I agree. I think he’s talking in practical generalities though-from the perspective of a hunter looking for the best scenario. That a person (man or woman) with options is likely to use them. If you are thinking of your overall future, it might be prudent, he is saying, to keep that reality in mind and maybe make yourself comfortable with the possibility-if the benefits out way the pains. Because life is trade offs

Awesome Keith! Kevin is not giving guys like you any credit at all. You do exist! Thank you!

That's great Keith! I agree that the concept of high value includes honor.

It’s an amoral experience to become high value. The morality is based on an individual, case by case level. Kevin continues to talk in generalities which i think is advantageous for the majority of his audience.

@@tonyadenisealston 😘

Because she realizes that was the beta male who broke up her marriage.She got her answer.

Curiously, she was the first one who was right

She's the most beautiful woman I have seen on your program , Kevin .

You simps better man up..

True. STILL, when you have options, you "exercise" them.

Sound like ya moms told u that

cheating for sex is being disloyal? I think moving money and falling in love to another woman and not saying anything about it, is.

@@lamrof BOTH are disloyal. Only dirtbags and LOW-value people try to claim otherwise.

You must be a female or beta lmfao

Wimin are attracted and react to behaviors , I have relatives who are doing exactly what you’re describing, point is , people make it ,and a woman will only follow a leader , not a servant.

But a black man has to walk on water before he gets an ounce of respect 😅

But their wives are not educated, successful, or often times do not work either. It's not hard when you see your man as a leader and head of his household. When you were taught to treat and serve your father and brother in the same regard. When fathers are not around and we find ourselves needing protection from the very men we are supposed to submit to rather than receiving their protection or providership it's hard to reprogram a generation of women who were not only taught not to depend on a man but witnessed first hand where her dependence on that man would lead to.

@@unmaskedparkerpeter1680 BRUH I FEEL THAT, it's so annoying 😑

@@candyc4713 the solution to that is simple. Drop the feminist programming. Every woman has the option to do that but most won't. Strength and independence doesn't need protection. Young, vulnerable, elderly, individuals need protection.

She seems like a relatively secure person. The more secure we are, the easier it is to take criticism.

@@taiwoajumobi9553 agreed 1000%

Yeah these days acting like a normal human beeing seeking advice earns respect lmao

DubbelD13 shame ain’t it....

She's got enough " other than black" culture in her, to actually be respectful

A real man speaking facts!! Thats all we want is honesty.

no. no it's not. it's not in vows. it's not in any religious texts. and it's not in the law when you get married.

@@donmcduffie631 exactly..all this is just implied monogamy by society...I do agree be upfront about your intentions..BUT getting married does not promise "exclusivity"

As a young boy, I grew up among men and with a father still in my house. I have yet to see a man with options that doesn't bang anything on the side from time to time. The notion that you should be 100% sexually faithful to your wife is a female notion and men with options that follow this notion are as rare as a unicorn. 😄

This is one of the only issues I find myself disagreeing with Mr. Samuels about. He often cites the Bible as part of the reason women should put men first and honor their husbands, but then he turns around and says it's normal and natural for men to not be monogamous. Well the Bible is very clear on Adultery.

I don't think those man have no self control, I think those men do not see the need to not cheat especially after making themselves extremely valuable .... Anyone making $200k plus have self control, they just choose to exercise their options. Unless the man is a practicing Christian etc why should he limit himself?

If she wasn’t submissive YO ASS WOULD CHEAT BECAUSE A WEALTH MAN NOT PUTTING UP WITH NO WOMAN WHO IS NOT GIVING ALL OF HERSELF TO HIM HELL THATS LIKE YOU MAKING 300k a year but takes you wife to DILLARDS ON SHOPPING SPREE DO YOU THINK SHE GOING TO HAVE THE SAME ATTITUDE AS YOU Have with this I LOVE MY WIFE SHIT

She’s beautiful and understanding and she will have everything she wants because she listens and she hasn’t reached her 30 mark

what do you do to make 300k?

If u listen to him consistently he says that high value men have options and for women to understand that. But they may or may not choose to indulge in them. If they know that have something good at home and also the fact they are hard workers they could b too tired to find the time ..It doesn’t matter high value or not. Cheating is a choice and if he has respect enough to keep it away how would u kno? Because someone told u or u went looking instead of focusing on home. Women do it all the time.

