Videos like this make me go and hug my husband, rub his back, and clip his toenails. We just made our 11 year anniversary at 32 years old. We have 2 daughters and a son, and we all watch this channel like it's church ⛪ I came from 3 generations of single mothers, and I broke the curse for my lineage. This man is saving so many families.

All black women: “ I have a business!” Our community would be the wealthiest if this was true.

how can anyone call this man a misogynist. He cares deeply for women.

My mother is 73 years old. She treated men like shit and like they are disposable. She is single living with my oldest sister and always says she didn't see her life being this way and that she gets so lonely in her room. She's disabled and absolutely no one would hire her. She shot down so many men that loved her and could financially take care of her. I live in Seattle. She's in Texas. Ladies, don't be like my mom.

"A man who wants to succeed can't plant their seed in contaminated soil." So POWERFUL!

He just had an impassioned, reality-based 33 minute conversation with a brick.

I'm white and I wish I had someone speak this into my life years ago. This knowledge is needed across all races/cultures!

The ultimate irony. Middle-class woman fought for the "right to work". Now middle class woman HAVE to work.

Kevin is so passionate. These ladies don't understand Kevin wants the best for them.

"That's why I have 3 kids for" That statement alone says enough.

My mother lived the “free spirited” life and now I’m paying the bill. She had me with a man who was married to another woman. She’s close to 70 and it’s a heavy burden on me, I feel under a lot of pressure to succeed. She put me in the situation where I’ve had to sacrifice my 20s: I had to hold a job working 50+ hours a week while going to school to get a career. When I’d come home late at night, she’d start to nag and demand that I bring her food and that I had to help her live a comfortable life for the rest of her years. She has no money, couldn’t help me with college after HS. I even have life insurance just in case something happens to me, so she can have some money for the remaining years of her life. It’s all bad, as Kevin and Jordan Peterson have said, women like these try to make their kids the husband they never had. Young women, listen to Kevin. Look for a husband while you’re young, you’re risking too much by delaying it and later on you and your kids will pay the price. Your younger years are your bargaining chip, don’t spend them on the “cock carousel” or you will pay the price later on as you age.

“A nation can rise no higher than the moral position of its women. A man that is looking to build cannot plant his seed in contaminated soil.” ~Kevin Samuels His contributions are surely noted and valued. Rest in peace Mr. Samuels.

“That’s what I have kids for” I HATE these type of parents

“You can’t plant your seed in contaminated soil” -KS

My mom and my dad had me and my brother in their late teens. My mom left my dad in her mind thirties because she thought she could do better as her career was starting to take off and my dad was just an average man. Good hardworking man, great father but obviously not on her "level". Through the next 15 or so years she went through numerous men trying to find that high value man she thought she deserved. During that time her business went broke and I had to lend her money. The HVM never eventuated so in her fifties she ended up "settling" for an average man who was pretty much a clone of the average man she left when she left my dad. By the time this man came into her life she was penniless so he pretty much had to pay out all her debts and take care of her and on top of that she was diagnosed with brain cancer which has left her incapacitated and unable to walk let alone work and have this incredible career she always dreamed of. If it wasn't for this incredible man taking care of her who knows where she would be. I feel so sorry for him because he's given everything to her and it's such a massive burden on his shoulders. He cares for her full time, cleans her, feeds her etc..as her son I feel a deep sense of guilt at not being able to help out more but at the same time I have my own young family to take care of..I feel a sense of resentment towards her because an adult in her fifties shouldn't be broke and burdening other people to take care of them. I get she didn't ask to get sick but I can't help but be resentful at the decisions she made during her life. It's mind boggling some of these women that KS speaks to talking about they deserve something that they really don't. They really do die alone or burdening their kids to take care of them. ..my dad btw remarried a great woman and he is getting ready to retire at the age of 56 with a few houses and more than enough money to live comfortable in retirement. Not bad for someone that isn't "high value"

Whenever you hear that “grunt” from a woman after he makes a point or a statement, GUARANTEED she’s not hearing a damn word. And refuses to.

“That’s what I have three kids for” A stark reminder a lot of people shouldn’t have kids.

“A wise woman builds her house. But a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” (Proverbs 14:1)

As a young black man from South Africa who is 25 years old, I have learned a lot from Mr. Samuels and I'm grateful he is sharing his wisdom for free...

