The secret to making FRIENDS as an adult...

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Caroline Winkler

Caroline Winkler

Күн бұрын

Best advice I've ever received. 🤷‍♀️
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00:00 - Intro
00:56 - fun silly DIY art
1:54 - my hair secrets!
2:18 - the truth about camel toe
4:22 - all the men i've ever dated
5:11 - my favorite wallpaper brand
6:06 - thanks to Ritual :)
8:52 - How much money is ENOUGH for you?
11:55 - one of the rudest comments i've received
12:52 - work goals for this year
14:45 - i have a prediction..
16:00 - my sister's new PUPPY
16:45 - WHAT IS THE SCANDAL
17:44 - my tattoos!
19:20 - How to end a bad friendship
21:40 - How to make friends as an adult
22:50 - STREET MAN update
24:40 - when your friend flirts with your guy
26:55 - interior design question!
27:53 - my favorite SKINCARE
30:58 - how to deal with HATERS
34:12 - this project went so good
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All opinions are my own. Some links listed are affiliate links which means I earn a small commission if anyone decides to purchase through them. Thank you so much for your support!
Please note that I am not a professional, in fact I am the literal opposite. I am just a plebeian out here loose on the streets. Things that I am NOT: a builder, trainer, craftsman, therapist, nutritionist, physical therapist, medical professional or anything else. All projects seen on my channel must be completed at your own risk and responsibility. Please see your own professional or counselor for professional support. Do your research and be safe!
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@MayMay-qn2dd
@MayMay-qn2dd Жыл бұрын
This channel has become such a comforting little corner of the internet. Brings me joy
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Hearing that has been my very literal dream, I am so so glad ❤
@youparejo
@youparejo Жыл бұрын
Totally agree !
@maaamiii6918
@maaamiii6918 Жыл бұрын
71 year old female here. Me too Lynn!
@carolaratari6373
@carolaratari6373 Жыл бұрын
Your channel brings me so much joy. Always look forward to the next episode. Love all your content. Your personality makes me cheer, laugh out loud, shout, cheer! You found your platform. And you don’t look like that guy!!! Don’t get down on this! Your beautiful all around and love your long hair!!
@floriannaramirez394
@floriannaramirez394 Жыл бұрын
Me too!
@greenglassgoblin
@greenglassgoblin Жыл бұрын
Two days ago I showed my (very sweet, very non pop cultured) mom your chaotic bathroom makeover video and she commented "Her comedy reminds me of that guy Michael Scott on the Office show you all watch." So there you go, channel goals achieved
@KcKctea
@KcKctea Жыл бұрын
The top insight from this video: love and hate are in one vessel. If you are loveable, you are hateable, and there's nothing wrong with it. Thank you, dear ❤.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
amazingly well put, i love this
@hannahkruszewski3810
@hannahkruszewski3810 Жыл бұрын
So is milky coffee and black coffee - same vessel 😂
@Beany87
@Beany87 Жыл бұрын
@@hannahkruszewski3810 🤣
@ericsalem3878
@ericsalem3878 Жыл бұрын
As a male homeowner with no sense of décor, I came to this channel for the down-to-earth home design tips. I stayed for the cute girl with a beautifully chaotic energy and great self awareness. Make your channel to be whatever you want, because I'm sure I'll keep watching.
@victsn
@victsn Жыл бұрын
Beautifully chaotic... Well said 👏🏼
@leahwhite4667
@leahwhite4667 Жыл бұрын
"Why would you change the thing people love about you, just to placate the people that don't fucken get you?"
@moonhunter9993
@moonhunter9993 Жыл бұрын
exactly
@monlow
@monlow Жыл бұрын
Okay, not a word of a lie: I bought a rug yesterday for my living area in my all-carpet apartment, and when I laid it out and stood back to look at it I thought “yes good it ‘corrals’ this space just like Caroline says” so hearing you talk specifically about this was really funny and validating lol
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
YASSSSS this gives me hope and joy
@shannonkline8169
@shannonkline8169 Жыл бұрын
"Always corral!" lol
@lisajensen1843
@lisajensen1843 Жыл бұрын
Yep! You rock! And I’m 67 and think you’re funny as hell but at the same time SO sensitive and kind💕. Love your channel.. us more mature woman are here for you🥰. Haters are so insecure, lonely and sad.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
it means so much to be seen as sensitive and kind at the same time. i think that's what i always got insecure about when being seen as loud or hyper - i felt the other parts of me were misinterpreted. this comment means a lot, and im very very glad you're here
@mslafave5689
@mslafave5689 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking up. I’m 66 and was timid to say anything but you put it beautifully.
@jelizabethpetrie6656
@jelizabethpetrie6656 Жыл бұрын
62 here, you’re a laugh riot…I want my 30yr old daughter to get your spunk!
@designdoctor247
@designdoctor247 4 ай бұрын
i feel the same way ... by the way...what is this 4:40? i tried to google it but i must be spelling it wrong... my daughter is 22 today...n it is heart breaking to see her listen to ....and adjust/change herself to "fit in"
@fionaschiffl8065
@fionaschiffl8065 Жыл бұрын
I’ve stopped being a people pleaser and am finding that people don’t like me standing up for myself or having an opinion (in my 50s). Standing up to a narcissist is hard and brave but having to defend yourself from the family’s opinions is just as hard. If I got a tattoo it would be my therapist’s shoe print on my butt. Milky coffee rules.
