Don't Do These 10 Things in 2024...And I Guarantee You'll Look & Feel Amazing

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Sharing 10 things that you shouldn't do if you want to feel and look your best this year! Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo
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@Butterflygirl1871 Жыл бұрын

1.Don’t wear clothes that you don’t love 2.Don’t forget about your basics 3.Don’t be afraid to take risks 4.Don’t play the comparison game 5.Don’t question your worthiness 6.Don’t berate your body 7.Don’t live in darkness 8.Don’t be invisible 9.Don’t play small 10.Don’t give up You’re welcome, but still watch the video. It’s highly informative 😊

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching! xo

@mmommo10 Жыл бұрын

Happy New Year!

@kathygann7632 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for summarizing. Of course I’m watching the whole thing.

@christineburslem928 Жыл бұрын

I really needed reading this list spelled out while I was listening 🫶🏻

@christineburslem928 Жыл бұрын

Definitely saving this video to rewatch and mentally reset as needed …. That will be Frequently 🫢😎💜

@carolbohn5900 Жыл бұрын

That video just blew me away. People pay psychologists for this stuff! Your voice is so calm and firm, Erin, and so inspirational. It's so evident you want to help your viewers, not just pass on fashion advice...although we love that as well! One of the biggies to me is the comparison game. It can be toxic. We are all too hard on ourselves and it thwarts who we really are. This video is a breakthrough in your direction as an influencer. Bravo!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for your support. Truly appreciate you more than you know, Carol! xo

@moonbaby8743 Жыл бұрын

💯%! I have watched you since 2018, and you keep improving. ❤❤❤❤❤

@gibsondonohoe3369 Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing about your voice. So pleasant…soothing and calming. Really enjoyed this video! 😊💖

@annettelesarge8462 11 ай бұрын

I agree 100%❤

@dduke8326 Жыл бұрын

My goal was to be a published author. Several years of rejections nearly killed me, but I decided that getting my work out there was more important, so I self published digitally. I just released my third book and I’m working on my fourth. Maybe I’ll never quit my day job for it, but I’m more fulfilled just writing and putting it out there. My advice? Go. Do. Don’t be afraid.

@heidigunter6766 Жыл бұрын

You will be a published author. That is my goal too, yet I've not even tried. Your message is inspiring.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing! xo

@kristymarie6065 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. I don’t even know where to start… I want to write a book for those suffering with ocd and pure o. Glad you made it happen

@cindyvaught3351 Жыл бұрын

I will embrace the DON’Ts !!! Exactly what I needed to hear this morning! I’m 65 and got rid of 45 pounds last year. I say “rid of” instead of “lost” because I never want to find those unwanted fat pounds again!! New goals this year to work on muscle tone. I’m trying to embrace the loose skin….The loose skin makes me much happier than the overweight feelings ever did. I’m loving the JOY back in my life ❤

@bevalexander5897 Жыл бұрын

Awesome! I’m kind of in the same place. I’ve recently lost 30 lbs and have 20 to go. I used to be so fit. Long distance runner, etc. But, after 3 major surgeries in 2 yrs, that all changed. Still, I’ve decided I’m going to stay around long enough for my grandkids to make me a great-grandma.😄 Keep up with the journey!

@DawnCoen Жыл бұрын

I'm with you, Cindy! Got rid of 85 pounds this year and am trying to embrace the skin - hoping weight training will help!!

@kenitabaum4843 Жыл бұрын

Love this ❤ and congrats on such a a great accomplishment

@Faithb73 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations ❤ loose skin is just a reminder of how far you’ve come! Fasting for autophagy can help your skin, but also, shopping for new flattering clothing pieces will be fun too.

@autumnzellers3855 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations! ❤❤

@Nina_Anders Жыл бұрын

I love this! I am in my 60s and one of the few regrets I have is that I didn't feel worthy, didn't believe I was attractive, often compared myself to others, and took more notice of what I didn't have instead of the many blessings I do have. I wasn't LIVING I am sad for the time I wasted not seeing the abundance, wonder, and joy ripe for our enjoyment. When I went through menopause, all that junk started burning off, and I did start a blog and am doing things I never dreamed I would. This is such an important message. So many women over fifty feel invisible--following these tips will help us step forward and be the women we have always dreamed we would be. It's time.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

So well said! It IS time!! Let the Midlife Awakening begin! 🥰

@PeachesSkinCare Жыл бұрын

This was so well said. I hear this every day from clients. You are enough 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

@Lexi_________ Жыл бұрын

Your makeup and "look" today is just so pretty and flattering on you! My favourite take-away from this video is DON'T wear any clothing items that you don't love or feel confident in...soooo true. I'm going to try my best to take this valuable advice. xo

@birdie6916 Жыл бұрын

Great video! I just turned 44, and am trying to figure out who I am, especially style-wise! Most of my 30s were spent dealing with a major life-changing illness, and my style went out the window! I used to love fashion and felt it was my form of self-expression. Now that I'm on the other side of my illness, I feel like I need to reclaim myself. 2023 will be my year of re-discovery! Especially my style! Thanks for these wonderful tips!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to you on being at the other side of your illness. I am SO excited for you and for what is to come in your life! xo

