Build a First Class Self-Concept and Get What You Want

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In this video, Joy shares the importance of having a high self-concept and how it relates to manifesting things like love, money and why it is required, not only to decrease resistance and manifest effortlessly but to live an autonomous, fulfilling life. She breaks down how you can enlarge your own perception of what you are worth and recognize your innate value and power in yourself. Trust and faith are also other key traits to master in building a first class self concept.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:33 - Enlarge your perception of what you are WORTH
5:59 - How it relates to manifesting money/wealth
8:40 - Arrogance does not make a first class self-concept
10:45 - Faith and Trust
14:07 - Putting it all together
15:26 - You hold ALL the power over your life
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Keywords: self concept, manifestation, how to manifest, detachment, how to let go of fear, growth, expansion, healing journey, law of assumption, law of attraction, spiritual growth, create your reality, manifest your reality, enlightenment, high self concept, self growth, mental health, specific person manifestation, manifest SP, self worth, embody love, embody wish fulfilled, fear to love, confidence, break the addiction, self love, manifestation advice, manifest anything, manifest dream relationship, attract love, manifest love, self image, build a god like self image, princess treatment, royal self concept, get treated like royalty in relationships

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@JenMarco 9 ай бұрын

Many of us weren’t raised by parents who told us we are enough and didn’t praise us and now as adults we struggle to find our worth and can’t see it. So sad. I raised my son the opposite of what my parents did. I praised him, complimented him, never squashed his dreams and he’s 31 and very successful, happy and well adjusted. We can still overcome if we accept that our parents messed up and had no knowledge to pass on and projected their own insecurities and inefficiency on us and it wasn’t their fault.

@Iyonndadon 9 ай бұрын

And know that your creator has unconditional, incomprehensible love for us all.

@PlaywithDaisy 9 ай бұрын

@@user-dg1te1ju7h same😞

@adorevevomusic 9 ай бұрын

who's fault is it than , somehow we know better if they tried they would too don't you think ? I am not making any more excuses for my parent anymore he was what he was and if he wanted he would be better because I can use that excuse as well and be the same but I am not

@rahinsabah7365 8 ай бұрын

At first I felt so sad reading your story but when started saying how you raised your son, it suddenly bought a smile on my face.

@tarabendre1825 8 ай бұрын

Actually, it’s not a good thing to praise kids. Only if they ask for it. Praising kids teaches them to be people pleasers. There’s also a difference between pro aiding kids based on performance vs effort. I read about this the other day, so thought I would share.

@charisma1349 8 ай бұрын

It’s becoming super clear to me now that I’ve been doing this all wrong. My self concept is all over the place I know my worth but I let limiting thoughts dominate too often which is reflected in my 3d.

@KennethLane90 7 ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@sarahoop5859 2 ай бұрын

Me too it’s like I know I deserve better but I don’t see myself that way

@MariaPedersen-mq5hk 9 ай бұрын

I loved your point about not relying on external factors to determine your worth in a relationship. I'm so tired of hearing about "low-value man this" or "high-value woman that." It's such a cruel and reductive way to speak about people, and it makes romantic partnerships seem like a transaction.

@BlueYellowGreenVc 8 ай бұрын

Those people using those terms do indeed view relationships as transactional. So, it fits.

@charlesschenk6290 9 ай бұрын

Joy, your message is spot-on about how to have a good life. We become what we think and believe about ourselves. I'm an old-timer, age 75, and I didn't discover the truth in your message until around age 40, which is when my life became wonderful. The "tool" I used to change how I see myself has been a gratitude list. I started writing it back in 1989, putting in every little, and larger gratitude, starting by thinking trough my childhood up until the present day. Today that list is over 54,000 words - 134 pages single-space typed into a Word document. Doing this exercise, and keeping it going over the years, caused a total shift in how I saw myself. Everything changed for the better. My life changed, my marriage changed, my business changed - all for the better. It's a wonderful message. What we think about expands, and by keeping grateful, I keep getting more things about which to be grateful. Try this. Keep it going, it works.

@JB-os3yp 9 ай бұрын

love this!

@mikelucas5845 8 ай бұрын

Yes that is awesome! ❤️❤️❤️

@Awaregirl 8 ай бұрын

❤

@WildSheWolf_ 8 ай бұрын

that is so valuable to hear! i love to read the results of others, they inspire me to keep going!