Oldest Profession

Women always want something from you. Relationships are a value exchange to them at all times.

How much do u have to make to be disrespected?

Exactly 'price'

@@mickiemallorie No amount of money. That's just nasty

Patrice O'Neal is the real Godfather to all of this

Patrice is the all father of all god father's for alpha males.

But just because other women may want me doesn’t mean I have to want them back or act on that “want” or desire. That is a sign of good character and strong willpower as well as true ALPHA traits. That is OMEGA levels simply because so many people out here think a totally different way. Imma do what I have to do and know at the end of each day that I’m a man, and I follow nobody’s rules but my own, as well as following my own code of honor and moral compass.

RIP Patrice

@@mider-spanman5577 Nailed it bro.

Don't think I've ever heard him say all men cheat. The men that women throw themselves at (high value) have a a lot of options to cheat. Some will choose to exercise those options. This is what happens in the real world, not the fantasy world of honorable men.

Alphas, not all men. If he's happy why would he?

The percentage of men not cheating is probably less than 3%. HVM have lots of women chasing them. If they don't cheat.... it's because 1) they chose not to. 2) they are very religious.

@@iforgotmyscreenname1 You must not know too many Pastors.

@@mrt094 they are not HVM, use that head before speaking

Yes Ricky , thanks for pointing that out

@@davidlawrence8085 because it's obvious by looking at the thumbnail.

@@davidlawrence8085 good cali women

Facts

Her life is hard - she gets good men…. Her gift is a curse=\

In other words she will find another guy.

But time is running.... she should have stayed with her husband

Kevin you are wrong and decide I been married 31yrs have not cheated on my

Decieve

@@kennethwells1143 He said most not all

Then you are a beta, with no options...

He’s saying she broke up the marriage for opening up the door for opportunity & listening to a beta/dirty macking corn, & based off her own insecurities… *If she didn’t search - She wouldn’t have known* .. She broke up her happy home, he was being respectful to her/her feelings & their marriage/home… & yall defending but half way thru she admitted if he made more $$ she would’ve “turned a blind eye” 😂

@@jonesboi804 that last part is the important part. I personally feel like cheating can be avoided but most women legit wouldn’t care if you’re in the top 20% earning men. So it really don’t matter unless you’re middle or lower class.

I think it would have been better served had KS said you should have sought marriage counseling before divorcing.

Your missing the point as a man I understand why the Beta man did that. He was getting revenge on the husband though his wife because he's not man enough to face the man one on one in conversation not violence. Don't you find it awful that that beautiful woman has a broken heart and has trust issues now and is all alone with pain in her heart because of a beta man. Look at it that way Terry. It's hard for a woman to do everything alone when she got wived before.

No one deserves anything! If you were long enough on this planet you would know that already.

She has trust issues. That’s gonna be a huge issue for anybody who is going to pursue her

You really can’t make this stuff up

@Rudy The Red Pill Beta I KNOW all men don’t cheat. Most don’t. I know very few who actually have (unless they got away with it lol) The notion that men by nature cheat is not something I can accept. But maybe I’m being willfully ignorant. I’ve learned so much from Kevin and similar channels here, but that’s just one thing I can’t accept. Edit: not cheat but the notion that men will sleep around if better comes along because that’s what successful men do. I know women by nature are always open to a better opportunity to move up in life, but I don’t see men exercising that same mindset.

Cheating should NEVER be normalized. Just have no commitment relationships.

@Rudy The Red Pill Beta I took it as hes implying all men will cheat given the opportunity and if there werent any concequences. Dont agree with that. but can certainly see his definition of high value men cheating.

The episode was about dudes like u

we are talking about high value man here............................350000 dollar man not average joe lol..............

@@sunilnarine6313 yeah, those men essentially buy their wives, they're with them for the money, it's more of a business deal than a marriage.

Of course it is. I am shocked how people just suck up every thing this dude says.

Amen Michael!!!! Educate your fellow brothers, including Mr Samuels!!!!!

women have options also (0-10) however if they exercise them now it’s a problem. Men can’t have it both ways. Let’s just honor our relationships or get the hell on 😂. Many folks are down for open relationships just do that and stop breaking hearts because of infidelity. Simple.

You forgot her price tag for her integrity. She will accept Elon Musk cheating. You can't get a little bit pregnant.

you lying bruh,are you real high value man or like these women who call themselves boss or queen cause they can, cause it sounds good so stop the cap.