@birdie6916 Жыл бұрын

@@BusbeeStyle Thank you SO much.💕

@christineburslem928 Жыл бұрын

I’ll soon turn 46.. 44 turning 45, after a decade of unknown illness that caused many issues including morbid obesity, I finally got a medical diagnosis that allowed me to lose 100 lbs… I’m now also rediscovering myself again! Actually 2022 I was doing so, and a broken ankle recent months gave me a weight regain set back.. I’m reinventing AGAIN! Starting from scratch in PT and fashion and my body…. GO FOR IT!! GRAB THIS GREAT OPPORTUNITY YOU HAVE! I will say for me, my journey to find myself like you’re describing had its moments of frustrations and fears, but also so much excitement and empowerment! Congrats!! Cheering you on!!

@teresagreen2327 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for all the great advice. Being age 70, I have found that we are what we tell ourselves we are. So, lets tell ourselves all good things. And I think we are what we choose, so let's choose happy.

@triciaweinstein9063 Жыл бұрын

It would be amazing if you could style some plus size outfits 14-16 that would be so helpful ❤️❤️❤️

@gaelle4328 Жыл бұрын

Actually average US size for women is 16-18, ten years ago it was 14-16. But yes agree only it’s not plus size.

@nancybrouwer-vaas1866 Жыл бұрын

Yass 👍

@mariawennerstrand3075 Жыл бұрын

Oh I would love that! I always feel that I think "It's not going to look good on me". I'm not in a good place in my life. I'm turning 50 in a few months. I want to feel that though I have a few kilos extra can look good.

@channahnoyb4803 Жыл бұрын

She’s not plus size though and I’ve not seen her use models, other than herself, so it would be rather difficult. There are many plus size influencers out there though.

@amara1954 Жыл бұрын

And for those of us over 60, even though you are far from that age🤭

@paulacrump4679 Жыл бұрын

Dang, Erin....you hit the ball out of the park with this video! Your pearls of wisdom hit home with this 63 year-old! Thank you, sweetie!! Happy New Year!!

@croitoriafaraformule Жыл бұрын

I should listen this on repeat 3 times every morning. Thank you, Erin! Have a great year!

@alexisverrett9124 Жыл бұрын

I’m so so grateful for this video. I’m 77 and up until I was well into my 60s I was always self confident. My teeth are crooked and as a young girl they weren’t that bad and it never bothered me to smile,now as age has made things look worse,somewhere along my journey I’ve lost myself. I was a hairdresser for 56 years absolutely loved my trade. I retired at 73 and my life has been upside down. Bags under the eyes,etc. I’ve never looked my age I always looked years younger and then the comparison thing happened. Bless you I’ve always loved fashion and style and a little edgy too. So thankyou for helping me today cause I’m worth it♥️🙏🏻👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

You ARE worth it! I am so glad this video resonates with you, and I hope you rebuild your self confidence and self-love. I'm SO glad you are here! xo

@kathygann7632 Жыл бұрын

I’m so there with you! Where did all these wrinkles come from?!

@dawnkidd1567 Жыл бұрын

Yes,yes,yes. We are harder on ourselves than anyone else. I'm 57 and I'm working toward loving myself. It is very easy to tell someone else I love them but I can't say I love myself. That is extremely sad. I grew up with a lot of abuse and have trouble feeling like I deserve nice things or love. I really feel that not having good self esteem is at the root of many problems in society. I really appreciate how much you stress things like this on your channel. Thank you!!!❤️

@Becca529 Жыл бұрын

Erin your radiant presence is becoming more visible as you unfold into this beautiful current version of yourself & it's so magnetic. So many great points here, at tip to add to the helpful points you made in the video is that this is the perfect time of year to write down all the specific goals in mind. For me this includes shedding some extra energy I've been carrying around since the pandemic, so important for me was to come to a place where my weight/looks do not define me as the last couple yrs have been difficult and a great opportunity to grow spiritually & as a person as a whole. Tips- getting rid of unused old stuff to make way for more life has been my number ONE tip, (one I wish I had done sooner), going through my closet and remove all the clothes that do not fit, & realizing all those clothes looking back at me for the last few years has been a real drag. Now the most beloved garments reside in the guest room closet that I can revisit later. I too have been practicing being a light, smiling at strangers, letting my divine light radiate out and moving away from outfits & behaviors where I have been "hiding". Thanks so much for your authenticity, 💐💛

@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын

I choose to have a radiant presence in my world!

@Kata-jb3iu Жыл бұрын

This was so empowering! I really appreciate how you talk about the connection between style, fashion AND mental health and self-love. You're practically the only style expert I will watch anymore because you teach that a beautiful inside is the most important step to great style. Love the Busbee Team!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

We all love YOU right back! SO glad you are here and finding my message speak to you. xo

@djtomlinson3797 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! You are a beautiful, positive light in this world. I needed to hear all of those "don'ts", especially stopping negative self-talk and criticizing every glance in the mirror. Thank YOU for taking risks and playing big, so we can all benefit from your content! You give us a lot to think about, whether it's fashion or motivation. What a blessing! 💖

@JenniferAntolik Жыл бұрын

Erin! You’re so amazing and inspiring! I have been a stay a home mom of 5 for about 13 years and have definitely lost myself. This last year I decided it’s time to find me again. I ran a marathon and started school for real estate. I’m studying for my exam now and I am inspired by this. It’s my year! 🎉

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

You got this, Jennifer! This IS your year! xo

@Glisten2glory 9 ай бұрын

I'm right there with you ! Stay at home mum for almost 10 years and preparing for my real estate exam ! You got this ! You're amazing!

