Brittany's choice: 29-year-old reignites debate about aid in dying

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Recently married, Brittany Maynard had hopes of starting a family with her husband. Now she is planning her death, choosing to end her life before brain cancer can destroy her. Jan Crawford reports.

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@liberalprogress6654
@liberalprogress6654 9 жыл бұрын
she decided, and we have to respect her decision. R.I.P.
@taylorholmstrom248
@taylorholmstrom248 6 жыл бұрын
To all the people saying God decides when we die, here's a challenge for you. The next time you get sick, don't go to a doctor, don't take any medication, and don't seek any kind of treatment. After all, what if God's plan is for the sickness to end you? What if you go against that plan by seeking a cure?
@bms77
@bms77 5 жыл бұрын
Taylor Holmstrom ugh there’s no reason to even believe anything the Bible says about what happens after death
@cynthia87918
@cynthia87918 5 жыл бұрын
Taylor Holmstrom: 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@MsAggie78
@MsAggie78 3 жыл бұрын
DUDE!! .....You called it.
@natalieh8023
@natalieh8023 3 жыл бұрын
What if you’re going against his plan by not having the faith that he’ll guide you to the right people to help? So many what ifs. If you don’t believe in God then you don’t have to worry about his plan until you die I guess.
@rosegold6209
@rosegold6209 3 жыл бұрын
But the truth us that God does decide...suicide is a SIN. period Don't try to alter or change God's word, it is what it is. However we cannot judge ppl who commit it!
@lemontree4546
@lemontree4546 8 жыл бұрын
Everybody should have that choice
@angelabird4794
@angelabird4794 6 жыл бұрын
It should be made legal in every country north east west and south to choose to do this, not everyone will choose this way but from what I've seen of the one in Belgium there isn't always room for more than very close family and then there would be airfares and accommodation. Let them us everyone do it at home xx
@curtisbemis6640
@curtisbemis6640 5 жыл бұрын
as a terminally ill person i 100% agree that we should be allowed to chose when we die !!!
@meganloxx4116
@meganloxx4116 5 жыл бұрын
We would never allow our pets to suffer like this, why should humans have to suffer when terminally ill?
@kimberlybeltran8859
@kimberlybeltran8859 7 жыл бұрын
She's such a beautiful person. I completely understand why she did what she did.
@lisaruiz5410
@lisaruiz5410 9 жыл бұрын
my husband just recently lost his life to this brain cancer. No one can ever know what she and her family are going through or what my family went through. What one goes through with this type of cancer. the suffering they are dealt is beyond words it is not a normal way of death it is a horrible death. she looks great right now, but trust me it will all change in time. it is okay for her to enjoy her life right now. once she is in her last days it is not easy. She is brave in my heart. and until you have walked in the shoes of someone with Glioblastoma you are no one to judge. My husband fought for 2 1/2 years but suffered all along the way and in the end God did call him home.
@vaccumsealed
@vaccumsealed 9 жыл бұрын
So terribly sorry Lisa. This is such a horrible disease that takes so many lives and so many from others. I swear theres a cure for it, but its all about money in the treatment in this selfish world we live in. I hope your husbands with GOD and waiting for u to reunite with him some day. Again, so sorry.
@lisaruiz5410
@lisaruiz5410 9 жыл бұрын
My husband is with the Lord. He accepted him wholely in his heart before this horrible disease. He is no longer suffering. Thank you Dee.
@suzyloo21
@suzyloo21 7 жыл бұрын
Lisa Ruiz, it is horrible and I am so sorry you went through this. They don't deserve to suffer.
@Crackley123
@Crackley123 4 жыл бұрын
Lisa Ruiz Heart wrenching, so sorry for your suffering. God bless your family.
@chizobauchay2024
@chizobauchay2024 3 жыл бұрын
Your right dear,let's all leave the judging for God because we are not the patients or the victims. People who judge people who are in this situation,think the way they do because of the info they have been fed, have they ever paused to think that what they think they know may not be like that and if they are going by what they believe to be wrong in God's eyes,God also said, do not have sex outside of marriage,l don't see them keeping that law either.