I remember years ago this 19yo girl, while talking about marriage and how she's going to be independent. So I said to her, "Then you're marriage will fail." And when she asked me why, I said to her; "Because the definition of the word 'independent' is the exact opposite of the definition of the word 'marriage'."

She's been living a fairytale her whole life, Disneyworld is fitting

My mother does a similar smug laugh when she’s intentionally derailing. It’s so odd & disappointing seeing adult women behave in ways that (rightfully) got me in trouble as a child.

This woman cannot comprehend at her age that there will come a day when she physically can not work. So many people say oh I'll work into my 70s. Reality is by the time you are in your early 60s, you're about done. Especially if it's any kind of physical job where you're not sitting. All it takes is a bad knee, hip, foot pain. Happened to my mom at 62.

How in the world can Kevin do that to himself day in and day out?! That guy cares more about his community than his community cares about itself.

The fact that she said, "that's why i had 3 kids" it's EXACTLY what part of the problem is. EVERYONE that has kids, has them to turn over to the world in reality.

My favorite quote from The Godfather movie is “Women and children can be careless, but not men”. That quote is real listening to this woman.

Thank you for the content. As a black woman, you’ve challenged me to unlearn a lot of behaviors that I was taught that are holding me back from finding a Christian man. I’m in my early 20’s and am thankful I’m learning this now.

All of my relationships have failed because of discussions like this. I’m an average man looking for a reasonable average woman who understands the reality of money and how to pay for the life a woman wants. A partnership is hard to find.

I grew up in China. I am impressed by Kevin’s up-to-date knowledge about what’s happening in China.

People saying Kevin shouldn't bother with her. But really, it's not for her. It's for her daughters.

We needed him more than we’ll ever know - and some still don’t get it

RESPECT!!! I'm 35 years of age and try to instill this LOGIC onto some of my close friends. My old man always said that the decisions YOU MAKE in your life WILL predict your future.

Kevin wasn’t even talking to her he was talking to her daughter. That’s why he kept it going.

I am a bus operator in Los Angeles. My route takes me through Skid Row. From Central and 5th Street West and back down to 6th Street East to Central. Mr.Samuel's is right. Most people out there are women. I see it everyday.

His videos (especially this one) needs to be archived and passed down forever to the younger generation. RIP, Kevin. Thank you for all your work so we can fix this shit! 🖤🖤🖤

She finds everything he saying funny. He hasn’t cracked a smile once! I’m a woman I am so glad I started listening to him long time! I took everything he said to heart! I got on it! I won’t be a burden to my kids. I hope and wish my momma the best!

You can really see the hurt in Kevin’s Face. He really trying to help our community y’all. We got to take this seriously!!!

"Taking care of grandma" is supposed to mean bringing her the occasional meal, mowing her yard and getting her prescriptions filled NOT mortgaging your and her grandchildren's future to cover up for her lack of planning.

I had a colleague at work who's mother suffered from dementia. According to him she was extremely forgetful and a danger to herself. Was divorced and living alone at the age of 68. It got to a point where he had to quit his job and attend fo her fulltime. His other siblings refused to help for whatever reason. Moral of the story is we will all get old and require care. Having a spose will help in more ways than you know. Stop making selfish choices that your children will pay for.

This whole conversation went over her head! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ She’s back on her magic carpet. 😵‍💫

How do you have three kids but never really had a serious relationship? That is crazy.

The "need to be right" was on steroids with this One.

Kevin’s content is honestly is giving me some of the best teaching I never got. I never had a dad to tell me this stuff. To know my worth as a man. It holds me to live to a higher standard

My mother was exactly like this. Never planned for the future. Refuse to plan for a rainy day. My mother had a massive heart attack at 63 and had to retire. For the next 10 years she had to live off social security and the tiny 401k she had. Her 401k barely had $50K. .The only saving grace she had was that her mortgage was paid off but my mother continued to spend money like she was still working. 10 years later she had a massive stroke and died. She left a ton of credit card debt and unpaid property taxes for me to pay off. Not to mention she had cancelled the home owners insurance without telling me , so for at least 5 years there was no insurance on her home. But if you asked her while she was alive, everything was fine and she had plenty of money.

_"I have never met a suitable husband in my entire life."_ Then where did your children come from? Either from a suitable man, or from an unsuitable woman who was "having her fun". Stop spreading that nonsense, for the sake of everyone alive now and our future generations. Thank you Kevin, you're absolutely right. This ought to be studied in schools.