@@barrystokes1396 I am sure there are those who could , but don't for whatever reason. Even a greater beta can dumpster dive. Its not just can but also includes a tolerance for complications.

You are not high value man, you are beta.

You are even worse than beta, you are mommies boy.

💯

Much more complicated. Most women are insecure and cannot handle the truth of her man saying he wants to sleep with another woman. People say they want the truth but a lot of times, they really don’t. They say ignorance is bliss for a reason... If women just accepted that men will be men and that more than likely, your man has cheated, is cheating or will cheat(although as Kevin says, “it’s not cheating if you’re a man, it’s just being a man), and stop worrying about it, stop looking through his phone, asking him where he’s going or where he’s been, your life will be much happier...

@@Mrconsigliere444 Be honest about it and let the woman choose if she wants to stay don´t sneak around

@@Mrconsigliere444 I agree to an extent. High value men have an abundance of options , yes... but you’re not considering possible STDs being brought into the home. That’s a huge problem with hiding it from the woman a man is with because who’s to say he’s practicing safe sex? That reason alone is why a conversation should be had with the woman about him sleeping with other women. Men should just be upfront and let the woman know and none of these things would be a problem.

@@Mrconsigliere444 of course and I agree. Especially when were both different natured. To be honest men want to tell the truth but we know the women we love will sabotage the relationship and herself. We try to keep her from losing us. So we will lie to keep her happy and to keep us from having to leave her cause we love who we love. She forgets the relationship is for her security not ours. We just want love. We already have women. It’s so much deeper and complicated. But what’s sad is when it ends. She’ll end up messing with a lower value man she calls her friend that does the same thing accepting his truth cause she claims he didn’t lie. He don’t care !

Heard that, too.😂

Lol I was wondering why he said that

Factz

Right! 🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂😂

exactly lol Idk about this one

Yeah I was scratching my head 🤔

I’m not agreeing with what he says but He wasn’t saying that men are “allowed” to cheat he was saying that men of high value tend to cheat. so, women should expect it and move along instead of leaving and then searching for another alpha male.

It's in a man nature to cheat. Men are not cheating just for fun we keep because that's what we do and it's natural that's why when people ask a man why did he cheat we say we don't know

Yea he lost me on that one

😆😆

😂💯😂🤣

Factssss 🤣🤣🤣🤣

He already caught the next one.

😂😂😂

I dont condone it either but when you take those vows it says for better or worse. Man is not perfect and per Gods word he had rather you work through your problems and save your marriage, because in the beginning divorce was not so. They have no kids, and that's good for her.

I concur!

Yeah but these commentators are low value men in the bottom 80%. Hvm operate with w different mindset

Agreed! 👏🏽

This is semi true. In the bible days, men (of certain cultures) could legally have as many women as they could afford to take care of. The women were ok living this way and so were the men. Even modern day Mormons can have multiple women/wives.

I was surprised to hear her pay HALF! Most women won't pay next to nothing

@@sullya6967 exactly. And she's good looking.

AN U THE BETA THAT HE'S TALKIN ABOUT!!

Only thing any man can do with a pretty face is look at it. You've never slept with a good looking woman that was terrible in bed? Women going half on the bills are a dime a dozen, trust me. If the ratio is 9:1, at least 4 of those women would pay half, and 1 out of the 4 would pay more than half. The one thing I agree with him on this is that she let a beta male ruin her marriage.

@@reddog1500 I'm totally in with you on that one. Beta guys get mesmerized by a woman's looks, but high value men go beyond looks cos looks don't pay the bills.

That’s what I was thinking too. Like dang...I meeean a true provider maybe she woulda turned the proverbial ‘blind eye’.

He was foul for that

@@chrisb1906 True. Doesn’t add up..

@@TereseLeigh if I had a baddie like that , that came across as feminine and pleasant, and paid bills...I'd kept that

@@chrisb1906 ✊🏾

@platinumplum,,,kinda funny lookin,,, mixed with too much stuff

Doesn’t have to be normalized the argument and concepts behind men of socio economic means are more likely to exercise their options and women are more likely to share those men are valid & accurate ideals

I rock with Kevin but he projects a lot of his personal beliefs on all HVM. He doesn’t speak for them all.

Y'all have no idea what you're talking about. He ain't talking about our circles. He's talking about downtown condo loft's. Bitches don't give a shit who you're fucking if their flying to Tahiti every 6 months. And that'll never change.