@ponygirlusa
@ponygirlusa Жыл бұрын
True, especially once they were used to walking over you. The response is almost astonishment, like "How dare you have a backbone!" Just continue to be your self, look them in the eyes and never forget no one is better than you, especially those who think they are.❤
@beckylsparks
@beckylsparks Жыл бұрын
I think being such a people pleaser my whole life is why I’ve had such anxiety my whole life!!
@marciabutler987
@marciabutler987 Жыл бұрын
Creamy coffee rules
@fionaschiffl8065
@fionaschiffl8065 Жыл бұрын
@@beckylsparks Hell yes! Never again. May your life be wonderful as you let go of it and be you. Take care of your heart.
@kmoy
@kmoy Жыл бұрын
Preach!! 🙌🏼
@lyndamoorhead
@lyndamoorhead Жыл бұрын
I’m still waiting to outgrow the “are those guys laughing at me behind my back?” reflex. It crossed my mind yesterday; I’m pretty sure they were. I am 41.
@moonhunter9993
@moonhunter9993 Жыл бұрын
yes, but does it matter?
@tygerstripes3752
@tygerstripes3752 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, men snarking on women's physical appearance will never, ever stop. I like to call it 'The Judgement of Paris' or 'The Mother Effin' Judgement of Paris'. At least it's usually done behind your back and so is easy to ignore. Guys who do it outright, I wish I had a one-size-fits-all snappy comeback, but it's probably best to ignore them. They're IRL trolls and it would only give them a charge to reply.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Oo this is a very tough one for me. Definitely happened for real to me a lot in high school and man will it leave a scar
@801LOVER
@801LOVER Жыл бұрын
I’m super paranoid, I always think everyone is saying something harsh. I’ve gotten tired of worrying about it. So, let mean people be mean. I’m happy with myself.
@tygerstripes3752
@tygerstripes3752 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler And *that's* why we all need a snappy retort, preferably just as personal about their physicality. Leave 'em with their own psychic scar, too!
@ecmclaughlin
@ecmclaughlin Жыл бұрын
Someone literally just told me yesterday that "your message will be received better if you don't yell it," and I was like, "Ok. You can unsubscribe." The advice on haters here is great advice.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
hahah the best response. yeah, their feedback would also probably be better received if they didn't have such a poor personality. 🤷‍♀ sometimes these messages just aint receivable
@ecmclaughlin
@ecmclaughlin Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler Exactly.
@RetroWykopaliska
@RetroWykopaliska Жыл бұрын
Hater cos someone may have difficulties with tolarating scream.... Come on...
@toneluy8343
@toneluy8343 Жыл бұрын
​@@RetroWykopaliskathey could go "ew I dont like screaming, I'm gonna watch someone else", thats not a hater. A hater goes to the trouble of commenting their hate too. Cause they think everyone needs to hear their hate
@RetroWykopaliska
@RetroWykopaliska Жыл бұрын
@@toneluy8343 don't agree - i would love to watch and hear Caroline' s jokes about interior design but to be honest its hard for me to listen scream and i do not see anything bad if i admit that - that's it and nothing more.
@michelleb.9637
@michelleb.9637 Жыл бұрын
I just stopped by to say that I’m a grandmother of 7 and I consider you a national treasure! ❤️
@BeckhaDoyle
@BeckhaDoyle Жыл бұрын
The editing on this is so funny 🤣 Happy Birthday, Paige! Also, Caroline - love the insight and authenticity as always, you're a fuck*ng inspiration and a total legend.
@vedranastanivukovic398
@vedranastanivukovic398 Жыл бұрын
I love how you decided that the "i" in fucking was the most outrageous letter. 😂❤
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Dah ❤🫠thank you for the support Beckha
@BeckhaDoyle
@BeckhaDoyle Жыл бұрын
​@@vedranastanivukovic398Always do the unexpected, keeps em on their toes 🤣. I only censored a letter at all because KZfaq asked me if I was sure it was appropriate.
@broccolista
@broccolista Жыл бұрын
@@vedranastanivukovic398 Hahaha! Loved this too. I'm totally stealing this spelling!
@donnajarvis9542
@donnajarvis9542 4 ай бұрын
Good. Old Winston! oh yea.
@clairebroaddrick5959
@clairebroaddrick5959 Жыл бұрын
My toddler with me “watch Caroline, watch Caroline!” She loved your chairs!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
oh my god do not mess with me on this one, my heart can't take it!!! I will tell you this - i have been approached by a few tv production companies to explore doing a design show (nothing's happening) but they always ask for *my pitch* and the ONLY show i ever say i would do is an interior design show for toddlers. toddlers are the only coworkers i want and they unjustly underrepresented in the design world! tell your toddler i am a fan of hers
@drebugsita
@drebugsita Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler wow! just wow! how do you not have producers lining up waving contracts at you?! this is the most zany brilliant idea of cuteness ever. it's like that Japanese reality tv show "old enough" but with the added element of design and Caroline-comedy! please, if nothing else, make this a KZfaq series!
@marcospacheco5671
@marcospacheco5671 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 40 year old male, living in México, and I love your content, and not just the interior desing part. Its like the charming, and funny and inspirational bits of things you say with each idea. You've got a beatiful channel.
@pegm5937
@pegm5937 Жыл бұрын
That chair and wallpaper art is everything. Also, yeah, plenty of us older chicks out here loving your energy and commentary. Don't stop. Please.
