Dating a man 16yrs your senior and having to provide him this level of financial support is crazy.

He was a user, manipulative, gaslighting and has nothing before her.

She shouldn’t have given that man a card. A BOYFRIEND? Ridiculous!

He's such a bum/dusty. He kept saying that he didn't need her for anything. Yet, he couldn't afford to buy anything on his own.

The look on judge face when she said she put his name on all her accounts and gave him a credit card😭

My husband always told me dudes that are gym rats are typically/most likely BROKE 😂😂😂 I ain’t gonna lie my husband be right about most things, I gotta start listening to him more often lol

I’m just trying to figure out how he was trying to make it make sense that he was buying her Valentines gift and taking her out with her money😂😂😂😂😂

How you take her out with her card, propose and then says she owes you for taking her out 😂 where is his job?!

She’s literally as equally as responsible for the situation she’s in! She gave him access to all her money WITHOUT BEING HER HUSBAND. It will be a lesson learned. His suit is too tight and he is an user

He’s a conman. Any man that is that willing to take money from you needs to go.Edit: This man is 46???

That's wild. He said I used your card on you so it's on you. Cold Blooded.

He bought that ring with her card! She bought her own engagement ring! SMH

Lack...of...accountability..and he's remorseless even when hes dead wrong..🚩🚩

Then had a nerve to get indignant and say "she doesn't have to be my wife". He got mad because Starr called him out...

He say he a hustler which mean no job and she's the hustle !!!

He’s annoying, argumentative, a user,broke, dusty, and just a headache. She was a fool for giving him a credit card in her name. She better LEAVE before he drains her in every shape and form!!

U gave him access to your money ma'am.. You have to take some accountability in this. If he didn't have access to it, he would've never spent it

I was about to say the same thing Judge Star... straight gigolo.

Gas and food and suits and earrings equals 11,000 dollars. That man was simply living off of her credit card.

judge star really be having the most iconic endings lol.

Ok what is wrong with her? why after any unauthorized transactions (especially after a big ticket item) would you allow him to keep using a credit card

I can hear Judge Toler fussing at the young lady for giving the man a credit card.

This lady is clearly financially independent...so why put up with this user😢😢😢my Goodness 😢😢

U crying 😢 and he said you're doing him a favor... lady walk away

He's saying he bought jewelry for her on her credit card. So essentially he didn't buy anything, she bought her own jewelry.

When he said "she's a great woman of course cause im with her" cemented my distaste for him n solidify her "stupid "

He’s probably taking care of somebody else on her dime!! That’s how trifling he is!!

That narcissistic spirit

The desperation in this beautiful, seemingly intelligent woman is alarming. She seems to be in a hurry to find that husband and family that she desires and she's trying to find it in an undeserving dusty. Man is talking about how many things he bought for her and he did it with her money 😂 Girl wake up and realize that you deserve better, remove him from all your accounts and end the relationship. If he refuses to pay you back, take him to court again.

Narcissism oozes out of his pores. No one should be with him.

He looks like the devil in disguise to me-a wolf in sheep's clothing!!! He's a user and a verbal abuser. She should NEVER have put his name on all her accounts and credit card. She deserves better. She needs to run and get her money back too. He takes no accountability at all for his actions. He acts like a boy instead of a man. He's 16 years older than her. He should have already been established financially by now. It's always easier to spend somebody else's money like he has spent hers. I bet a dollar to a doughnut she will never see a dime of that money. Young lady, pleass learn from your mistakes!!!

He’s an intentional spirit breaker, you better move on💯‼️

It's called "Breadwinner's Remorse"... When a woman grows tired of supporting an entire household, (she's taking care of everyone, nobody's taking care of her) Never do this with a boyfriend.

Of course he proposed, he was trying to wife that MONEY!

She wasted the judges time. I think she will stay

Grown men handle they business financially and don't depend on a woman to take care of them financially

Reminds me of kids who asks mommy for money to buy her a gift

She should have stuck to her original agreement, food and gas. It was HER CREDIT, HER LIMIT.She was allowing him to purchase for her on her own card. What a mess!!!!

lol the need for courtroom sage 😂

Judge Star, You are a trip. What else would have been clipped Sister?💖💚

she is a beautiful woman she deserves more than this let him go, yeah I guarantee it's going hurt for a minute ...my prescription to you is Ben & Jerry, chardonnay, and watch Steel Magnolias to help clear those tear ducts

Unfortunately, she’s trapped. If she stays anywhere near him, he’s going to talk his way right back into her pockets. He has her so twisted-she should be happy he’s spending her money..on her. Had he not gotten greedy, she would have accepted all of his charges. So sad that she’s fallen in love with a playa

He njoyed spending on that card he used her

He is angry because she rejected his proposal plus she brought him on national TV to humiliate him. He is angry. He already has an aggressive BK personality which makes it worse. But at the same time she is an enabler and has contributed to some of the issues they have. Especially, not tell the full story on some of the parts she played.

He's con, all his 46 years on earth has been funded by people that raised him and the women he dated. I'm also mad at her for opening up a credit line for a boyfriend? Not even a husband? And no way she was hesitant when asked if she wanted to stay with him, girl bye🙄

I can’t believe he is wholeheartedly echoing how he buys her things with HER money and credit!! As if that’s a good thing she should be grateful for!! And then says she’d be “doing him a favor” by her leaving as he stands there in a tailored suit with money he STOLE from her. My god. Please let there be MEN in these comments denigrating this behavior. With the SAME conviction they denigrate user women. That man CANNOT actually be that stupid and cold and think he’s justified. Can’t be!! Right? Come on someone ANYONE restore my faith. SOMEONE!!!!

