I had lost twins at 8 months. It broke my heart. The funeral home my family dealt with for my family members, they offered me a free service. I was grateful. The cemetary also helped absorbed my cost. So my twins are buried across from my parents. It is nice to know my parents are watching over my twins. A year later I gave birth to a 13 pound baby girl. She made up for my twins.

We are all on borrowed time. My beautiful son waits for me in Heaven.

My daughter raynor died in the delivery room after 12 minutes .. They were amazing from the undertaker to the church.. Even the people that did her headstone were just the best.. They gave us a free Teddy bear engraving on it.. The vicar at the church stayed in touch for a long time to make sure we were OK.. 2 years later I almost went through it all again my son was given a 10% chance of survival but thankfully he's 20 now

My niece passed from stool in the lungs at birth. They tried so hard to suction it out but they blew her lungs full of holes. My sister never had a chance to hold her. It wreaked her for years and hit her really hard when she had her 1st living child. This was 1983, at the funeral home they kept her in her seat because they did not want her to even think about picking her up. At 12, I escorted her up there and told her to hold me while I held my niece's hand. Thank you for thinking of these parents and their last moments and memories.

When my grandson was born still, the hospital let me as the grandmother, hold him and kiss him and rock him and talk to him and to tell him how much he was loved and wanted. It was very comforting for me to be able to do that. There was a group that provided cremation for him. My son and his wife have his ashes with them.

My nephew (sister's first child), died at 9 months in 1999. At his viewing, I asked if I could hold him and I was told no by the funeral director. My sister was okay with me holding him though. So THANK YOU for making that an option for families. I don't have children, but if I did, and one of them went to heaven as a baby, i would hold them regardless of what they say.

Such a tough subject. I worked in Labor and Delivery years ago and cared for many women who had a fetal demise or stillbirth at a later gestation. I encouraged the parents to hold their baby and wrapped them in a warmed blanket and cap. It is a priceless moment of connection that no parent ever regretted. I'm so glad someone with your warmth and compassion can be there for the parents.

I hope and pray that the person that took care of my son after he died has a caring heart exactly like yours.

Times have changed. My mom lost twin boys at 5 months gestation in the 70s and wasn't allowed to see them because they thought it would cause a mental breakdown. I thought that was so cruel when I heard that. I am glad thats no longer the case.

As a paramedic we also have to maintain a mindset of, this is not my emergency, it is someone else's. We couldn't do our job otherwise. You and I are not without compassion, but we do need a disconnect to do our jobs at times. We are human and vulnerable and are there in times of need. Thanks for the video, it was very informative from your aspect.

Kari---Grieving families are VERY FORTUNATE to have YOU there, to comfort, and console them, at such a time as this !!

As a EMT when I lost someone I allowed myself to mourn their passing even cry as I gave after care until they were turned over. I don't sob but allow the tears and say a silent prayer..

My baby Elijah was a fetal death, I was about halfway through the pregnancy. A local funeral home offered me a free burial. We had the money, but they said it wasn't about money but about emotional support. It was an experience that helped me be able to process what had happened and gave me closure. It also gave me a special place where we could go visit him (we paid to add his name on the headstone/marker).

Dear Kari, I lost my son almost 11 years ago, he was murdered by his girlfriend, I had him cremated so that he would be with me at all times. Your videos have truly inspired me to learn more about the cremation process. Thank you for sharing your videos. Sincerely Broken hearted mama

The rocking chair is absolutely a beautiful touch. It's personal, loving, and optional. Such a great idea.

I had a 38 week stillbirth in 2015 with my only daughter. I had her autopsy done and asked to see her before cremation and the funeral home didn't even clean her up there was blood on her outfit. I wish they presented her better so my last time seeing her was more peaceful. I wish I could have rocked her 😢

My first Gand daughter died at just four days old with sepsis and it was and still is after 11yrs the most difficult thing we have had to deal to deal with. I lost my husband very suddenly and this for me was a different grief to deal with, I wish you had been with me at both these deaths Watching your videos you come across so caring so understanding and gentle. You show so much empathy to your clients which is lovely to know for the family who have lost a loved one.