@byrdonian8365
@byrdonian8365 Жыл бұрын
I sent your “interior design” vid to one of my bachelor friends. He laughed and said he could see why I liked you because of our similar delivery of opinions 😂 Please do not change!!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Doh love this. I pray he TOOK SOME NOTES
@byrdonian8365
@byrdonian8365 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler He did! He said he needed some accent colors and he totally has the matching pillows that came with the couches 😂 😂 I expect him to be slaying the dating scene soon with the help of your tips!
@eringrey5499
@eringrey5499 Жыл бұрын
Listen. I haven't even finished this video and I already gave it a thumbs-up BECAUSE I laugh my ass off every damn time.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
I bless u for this goodness
@candyce6233
@candyce6233 Жыл бұрын
every.damn.time. ❤
@mr.bluenotedoobop
@mr.bluenotedoobop Жыл бұрын
As a 41 year old straight dude who was looking for inspiration for my new place, that channel has been great. Keeping doing your own thing, if people hate it, then they can start their own youtube channel.
@CTDP2012
@CTDP2012 Жыл бұрын
Spoonflower, get your hands out of your pockets and pay the lady!!! Caroline, your videos are absolutely joyful
@sofiasotomayor2688
@sofiasotomayor2688 Жыл бұрын
I love your bedroom; it gives me cozy pirate ship vibes and I love that
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
COZY PIRATE SHIP VIBES!!! oh my god ive never heard this but this is immediately the only way i wish to be thought of. thank you
@JBenny2010
@JBenny2010 Жыл бұрын
She’s so cool!!😎😎😎🤓
@2cats1gurl
@2cats1gurl Жыл бұрын
I've been trying to explain your content to my boyfriend because I am so delighted by you, and finally I just showed him today and yeah, he gets it now.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
hahah wow highest compliment. i welcome this reluctant convert
@spiicyliime22
@spiicyliime22 16 сағат бұрын
I've been having the same problem and ya I need to just show him already hahahaha.
@ShellyBomb
@ShellyBomb Жыл бұрын
"Don't go changin' to try and please me ..." Billy Joel 😂!!!
@pollydolly9723
@pollydolly9723 Жыл бұрын
67 years old here....and I freaking love your content! If I had my shit half as together at 50 as you do, I'd be golden! I forwarded you "perfectionist" video to my kids and about 20 of their friends. Keep it coming, keep being yourself, and honestly...is EVERYONE in your family talented???
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
dah, im so glad the video resonated!! i hope the perfectionist one helps some people. i wrote it with some very specific loved ones in mind and hoped it resonated. and yes all of my siblings are kind of ridiculous!!
@cr8685
@cr8685 Жыл бұрын
Who could hate you? You're fabulous!
@donnachimenti7
@donnachimenti7 Жыл бұрын
I agree with that!
@CRJR94
@CRJR94 Жыл бұрын
I literally was going to write the same thing, she’s AMAZING
@joanm.h.2513
@joanm.h.2513 Жыл бұрын
They are jealous
@ligmabouls
@ligmabouls Жыл бұрын
Yes i love her feet and camel toes too!
@ShaferHart
@ShaferHart 4 ай бұрын
​@@joanm.h.2513people don't realize how much jealousy drives hate comments online especially (dare I say it) for female creators.
@mimimosa259
@mimimosa259 Жыл бұрын
I was hurt badly by the end of a long friendship a few years ago. But recently I realized I am actually appreciative of losing that friendship because it made me look at myself and realize maybe I wasn’t being the greatest friend. I was needy and sensitive and not doing a good job of regulating my own emotions. If that friendship hadn’t ended then I likely would have kept depending on them and not been pushed to grow and try to be a better and more equitable friend
@innermeetme
@innermeetme Жыл бұрын
It is really hard to deal with those feelings... Especially when it comes to the question, "is there just something wrong with me? Am I not good enough?" I guess just the same way you get triggered by other people, others will be triggered by you. And while it is so healthy and important to be honest about your feelings, including those that could be hurtful towards others, I think the more you learn what true friendship is -- which is, for me, to choose people I am committed to, who I feel so connected to and care for so much that I would never abandon them, even if they were going through a hard time or were not at their best -- the more you will attract people like that in your life. And quite frankly a lot of people do end friendships because they are not willing to look deeply within themselves to see if their "triggers" point to something they need to work on (they always do) or if the friendship really isn't deep enough to save. But for me that's the point: is the connection so deep that you'll always be there? I don't really invest myself in people that I don't feel fully loyal to, and who don't feel fully loyal to me. Life is hard and dealing with people is hard but being honest with yourself while respecting and loving yourself (and others) is so important. Not everyone will be that way
@user-dq2ym1nn9k
@user-dq2ym1nn9k Жыл бұрын
I had a long term friendship end too, and it is (was) the most painful experience, however I'm also grateful for the lesson: I need to learn to be my own best friend first and foremost. Depending so heavily on a 'best friend' is setting yourself up for disaster if that person is no longer in your life for any reason. It can happen.
@skiyogagirl
@skiyogagirl Жыл бұрын
@@user-dq2ym1nn9k also, it can give you an opportunity to spend time with other friends who deserve your friendship! I finally realized I had to let a friend go because she was sucking the life out of me! Still painful. I did give her the opportunity to realize how much pressure she was putting on me but she chose to ignore after 7.5 years of friendship! Moving on!!
