Can Positivity Be Toxic?

Can Positivity Be Toxic? | HDIGH Ep. #52

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We're always told that the grass is greener on the other side or to try and see the glass as half full rather than half empty. But Jae and AleXa wonder how helpful is it really to always stay so positive? Sometimes we may just be sweeping things under the rug a little too much.
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Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
1:19 - Can Positivity Be Toxic?
7:01 - Being An Idol and Toxic Positivity
10:10 - Why Should We Ditch Toxic Positivity?
16:16 - Shout Out to Rich Brian & 88rising
18:15 - Fan Questions!
26:37 - Wrap Up + Outro
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@nadiazahra6838 3 жыл бұрын

@lemplatinum 3 жыл бұрын

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@hold.on9 2 жыл бұрын

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@alyssaa.e 3 жыл бұрын

i feel like jae was more frustrated w like the performative positivity that you see a lot within creators and in their relationship w fans. Like the frustration of seeing the public suddenly switch from hating on artists and criticizing everything they do to “i hope you get well soon” “take the time you need we love you” once idols say they’re taking a mental health break. like why did it take the artist speaking up for you to realize that they were being negatively affected by harsh comments thats literally just logic, but people only take action once its gets the spotlight

@celestialsoph 3 жыл бұрын

I would definitely agree with that. So often, you see people showering an artist/celebrity with positive comments once they announce something about their mental health, but fail to realize they are part of the problem

@umaymaalrawahi9066 3 жыл бұрын

Agree (3)

@chel6409 3 жыл бұрын

I realize a lot of things hearing Alexa's perspective. She's just so deep but relatable at the same time. ❤️

@ginaverso 3 жыл бұрын

“Can positivity be toxic?” Hell, yeah. I hate people who love mondays.

@ayanna8622 3 жыл бұрын

Okay but who is that person just has a really sucky home life so school is their escape and thats why they like Monday?

@mq6845 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe you do not watch gosev hehe

@specialme2212 3 жыл бұрын

@@mq6845 are you talking about gose? Like going seventeen? Or just another thing😅 I am a carat btw that is why I am a little bit curious😂✌️

@mq6845 3 жыл бұрын

@@specialme2212 yah haha

@specialme2212 3 жыл бұрын

@@mq6845 Hi Fellow carat😆💕 Horanghae🐯

@nicansmile 3 жыл бұрын

There's a perfect movie that explained the lesson of toxic positivity --> "Inside Out"

@shambhavidash5735 2 жыл бұрын

Word.

@very_cherryx 3 жыл бұрын

I love how passionate AleXa is about this topic. she had a lot of really great insight on what they talked about

@larceling 3 жыл бұрын

"I enjoyed seeing when the artistes that I liked were very human... when they showed their flaws, made mistakes... because I'm like okay, like you're still one of us, you're not perfect, you're not something to be idolised in a sense." - Alexa THIS. 1000000% agree and can relate. Reminded me of how Jae and Sungjin would be super open with is on their thoughts and especially when Jae talked about role models. Dang, this hits home. Thank you again, Jae and Alexa. :)

@bubble6566 3 жыл бұрын

"you all are FAAAAKE" -Jae.

@sugarmilk28 3 жыл бұрын

If positivity means being blind to the whole issue at foot....yes, it can. If positivity is being insensitive to another's issue, yes it can be toxic. If someone expects another to be positive, toxic.

@yonitayuliani4721 3 жыл бұрын

As much as I understand Jae's point, I think when it comes to people on the internet, we can't really blame them for saying words that might be heard as toxic positivity. Because basically they are just strangers looking at people in spotlight, trying to support them and whatever, and the least they can do is to wish their idols be in a good condition or be better cause they are not in posistion to help their idols out directly, you know what I mean? It's totally different if the positivity comes from someone close. We can definately say this friend of ours is toxic if we tell our problems and what we get is just normative response as you'll be fine, etc. Again, everything is all about context.

@emi9691 3 жыл бұрын

yea over the internet it's slight different than in reality but like you gotta put youself in their shoes in order to understand what's even going on yk instead of spitting random things like "you'll be fine soon, it's not such a big deal" and stuff..

