I was just saying that lol I want to be with home but let me cheat in peace.

FACTZ anytime a woman says “controlling” it means he’s not letting me do what I want to do but I want him to do what I want 😂

Hell, dudes are out here doing that and getting encouraged to do it. Why can't she? These double standards are wild.

Exactly 💯

Facts💯

I concur

Sooooo many people stay because of this very thing and have absolutely no chemistry with their mate

Finally real truth for once is being spoken, he is only being used, she has zero for him, when it comes to romantic feelings, AT ALL 💯

L

facts

He had no business marrying a kid. That's how she acts. He's making a young woman act as if she's a mature woman!

​@ronnimartin7033 right she want her cake and eat it she is a sad case

She’s 24!!

She belongs to the streets, she needs to stay there.

@@ELBONYBEAUTY27 💯 she needed a stable home and wasn't mature enough to know and understand what being married entails. She's running from the responsibility, as if she's single.

Fast

He shouldn't have married a kid.

We're missing THAT part 🤦🏽‍♀️

Yes this because that is an open door for her to cheat again

She can’t let mr good penis go, that night she was out till 7am she was going rounds after rounds with him. He ain’t going no where. Husband needs to throw out any ideas of divorce and only pray for his wife to change

My exact thoughts! She’s just making excuses

😂 Knowing damn well she would have been twerking it all over the floor on other guys if it was just her and her friends there... But would be outraged if she saw another woman dancing on her husband...lol

Shameful. To have a good man like that, she's foolish. One day she will wake up and realize what she had but it'll be to late.

She’s a BIRD

They met on the job so I’m pretty sure she was legal.

​@SRT_DRE I started working as a minor at 15 so...

In the first place!! SMH

@@SRT_DRELegal and maturity are two different things.

Not at all

Happy? Happiness is subjective. A marriage can have its highs and lows at any given point. You have to be committed to the union for the long haul, something a 24 year old may know nothing about. If she becomes a single mom raising two girls life is going to get real and, the partying with friends will most likely come to a screeching halt.

The age gap does matter.If she were closer to his age she would appreciate his stabilization he provided and put him first.

@@marlandkennedy7747she didn’t say it doesn’t matter she says it doesn’t help

And she left their kids with him for 3 mths. This is not just immaturity but selfish.

She has told women too run, star contradict when it comes to women its the reason I barely watch now

@@greatone275 it's entertainment at the end of the day.

I agree, why stay with a woman who cheats but run from a man who cheats.

Not what that was it was her seeing his desire to SAVE it ,Judge told them both papers were there READY if he wanted them today he didn't say yes .Sister ,girl and everyone seen he was hurting because it was new information but he wants his family still..giving a second chance because babies are involved. HE will return soon she will mess it up with same dude that only wants sex but without responsibility or daily dealings. Pray he does leave her but allow her to grow up solo and let her see tge real intentions of her lover and friends. LET HER RAISE THE CHILDREN AND CO PARENT AND PAY SUPPORT BUT IT WILL FORCE HER TO CORRECT THINGS WITH KIDS AND WORK TO SUPPORT HER SELF AND THEM

Hell naw she would be killing this man out right now

Exactly

I hate that line like you knew what u were coming for and didn’t get dragged there.

She was to young how long have they been married. She's wrong for CHEATING

she is only cheating because this is her h faze an she realized she don’t want what he wants now he’s crying because he thought he had a great deal a young girl knock her up make her a wife an she is now realizing he was trying to steal my youth to slow me down while time he wanted her for the wrong reason no she don’t like him he’s a predatory he got her way to young an assume she’s supposed to stay for loyalty she’s young that’s 9-10 age difference

I was looking for this comment to find out how far apart the ages are. As much as people don’t want to admit it, but it’s a fact, age is a huge factor in relationships. She started having children too soon and now she feels trapped

What judge starr say door mat!!!

YEP 💯

They have them here in Detroit too. The thing is, that’s not where she is 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

​​@@ljackson24yup! She doesn't wanna be married to that man. Just the finances.

@@quichequiche4274 EXACTLY! She ain’t slick. Smh I feel bad for the kids though. Mama moving out for months at a time & gone until the sun comes up? Crazy

and if you can make it in before both close, more power to ya!!!🤣🤣

And clubs lol

@@d820m lol 😂😂😂😂

@@Edward_Strong1982 😂😂😂😂😂

😂 ain't nothing wrong with legs being open after midnight that's how most of us got here and relationships get started... liquor helped fuel the situation... it's all clean fun stop listening to them old folks Grandma legs was open too.. have fun be responsible and live life.. lol

Well if she wanted just fun, why get married and then compound it by having kids who are going to grow up with issues because Mommie is out sowing her wild oats instead of home taking care of those babies. It's a sad sad and selfish generation. 9 years is not that much she is just a selfish little girl.

@@tinajackson6875was he not outside as well??? He has MULTIPLE children outside of her as well as knocked HER up multiple times. 9 years is a big big difference when you are talking teens and early twenties and mid thirties. He was outside at that age as well and now she is at that stage while he is now at the stage of wanting to settle down and be a homebody. They are in it now so they might as well fight for it and stick it out. You are not always going to like your partner when married. They both having some growing to do.

i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

Like what? 🤣🤣

​@@RacieRain Nice to see I was not the only one to laugh at that😂😂😂

Period

He stuck around because he loves her.

They been doing that. It’s time for change and a better method! Also they have kids together so they need to figure this out amicably.

And

And????? You think it’s cool to be a degenerate at 24 or are you expecting ppl to be one because they are 24?

@@laurasaw6933 And that's it ... !

Period! Mistake from the start…

@@SB-tc2jr and that means nothing. You act like there’s not 33 yo degenerates also

@LadyNStreet You can't be an adult and a child at the same time. Everybody who says he or she is " controlling" because they want to do want they want to do( and you not say anything). That's delusional and selfish. If you want to party every week, go on girls trips, etc., then don't get married/ have children. She only " loves" what he gives her financially, and a nice home. She'll regret it in another 8- 10 years.