@jlina
@jlina Жыл бұрын
I did not even know emotional regulation was a thing until I lost my boyfriend if 13 years! Admittedly he stonewalled me and sent me off but dang I wish I had known about it then. It is so powerful! Sometimes though I just let myself go... If somebody insist on having a conversation I don't want to have at a time I don't want to have it I will still go off on them someone recently told me I was unhinged are out of control and I said no I'm just spitting facts because you're making me! I think a lot of us are basically Caroline's kind of people!
@Will140f
@Will140f Жыл бұрын
33-year old male viewer here. I love the interior design stuff, I love the personal stuff, I love how funny you are, and I think you're a great influence for younger women too. My daughter is one and a half so too young to appreciate anything besides baby einstein videos (and she's not even too keen on those) but my partner loves your channel too now that I showed it to her. I get what you're doing here and I love it. All I know is that some people are set on willfully misinterpreting anything you can say. Bad faith abounds on the internet and it's hard to sift out genuine or maybe valid criticisms from all the bad faith interpretations of offhand comments.
@breesgirl5035
@breesgirl5035 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 55 year old woman. I enjoy your channel immensely. Street man gave me life. I followed that saga with great pleasure. 😃
@VirgoVibe
@VirgoVibe Жыл бұрын
32:00 . This goes the other way too. I've have had to silently breakup with a few friends and wondered if I had to have a breakup talk with them about ALLLLLL the things they were doing that I wasn't working. But I overhead someone else talking about the same thing and there said 'Whatever it is that is not vibing with me may very well be that other persons superpower. ' Mind blown! How dare someone take away my superpower and how dare I take away someones elses? Just move on.. Great advice in this video!
@amreiloose1952
@amreiloose1952 Жыл бұрын
Loving the editing, Paige! It makes this even more hilarious 😄
@imanilewisglasspiegel2402
@imanilewisglasspiegel2402 Жыл бұрын
That Tom Hiddleston side by side? Perfection.
@rowenaannelacson2860
@rowenaannelacson2860 Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Your personality and mannerisms that your true audience loves IS the yelling, squealing, voices, attitude, sass, honesty. DONT CHANGE❤
@SweetheartMorada
@SweetheartMorada Жыл бұрын
As someone who people have tried to shame into being less loud, opinionated and “unladylike” (aka having any fun at all), thank you for staying true to your personality. I’m still working to let my authentic self do her thing after constant pressure to make myself smaller. Appreciate having representation for the sophisticated loudmouth ladies of the world 👏
@CRJR94
@CRJR94 Жыл бұрын
You’re the best! Don’t you dare even think of changing one thing about YOU, you’re the friend everyone wants to have! Lol, I’m one of the “older” ones 58 and glad you’re doing this channel Omgosh, your hair looks amazing short!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
ah im so glad you enjoy the channel! i've always connected with people of all ages so it makes total sense to me, and i'm so glad you feel the same!
@CW11278
@CW11278 Жыл бұрын
Caroline, please know that you have me stifling laughter in my cubicle on the daily. Laugh please? I shall.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Hahah she shall ❤
@livnicole9550
@livnicole9550 Жыл бұрын
my favorite quotes from today's video: "i'm lucky to have a camel" "how about you go to rehab" "is she an egostistical twatt?" "you've only had skin for about 4 days!" "you can't spend your whole life explaining who you are to people" "i'll allow it" God Bless Our Caroline . . .😄😘😘
@stephallen9819
@stephallen9819 Жыл бұрын
Love these! I'd add 'I love snakes because I love hugs 😂'
@spa-peggymeatballs4861
@spa-peggymeatballs4861 Жыл бұрын
I have to pause like every ten seconds in every damn one of her videos and let things sink in. Even most of the sarcastic comments have an element of truth.
@livnicole9550
@livnicole9550 Жыл бұрын
@@stephallen9819 omg yes! how could miss that one! 🤣🤦🏽‍♀
@pipsperseverance5593
@pipsperseverance5593 Жыл бұрын
@livnicole9550 I want to do this for all of her videos! there are SO many great quotes! I forgot all about "you've only had skin for about four days!" she kills me!!!
@livnicole9550
@livnicole9550 Жыл бұрын
@@pipsperseverance5593 i know riiiiight! she's brilliant!! 🤣🤣
@carolbedrosian4650
@carolbedrosian4650 Жыл бұрын
Please don't bite my head off (!!!! 🤣)...I'd want someone to tell me this, so I'm telling you! Maybe you said it as a joke? But did you mean: disingenuous??? There's no such word as disingenuine! Oh, Caroline, I adore you. You are SO genuine. You make me laugh. You touch my soul. Thank you ❤
@cookiemonster2630
@cookiemonster2630 Жыл бұрын
Hehe ngl I was going to comment something as well but decided against it.
@glswain
@glswain Жыл бұрын
I do find your videos more rewatachable than most, I think because the editing is so good and consistent.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Dying for this feedback❤ absolutely made my day thank you
@ElleCallanan
@ElleCallanan Жыл бұрын
@glswain, you’re right on. Caroline and Paige, brava beeches ✅
@user-wk5om8kf5b
@user-wk5om8kf5b Жыл бұрын
Shout out to Paige. You have such a fun editing style. It adds so much entertainment to an already entertaining lady!!