Thats facts I personally have never cheated I actually broke up with a girl I used to date the very morning I started to feel for someone else.

You're lying, you're not a 6 figure man lmaoooo

I’m not a 6 figure man at all, but I’m friends with a few. Of those, most don’t have time to cheat, a few do when they’re out if the country, and the others (the happy ones) married a woman who is not monogamous, and they both do their thing respectfully. Kevin is right about a great deal, but he also says some wild shit from time to time 😂

@@Lordmactrill some of us don't. I married a beautiful woman who's my best friend and my inspiration. I'm great where I am and I'm making 6 figures.

All in the sense of MAJORITY guys come let’s use our brains. The ones that say they don’t be having sex with their wives thinking about another female . All the same shit lol

Good point

Facts

A man doesn’t lose value when he cheats and it doesn’t determine how strong a man is either. Women are the ones who lose value when they cheat. You could very well have a loyal man who is very weak and who other women find unattractive.

@@TooDirty it definitely makes a man stronger to not fall for his sexual urges.

@@olecramv4273 Okay lets go with your argument. Explain how it makes a man "stronger".

Who told you you're one?! 😀😀

@@buyakshaklak6464 😂😂😂you can be anything u want on the internet

What if she changes, racks up debt, and has you by the balls with alimony threats

Sounds easy enough, but some men want a wife to hold down the household and have women on the side.

@@lish8591 , those men are of low moral character. I would never do business with a man if he knew he was the type to cheat on his family. Its one thing if they cheat with the realization that their married life is horrible. But its entirely another to cheat with the false idea that it is normal and healthy. I think kevin is wrapped around his own axel trying to justify cheating. A high value man needs to find a true trophy wife, but not cheat on his family. Get divorced, and take care of your family. Be a real man.

@@gial8862 ❤️❤️❤️

@@gial8862 I wouldn't say they don't have low morals. Some men have arrangements with their wives or simply they have no self control.

KS is being real because we men will always cheat, get that clear, Jay Z cheated on Bee and did Bee leave him...No. That's what KS is talking about . Life ain't fair

@@princemalvin6478 Beyonce and Jay were actually married for years…..this people were barely even engaged lmao.

@@iMsOiNsO what...we're you even listening ? They were married 1.5 years before she found out

@@princemalvin6478 you commiting the same fallacy these delusional women are. Comparing the 1% who live on a different planet to your average person. Not all men will cheat. There are many men who have discipline and are content with there partners. Limited studies out there point to the direction that the majority not men don't cheat.

Darn right

Not low key..

@s a Problem is that KS ain't coming from place of morality. He sees cheating with men esp the higher value they become as something natural not 'right or wrong'

He is manipulative

@s a he uses is as a reference at times.. Not a rule book. 'logically' I think it's safer to say men aren't naturally monagamous. It's only because humans are extremely intelligent beings that the choice to stay loyal has entered the fray. Reality is cheating will always be a thing whether we like it or not.

@s a He's using the bible very poorly. I doubt he even understands the bible to the fullest extent. The bible is a very deep complex book, that needs to be read with the help of the holy spirit.

KS just gave it to her straight, you got a man to marry you, at least try to make it work. First time you catch him cheating you leave your marriage.

He's not a high value man because he expects his wife to help pay the bills?

@@mpiloenhlesibanda3666 Why do we normalize cheating now….the relationship JUST started. If they were married for years and it happened ok that’s still bad but different. He was hardly even starting this marriage.

@@iMsOiNsO he was cheating all through the engagement too

Facts, I can't get with the exercising his options bs either call it what it is

Yea don’t be fooled type of women. Grew up with 7 sisters I’ve seen it all by now. She’s just passive aggressive and stubborn, look at women faces, damn what they say their body language gives them away.

He should have told her her ex husband is across town turning down women. Probably some of her friends.

Yeah and they'll all get cheated on too 🤣

Facts big facts

Shhhhn don't speak facts, they don't wanna hear that! Quick, make some Derrick Jaxn quotes! 😂

@@ShaunHensley I don't care about them

Beta.

Bad influence

No she is not, she is a typical tute.

Ofc as an individual you have the right to do whatever. But CONSEQUENCES.

Not everyone is going to gets what they want

And go where?

