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I was a student mother..my mum was the toughest in the area we lived in..everyone knew her..when I came home pregnant n crying..she broke down with me..she hugged me n told me we shall get through it..and indeed we did get through it..

Woooooow I like the episode Mulondo has matched very well as the wife Mathew as Angie 😅 Salvador has shared both Pumla and Rosette's character.....😀 Very lively.... Ben as serious as the wife😅😅😅😅😅😅😅. Enjoyed and learnt.

The Spouses to these men, Bambi forgive them if you feel like they over-shared. We needed it raw.

Ben showed the best poise,Mulondo was the most joyous,Mathew was the most calm and ofcourse Salvador was there to stir fun😂😂😂😂but kudos guys it was alllllll intriguing and actually straightening at the same time

Brian seems mindful in his interventions, which is nice. I also get vibes that his marriage to Manuela is founded on partnership and friendship. I see it in the way they interact, which is a better approach as opposed to expectations around holding just a title of wife and husband. Doesn't mean they dont have problems, seems they are comfortable being vulnerable around eachother. Most men in Ug mistake being vulnerable to being weak. They are OK being vulnerable everywhere else but at home, which is why they dont feel taken care of by their spouses. I know women we are not innocent in all this but men do set trends on how they get treated at home.

If there's anything this episode has taught me, it's that women and men are very different. I have always known this fact, but this episode has confirmed it so firmly. And whereas some of the opinions expressed were honestly hard to swallow, I am glad men are opening up and as women, we need to listen with open minds. One thing surely stood out for me, the roles of husbands and wives in the bible need to be honored for marriages to work. The more we fight them, the worse it gets. If the man pays the bills and provides and protects, what's hard about giving him juice when he gets home and understanding what mood he's in so as to know when to pick a fight and when not to. Whereas we can wear the pants at work and be boss babes, let's leave those pants at work and not carry them home.

Never commented on anything ever but couldn't resist. This conversation can run you up a wall with the patriarchal attitudes, excuses,and sense of entitlement, but the fact is we need to celebrate the fact that men can finally share their honest(even when unpleasant) thoughts and feelings. That's the beginning of dialogue, which will hopefully bring about mutual understanding.

What a time to be alive...men getting to express themselves,giving their PoV, being vulnerable & honest. This is a facet of equality,allowing all sides to be heard. Thank You!

Brian, there could not have been a better host 🥳

I loved the part Salvador talked about men being supported during pregnancy too so they better support their spouses

Loved this panel ,they should be the one talking to our young boys ,they should be used as the face of our men in our generation,all married ,hard working ….

Kindly note that no one knows when they are at depression. please don't blame anyone for the aftermath, you men need to observe the character change, even with other people like our parents, you cannot blame anyone for not telling you that they are getting in to depression, they just don't know or they are in denial. its never easy for anyone

Mathew is an empath, love that. If all men could relate like him

Exactly what my mother told me. Whenever you accuse a man of cheating when he is not cheating, he will actually think or wish he had cheated. Men men!

Hello bump love gents...as a married woman i have learnt alot about men i can can relate with everything that has been discussed. Sincere thanks to these men n host. Special one to ben mwine great guy last met him in 2015 in bugolobi dissecting the ugandas budget at the time

Nedda Nedda we need a part 2... Wisdom.. Not married yet no baby yet but am glad to be a family here on bump love... Salvador was just so honest bambi

Salvador, thank you for your transparency.

The chemistry between the men is 👌🏾

This episode is worth going globally viral. "Is it a premier league"😂😂😂😂😂 the things we take for granted.

Great presentation . they should have thrown pumla in there. To add salt into the wound.