This woman illustrates one of the main reasons so many financially unstable people have kids: so they can have a meal ticket in old age beacuse they made poor financial and life choices in their prime. Shameful behavior.

I know I’m old school, for the life of me I don’t understand this “Modern Woman” crap. I was raised by my parents to get an education but in the process look for a husband! I’m thankful I learned that lesson. I’m married, secure and love my husband for being my rock!!! No shame in it. These modern women think they don’t need a man but their having kids!! Make it make sense.

Glory to God I met my husband at 24. Married 7 years, 3 kids, I'm a stay at home mother and BLESSED! My mother is that single rebel that's broke and looking to us to take care of her in old age - she prioritized education and thankfully God stepped in to save my future. Kevin is showing the raw truth!

She said she will work at Disney World 😂. As someone who may currently work at WDW let me tell you that yes we are hurting for workers, but not workers in their 70s. That age group (60s-70s) have been retiring faster than we can train new workers because the hours are long, the weather in central florida is brutal, and the jobs are quite demanding on the person. Plus even if you do get a job at WDW, the cost of living around the Theme Park areas have exploded. You won't be able to afford a 1 bedroom apartment BY YOURSELF at the entry level wage Disney pays...

She was enjoying the entire conversation like it was a date at Red Lobster laughing & giggling while Kevin was being serious the entire time.

I’m 25 and I’m so glad I’m hearing all this. The reality is scary. Thanks Mr Samuels

"All it takes is a Bad Medical Diagnosis and you'd be bankrupt.." DEEP POINT!!

Her attitude is horrible. Can’t wait till she gets a reality check

"... Women chose themselves over the community (family), now Men will chose themselves over you." KS is killin it!

My sister had a very good husband. He was a successful man. Had three children with my sister. I was quite close to him. My sister left him for a fool who gave her a kid and he bounced. Now my ex brother in law is married to a lovely woman and my sister is alone at 50 years old.

That laughing tells me she is scared out of her mind. She is "beyond repair" is absolutely correct.

“This world is not set up for INDIVIDUAL PEOPLE!” We need to get back to community people!

I am a man and you get me thinking. Thank you, Kevin.

Lmfao! "That sh!t right there! ...should be studied on college campuses." 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍

That woman came across like a child in an adult's body, so all attempts by Kevin to convey logic fell on deaf ears but instead like a child, once pressed on the reality looking bleak without a plan, she quipped about heading down to Orlando (Safe haven like a Disney fairy tale). Mental health has plagued these women and the unfortunate thing is that for them LIFE IMMITATES ART. This exchange IMO was PAINFUL

"A fractured mind is useless to a man who wants to build." That powerful quote just stopped me in my tracks. Thank you, Kevin!!! Thank you!!!

Kevin is passionate in this one. The reality that he wants to help women is on full display here. This woman is most likely lost

Videos like this make me reflect on myself and hug my husband. It makes me humble myself real quick.

She put on a brave face, but we all know she went to sleep crying while reflecting on her poor life choices. Regret hit hard when the delusion falls.

My dad started to spend more time with my aunt, she’s in her 60s and calling to say she’s lonely and having suicidal thoughts because she didn’t prioritize relationships. Breaks our hearts. This is very real.. thank you for teaching this

As a 28 year old south Asian male - this was a wake up call even for me. I’m not married but actively dating. Very important for men to choose wisely when it comes to women. If this woman is representative of even a slightly large subset of women aged 18-25 now, the next generation is in major trouble.

Man, Kevin is RIGHT ON POINT. He says things about finances I’ve been saying for YEARS! And it’s not just applicable with Black Women in the community. It applies to everyone.

The way she laughed at the end when she knew she was getting kicked off the call... everything is a damn joke.

We, as black women are so delusional, and we get mad when reality hits. Kudos Kevin for speaking the truth!

This has been a wake up call for me. I’ve got a decent salary that’s above average but I have to step it up. I’m divorced and I have to recover mentally from that and build upon what I’ve started.

Going through KS speeches after his death, and this one is the best one. He explained the society and other things in a beautiful way every sane human can understand. RIP kevin

"She was trained by a failure" is all that needs to be said. This is insane that they don't see what they're doing to each other.

A single mother of 3 stated the same "No" answer after being asked 3 times if she's ever had a suitable man in her life. Then just giggles it off.......To even consider half of our women may think like her is sickening. 🤢

My mentor is Puerto Rican and lives in Florida but also own a home and a school in Colombia. She tell me that I need a good Colombian woman. I’m starting to lose hope in our women. I didn’t put in all this work to rise from the treanches for this.

