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@mercygirl317 4 ай бұрын

she slept with his gf and says "well you know how i was back then" excuse me what?? thats not remorseful or caring. shes selfish and toxic.

@edeyawilson8537 4 ай бұрын

She took responsibility and mentioned she made the mistake and wanted to be there for him if he had reached out to her. I know it's hard to have done something wrong then face the people youve hurt but no explanation because of alcohol messing with memory. Compassion and forgiveness I think is the theme

@mason62100 4 ай бұрын

She wasn’t using that as an excuse. It sounded like she was saying she was a shitty person and had a problem with drinking and partying.

@VenusQueen4720 4 ай бұрын

i understand what she was trying to say, espesc when she was going on about "it wasnt malicious to you" she was admitting to being selfish without saying she was being selfish. doesnt make it any better, if anything it makes it worse bc she didnt take any accountability

@KasperrsWorld 4 ай бұрын

Just Listen To Her Response When He Asked “What Could You Have Done Differently.” She Lists Off A Bunch Of Stuff But Never Said She Wouldn’t Have Slept With His Girl.. She Don’t Care Fr

@Jaxzyn 4 ай бұрын

@@KasperrsWorld this 100%! Listen to whether the cheater says, "I did this and apologize for it" or not. She didn't... She's still malicious.

@taylormoss4128 4 ай бұрын

The blonde girl rubbed me the wrong way. I cant put my finger on it. "My bad..i guess?" Spoke volumes

@avabackupaccount 4 ай бұрын

and the fact her other friends didn't like her best friend at the time and she stayed friends with them throughout the friendship😭

@3lneln95 4 ай бұрын

Yeah the body language, facial expressions and tone gave me bitchy vibes. Seems like a real life Regina George

@cassandravargas6332 4 ай бұрын

She’s not sorry whatso ever.

@rachellotus5137 4 ай бұрын

I think it's her unaffected overly polite demeanor while the brunette ex friend seemed a lot more "real" with her feelings and down-to-earth. I felt the same about the blonde girl.

@ajanniadamson4986 4 ай бұрын

Because it’s like she just didn’t care that’s the only vibe she giving 🫤

@kwanfuuuu6390 4 ай бұрын

Friends are the hardest exes to get over

@rafaelanobre2328 4 ай бұрын

Damn, that's so true...

@arandomperson1621 4 ай бұрын

Right because it isn’t romantic or physical attraction that fades, it’s something that makes it hard to even like them or want to talk to them at all

@Tyler-hm7mt 4 ай бұрын

@@arandomperson1621whats the something

@ihatehandles111 4 ай бұрын

I still think of my ex-best friend from high school. We stopped being friends 10 years ago. I hate her so much but also miss her and genuinely need therapy to cope with how bad of a friend she was. I can't believe I still think about her, but I don't think about any of my exes.

@minervaowl8298 4 ай бұрын

True still crying till this day

@raylee444 4 ай бұрын

Blonde girl seems toxic and shady…like she’s stuck in that high school mindset.

@kaylageairn 4 ай бұрын

Fr the second she said "I'm sorry I guess" tols me everything I needed to know. Lol had alot of "friends" like that

@raylee444 4 ай бұрын

@@kaylageairn exactly! reminds me of half the girls I go to school with lol

@jelly4129 4 ай бұрын

When she said all her other friends dont like her and still don't then why talk to each other then im not being with someone who hangs out with people that don't like me especially cuz they let them talk bad about you

@kaylageairn 4 ай бұрын

@raylee444 oh yeah but for me it was mid 20s 😬😬😬 how are they not embarrassed???

@sleepydei 4 ай бұрын

you can tell she's being passive asf like she can't wait to go home and talk shit about her 💀

@tablefullofgrapes 4 ай бұрын

I kinda feel bad for the guy with glasses. he not only lost his girlfriend but also his best friend at that time and then in the end he chose to STILL say fuck it let's be friends again..kinda powerful tbh

@noggodtv 4 ай бұрын

Idk what to call it but that dude is very strong. Had the same thing happened to me with my best friend/cousin and my girlfriend and let me tell you, that shit changes you for life. It happened almost 20 years ago and I still have trust issues

@rollitupmars 4 ай бұрын

AND she had the audacity to laugh at it….

@savannajade973 4 ай бұрын

Powerful is probably not how I would put it… people should have more respect for themselves to not keep people around who would treat them like that and not care ab them

@devonpaisleydp 4 ай бұрын

How’s he gonna say Homies over hoes when the Homie is a hoe?

@edeyawilson8537 4 ай бұрын

She did apologize and she also mentioned that she made the mistake but if he actually did go to her and tell her what he felt and what he was going through she would have took responsibility over her mistake and been there for him anyway. That's powerful as well. To own up to your shit knowing you did something bad and then wanting to help rather than hide away or ignore the whole she wanted to focus on how to repair.

@alien_superstar3841 4 ай бұрын

"They didn't like you then, and they don't like you now" oof that blonde haired girly is mean af omg

@godzlegendz 4 ай бұрын

Yeah that was so weird, she says she disagrees then says that. How does that disprove the original claim of "your friends don't like me"?

@kiedjunickyyoon1188 4 ай бұрын

I think the blonde-haired woman meant she disagrees that THAT was the reason they fell out; They were friends for 4 years, and her friends didn’t like her from the beginning, so it’s not like they stopped liking her and they stopped being friends. Hence, her friends not liking her is not related to them not being friends anymore. However, maybe the brunette woman didn’t know they disliked her for the entirety of the friendship and it got more obvious toward the end, which is why SHE thinks that’s the reason. Or maybe she means that they could’ve worked it out if it weren’t for her other friends being against her.

@godzlegendz 4 ай бұрын

That actually makes a lot of sense. I didn't think of it that way. Thanks

@Ceerads 4 ай бұрын

She’s not mean. She just confirmed what her former friend said. The blond woman said that because they’d been friends even though her friends didn’t like the other woman, so that dislike shouldn’t impede the two becoming friends again.

@godfriedtengelbedt8481 4 ай бұрын

@@Ceerads She was though. If everyone in your best friends life secludes and condemns you, that feels bad. and if you are out of her life, then the assumption that those people will be glad you are gone is pretty high. The blonde girl didnt react to what she was saying, she just went in with a counter argument, well then dont like you then and dont like you now.. Please just freaking say that it didnt matter to you and that the friendship between them was what mattered. But she didnt, probably for reasons. Be glad its over. Some friendships are meant to expire.

@arandomperson1621 4 ай бұрын

The fact that everyone is talking about the cheater and nobody is talking about the guy who was sending death threats to his friend after being held up by a stranger is kinda crazy like I thought that story was gonna be the one everyone was focused on 😭 Edit: I swear whenever I comment on a KZfaq video someone starts arguing in the replies over something irrelevant😭

@Slugflesh 4 ай бұрын

And that sweet little boy in the flame hat seems like such a nice guy ready to support him

@EarthChild-bj5tr 4 ай бұрын

I swear society does not measure up the real issues lol so focused on the cheater chick, we ignore the threatening man LOL

@SerenityReceiver 4 ай бұрын

Yeah red hat guy needs to leave the past behind him. Feels like a bit more than friends...

@Zedd... 4 ай бұрын

@EarthChild-bj5tr that's how it always is, everyone ignores when males are threatening violence and then act surprised when they follow through. We need to hold males accountable.

@anthonymc8361 4 ай бұрын

@@Slugflesh "sweet little boy" jeeez why can't men be lovey dovey and sweet for once without people baby-ing them.

@saintpalm 4 ай бұрын

the girl that slept with his ex is FOUL! She had no remorse and no accountability. He needa get his lick back BAD I'm just saying....

@emmabunch-benson4795 4 ай бұрын

Fr like just bc you miss someone doesn’t mean they’re supposed to be in your life

@ghibsoo 4 ай бұрын

right?? it’s 0:1 he gotta fight back

@swordlilly 4 ай бұрын

No fr😭

@AA-if9pw 4 ай бұрын

I think he should be grateful. She helped him please his woman, statistically speaking

@Ceerads 4 ай бұрын

I couldn’t STAND her whole affect.

@Shaboopalaboop 4 ай бұрын

A lot of these people are immature and toxic.

@t00sa 4 ай бұрын

I disagree, not the case for the beanie girl and the purple- haired girl. They just had miscommunication, and it looks like they could easily fix it in the end

@Zi_oraxox 4 ай бұрын

@@t00sathey said a lot not all

@StinsonSwarley 4 ай бұрын

@@t00sa I was gonna say the only ones I see working out are them, their interaction was the most authentic, mature and healthy

@huhok4082 4 ай бұрын

@@t00saI felt the purple haired woman was being disingenuous and trying to play victim to much

@Sukinero 4 ай бұрын

How if they all decided to forgive each other and remain friends

@gnahzmas 4 ай бұрын

Telling someone when their cry for help was not "specific" enough was triggering. There is no standard. When you best friend say "I'm not doing well. I have a bad feeling about this", that is more than enough

@henryinman4301 4 ай бұрын

That friend wasn't listening, just defending herself

@Bratattack333 4 ай бұрын

Exactly

@sleepydei 4 ай бұрын

like did she expect her to say "hey guys i might kms" IN A GROUP CHAT??

@music0cool 4 ай бұрын

Thank you!! Like imagine if they had suffered a recent severe trauma. Obviously thats not easy to talk about- ever-, let alone right after it happened. Especially if they Did tell someone already and they got a negative reaction.

@whatnos7456 4 ай бұрын

ikr?? i hope she finds better friends ngl

@laibakhattak7938 4 ай бұрын

The girl with the glasses and white hat looked so hurt throughout the video, she still has fresh wounds you can tell. I hope she finds some great friends that actually treasure her because she deserves that.

@popcandy3812 4 ай бұрын

Right??? Like this ex best friend took absolutely no accountability for her not being there for her friend like??? The whole time they were like "you did this" and "you did that" when homie was SUICIDAL?????? LIKE AS SOME1 WHO'S BEEN IN HER POSITION, PROPER COMMUNICATION IS DIFFICULT AS HELL. AND SHE EVEN TOOK RESPONSIBILITY FOR NOT COMMUNICATING HER FEELINGS PROPERLY AND YET THAT EX BEST FRIEND JUST KEP CRITISIZING HER LIKE????

@ilee732 4 ай бұрын

genuinely hurt me watching it. i had to go through the comment section to see if someone felt the same way. the “i think you have a problem with seeing someone else’s perspective,” 😟😟like what????

@popcandy3812 4 ай бұрын

@ilee732 This part like????? Gurl

@rvdpadt 4 ай бұрын

It felt real bad. First, the ex was like "we didn't know this was happening, you were so unclear", to then immediately follow-up with "when you told us the next day" and "then you shut us off". Later she said she would "be there for her" if she knew, but... you just said you only didn't know for 24 hours? Someone tells you they're depressed, suicidal and then continue to clearly not be okay and shutting themselves off from the world. That's when you should be there, and not blame her afterwards that she didn't handle it correctly

@gracee6008 4 ай бұрын

Yeah I went through a really similar situation and I would NEVER go back to those friends. I can't trust them anymore.

@gen9018 4 ай бұрын

I so desperately want to hear about the guy who was held at gunpoints story 😳

@oooladip 4 ай бұрын

ikr! So many details missing from that relationship

@ReapedLegacy 4 ай бұрын

I think his buddy did set him up. I know what guilty people in that situatiom look like,and the second he denied it he not only broke eye contact but completely bowed his head.

@adrianpink8144 4 ай бұрын

@@ReapedLegacy i doubt someone who loves their friend would do that. He is probably acting nervous/awkward bc it’s difficult to have this kind of conversation with an estranged friend

@ReapedLegacy 4 ай бұрын

@@adrianpink8144 Nah, I have been face to face with someone like this. He's guilty of something . At the very least he knew it was bout to go down.

@DA-js7xz 4 ай бұрын

So many redneck vibes.

@analbinoblackbear 4 ай бұрын

*Cheats with best friend's girlfriend* "It's not anything malicious." You may not be trying to cause harm but the level of delusion is astounding... I'm wondering if she ever apologized and it was edited out, or if her genuine reaction was to defend cheating as a, "well I wasn't trying to hurt you, I'm just really selfish..." Dude if you're watching this, don't stay friends with her, she clearly hasn't worked through her problems. *Edit, didn't comment on the dude sending death threats because honestly it reads like serious paranoia that should be dealt with by a therapist

@philipsparks3438 4 ай бұрын

Ameeeen. I was thinking the exact same thing. “You know me I just fuck and party”. The immaturity and narcissism kills me

@Zedd... 4 ай бұрын

We only saw them for a couple of minutes in total from a 10 mins video, and if the victim in the situation himself was the one who invited her himself, and the one who suggested that they become friends again, then he's free to do so and it's none of our business

@grimwithgabby3754 4 ай бұрын

Exactly. Some things you just need to let go of even if you don't want to.

@avp0604 4 ай бұрын

Yep. She's an A Hole. She had no remorse. The guy should never forgive her and stay friends with her.

@honema123456789 4 ай бұрын

it's like, malice isn't the only bad thing you can do to someone. Negligence is usually far worse on someone

@kwanfuuuu6390 4 ай бұрын

"She's not on my guest list" got me💀

@j.j.j.j.1830 4 ай бұрын

Lmfaooo the “Oh” sent me

@tenisha4506 4 ай бұрын

Its okay, she don't need the blondie

@Sul516 4 ай бұрын

Why did they end it like that lmao

@neeladuggal8581 4 ай бұрын

hahaha the blonde girl was definitely bitchy and deserved that comment. Good for the brunette for sticking up for herself- I hope she enjoys her wedding with her actual friends and family :)!

@aliciabanks2293 4 ай бұрын

They will not be friends again hahah!

@gabobaggins 4 ай бұрын

Hello, this is Gabi (girl with white beanie and glasses). First of all, thank you for the supportive comments- I teared up a lot 🥺 I was feeling doubtful in myself but now I feel more validated ❤ So I'm the one who was invited to be on this episode, and at first I was hesitant because I was afraid to relive the events that happened in summer 2023 that led me to my emotional breakdown. But when Ella reassured me she wanted to clear the air and reconnect, I agreed to sign up. During the filming, I acknowledged that I could have been better at communicating and handling the situation better- I was very much open to hearing her side and feedback, which she gave. Looking back, I did feel like I was being gaslit at some point, but during the filming I was too tipsy to notice. Yeah, we took a lot of shots despite answering all the prompts- I was really anxious being there 😅 I had a feeling that she wasn't interested in reconnecting after that day, which was confirmed when she messaged me exactly that after this episode aired. I agree that she wasn't painted in the best light due to some context being cut out, but at the same time I also agree that some of the things she said were deflective and for lack of a better word...fake? I mean the fact that she reached out wanting to reconnect with me, then turning the other direction after this episode made her not seem genuine. My boyfriend was there with me behind the scenes, and after watching this episode he thought the same. He also commented that regardless of the outcome, this could be a good way to spread awareness; get people thinking about how to better communicate in their relationships, what signs to look out for in friends who are going through a rough time, etc. Overall, the falling out plus being on this episode has taught me a lot about myself and how to handle conflict going forward. Once again, thank you for the supportive comments. I'm doing much better now and I'm surrounded by good people ❤ PS: Ella is a nice person. We're just not compatible.

@mjjunk 4 ай бұрын

hope you’re doing so so well

@Vampiregirl21 4 ай бұрын

I hope you have friends now who cherish you

@dm8514 4 ай бұрын

wishing you the best ❤❤❤

@gabobaggins 4 ай бұрын

Thank you y’all. I saw Ella added a comment giving more context, but she missed a huge chunk about what I was going through prior to my emotional breakdown. I was grieving the death of my classmate and dealing with the falling out of another friendship weeks prior. So for her to say that she reached out after my breakdown is her trying to save face. She hardly reached out to me before then as I was going through the rough times. We are in fact not “besties”, and she referred to someone else in the group as that, which kind of stung since she invited me to this episode. She claims she cared about me but it’s really a facade.

@JoleneHaze-dj9on 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sick of people using the term gaslighting when it's not appropriate, gaslighting is an abuse tactic used in interpersonal relationships and should only be used in a psychological or therapeutic context. Disagreeing about what happened is NOT gaslighting.

@DaireMagic 4 ай бұрын

I hope the girl who was suicidal finds some real friends who love & support her & are there for her when she needs them the most.

@usucktoo 4 ай бұрын

she does. but there are things she needs to work on to keep those friendships. friends are not mind readers

@Burner---Phone584 4 ай бұрын

@@usucktoo found the purple haired girl

@oooladip 4 ай бұрын

Ella put in a comment that shares more perspective about the situation. Apparently, she did reach out as soon as she saw Gabi's message.

@Ceerads 4 ай бұрын

She said she hadn’t been specific about being suicidal. And her friend did reach out the next day. People aren’t mind readers.

@youzer69 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, it definitely sounded like she was ostracized and ganged up on throughout the relationship. When an entire group chat tries to tell you that you were in the wrong, I don't blame her for feeling guilt-tripped into apologizing. People who are suicidal do not have the time nor energy to be worrying about how other people are perceiving their pain.

@jelly4129 4 ай бұрын

The girl with glasses the second she said I'm having bad thoughts i would've reached out to her and asked her if she's okay for the friend group chat to ignore her or not take her seriously is kinda messed up

@omotayosatuyi252 4 ай бұрын

Those friends where lazy dude I don't like it when people say something bad is going on

@jelly4129 4 ай бұрын

@@omotayosatuyi252fr like not one person even asked her a simple why?

@sarahdemartin1183 4 ай бұрын

word like it’s their BEST FRIEND. To me best friend is equivalent to family. I feel if your best friend is messaging these type of things in a group chat, you should definitely take more initiative to be there for them

@Zbandsz 4 ай бұрын

I agree why did she need to spell it out? It’s giving she’s not valued in the friendship.

@omotayosatuyi252 4 ай бұрын

@@jelly4129 they are inconsiderate a holes Jesus Christ

@chelseaedwards9425 4 ай бұрын

The girl who was suicidal was really let down by her friends. If either one of my best friends told our group chat that she was having bad feelings, we would all be in that chat furiously making sure everyone was doing okay. We live hundreds of miles apart but we've dealt with these scary moments before and it's not something to just ignore because she wasn't "specific enough." That's such a cop-out.

@bubgerkirg 4 ай бұрын

yeah that pissed me off. even if you thought it was too vague at first, you understand now, so what’s the point of making excuses to try and make yourself look better instead of just apologizing?

@anthonyfernandez1345 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! Been looking for someone to point this out! Even throughout the episode she didn't accept any responsibility. And the language she uses is definitely insensitive! "Then you dropped off FOREVER" NO, she could've let those un alive thoughts win and never be anywhere again. Take that shit more seriously. Take responsibility because you could've lost your friend forever, and you could've possibly prevented it if you took more care in asking questions. Anytime someone comes to me for any type of counseling for having a hard time, even if they don't seem in the un aliving mood, I always ask "do you have thoughts about hurting yourself" because most people who truly have those thoughts don't wear it on their sleeve.

@martinezti 4 ай бұрын

@@anthonyfernandez1345i was looking for these comments too! it’s wild that gray hair was sooo defensive the whole time while glasses was so vulnerable

@louisenobrega6183 4 ай бұрын

exactly! they should've reached out. They acted like it was drama or she was doing for attention, like , common! It's not normal messaging "I am having bad feelings" and vanish. I'm going through the same situation but for different reasons and I just wish my friends would take me more seriousl, but whatever, I'll be okay.

@antibullshit 4 ай бұрын

I hate that people in general only want to be there for the happy moments, good vibes. That's not what relationships are about, nobody's ever good vibes only.

@whatevermaann 3 ай бұрын

the girl with the purple-ish hair makes my blood boil.. you can tell she’s expecting an apology or something when she doesn’t deserve one.. if someone is texting you that they’re having “bad thoughts”, you don’t need to ask what or why.. if you really care about your friend, just keep them company and distract them… she’s definitely one of those surface level friends, and nothing more.. if you have a friend like that, don’t go to them for help unless you want to be gaslit into thinking its your fault for reaching out.. find people who care about you!

@EveryThingGirl238 2 ай бұрын

I’ve had a friend like this. Always saying this. I was there for her. And it turned out to be lies. She never wanted me to comfort her, she just wanted a pity party. Eventually you get mentally exhausted of dealing with it. And sometimes you can’t help them. She was upset that she couldn’t help her friend. Because her friend wouldn’t let her. And that’s being inconsiderate of her feelings too. You can be suicidal and depressed and still be a dick to people.

@slimshady1293 Ай бұрын

@@EveryThingGirl238truee! And u need therapy nod friends for this kind of things sometimes yea it can really help talking with a friend but when its that seriously go to a therapist

@georginacalder6798 Ай бұрын

I hear you and I agree that friends should know us enough to check in and also kinda read us? But that being said if I am depressed and going through a lot I also don't expect my friends, or anyone, to be my crutch, that's also not fair on them. In my friend group we are all on some level struggling with mental health etc and as much as I would reach out and say "I'm in a bad place", they would respond, but I don't expect them to come rushing to my side to listen/fix the situ. For me, that's what doctors are for. Sure not everyone can afford or get to a doctor, but I just feel like my emotional baggage shouldn't weigh down my closest loves. They can be aware of my situ, visit me or keep in contact, but not carry my baggage for me. Just my feelings~friendships are 50/50, just because I am having a hard time and vocalising it, doesn't mean my friends are in the space to help me/carry my shit (to clarify further, ofc I'd expect them to say they are there for me if I need to talk, but that's it)

@whatevermaann Ай бұрын

@@georginacalder6798 go to a therapist and they’ll tell you to create a support system.. aka friends and family.. thinking it’s baggage for someone else is a personal issue, its insecurity that you’re a burden on other people.. if your friend actually thinks that then you don’t need that friend.. you’re supposed to surround yourself with people who love and care about you and they would have your back if you fell.. its not their responsibility to keep you floating, but.. not only are they there for the fun moments, they’re there for the tough moments in life too.. if one of my friends called me and told me “i’m having a hard time” ..i’m talking over the phone with them ALL night, i don’t care its all night because i love my friends, i WANT to be there for them, its not a burden.. if talking to them isn’t calming them down or helping anything for the moment, then they should probably go to the hospital..

@whatevermaann Ай бұрын

@@georginacalder6798 my mom lost a friend when she was young, that friend called her before she committed..My mom still holds guilt to this day that she didn’t answer.. she taught me to be there for my friends especially in those moments because even feeling like someones there can save a persons life

@moshea8296 4 ай бұрын

Cody is a lucky man to have Tyler as a friend. Tyler is wise beyond his years.

@fiery_hunter3271 4 ай бұрын

Tyler set Cody up with a stranger who assaulted him. Maybe he's wiser now, but man...

@sal9871 4 ай бұрын

@@fiery_hunter3271unless i missed it he had no part in thatv

@fiery_hunter3271 4 ай бұрын

@@sal9871 Maybe that went over my head. My bad.

@antibullshit 4 ай бұрын

@@fiery_hunter3271 I don't understand what happened there

@whatthefreakkkk 4 ай бұрын

@@sal9871yeah, just wish he hadn’t avoided eye contact right when he said that tho (a common indicator of lying) :/

@Oliver-eu1wz 4 ай бұрын

the relationship between the guy with the flame hat and the guy with the yellow hat is so intense and intriguing to me. It especially shows through at 7:57. So good to see a male platonic relationship be that deep... and if there are more feelings there, it only gets more intriguing

@DA-js7xz 4 ай бұрын

We're just not used to seeing men openly express their affection for each other in a platonic way in the West. It's sad.

@mayaholguin8614 4 ай бұрын

Felt the same way. Really heartwarming to see a male friendship with depth like this

@cracker20 3 ай бұрын

@@DA-js7xzI think Tyler was a little uncomfortable because Cody, told him he loved him and was always his friend. I think Tyler might felt the same way however, Tyler, might take Cody’s friendship for granted. As a guy that can be awkward to hear and more so, on camera. I could say that to my best buddy. I don’t want anyone to hear the conversation.

@musicmaniarat 4 ай бұрын

The blonde and brunette ooh Good decision in the end

@space5872 4 ай бұрын

"Shes not on my guest list" 😂

@musicmaniarat 4 ай бұрын

@@space5872 I don’t blame her Lol

@notamberp 4 ай бұрын

@@space5872 maybe she shouldn’t be on anyone’s lol seems like a dick

@samanthacross5819 4 ай бұрын

Agreed. I did hate the blonde’s comment “call me after you have a baby and we will revisit this question …” as if having a baby is the only thing that makes someone mature? Girl… She might not have a baby, but she is 100% more mature than you are acting.

@calumcalpal5sosgamer524 4 ай бұрын

im sorry but the cheater does not sit right with him. the guy deserves better and def needs to know his worth :(

@carsonskiing 4 ай бұрын

yeah. The only ones that I though would actually be friends again were the two guys.

@EffinFatai 4 ай бұрын

If my best friend smashed my gf, It should be over even if she's forgiven. She could've tried to get with anyone but fact that she intentionally went after the one girl that is suppose to loyal to her best friend is malicious and should be taken personally.

@TimeattackGD 4 ай бұрын

I dont understand this type of mindset. by the wording it feels like you are putting all the blame onto the person initiating the cheating like what? if my friend cheated on my girlfriend I would have more issues with the girlfriend because shes the one I thought I could trust. why do people like absorb the person being cheated with of all responsobility, like as if its they just had no choice but to accept the invitation, actual delusional mindset

@kaetimm 4 ай бұрын

And then to say “Well, she was available.” 🤢 So gross.

@lightinthefield 4 ай бұрын

@@TimeattackGD Both are at fault but we're not watching a vid of the guy and his ex. We're watching the guy and his best friend discuss what SHE did wrong.

@OKBoomer2k 4 ай бұрын

Yeah. The girlfriend is most of the problem. It's on HER to maintain the monogamy. Her boyfriend has the same responsibility too but it doesn't sound like he did anything.

@lankastols7817 4 ай бұрын

I half agree - I do feel the gf was obvi also responsible, but the friend was DEF responsible too - she was supposed to be loyal to her best friend, and even if his gf threw herself at the ex-friend, she should've said no. In my humble opinion. But both of them decided to do something that they knew would hurt the guy, so both are to blame. Also, the way the ex-friend words it in the video with saying "well she was there/available" like she's blaming proximity for her having sex with her best friend's gf, makes it feel like she initiated it. She didn't say the gf initiated it.

@viwoski7454 4 ай бұрын

doing anything with ur BEST FRIEND’s significant other will always be the most disrespectful thing u can do to someone that close to u

@notamberp 4 ай бұрын

the MOST disrespectful thing? not at all lol be thankful if cheating is as bad is it’s gotten for ya lol

@carolbaskin1857 3 ай бұрын

@@notamberpI mean there’s obviously worse things but that’s still bad

@Joseph-xi8zp 3 ай бұрын

@@notamberpyou need mental help

@robert7567 4 ай бұрын

You threaten to k*ll me to the point where I’m actually scared you’ll do it - nah, we’re never being friends again. There’s more to this story or they’re both toxic.

@mel-pd8tf 4 ай бұрын

To be fair he thought he was set up

@robert7567 4 ай бұрын

@@mel-pd8tf and you believe that gives him or anyone for that matter the right to threaten to take someone’s life?

@mel-pd8tf 4 ай бұрын

@@robert7567 no but I wanted to highlight that he was probably in a paranoid mental state given his situation. Perhaps I would think I was being set up too. I wouldn’t go as far as threatening a friend though

@Sylvanari 3 ай бұрын

@@robert7567 there’s nuance to every situation, and considering the lack of details they offered, I’m sure the reaction was likely more warranted than we might think.

@robert7567 3 ай бұрын

@@Sylvanari y’all be crazy. Threatening to end someone’s life has legal consequences.

@crocidilly9968 4 ай бұрын

fire beanie guy is so refreshing to see, he’s so smart and not afraid to show emotion

@faevourite 4 ай бұрын

i am convinced that lack of (proper) communication is the cause of most relationship downfalls.

@makaronmadownahihi 4 ай бұрын

Or when u are open with feelings about certain things/events and they just ignore your point of view (but then u cut them off and suddenly shocked pikachu face)

@strawberrycherrybaby 3 ай бұрын

This is literally ‘one normal person and one completely toxic motherfucker try to be friends again’

@DaireMagic 4 ай бұрын

None of these people should be friends. It's not easy but move the hell on.

@RexDavis415 4 ай бұрын

Facts. I let a former friend back into my life, but something seemed off. I tested them to see if they actually changed, but they failed. Cut ex friends off completely.

@o_m8717 Ай бұрын

I don't know why people find that so hard to do!" 😪

@nachosneeze22 3 ай бұрын

these two dudes in hats have a wild story, wish I could hear more details

@MickMikka 4 ай бұрын

My best friend passed away last year. We went our separate ways for a few years before reuniting again, which was something he initiated. I miss that bastard so much. Thanks for making me tear up, Cut. If you've still got your best mate around, tell em you love em and treasure that relationship til the day you both die.

@jessicamaisie 4 ай бұрын

I'm really sorry for your loss, hope you're doing well :)

@haileyday9910 4 ай бұрын

My best friend also died a little over a year ago. We lost contact but reunited as if no time had passed. I was so grateful for our friendship and I still am. I miss her dearly. Hope you’re doing okay. I know how hard it is

@NessiiBear 4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. I took your advice and messaged my best friend. We never tell each other that we love each other but now I’m going to start because your comment.

@emy4808 4 ай бұрын

My best friend also passed away in May. We reunited after a few years after a fallout we had back in highschool. I got another year with her before she passed. I got the matching tattoo we were gonna get in memory of her. I’m sorry for your loss, I really relate to this 💔

@jillsarah7356 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for covering friend “breakups” and PLEASE do more vids on this topic! It is so under-discussed and can be such a brutal and alienating experience. This video made me feel less alone

@dontletdonghaedrive 3 ай бұрын

Honestly I'm so curious how they managed to get these ex best friends on this together, I don't think mine would do that, so howw

@anna20812 4 ай бұрын

I could never imagine doing this with my ex best friend. The guts these people have to do it on camera too…

@mokaLARE 4 ай бұрын

Unless they fix what the real issue was that caused the friendship to be over, they can’t get back together and be as they were before.

@netanyamedina3409 4 ай бұрын

Honestly, this brings me back to when my best friend and I stop being friends. It still made me sad the way it happened. One day, she invited me over, and we talked and made up. We are still best friends to this day. To be honest, talking about the hardest things is hard but should happen.

@Happypotato917 4 ай бұрын

Something is hard

@avabackupaccount 4 ай бұрын

I wish I did thiss but me and my best friend just became distant and kind of grew apart, we stopped talking as much like we'd talk a few times every month and then one day she blocked me on everything

@galvaron123 4 ай бұрын

Gabby: "I felt very suicidal" Mozart in the background: 🌸🥰🥳🤩💃

@poejavelski148 4 ай бұрын

“I feel like if you came to talk to me and ask me about anything, things could have been different 😢😞” HEY GUYS, THIS IS KELLY FROM CUT!!! 🤪😜😆😁 Ffs cut, there’s a time and a place 🤦‍♂️

@Ambi1021 4 ай бұрын

🤣😂

@nickylars 4 ай бұрын

Well for once the montage was...😅😂😂😂😂🤣

@canikissyou86 4 ай бұрын

LMAOO

@Channiekooksroom18 4 ай бұрын

Damn me and my ex best friend could never do this 😂

@Ambi1021 4 ай бұрын

Same!! I wouldn't even show up to be honest.

@reginaphillips174 4 ай бұрын

Lol I was thinking “hmm I wonder if I get it would she do it with me…. Nahhh” 😭😂😂

@savannahjames3259 4 ай бұрын

No same I’d tell mine I knew ours was over when you were stinky everyday all day but there’s so much more lmao

@o_m8717 Ай бұрын

I've had 3 best friends all my life. I wonder who it'll be. 😂😂😂😂

@zzzaturn 4 ай бұрын

For the friends with the girl with the beanie, I feel her. I ruined some good friendships with my own inner battles. I regret it all the time. I’m glad they got to talk it out.

@strawberrycherrybaby 3 ай бұрын

Nah she didn’t ruin anything. Her ‘friend’ is blame shifting and taking zero accountability. It’s classic narcissism.

@hobbithabits 3 ай бұрын

You didnt ruin anything. You didnt have a proper support system when you needed it most. Im sorry you were made to feel like its your fault.

@chai_lattes 2 ай бұрын

Same. Ghosted literally all of my friends when I was going through it. I feel like they've probably all moved on without me. I feel like if I reached out to them a lot of them would welcome me back with open arms, but I'm just too ashamed of myself. Sometimes I feel like I'm broken and it's hard to be around people when you feel so alone on the inside.

@lanielovespopculture 4 ай бұрын

Interesting that the girls with the least crazy story were the ones who won’t able to reconcile

@hehetzen 4 ай бұрын

seems like she was just petty for not being invited to the wedding lmao

@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken 2 ай бұрын

@@hehetzen did you miss the part where all of her other friends hate her? What's the point in hanging out with someone when any time ANY one else she is friends with is there, will be actively hostile towards you? Blond is also completely dismissive of this supposed "friend's" feelings, yet was the one who wanted to invite her to the damn show as if she ever cared.

@Captainumerica 4 ай бұрын

1:43 That must be one of the most insincere apologies I ever seen and heard. She didn't want closure, she just felt bad. And just doubled down.

@er-ha 4 ай бұрын

I’m going to be honest, I don’t understand the friends where one was suicidal. The one friend saying “you only said that you were having bad thoughts, not that you were suicidal”… What? I feel like if a friend said to me that they were having bad thoughts, I’d be concerned enough to ask for some more information and it would come out pretty quickly. Or if they don’t want to talk about it beyond that, at least offering some comfort is bare minimum right?

@oooladip 4 ай бұрын

Ella put in a comment that shares more perspective about the situation. Apparently, she did reach out as soon as she saw Gabi's message.

@abcd-ella 4 ай бұрын

I don't blame you for not understanding-the way the video was edited skews the entire situation! I explained what happened in a separate comment, but in short, we had no way of knowing she was suicidal based on what she told us that day. Still, she said she was feeling low so I did reach out to her and tried to adjust my plans last minute to be able to see her. Everyone in the friend group loved Gabi and tried to support and comfort her every time she needed it.

@abcd-ella 4 ай бұрын

@@oooladipI've seen you comment this in a few places, and I appreciate it! Thank you!

@oooladip 4 ай бұрын

@abcd-ella Np! The editing of the video showed you in a negative light. I really appreciated the context you brought to the situation in your comment. It reminded me that as viewers, we get maybe only 5% of the situation. We run with that little amount of info and make hella assumptions about ppl that may or may not be true.

@er-ha 4 ай бұрын

@@abcd-ella Thank you, the additional context is much appreciated. Honestly I think my comment was made too hastily and from a place of understanding and empathising more with Gabi/Gabi’s perspective. In reality, you can only do what you can do and unfortunately you cannot be what everyone needs or wants at any given time. I think it’s difficult to be struggling and not wanting or being able to express the depth of it, but it’s also difficult to be the person someone in such a situation expects to understand with a limited explanation. In any case, hope you both are well and thank you again for being open with this^^

@kenster8270 4 ай бұрын

The guy who got mugged at gunpoint and beaten up after a party: Seems like a lot of details have been edited out here. Details that might help explain hy he would be sending death threats to the skinny guy who he believed had orchestrated the assault. Also, at 2:52 the skinny guy is avoiding eye contact and squirming in his seat while he is denying any involvement in the assault. Seems fishy to me. 🤔🐠

@iGottakissU 4 ай бұрын

dang ok mister CIA. But you are write like the lady who prettended like she never say the other girl at the market at 1:48. I usually am very innocent but exect for the depressed lady all those people should not reconnect.

@Zbandsz 4 ай бұрын

Yea why was he acting like that and awkward chuckling while saying he had nothing to do with it

@mk_gh0st248 4 ай бұрын

I thought it was odd for him to say he had no part in it. Feel like you would say something different.

@whatthefreakkkk 4 ай бұрын

i thought the exact same thing when he looked away. i don’t entirely believe he had nothing to do with it :/

@ElDaumo 4 ай бұрын

most of what you think to know about body language is wrong

@Orange_creamsicle 4 ай бұрын

Red curly hair seemed like there was no remorse in sleeping with their friends girlfriend

@katherines3641 4 ай бұрын

the fact that the white guy in the yellow cap thought his “best friend” was even capable of that is very telling tbh and when he was like “i had a problem with ur loyalty” i definitely believe he knew about what happened to him that night

@Sul516 4 ай бұрын

Yeah I need more explanation of their situation. Even the way the dude in the flames hat said “I had no part in that” makes it seem like he at least knows who did have a part in it

@lizardquinceanera6893 4 ай бұрын

@@Sul516YES!!! “ I had no part it that” well what is “that” then?????

@rhorantyko7796 4 ай бұрын

No but the thing is though when you go to an event like that where it's like a friend of a friend type deal, it's likely that the mugger is a mutual friend of people in that friend group, so someone either knew what was going to happen or that he's a sketchy guy. So like it's very hard to call either way. Like he could have no clue about the mugger guy or he could've known that x friend at this party has sketchy friends. I think that's more plausible than he like orchestrated it in some way.

@stacibird8434 3 ай бұрын

I can’t tell if none of these people should be friends or all of them

@caspercomments 3 ай бұрын

2:11 she clearly didn’t care when the other girl first reached out and she definitely doesn’t care about her mental health now. seems like a clear case of guilt tripping.

@princessrella 4 ай бұрын

The girls crying and saying “I miss you” made me cry. I cut off two of my best friends in the last year and even though I know it was for the best, I still think about them all the time and I miss them. I miss who they used to be. I miss how we used to be.

@R0995 4 ай бұрын

Tyle was so sweet when he said he would be there for his friend whatever mood he is in. We need more of this conversations between men❤

@iKilledKennyXD 4 ай бұрын

@ 2:30 So.. was he actually set up then? Either way.. if you think your friends are capable of that, maybe its best to cut them off.

@jadjax6609 4 ай бұрын

i wanna see the uncut vers of this

@user-ho7qq6ve6t 4 ай бұрын

Those two boys showing love to each other was very sweet to see. Straight men have feelings and need to feel ok expressing them.

@sarutaii 4 ай бұрын

I'm sending so much love to glasses girl 💗 Also I suggest y'all read the book Big Friendship. It's about two people who were so deeply close and the falling out that happened and how they dealt with it. It was interesting how they discussed what adult friendships look like in our lives and made me really reflect on the friendships I've lost.

@TYLERWITHTHE 4 ай бұрын

this is tyler yall need to stop with the "oh he look nervous!" at the setup question LOL

@jrussel99 4 ай бұрын

Can you share more about what happened? How was he even in the position to be robbed like that?

@TYLERWITHTHE 4 ай бұрын

@@jrussel99 long story short we went to a party who my girls friend and some mutuals were at. before showing up my girl got informed that there was “some drama” going on but nothing too pressing. we get there and the drama was this drunk dude was playing around recklessly with his gun all pissed off bout something unknown. we hated the vibes going on there so we decided to head out. it was new years so mfs was drunk and somehow my boy was really really drunk and decided to just run off into the night as we was heading to our ride. i waited around outside for an hour and a half tryna find him and calling him over n over just for the calls to be ignored so me my girl and my other friends just ended up giving up and going home bout 4 minutes away. at some point he decides to go back to that house, the dude who was acting crazy with the gun was just not a good person and one thing led to another with them and he ended up punching cody and taking his stuff and all that and cody thought that was my friend but i wanted to be as far away as possible from that situation as soon as we pulled up. it was all in all just a drunken mess and cody just thought i left him there on purpose and all that but mfs was just drunk like i said

@TheRexb1 4 ай бұрын

are you and cody still friends after this?

@RCsBoy82 Ай бұрын

7:41 “But I like know you” and so on - this conversation

@Seabass1206 4 ай бұрын

i don’t think any of these fools where ever really friends

@keenweee 4 ай бұрын

they are all better than me for even attempting to sign up for this.

@DuragAllDay 4 ай бұрын

6:26 Interrupting this emotional ass video with an ad is wild af. Nice job breaking the tension though.

@guccinaenaebaby2928 4 ай бұрын

Nah dude with glasses was way too quick to be friends again. She wasn’t sorry at all “yk how I was back then, partying and fuckin” like that ain’t an excuse

@wavvycrybabyy 4 ай бұрын

the end of this got me crying bro someone give gabi a hug

@Donteatmahfood 4 ай бұрын

2:51 mmm cuz it sounds like a set up and then you can’t say it wasn’t a set up you just say you’re not involved

@AscendantCaleb 4 ай бұрын

He might not have been "involved" but it sounds like he knew something.

@Donteatmahfood 4 ай бұрын

@@AscendantCaleb exactly!!!

@Sul516 4 ай бұрын

Yeah that was suspicious 🤨

@Chiggianya 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow the person who was suicidal..,,,people NEED to know that a call for help is NOT ALWAYS DIRECT!!! Please everyone learn from your mistakes. We all make mistakes, but please learn from them

@SkinnyLegend-zi6nn 4 ай бұрын

Literally, she’s like “you weren’t being direct” like it’s a gc, even in person ASKING QUESTIONS EXIST? It really feels like her friends didn’t gaf or was like “I don’t have time for this atm”. Like I’ve been in that situation sm times and those are always the excuse👎🏾

@omotayosatuyi252 4 ай бұрын

Those friends were crappy people

@abcd-ella 4 ай бұрын

Ella here! I completely agree that it's hard to be direct when asking for help, especially as someone who has been in treatment for clinical depression and has experienced suicidal ideation for most of my life. I replied to her vague messages and contacted her directly to support her but she told me not to worry, and didn't say anything to indicate what was going on. (That's what I meant about needing her to be more direct.) I trusted what she told me and gave her space. It wasn't until a few days later that she told the group that she had been having suicidal thoughts that day and lashed out at us for not being there for her.

@nhc5733 4 ай бұрын

The music in the background certainly doesn't match the mood 😅

@helloimyams 4 ай бұрын

How do they get people to come there lol

@j.e.m.7182 4 ай бұрын

Must be some damn good money 🤣🤣

@Kirabella222 4 ай бұрын

This was such an open hearted, vulnerable, genuine dialogue I’ve ever seen with ex best friends and it makes me think of the root of how special and crazy friendships can be and I want to say thank you to the people who really put themselves out there to initiate productive dialogue and get closure. Takes some courage, and I almost cried watching some of them make up🥹 good job guys. Cut, you’re out there changing lives.

@listentome271 3 ай бұрын

The one with the dude being held at gunpoint is crazy and the other dude just kind of brushed over it

@agusmaulana1325 4 ай бұрын

These feels more like an acquaintance than a best friend

@Zedd... 4 ай бұрын

Well, yeah. They're estranged, they haven't spoken for years.

@emily1234ization 4 ай бұрын

That guy couldn’t even say “no I didn’t set you up”

@meredithjohnson2843 4 ай бұрын

Seriously couldn’t even look at him in the eyes.

@anthonymc8361 4 ай бұрын

He did? He said he had no part in it

@Happypotato917 4 ай бұрын

You can tell he still loves him tho

@ElDaumo 4 ай бұрын

@@meredithjohnson2843most of what you think to know about body language is wrong

@meredithjohnson2843 4 ай бұрын

@@ElDaumo I never claimed to be an expert just pointed out what I saw.

@ntanemohlala4907 4 ай бұрын

blonde girl is mean-girl coded asfff, Red beanie guy really missed his friend

@lastwaltzyoorim 4 ай бұрын

just a reminder to please check up on your friends if they're saying ominous things or acting out of the ordinary. having poor mental health and/or mental illnesses causes us to self-destruct and distance ourselves even if we do not intend to do so. ending a friendship over something like this does not really seem fair and with just make the person affected feel worse in their situation.

@abcd-ella 4 ай бұрын

Ella here, I completely agree with your reminder! I appreciate you sharing your insight and perspective. I gave a lot of context about the reality of the situation in a separate comment, so I'll just say here that I did my best to support Gabi throughout everything, and didn't want the friendship to end! I was respecting her decision to take some time to herself, and waited to hear from her for a long time. I was blindsided when I found out that she blocked me after she had a falling-out with another friend in the group. This is what made me say that I felt like she sabotaged our friendship. I was openly willing to work through conflict, but wasn't given the chance until this shoot. I would never end a genuine friendship over something that could be worked out through honest communication. I'm always willing to talk things out and make changes to better support my friends and grow as a person, and I'll continue to do so in the future!

@lastwaltzyoorim 4 ай бұрын

hi@@abcd-ellayou do seem like a genuine soul, and i really appreciate you taking the time to read through comments and explain further what we didn't get to see in the video. i wish the best for you and your friendships in the future!

@melmichael1865 2 ай бұрын

Cody and Tyler were probably the most genuine and interesting friends here. The way Tyler talks lets me know that bond runs deep and I wish the video focused on them more. “I always loved you” wholesome as fuck

@kole2fye453 4 ай бұрын

1:04 I was not expecting that

@genevievelynn24 4 ай бұрын

i think i’m in love with the dude in the flame hat

@qriz5 4 ай бұрын

This video needed to be 20m minutes longer

@dhenderson319 Ай бұрын

Yeah I still don’t understand what happened between the blonde and brunette girl

@trishatherese8198 4 ай бұрын

Blonde and brunette friendship weird like the blonde really gave off she's still living in that highschool mindset

@emmabunch-benson4795 4 ай бұрын

Yeah and having a bunch of friends who don’t like the brunette? Like wtf? Fucking ew I wouldn’t be friends w someone who had a bunch of friends who openly don’t like me…blondie sounds like a fucking bully & the friends shared dislike of brown haired girl comes from blondie. She seems really vile and snake like

@taylormoss4128 4 ай бұрын

The way she acted like the "my bad..I guess" was so immature it made my head hurt

@sanguivoir6923 4 ай бұрын

agree! on a side note, your dp is giving me all sorts of feelings- the cutest comic of all time!

@biigbabiibeean6312 3 ай бұрын

Awww Tyler and Cody seem a lil but more than friends but even if they aren’t wow!! Tyler’s such a good dude it seems soo sweet!!

@lisaf5764 4 ай бұрын

There is so much chemistry between the guy in the flame hat and the guy in the cap, I wonder whats the story there...

@SS-cu8se 4 ай бұрын

Im so interested in the topic of friendship ever since my close friend cut me off, which felt like a blindside. I find it so interesting that people complain about a lack of community or feeling alone, but are willing to throwaway a friendship (that has history) for things that can be easily discussed. The problem is people would rather have a victim complex and label others the villain instead of having the courage to have hard conversations. Ego is more important than communication and empathy for a lot of people. That’s why we’re dealing with a loneliness epidemic.

@carmabelle1717 4 ай бұрын

Yes, but I think with age and growth and natural changes over time, some friendships just run their course or don't have the same strength as they used to. Can be for innocuous reasons like a move out of state, can be for more complicated reasons like becoming more socially conscious or politically aware (has happened to me) Sometimes people realize their worth or improve their self esteem/decide not to be a doormat which could be misinterpreted as being egotistical, and friends from way back when just don't fit in the picture anymore.

@usucktoo 4 ай бұрын

yes. keep sticking it out with toxic people and keep making yourself feel like shit with them. yeab, good plan

@evistte 4 ай бұрын

THIS!!!! my ex best friend literally ignored me for a month and then i sent her a parahgraph discussing my feelings and seeing what was up and she was saying how i changed and shit but didnt tell me a direct reason. i tried seeing what the actually issue was so we could work through it but she kept leaving me on read or delivered. 2 weeks later she sent a small message apologizing and asking if i wanna get high and skip school. i told her how i needed an explanation and she continued to leave me on read. communication is legit key to maintaining friendships/relationships

@avabackupaccount 4 ай бұрын

@@evistte my ex best friend was similar but we talked multiple times and she was acting fine like nothing was wrong and I could tell we were getting distant then she blocked me on everything

@evistte 4 ай бұрын

@@avabackupaccount yup, during the month of her ignoring me she asked if i wanted to get lunch which i ofc said yes to then after that she continued to ignore me

@vaishnavisingh4452 4 ай бұрын

Can't wait for Cody to react to this one

@ephemeralexistence578 4 ай бұрын

Who's cody

@megshush 4 ай бұрын

@@ephemeralexistence578Cody Ko, he reacts to a lot of weird content and Cut videos.

@ninamisiek7157 4 ай бұрын

@@ephemeralexistence578 Cody Ko

@ElDaumo 4 ай бұрын

who needs a different reaction on this but their own?

@animechan000 3 ай бұрын

We definetly need more of these- there arent enough videos/conversations about ex- friendships

@samm6745 4 ай бұрын

Bruh the music during the girl talking about her being depressed and suicidal 💀 Actually the music during this whole video is so unfitting 😂

@lexismacie 4 ай бұрын

I’m related to one of these girls and let me tell you they cut out so much from these videos 💀💀

@97yezi 4 ай бұрын

Tell us more about

@stephi6792 4 ай бұрын

Omg I’m right here waiting for you to elaborate 👀

@toreeyaki 4 ай бұрын

Pleeeease elaborate I'm begging. Or at least say which one so ik who to root for 🧐

@alisha0713 4 ай бұрын

i already know which girl

@RubyRedS1ippers 4 ай бұрын

Pls continue

@a4yesha Ай бұрын

the girl in the beanie deserves better omg 3:46

@neuroisis85 4 ай бұрын

Damn. I wish I could do this with my former BFF since 6th grade. I called him recently and he said,” Not to be an asshole, but I don’t want anyone from our hometown in my life.” I set him up years ago with his partner, and I know those are her words. Not his. He won’t even speak to his family anymore. I totally bitched out, started crying and said ‘if you ever need me, let me know.’ Then he hung up on me. Felt like a spear through my heart, just like his brother and Dad must feel. One fucked up thing, is her parents live one town over; l know she has him visit them. He’s always had an issue with women controlling his life, and I can’t tell you how deeply I regret setting them up. He will always be my best friend, I know I sound like a doormat….but he’s a brother to me. Sigh. I need therapy.

@tee3835 4 ай бұрын

No you don't sound like a doormat, people don't talk enough about how special our platonic relationships are. These people sometimes get to know us better than our families and it's normal to miss them and for it to hurt if the friendship breaks down, even when they've done us wrong. You sound like a great best friend, and if he is being manipulated what you said to him on the phone is so important.

@neuroisis85 4 ай бұрын

@@tee3835 It means so much to me that you said that. I’m honestly tearing up. He meant everything to me. And it’s so much worse to know I set him up with her…someone so unstable. She didn’t come off that way initially. She did the classic ‘convince him to move far away,isolate him from his friends and family and gain complete control of him’. He’s a literal genius-but blind to every unhealthy relationship he’s been in. Again, thanks for being so kind.

@tee3835 4 ай бұрын

@@neuroisis85 aw well I'm really glad that it helped 💚 but also don't beat yourself up for not seeing the wolf in sheeps clothing. It's not our job to second guess everything someone tells us. It's normal *to feel bad after being manipulated (I can relate) but all we ever did was interact with them like a normal human. It's not your fault she isn't. She saw her target end of. And judging from your friend's track record, it sounds like if it wasn't gonna be her, it would be another narc-ish woman. Your friend has his own journey to work out and the woman has probably been interacting with the world like this for decades. Neither of them are your responsibility to carry. The fact that you are willing to be there for your friend after this is more than enough. I hope he is able to come out on the other side x

@neuroisis85 4 ай бұрын

@@tee3835 I love the word you used “narc-ish” lol! I think part of what’s has made things even worse is she went to Sarah Lawrence(big deal all girl college), and he took her virginity. I really don’t think that should matter….but I knew her well enough before l played ‘match maker’ to know she holds that over his head. Meanwhile, before he went radio silent- I would ask what she was up to, and he would tell me she’d gone to Europe to teach English or attend writing workshops ALOT. I’ve wondered(with no proof) if the guys she was hanging out with in old photos, may have been one of her out of country out of mind-lovers. She sure used to go a lot… Either way, I thank you again. She is a master manipulator.

@privetsolnse3741 3 ай бұрын

@@neuroisis85 it sounds like your friend in some serious abusive relationship:( it’s amazing that you reached out to him, if he ever decides to get out, he’ll know that there’s someone who will support him❤

@bribripittman230 3 ай бұрын

9:27 started SOBBING 😭 these girls look so sweet. im so happy they both had the same feelings

@afrozzz5634 4 ай бұрын

I hope gabby feels better now, ❤ she seems sweet

@zuchciuch 4 ай бұрын

seems like the guy with flames on beanie is just so sad.. not only he got accused of doing something he didn't, he got discarded by a friend yet he was the one hurting and trying to reconnect, he just like me fr💔 (i really hope hes oki)

@strawberrycherrybaby 3 ай бұрын

Nah his body language is weird as fuck. Dude seems guilty about that mugging.

@defensivebenny3153 4 ай бұрын

Okay out of the 3 pairs who said yes, how many do yall think will actually be friends again?

@Zedd... 4 ай бұрын

The black guy was the only one who seemed ecstatic to get his friend back, so him. As for the Asian woman and white woman, I'm not sure.

@Happypotato917 4 ай бұрын

The Asian women and the two white guys

@guccigucci456 4 ай бұрын

White guys for sure.

@johannaweber9023 4 ай бұрын

@@Happypotato917 i think the same

@maribelc2767 4 ай бұрын

White guys

@Miss28Walker 4 ай бұрын

I’m thankful for my 3 best friends. My mom passed away and even up to last week, I’ll text them and say I’m struggling right now. And I’m having bad thoughts. They called me in 20 seconds. But that took time to get there. I’ve learned that until you are able to find someone you fully trust, and being able to ask for help is my biggest lessons. Growth. Still want to be snuggling with my mom every second of every day.

@inutil6117 4 ай бұрын

Seeing these people reminds me of my own ex-best friend. I never did get closure on our situation. Didn't get to hear his side of the story or his feelings about anything. I was too caught up with my own at the time. I can still contact him but, too nervous to just up and talk about it. Getting us on an episode would be the perfect excuse though. We're both 21, Live in Noth Texas.

@Cheycheygp 4 ай бұрын

OMG if you guys do this again I would love to participate!

@Lulu2u 4 ай бұрын

The guy who got cheated on seems like he possibly grew up getting hurt by others and has grown accustomed to it. Because it seems like he goes for people who treat him badly. Both his girlfriend & best friend both are toxic garbage. & he rekindles with the best friend! I hate when people just take bad treatment and stay but its their journey and comfort 🤷🏽‍♀️

@froggert95 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been together with Tyler for years and was there that night!! Definitely didn’t set him up, and never met that guy before but he was really aggressive and we were leaving because of him. Cody was extremely drunk and ran off, we tried looking for him. I guess he went back to the party. 😭 Then he called and said all that happened. I feel like he didn’t want to blame himself for running off from his friends into a bad situation to begin with 😅

@RocShabazz 4 ай бұрын

Not to be too much in ya business, but then do u know why he would be accusing his friends of setting him up to be in said situation that night? That doesn’t just come out of nowhere.

@froggert95 4 ай бұрын

@@RocShabazz The weird thing is it did 😅

@jrussel99 4 ай бұрын

Cody sounds hella embarrassed about popping off like that after a night of drinking and Tyler kinda confirmed he tends to be ashamed of how he looks but that Tyler accepts him anyway. Cody my guy, I've been where you are now. I hope you learn one day that nobody gives a shit about how you show up and behave more than you do in your own head. You think you're protecting yourself and Tyler by withdrawing from a healthy relationship because of something that happened when you were in a vulnerable situation. News flash homie: everybody makes mistakes and you're not special for not wanting to be embarrassed. Hope you allow yourself the permission to be human one day and be present in a relationship with a dude who has such a deep love for you.

@xander3247 4 ай бұрын

I think I developed a crush on Tyler 😅 , like the way he is

@anthonymc8361 4 ай бұрын

He is like so high but still functioning 100%

@oliviaj1172 Ай бұрын

“She’s not on my guest list” “oh” 😂😭

@pastorkel 4 ай бұрын

You don’t have to bring everyone with you in life, but forgiveness is a gift to yourself.

@ptvangela 4 ай бұрын

Many of these people do not deserve a second chance at friendship with the other. They are clearly still not remorseful and still stuck in their ways. This episode made me so upset