@Jcislord1860 6 ай бұрын

Congratulations!! Mom here too and work from home. Two kids now but I’ve started weight lifting and lost all weight and built muscle. We can do it!!!! We choose our hard!!

@almabackstrom5414 Жыл бұрын

My dream is doing 7 pullups on my 70th birthday! I'm working hard to get there for my august 1st celebration. May we all keep dreaming.❤❤❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

You've got this! We're cheering you on. It's important that you shared your goal with us here! xo

@naturalwoman8315 Жыл бұрын

You can do it Alma! That’s awesome!

@GlamorousHabits Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this amazing, AMAZING pep talk to start the year! Such fantastic advice, and so much heart, I teared up a couple of times. I'm 49 years old and so much of what you said resonates deeply with me. I am so rooting for your yacht birthday (and mine too!) 💞💞💞

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

YES!!! Love it - rooting yours on too! Thanks so much for being here. I'm honored to be even a small part of your journey. xo

@emiliaescobar7652 Жыл бұрын

Very inspiring! "don't play small" love it!

@DawnCoen Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this message this morning. I just turned 52 and have lost 85 pounds in the last year (reversed type II diabetes) and am feeling better than I ever have. Still, I look in the mirror and catch myself picking at the negative things: extra skin, a bulge here or there, and focusing on the fact that I still have 40 pounds to lose instead of celebrating how awesome I look! I wish it was easier to focus on the positive things! As I watched your video this morning during my run, it reminded me of all of the positive I have in my life. Thank you for that!! 🥰

@melaniemcneil407 Жыл бұрын

You have an amazing body, an amazing mind, and an amazing heart.

@HollyL56 Жыл бұрын

You should be so proud of yourself! 💜 Happy Birthday to you! I just had a birthday myself and turned 55. Wishing you all the best!

@christineburslem928 Жыл бұрын

Love your comment and resonated with me. Last year turning 45, after a decade of unknown weight gain insanity fluctuations, I was finally diagnosed Insulin Resistant… I’m not yet diabetic, I’m told I will become type 2 if I didn’t lose the weight and follow lifestyle changes. I was down 100 lbs in 9 months, then a broken ankle has me currently up 20 lbs again since I went from working out and having become a runner, to finally out of a 24/7 cast 1 week ago. All the negatives you mention.. I’m saying them to myself too! Those same things! And YES!! I need to flip back to my celebratory mindset too when I catch myself being my self destructive body critic! This video, your comment, hearing these things.. it’s like somehow I have this notion I’m the only person thinking and doing such things. Ty for the inspiration, mind boost, sharing your story.. and most of all, CONGRATS on your progress!

@Cynthia-qq1jo Жыл бұрын

Your best video ever! I am 70 and we all need that encouragement. Thank you

@donnapinciottikiniry4648 Жыл бұрын

My goal this year (again) is to surround myself with more good people and to keep putting myself out there even when it is uncomfortable. It worked so well last year. I can’t help but smile thinking about how great last year was. Thank you for this helpful video

@latinaalma1947 Жыл бұрын

Yeah... I will be saying this year.

@yifatjovani333 Жыл бұрын

It is so nice to hear your thoughts. Thank you for sharing.❤️

@juliemckinnon1480 Жыл бұрын

I’m a 57 year old “former” hottie. It’s hard bc when I was younger it was effortless or seemed that way. You get older and you feel the same but you do not get the same reaction from others. It took awhile to realize it. Then you/I kinda felt like an old dented car that you don’t feel deserves a nice wash and wax. I’m going to take all these donts to heart. I’ll be checking back. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and willingness to share with us all. 🥰

@mamasuki Жыл бұрын

Not falling for becoming invisible really speaks to me at 55. And I love your thoughts on redefining the social norms/narratives about women over 40-100 and beyond. I talk to my teen girls about not letting negative social norms/narratives discourage them. But I don’t do the same for myself. Thank you!💜

@heidigunter6766 Жыл бұрын

I like your comment. I'm turning 50 in March. I want to be invisible. Thank you for being courageous and You look beautiful.

@Onehotjuly Жыл бұрын

I completely understand you . I wish I still had my mom to ask questions about life at different ages .

@marie-franced7211 Жыл бұрын

Erin you are so right regarding the visibility. When you age you become invisible and you don’t want to be visible because you don’t like your image for plenty of reasons and you hide yourself or you think that you do no deserve to have beautiful clothes or too visible clothes. Thank you!

