There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person content might not make another person content. But I've learned that there's always a way to fix things. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of problems in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we survived

Matters of relationships are complex, and you need God’s guidance and favour. Human knowledge often contradicts itself, and each situation is unique. Only God can truly write your story. Many people today underestimate the power of prayer and serving God, leading them to make mistakes. By following biblical principles, such as avoiding sex before marriage and resisting lust, you can solve 99% of your problems. Trust in God's wisdom

Interacting with Zippy is equivalent to having a 12 hr job with no days off. EXHAUSTING.

The ladies are really not giving the guy the opportunity to answer questions and i think , that's my opinion that he's trying to discuss facts and bitter truth that the older women negate though it's a fact.

Jacob Aliet is such a good listener, zero interruption and clarity of mind. .

Zippy Okoth is a classic example of uncooperative and masculine woman. She’s listening just to argue!

This guy is speaking facts..as a woman i am with him .I wish Zippy would argue with facts and not opinions.Alafu she interrupts alot

Am a doctor am 28yrs old with two children and I'll tell you the truth .........this man is 💯 facts....argue all u want but listen to this man young ladies....

You can't trip this man! He knows his sh*t!

Jacob - stoic, factual, well spoken and researched. When he gave examples of men and women abroad zippy tried brushing that off by saying " Sema za Kenya" very shallow and evasive. Lynn- patient, good listener. Zippy- noisy, poor listener, all in her emotions.

"It is demand that determines the value of a product. A product cannot decide it is valuable and nobody wants it." Jacob Aliet. Wueh...!

Women agree with Jacob 100% they want their sons and brothers that masculine, but not husbands?

He has facts but ladies we don't allow defeat .

Aliet was interrupted too much. Lynn aki you dropped the ball on moderating.

This guy was very clear on his points those who use logic understand

This man is very kind with the advice, I wish women could take time and learn from him.

Am on my way to sixth floor and get a divorce from my husband of over 30 years,looking forward to getting a partner and friend.

I have seen young women complain on social media on how they get bullied by older women at work and now i understand why

Oh my God, Lynn turned in the middle and it became a 2 Vs 1. Zippy asks questions she can't wait for answers she keeps interrupting, emotional!

If this is the woman they chose as their representative, I pity our women.

I am a woman and I totally agree with Jacob. Zippy is taking it too personal, Jacob has points if you listen carefully. Lynn is getting the points better.

ALIETEEE,,,, I AM AT MY EARLY 40'S. THIS IS THE TIME I AM EMBRACING LIFE ALOT. EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL LIFE. TO A WOMAN OF TODAY, LIFE IS SWEET AS SHE GROWS OLDER

Lynn decided heels 👠 off. The good thing is you ladies didn't have wigs...they could have come off too. What a conversation! I really liked it.

You have to listen to understand and not to defend . Aliet is deep and factual ....and by the way am a lady.

Good morning team LNN What are your thoughts on today's debate with Zippy Okoth and Jacob Aliet? You can get their interesting books (Oops Zippy, Unplugged 1,2 & 3) at nuriakenya.com Join our Telegram community here t.me/official_lynnngugi for exclusive Behind The Scenes To Support our work; Mpesa +254 726 916 908 To contact our incredible partners; Kings Developers: +254 700 090 060 or sales@kingsdevelopers.com and their website at www.kingsdevelopers.com Maridady Motors: +254 709 888 178 or +254 709 888 176 and their website at www.maridadymotors.com You can always share your story via info@Lnn.digital Thank you for watching ❤❤

Mr. Aliet nailed this. It was his show and he succeeded in terms of delivery, calmness, cool and confidence. Was willing to answer every question thrown at him but was often interrupted with new questions. Overall, a good show. Kudos to Zippy and Lynn as well.

i love the way lynn agrees with him when he makes a good point but the other one is really stuck on the age thing, she is defeanding her age

"I'm waiting for the question" is the best caption so far. Zippy has no questions, just arguments

Giving birth at your 40 does not affect the ability or disability but lifestyle is what is affecting that. I have seen 50% of women who have given birth at 40 are very healthy

Aliet just succeeded in creating rivalry between 40yr olds and 20 yr olds… and that is his strategy ‘divide snd rule’

I love Lynn shows but in this one she has failed to mute zippy ... the lady is interrupting left, right , center no no this not good..

