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Wow! Thank you for this!

#3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me

And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?

Thank you very much. 🙏

Well said..

how u do u cry

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But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice

​@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.

But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?

​@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

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We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free

I hope so 😢😢

In Sha Allah

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When you are alone and sad, you need to save yourself..it is from your own mind..you need to come back to normal....by asking God who is in your mind...can you get rid of it?

I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy. It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports. Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks. This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.

Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.

Hope you are fine now.

Cheer up! 🌸🍀

That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………

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Nice

True I felt to become monk

I know right!! 😊😊

​@@devikarani8316 To become a monk is a toughest job in reality..

Yes great words! Thank You

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True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂

been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.

Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.

@@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..

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@@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion

My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.

I feel your pain and your are not alone!

"Nothing is permanent "

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Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤

Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...

Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍

Are u heartbroken?

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i have fat tummy

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God bless you

Take care of yourself bro.

Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.

@@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best

I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.

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💕 stay strong

True❤

I am also a Catholic and knowing about Buddhism has made me know another point of view that complements my way of seeing life. Greetings from MEXico.

I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses

Hi thank u so much how much said was very good

@@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.

Am also a catholic but I learn alot

Been weeping for 6months now, like a child.. while the other person is going out and sleeping with her ex that she left me for.

@@swastikmohanty7370 thanks for the encouragement, God'sblessing

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May God give you strength

You are a lucky person

Happy for you that you got a wonderful husband thank God

Same here Christian God bless!!!

My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now

It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕

Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx

I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.

@@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,

Thank you!❤I needed to hear this today

Same here

Me too 🥲

I think you should tell anyone online there are people who listen ..it can be a virtual friend that is haopy to listen

Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone

My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable

Same:(

Yes me too

U can share me and I can share mine, so we can help each other

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Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭

I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.

Us

I feel for you...

And the lesson for you is to love yourself and never give your power away again 🙏 You’ll get through this

Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.

I've been crying allot......I can't stop.

@@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better

That's true. I'm in the same situation. Hope things will get better soon! Stay safe.

@@ovz197 God bless, be safe, be well❤️

@@debbie6533 Thanks a lot

Exact same feelings 😢

I hope you're doing alright now

Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.

@@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹

Sending prayers ❤

@@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘

What a creep..move on.

Yeah right.. it's not monotonous.

Same here 😖🥺😭

@@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon... I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you... May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest... -your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂

❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️

I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤

i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤

@@Dreamdr thank you im so lost

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I have strated to listen to you.thank you.you always help

We are blessed to have you. Thank yoy for yoyr comforting talks.

Same here❤

Are you allowed to do that?

This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .

Sorry about that 😢

sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟

I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤

Courage ! Dont give up !

Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️‍🩹