@sandygoodman9174 Жыл бұрын

I have always admired well dressed women but never imagined myself as one. I wore hand-me-downs and whatever cheap clothes my family could afford. I had no idea about fashion. Thanks to your videos I have learned some wonderful and useful tips. I recently purchased a beautiful blue blazer which I wore over my blue striped shirt with some Kut from the kloth jeans, in not a style I would have bought before I watched your video. I wore some shiny booties in a cool saddle tan color and added a bold, large link necklace. I went to the mall to exchange some too small shoes and I noticed several women give me "that" look and once-over. I felt like a success. I knew that I had created a super outfit. Thank you so much. Just beginning but definitely finding my style

@pratherlara5321 Жыл бұрын

Thank You! I took notes. You said a lot of things a lot of us need to hear. I was gonna pay a life coach $3000 but I watched this video instead. At 55 I feel old and frumpy and invisible at times. I'm going on a cruise in 2 weeks and I have been working on my wardrobe options. Thank you so much for the encouragement! I want to feel pretty and comfortable in my clothes. I'm going on vacation, the last thing I want is frumpy. I love wearing pretty clothes and shoes and am chunky, so it takes a lot to get to that comfort spot. My mom told me once I only need a few outfits to wear on vacation- I laughed. YOU only need a few outfits, I need as many as it takes to feel fresh and pretty! OK, I'm big on wearing flowers in my hair, that's my secret to sending joy to the world.

@AmySchield Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing these 10 don'ts, Erin! Style is about so much more than the clothes we wear... how we show up for ourselves plays a huge role in how we show up in the world. Thanks again for such awesome advice.

@PeachesSkinCare Жыл бұрын

This was so lovely 🧡 I love when you said,” you are a snowflake”. I think so many need to hear all of this. I have told you before that I am a Holistic Master Esthetician of almost 40 years and I share this because I see things and hear things everyday that break my heart. I am to old I am not pretty I have wrinkles I am not worthy We have got to share more of this… you are a special snowflake! Do not change your face yourself for ridiculous beauty standards set by social media, a beauty industry and marketing. I am almost 57 and accepting this process of age is key. I had to change how I ate. I had to work out more. I had to take even better care of my skin and muscles of my face. But inevitably it’s about self love and not wanting to be someone else or 20 or look like everyone else. I am a creator here and I also needed to hear this. The beauty channels are a tough space and it can be very hard to stay the course of natural and real. Yes BE THE LIGHT! Always turn around and bring another women up not down. Thank you. Blessings to you and everyone here, YOU ARE ENOUGH 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

@juliakiser3356 Жыл бұрын

Erin, you are SO right with this message. I just upgraded my sneakers to the white leather Sam Edelmans and they are so comfortable right from the box and they make me feel and look great! I struggle so much with footwear, so, I used your recommendation and I am so glad that I did! I am making an intention to speak up more in group conversations. I put that into practice recently, letting the group know that "the good ol' days" were NOT GOOD for everyone. Let's keep the momentum going! Thank you for your positivity. Happy New Year!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

LOVE it! What a difference new sneakers can make. Thanks for sharing, Julia! xo

@tracyhicks7613 Жыл бұрын

Hi Julia! I see that you liked the white sneakers that Erin recommended and I love that idea. I am trying to find which ones those were and see several different styles. Do you know the name/which ones they were in that line? Thank you so much if you don’t mind!

@ramonaearnest4709 Жыл бұрын

Your words are so important! We need to hear this! Yes you hit the nail on the head... I am currently working with a beautiful 18 yr young lady. The amount of insecurities I hear her talk about as she compares herself to people on the internet is truly heartbreaking!! I am praying for her and I hope I can help her understand how beautiful she is! I talked to her about how we are all individuals and the world would be a boring place if we were all the same! When I think of this it brings tears to my eyes! I have three Granddaughters and four Grandsons and I want them to be healthy and happy! Yes we all have stuff we are insecure about! My New Year's resolution is to give more compliments and watch people's faces light up! Remember Your opinion of me is none of my business!! This is by far my favorite video..Thank you Erin!!

@jennifercoleman6450 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, this is absolutely beautiful 💜 I feel like I stopped living after I turned 40 😢. Now I’m almost 50, and I have started a self care journey, looking at life differently, I have started online courses to further my career. Thank you! This message resonates with me at this time in my life!! And yes!! Let’s stop the disappearance of women after 40!! This is an amazing time, it’s time to take our lives back! ❤

@ElizabethScottStress Жыл бұрын

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. Thank you so much! I love that we can all support each other in supporting ourselves and "not playing small." 2023 is OUR YEAR! (And 2024 will be too.)

@sandrab6808 Жыл бұрын

Hi Erin ♥️ I love the emphasis on self-love and wellbeing in this video. Well done. I hope many new viewers will watch it, it is so relevant. For me, the part about appreciating your body no matter what is what I must work on most.