Wueeee, liet kabisa🔥🔥...Aliet amechokora the 40 year old war veterans. Ladies he is stating facts, he is not throwing shade 😊

It's not the skills of marketing that matters but the quality of what is marketing.

Aliet is very logical and has good points .However,one needs to listen to him without emotions to understand him since he airs views without filtering or political correctness (sic) which can be triggering to many .

Why is he patiently waiting for you guys to ask questions yet you interrupt him when he's answering, especially Zippy

Please don't mislead young women. She will rush and get married at 22-25 years then realize that baby will need sustenance for the next 18 years till they finish school. Aliet himself wouldn't allow his daughter to run after men because she is 22-25 years. Please women settle down when you are financially stable

I like what Aliet is saying.... When you are dating you should check all these redflags and see... Get time to know this person

I've never seen a man who takes accountability, they always evil deeds, and always blame women. Right from relatives

Actually Aliet is making a lot of sense if you listen to understand... ladies it's a fact men are logical by nature.

Next episode on high value men and women let's meet Aliet and Benjamin zulu.

Lynn bring a conversation on how women and men can live in harmony. No wars or no ego. I wonder when people will stop this man vs. woman narrative. It doesn't exist. Or when we will stop competing who is the worst gender or who commits the most sins. There's no competition, it's all in our heads. If you find love in a man or a woman good for you. If it doesn't work out or end up in divorce, that is not the end of life you should even clap for yourself you tried. If you don't find love, no one has ever died for not finding someone.

Any Wise Man will Listen to Mr Aliet.

This Zip woman does not listen, she may need a young man to control but when he grows old she will divorce him. I think she does not know what she wants, the problem is that she is confusing many people🤔

What Mr Aliet is saying is true about women not being respectful to themselves. Most of the time people are infidel to themselves without knowing they are. We practice infidelity to ourselves first. Like, when we have all these qualities we are looking for in a relationship and when someone comes up to us that doesn't even fit to those qualities, we go in and start having relationship with the person and then the relationship does'nt work out. That is cheating on ourselves. Because we went in at first hoping the person will change. And when the relationship doesn't work we turn to be disappointed. 😊

Haki Lynn it's like am studying this channel like a subject, sijui graduation ni lini. Very educative.

We need more men like Aliet who are standing up for men with very brutal honesty

The man is talking truth. Give him chance ladies.

There's no formula in life, love yourself and choose happiness.

I endorse Jacob ALIET'S message. 100%

Lynn I really waited for this to be aired, I knew these two together itakuwa fireeeee😅 Ngoja saa nisikize.

When we divorced now with my ex-hubby, whom we had wedded in church, he was all over tarnishing my name. He played victim and tarnished my name at the slightest opportunity he got. I was quiet all through. This is a man whom I took care of. Took care of his business, I paid all the bills, i fed him , clothed him, etcetcetc. So I disagree with this man totally. Most men today have no chills. They are big babies who want to be kept by women while they lay their lazy asses at home.

Kama Lyne ametoa viatu i agree the house is on fire. This two guests of today are firely men!!!!

This Jacob guy really contradicts himself. I'm glad I listened.

Thank you Zippy for bringing in some great perspectives into this conversation

I am 3 years old and i love this conversation.

Aliet In Marriage Accountability is a driving Value that is where trust is build , wuestions must be expected and they must be answered, that is part of Leadership with Responsibility

Listening to this has been extremely exhausting. Thanks Aliet!