She is so dense!! And got an answer for everything. Wish we could fast forward to the future to see her plight

This woman prioritized having multiple children, but not developing a relationship with a man. 🙄

This broad has a magical “I’ll cross that bridge when I get where” mindset. Talk about a self-destructive approach life.

I work in a STEM field, and my company is not going to hire a man that is 70 years old over the swath of young men and women interviewing. She says she can work at Disney World... While they might hire some elderly people, I sincerely doubt they are going to hire millions of elderly.

He's so practical. I love it. Wish I had a dad telling me truths like this when I was growing up. Still did ok married with 1 child stay at home mommy❤️

This is true. My parents need to be cared for now, they didn't prepare and it has fallen on me. I have put my life on hold to care for my dad. Which is scary.

this just shows the mentality that is killing relationships. She'd rather work til she dies or depend on her kids than to work cooperatively with a Man. that is just crazyyyy SMH

This is a good one too.i've been binge watching this past week...trying to get my Brothers to watch this Man Speak.Thank You for these videos Mr.Samuels.

Ki !🙆‍♀....even in heaven he is moving mountains here on earth thank you KS. You have changed countless females ....and we are passing this your torch full of light to our young women by any means necessary . Lord help us!

It happened to my mother. She was laid off right before retirement age and can't find work. The companies did a costs vs benefits and found that it's cheaper/better to hire new younger workers. My single mother was a hardworking and capable woman. She is still in shock regarding the laid-off because she believes that she is still young, healthy, and capable. The problem is that companies don't want to hire/keep elders because young ones are quick on their feet, have lower pay rates, in better health (i.e lower health cost, recover quicker, can work longer hours, and can work in harsher environment), easy to train, more flexible, and can work overtime for longer duration.

They hate the bitter truth, but they love 💕 them sweet sweet lies

You’re absolutely correct about what happens to the unmarried older woman’s money runs out. Wow.

I work in a high stressed job (IT) and hearing all of these facts are very soothing and relaxing

She's going to cry in the car, she knows everything Kevin was saying is true. Even when I try to talk to my sisters about some of these things or anything that revolves around reality they always dismiss it and get very defensive. Alot of women just don't want to hear it, they're just worried about now and not their future. I pray they get it together 🙏🏿

"No prophet is welcome in his own country." Kevin speaks the truth and the people he cares for reject him for blissful ignorance, excuses, entitlement, and pride.

Mr. Samuels, I went to college for social service work and leaned my electives towards psychology, and mental health. These interviews are what I use to analyze and train myself to be able to recognize logical fallacies in the moment and I try to catch them before you can interrupt and correct the false logic. I'm getting better but I still have a ways to go, and you are right, this kind of content should be studied at a university/college level

First of all we what we not gone do is just skip past the fact that you updated your intro and it’s poppin!!! Anndddd you kept the theme song?! Loving it og, and I appreciate what you do for men. I listen and learn from you all the time and I appreciate you! Big ups!

Notice the women said, “ Define serious. A couple of years?” It’s a problem that our women just think that the length of a relationship makes it “SERIOUS”. And don’t think it’s actually the intention between the two people involved.

That is not “Worst case scenario.” I know a 78 year old woman who got laid off because her company got bought out. Nice lady and always up and out the door to work, but the company decided to downsize. She was also the provider for the household consisting of a 60+ year old woman and a 30+ year old woman and her 10 year old son. Both the “younger women” were jobless at the time. The youngest woman still is. Three generations of women in a household on the verge of being homeless. Her so called “worst case scenario” is THE future scenario for a lot of women out here.

Still watching and listening and spreading the message, Kevin.

That is some scary crap. Great job Kevin these alarm bells should of been going off for decades. I'm thankful that I'm a man with savings and skills to fix most things. But if I were her under these conditions I would be shaking.

Most women do not believe this could happen to them.

Kevin thank you for telling these woman about future planning.

This was DEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP!!!!!! Boy Ol' Boy, the Truth and Facts hurts us all AND it will set us Free!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

My grandmother is like that. No real family around her. Aging out by herself. Sickly and disabled. Government assistance barely gets by.

"mmhmm." "mmhmm." "mmhmm." Kevin don't bother, her ears are off.