@yifatjovani333 Жыл бұрын

I hear you. It is so important to love ourselves and our body, to love ourselves as we are, beautiful and brilliant!❤️

@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын

I love myself❤️

@latinaalma1947 Жыл бұрын

Yes on smiling. People are constantly telling me I draw people to me because I always look so radiantly happy...well it is genuine. I TOO am an introvert but have pushed myself to take social risks to speak first, engage in long conversation, etc. Very recently I lost my beloved mate of 41 yrs. 5 mos ago, BUT I choose to remember how happy we were. I already got waaayyy more than my share of joy, adventure, and love in this life....all I have to do is look around me at all the beauty in my life and I smile. Mynhappimess and joy thst I had before he died have returned. I will ALWAYS love him,,always wish he were here but also I WILL be happy it is HIS legacy. He GAVE me this happiness and I owe it to him to not let it slip away.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband...What a truly beautiful outlook you have on the time you had with him, though! I'm honored to read your story and I can feel the love you have for him. Thank you so much for sharing this here with me. xo

@Jcislord1860 6 ай бұрын

Love this video!!! When I felt insecure after my baby I compared myself. Now I have two kids and extremely fit. Size 0 116 pounds and a pro out almost daily. I chose my hard! No longer comparing or feel insecure! We need to take care of our bodies! Nobody else will and especially in regard to health. You are worthy!!

@gypsyrose5502 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate the authenticity of Erin. I’m way older and learn so much from this channel. Thanks for not trying turn every video into a commercial.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for your sweet words and support. I'm lucky to have amazing women like you here in my corner! xo

@straycat4427 Жыл бұрын

I can't express how happy I am to find you. Not only are you beautiful on the outside, but on the inside as well. I've been watching alot of style videos lately in search of ideas, but none have gone beyond simply telling me to buy clothes from expensive and trendy stores. When I go out and be with people one thing I always keep in mind. Messages that the Universe wants for me come from people. Not trees, rocks, etc. People. I never know if the most significant message I must hear will come from the produce person at the market, the man who pumps my gas at the gas station, the bank teller.....It saddens me to realize how many people think these people are unimportant or even worst, just existing to serve their needs. THE MOST SIGNIFICANT interaction of my day may come from a seemingly unimportant vehicle. The Universe works in unexpected and miraculous ways...if you remain open. And remember that YOU may be the most significant person someone else meets in their day. Be the light...yes, yes, yes!!! I look forward to exploring more videos by you!! Thank you!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Well I am SO glad you are here! Welcome to an amazing community of women. Thanks so much for watching and sharing this lovely reminder. xo

@Pvongvisay Жыл бұрын

I so appreciate you today in this video because I am having my off and emotional day and YOU came through to remind me to be visible, shine through, smile and be bold with my colors! Literally, I felt within this past week that I need to wear more colors and less black so I don’t absorb the negativity. THANK YOU, THANK YOU for being you and where your beautiful mindset is to penetrate through MEE! I am more positive but we have our days of blahh and you really picked me up today! LOVE it! Sending you much love and kindness! ❤❤❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

I am so glad this video came at just the right time for you. Sending light and love your way! xo

@anacolh7710 Жыл бұрын

What a great video Erin, is amazing how you put some many things that is our reality, we need inspiration, we need support we need to think that is not only happening to us, I really appreciate to hear this from someone else. Love your honesty, thank you 😘

@latinaalma1947 Жыл бұрын

As AMERICANS, Canadians, etc etc we have SO SO much more than than so many on this planet. THIS is what we learn from travel. Not to beautiful European cities so much, but to rural Central America, South America, Africa and so any places. Not trying to guilt anyone here. I LIVE in Central America now in retirement and it takes a long time to adjust. At first we feel almost ill when we see extreme poverty, then if we are lucky enough to get to know the PEOPLE in these siuations we develop deep respect for them...their struggles yes, are more than ours, but what matters MOST to them are their families..there are many good and joyous poor people. They dont crave what we crave because they have not had it...they dont yearn for.it. They look forward to holidays MORE than we do and what they have they are thankful for. And they really know how to treasure beauty in their life. There is nothing to get one's head on straight about material things like spending some time in such a place. I love beautiful things as much as anyone and I am not ashamed of having them...but I love these indigenous people around me as well. I have a joyous life. But as a clinical psychologist I know that people who seem to have more, dont necessarily have that joy...it comes from within and people who have it radiate a light that cannot be bought.

@susanojohnson6445 Жыл бұрын

Happy 2023 Erin & Everyone 🥂✨ As a child, School Shopping w/my mother refined & defined my personal style... She'd tell me " You have expensive feet" AA/AAA width... Mass produced footwear mostly begins w/medium width... 'High End' footwear was more accommodating... Clothes shopping equally challenging... Most pcs had to be custom fit... I still hear Nadines' voice (my mom) asking " Where are you going to wear 'such-n-such' "... Alterations included in pricier departments... 'Price per wear' is a phrase I learned from KZfaq... I've lived a "Champagne Taste on a Beer Budget" lifestyle, dressing high/low for 5 decades now... I truly appreciate the perspective you have been sharing w/our community... Feeling like the Star of ones Life can be a Challenge... But, Oh So Worth It 💗🧡💛💜

@Silvia2341970 Жыл бұрын

Dear Erin, that was just AMAZING!!!!! I started this "TRIP"/"PROCESS" three decades ago... still working on it, every single day. There are still small steps to do every single day and I LOVE doing these steps. It´s FUN, It´s LIBERATING! I feel my best in my 52. Still have days I do not feel as comfy as I wish, but the working on all these 10 things is definitely worth it! THANK YOU SO SO MUCH for making this amazing video! Love you ❄

@yifatjovani333 Жыл бұрын

This is awesome, so good to hear that ❤️

@melaniebeatty8484 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! This is just what I needed to hear today! Your message resonates with me so much! I felt like you were reading my mind. Much appreciated Erin!