@savannah1394
@savannah1394 8 ай бұрын
“Why would you change the thing people love about you, just to placate the people who don’t get you?” Damn, that hit 💜
@polymerclayandcrafts
@polymerclayandcrafts Жыл бұрын
I also have a "laugh" tattoo but in french "ris", it has always been my coping mechanism since I've met a kind person in the hospital, he was always trying to make me laugh. He never actually knew how much it helped to pull me out of rock bottom. Thank you, Caroline, for being yourself! 🤗
@charmsz566
@charmsz566 Жыл бұрын
"how bout you go to rehab!!" made me laugh so hard i spit out my equally pale, light-brown deliciously yummy milky coffee. cheers!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
lets get that coffee to a LIGHT TAN PLEASE
@psyche8187
@psyche8187 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler Dear Caroline, can you really quick clarify your coffee? Are you putting cold milk in? So is it immediately room temperature? Please advise.
@victsn
@victsn Жыл бұрын
Ladies! (& potential gents): Try a drop off heavy cream in your coffee. Perk: it stirs itself.
@ablakeslife
@ablakeslife Жыл бұрын
I appreciated your insights on friendships, relationships, and the importance of defining success on your own terms. Your emphasis on staying true to oneself and not changing to please others was particularly inspiring and reminded me of the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity. Thank you! ☺
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
ah this is so meaningful to hear. I definitely don't have all the answers, but i've been surrounded by people, friends and family who are much wiser than me and i love riding the coattails of their wisdoms
@ablakeslife
@ablakeslife Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler as do I! It’s funny, 8 or so years ago I was working with my best friend at the time whose KZfaq channel I helped grow to a few mill. I never thought I was good enough to have success on my own terms and never started until this past year. I guess with age and experiences comes self acceptance and belief in oneself.
@peaceloveandjk
@peaceloveandjk Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler I asked the question about ending the friendship and I appreciated your insights a lot. The insincerity of it on my end is probably the most difficult part, and i've struggled with it for a while. Distancing hasn't worked, so I think a more honest conversation is on the horizon. Thank you
@tasticola
@tasticola Жыл бұрын
"I'm a female human" yes you are Caroline, yes you are, and we're happy that you are one of us! x Nell.
@millicentmae3465
@millicentmae3465 Жыл бұрын
The skincare rant was so real and hilarious, "you've had skin for like 4 days." Also, you really do provide that "feeling" you are trying to achieve through your videos- it's this warm, cozy, hilarious, creative, and smart corner of the internet.
@allysoncipollone890
@allysoncipollone890 Жыл бұрын
It's so frustrating to know that people bully KZfaq creators who spend so much time making content that so many people enjoy. I hope you focus on the positive because you're very much appreciated!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
It can be harder some days, but I think it’s a very fair price that comes with the territory! There’s an exchange here 🤷‍♀️and even the ones that really get to me, ultimately offer a lesson in learning my way out of people pleasing. By and large, this place has been extremely supportive ❤❤
@allysoncipollone890
@allysoncipollone890 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler 💜 so glad to hear it!
@kellikakes81
@kellikakes81 Жыл бұрын
Loved how you included the beginning part (coffee spill) 💞
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
not the intro i was planning, but it's the intro i deserve
@fionaschiffl8065
@fionaschiffl8065 Жыл бұрын
I do that at least once a week. Did it yesterday. Just give myself a mark out of 10 for style, delivery and the clean up effort. Sometimes I give myself an Oscar. Bonus points for not slipping on it.
@victsn
@victsn Жыл бұрын
I try to only bump into walls when there are new people there to see it so I can feel more like a spaz in real time. Thank you for showing me the video version.
@carolinacaetano9147
@carolinacaetano9147 Жыл бұрын
Caroline, that stuff you were talking about around the 30 min mark? Spot on. Keep yellin, I love it! That bachelor video was the funniest yet, and I learned so much even though I am not even the intended audience.
@lesanimaux4416
@lesanimaux4416 Жыл бұрын
In short: I'm 34F and I'm just fascinated by you as a person. You can make anything cool, as long as you are genuine. Which, I can tell, you are.
@vishyav
@vishyav Жыл бұрын
The Winkler household just sounds so creative ❤
@matthewmurray7428
@matthewmurray7428 Жыл бұрын
Happy B-day Paige!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
love this. EVERYONE WISH PAIGE THE TEAPOT A HAPPY BELATED!
@Kgy1371
@Kgy1371 Жыл бұрын
“If they choose you, they choose you!” Best advice for life! ❤ Also the skincare comments…spot on!! Have PCOS and problems so deep that over the counter stuff is a joke!
@alexnemeth6171
@alexnemeth6171 Жыл бұрын
Hi again Caroline! I forgot to tell you how you keep us laughing and that I also see a younger Jennifer Aniston in you. From her “Friends” days….keep up the great and original content we’ve come to love!
@martinabauer637
@martinabauer637 Жыл бұрын
i also see a lot of Jennifer Aniston in Carolines Features :)
@andersonfilmandsound
@andersonfilmandsound Жыл бұрын
The older I get the more it has become clear that at the centre of most of our problems is the propensity towards self obsession. The more we can move ourselves away from existing as the centre of the universe and begin to shine our torch on truly investigating others lives and other worlds outside of ourselves the less suffering we experience. This one move is extremely powerful in connecting us together and is remarkable in its healing aspects.
@onimendez7735
@onimendez7735 Жыл бұрын
You always remind me of Audrey Hepburn. Beautiful, sassy, genuine.
@leonore3349
@leonore3349 Жыл бұрын
Was Audrey sassy?