@olive.yoo888 8 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful ❤

@dafnemiranda872 9 ай бұрын

Thank you !!! The majority of people think of arrogance as having high self concept or confidence and it's quite off putting.

@Dreamwithjoy 9 ай бұрын

I agree 😂, that's why nuance is important!

@shortbreadcookie 9 ай бұрын

Ikr! And people who are quiet gentle or kind tend to be seen as soft and weak, which sucks

@mikelucas5845 8 ай бұрын

Ceases to suck when you develop a loving self concept. ❤️

@javierxrtd 9 ай бұрын

I hope you read this message, You have a great future ahead of you I can easily see it.

@Wony.subliminals 8 ай бұрын

My family raised me in a way of that every single thing i do , and everything i am is never enough . Which caused me to have a low self concept and a lack mentality . It took me so long and so much work to have a good self concept.

@mikelucas5845 8 ай бұрын

Keep going, bc you are so lovable and awesome and amazing and valuable and worthy. Please try to always remember this. Your worth depends on NOTHING ❤️❤️❤️

@Manifest_success_with_me 8 ай бұрын

@@mikelucas5845r🎉🎉 right

@tileshp3762 8 ай бұрын

How did you exactly do this work - through journalling and meditation? I have had exactly the same from my parents it really sucks and Ive got to age 44 struggle badly day to day

@Manifest_success_with_me 8 ай бұрын

@@tileshp3762 yes you can overcome anything in life, journaling+ visualization+ subliminal with affirmations through out the day

@mamabear71234 9 ай бұрын

Keep toxic people out of your life. You must know what narcissism is to keep out these predatory and abusive people out of your life. Toxic people will destroy your life.

@GeschichtsProfi 9 ай бұрын

Yes this is so true people underestimate the power of toxic people narcissistic /psychopaths,.. are like an evil force . Cutting the cords from these people is mandatory for a good life

@HumaneExistence 9 ай бұрын

Environment triggers feelings which trigger mood which trigger thoughts and actions. You have the power to become less volatile to your environment you have all the control you are your god. Trust me when I say from experience staying in that higher frequency does attract positive experiences. Thats not to say you wont be tested but its a blip in time dont let that bs affect you queen. Stay unbothered.

@barcelona12ist 5 ай бұрын

how did you get to that state of mind? most beliefs are subconscious, you even don't know that they exist...

@xonoghoroe9848 8 ай бұрын

* I get what I want as long as it doesn’t hurt myself or others, and benefits the collective as a whole. ❤

@yaarahaim6143 8 ай бұрын

❤

@graceclover8697 8 ай бұрын

“i always get what i want in healthy ways” “i get everything i want with no harm caused” my favs

@Ms.cosmiquesun 9 ай бұрын

Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.

@madhusweetprof 8 ай бұрын

Parents were v strict and so was my dance teacher. Yes I learned a great Class8dance form under her for 12 years but those 12 years of my childhood I was under pressure , stress n lot of unrequited discipline which often use to turn into distress. I m a first class first university topper gold medalist girl..fair n beautiful and a dancer and singer..however I never knew I need to value myself as a result my husband too thought of me as very gullible n took me for a ride for several years wth tremendous mental abuse n disrespect...but no more. Enough is enough. I stand up again n first v thing I want to love myself ..right from a small child uptill now..I😊 I select people v carefully now ..I need best wishes from you all..

@yourmorningbird 9 ай бұрын

I love how you outline the difference between arrogance and confidence. So true. Thanks for the explanation!

@betteryou6098 8 ай бұрын

I always felt that I needed to lower myself, don’t have worth and thinking that I didn’t deserve anything good because of my trauma. Now that I recovered and my way to healing I still feel the same and people please a lot. Changing how I think of myself is the answer Thank you so much ❤

@FollowerofDuck 2 ай бұрын

subscribed! ive been telling myself that ill focus on self concept but then i end up focusing way too much on sp or literally anything else. now ill actually be placing the focus on me 💅

@schizimsart 8 ай бұрын

I am freaking stoked for the world we are creating!!

@univercent 9 ай бұрын

You should know how uplifting your words are! I woke up feeling like I wasn't able to manifest, and now I know I can do anything.

@jilliannlove5871 9 ай бұрын

I love everything you said.❤ Have built my self concept up the past few months and just know everything I’ve ever wanted is mine. Definitely important to focus on self concept at the same time as your desires.