Naw she's not innocent. She wanted to give him the card but complain. She could've canceled the card or never gave it to him. If he can't get a card then why do you want him. She started off wrong and ended up here.

Something not right with her either.

Why are You ARGUING with HIM? ? ? LET THAT FOOL GET GONE! 🤔

What the heck?? Why would you give a man your credit card who is going through a dry spell in finding a job? He’s financially insecure, you have credit through the y zoo, ok heck yeah he’s going to go to town using your credit card to buy you expensive gifts!!!! What is going on? I mean really!

I disagree this time. She started paying his bills, even when he started buying things other than food and gas, the original agreement, she still didn’t revoke the card, of course she bear some blame for the 11,000 .

And this something that people do when they think they are inlove but it never works...iconic ending Judge Star!

When she said she gave him a credit card for gas and food I knew that's when she MESSED UP. I think its weird to give a grown man a CC. He's not even married to her. Then he purchased all these suits after she said not to. He did use her and I hope she never does this again.

He thought he found a sugar mamá but HONEY she owned His ass on court, Sue for that money babe

Hi everyone ☺️

This is what personal trainers do....flirt having relationships with their clients.

He's TALKING CRAZY!

Uuuggghhh he is so annoying!! Childish and no accountability. She needs to run!

Why would anyone put a non-spouse on their credit card? This is on her! He clearly wasn't in a place to take care of the bill. Hence, gas and groceries! She was cool taking care of an able body man. She wasn't cool with him taking advantage of her.... but she made it so easy! She doesn't even look like she sweating that money either. He was blowing that back out!

Hope she is listening to everything he says and then replay the tape.. I don't need her, you gave me the card, what did you expect me to do, I hustle etc...

Giiirl Ruuun🏃🏽‍♀️💨💨💨

He was on his Brooklyn shit😂😂😂..she was trippin,sis knew he was a personal trainer that needed suits and a eazy pass

When he first started talking. I knew he was DISGUSTING.

He is soooo controlling and has no remorse about how he used her...she can't marry that dude....run girl run!

you doing me a favor is crazy lol. girl you're young enough to keep it pushing

Hello Judge Star, nice to see you again 💫She should not have given him access to having credit in her name.

robert said that's cold lmfaooo yo

When you volunteer to give something to a person you should expect a lot of times things might go sideways the moment you seen those charges going up. You should have took his name off the credit card so really she's at fault because she seen what was going on she could have stop it.

Its the "something else would have been clipped too" for me LOL!

This man is 46 and the woman is 30. He doesn't have $$to buy his own suits??? He's disrespectful. Let him take the ring back. Run baby girl

This man is SUPER ungrateful and selfish. Girl RUN!!!

I love when they think they can ARGUE WITH THE JUDGE in THEIR COURT and THINK THEY'RE GONNA WIN...

She's paying for everything, but HE'S got the attitude????????

Rule number one personal trainers are a no no! This women was so naive why would you allow him to keep using the card like Judge star advised. He’s a user and it’s clear.

He brought that married ring with her money not his money

Nah like seriously what is wrong with this man. I wouldn’t have had the patience judge star had.

That woman is that Man's Mother!!!

I’m so concerned she gave him access to her bank account and cards. That is a big mistake!!!

He just proved that we have a lot of goofy minded women out there who fall for stupidity!

He said I always take her out even if it’s on her card

He sorry & I know she saw that before giving him a credit card smh. I hope she learned a valuable lesson. No one can buy love. He's arrogant & disrespectful. He's showing he's irresponsible as it comes. Girl take that hurt & run the hell on.

Put him on all of your bank accounts?!?! Girl….🤧

WTH was she thinking giving him a credit card for gas n food .😂😂😂😂 Sorry girl ...air slap...1,2,3,over😂😂

Lol I took you out with your own money 😂😂

THESE WOMEN NEED TO STOP GIVING THESE "BOYFRIENDS" THEIR COINS AND THEIR COOKIES! THAT IS HUSBAND AND WIFE BEHAVIOR!

She is a 30-year-old woman NOT a 30 year old girl, not excusing what he did but stop taking accountability off these women as if they are children that can't think for themselves...💯

She can buy 2000 jewelry but won't buy suits She brought this man, now she mad about some money

How this dude say “I bought you” but it was her money?? Bro I could never take money from my girl.

He’s a user and a bomb that is a wanna be. Tailored suits really!!

Broke and using her money to buy suits. Trying to look the part with no job and no security 😂😂

Women NEED to Leave these BROKE Guy's Alone! 😁🙄🤔

Did anybody hear the insult that she is a good woman because she is with him. So she's nothing without him. 🤣 Also, where's the love in his voice for her. He talks like he doesn't love but just tolerates her. She had to think about marriage. I wouldn't give him a second. Later bro...

He thought he was a Ghost from the show Power

He is a narcissist. He has no money at 46yrs old?! What is with that?

She said a nice smile and abs and had all that going for himself Lmaoo that’s crazy. 🤦‍♀️

If you want marriage you don't hope for it. You talk to your potential mate to see if that's their goal as well. You hoped he was all the things and from jump, HE WAS NOT. This is your fault, hope you learned your lesson.

Food for the body is not enough. There must be food for the soul.

😂😂😂😂😂 1 minute in and she played herself

I always heard, "You like it, I love it!"

Her first mistake was dating her personal trainer, she saw his muscle and it was a done deal. 🤣