@116kimba Жыл бұрын

Loved this! I'm a work in progress with many of these behaviors and thoughts. But when I'm following through, I feel like I can conquer anything! Thank you for the gentle reminder!

@ktk9051 Жыл бұрын

Erin this video was such a loving, beautiful gift. Sharing your own self doubts is an honest vulnerable lesson for many people. From this end, we may think that you’ve got it all, but we’ve all weaknesses and strengths, as you’ve shared. We can stand together, without judging and create more loving energy to create a better future.🙏🏼❤

@tesstimmons422 Жыл бұрын

Erin, I love these videos!!! Thank you for branching and bridging fashion to dreams, self love, actualization etc. So helpful 😘😘😘

@jeanconnor2038 Жыл бұрын

One of the reasons I follow you is that I find you very authentic. Although that's a rather catch phrase way of putting it, I find even your earlier videos show your personality and your passion quite clearly; and that you yourself have not changed or morphed into what is on trend or stylish, or what you (or others) think your followers want. And...... it is awesome that you are confident enough to take us on your journey through your ups and downs. I follow very few people, but your style, personality and honesty resonate with me.

@LiftedUpandLiving Жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin, for being you and sharing your personal journey of self love!

@noemimatias3729 Жыл бұрын

This is one of my favorites videos of all the ones I have seen on your channel ❤❤❤ I really needed to hear this. Thanks so much for sharing. Wishing you the best in 2023 and always. 😊👍🏼

@sunnynights68 Жыл бұрын

These are great life tips! I try to always dress in clothes that I like, and not blend in most of the time, and yes, it is uncomfortable to get all eyes on you because you’re not sure if they’re silently judging you but once in a while, I have another female in my age bracket complimenting what I’m wearing, and I think to myself good I encouraged her to step out of her shell as well. It is all about empowering other women I wish more of our female counterparts would see it that way.

@latinaalma1947 Жыл бұрын

Yes this wonderful when a woman comes up,to me and asks where I buy my clothes. I buy vintage inexpensive specialty items and mix with the basics items that look BEST on me.

@yifatjovani333 Жыл бұрын

This is awesome and my belief that we need to dress to express our pets and dress to make us feel happy, dresses to please ourselves not othes

@linpearson5272 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for reminding us to be our best in such a positive, happy & enlightened way. Excellent advice for every age & place of grace we inhabit. Please continue your positive messages of how we are the very light we seek. Love you too

@kathybenavides4585 Жыл бұрын

I love how all of this is beauty from the inside, and taking care of our spirit. I'm turning 48 in 2 weeks so now I'm also thinking about how I'd like to spend my 50th. Can't wait to see you celebrating on your yacht! Cheers to our midlife awakening!

@lynetteraab3107 Жыл бұрын

Such great tips! I think one of the best things about growing older is that I can look back on my life and see ways in which I've become a better person over time. I'm more patient, kinder, less judgmental etc. Thanks for the pep talk! I intend to re-watch and take your advice to heart to see if there are things I could improve right now. Thanks for uplifting other women. We all need it!

@jennifersaladino3363 Жыл бұрын

You are my very favorite person on the internet. Thank you for these bits to percolate and reflect on.

@sloanetrachsel8061 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video. At 65 you reminded me that I can still dream and have goals. Thanks. One dream is to learn more jewelry techniques.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! I am so glad this video spoke to you and I am SO glad you are working towards your dreams and goals. xo

@karlagreenwood959 Жыл бұрын

I have been watching and loving your videos for years. You are such a delight! I just love you. ❤ Thank you for your heartfelt words of wisdom. I appreciate the light you so beautifully share!

@Claudia-ug1ql Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this. It‘s so important and we need to hear it more often, so that we don’t forget about in our daily life. 💕

@cbnunez Жыл бұрын

I love what you said about how your dream may not look how you imagined but not to give it up. I would add, when you do achieve things, let that sink in rather than minimizing the win because it’s not exactly as you planned it. For YEARS I wanted to be a novelist because I thought that was my path toward escaping the office and making a living on my own terms as a writer. Now I am an independent science and technical writer making more money, earning more appreciation, and learning more than I ever did in any “regular” job. Even so, it took probably three or four years to recognize, hey, I actually DID achieve my dream. It’s not conventionally exciting or romantic, but it is liberating and thrilling for me-and that counts a heck of a lot more than impressing anyone with my job description.

@ginaspencer8008 Жыл бұрын

"Comparison is the thief of joy," Wow! Thank you for all these powerful, beautiful messages!

