Building Trust Remotely

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Simon Sinek

Simon Sinek

2 жыл бұрын

Trust is what happens BETWEEN the MEETINGS
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Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.
Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.
Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.
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@travellingslim
@travellingslim 2 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, being remote has been so beneficial to my productivity and mental health. I dreaded those before-and-after meeting conversations, random people interrupting me with small talk, and even the many useless meetings in the first place. Now I can just hop in a meeting instantly, put myself on mute until I have something to say, and after the meeting I can go right back to work. Conversations with my immediate coworkers have changed to 100% productivity with none of the fluff. Of course I still care about them and if they're having troubles outside of work or want to discuss something non-work-related, I am all ears, but removing the meaningless small-talk and time-waste ("hey do you want to get some coffee and waste an hour of work?") has been super helpful to me. For me, remote trust is when you deliver on your work and people know they can count on you doing a good job wherever you may be. We still have weekly tagups with our immediate team and usually talk about life stuff rather than work. It's nice to have that as a 30 minute slot per week rather than sprinkled throughout every day usually interrupting focus.
@fsilva8674
@fsilva8674 2 жыл бұрын
Your comments are interesting. Anyway, it seems you already knew your team mates personnaly. I think the challenge Simon is talking about is building trust virtually, that means you don't know the people you will have to work with.
@Glennpoythr
@Glennpoythr 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@michellearant1735
@michellearant1735 2 жыл бұрын
@@fsilva8674 I am also an introvert and been in the situation where I joined a new team during COVID and had to build the relationships virtually. I can honestly say I was successful in getting to know my colleagues through regular video conferencing and MS teams calls and have built friendships with people I have only ever met virtually. I think it really depends on the individual and what they feel comfortable with but I can 100% say for me that building trust virtually wasn't difficult for me because of the reasons the OP stated. I am more outgoing virtually than I am in person because in person drains my energy.
@fsilva8674
@fsilva8674 2 жыл бұрын
@@michellearant1735 That's cool Michelle, thanks for sharing. Yes, I think it's possible, if this transition to virtual work is well organized and led. Considering that there are people of all types in companies, this requires that the leadership has enough empathy to deal with them all. During the pandemic and the migration to virtual, I saw good and bad examples of leadership. While some managed to improve relationships between employees, others left people isolated and voiceless in virtual meetings.
@dmitrisirbu7450
@dmitrisirbu7450 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I don't want actually that my coworkers know about me. My personal life is mine, it should be up to me what to share and what not. Never understood this idea of "have-to-talk-about-yourself".
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын
Mastering the art of listening builds any trust with anybody virtually or in person 👍🏼
@World_citizen_dz_fr
@World_citizen_dz_fr 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed. The feeling of being heard create create respect
@ijblessjourney
@ijblessjourney 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve practiced this for a long time and it’s amazing the relationship you build through time.
@Fishman628
@Fishman628 2 жыл бұрын
Trust is just about treat each other as a human. In other words, is about applying the golden rule in every situation we could deal with. You always hit the bull's eyes, Simon.
@GrowthMindsetChannel
@GrowthMindsetChannel 2 жыл бұрын
“If no one ever broke the rules, then we’d never advance.” ~ Simon Sinek 💪🏻🚀
@shawn1650
@shawn1650 2 жыл бұрын
I have very recently become a kitchen manager in a small pub, millenials, leaders eat last... There has been at least a couple times where I have done something as a leader. Ironically you had a video that day about exactly what I did. I'm listening, thank you!
@GetBusyLiving27
@GetBusyLiving27 2 жыл бұрын
I have a crush on Simon both physically and intellectually.
@elviratukaeva5650
@elviratukaeva5650 2 жыл бұрын
My dear you are not alone, welcome to the club 😊
@quinntheqt4281
@quinntheqt4281 2 жыл бұрын
Step aside ladies. 😍😍
@muellerphyllis
@muellerphyllis 2 жыл бұрын
He is quite hot.
@amritaguptanair1010
@amritaguptanair1010 2 жыл бұрын
It's so easy to have a crush on him. How is he soooo sensible all the time!!!!!
@ericapelz260
@ericapelz260 Жыл бұрын
​@@amritaguptanair1010 because we only see the best version if him. He may well be amazing the rest of the time, but we don't know.
@maxigol1977
@maxigol1977 2 жыл бұрын
It's great and I wholeheartedly am on board. The issue is that many people (not just bosses, but employees themselves) absolutely do not want to interact with each other and welcome the remote working. Bosses see their workers as drones and employees just want a paycheck. What they both don't understand is that seeing each other as human beings promotes relationships which promotes a better state of mind which promotes productivity. Yes, it's a lot of work, but the results are worth it.
