These comments, dear lord these comments.

These comments prove her right. She was perfectly calm and rational in this video yet is still being demonized in the comments.

This will fall on deaf ears because you have to be receptive to receive this information.

People confuse strength and courage with anger sometimes

People saying its not true it is i was once fired from a job for not smiling enough . I wasn't and less smiley than my white coworkers and im mixed .

You can't break a stereotype if it is a fact. Truth, not stereotype. Every white person is entitled right? Is that truth or a stereotype? Can't have it both ways.

I don’t understand how people in the comments are saying she fits in the stereotype?? She spoke very calmly and articulated herself well someone explain. People love to hate for no reason

Sometimes no matter what you say, it will mean nothing to people that don’t care. Talk to people that care instead. 😊

How can people put her down and say that she is angry or rude or bitter.

the best bet is to get to know every person you encounter and treat them with respect and compassion. some women get the message that they are not important or respected. i choose to listen to and support those people.

I wish Kevin Samuels had a front seat at this event🙃

It isn't a stereotype

It obvious that a lot of people didn't even watch this video. They just came to air their griebances and prejudices.

I enjoyed this!! Thank you

Why "Bust" a stereotype that we did not start/create?

I worked in a call center and there was a white male who would curse and yell at the callers. Then he would slam the phone down 5 times after each call and leave to go smoke. Management never corrected him. I told them his outburst made me uncomfortable and they began to correct me and suddenly I was the problem and I had the attitude. Even though the callers loved me. When I held people accountable I had a problem. And when callers had problems that required me to give them extra time, I took too long on my phone calls and have to stop trying to help people and just get off the phone. Quantity over Quality.

"Equal emotional rights for me, does not mean less rights for you". SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 🙌🙌🙌

So true🤗

Thanks

I know her she used to work dmv

My story...

Well, I must chime in. Life can make one ANGRY, bitter. I spent almost 4 yrs single & celibate after a horrific breakup! Did all the work on me. Found the joy that was stolen. I wasn't angry in these yrs of rebuilding (financially too, as he was a leech), but hopeful, optimistic, yet sad as I healed. I finally felt ready to put myself back on the market. Met 2 guys that would change my life in more ways than one! Am I angry, I'm MAD. However, as I once had, I'll work on me - again. I may just stay single, as I am NEVER happier!

Notice when a woman has an ex she'll tell the next guy all negative things about her ex but give it time she'll show the new guy that she's the real reason her ex moved on with his life. They can only hide the truth but so long, then the new guy will get rid of her too.

My family till this day don't talk to me because I am making myself successful and told me I act white

You are beautiful inside and out why that label?

I am proud of you for pulling forward and not laying down for anyone. You get to hold your head high. I hope and pray more individuals work as hard as you have. Congratulations to you. A very proud, educated and beautiful person.

Absolute truth to all stereotypes! You don’t have to like them!!! ☮️

If she wants to be a vibrant woman with a wide range of emotions, and thinks everyone needs to accept her anger and rude stares, then she needs to accept other peoples "vibrancy" when they decide that they don't like her.

It's not a stereotype, it's a fact. I know from having to deal with them on a daily basis. It's about least 90% of the ones I deal with. But to clarify, it's just the modern western and other " first world" ones. The ones in Africa are fit feminine, friendly and have respect. Before yall tell me to go there then, trust me I plan to.

No more. Telling people they can’t succeed. You are telling children they can’t succeed. You are embarrassing yourself

This talk is my experience a lot to all day!

Encompassing all of our emotions that are not warm and accommodating as “angry” is so dismissive. I appreciate this talk for touching on that. Feeling your feelings doesn’t justify treating other people badly, it means that you’re processing an internal reaction to something. When we honor our feelings and when people respect them as a part of our humanity, our emotional intelligence develops so that those feelings are managed in a way that doesn’t (intentionally or not) hurt other people out of reaction.

if she came out to talk about angry women stereotype, it must be true.

Let em know sis!

Volume. Let’s talk about volume. Words don’t carry more weight if they’re shouted. Turn the volume down if you want people to listen.

This was an excellent video post delivered in a calm professional informative dignified feminine manner by a highly intelligent woman. She correct in what she says. Note if someone ignores you , ignore them back it’s called passive aggression.

Its HOW you express it.

Stereotypes hurt everyone... they keep us from forming bonds, understanding each others viewpoints, and collaborating to create solutions. With all of the turmoil today, we need to look at each other differently. Thank you for reminding us that bold women are not angry... simply bold... and that color doesn't define our emotions. Well done!

Had to watch this. I was told from a job to avoid issues, it's not what you say it's how you say it.

So...she's proving the stereotype is real and 100% legitimate? Was this satire?

I just ran into one right now. I just asked her a simple question and got back a horrible attitude. She didn’t need to give me that attitude. She just adds to the stereotype.

DIFFERENT RACES AND GENDER HAVE DIFFERENT PHYSICAL .MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL CHARATORISTICS !! ITS ALL THERE IN THE LITERATURE FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO LEARN !!