@ajm935 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your message of positivity this morning. It really made me realize how bad I feel when I am constantly bombarded with angry videos about things that don't mean that much to me - like why am I inviting in this energy?! I very much believe in the law of attraction and now see how the content I consume can tie into that in a big way (I always forget about that snowflake experiment but its always so powerful in context when someone like you reminds me!). Also THANK YOU SO MUCH for your words about worthiness!!! We are all divine and worthy of happiness, joy and abundance! Have a blessed year and look forward to watching more of your videos!! ❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

It really is so important to be cautious to what we let in. Thanks so much for sharing your own experiences with this. xo

@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын

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@trudygordon-smith4820 Жыл бұрын

Amazing how many Biblical truths are here! Im meditating on verses about joy! Philipians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always and again I say rejoice. 1 Theselonians 5:16-18 Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Our words: Proverbs 18:21 the tongue has the power of life and death and those who love it will eat its fruit. There are many verses about lying and truth telling...amazing how modern scientific experiments confirm the truths expressed by God in scripture thousands of years ago. Thanks for sharing your insights.

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching, I am glad you enjoyed this one! xo

@cynthiaforsythe8989 Жыл бұрын

And “you are the light of the world. Don’t hide your light…”

@tinavorindan Жыл бұрын

I love all your videos, Erin, but this îs by far one of The Best!!! So empowering message! Have a blessed year and thank you for your voice and message!!

@annetteterpstra3261 Жыл бұрын

I really needed to hear all of this positivity. . .it lifted my soul honestly in a way I didn't realize I needed. Thank you so much for the reminder to BE light. . .so so good!! PLEASE keep up the amazing and always positive content here. . it is desperately needed!!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

More coming on this, Annette! I am so glad this video spoke to you. Thanks for your sweet words and support! xo

@AgingNaturallywithJodylynn Жыл бұрын

Love this video Erin! Loving yourself first then you look great is so true! Thank you for sharing! ♥️♥️

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Thanks so much for watching! xo

@alicialucker749 Жыл бұрын

This was everything I needed to hear this morning/day/week. Thanks so much for the encouragement 😊

@yazosoyo Жыл бұрын

That beautiful sweater is calling my name, and your makeup today is the best I’ve seen you use! Great message

@HollyL56 Жыл бұрын

The comparison don’t was so important! We are all beautiful and unique. I know it’s human nature to compare, but it truly is the thief of joy. As I’ve gotten older I realize I don’t have the time or energy to compare. I love me and that’s good enough. Thank you Erin, you’re amazing and beautiful just the way you are.💜

@danielled5883 Жыл бұрын

Such amazing advice! I love these tips so much, and really needed to hear them.❤😊Thank you!

@lh6321 2 ай бұрын

I just watched this at 4:30 am after an entire night of insomnia due to workplace stress burnout. I NEEDED this video. THANK YOU ❤

@donapierce6185 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Erin, for your kindness and positive message for women❤️ Stay in the light!

@janetjaken1389 Жыл бұрын

Erin, you are so wise. I hope you realize how you are helping so many of us. Thank you for doing this. It is so nice to know we can learn so much from you 💕

@bbowers5049 Жыл бұрын

This is an amazing video. You are speaking my heart and to my heart! Honestly, the growth in you and this channel over the past year or more is phenomenal. Thank you! Every word was spot on!

@maxinebaskerville6020 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Loved every bit of this. Writing the things down we envision truly has a way of bringing them to us. SO, I am writing down these 10 Don'ts so that I see them each morning!!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! I'm so glad this list was helpful for you, Maxine! xo

@kat_thefruitbat Жыл бұрын

I know the metal genre is not for everyone, but metal is my heart song and it’s honestly so comforting for me (I am of course selective in my taste, as with any genre, so I certainly don’t resonate with every single metal band/song/album out there). The lyrics and instrumentals I listen to are very empowering. ❤️ It always helps me through difficulties in life, and it supports my strength and passion for life everyday. 😊 I really love and appreciate all of your points! ❤ You’re a beautiful person and your positivity, encouragement, creativity, authenticity, and humility is always a breath of fresh air! 🤗😘

@areejalturk7628 Жыл бұрын

OMG !! I can't imagine how much simple, deep and honest you were in this video. and for sure this video will effect my 2023 in a better way...Thank you so much for this real, deep content.

@PsiologaLilyValentina Жыл бұрын

Always lifting me up. Thank you, Erin. Xo

@Colorpockit Жыл бұрын

My goal for 2023 is to make my business thrive! And dressing to make myself feel great will help me achieve that goal. Even if no one sees me in my fabulous outfits, it will make me feel more confident and ready to tackle anything.

@rachelmaxwell5953 Жыл бұрын

I think this is just about my favourite video of yours ever!!! You are a wonderful inspiration, you're spot on, so beautifully aligned with your best self! I see your growth! This video really speaks to me and uplifts me - just what I need after a week when hubby told me I have no sexual aura!!

@l.m6144 10 ай бұрын

I am 47 and I have a 17 year old daughter. I have shared with her many times that I believe confidence and self love are the most important foundations for a fantastic outfit. Then, we build it out from there! If the outfit doesn’t make you want to strut, put it back on the rack!I plan to share your video with her as you have shared this message so eloquently! Thank you for reminding me to continue to revisit this both for myself and my daughter!