@luigiluigi4366 3 жыл бұрын

On what Jae was talking about his experience in rust, Jesus people were such assholes to him

@colonthree9874 3 жыл бұрын

What happened?

@ashira5918 3 жыл бұрын

Did something happen?

@luigiluigi4366 3 жыл бұрын

@@colonthree9874 Everyones chat was such an asshole to him, calling him a pussy and kpop andy (this usually happened when Jae killed their favorite streamer since Jae actually did really well and landed really good shots) and received so many false accusations. For example, he was accused of stream sniping (basically watching someone else's stream to get info on exactly what your enemy is doing) because of his TEAMMATE being taken out of context and sent to a big streamer and that same streamer started receiving death threats and more and because Jae wasn't streaming he wasn't hit as hard but received so many nasty comments. He was also accused of code raiding (going into someone else's stream to get the codes to open locked doors in a base) because he broke into someones base (which is allowed) when in reality all he did was literally walk into someones base because they forgot to lock their doors. Every time things like this happened, the streamer who falsely accused him cursed and him and yelled at him which caused their live stream viewers to also shit talk him and ALSO go onto Jaes OWN STREAM to shit talk him and call him bad. Jae would go up thousands of viewers just so people could shit talk him when he didn't do anything.

@inesssiii52 3 жыл бұрын

@@luigiluigi4366 bro I'm mad mad seeing jae was being treated like this like wtf is going on in their mind? wait, are they have one? this is crazy

@kookievhane 3 жыл бұрын

This is so trueee, other streamers chat are toxic in a way when their fave died or killed by someone. But honestly im so amazed how Jae handles it not just ignore but he really did know how to manage it and educate all of his fans in chat to stay humble and friendly even there are toxic people coming in his chat.

@fatholbari9515 3 жыл бұрын

"you need to stop trying to stick in with us okay? we don't accept you alexa" lmao I can feel you alexa, please stop jae 😂

@ann_george 3 жыл бұрын

I really don't understand people who changes their personality like a chameleon. One day they say they love you and the next they conspire ways to destroy you. The world is a scary place.

@colonthree9874 3 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who thinks Alexa talks like a Disney character? 😭👌

@im_kinda.hungry9691 3 жыл бұрын

"But Sphynx cats are ugly" I'm dead jae but truuue

@hluna02 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, sorry no offense but I thought that's weird cat

@cheddar7750 3 жыл бұрын

I wish the episodes were longer so they can chat about their specific experiences with these topics because they are super relatable. They are just so entertaining to listen to!

@jeanpagrada2648 3 жыл бұрын

I really wish to see PD Dianne in the screen . I really love how Jae, Alexa and PD Dianne works . Imagine this three talking , it will be fun and meaty . If this happens, I'll be the happiest , PD Dianne, you got a fan here . Heart Heart Heart .

@sungjinpomelo7103 3 жыл бұрын

Jae woke up and chose violence that day. I love this man.

@XGirls97 3 жыл бұрын

i honestly feel bad for jae. he’s been canceled too many times that he can’t see the brighter side of people on the internet. like.. lots and lots of fans are being genuine when they type ‘we love you’ or ‘hope you’ll get better’. but he got hated a lot to the point he thought everyone online are.. rude and mean. i also kinda disagree with him when he says things written online are fake/not genuine. some of us has 0 friends irl and got a lot of online friends, some of us being online as an escape from shitty rl, some of us had their day better just because reading a random comment on youtube but hey, i understand why he said those things. everyone have their own experiences and perspectives, so🤗

@zeeya9039 3 жыл бұрын

agreed

@chaima7327 3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@jinlissul 2 жыл бұрын

this didn't age well,,, jae's the one who just has a superiority complex and he thinks he's better than everyone else lmao

@xStarlitee 3 жыл бұрын

I usually skip through ads but Jae's voice makes it sound so therapeutic

@dayleywrice3336 3 жыл бұрын

For the statement of "that could have been worse" or "you have it better" I really compare that to myself than anyone else because I feel I need to take a step back and look at the situation that I'm dealing with. "It's not the worse that could happen", or "a person at this exact moment could be going through things that are 10 times worse than what I'm going through" are the type of thoughts I associate with that.

@thearchivist1437 3 жыл бұрын

right. i do the same. its like this is how i think of myself but i treat others differently

@jihanrahmadantyazhari7968 3 жыл бұрын

They both have a good chemistry, even tho sometimes they've different opinions lol but they always find the bright side.

@neonshadow7445 3 жыл бұрын

do you know how it feels, when you've known as a bright person and a social butterfly, but actually you're not even sure whether that's just your persona to cover up your wounds or that is your true self because maybe you're already resilient enough.. so when you decided to open up a lil bit to people about how you truly feel deep inside, some of them just said "ah you're gonna make it through anyway", "don't be sad, don't be insecure, it's just in your head" or "let your past be your past" like what the...!!? am i not allowed to feel these kind of emotions hahaha lol somehow they made me shut down by saying those words

@silentsky2546 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you. 😩😣

@blue.orangeade 3 жыл бұрын

Please remember it's okay to show your emotions. I'm sorry people reacted that way bc the truth is there should be room for self-expression, whether negative or positive.

@neonshadow7445 3 жыл бұрын

@@blue.orangeade yess, thank you sm for your warm words 💞 have a lovely day!

@mithas.2609 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I really have a hard time empathizing myself with others' problems and I always try to be careful around people whose hearts are more sensitive than mine. That's why, when someone tells me about their problems, I always remind myself not to compare their problems with mine nor irresponsibly said that everything will get better. I might not help them that much, but by asking them what can I do to make them feel better and listening to their problems wholeheartedly, I think it'll help them much more than saying "everything happens for a reason".

@mithas.2609 3 жыл бұрын

P.S. Tomato really tastes weird for me too, Jae.

@zamiu9498 3 жыл бұрын

just imagine a collab between jae, joji, nikki, alexa and rich brian

@andrewliu2996 3 жыл бұрын

That would be chaotic

@andrewliu2996 3 жыл бұрын

But funny

@nuruliemanazizan 3 жыл бұрын

With stephanie

@zamiu9498 3 жыл бұрын

@@nuruliemanazizan HELL YEAH

@deb8915 3 жыл бұрын

The internet has normalized being depressed and negative.. People are so used to being miserable that when someone isn't that way they instantly see it as fake. It is possible to be genuinely happy and sometimes you have to be intentional about it.

@natasya8840 3 жыл бұрын

"everyone in music would be active on social media if people didnt try to cancel them every second." - jae facts can we please cancel the "cancel culture"? people really going crazy even more these days, they will throw their "you are cancelled" card every damn second wth is wrong with yall idols are human too they are not a saint so stop force them to act like one

@mtasnimxlra7475 2 жыл бұрын

He is cancelled. 🥺😞

@inesssiii52 3 жыл бұрын

lookin at how jae's and alexa's act at the same time is like lookin at 2 different world lolol

@horgine 3 жыл бұрын

alexa understood this topic very well

@marktuanbestboy1332 3 жыл бұрын

22:16 AleXa's face is all of us. Thank you for representing us well, AleXa. 😂😂

@LuisSanchez-cq5gl 3 жыл бұрын

Positivity is only good when it’s genuine

@daviddadon8114 3 жыл бұрын

Randomly found this video but I actually like it, these people seem pretty cool

@thearchivist1437 3 жыл бұрын

try their other vids: they're insightful and light all at the same time

@youllneverknowme2195 3 жыл бұрын

Celebrating 1 year of HDIGH🥳🥳🥳

@hannahmayalonso 3 жыл бұрын

DIANE PDNIM, PLEASE HAVE ALSO JAE ON GETREAL WITH BM. JEBALLLLLL. ♥️♥️♥️

@hluna02 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah 😭

@joybutplural 3 жыл бұрын

Alexa is soooooo smart. I discovered this podcast because of jae (shout out to all mydays out there) but alexa leaves me in awe every time she speaks. She has a lot of wisdom and the way she explains is always on point.

@Rim._. 3 жыл бұрын

Alexa's makeup ❤️❤️❤️

@ayannar.234 3 жыл бұрын

Probably one of the most relatable parts of the episode is Jae fanboying while Alexa gets distracted by food😂😂 Hotpot does sound great tho

@shambhavidash5735 2 жыл бұрын

I am barely able get thru this episode without pausing every 2 mins and going *mmmh you said it girll* cause personally...i always get TRIGGERED the moment i sniff out any sort of toxic positivity being preached my way. Or someone else's. Doesn't matter. And even more so these days..with everything that's going on with the world..everything is NOT OKAY. You CAN feel negative emotions every now and then..you do not need to be a sunny positive person every frigging day. Don't deny somebody their right to feel what they're feeling. It's unhealthy. 👊

@olivianist8980 3 жыл бұрын

Alexa, thank you for understanding this matter 3:00

@grprg 3 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite eps. Thank you Jae, Alexa and Dive Studios!

@atsigajung 3 жыл бұрын

First 5 minutes: 90% of Jae sharing his real life experience.

@claudiavillondo7586 3 жыл бұрын

i listen to this ep for the 3rd time this is GOLD!!

@jesicamondal232 3 жыл бұрын

This podcast series should never end. Personally helps a lot. Xoxo

@jadereacts5338 3 жыл бұрын

This is so weird. I realized that I use toxic positivity when trying to convince my friends that I'm okay, but I use the others, especially the "I'm here if you need to talk, I'm here for you, let me know if I can help in any way" for when my friends are going through stuff🙈

@thearchivist1437 3 жыл бұрын

oh- same

@kayliep473 3 жыл бұрын

I have a different opinion here. When someone says “I love you”, it could just literally mean they love you. When someone says “Let’s look on the bright side”, it could just mean they want to cheer you up. People take years to be a good counselor/psychologist/psychiatrist. Not everyone can give you the perfect advice all the time, and if sometimes your friends tell you to “look on the bright side” or “it could be worse”, that could also mean that they just want to cheer you up but don’t know how to do it properly. And for me it doesn’t feel right to call these comments “toxic positivity”, because if they really want to let you down or invalidate your hardships, they wouldn’t be the persons you are sharing these insecurities with in the first place.

@thearchivist1437 3 жыл бұрын

in an ideal situation i would totally agree. but the truth is that a lot of people have too many experiences where its not just plain "i love you, and i honestly want you to be happy". its closer to "im saying this even though i commented hateful things a day ago". the sad thing is, all it takes is one bad day to totally change your pov

@ayatmaroua6274 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you especially in idols situations where fans would not understand what really happened and idols can’t open up, fans would send this kind of messages to cheer up their favorites cause this is the only thing they can help with~~ But in really close friendship/relationship situation it may seems more like they don’t care about the other person...

@blue.orangeade 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I like to think I'm someone with mostly genuine intentions and emotions whenever I say anything like that to people, so when I watched the first few minutes of this video I was surprised to see how "manipulative" some people can be.

@lorentvenessa6205 3 жыл бұрын

I also agree with u, i genuinely believe that everything happens because of a reason, i oftenly say that to comfort a friend, and i always gave a reason/example that makes sense after that, and usually, they also take it coz they can see the brighter side after i explain the reason/example. U said a really good opinion here, coz not everybody is a good at communicating/choosing the right words to say to make everybody comfortable...

@hellboy.96 3 жыл бұрын

as a 96 liner i got them same crisis identity problems lool i feel like i'm too young for a millenial but too old for a gen z

@juula9469 3 жыл бұрын

right? I remember the CDs, the trashy 90s toys & VHS tape, but I have the crackhead humor of a gen z kid

@alyannamaeabalos388 3 жыл бұрын

17:27 the frustration tho haha help this man Jae uwu

@yejisprv7824 3 жыл бұрын

"cuz their stoopid" sad jae

@adyyousefi2284 3 жыл бұрын

I wish the episodes were longer. I love your podcast so much

@user-jl4cf8wp8z 3 жыл бұрын

I really like this HDIGH episode 🥺 it speaks to me

@ktktkt17 3 жыл бұрын

damn they’re always so interesting to listen to. can’t relate LMAO

@zamiu9498 3 жыл бұрын

bro, the fact that jae doesn't eat tomato in his sandwich i don't feel bad as before

@supersucks 3 жыл бұрын

“Wow! that was pretty good breathing..” *IM DEAD*

@sabreenashahzad3157 3 жыл бұрын

I don't like jumping on bandwagons and forming my opinion on someone or something without knowing more about an event/them, because I don't really think anything ever is black and white. There's a lot of morally gray areas in most things that happen in the world, especially on the internet. But...the thing about cancel culture is that it's contagious and it's really easy to get swept up in it and no matter how much...you try not to or how much you think you're smart. But, anyway. My point is: We're humans, we get swept up in things, it happens. But, we should always, always try not to jump on trends or bandwagons without finding more about their background, particulars etc. Because, we often don't realize how much our words and actions, even on the web, have an effect on another person's life and mental health.

@reni4066 3 жыл бұрын

I want to see Rich Brian and Niki on this podcast, please!!!

@alyannamaeabalos388 3 жыл бұрын

What a great start this morning! Never been this early 😁

@marilena6101 3 жыл бұрын

I love these two people so much you're doing f*cking great like thank you for being here all relatable and stuff. ❤

@maec4356 3 жыл бұрын

I love this duo so much ♥️

@pawarisanutthanoo9782 3 жыл бұрын

Can it get more real than this?? Wow! This episode just blew me away! These two are just the perfect combination. Now, we all can be real without any guilt! Wow! Just Wow!!!

@marijo7916 3 жыл бұрын

man i just realised i'm very toxic positive :) like i say things like 'good vibes only' or 'it gets better' or 'look on the bright side' yay love on you dive studio

@sloth_onda7408 3 жыл бұрын

I love how the episodes are becoming longer these days :)

@yasmeennour47 2 жыл бұрын

I love this podcast

@lala28an 3 жыл бұрын

I think I needed this podcast. It funny I give myself toxic positively because I always tell myself it could have been worse....😶

@izza3611 3 жыл бұрын

As someone with a chronic illness and an autoimmune disease the toxic positivity that is thrown out almost casually is overwhelming. I've even encountered it with doctors

@ms_natt 3 жыл бұрын

Jae's so funny 🤣🤣 and the editing is perfect !

@gabriellucas4313 3 жыл бұрын

I loved listening to Alexa here, she shared really interesting points. On a side note, I feel that HDIGH episodes have gotten really short since few months ago and I feel Jae and Alexa don't fully exploit the subject. They talked about the topic for about sixteen minutes here, I feel old HDIGH episodes had a little more time of discussing the matter...? But, ON THE BRIGHT SIDE, Alexa almost killed me with the way she would say TEXT - YOU - NOW LMAO The way she does gestures all the time is so funny >D

@jihanrahmadantyazhari7968 3 жыл бұрын

GOOD TOPIC!!!

@jihanrahmadantyazhari7968 3 жыл бұрын

RICH BRIAN AND NIKI?! SOUNDS GREET CAN'T WAIT

@landy9345 3 жыл бұрын

Jae diciendo "la música" hizo mi día. ❤️

@rae_shares 3 жыл бұрын

jae : sphynx cats are ugly, they look like naked mole rats also jae : said that HE looks like a naked mole rat and his patronus is a naked mole rat (?) wym jae - explain yourself

@wirdakamila5198 3 жыл бұрын

Yoooo i really love they chemistry

@zee-ke4qt 3 жыл бұрын

Was actually listening to the spotify ver of this ep and got so confused by the “this and this” :”)

@mihermione 3 жыл бұрын

Yessss RICH BRIAN! It would be dope I think

@lemplatinum 3 жыл бұрын

Man I used to think that toxic positivity was good such as like telling people that it’ll all be okay telling people if you think positive then your life will be more positive but I understand now and that it can be really unhealthy and not the best way to go so thank you Jae and AleXa

@emmasallwright8013 3 жыл бұрын

I think responding to hate comments in grace isn't toxic positivity. It involves choosing your battles: Do I put this person in their place? Will they actually listen though? What will it help? The hate commenter could just be a troll, or if responding to them even with reason ends up in a full-on improper discourse, and it's apparent that you're basically talking to a wall... there's nowhere to go, and your energy and emotions have been exhausted by then. (Also, artists do represent their group and/or their label too.) Toxic positivity, I think, is being so out of touch with reality and not wanting to share in others' burdens.

@lesliewilliams6748 3 жыл бұрын

i don't mind watching HDIGH for 1 hour, so please don't cut it please. I love Alexa's voice. She is literally like Disney' movie to me Niki, Rich Brian.. yeaah let's go!! But I really wanna see you two invite EAJ to the Podcast. Not just listening to his song but JAE and ALEXA interviewing EAJ. lol KiDS nowadays? Please Jae, Mr. California, You're not that old!

@breadpudding1790 3 жыл бұрын

omg would love to see niki on hdigh!!

@joannemariebasbas6481 3 жыл бұрын

i RARELY share problems to anyone even family or friends. almost never. and when i did, i always hear phrases like "well you're still luckier than me" or "if you compare it to other people" or "that's not much of a problem". and i ALWAYS regret sharing something in the first place. i was like am i not even allowed to feel these emotions?

@bjmurphy34 3 жыл бұрын

This seems weird, but I've grown to love both of their talking voices.

@mathisirri 3 жыл бұрын

14:02 joji we love u✨

@marisleong8725 3 жыл бұрын

i feel like in the case of insults, it's okay to be look on the positive side, but if it's like constructive criticism, then it becomes toxic positivity

@nuruliemanazizan 3 жыл бұрын

Slowly realizing that i used to be the person who is toxic positive

@dianarahmawati1466 3 жыл бұрын

God. please. please get rid of jae's allergies. I'm sure a cat can make him happy every day. can cheer up on bad days.

@rebecabeza 3 жыл бұрын

Jae is tired of performative positivity but also of people being rude for no reason on social media

@lemplatinum 3 жыл бұрын

Just know that everyone gets affected by hate some people might handle it better but it’ll always affect someone

@inbarbooks7048 3 жыл бұрын

It’s like for me, I can’t tell myself: everything will be okay. I have to tell myself that: it will get better. Which means things will ‘be’ better and will stay like that. It will ‘get’ better, which means it won’t disappear but I’ll feel better till the next time. Unlike some of my friend that need to hear ‘everything will be okay’

@eunmichoi5649 3 жыл бұрын

JAE PLEASE KNOW I LOVE YOU VMUCH ❤️

@melanexy Жыл бұрын

watching alexa is like watching a warm bowl of sunshine

@denise391 3 жыл бұрын

Hay subtítulos en español, gracias 👍 ❤️

@skieeisacar8583 3 жыл бұрын

Toxic positivity is one type of what we call emotional avoidance, coz this emotional avoidance from the word itself is like running away from negative emotions, its negative so we don't want to face it, but people who keeps running away from this emotions will not learn how to face and cope up with it, and that's not right because once we got in to something really heavy like maybe loosing someone we important to us, it'll be really really hard to get back up on our feet, that may be because we were not practiced or used to cope up with certain types of negative situations due to always running away or distracting ourselves from this

@sarah- 3 жыл бұрын

😫😫😫 I’ve got toxic positivity but to myself! I’m always telling myself it could be worse and that others have it worse than me

@qamilafernandez5061 3 жыл бұрын

trillones de gracias al que puso los subtitulos al español Y ENCIMA CON VOCAVULARIO ARGENTINO, dios mío, quien seas te amo

@febphoebe 3 жыл бұрын

Jae last week: CAAAAAPPP! Jae this week: FAAAAAKEE!

@lili-anhleminh9949 3 жыл бұрын

I used to be allergic to cats but when I moved in with my bf, my body got used to his cat and now I'm fine but just with OUR cat

@ikig512 3 жыл бұрын

29:59 Jae and Alexa: i do this, but its always like this, but i always do this Me who's listening to the podcast with the screen locked: wtf are they doing-