@Max Powers wow.. this has been on my mind lately.. Is that a thing boys/men are told? I've met one man who told me about a girl who was so attractive, he knew he couldn't date her long term. He thought I was cute, but the girl he chose was so unattractive compared to him.. and when he expressed to me his insecurities of having a fine woman, he'd have to fight, etc. I was like damn that's real for him. Now to read this comment. wow.

@Lucy Delphine she said the guy was married himself, though. KS never really responded/heard that part. Maybe he respected the sanctity of marriage and didn't mind his business or.. like another commenter said, (which I like better.. lol), he wanted to smash the manager and was pissed her husband was doing it first/instead lol lol. That's real.

Exactly. I was screaming she has her dignity. Ugh Kevin got triggered by this one

If you are in a work place, your will get screwed more and harder than this. What to take dignity? Get a box and pack your things. This is life.

True That!! Self respect is everything never tolerate bad behavior

Yea but “self respect” isn’t a legacy for a woman to really have. What good is you having “self respect” if no man wants you? Growing up I seen women in high school who had soo much “self respect” it was almost snobbish. Guess what? They still got taken advantage of and sometimes worse than other women because they rarely let their GAURD down. Women need to understand that although it’s good to have self respect. It’s just a word. An imagination/illusion. In reality anyone can have self respect. But think of all the people who destroyed/broke up their own home and are now living alone all in the name of “self respect”. How far do we take self respect while denying human nature?

@@Dantee.15 her husband broke up the home by going outside the marriage. He didn’t even try to fix his mistake. Thank goodness a woman’s self esteem doesn’t come from a man because in this fallen world we’d all be head cases.

It's the same the other way. The higher value a woman is, the more a man is gonna turn a blind eye to things she does.

u dont have to be alpha or beta, just be red pill aware

This is exactly what all the 90 percent of men should be acting like because they are not super alpha male but not super beta, in the middle

@@Element69 nah, most dudes are betas.

Exactly ppl using the term so loosely now its now many versions. Even alphas have beta situations.

This exactly gon keep the cycle goin. Yall are not alphas but Omegas. Once the male realizes this. Watch out world.

Yes and if they lie and hide stuff in one main area of their lives then this behavior pattern will leak over into other relationships and areas of their life.

@@anitaknight3915 100%. Weak men cheat. Period. If you want to be with multiple women, be a man and say so but also be a man and PROTECT and provide for her. You do not go and hurt her simply because you're not man enough to be real. This one disgusts me. No man should be defended for infidelity.

@@MrColdwilliam I agree it's a total cop out excuse and shouldn't be accepted across the board nor tolerated. People like that should just be honest and not get married. You're right and that's another main issue right there too when he tells all women to be submissive and cooperative. Well there's a lot of men out there who aren't fulfilling the roles of protecting, providing, and leading which is why many women have an issue with submitting when they have to carry much of the relationship and are self sufficient providing for themselves. Not every man is honest or a leader to be followed because they don't make good sound decisions.

@@anitaknight3915 well said!

What caused him to cheat? Ever thunk of dat. Jus cuz she pretty don’t mean she ain’t wack during marriage. Hence y he ain’t fight for her.

Exactly

Right!

You're crazy

Adrian Margean A person who has morals and value is crazy? Make sense if you have any, and think before you comment on anything in life.

Valuing marriage has nothing to do with cheating. Sex is physical for men. It depends what kind of arrangement the women and the man has.

are you guys supporting cheaters?

Excatly

Probably true. But do his wife have to worry about him cheating?

@@POPtheHOBO who cares? because that's not the point. Btw he still married stupid. 🤣🤣🤣

Or she can get a lame that give her his checks every time he gets paid! I'm quite sure there's lot of them 😂

Same here bro, and the type of person I would get rid of would be the cheater

@Matthew Smith I hope you keep that same energy when your girl getting dogged by her manager lol. Just food for thought.

@Matthew Smith isn't that exactly what she did put her energy else where. Theoretically how would you know she's getting dogged by her manager if no one told you? Cool to say mind your business until it's you, options or not I'ma keep it 100.

Mind your own damn business. Its not your job to police relationships that aren't your own.

@Team Yisrael facts

I’ve agreed with him most of the time but this is some crazy shit. She’s not in the wrong and neither is her coworker.