@Dreamwithjoy 9 ай бұрын

Yess it is! Everything can be tied back to self-concept in some way 🥰

@jilliannlove5871 9 ай бұрын

@@Dreamwithjoy Very true.

@Ms.cosmiquesun 9 ай бұрын

@TheAGODAMI 8 ай бұрын

@@Ms.cosmiquesun 💡 *To "FeeL" is to KNoW.!!!* 🔑

@Myworld-ff2xq 8 ай бұрын

*You don't need to get plastic surgery* hits hard 🥺 coz as a young child i never felt pretty and thought only beautiful people can have good friends. But as i matured i realised its all about self concept 💗. Thank you for your lovely video.

@njmoby 8 ай бұрын

This is part of Hermeticism and I agree completely. Also it is important to love and accept everything and everyone as it is, as well as yourself. In doing so will kill negativity and lack and you become someone who attracts what your new worth is. It will also take any SP off the pedestal. I love you Joy. I have subscribed because we can never have enough of words and ideas such as these.

@JJKcookeryonly 8 ай бұрын

literally, self image = self concept. Believe in what you want and you see it.

@swatitomar7113 9 ай бұрын

That is some rare and realistic take on self- concept. Appreciate it❤️

@anushkafernando7046 9 ай бұрын

So Calming and Authentic and no faking or extra anything.. to the point video.... love it

@literarywitch 6 ай бұрын

this is so good! learned a lot

@khusshburaajput7107 15 күн бұрын

im saving it so i can hear it every week for the rest of my life

@cody_code 9 ай бұрын

Got so many self-limiting beliefs up in here it feels like I'm gonna pass out when I focus on maintaining this mindset 😂 Been practicing for a while, but this was a great listen! Subbed

@evanlaurence2862 8 ай бұрын

Something about this just HITS the right spot. There is a whole lot of other material on the topic but that stuff feels forced and this stuff feels natural!!

@R-hp4mj Ай бұрын

Thank you for making this video. Everything you said was what I needed to hear in my life right now. I was so anxious today feeling like I wasn’t enough and that I didn’t deserve what I desired even though I know I shouldn’t be thinking this way. I feel so uplifted and encouraged. Thank you so much. Well done! I wish you and everyone the watching your content an amazing fulfilled life!

@louieknight8786 8 ай бұрын

Unbelievably executed, thank you for the reminder that the power is within me.

@wellthisisinteresting4912 9 ай бұрын

love this! perfect timing. your personality creates your personal reality so get to working on self concept and how you view yourself, you guys lets gooooo

@user-gu9ju9jp7h 9 ай бұрын

This is the best self concept video i have watched u speak so calmly that it feels like a therapy listening 💕

@ManifestWithMe1111 9 ай бұрын

I’m so happy your channel found me today. I’m grateful for this content. Much needed. Thank You🎉

@kkitties21 9 ай бұрын

your voice is so calming great vid 🫶🫶

@adithyaa21 9 ай бұрын

When i watch this video in the morning i see that you have 459 subscribers now you have 744 your amazing ❤ i'm soo greatful for that i found this video and your channel. Keep going girl looking for more amazing content ✨️

@s.0007 7 ай бұрын

I'm so grateful I found your channel, I love this video I promise to achieve a high self concept because I know what I desire is just around the corner. ✨

@kleom 9 ай бұрын

first of all you’re gorgeous you’re so well spoken and i love your voice and btw this is a really detail video and your tips are very unique so thank u🤍

@mananchheda97 8 ай бұрын

Joy you have an extremely serene voice which resonates deep within even for us. This is really helpful and elevating. We all are rewards like yourself Joy.

@innervision97 9 ай бұрын

I really appreciate the way you broke this down and explained it, I listen to alot ot manifesting and metaphysical content, you explanation is really clear. Just subscribed, looking forward to hearing more from you.

@Twozerofived 9 ай бұрын

thank you for this video. I need a reminder of this message regularly cos it's so easy to forget 😭

@wiana22 8 ай бұрын

This is perhaps the best video I've seen in my life about manifesting and similar topics. I subscribed. Beautiful energy. Thank you.