@kathleenhunt7613
@kathleenhunt7613 Жыл бұрын
And gamine!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
ok NO BODY else has ever said this except for you....and my mom ❤she'll be happy to know
@onimendez7735
@onimendez7735 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler Aww, true though, especially when you wear your hair up. Your content ALWAYS makes chuckle . Love all your content. Thank beautiful Caroline!
@wdeal100
@wdeal100 Жыл бұрын
@Caroline_Winkler I think you sound and look quite a bit like Troian Bellisario.
@tarapallaydesign
@tarapallaydesign Жыл бұрын
“I already feel successful.” As you should lady!!! 👏👏👏
@Stinkwolff83
@Stinkwolff83 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely get “the office” feelings when I watch you! Couldn’t find what it was exactly, but if thats what you’re going for, you nailed it! Almost like having a friend!!!!
@marionsimard4223
@marionsimard4223 Жыл бұрын
The link between Ketamine and black coffee was ducking legendary
@jessemariahennen5614
@jessemariahennen5614 Жыл бұрын
So excited your brother is selling more honey pots - I was so sad when they ran out before I could snag one the first round 😭 immediately ordered and can’t wait to receive it ❤️❤️❤️ they’re so beautifully made, and an amazing idea!
@petunianicole
@petunianicole Жыл бұрын
Ahhh thank you! I wanted one SO bad on the last round. I just ordered one, thanks to you!! 😘🎉
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
ah he literally just re-opened the Etsy shop this afternoon, you found it so fast!
@nicolemiller97
@nicolemiller97 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha! "Her brother is selling honey pots" reverbbed in my head like four times before the adult part of my brain said "literal honey, dumbass!"
@victsn
@victsn Жыл бұрын
I still think it's clever when I say: "HE IS the honey pot." But I'm the only one enjoying that... I did really love them too. 🍯🐝💛
@rachaelb.8507
@rachaelb.8507 Жыл бұрын
I love you shouting and when you aren't shouting. My husband and I are much older than your usual audience and we were laughing like crazy watching your bachelor episode. Awesome AF. Your rock. AND love those wallpaper samples. Splendid.
@tiffanysd925
@tiffanysd925 Жыл бұрын
Yes girl!!! I wish we were friends , it’s so hard making friends as an adult. I use to have most of my friends through my job but now I’m a stay at home mom who moved 45 mins away from my old town and now am in Crofton. I met a random lady at target who was like I love ur ugg boots and after texting for a few weeks I find out she’s like a pyramid scheme type of job and wanted me to join a zoom meeting smh like no thank u. Anyways thanks for sharing ur wisdom and being so inspiring. ❤❤❤
@spiicyliime22
@spiicyliime22 16 сағат бұрын
Awwwww that's so shitty of the pyramid scheme person :/
@thejillykilly
@thejillykilly Жыл бұрын
Your 'life talks' are my favorites.
@JBenny2010
@JBenny2010 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss!
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
aw im so glad! they're some of my most fun to film
@thejillykilly
@thejillykilly Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler You are good at articulating your thoughts on any topic. I subconsciously nod while watching you!
@keliza64
@keliza64 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you. You are real, hilarious, refreshing, bold, brave, honest, beautiful, insightful, daring, creative, brilliant and and so relatable. Thanks for always brightening my day ❤
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
very generous list of adjectives 😢thank you bb
@andrewj464
@andrewj464 Жыл бұрын
I'm a man and I only drink coffee black, but everyone should drink it however they like it! Thank you for sharing personal details of your life openly and honestly. And forget the haters.
@alittlebitofjessica
@alittlebitofjessica Жыл бұрын
No, don't forget the haters. Let the haters be the fuel that propels you forward, to reach your full potential and conquer the world.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
You’re my favorite man now
@nikilaou1488
@nikilaou1488 Жыл бұрын
Milky coffee drinker right here 🙋🏻‍♀️ I’m with ya gurl, haters gonna hate
@HannahBrotalo
@HannahBrotalo Жыл бұрын
The chaotic crafting is what I’m here for 💅
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
there's like an additional 2 hours of footage of me yelling at a frame and i would be happy to send it to you
@HannahBrotalo
@HannahBrotalo Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler I would be delighted, honestly. It would feel like crafting time via Zoom, circa 2020.
@SethAGonzalez
@SethAGonzalez Жыл бұрын
I love your YT channel and come to it because you're just real. Hilarious, flawed, beautiful, smart and funny. Haters hate on you? That's blasphemy. Thanks for your loveable kookiness. I'm going now to sit and reflect on how much I've been attracted to Tom Hiddleston and never knew it.
@JBenny2010
@JBenny2010 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
❤ tom and i like to keep it real, we live and die by this sibling code, what can i say
@Pherine1
@Pherine1 Жыл бұрын
I'm 71 this year and I love you whatever mood you are in when recording a video, keep them coming 🥰
@jasonchipmanhowlett
@jasonchipmanhowlett Жыл бұрын
lol and i love you and i'm a 50 year old man failing at youtube and i had to google what ketamine was and i still don't think i really know.
@irenethegreek3348
@irenethegreek3348 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see more decoration, you are very gifted and relatable, with easy ideas and you make it look funny and easy and like a fantastic journey.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
im so glad! i will always include decor updates on the channel. I'm trying to think up some new fun projects!
@leahfinch7126
@leahfinch7126 Жыл бұрын
I am absolutely sick of cancel culture which is just the ultimate manifestation of internet hate in most cases. Continue being you and never give in to the outrage crew❤
@Kurmysh
@Kurmysh Жыл бұрын
Caroline, your presence in my life is comforting and empowering at the same time. Thank you!