@mburton9253
@mburton9253 2 жыл бұрын
Because we don't trust that we're safe with them. We live in a judgemental society where social media gives instant negative feedback, and it is very, very hard to step into the possibility of that negativity being present in person. Work on building the trust. Some people from my husband's workplace have a 5:30 group Zoom every Tuesday and anyone can come and go as they please, and they shoot the shit and drink whiskey (or whatever they want). It has created a core group of people from various departments who are comfortable together, and their connection aids in creating a safe environment for the more introverted or the rookies. Little things like this go a long way.
@izawaniek2568
@izawaniek2568 2 жыл бұрын
These observations and tips are so very helpful and worth implementation. Thank you.
@magicmiguel5175
@magicmiguel5175 2 жыл бұрын
Yes ! I think the same working together is a good to build trust!
@kristydrew5717
@kristydrew5717 2 жыл бұрын
I think that it is very important to really be open minded and I think that you're right Kelly, sometimes we think we are, but not that isn't always the case. Doing a little self examination every once in awhile is always a good thing!
@SoloMotivation
@SoloMotivation 2 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to be what you might've been, if you can dream it, you can do it so trust yourself that you can do it and get it. I hope my message save some souls! Thanks for reading 💕💕💕💕💕
@ice-mp5dx
@ice-mp5dx 2 жыл бұрын
My remote work is 1000 percent productivity and quality. Zero interactions with coworkers.
@theTeslaFalcon
@theTeslaFalcon 2 жыл бұрын
In every office I was in, the general attitude was directly expressed by one co-worker who came up & asked, "How's it going?" Wife & I had just had another major blowup as we sank into lowest point of our 5 yr marriage. We were seriously contemplating divorce. (We celebrate 27 years together next month.) When he asked, I opened up. After ~5 minutes, he put up his hand & said, "Did I that come out sounding sincere? I have a bad habit of that. Let's try this again. How's it going?" I coldly said, "Fine, how are you?" He then told me what wanted from me.
@elviratukaeva5650
@elviratukaeva5650 2 жыл бұрын
Huddle what a sweet idea 🥰
@enjoytheshow08
@enjoytheshow08 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely man.
@rogerbruce2896
@rogerbruce2896 2 жыл бұрын
This is good!! I have 20 people I help motivate, lead and remove road blocks remotely. Need more on the topic Leadership in remote environments.
@mburton9253
@mburton9253 2 жыл бұрын
COVID made me lose trust in the company I was with. It became about numbers and not the people. The justification was the numbers made it possible to take care of the people, but the people started to feel like they didn't matter despite raises and bonuses. 12 years, 2 promotions, and 2 transfers later... I gave my two week notice and have felt relief since leaving.
@samianraheem369
@samianraheem369 2 жыл бұрын
You're amazing. I can't tell you how much I love listening your *Thank you Thursdays*.... I sometimes even cry after listening those...💐
@liamhowgate4022
@liamhowgate4022 2 жыл бұрын
I find WFH and being remote from my colleagues, on the whole, terrible. Not because I'm a massive extrovert and I necessary need their company, but because I find communication through Email, Message, WhatsApp, Insert social media of choice etc so banal and soulless. The artificial and de-personal nature of those forms of communication just don't lend themselves to building connection and trust between humans. This is all subjective of course, but I personally feel so much more stimulated and motivated when meeting colleagues face-to-face regularly in an office environment Not that embracing technology, and using that to foster relationships (personal or professional) is bad or wrong in any way
@kevinhayes423
@kevinhayes423 2 жыл бұрын
what are some good example "huddle questions" that you can share?
@selfhelpchampion9664
@selfhelpchampion9664 2 жыл бұрын
The more you know, the more you know you don't know Aristotle
@godojoshi1550
@godojoshi1550 Жыл бұрын
I'm really curios how the IT will look like after 10-15 years of such a global remote work approach. Making a software for almost 20 years, I see that the biggest issue is communication. The larger company is the worse communication issues emerge. Communication between business and IT, between different departments in IT, different teams, even between team members. And it wasn't so remote as now. Additionally, I cannot see how agile methods like Scrum can work fully in remote approach. For me, being agile is communication, flexibility, cooperation and Trust. And it's really hard to see a human being when you talk to your screen ;) It's like talking and working with avatars, not real humans. So, don't be surprise that one day you will loose your job being replaced with AI bot and nobody will complain. For the others, there won't be any difference between real You and a bot. You both are remote.
@amitdahal1698
@amitdahal1698 Жыл бұрын
LEGO’s ❤
@vincentpoole7588
@vincentpoole7588 2 жыл бұрын
S/S. You can choose friends, except you cannot select family in living sir ! Trust a concept which is unreal ? V.
@jeronimotamayolopera4834
@jeronimotamayolopera4834 Жыл бұрын
@1dolinski
@1dolinski 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Simon -- sent you a dm on Instagram, have a few thoughts about building online trust / reputation. If it's not too crazy, I'd like to talk with you for 10 mins.
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