I worked in pathology and felt blessed that I was the last person to see/process theses P.O.C.’s (products of conception), and babies came in contact with...I said a blessing/prayer over each and every one! Even as I had to place them in a bio bag, I was honored to be the last one to handle/Bless each and every one! Having to explain to parents that some of the babies were not able to be seen in a presentable way, was hard...even if some insisted, I always had outfits the could cover certain parts that weren’t developed correctly, and I would do my best! It was a beautiful experience for me, and I feel truly honored to have that duty...as it wasn’t a JOB! I was placed in that position for a reason, and I thank God for that! ❤️

I have absolutely found your videos to be done with such compassion and caring. Being an EMT for almost 20 years and also working in Obstetrics, I have never found a way to "flip that switch." Maybe for me, I don't get a body to prepare for the family after several hours or sometimes days most of the time. I am faced with the death right then and there and trying to resuscitate a child/baby with parents screaming is very hard. The suicide rate for EMTs and Firefighters had become a very alarming topic in the last few years. I have a lot of respect for your work as I know it is something I could never do. But for me personally, I don't think either of us have an easy profession.

You are so right, in 1981 we lost our daughter who was 14 months , our hospital left my husband and I hold her, also my mom, sister. That was what we needed. When I look back on it, the worst day was her funeral!

My baby girl Ruby died at birth at 2:49am Jan 22nd..almost three days ago. I am going to school working towards my goal of becoming a funeral director/embalmer..I just never thought I would have to pass through these waters myself. The same way you thought/think to get yourself through...that was my thoughts exactly and I think The Lord brought that to me...There is no way of knowing what awaited Ruby. Loosing her now and knowing that she is literally in Jesus' arms, my family already in Heaven with her..I just have His peace with my pain.

I was also a Labor and Delivery nurse who lost a baby at 35 weeks. I feel very fortunate that , even 43 years ago, we were one of the first hospitals in our area to let moms (and family) hold their babies and also my nurse took several pictures for me- they are treasures that mean so much.

Kari, I really mean this; you are a very insightful, compassionate and caring person. Society is sincerely lucky that you and people like you are out there. I was a paramedic for many years and found myself in many situations where a child or infant had lost their life. I know that sadness you feel as a person for this type of loss but also understand that “professional detachment” you have to maintain, or you will burn out in no time. I saw burnout happen many times, resulting in the loss of an exceptional caregiver. Anyway, you have such grace discussing death, which is a true talent and I am a better person by seeing your video’s. Happy New Year!!

This is something that I was always wondering how the process goes my baby was 3 months old when he passed but I didn't have a good experience with the funeral home. I was very young and couldn't figure out why this was happening. So I appreciate everything you do.

I worked for my uncle when i was in my teens at his FH..I went on 1st calls, handled ordering of supplies,and was available when services took place..The one thing I could Not handle was when we had to bury children..Having the child's friends and relatives in the viewing area and hearing the grief over the loss was just too much..Im a pretty strong person in that respect,but it still gets to me..

Kari Northey: You are one very fine person and have helped so many on KZfaq as well as through your outside business. Thank you.

My daughter was stillborn at 37 weeks. I always asked what happened to her step by step. I just wanted more than anything for her to be treated as a real human being and I have to say you put an angelic reasoning to this. That is comforting. I don't know if it's because you explain it so well, you explain your handling of our deceased loved ones, or your female emotion. I just remember the funeral home taking such good care of my daughter Haley. Even putting a diaper on her and her blanket and I just appreciate everybody taking care of her like a baby not just a lost pregnancy. Thank you for what you do it really is a tankless business sometimes. At the end of the day sometimes because the families walk away still grieving and for me there so many bad memories at their funeral home. Everything was good I was just angry I had to be there. Angry I had to pick out a casket wondering why it cost so much to bury something so tiny ect... and not in her Nursery Ray should have been after birth. So I never went back to thank them. I just the card in the mail but I know you all are very appreciated. ♡Haleys Mommy.

I totally respect your honesty and integrity on such a tough topic. Well said.

I’m very grateful God called someone like you for this job, lost my son and daughter, this was more comforting,hope others in the business are as compassionate as you ,it really means a lot Thank you

Your job is a ministry within itself, and I thank God for ppl like yourself serving in this ministry. At one time I wanted to do this particular ministry, but as I considered, before God, children and the abusive ways they die, I fully understood that this was and still is an anointing that I do NOT have! I realized it would cost me prison time, so with my heart in my hands, I thanked God for the mindset, and I bowed out very humbly and submissive. Again, thank you and your co workers for all you do!!!