@M3T4F1S1K4
@M3T4F1S1K4 Жыл бұрын
I am really happy that I discovered your channel, for a while now I turn to your videos, and your content and personality just put me in a super creative and "hands on the matter" kind of mood. I think it's cause you actually put yourself out there and with everything good and bad that comes with it, you still speak your mind and allow yourself to be YOU. It is inspiring to me, and it comforts me in a way I cannot quite put into words. I just feel seen :)
@JennyInToronto
@JennyInToronto Жыл бұрын
I work remotely, and it can get pretty monotonous. Today, I played a bunch of your vids in the background, and it made my work day so much better. Thank you for making videos and being one of my design inspirations!
@susanboote6525
@susanboote6525 Жыл бұрын
Love your joyful funny personality, creativity, and how you choose to cope with life when it isn't always positive. Great role model for a 72 year old mom!
@nancydibble9570
@nancydibble9570 Жыл бұрын
I love your “chats”! Doing your own thing is perfect! Keep it up!
@shawnhays6052
@shawnhays6052 Жыл бұрын
I have been re-watching all of your videos because I had major neck surgery, and can't do much more than sleep and watch TV. I wanted to tell you that you are actually soothing to me, I do not find you chaotic at all. This could be because I have a similar personality to yours. I think we would probably be friends in real life, your humor and energy is so me. Thank you for your content and being an original! ❤️
@mkayokay3192
@mkayokay3192 Жыл бұрын
I want you to know that I took in the entire meaning of the finger tat as soon as you read the words. Your description was exactly what I took from it. At first I thought “live laugh love lol?” Then “ohhhhhhh laugh please” yeah. I feel that Laugh so you don’t cry
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
this bish gets it ❤
@marjonvatanchi3715
@marjonvatanchi3715 Жыл бұрын
As a dermatologist, I approve of your skincare regimen! Fantastic Recs. 😊
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
Ahh man I am so delighted by this! Thank you!
@petraraskova6724
@petraraskova6724 Жыл бұрын
Your family never stops to amaze me! You're all so tallented in various artistic and other fields. I love your channel and I'm so happy for your well deserved success ❤
@amethystsparkle
@amethystsparkle Жыл бұрын
Really love your channel and podcast, for lots of reasons like the different topics, advice on decorating, living alone, life etc and your personality. So relatable and chaotic, brightens my day. Thank you!
@amyhegan8805
@amyhegan8805 Жыл бұрын
Caroline I wasn’t prepared for a TUESDAY video. I’m not complaining though! 😂
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
i know is this weird???!?!?!?!!?!?
@inneralignmenteducation
@inneralignmenteducation Жыл бұрын
I love your personality your style and your truth! I’m pushing 50 and I’d totally enjoy a friend date with you. Not to sound creepy. You are super funny and your sense of humor is meant to be shared exactly as you do! Being yourself is an act of rebellion and a beautiful gift. Ty for showing up! 🫶
@victsn
@victsn Жыл бұрын
I do feel like we'd be fast friends, too! She's so likable & funny. Let's make it a girl's play date so I can join!
@maydaylane9154
@maydaylane9154 Жыл бұрын
i came here originally through a design video but I stayed because of your chaos. I love your yelling! I'm 17 and i watch your channel because you remind me a little bit of myself, and a lot of my older sister, who is one of my favorite people in the world. I live in the dmv area and i appreciate your advice and life perspective that an older me will one day need. love you!
@apoetnamedink.
@apoetnamedink. Жыл бұрын
I've been on KZfaq since 2009, and I don't think I've ever found anything as honest and fun as this. Design is also the like, 10th thing I do to support myself, so it's cool to see you thriving and talking about it whenever... I like where we are right now where we can just talk about anything, do anything, live, share, even through that isolation, it still feels like a time for doing anything we want.
@zeni6450
@zeni6450 Жыл бұрын
I love this so much!!!! I often was called too loud, passionate, or intense but I genuinely can't help yelling, exclaim, or being expressive. I had a group of friends who always hated it and wanted me to be quiet. But I finally found a few good people who are just like me and I feel safe to be myself around. Also my job is literally advocacy so I'm paid to be loud and cause trouble haha Sometimes I miss having a big group of friends but I genuinely have more meaningful individual friendships now. It took me a while to find them, but I finally did ❤
@sarahelliott2570
@sarahelliott2570 Жыл бұрын
You’re genuinely so authentic and watching your videos have truly saved me. Thank you for not being afraid to be exactly who you are ❤
@diosadeamore
@diosadeamore Жыл бұрын
Yay!!! Enjoyed hangin out with you and absolutely love your Chairs art !!! ❤🎉
@gracechow2623
@gracechow2623 Жыл бұрын
My comfort show is The Nanny, I can watch it anytime of day. I feel the same with your videos, listening to you is really calming and lifts my mood. Thanks Caroline, you're a blessing!
@sarahbass8130
@sarahbass8130 Жыл бұрын
From where i sit, you have succeeded in what you wanted for your channel. I am admittedly a female in the 20-30s range who is interested in design lol but your channel is the first one i look for most days, ive rewatched many of your videos multiple times, & am now a lover of your podcast. Keep up the good work girl, youre killing it
@annieevans7609
@annieevans7609 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 54 yr old woman and I love your channel - you always make me laugh out loud (not always in the best places… 🤣). Suggestion for the 40 yr old asking for skincare recommendations - start taking collagen and don’t stop! Same for everyone over 40-ish. Including men. The chair pic is gorgeous 🤩
@brittahusen1167
@brittahusen1167 Жыл бұрын
(13:55) your channel makes me feel like the office makes you feel 💗 100% super happy to have found you on here!