@shortbreadcookie 9 ай бұрын

When you talked about how kings and queens get what they want and how they are so relaxed, it reminded me of Ava Max’s Kings&Queens 👑✨️ And you rock! Keep doing what you’re doing :))

@bbcapital7953 9 ай бұрын

Really needed to hear this and slow down and trust my self and my power in my reality in life.

@jayjaytr1849 9 ай бұрын

Well here’s the thing When I was in high school my perception of myself was very high but as I grow older I realized I’m very ordinary if anything I’m less… I’m not particularly smart, or beautiful or talented and I compare myself to other a toxic amount to the point where I don’t get close to anyone because they leave me questioning myself. The truth is the reality of my situation eventually beat my perception and reality caught up with me like a tsunami crushing me down more then ever! My self confidence is none existent and it’s only getting worse but what I am doing about this issue with myself is just working with myself everyday.. the first step is that I’m aware of the issue so that’s great. Life is what you make it SOMETIMES for SOME people. Perception is not reality, sometimes is it but only to you.

@mikelucas5845 8 ай бұрын

Many of us have been down the road you are describing but we are coming out the other side loving ourselves unconditionally. Keep going because you are 100 percent lovable ❤️

@maria22662 9 ай бұрын

thank you so much for such an informative video! and your examples of how to practice self concept were truly great, subscribed! ❤

@Angell_Lee 9 ай бұрын

You are such a Gem, what a beautiful human being you are. Thank you so much Joy xo

@andrci 8 ай бұрын

new sub! loved how you explained the importance of having a good self concept in a clear and easy manner 🥰

@starrstuff9862 9 ай бұрын

Wow. Absolutely amazing video. Love your insights and how you express and explain them! I also love towards the end, you say- idk maybe this isn't the way manifest your life...but this is how I did it! I even journaled about some things you brought up. And questions you asked. I really loved how provoked it made my mine! Thanks for sharing. 🙏💚

@Jamilah.L 9 ай бұрын

JOY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! You honestly touched my heart with this beautiful sweetmessage and making me realise how important it is i view myself first before even thinking about others.😘❤💞

@vanessamartinez6760 9 ай бұрын

This was so relaxing to watch, I’ve needed to make affirmations a routine because I’d fall back into lack mindset so many times, this was amazing thank you ❤

@justiceearth9702 8 ай бұрын

I love the concept of personifying money

@IAM6figureearner 8 ай бұрын

Thank you! I needed to hear this message all my life, but in this moment. I love you, you are one of a kind, different, stand out from every of manifesting teacher. Thank you again for this video!❤

@chris72972 8 ай бұрын

You are a beautiful soul. I was seeking Joy, and I found you. Thank you for reminding me of my worth. I wish I could surround myself with friends like you. By the way, I stayed to the end without skipping, because you are worth listening to!

@Jenna-vj2ju 5 ай бұрын

You just earned a new subscriber! Beautiful and a much needed video! Keep it up💗

@JolyTematio-wu6zy 26 күн бұрын

This was so good! Thank you Joy

@Hautenani 9 ай бұрын

Subscribed!!!!! Amazing way you out things. I feel so powerful and so much of what I’ve been trying to learn has finally clicked. Thank you love ❤❤❤❤

@AdrianMark 9 ай бұрын

So well articulated. Thanks for this.

@user-hu7ks7wn5q 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for this wonderful video💖. I needed to hear it this morning.

@Ang212M 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! This video is right on time. 🙌🏽 I needed to hear this today, in this moment. This is how l used to feel and need to get back to it.❤️

@hemiltonxo 8 ай бұрын

All I need to hear for now and forever. Thank You!!!

@SafeHavenStudiosLLC 9 ай бұрын

This is such a powerful message. Shared and subscribed. Thank you ❤❤❤

@Ambrosia_144 8 ай бұрын

I just discovered your channel, it was in my recommended list. I feel so blessed after listening to your videos. I already started binge watching them. Your messages are mind blowing mega good and your voice is soo soothing!! I don’t know you but somehow I love you 😅. I Immediately subscribed. I can’t wait to listen to your next videos. Sending you lots of love & light. ✨

@olas4072 9 ай бұрын

this video is soo comforting and you look soo pretty 💜

@mamaprism 9 ай бұрын

Great video! Self concept is everything ✨

@rntko7316 8 ай бұрын

Thank you, watching this video and another one of yours, has reminded me of my power and i really needed to be reminded of that.