@Team Yisrael nah women who arent married would be more prone to running up in ur face or or contacting your wife or doing something out of pocket if things went bad, 2 married ppl cheating with each other is fair game

True color of this KS showing. no wonder he single now at the age of 50s. All talk of being HV but he single yo. 😂😂

@@iLLustrious85 No. Cheating when you agreed to one woman is the epitome of beta male actions. You're scared in the shadows afraid of consequences. Alpha males let a woman know from the beginning he's into more than one woman. If she's not with it then move on. There are plenty of women who are ok with it. But if you agree to a monogamous relationship, follow through with your agreement. If you'll do it to your wife, you'll cut your friend's throat too. Just the gayness alone of dipping your Johnson where someone else's Johnson juice is, is some Juicy Smollett beta male shyt.

AND working full time. Then tried to bring up the "Animal kingdom " as to why men aren't monogamous. I'm so tired of that. Human have a conscious, animals don't. Animals eat other animals' raw flesh. We don't. We are not like the "animal kingdom"

@skisrob so men shouldn't get married of they still want to have sex with other people. Or maybe he should have married a trifling woman like the woman who was cheating on her husband. Seems like they were more equally yoked. He said the married woman had something to loose too. But let's not act like a married woman wouldn't let another man hit raw, get pregnant and tell her husband it's his. If she's already that trifling, she'd probably do something like that too. And this woman was supposed to stay through all that potential drama?

hello! Thank you ..I knew I couldn't have been the only one paying attention. I just commented this somewhere above.

@@EmergeAndSeeTV Yea he was definitely not right here, but he wanted to be right, and not always he will, but this is one case out of more than 50+ that I have seen, here in this channel.

@@helloelites292 Lol if only everybody could see this comment and really digest it. Most of this man's "logic" falls short just like this trash ass animal kingdom analogy. The fact that so many people just blindly agree with Kevin's garbage takes like this shows a serious lack of any real critical thinking skills

That's what Alpha's do. They got options. Deal with it.

best advice ever..the big pic is more important..ask your grandmother

@@teekay5213 but grandmother wasn't going 50/50 on bills

Married men should do their best to not cheat.. but if they do it is not as egregious as a woman cheating. A man cheats for sex.. he can still love his wife.. but if a woman cheats, she has halfway lost love and respect for her man and is on her way out of the relationship.

@@hv3115 I hear you

Yup. At least a single woman won't get stds and drama. A cheating husband will bring all sort of chaos and disease.

@@rbguerreiro2466 not true even being single you can catch an std from a sex partner so what the french toast are you talking about?

@@romeoo5272 not if you don't have sex.

Me too as a man . I would rather be single and alone then with a ungrateful and hard to get along with female

@Savanna St. Laurent Your 18, wait until the truth doors of life start to open up. Then you’ll truly understand life a little bit better. It’s about survival.

Do you know what pragmatic means?

We need more man like you!

Well damn bro congratulations

No doubt that you are, so am I, but that's not the issue My Brother. Men with good income or not but they have an Alpha frame and judgement still have a choice to use those options. I would never use those option and cheat on a good wife but the options are still there. Peace.

Good for you.

Here you go, homie: 🍪

Its the Arab blood in her.

The chat room be giving 5 and 6’s to 3’s on a good day. 🤦🏽‍♂️

🤣🤣

Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiii she tight lol

she gunna have a new man in a second, a baddie

But what's that ig so I can check out those stats you stated

thank you! Some dudes really wanna degrade themselves to an animal level when they're way better than that.

@@clare_jordin this is the only topic I don't agree with Kevin on. Your dignity matters. If someone cannot be faithful to you, you absolutely have to get that selfish person out of your life. The difference between humans and animals is humans have awareness of self. Meaning, a dog will hump another dog who presents it's rear end to it, but it will also hump a human if it bends over , because they only have instincts with no self awareness to correct it's actions.

@Sampa Norein and that's fine... If they haven't made both spiritual and legal commitments to a woman.

My guy, that's like telling a man to go against his nature, you talk a good talk, but you give derrick jaxn vibes!

Amen, damn

See that’s real facts right there . I told my wife before we married that I’m not a one woman man honestly and thought it would run her away . NOPE ! She said “give me a year to myself and you can take a second wife “. I don’t have to cheat .

Exactly

I was open about it. She approved - verbally. But she was lying to herself. Had she told me she did not want that, I would have probably made concessions. But I can't hit a moving target no matter how honest I am, so we ultimately divorced because of it. I am better off. And really, I should have never been married in the first place. btw, I have been divorced for over 20 years now - and still lovin' it! I am shacking up with a lady, and it is an awesome relationship. But I will never marry her, and she knows it. Again - HONESTY! I won't string a woman along. She deserves more than that.