@mrsheroldmrsherold
@mrsheroldmrsherold Жыл бұрын
Seeing your videos always make my day! You are a breath of fresh air and an inspiration to this 57 year old. Thank you for sharing yourself with us, you are the genuine article, lady!
@coreyw4230
@coreyw4230 Жыл бұрын
As a very beardy manly man... I, too, enjoy milky coffee. Because it's damned delicious.
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
it is the way, the truth, and the life
@aniasmirkin-bazejewska810
@aniasmirkin-bazejewska810 Жыл бұрын
@@Caroline_Winkler I drink my coffee black and crazy strong. But I would never tell anyone to drink their coffee "my way". Everyone has the right to drink their coffee the way they like! 🥰☕☕☕
@fionaschiffl8065
@fionaschiffl8065 Жыл бұрын
Love your sass, opinions, outtakes, boundaries and character. I found your channel as I wanted to know why people change their names as I’m going to. I’m going through a divorce and you are helping me stand by my decisions when people are telling me what I should do for my future and am able to brush off their opinions more easily. Can’t thank you enough for that, the videos really mean that much to me. Watch your videos daily.
@theresagarza1578
@theresagarza1578 Жыл бұрын
There are some great videos on KZfaq about leading a narcissist & moving on with your life. A lot of people who enable the narcissist ( like friends or family) are so duped by the narcissist they don’t even realize what they’re doing. My friend is a therapist who left her marriage to a narcissist after 35 years & she’s so ecstatic she finally did it. You’ll be fine. Find the videos, they’ll give you strength!
@fionaschiffl8065
@fionaschiffl8065 Жыл бұрын
@@theresagarza1578 Thank you so much! You have no idea how much I need to hear it. I’ve been researching it on youtube for 6yrs and I always thought he was just in a bad mood all the time. Didn’t know it was abuse. 32yrs of hell has been enough and grew up with a sister who did the same to me and my Mum enabled her. I call people who give me hope divorce heroes. You are one of them! As soon as I found the videos my first thought was that I had to get my head together and I have, can’t believe how much I’ve changed. Took me a few months to actually say the words out loud that I had to leave. I was still a teen when I met him. Now I can decorate my house and I’m changing my name (despite people hating my potential name).
@namabeni
@namabeni 10 ай бұрын
I'm def well in your demographic and found your content through your Interior Design videos but I honestly stayed because of YOU Caroline. Thank you for YOU, thank you for what you do and thank you for the value you bring to this world. ❤
@BessieBeaver
@BessieBeaver Жыл бұрын
Aww, I’m smiling ear to ear after that one! I’m a fan of the words that flow when hands are busy making/doing. Thanks for bringing so much of you to KZfaq - you being exactly the way you are in all your moods/parts/expressions is exactly why I like you so much. I’m sure you’re helping others be more confident in who they are, just by showing up so publicly. I look forward to your videos so much - usually watching cozied up in my bed in Australia on a Sunday morning (though I’m glad you’re being kinder to yourself with your schedule and releasing videos when it suits you) Not many people make me actually properly laugh like you do! You hit the right spot. Love that wallpaper too! Would have looked awesome in your bathroom but looks awesome in the frame too 😊
@vicbethen
@vicbethen Жыл бұрын
I don't know if you need to hear this Caroline, but you and your videos bring so much value to my life!!! I'm always waiting for your next video and rewatching old ones. You are just amazing and smart and funny and resolutive! Your videos just bring me so much comfort and I love them ❤❤
@flibbertygibbette
@flibbertygibbette Жыл бұрын
I just pressed play on this video, but you're amazing and I am here for this.
@chrismyers7308
@chrismyers7308 Жыл бұрын
Caroline, I keep catching myself talking back to you during your videos, like I'm talking to a best friend! Thank you!! ...And your "Some Good Chairs" masterpiece is amazing 🎉!
@sanahaeri9877
@sanahaeri9877 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE THE CHAIRS and also generally all the artworks you’ve made so far on your channel! They’re all so aesthetically pleasing but also really fun and easy to make and you’ve inspired me to make similar stuff!!
@laurieb6163
@laurieb6163 Жыл бұрын
Gurl….you had me on pins and needles watching you disassemble that picture frame. I used to be a custom picture framer in my past life and you are SO LUCKY the glass didn’t shatter all over your bed. The little metal pieces are called spring clips and they are there to create tension so everything stays in place. Next time, remove them FIRST…for safety reasons. 🤪 Love your videos, your personality and your sense of humor! Thank you for sharing!!
@sweetsanddandy8639
@sweetsanddandy8639 Жыл бұрын
From another framer...agreed. 🤓
@Caroline_Winkler
@Caroline_Winkler Жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD! oh wow i never even thought of that. oooo ok bless you for this, i had no idea. i think i left like for of them out when i reassembled it....🫣
@laurieb6163
@laurieb6163 Жыл бұрын
Happy to help! The piece wasn’t very big so you’re probably good without the rest of the clips. Be mindful of the glass edges as well - the are likely quite sharp - do not run your fingers up and down along the edges. 🩸
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