I also am not the ABW for decades. I also love every hair in the right place unless I am decorating or doing gym etc; and having a range of dress forms and designs. I am also a very vibrant human being with a full range of emotions and allow myself the use of all 27 emotions. This was brilliant and uplifting. Thank you P.E.A.C.E

I agree with everything she said.

So you can be rude and entitled to everyone you meet and when literally dozens of people are telling you it’s a problem you don’t have a good long look at your behaviour and fix it?? Foolish. People will be laughing behind your back and rolling their eyes and then refuse to be around you.

You can be feminine and direct no need to be angry most of the time. Need to adapt your communication style to your audience as well.

These comments are proof that racism will NEVER disappear. It's baked into being human.

Why is there no dissent in this comment section? EVERYONE agrees with this woman?

Wow!😀❤Yeah! We were not cookie cutter people. As with all races we are very diverse and should give respect to all as we wish to receive it.

Men are NOT granted grace for being angry. That is nuts. Imagine a man in 2019 hollaring at a woman at work. He would be fired or accused of sexism.

I’m telling you right now, after I get treated badly, now I am angry.

well said!!

Some are not Angry but a large majority are, stop blaming others for your own insecurities & actions.

I didn't watch this...I only date "other" woman...buy a dog🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

I give everything a pass..but Blk Women take the L

Why the laughter?

She is an HR manager? That is terrifying.

How are you when you get mad?

Great points, enjoyed your speech👏🏾👏🏾

It's not a stereotype it's true they just don't want to admit it

Everything isn't about race and skin colour. If you're angry for no reason all the time, you're angry, doesn't matter which race you belong.

Very good talk!

In my experience they are ridiculously angry and rude.

with resentment comes entitlement

Well stated Angela! Thank you for sharing.

Very well presented.

I agree with the comment about sheep, wow, programming is real people, wake up... hahaha but you cant..

Are you married that is the question forget a Ted talk

It’s her story we all have our own. Maybe some of u should get off the comments and write your own story

Always the mindset of never my fault...

To Carla Howard....stereotypes exist for a reason. There ALWAYS exists some truth in a stereotype!

show this to tommy sotomayer

Wonderful Talk 🤗🤗🤝🏿🤝🏿. Thank you for taking the time.

Oh my, imagine having zero self-awareness like this woman... Honey, *you* are the problem, not everyone else.

I really don't hate them its just tbh I don't trust them lol

Oh Yes! We can give the ‘look’! And they need/ better know what it means…. 😆🥰

Narcissism in action.

Another cry bully

❤️ ❤️❤️

Fabulous! Enjoyed hearing you speak that day! Keep up the GREAT Work!!!😀😀😀

Yes! I love your insights and truth and courage, Angela. I hope people share this and really listen to you.

Nope

Oh so since you are a vibrant person the rest of us have to put up with your "wide range of emotions". Sorry but no. The ability to keep one's emotions in check is a sign of maturity and in the workplace, it is called professionalism. As a former CEO of a $200M company and the owner of my own business, I would not tolerate emotional outbursts. The ability to debate, disagree and discuss a point is an important skill that employers seek. If you believe I am wrong then tell me why but do so in an intelligent and constructive manner. Displaying one of your wide range of emotions tells me that you are incapable of logically and professionally defending your point of view or communicating an alternate strategy. Raise your voice or become emotional and you lose any respect I may have had for you. As valid as your point may have been it is now irrelevant because of your behavior and lack of respect. Disruptive behavior is like cancer in a business environment. With that chip on your should and that the fact that you are in HR is shocking to me. As far as being the only person of color in a business meeting my Marine Corp D.I. said it best, "there ain't no bigots in a foxhole".

Yes that’s it your sharp angry tone of voice like you think you are ordering a bunch of kids around. Human Resources expert not even close

Everything up to 0:13 is true

It’s not a stereotype.

The level of narcissism by people in these comments expressing there is something wrong with US for speaking out is ridiculous. And....further proves her point. I'm not sure who told you all we have to cater to people and a society that never takes our needs into consideration. Are you kidding me? Expecting someone to change who they are to manage YOUR emotions is narcissistic and insane.

Behind every stereotype is a grain of truth.

Well said 🙌👏

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No accountability. No self-reflection. No thoughts on how she might treat others around her better. Not even an examination on how her life has shaped her own behavior and how it might be flawed. "I'm right even though ALL OF YOU think my behavior is distasteful and you're ALL WRONG. Treat me better." Ma'am you may have gotten the applause today, but it's not going to change your situation much.

But there true

People who “personify” the stereotype “deserve” the stereotype.

Great talk Angela!!!

Serena William was angry even though she knew she did wrong. Her coach was caught signing to her moves. Even her coach eventually admitted he was helping Serena. Yet she could not control her anger at the umpire. The call was justified and she was just portraying the stereotype well.

Proving it so true… was that the point?

I started dating only white, spanish & asian women because of this reason......Best choice ive ever made in my life

I know her, I saw her in the parking lot selling skittles

You go girlfriend !!! * FINGER SNAP * NECK ROLL. 🤣

Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