@Giuliaylc
@Giuliaylc 9 жыл бұрын
This is tragic. And I do not understand how people keep judging her in the name of God. I'm 17 years old, I'm a Christian and the first thing I've learnt at church was: do not judge people. You don't know a bit of what this woman in going through, it's too easy for you to criticize her decision. God bless.
@ariaalexandria3324
@ariaalexandria3324 5 жыл бұрын
Please always keep your open-mindedness, especially in 2018 when so many minds are closing.
@bms77
@bms77 5 жыл бұрын
Giulia besides the fact all these religious people are getting their beliefs from other people why should anyone believe what they believe? It makes no sense. I know you say yer a Christian but honestly so was i for over 30 years. It’s literally a religion that was created by people, why believe any of it as actual truth? No demonstrable evidence for any of the supernatural claims
@whenrainbowsend
@whenrainbowsend 5 жыл бұрын
@@bms77 I think people believe in God because it's comforting to think that there is someone who is greater than all the suffering in this world. Someone who is in control and who is always on your side regardless of how many times you mess up. Someone who will always love you when you have no-one else. I'm eighteen and I've been a Christian all my life. I don't necessarily agree with many of the things the church does, or with some of the beliefs that they spread in society, but I don't judge my God based on what his followers do or preach. He's bigger than all of us, more merciful, more accepting, more forgiving and most importantly, more loving. I know there is no physical proof of His existence but trusting that He is there is the only reason that I manage to get out of bed in the morning. I'm not saying everyone has to believe in God. Following any religion, or not following one, is a choice that every one should be able to make for themselves. The only thing that really matters is that all human beings learn to love and respect one another, because if they did most of the problems in this world wouldn't exist.
@irisheyesofbelfast
@irisheyesofbelfast 5 жыл бұрын
@@whenrainbowsend very smart young lady. Blessings ❤
@baggergurl16
@baggergurl16 3 жыл бұрын
I know right!! It’s like how do these people even know whether this woman sought different treatments or talked to different doctors and doing all that she could to get herself better before finally reaching this decision.
@Wellpinit
@Wellpinit 9 жыл бұрын
We do that to our beloved pets by putting them to sleep instead of watching them suffer. Why can't we extend that kindness to to our fellow human beings especially when it has to be patient that makes such a decision.
@godsword4585
@godsword4585 9 жыл бұрын
the animals dont have a choice we decide for them
@casp6426
@casp6426 4 жыл бұрын
@@godsword4585 but then can not decide for ourselves?
@nefelibata4190
@nefelibata4190 8 жыл бұрын
watching the way the "medicine" changed her .... this kills me inside.
@winstonjen5360
@winstonjen5360 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for showing us how little compassion you have. No one should be forced to suffer.
@youfoundwaldo77
@youfoundwaldo77 7 жыл бұрын
Cancer is horrible, it is so sad this beautiful woman has to suffer
@RiverOfBlacklights
@RiverOfBlacklights 5 жыл бұрын
It's so sad *_ANYONE_* has so suffer the effects of this terrible disease...
@XDeCoDeX13
@XDeCoDeX13 8 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful.
@nefelibata4190
@nefelibata4190 8 жыл бұрын
+C.J. she is.
@thetravelinghermit
@thetravelinghermit 7 жыл бұрын
tardcakez was
@Bob-fz7pd
@Bob-fz7pd 6 жыл бұрын
Did you notice they mentioned her medication ruined her looks? They didnt use those pics did they? The loss of a pretty girl gets more gets more sympathy and clicks i bet.
@purpleflametarot39
@purpleflametarot39 4 жыл бұрын
@@Bob-fz7pd - I'm pretty sure she was talking about the swelling from the steroids. Are you so cynical about everything?? She is a beautiful soul.
@Bob-fz7pd
@Bob-fz7pd 4 жыл бұрын
@@purpleflametarot39 yeah im cynical. This tragic story wouldnt provoke the intrest it does if this girl were ugly. Im cynical because more people care when a pretty girl dies prematurely. Thats sick.