Thank you for being kind to people who are suspected of the death. I lost my son, my sixth child from SIDS, but until the autopsy report came back, I was treated horribly during the worst time of my life. I never got to hold him again, but that would have been great to say goodbye. I was never apologized to after all was said and done, detectives, the priest, and some workers at funeral home not all treated me like a monster, I loved my son with all my heart n still do.

I'm not a parent but I work in a daycare and I cannot imagine the grief I would feel if one of my students passed. I was crying my eyes out when you were talking about giving families the chance to rock their babies. Thank you for caring for these families and their babies.

Sorry for the repetitive commenting- I'm binging your videos! From someone who has buried a child of my own I just want to give you a huge thank you! I don't know why anyone would say negative things to you! You are incredible!! ❤❤ And you are beautiful as well!!

I lost a child, at birth. He’s gone but never forgotten. It was many many years ago, but the pain is still very much there. I was young with no other children. We lived in a very small town. My now husbands mother, had dated and knew the funeral director well. He ended up providing the casket. At that point, cost wasn’t even on my mind. But years later, I appreciate what he did for us. I regret the fact, the only time I had with him was in the hospital. We did get to bring him blankets we had bought for him, and clothing to burry him in. We wrote notes to place in his casket. The man, never provided or mentioned time with our son, we did not have a funeral. We only had a burial service. For future reference, I hope and pray I never have to go through this again- but if I have to make choices for a loved one who’s passed, or be a part in any process I am educated. I know a lot more options that my family and I would have. This is such a hard thing to look back on, and I wish that I had knew my options at the time. I would do a LOT differently. Thank you, for ALL of your videos. P.S I do now have a beautiful, healthy 4 year old. :)

You are the most compassionate, empathetic, kind, loving person I have ever seen! You are an amazing human being❤️

This kind of job has to be one of the hardest jobs a person could ever have. It is definitely not for the faint of heart. You have to be able to put yourself into a certain mind set when dealing with death and grieving families. All persons should be treated with kindness, caring and compassion as they journey on into the next world.

I admire your courage and frankness, Kari. Thank you for making sense of grieving and funeral practice in such a professional manner.

Kari ! when I see where children have been murdered by their families, I, too, think the same thing. They're better off to be out of that situation and resting safely in Heaven. Absolutely better than living in a mess with neglect / abuse

You are so strong! I have been to one baby wake. Wasn't my baby, but crushed me to see that little casket and 14 month old girl inside. You are not mean or cold for dealing with it the way you do. You have to shut down your emotions or you would go nuts! People go crazy mourning the loss of one person. You guys do this every day!

Your voice is so comforting and soothing...I could listen to you read the dictionary and feel relaxed! lol!

I was considering Mortuary Science many years ago when I was a student at WSU. When I worked at the WSU bookstore, I read most of the mortuary textbooks. While attending a viewing, I came upon a child's casket. I immediately changed my mind and my major to education! I just couldn't handle it. I love your videos, you are so kind and compassionate. I appreciate the information that you share.

Kari, you are such a caring and kind person. It takes a very special person to be a great funeral director.

I work as a crematory technician, we cremate about 10-15 people per day, from every age, infant to old. Occasionally there are family members who request to be present for the cremation. Just as you say, one of the key things about this line of work is to never ever let the situation get under your skin. Many people think we're cold, heartless, emotionally dead because we work with dead individuals and we cremate infants and children "like nothing". I can assure that if I mourned and grieved for every individual I handle on a day to day basis, I would end up in one of the coffins myself. It is absolutely detrimental to your own person to let your job get personal. It does not mean I don't feel anything, but when I stand there with the parents who've lost their child and are about to witness me send the coffin into the oven, no matter how emotional and devastated they are, I have to be professional. It's not only for the sake of my own sanity, but also for the sake of the relatives and the family. They come to us expecting us to handle everything with absolut perfection. The grieving is for them to do, our job is to make sure their last moments with their loved one is something they will be able to look back upon and be happy with, and that the loved one is handled with the utmost care and respect on their final journey.

Kari, you are an amazing person. We need caring folks in these professions because its such a dark day for a family who has lost a child.

Kari, I have watched several of your videos and I think you are an amazing person.

Being a pediatric nurse I think I can kind of relate. I am finishing my first year on nursing this winter and it’s been very hard. I just recently had my first patient death and it took a huge toll on me. It’s not always just death though. Sometimes it’s just as hard to see how the kids are living and suffering after traumatic events knowing they’ll never get better and live incapacitated for their entire life. It was nice to hear this from you, I think I needed it after the past couple months at work.

