ice if she delighted in it.) Husband: "No sweety, I have a prior commitment to go fishing with my friend." One woman could BALL her eyes out, you hug her, and you have sex, and it's no problem, and you go on your fishing trip. Another woman who says with ZERO emotion at all "If you loved me, you would take me to the home show." HOUSTON... WE HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM!