Same 🥺

Damnit. I’m teary-eyed again.

Feel like Ryker didn’t know what he had or didn’t appreciate it enough. When a woman says “i tried so hard” you know they’re doing more than enough

@@Burgerbeast101 It's easy to assume but most probably that wasn't the case lol

@@Burgerbeast101 it was pretty clear that he has emotional regulation issues and for her it was likely a game of constantly walking on eggshells around him. That can make you exhausted and you begin to resent your partner. Glad he's in therapy though. I really hope it helps him!

Forget wall punching he hits bins with baseball bats lol

He does. I’ve seen it in person

@@Saulgoodmanchicanery you've seen HIM punching walls?

its giving kyle and drywall

Ronnie from jersey shores.

u hit the nail on the head

so telling of what?

​@@dreamsnicerthat is was (probably,maybe) the problem.

The fake crying

@@dreamsniceridk what this person specifically means but my interpretation is that ryker went thru the post breakup rebound process to cope with losing her, meaning that even though they broke up really recently and he had his rebound, he still never took time to actually think and emotionally process the emotions of his breakup

Their

It probably was that’s why some of their answers were cut out

idk he deserves better

@@JakeBor i like it my way

@@kiarathompson8145 I

I got chills

The alcohol kicked in. 😅

Right? That dude is kinda creepy and scary. Idk if it’s mental disability or a narcissist personality.

@@nikitah8303 😂😂

😭😭😭

HAHAHA this got me LOL

Lmaooo

No, you're just a misandrist.

Even with the kissing dare… he was SHOCKED that she didn’t want to kiss him and was getting angry about it, and then equally shocked/pissed when she did a single quick one. He was really hoping he still had huge amounts of power over her. I just got out of a marriage like this, it’s actually terrifying.

@@winiconnor4981 same ! Best thing is no contact for people like this

T H I S

@@winiconnor4981 He wasn't "getting angry" in any way whatsoever. Stop projecting your trauma onto the world.

when a women cries every1 of you say awwwwwww but when a men cry he is manipulative lol

Blink twice Amanda if you need help

LOL. That part! “Have you fucked anyone since August!?” “… when you say ‘fuck’ … “ *cracks up laughing* “Shut up!” I’m rooting for them. 😂

😂😂😂

Lost in Translation for the win 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

😂😂

Man took the entanglement course 101

Some men aren’t good with being confrontational. And she doesn’t seem very inviting to his feelings. But yeah, he still shouldn’t hold it all inside til it seeps out in passive aggressive ways. But again, hard not to when the girl won’t even let you talk to your therapist without turning it into a fight.

@@KingstonHawke it’s crazy you saw it that way because i saw it as him being super manipulative. like it seemed like miranda was trying not to give back in/stay strong while he was like trying to manipulate the situations into her being the “bad guy” (or at least that he wasn’t in the wrong). idk it’s hard to know what went on between them since we aren’t them but funny that it can be perceived differently from the same content.

​@@KingstonHawke he literally told his therapist he cheated on her 😂 she only listened cos she had a gut instinct which turned out correct.

whew

@Aila Verco You having ''baggage'' does not mean you are not passive agressive and a potentially shit person. Shocker, most serial killers also have a lot of ''baggage'', doesn't mean they aren't evil murderers now does it? He goes from saying that she should just move on from hearing he slept with someone else within days of them (not even really) having broken up, and acts pretty rude about it even though she is clarifying that she agrees it was miscommunication. Then suddenly switches and cries saying he wanted to marry her and misses her EVERYDAY, yet a few minutes ago was being passive agressive towards her because she wasnt happy hearing that he essentially cheated on her as they were not properly broken up. He even ADMITS that he does in fact take out his anger ''around her'', which is literal abuse. Those are not normal descriptive words, and clearly imply he would break, punch or do stuff around her that is not normal cause of his anger issues. Then has the audacity to say that SHE should ''listen more'' in her next relationship, when throughout the video she is the one constantly walking around eggshells trying to make sure not a single word is triggering him into getting rude and agressive towards her. Plus his definition of ''listening'' was to listen when someone is begging you to do something that they really want, aka be OBEDIENT. Very different from listening. It was so obvious even at the end! Her CLEARLY being unsure about kissing him, and him clearly looking unhappy, pressuring her. This isn't ''emotional", this is emotional irregulation. EVERYONE has emotions, we are humans, emotions come with it no matter your gender. It doesn't mean that having emotional irregulations and VERY clearly needing mental help justifies your deeds. Your emotions are still yours, and yours actions are yours. If you have baggage in your life, go fix it, not ruin someone else's life with it.

r/niceguys

😭 thank you for your comment

😂😂

Lmaoooo

frrrr I was like 😶

Yall goofy 😂 comment AND replies made me laugh

😂😂😂😂

IYKYK

So hard and it’s about to be Valentine’s Day 😩

Break ups r not hard at all 😂😂

@@enishalihoward8119 maybe thats bc ur a problem😭😭

If you listened to her earlier, she stated that he has anger issues. Imagine living with someone who can't regulate their emotions. That shit is DRAINING.

All that from 10 minute video?

Do note that the video is edited, and that a lot was probably cut out for brevity. For all we know, this was probably an hour or two of footage that got condensed down to 10 minutes. The "speed and intensity" you noticed is most likely mistaken.

Misandrist.

ryker we know its you... we know this ur alt account... stop commenting on all the comments hating on u lol@@hehehheyy

...?

@@Loading-lg6hs this is quite literally exactly what happened

I was thinkin the same thing😂

Idk if I’m just too skeptical when people cry cos of my exes, but am I the only one who thought his voice when he was “crying” sounded fake?

@@raizelcortez3219 absolutely not only that but the wording and phrasing and lack of awareness. Him about to level up when he says she needs to listen more, gave me "you need to do what you're told or else" kinda vibe

i hate these types so

Frrrr am so happy homegurl escaped safely

So you are saying one shouldn't let their anger out. Atleast it's not on humans 💀

@@truth6074 yes thats what we said word for word, how attentive you are

@@truth6074 toxic mf

Misandrist

I felt exactly the same

Give that boy an oscar lol

Oscar?? For that?

I think he said his name was Kristen 💀

They're so adorable and the way they look at each other?? Pulling my hair and sliding down the wall

I think bc Ryker was so intense that couple overshadowed. But I also thought their dynamic was interesting, sweet, awkward & confusing lol. I wish I new how old they were. Seem very early 20s

@@ileanabanana8254LMFAOOO

Kristen seems too sweet for Savannah lmao

Oh Ahmed 💩

She definitely seems like a sweet person. I really do hope she's doing great

any update on her and Riker?

She seems like a sweet person with her head on her shoulders, been hurt way too many times and knew she shouldn't be with that person. That doesn't mean it doesn't still hurt. I feel for her! It absolutely sucks

U never been in a relationship wit her so you would never kno

Amen.

THIS.

I think she wants him back (in bed), that outfit says date night not mourning 😄 she also admits "we work well together *giggles*" 🔥 I get it girl! Ex d is the safest d around, period.

​@@GaiaGalaxy420 boy STFU, thats just a casual outfit

@@GaiaGalaxy420 what? her outfit doesn’t “say anything” you’re just weird

@@funnygal5837 I never said I wasnt. You aint funny tho, troll.

Ryker reminds me so much of my ex lmao, it's like they're specimens of the same clone or something. Miranda should run for the hills he is very manipulative. that + the anger outbursts - just no.

It’s nothing to do because she was upset, she says herself in the video why. Stop projecting and putting narratives on people.

Bruh you can’t make these assumptions about people from a ten minute video

@@ponagesports5447 “bruh”, you my have your opinion on it but from what I see and get is not ok. The guy may have some sort of mental health issue.

Please go ahead and call him a rapist as well. You people should just date your own gender and leave us alone. Have a problem with everything that a man does. He literally didn't force her or anything. In every walk of life there's going to be some level of bargaining and here it wasn't that. He is entitled to his sadness but how dare a man feel anything but admiration for women, happiness and pleasantness right? Then crocodile tears on men don't feel safe to express emotions... wow!

protect from what?

@@espressonoob from feeling hurt again, emotionally or physically 💔 maybe she felt scared that if she just gave into his wishes, she’d get hurt again and go through unnecessary drama

I feel like she’s been in a cycle of being manipulated by him and him twisting around his issues into something that was her fault. Sounds like he was being volatile and taking out anger around her but then blaming her for withdrawing.

@@Sul516 sounds like BPD to me. Efforts to avoid abandonment lead to manipulation but not purposeful manipulation. I have BPD. It is HELL in my mind when my gf and I fight. I hope Miranda is able to keep herself safe and recognize that his emotional lability is not her responsibility. Sometimes it’s better to love people from further away.

Led me to think

Cringe. Of course you're gonna think you are giving enough, doesn't mean you really do.

Just because you’re sitting there listening doesn’t mean the other person feels heard. Not blaming either of them, but this seems to be a common disconnect

@@ahha2523 His form of listening was wanting her to be obedient or blindly agree with him. He has anger and mental issues that he needs to work on and stop blaming someone else for his feelings.

@@ahha2523 His way of feeling heard very clearly lies in her following everything he does. The emotional manipulation is top tier for this guy

@@Aj-sn1dp you might be right, but saying it’s “very clear” is just false lol

Yeah, because her listening in on his therapy session is totallyrespecting boundaries!

@@pinkkfloydd bro was in her house talking loud as hell brotha

He definitely gives off r@pist vibes.

His face right there was a Freudian slip. Only time he was being real

I agree. He said a couple things that were a little manipulative too unfortunately

I don’t recommend taking sides when it comes to these matters.we don’t know exactly what happened between them. He said she doesn’t listen much and maybe he is right there too

@@Glory-Compassnah gonna have to disagree. “Taking anger out near me” sounds like possibly abusive behavior and we absolutely can take sides there and that trumps someone not listening. I’m glad he’s in therapy though. We don’t have enough info, sure, but that’s definitely the top red flag mentioned in this video.

@@ashleyg.3995 Oh for the love of god u girls just want to take ur fellow women side as usual, plz stop assuming stuff, just because he took out his anger next to her doesn't mean he hit her or assaulted her Maybe he just gets loud and unbearable U guys just have a tendency to assume the worst in men in these situations I don't recommend taking sides because we don't know them

@Bee u make a good point about screaming and breaking things being abusive behaviour (even though its really minor and common one) but my point still stands we dont know these ppl and what they do so calling them out in the comment section and judging and taking sides between them is just kinda stupid since we cant really see the bigger picture also im not even angry so why are u asking me to take a grip?

Like what he said about her that was wrong?

@@ExMuslimRev11 what about him wasn't wrong. that's a better question.

when you put fresh exes in a room and have them drink and question each other it can get ugly😂

The fact he's far more attractive than her, for one. She said he had anger issues. He said she didn't listen. But her criticism is valid and his is ABUSE. @@kaskaskas

"PUBLICLY"? ...............It's a public video she agreed to do.

Money lol

People apply to get on this. They don't "get" people to do it

Everything for the money

How much do they pay?

@@GuitarHeroRocks99 yeah I guess a lot of people will find this hard to believe

Savannah has her wall up so high. Shes afraid to be vulnerable in this relationship and seems like a runner. She tries to use humor to mask her real feelings but overall she seems to really like him and they seem like a good match

@@michellealvarez5451 Wdym she did him dirty and is the one who broke up with him😂 She has the upper hand, its clear that she doesn’t want to be with him in THAT way. She wants him around, but not the commitment of the actual relationship. You can read christians face like a book when she says she likes them better ‘as friends now’

@@sarahko1014 they're friends with benefits. savannah needs to learn how to respect herself and not focus so much on needing christians presence for her comfort, that's why she loves sleeping with him as friends and not as lovers any longer.

right?! so playful haha

I think she’s so over him

Paid

All that from 10 minute video?

I feel toxicity from him and he's a very sensitive and emotional person. I see myself in his bad habits, I hope he can find peace and learn to be a better person before becoming someone else's partner. They still love each other, but it's so obviously done.

idk if he was acting he looked genuinely sad. But I do agree that he doesn't look good for her as is. I feel like he has good intentions but has a poor hold on his emotions and how they impact her. Good that he's in therapy ig.

Misandrist.

Na she seems very toxic. I hope he finds happiness.

@@deztellez2571 she does seem so toxic. He looked hurt honestly

She’s a little immature and very defensive. She need to focus on herself and Christian need the same too.

@@deztellez2571literally i could tell ah hoe when i see one i really dont like her lame ass 🤣🤣💯

Hmm so much lust, yeah

yeah i hope riker gets help. dude definitely punches shit around the house. once he gets better i hope he finds someone. i also hope miranda finds someone as special, but i will say that she needs to start losing weight. not being mean or fat shaming, but if fat guys arent her thing (which theyre clearly not looking at riker) then she would have to get very lucky if shes not willing to put in the work

That’s interesting. I see that… I get the sense that Savannah is manipulative too

@@jahterminatedlmao5473 "Not ft shaming but..." You are literally fat shaming her

@@oliviamckinney6340 fat shaming - "the action or practice of humiliating someone judged to be fat or overweight by making mocking or critical comments about their size" tell me where i was doing that

@@jahterminatedlmao5473 you are saying she can only get guys of her type if she slims down. you're basically saying she isn't worth anything if she doesn't lose weight. I don't know why you needed to feel the need to comment on her body she didn't ask you for your opinion.

The Spanish chick acts the same way

same, actively cringed and reminded me of my ex so much. she’s so strong, I wouldn’t be able to even hear my ex’s voice

Why do you make immediate assumptions. We don’t know the details. If the details were that terrible then I have trouble thinking she’d want to go on this in the first place

@@ponagesports5447 he is hot af and he knows that and he uses it to be a b*tch he is

That's literlly what projection is. "I had an ex who did xyz..." - ok? You had an ex who traumatised you, that doesn't give you license to make moral judgments about this guy whatsoever.

Bahahahahaha

@@DA-js7xz shut up

@@DA-js7xz ?

I swear girls that don't always expect you to do and handle everything at all time is a blessing. A simple thing like taking an order for him is enough to make a man happy, it just shows that you care .

Cause yall want a parent basically in the relationship.

This, I can tell she truly loves him but I’m so glad she was able to walk away when she needed to, that’s hard

But howwwww! I could never 👏👏👏👏👏

I think they might just end up being together again.. even if it was the shots talking but yet I feel they are deeply attached to each other.. They could date others but then maybe get back to each other!

how quickly and completely Riker fell apart is extremely worrying, and how often and extreme his emotional swings were in the first 2 mins is unsettling. I hope Miranda finds someone I hope Riker does well on his mental health journey... and i hope he stays out of a relationship for a while.

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Calm down. If you bothered to listen you'd see that he's in therapy.

@@DA-js7xz lol which doesn’t change my opinion of the way he treated her. Glad he sees therapy is needed. But being “in therapy” doesn’t fix him magically, it takes time and effort. His words and actions would suggest he’s a work in progress. She deserves to be in a relationship where she is there by choice, not manipulated by guilt.

Facts

Yeah I’m glad she got out of that before it escalated

@@DA-js7xzyou’re such a jerk

when ryker got emotional it rlly reminded me of those wattpad stories LMAO

It was funny at first and then I was just like “this is a lot..” 😅

@@dawn_morningstari mean he also had some alcohol in him and they said this is the first time they’ve spoken about it since the break up.

It’s funny, people say they want men to be more emotionally open and vulnerable, but the minute they are, the same people who’ve asked for it don’t know how to handle seeing it/feel about it and usually end up uncomfortable lol

@@dawn_morningstar yeah if he acted like that all the time she was probably just like “not again…”

No, you're just a misandrist.

Don’t lump us all in with him lmao, that’s like saying “I don’t trust women cause my ex gf was toxic”

@@Luke_2828men say that all the time

@@the-bill-cipher what do men say all the time? We weren’t talking about a specific statement Ryker made, just his general attitude and emotions??

​@@the-bill-cipher in a similar logic... Never leave your children alone with female nurses or midwives... It may be a very small number of them, but enough have been convicted for murdering children or babies 🤷‍♂️ guess we should treat them all the same!

LITERALLY I couldn’t stop staring at him

like a more beautiful asap rocky

@@girlsjustwannahavefun6960 less ashy version of him

Idk the subtitles said “Kristen“😂

It’s his eyes

Speaking on the Zoom session though, knowing they live together and she knows the walls are thin, she chose to stay where she could be exposed to the conversation versus leaving for the time being. I feel like that was likely a choice and maybe even predictable as it seems like that was not the first time he had online therapy and on her a bit even if unintentional. I agree though that he shouldn't be surprised that she would have her feelings hurt from overhearing.

​@@silverbracelet6 She was in her HOME. If he doesn't want to be heard then he should go somewhere private.

@@Ellie-jl3vk well, he was in his home as well. I don't think he should watch out for what he says in therapy just 'cause there is another person in the house. therapy time is really a private thing and if the person knows to respect the other one, then they would do anything but listen to what the person is saying.

💯!!! how low to gp on a date while you're still figuring out the separation and then talking about it - was a trap for her to hurt her. And anyway, I know tons of people who do therapy and don't change because they want to tell themselves they're doing fine and everyone else is the problem. They're just offloading or abstracting rather than really addressing. Sounds like he kind of pats hinself on the back for doing therapy - and then still behaving like a douche!

I used to not even talk about my friends to my therapist while I was living with one of them and this man talking about fucking someone else while living with his ex 🤦🏿‍♂️

Riker seems like the guy who has struggles but is in therapy and is attempting to get better.

Exactly

@@braylon4125 agreed

@@braylon4125 no lol

@@braylon4125 Rikers sounds like the type of guy who thinks that somehow justifies cheating on her whilst still dating (which somehow he didn't know they still were but after a proper break up is supposedly crying DAILY about her?). He also seems like the type of guy who thinks bein ''in therapy'' is somehow equal to being better, even though people who have been in therapy for 2+ years often aren't even better and it clearly means nothing based on his behaviour in this video alone. He also seems like the type of guy that thinks being abusive by taking out his anger ''around'' his girlfriend, aka most likely breaking things, is somehow justified and excused because he is ''in therapy''. Riker is also the type of guy who thinks being ''listened to'' is equal to having someone be obedient and do whatever you want, as his only ''advice'' to his ex is that she should ''listen more when people beg you for something they really want", which has nothing to do with listening and more with the fact they didn't do specific ACTIONS that you wanted aka were not obedient. Now, is all of this justified because he is a ''guy who struggles"? It's not, none of it is. Your baggage is yours, your significant other is not your therapist, and you being manipulative and borderline abusive is NOT ever gonna be justified by whether or not you have mental issues going on. That's a YOU problem.

Ha you're right. People don't usually seem to actually get that noticably drunk on this show

@@wge621 well he was definitely one of the few that showed it on here 😂

Can't have that, men expressing their actual feelings 🙄

@@DaveWraptastic it’s nice when they do though lol

@@DaveWraptastic if i shake you i’d hear rattles in your mind

Separation grief. Nothing like death...

@@DA-js7xz I said "grief". You said "grief". Grief in general.

a real ass comment

Got dumped after 2 years of dating 4 years of him being my best friend about 2 weeks ago and girl I'm boutta give up ngl

@@rayfreeman6998 I got dumped by my fiancee after a year, that sucked for many, many months but after a while it does get better. I just started working on multiple businesses, hitting the gym harder and now my bank account and looks (and skin) have never been better. You have to turn your pain into motivation to do amazing things for yourself. Love is cool if it happens accordingly, but if it doesn't then I might as well take care of myself and my parents first. You'll get stronger out of this!

Just saw my ex photo on Facebook he got married last year

@@rayfreeman6998 It gets better trust me, but it's probably gonna mess you up for some time. Good luck 🥺❤️

It's the loss aswell, the emptiness

I hope his therapy helps too. It takes years but it can make a difference with the right practitioner.

This!!!!!

omg you’re right!!

We don’t know the full story. He seems to have taken a lot stuff out on her and she maybe had grown tired and built stronger boundaries

Yeah I agree, I think she did listen in her own way but I think it would have been beneficial to have asked him what she needs to do to feel heard, because despite the fact that she was listening there was still something he was missing to feel seen. The only way to know each others needs though is to properly communicate.

Yeah idk how to describe him but I guess I’ll just say he somehow seems empty on an emotional level to me

I've never had a bad breakup, or any breakup in general because I've never been in a relationship!

its always worth it when youre in the moment to bring mindfulness into the relationship and be grateful .

and with a name like @@Killbayne, it's incomprehensible! jk, I hope you experience that if you want to

@@d.f.4830 and now I just experienced my first heartbreak with that remark 💔💔 thank you tho!!!

I've been through a break up that hurt me more than I thought I could hurt and now that I'm past that hurt the love I felt was well worth the pain of it not working out

It's like watching mr bean doing goofy stuff and sad music playing

LMAOO

What character and novel?

Misandrist.

healthier

Yeah and the guy gives major dickhead vibes and then became a boo hoo bitvh boy when he got drunk 🙄 She deserves way better

@@marrionna044 ya his response and face to the hesitation in kissing him, reminded me of my ex🙃

@@christinescorner111 low key he manipulative I can tell.

They both seemed a little off

@@alexare6655 I don’t think he’s manipulative but broken. As it seems he can’t handle certain emotions and he bottles them up

You think he's in therapy to have fun?

Therapy doesn’t always work for some types of personalities. Sometimes it just gives someone more sophisticated ways to manipulate others. There’s research on this when working with prisoner who committed serious crime. Therapy is not a magic bullet for entitlement and egotism.

@@rsmith4407 Nobody is saying therapy is a 100% cure. But I am saying that he has acknowledged a problem and is showing that he is working to fix it. Yall are looking for every reason to hate rather than help. Yall are acting like yall have this guy completely figured out when you don't.

Manipulative men will often mention they are in therapy to excuse their poor behaviour. If you’re lucky enough not to recognise this man’s more subtle red flag moments during this video, that’s fine - particularly if you’re a man who doesn’t have experience dating men. But don’t tell straight women who feel they notice certain traits in potential male partners -for their own emotional or physical safety when dating - that they are “hating rather than helping”. Women are not required to be emotional support animals for emotionally vulnerable men and they are allowed to discuss signs of emotional manipulation, passive aggressive communication and entitled core beliefs without worrying about how that makes anyone else feel.

@@braylon4125 He showed nothing in these clips. All he showed is that he is a manipulative ass.

Time has the funniest way of healing things.. love that you posted this and agree with it all. I, too, know that feeling of certainty about the future, especially when it comes to those I love. Planning things, imagining the future, simply daydreaming about whatever but always with them and you in mind, to not.. it's earth-shattering until you can breathe again knowing you're okay. Happy to read that love found you again :)

Y'all writing essays

Time heals all. Amazing how you can move on and barely remember the angst

@@odette-is-kinda-gay Tell everyone you can't read without telling everyone you can't read

@@CadaverQT 💔