I recently got a job as a funeral assistant and was searching for help on how to handle the emotions of the job. Your videos are so helpful. Thank you! Your advice on telling yourself "This is not my loved one" and especially your video on babies and children made a big difference for me. It will help me to be able to do a good job for the families without getting emotionally caught up.

I know exactly what you are saying. It's hard sometimes when you are quite so close to grief. My natural instinct is to cry along with them but I learned years ago to maintain a strong, professional attitude because the family needs that from me. They need to feel like someone is in control. Thank you for these videos. I share so much of your perspective but it's good to be reminded. It makes me remember why I do what I do.

I myself work in a er as a ect emergency care technician and I can’t tell you how many patients I’ve had to bag myself or help bag them with others it never gets any easier but we as health care folks try to distance ourselves from stuff like that but it always sits in the back of your mind I’ve been doing it for about 5 years now I commend you kari for your work thank you.

Ive often wondered also about how kids and infants are handled in these situations...it takes a very special kind hearted but strong person to do those particular cases...madics and hospital personnel and funeral directors...they that do this job for the young with the extra special care and compassion thats needed to gently walk a family through this process...they too, in my eyes, are also heroes. The rocking chair is a very unique perspective and a great tool to have...more likely then not though only a mom would be able to make that connection...super job. Something tells me theres alot of kids on the other side who are watching out over you and yours Kari:-)

My heart goes out to all parents and grandparents who have had to say goodbye to their young children. That alone has to be unbearable. But to have to endure being suspect of foul play by external beaurocrats involved in the investigationsof these tragic deaths. Praying for God's love and mercy to comfort you in your grief and hardship.

At one time as a kid I wanted to be a mortician.. but so much goes into it that I quickly changed my mind. Im too tender hearted for one , so mentally I couldnt handle it. I do have much apperication for the line of work you all do!

You are so kind. Thank you for your service.

You're so caring...I wish the funeral home that cared for my foster sisters 8 month old baby girl was as smart as you...mom wanted all of us to hold the baby and we we're teenagers and not prepared...it took everything for our feet not to buckle and we we're strong minded people but nothing g can prepare anyone for that experience...I really didn't want to...I wanted to remember baby Violet as she was all fat and juicy and full of smiles back at home...she died from liver failure...

As a funeral director and a mumma of angels I loved looking after these families...

Your video's are just what this profession needs! I love how thorough you are explaining every detail and I admire you for having the bravery to give us the explanations that so many of us need to hear! I hope you continue to do more vids as time goes on. Thank you so much, Freddy

Some of God's children are just too good for this Earth so he calls them back home that's what I believe 🙏

New Subscriber here. You have so much compassion and empathy!! God bless you for taking the care that you do, in the transition from life to death, and for providing the kind of caring that familes need in there time of loss. I lost my mother in February 2017. The Four Seasons Hospice in Hendersonville N.C. Not only cared for my mom who was passing, but also for the grieving family members as well. The nurses there were so compassionate and kind. One of the Hospice nurses who I will never forget ever, was a nurse who saw me grieving in a chair next to my mothers bed. She sat beside me for half an hour and talked with me. She was an angel sent by God to me, when I needed an Angel the most. She even set me up with a grief counselor in advance. God bless all of the special people including yourself, that help and care for us family members in our time of mourning 💝💝💝💝💝💝

I do not think you are a bad person for saying that the child is better off. I completely agree with you and I've always thought and I've told my husband the same thing on several occasions. I think that you have a beautiful heart!

I like the way you think about a young death. I’ve often thought the same thing. The loss of a teenager, to me, is harder than a baby’s death. They have worked so hard preparing for a long life only to be snuffed out before they are allowed to start truly enjoying life. Maybe I’m crazy, but, that’s how I see it. I enjoy your outlook on life, thanks for sharing! God Bless you and your family.

I just recently discovered your channel & felt the need to praise your professionalism. I completely understand that your dealing with people during some of the lowest points but the reminder that it’s not your loss I think is an amazing tool .

I understand some of you might be upset by the "better off dead" comment but it's really being taken out of context. She has a job to do and you want the best. You want the quality, you want to feel relieved and feel like this child is sleeping. You can't concentrate if you are emotional. Mistakes happen when emotions are involved.