I love bumplove and was excited for the men take over but I couldn’t get myself to watch till the end. There was a lack of accountability for the most part. There was visible evidence of a lack of communication but very high expectations of women in marriage. I personally lost it when the “ men being friends with their wives and women forgetting their place “ statement was made. It felt as though women are more like servants and men are some where in a high place that women shouldn’t have access to. I understand men rarely speak up and we don’t want criticize what was said but this also feels like we gaslighting each other into not expressing how it felt listening to this conversation. I think expressing ourselves should start a conversation of self examination. Now there could have been better points that I missed because I couldn’t finish the show. I really hope there was. Otherwise, this shows our men need to be more intentional with working on their self awareness, communication and understanding when it’s healthy to feed the ego and when to not. Thanks!

This show was so 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 i laughed from the begining to the end. Naye the discussion was on point. Please bring them back😊😊

Salvador and ben are the most honest and raw…..legit🤜🏾

The way Nabwiso cleaned up his face and put the katambala aside😂😂😂. He was prepared for this question

This one was world cup for me..We need these men back @Bump love

And if Andrew Kyamagero joined you gentlemen, I can't even imagine what would've happened. Can you please feature him on the next men's edition.

This labour thing with my bae made me feel the most loved woman in the whole world, all the night I was dancing with my labour pains he was there to help me go through it and I can never compare it to any thing else.

Wow...in listening to these men in detail am starting to have a different perspective on marriage. It's about tolerance, it's about respect, support and effort. Thank you gentlemen and the incredible women beside each of you

It's amazing how Manuela and Brian speak so alike 😀

I actually normally enjoy the men on this show but this one has grated my soul cos patriarchy is all over this episode. The entitlement is very very wildddddd. I just have one question for these men, if ur doing what ur providing as u say u are why are ur women still working ? They should be ladies of leisure retired off and enjoying life. Men expect women to work just as hard as them then come home and pamper the men ??? Not a single conversation was had about collaborative working in relations. I hateeeee it here sooo much.

Mwine still upholds the traditional gender roles 😂. It's not just a woman's responsibility to keep the fire burning. Are you providing her emotional needs. Most men think it's all about the money and the woman should be the nurturer to everyone else in the home, displinarian, do the homework, work outside the home, etc. All these things take an emotional toll on the woman making sex the last thing on her mind. I think you should treat your spouse as a friend not a servant. Why not grab that juice from the fridge? Is it such a herculean task? Imagine if your able bodied wife asked you to remove her shoes every single day. Would you do it? Culture should evolve. Many of the so called gender roles are just skills and responsibilities that should be done by all people. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Very solid panel. Ben's submission on finances should be every woman's take home

What an episode! 🙂Please bring these guys to the show more often

Great show! married and those planning to get married NEED to watch it. Both women and men. Thank you guys.

This is interesting 😁 It's always nice knowing the men's perspective.

Please please please please please,we need them back,this is going to save my marriage,i honestly didn't know what i was doing in marriage

This is really good. When men have it. It helps a young father like me grow up. Whoever put it together thank you.

How am praying for another episode like this but with both men and women on set. Am already imagining Pumla Nabachwa's views on such a hot topic 🥰

This thing of married people looking alike is sooo true. I see it in the men.

Just create a show wit the men . I think people need such an honest conversation 👏🏾

Great perspectives. From this insightful tete - a- tete, I come to the conclusion that men want the same thing. A Nigerian- man from Malaysia.

When I was dealing with postpartum depression, my mother in law could tell I was not okay. She talked to my husband and asked him to find me help. I am grateful to her because I would have gotten worse had I not been treated. Like Ben said, my husband was clueless. He talked to my ob gyn who helped find us the right doctor. Honestly as mothers, it’s not easy to notice you’re suffering from PPD. So you can’t just wakeup and tell someone you’re dealing with depression. And even after you’re diagnosed with PPD, it’s hard to accept help initially. In this age of information at your fingertips(Internet, books etc), men should research some of these things or better still always join your wives for all their antenatal visits, know their doctors, ask questions etc

Absolutely to fantastic to have balanced the boat on this forum!!!! Thank You!!! Great insight from our Gentlemen!!! Tubebaza xx

Oh my God this was so beautiful! The urge to type my comments here kept up but the zeal to watch the next minute of the MEN's discussion overpowered me. Watched till the end and kept my phone on do not disturb! What a show that was! What a realistic discussion the men gave us. It is such a beautiful segment of bump love and I hope we often get them on the show. You all women to these MEN are married to exciting husbands. Your families are lucky to have you both as husbands and wives.