@@johnarmenta2199 tbh, things would probably be better if we as a collective could control our sexual desires but that's an unreasonable demand in this day and age..

@@metronome7799 💯% Faxx

Exactly this!

Good point. Kevin indeed, loves to hear himself talk. That aside, the high dollar suits, clutter of sharper-image-esque gizmos, dark, multi-colored lighting, excessively long countdown intro with the comically gigantic counter numbers on the screen, the vaudeville shtick push-button recordings to accentuate his points--while meant to impress and invoke interest--IMO, just come off as embarrassingly hokey antithesis to the professionalism and class it appears he's trying to convey. The guy's got a degree in engineering and worked in sales before this, which kind of puts things in perspective. Yeah, he's quick-minded, some of his stuff is gold...but on this one, IMO, he fails epically. Kevin seems to think a man's integrity (ethics/fairness) and honor (keeping one's word) are malleable when it comes to sexual fidelity. Wrong. If any man states his desire for monogamy with a woman, then cheats (options or no options), even a child would discern he's taken a giant steaming sh*t on his credibility...to his mate, himself and everyone with whom he associates. I feel kind of bad for the woman in this interview. I think it was a cruel and sh*tty move when he chastised her for not trying to salvage the marriage and give him a chance, even after she said her husband didn't try to fight for her to give him one! That aside, one may ask: Even if a man is up-front with a woman about wanting an "open marriage/relationship," is he really a "high value" man? Or, is he just a high-dollar philandering Dolt, who's impressive to some, but uninspiring to many.

@@johncarlson6472 I appreciate your comment

@@johncarlson6472 Great points. The "high value men" trope KS goes for also majorly includes financial power. And it is indeed a power to behold whether you like it or not, as money just doesn't fall off from the sky. Back in the kingdoms and empires kings and high noble men had multiple wives or at least lovers. Not only they desired them but it was natural for them to attract because of their sheer power and resources. Just like how it is in the animal kingdom. Now, you could say that we as humans and especially as high value men just the act or thought of exercising options shall not be deemed high value, but in all reality we can separate it from the category of morality or "high value", as it is more of a natural phenomenon. Now again, you could say most women wouldn't want that. But perhaps most women are not fit to be with these men, only specific kind of women can understand and flow with that natural phenomenon. But if this act, or any act therefore, is done in secrecy and deception, it simply is no high value at all whatsoever, just degeneracy. Still, the above classical natural scenario was only sensible in those days as safe contraception was not available and naturally only women can bear children. If a modern man who is considered high value and holds high values in his words and actions, then he should be fair and ready for his woman to exercise her options as well. In this regard and in this modern age I don't think we can point finger at this as a moral/non-high-value issue. Personally I wouldn't participate in this arrangement.

@@YoNevNo You're right. You and I know a healthy, high testosterone gifted man--rich or poor--on a sheer animal level is going to want to mate with as many females as possible and I will admit I'm bringing my own bias to the table. When I was a musician and in my college years, opportunities for sex were plentiful, but I always preferred the deep connection and less drama that came with being more selective and monogamous. We men know what that innate drive to smash as many women as possible feels like. But, at the same time, maybe we should ask ourselves: How big of a "notch count" is enough?...sex with 50 women, 100 women, 1,000? If the wealthy CEO or Professional Athlete brags about slaying poon left and right, while this may be impressive to some men, is it admirable? Wilt Chamberlain, after infamously stating he had 20,000 women, said "sex rules the world, but, for men who think having sex with 1000 women is really cool, I found out that having one woman a thousand different times is what's really happenin.' Magic Johnson, on the other hand, wasn't so lucky. That aside, Red-Pilled men know the "natural phenomenon" (our relentless, testosterone-driven compulsion to make babies) was an activity that was infinitely more "user-friendly" with which to engage in times long gone. Now, however--in today's environment--playing slave to our primal instincts presents a plethora of pitfalls and hazards that range from annoying to disastrous...so much so that many men are avoiding dating women altogether. Interesting times.

@Dr. Who? How was she annoying? He stood before God and her family and made a promise he knew he wouldn't keep. He lied to her. Broke her heart and trust. She shouldn't be forced to accept that. She was actually very pleasant and lovely. The best woman I've seen call in for sure.