When I lost my son I was almost 5mths along,miscarriage I think of him often but I know I will meet him on the other side

You do have such a caring heart. I have never had to go through anything like that and I pray I never do . I think that is so sweet of you to let the parents and grandparents rock the baby or hold the baby . I've never heard anyone doing this before . You have a strong heart . I personally don't think I could do it , but its nice to know that there is people like you in this world that care .

Thank you so much for sharing. ... this was very insightful. You truly are a wonderful woman. You are very kind and kind-hearted. It takes a very special person in this world to do what you do on a daily basis.... God bless you 😊 my sister died when she was 3 months old when I was a very hard and confusing thing because I was very young at the time and really didn't understand. But what I do remember is being at the funeral and the funeral directors having to literally stand next to my mother and hold her arms back because she continuously try to take my baby sister out of the casket and I remember everybody in the room at that point being so emotional and emotions running very high and frustration and anger sadness but seeing the look on my mother's face as she couldn't touch my baby sister is a image I will never ever forget. Did you ever have to experience families that had to be restrained or had to be more less guided during a service of a child?

I delivered a beautiful baby girl, she was stillborn. I was hoping to hear a little bit about the cremation process. Everything was so surreal, and I was told that I couldn’t even be present for the cremation. I have so many regrets I sometimes wish I would’ve done the burial instead. I just wish the funeral home would’ve been more sensitive, given my situation.

I didn’t know if I was going to be able to listen to what happens with children and babies once they come to you. I don’t even know why I opened the video or really how I even got here.l while browsing through KZfaq. You just popped up. Thank you for explaining the process. I haven’t lost a child but have a daughter that lost a son at the gestational period that you spoke of here. You have certainly met your calling. I’m sure you are of great comfort to those that find themselves depending on a person like you to care for their loved ones when their life on earth is done. God bless you, Kari.

You are so sweet and compassionate.And very classy and professional lady.I love your comforting and soft.You are the best person for this job we need more like you.I love your sweet personality.

Your insight is very moving and useful. Thank you for your time in sharing your perspective, it really helps with those unanswered questions, thank you

Thank you for your honestly and insightful information. It takes a very strong-minded person to do what you do. Thank you for the great job that you do.

I must say Kari you are a very compassionate and remarkable woman Thank you for sharing

God bless you! You've got an amazing heart of gold. I know my family would be taken care of with the utmost respect from you!

Thank you for the work you do and the time you have spent to make these videos and give people an opportunity to understand so much. Thank you for shining His light of love to a sad time in peoples lives. You are a beautiful jewel of a human being. with His love Christine

My mum had a full term stillbirth. She was told that she shouldn’t see or hold her. My mum regretted it. My dad and grandma had to carry her in a shoe box, on the bus, to the cemetery and my dad had to dig her grave.

Kari, may I ask where you live? I want you to take care of myself and my family members. You are so amazing. You have such a calming soul. You are a beautiful person. I have learned so much from you.

This is a very important post for anyone wanting to work in the funereal industry as its about probably the hardest thing when working in this industry. Some incredibly valuable and valid points. Thank you.

l can say the loss of my daughter, has taken a part of my heart with me and it has never come back..lt is with you forever

You are a wonderful, caring person! Thank you!

You are one awesome Woman Kari. Thank you for sharing your experiences with others. Your matter of fact explanations combined with compassion is comforting. This is a difficult subject for most everyone, we just don’t want to face the inevitable end of life. Be it our own or a loved one. God bless you for all you do for others in the most difficult of times.

Thank you for sharing your insight and the reality of the situation. You have a very kind heart, and you are in the line of work where you have a heart for caring for hurting people. 💜

The funeral home my family always used had one of the nicest and caring funeral directors but sadly he passed away and one of his caring for children and babies things he did for them was "he had someone stay the night there in the funeral home cause babies and children don't like being alone...I asked the family members who now run the funeral home if they still followed the same procedure and sadly they weren't even aware of there family member being so caring...I knew because I was on a first name basis with him and knew how genuine he was...