Fantastic episode! I learnt alot from this. Please organise another for us to be better wives and wives-to-be😊

Kudos to y'all wives bantu mwe, yr the men of our generation n surely yr so different 🙏🏼kudos to the Mwine', mulondo',idring'& Namwiso'..Bambi, bakyaala, mmwebale🙏🏼thanks for yr contribution era mwalonda bulungi🙌🙌🙌🙌

U guys are clearly friends!!!! I feel Eleanor has a very good hubby.....most men miss that.......the Bible clearly says women are the weaker vessel....so husbands deal with your wives with understanding......Ben and Brian look and sound like their wives 😅. Salvador's stories were so relatable and i learnt alot.

Love how honest Salvador is. By the way we miss those couple shows when are you resuming? Love hearing from the men's perspective

Came here to hear praises for women naye mama ho! The men are using this episode to vent 😆 Anyways,I'm grateful for this honest conversation from you all our distinguished special hosts. My man will reap from the nuggets I've picked from this conversation. Thanks Bumplove.

Ben Ben u have saved marriages...that was deep... Kudos Rachael ❤️

Thanks the men I love the way Mathew brought out his statements but the men really nailed it naye the I wish pumla was here for muchuzi mix😂😂💕💕💕

I love the maturity that was displayed here.

Wow wow! It's amazing to hear from men, Fabulous 4, please come back again. Maximum respect to all of you, thank you for enlightening us.

But Brian you have a naughty face, the laugh and facial expressions of when you did that slay queen mimicking, eyeroll and finger up - I died😆😆😆

I love the fact that Salivordor is learning together with wife..... Thanx guys for bringing yr ladies along on the finances

Let's all of us know wat to do,..let's play or balance our roles as adults..ladies tuterezeemu ko..the respect is needed, gents are asking bambi🙏🏼

Mulondo kudos, you always speak respectfully about your wife no matter what!. You don’t just speak fwaa.. that is lovely

Thanks Mathew, Salvador, mulondo and Bebecool too cos he was there for mum zuena during childbirth, banange, men bambi be part,..tudaamu kumanyi'..y'all shd go together for child birth seriously..it even brings that closure n respect for yr women🙏🏼

What a vibe! Ben's accent sounds perfect but bring them often pleaseeeee..i have enjoyed every inch of it

Lots of love from Kigali Rwanda. Big up to yourselves great minds. It's my first time to see Mbokoro like this serious.

Thank you Bump love for these men doing the show. it gives a great insight to us

Ben Mwine; thank you so much for being open, honest and vulnerable. It’s refreshing to see & you are one of a kind man. May God bless you with success.

Salvador is right. To married couples, if you know you’re not ready to leave your partner, never speak ill of your partner to your family. Tomorrow you will forgive your partner but the family holds onto that hurt. And thats where the lack of respect and anger towards your partner begins. You would rather talk to a councillor or therapist or the person who was ordained to council you in your marriage.

Indeed comedian Salvador. Great words and pieces of good wisdom from the men

woooooh, Good communication skills and relationship skills has really been a key point in family and society .Thank you bump love ❤

Wondering episode indeed. Please include subtitles when speaking in your native tongues, so those who are not from Uganda can laugh with you 😂😂😂

Era you chose well. All these guys haven't yet been registered in cheating scandals. And they all have respected their wives.