@elizabethd.mehrabian1582 9 ай бұрын

Wow ❤ THANK YOU. I really needed this today and there you are. Grateful for your content. Keep shinning your North star 🌟 💫 ❤⭐️ ❤🌟

@n1313_ 9 ай бұрын

I love this, your energy is relaxing ❤

@mocerlaalacbaino 7 ай бұрын

I realized something as well, its about pride/confidence. When you do things in certain order, you just have more pride because of that behavior. Like rather than eating directly from cooker, if you take it out on a plate, then eat it. It makes you feel right. When we do stuff wrongly, we just hide it from others. Like, we don't want to show others that we sometimes don't wash hands after tying our shoelaces. But when you do. It just keeps up. And you feel better internally.

@marylamonica4017 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely love your comment and videos Thankyou for freely sharing this with us all ❤❤❤

@kikimbenzi 9 ай бұрын

KZfaq recommended this to me twice ❤❤❤

@AlytheAbundant 9 ай бұрын

I love you too! You are an amazing speaker and wonderful thinker. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us!

@mydanny6523 9 ай бұрын

I like how you talk and explain about self-concept very well. 👏🏼✨

@boby_j4704 9 ай бұрын

What a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing!

@Rainjojo 8 ай бұрын

Listening to this for my morning affirmations made me feel so powerful

@aaronst.julien1391 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! It's already done!❤❤❤

@Success_queen15 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much joy ❤ I love all of your videos they helped me so much

@innervision97 5 ай бұрын

Downloaded this video to keep it on a demand for whenevere i need it. I geew up just generally hating myself and not seeing my worth and unconsciously carried that program around with me. I basically ruined my life before it even began. Thank you for always motivating me. I really want to book you for coaching one day.

@ahmedzain8807 8 ай бұрын

Wow!! It's my first time to see a girl that is wise, deep, and pretty at the same time.. Hope you all the best I've learnt a lot from you. Thank you ❤️

@ttpower88 8 ай бұрын

You are amazing...I hope your channel grows!

@desraoushe 2 ай бұрын

This video is perfect just what I needed thank you!

@yosoyhela 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for this video, the king Queen mentality help see the things in other ways, like yeah... the queen can't be stressed or anxious for everything, she need to believe that everything is going to be ok❤

@sarahmountstudios3188 9 ай бұрын

A stunning message, Thankyou.

@chanelleee. 9 ай бұрын

I want to see myself in positive light ❤

@mikelucas5845 8 ай бұрын

You are worthy and awesome! ❤️

@chanelleee. 8 ай бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate it ❤️

@vanessaprincesssa 9 ай бұрын

This is one of the best videos, because you say it in a way that others have not done or said it before! Love it. Wish you all the best ❤❤

@sephfcuoctasphere1978 8 ай бұрын

Hello, this video popped up in front of me today. This is my introduction to you and your channel. Thank you for this video. I value and appreciate what you are sharing here, and your voice feels good.

@gingeoram 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. You are a relatable and effective communicator - and I needed to see this video tonight.

@BratzGyall 6 ай бұрын

Thankyou Joy! You are a real one ❤️ selfconcept IS NR 1

@adrianne7045 9 ай бұрын

Great information 😊 I love the king and queen concept on living on faith that you know what to do and not stress. We problem solve everyday just take the stress and chase out of it!!

@jasonh4023 9 ай бұрын

You deserve more subscribers. Love this video

@jokarimi4542 9 ай бұрын

thank you for creating this video 💜

@ActivateLA 8 ай бұрын

I needed this,thank you and keep it going 👍🏽

@tharukree7848 9 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤ I needed to be reminded of who I am 😊

@nimasoraya1193 9 ай бұрын

What a beautiful soul you are. Inside and out. Thank you for your precious video 👸🏻💖🙏

@Lexlivinn 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely love this

@Brand-of6eo 8 ай бұрын

So important. Thank you for the reminder.

@Danster82 7 ай бұрын

When dealing with self concepts of worth you have to be careful. For worth in reality is neutral, no one is worth more than another or all are equally worthy for they are all created by the creator and there in lies your ultimate self worth. In the consciousness of separation / duality you can move your worth up and down a scale by making yourself more or less worthy than others in your eyes. Therefore any higher or lessor worth gained this way is at a cost because it will always require constant energy to maintain it.