Thank you for what you do. We can tell that your heart is in it. God Bless

I came across your channel this evening. I watched your other video where you educated your subs about all the different items in the Prep Room. Then I came across this video and this one really hits home for me. My 1st born daughter, Lara died in a terrible accident one Sunday afternoon while visiting with her dad and his girlfriend. My son (5 at the time & she was 7,) was also with them. He decided they would all go to the lake for the afternoon and swim. My daughter never made it back home to me that Sunday, she drowned in that Lake. This happened in 1998, so it's been awhile ago and so I'm able to talk about it without breaking down at even the thought of her. I wish the funeral director that we had, would have had even a hint of the compassion, understanding & soft sincerity that you so obviously have. He was like a brick wall , absolutely no emotion whatsoever. Almost to the point that it was offensive. .................So with that being said, as a mother of a deceased child. I want to say Thank you for bringing yourself into the minds of grieving parents. I know that it has got to be very difficult to keep your own emotions to yourself so as to not take away from the parent(s.)...if that makes sense. ...Once the casket lid closes... the hardest part of a parents life, ....has really just begun. You're definitely one of God's angels ❤🙏🕯🕊👼👼🕯🙏💜

It takes a very special person to do the job you do. Thank you for your compassionate nature. Thank you that you take the time to make videos that answer the questions that alot of people wonder about but had no one to ask. Please keep making these informative videos as it helps people like me who have never handled that part of life all that well. Be Blessed always.

That is so compassionate ❤️ to let them hold and rock their babies

Raw and honest. Thank you for sharing.

Kari, You are a very loving person who, unlike many people, has truly found your purpose in life. If one of my children died, it would be a blessing to have you care for our child and our family. Your loving spirit and beautiful personality would be very reassuring and comforting. I can tell you are a wonderful mother too. May God Bless you always.

No, your approach to these cases doesn’t make you heartless. It makes you professional. Sometimes we don’t get the answers about why death happens in young people. This was apparent to me when my fiancé died in his sleep 20 years ago. He was 37. Tox screen was negative. Every organ system listed on the autopsy report stated “Appears healthy” or “unremarkable”. Reading that report, even though I’d spoken to the coroner/ME reminded me that whether or not you believe in God, sometimes it’s just our time. Nothing my fiancé did would’ve prevented his death. He didn’t smoke, rarely drank, didn’t use substances, worked three jobs, and played sports. This is especially true for children, most especially babies. Often the cause of death isn’t found. It’s okay to share a tear with the families you deal with because you’re human, but I understand why you work hard to remind yourself this isn’t your loss. I love that use rocking chairs and encourage families to hold these precious children one last time. It’s so important, and your kindness to them will never be forgotten. Thank you for the love and care you bring to your families! 💕🙏🏻

I work as a lab technician in an infertility center. I have a very difficult time comforting patients who have miscarried. I know it's not my loss, but I have a empathic nature. I will try to remember before I dissolve into tears with my patients, to know this is not my loss. Thank you.

Thank God we have people like you who have a loving heart and are able to do the job you do. Thank you for presenting this information in such a caring manner.

I can tell. ....you have a Heart of gold

I have two close friends who each own, and operate funeral homes here in Maine. It definitely takes very special people to do what you do. I know I couldn't do what you do. Your videos are great, thank you for all you do!

Telling yourself that the person isn’t someone you know or part of your family doesn’t always work. I feel the same way as if it was a member of my family. It’s called empathy. The fact that anybody has to go through the misery of losing someone dear to them affects me the same way as if I knew them personally. I’ve lost all of my family and most of my best friends. It never gets easier. If I see a funeral going on it might as well be for one of my best friends. It affects me the same way. They were someone’s best friend or relative. It doesn’t matter that they weren’t mine. I still feel the same.

Another thing to remind yourself of is...you are providing a service that is looked up to by the families. They kind of need your guidance. Any funeral director I have dealt with was reassuring & the funeral homes, while difficult to muster up the courage to go into, are safe places & feel even safer when we see our funeral director who helped us plan the final rest of our loved ones. If you're considering this career, please know you are doing one last respectful act for families who are beginning a process of learning to live without their loved one. You are essential!

This is exactly how I’ve dealt with child cases. Thank you for sharing.

You are so honest. Thank you. I would want you there for me if I lost a child.

How could anyone dislike a angel? All the respect from me! when I go hope ur the one Taking care of me! Thenk you new sub.

You are one of the most kind and compassionate people that are on You Tube, Kari. You are definitely in the line of work where you are such a blessing. From the way you talk about your life and job, I knew you were a Christian before you said so. You have that kindness and love about you.

Very honest video. I’ve always wanted to ask a relative of mine who works in the funeral business , if he has ever been overcome with emotion when he prepares a child for burial. Thank you Kari for talking about this subject.

thank you for what you do. mark h