You’re right. Very beautiful and sweet demeanor.

She has makeup on lol hate to break it to you

Soft spoken? Feminine, what is that? Is that born with a vagina.

@@anitahiawatha6060 are you saying all females are feminine and soft spoken? If that is your answer, you are neither

Yup, same! Don't care how mammals behave in nature, if you cheat in a relationship you're a piece of shit, end of.

exactly...this is reaally iffy take in my opinion....

@@drummerdude0515 Well said Drummer

Me too bro

Yeah this is literally the only thing I find myself disagreeing with him in. I could hop on my phone anytime and cheat, receptionists at work have made advances on me and I didn’t cheat, I’ve been out at lunch break and been offered to go back up to a hotel room. But I have a girlfriend and a child, without the child I was different

This is true!!! I have always told women this. There is this dude named Tony who is a maintenance man in Atlanta, GA that did the same thing because he saw me running through the women at my apartment complex @ Marquis Midtown 🤣

Dude wanted to clap them cheeks and thought that was the way in

EXACTLY 😂😂 We don’t rock with those dudes

Then why should either side be continuous relationships at all... it benefits no one... with your logic no one should be in a monogamous relationship let alone marry

He was trying to smash lol.

☠️☠️☠️

He someone trying to hawk his next book! Derrek Jaxn Cheated. I'm a new man in Christ😂

Not Simptavius!!!!! 😭

Holy shit

@@5thHouseProductions No joke, he actually blamed Christ for his cheating.

Yeah fr

Yeah he should of been upfront

Then they wonder why we don’t want to get married

Dude, are you trolling? How funny.

U don’t belong here Beta move around

"Getting the promiscuity/304 phase out of your system" is also a lack of morals in my opinion and the opinion of many men. Women that want to be seen as valued need to skip that whole phase entirely. Marry younger and be loyal to ONE man.

Because sex is natural and not connected with love or relationship which is why prostitution is one of the oldest occupations

I agree, that's not 100. Alphas may take an L trying to be loyal based on our nature, it is hard to be with one. But it's not Alpha to display disloyalty. People don't respect that shyt.

Seems like you are not prepared for this gender evolution that's happening right now.

I don’t understand how cheating is okay. I agree, don’t get married if you want to be with other people..

Better yet they want a prince charming and don't have the qualifications to be Cinderella.

Bro i see you everwhere YEEEEET MY GUYY

Women don’t know what they want generally

@@khronickhead They don't know what they want to eat for lunch. Lol

@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 🤣🤣🤣I really see him everywhere...

Meh. She can hold herself down. She's not a child.

Hopefully she's able to come around and find a guy who will be honest with her, otherwise it will get messy.

It's a shame that good men are called beta males and seen as the problem but unfaithful men are seen as or referered to as "alpha male". Calling good evil and evil good.

@Jason Robertson what's her @?

@@TheL19851000 He's covering his own lying ass with whining about how "betas" "ruin" marriages.

Agreed. Principles and having a degree of morals and ethics is part of the human construct. This guy takes a very elementary approach to his advice and maybe it is done purposefully to avoid more philosophical discussions and having to actual stand on an established set of principles.

Yeah me too. Imma dude who has a tremendous amount of self respect but I really didn't like the advice he gave this time.

@@SpiraLHub Cause you ain't no Alpha male. You're not high value. High value men got options.

@@canelo1728 You don't even know me 🤣 but you sound to me like just another wannabe HV man. Btw, I changed my stance a little on this and agree with kevin a bit more now.

The men they want do cheat.

JEHOVAH GOD is the only thing that will keep a man or woman . High value in my definition is when a man tries his best to lead his family to JESUS CHRIST by following after .

Are your boyfriends low quality simps?

No there’s plenty of high quality men who have a strong moral code that wouldn’t allow for cheating. When these guys are committed (especially in marriage, or even more so have a family) they don’t cheat unless they’re being deprived of sex.

@@thebatman1371 I realize that there are nuances to the whole idea of cheating. And, after listening to Kevin's other videos, he's not necessarily advocating for it, I think. I'm sure there are many many high quality men who want the dream of a loving, vibrant, lifetime love.

@@wanttogetfood nope. I have an amazing husband that takes very very good care of me, our children, and things. We lack for nothing and have an amazing lifestyle, social life, and love life.