@BusbeeStyle 10 ай бұрын

Absolutely LOVED reading your comment. I'm so glad this video resonates with you and hope it is helpful for your sweet girl as well. xo

@alexiaa4616 Жыл бұрын

Happy new year Erin! You are absolutely the best,thank you for inspiring and helping me cope with aging! I don' know how you do it but you are right on point always! Maybe because you are such a great person! My dream is to visit Paris with my family this year,I will manifest it every day until it happens😁😁

@YentlLega Жыл бұрын

Beautiful much needed advice and mantras :) Thank you so much! Cheers to an amazing year!

@robindrever4544 Жыл бұрын

I really loved this video 🥰 Such a well thought out, thoughtful, and inspiring concept. I am going to copy these "don'ts" and make myself a poster and place it in my bathroom so I can see it every morning 🌅. Thank you ❤💕🙏

@cynthiaforsythe8989 Жыл бұрын

Pearls of wisdom indeed. Thank you, Erin. And you look like a glowing pearl yourself in those neutrals and with that soft beautiful makeup. I look forward to your content in 2023.

@alenastewart9883 Жыл бұрын

This was incredible Erin! Happy New Year and thank you SO much! You're an amazing woman. Never stop doing what you do! We love you! 💕🌸

@eavision1 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely love you Erin! ❤ Thank you for an inspiring message and pep talk! I appreciate all the Positive Vibes coming from your channel!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your support! More to come on this. xoxo

@elsabassi4557 Жыл бұрын

We live like in WW3 era, I need light and kindness, you just lifted me up, thank you sweet and beautiful lady 🙏💛

@kenitabaum4843 Жыл бұрын

This is such a powerful video Erin, ty! I’ve been dealing with depression lately so I really needed to hear this ❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Sending light and love your way! xo

@ABilingualBaby Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Erin! Happy 2023!

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for watching! Happy New Year to you. SO glad you are here! xo

@anetalabelle Жыл бұрын

Wishing you a wonderful 2023 Erin! Love your work, love what ypu are sharing. Personaly I am not there yet but then again, I am only 44 so need that extra experience. Speaking about age, I never believed that limitations are coming with a certain age. I believe one can do what ever they want at any age. The key is to take care of your body and mental health so that are able to do it. Anyway, please continue Erin, it is such a welcomed moment and your experience sharing helps so many me included! I look forward to see pictures of this fabulous 50 b-day in 18 months! Greetings from France

@asciscomagic Жыл бұрын

Of course we are here:). You are such a sweetheart! I love your channel sooo much. Style for me has never been shallow or superficial. Thank you so much for taking this channel deeper and farther then "just" clothes/style/presenting yourself to the world. Thank you for all the becoming, inspiration and honesty. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. p.s. Used to buy clothes and create appropriate occasions :) hopefully will do that in the future again:)

@Michelle-tk9jq Жыл бұрын

Wow. Powerful. Emotional. Thank you. ❤❤❤ For my 50th I wanted to go to London by myself and look for historical artifacts in the Thames and see the sights and then meet my BFF for the rest of the trip around southern England. Despite being a mom of two, wife, small business owner. Despite a global pandemic…I did it. It was the most thrilling thing that I’ve ever personally done just for me. I just know we will see you on that yacht in those flowing fabrics. And you will be glorious 😉 ❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Wow! Truly amazing and inspiring. LOVE that you did that for yourself! xo

@christycarter1571 Жыл бұрын

Amazing video (love your bracelets!!!)….admittedly, you brought me to tears a couple of times, but in such a good way 🤍 My positive/self love journey continues!

@glennmeyer2545 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin, outstanding video this week, I am guilty of all 10, especially body shaming! Your words really resonated with me and have given me the inspiration I really needed. I want to be an interior decorator but have never had the confidence, at 59 and an empty nester, I often feel insignificant, your video really made my day.💗💗Amy

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

I am so glad this was inspiring for you, Amy! Thanks so much for sharing your story and your dream here. Writing it down and sharing with others helps to make it into a reality! xo

@carolgeorge6409 Жыл бұрын

We love our body. It is out temple🙏❤️🤍🧡

@cathyelphick6296 Жыл бұрын

Hi Erin, I think I was supposed to find your video today- thank you universe! I’m 61 & care for my 90 year old Dad who is in hospital right now. I’ve been looking after everyone else for soooo long that my needs are buried down deep to the point that I have no idea what they are anymore. I’m a bit sad & lost inside, but you have inspired me to think about myself & what I really want, so thank you sincerely. I always enjoy your fashion & beauty input , today however, please know you have literally made a difference. Bravo 👏😊

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Wow! I am humbled by your comment... and honored to be even a small part of your journey. SO glad this was inspiring for you at just the perfect time... Thank you so much for sharing that with me, Cathy. xo

@SunFlower-xp6hw Жыл бұрын

Loved this video tremendously.I wish you could be a mentor to everyone including children.You are just so wise,mindful,beautiful,intelligent and your kindness towards others is so beautiful! Thank you for being such an important influence in my life.❤😊