This guy is talking a lot of sense but mnamshambulia sana kkkk

This guy has a wounded masculinity. High value man is not degrading women and does not put them in a box

Interesting conversation here.. though mnaingilia the man for giving very honest opinions. These are things we men keep to ourselves, but they define our interactions with women. So if you want to understand a man, listen to Jacob, whether you agree or not. Jacob handled himself excellently here, but the dr. is very defensive

Aliet arguments are based on biological reality while zippy n lynn arguments are based on perception 😂😂❤

Lynn I love how you listen first...you are a good listener which makes you very good at understanding both sides perspective

Let the man finish two sentences yawah

Leave a man to respond, why ask him and then interrupt him when he wants to answer your questions. This lady Zippy thinks she's wise & strong but I think she's just argumentative . She's using this show to justify herself from bullying men.

Personally I can't deal with a man like Aliet! Those who can, go for it! Salute to the wife! She has extra energy. Good day all

Karibu nichelewe 🏃🏃🏃just tuned in right now ✅ we gonna learn more here! Good morning everyone watching ❤

As a woman in my 20's what I have learned is that I should love myself selfishly, go for the best man in my pool of attraction even if I do not love him or am not attracted to him. Be focused on the best man even if he is 50 years old, as long as he has money, status and can give my children and I the best life😉

Lynn ngugi has plugged me to you dama..am watching from santorine Greece 🇬🇷

Hey doctor, give Lynn her chance to ask her questions and don’t interrupt her

I’m sorry but Zippy was throwing this conversation off balance!

3hours oh damn! I am sorted for the evening. Let me listen to Aliet ooze wisdom.

Great respectful debate. Well done. We need more such debates. When we listen to each other even if we have different perspectives we learn from each other. We have become very used to listening to opinions that reinforce our own beliefs and such debates where we talk to each other about our differences are healthy.

I am divorced and have no kids, but I am not settling with a man with kids. I'd rather stay alone because the same men don't want women with kids.

I like the calmness in Aliet. This is a trait I should cultivate especially when dealing with ladies

I was patiently waiting this wonderful people now here we’re ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️

Men love blame game, don’t want to be questioned even when they are wrong and his ego doesn’t allow him to own up his wrongdoing

Zippy talks too much... Won't let anyone even the moderator speak!

Just tuned in to learn more Nawapenda bure Team Lynn❤ Stay blessed always

Weuwe....This conversation take away...differing without personally attacking

no books can define man woman sexual relationships only GOD Almighty

Lynn forgot to be a moderator the whole conversation and joined the discussion 😅😂

I'm happy to live in America where age doesn't define you. Our local TV hosts are mostly in their 40's and 50's. Heck, even/ the presidential candidates are in their 70s and 80's

Hi Lynn I didn't see this coming let me sit and enjoy they are all brilliant 😊❤

I was not to comment but I had to zippy is dilutional and personal at the same time Aliet is not talking abt you. Just learn to listen zippy talk less

Not me trying so hard not to roll my eyes every time Jacob is speaking.☠️ Anyway if more people understood our assignment on Earth is being in a relationship with God, I think our relationships with each other would be beautiful.

This conversation has been engaging. Beautiful work LNN network.

Lynn, the sofas and interior decor is amazing 👏

Zippy is interrupting a lot. can't let the man give his points.

I like how aliet is calm and composed. Reading his book is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. Slowly unplugging

Thanks Aliet man🙏🙏you speaking facts that women find difficult to accept but instead remain in denial

It is demand that determines the value of a product. A product can't decide that its valuable if nobody wants it😂...

Some biology. The highest quality of eggs is at 16. At 32 quality drops. At 40 quality and quantity is low. Chances of defective pregnancy is higher

truth is if zippy was right she'd be married right now. Can't argue with results.

Date someone you can manage with period But settling at 22-26 still young that’s the time we were discovering life

Good stuff Aliet .. am following you straight up!

Jacob has a different way of looking at things, not the usual way but factual

Zippy made it personal and playing victim because of her status. Very dishonest

Lynn you're a gem thanks for having this conversation

Very interesting conversation...Well done!

I’m 25 years old female , and doing my Masters. Most women in their 20’s today have no desire to get married young. They are either in school or trying to better themselves. So it’s a high time Men understand that we are not leaving in the old days. And Today women are comfortably happy leaving a Single life and take care of themselves!