But can we have these men back???? Pulizzzzzzz I loved this show, watching it the 4th time

This was amazing!!! I have learnt a lot, thank you for sharing your lives with us. Many more blessings

Watching this very late (11pm) I even don't want to sleep this is too good y'all. These should be done more often please

I definitely love this, great episode, will surely need more of these, thanks guys.

Omusajja eyasoma hints different naye ba ssekigandda ba down town naaaa naaaaa naaaa🫡thumb up bump love ❤️

Matthew has solid facts. Great show, dear men. Read Bishop Daag's book on the need for women to provide.

This was educative about how men feel about women n vide vasa plz let me men come again next time it was reflecting and opening for me . Especially on the emotional n respect bit of it. As for the finances we need to always give our men the power to do their roles even when we’re earning more than them.

I love that y'all came out so real. And i keep talking to my fellow women about the man's ego. Also I speak about how most of the things are natural instinct to women especially parenthood but unfortunately are not as obvious when it comes to men. And this can strain the relationship.

Where to draw the line between friendship and authority of the husband. Eh! Thank you gentlemen. Very very amazing show

The show was 🔥 🔥. Let them come back 😂😂😂

What an episode👏 we need more such hosts BUT men have lots of excuses banaaye.

Am glad am here to listen to these men unfortunately my husband can't watch such even when I forward to him he is like eeeeh okay I will watch later...Am prgnt now and its so bad my husband won't be there with me and I can understand tye system of his work can't allow him till December and he is so angry with it however much I want him close to me its now me encouraging him that I will be fine..be4 I so furious about it but now I truly understand and I thank God he has been with me all through these months yes Men are so quick to give up especially when the bills come unexpected he is like naye banange kiki kyo but for men who have stayed God bless you

Ooh my ....!!!, the show was so educative, it is fun, learning. Much respect 🙏 Bump Love ❤ 😍

I used to quickly flip by Pearl Magic except to watch Mzigo Express , till I saw Sanyu, the Nabwisos did a great job . The set and talent 👏 👌

Hands down for these men, Bumploveug, bring these men back liz pliz

This show is full of laughter's we need another episode

By far the best Bump love innovation 2023!!!!!!!!!! perfecto!

We can't thank you enough but you have really done us good. Mutukoze obulungi obutagambika.

This episode was both hilarious and informative. Thank you gentlemen.

Their laughter is contagious 😂

It was so informative. The best session is when they talked about how men like to be treated.... respect....serving them etc....

Walayi this has been the best episode since the year began 🥰🥰 with love ...

Great discussion thanks. Just to let you know that sometimes even the Nakawele doesn’t know that she has postnatal depression. So when she does not behave as she should, be observant and can consult the doctor.

Wow.........this was a great show by the guys!

I have loved the maturity and right judgement with which all issues are discussed! Keep it up🙏

This was very interesting. I liked this because it bursts open my bubble. I know that this panel represents men out there, especially the kind you want to build a future with. Marriage as an institution is conservative and remains so in Uganda no matter how progressive a man presents himself at the start.

I am so so grateful for this show Bumplove. I have discovered my mistakes in marriage and are determined to do better. I hope though that it is not too late...... But thanks. The men made every effort to be honest...

We should have this more often I honesty learnt a lot… But salvador’ story of the lockdown was so relatable 😂😂😂😂Great job guys👍

Thanks for the show guys.😁🥰 I remember after I had our first baby, I got a terrible rash on my face and hubby was like babe let’s get something to clear ur face it doesn’t look good and I felt attacked atte nenyomba then told him just love me how I am it seems u nolonger feel the same way for me 🤦🏻‍♀️ But he didn’t listen to me just went on and had an appointment for my facial and I started on the care routine Now my skin is so clearer than it has ever been and we always joke about it now 😁

Men take over has killed me today.. thanks bump love, i have failed to even ask my question because of laughter🤣

I have really enjoyed and learnt alot from this show especially on the financial bit of it can you please bring these interesting gentle men again

This is so touching, educative from men show. Kindly this shouldn't stop