@abrandy36
@abrandy36 7 жыл бұрын
I just don't get how some people can call this suicide when the patients are dying already. If your going to die a painful death , it should be your right to take your life in a non painful way and it should not be called suicide but relief dying! I sat with my mom and watched her die of cancer and for the most part i had to go and tell the nurse to give her more pain meds. A lot of the time the nurse would say she just had some and is not due for more for another hr but yet she was on hospice. I got upset with the nurses and they gave it to her . It shouldn't have been that way. So ya if your dying a painful death it should be your right on how and when to go. We put animals down when they are dying and in pain and no one blinks an eye but if a human is suffering like an animal and want to be put down on their terms everyone calls it suicide and says its a disgrace . SAD
@kkaayyllaaf
@kkaayyllaaf 2 жыл бұрын
Suicide is ending your own life. Regardless of the circumstances the definition stays the same because the act stays the same
@davedorger6107
@davedorger6107 9 жыл бұрын
I am a Christian and was always against euthenasia and assisted suicide. Then I spent a year and a half at my sweetheart's side while she slowly deteriorated and ultimately died at age 46 as the doctors called the insurance companies to see what treatment she would be allowed to get and what she wouldn't. What Mrs. Maynard did was as brave as it was selfless. She did not want to suffer in vain, nor did she want her loved ones to see her suffer to ultimately die anyways. Her loved ones are going through a terrible time but will no doubt find closure closer around the bend then they otherwise would have. I am unsure of the biblical doctrines on this matter because the bible never addresses the subject of diagnosed terminal illness. Perhaps that is Gods way of telling us to make that decision for ourselves. Perhaps he is more merciful than those of us who follow him. RIP Brittany Maynard.
@Destynee313
@Destynee313 9 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss.. and well said. :)
@cbmathews0440
@cbmathews0440 9 жыл бұрын
leighamc I usually like to respond to things in a calm and reasonable way, but you religious idiots are too infuriating, sometimes i forget how actually retarded your beliefs are, and than I see them plastered all over a video like this and it reminds me that if there is a god, all of you judgmental, holier than tho, homophobic pieces of shit will be the first to burn. Get something through your heads THE BIBLE IS NOT THE WORD OF GOD!!!
@windwoman3549
@windwoman3549 9 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in any god, nor do I give a crap about what an often-altered, unverified, completely in contention with itself, moldery piece of fiction says.
@CMRinehart
@CMRinehart 9 жыл бұрын
S. Hubbell Good luck with that theory sweetheart. You are one pissed off person.
@windwoman3549
@windwoman3549 9 жыл бұрын
Um . . . I'm just fine with my 50 years of non-belief in any supernatural power, Charles Rinehart. This is the second time you've addressed me personally. May I ask why you feel compelled to do so? And one more thing: I'm NOT your "sweetheart." Take your classic female-belittling condescension elsewhere.
@Covencraft
@Covencraft 9 жыл бұрын
Doctor: "Well we don't want her to go just yet, there's too much money to be made from her cancer meds."
@keyannalee2432
@keyannalee2432 5 жыл бұрын
Covencraft lmao
@sydneyprescott3374
@sydneyprescott3374 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! That's why this "death with dignity "medication isn't legal in all states as it should be.
@chizobauchay2024
@chizobauchay2024 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@phebejohnson4850
@phebejohnson4850 2 жыл бұрын
When they know every living thing dies, then cancer comes, they want to keep them and see them suffer, better to die when everything is intact, then when some parts are missing.
@christinep.
@christinep. 4 ай бұрын
Most Dr. respect your wishes...assuming you are aware of all of the options. If you choose to die they can provide meds to try to ease some of the suffering at the very end. It's the more religious members of society that forbid anything that doesn't require suffering for as long as possible.
@stevielynn5197
@stevielynn5197 4 жыл бұрын
My mom died with this type of cancer. The pain, suffering and loss of dignity is the most cruel thing to force a human to do. If we are allowed to put an animal we love down with dignity why not a decision for our self !
@carollynt
@carollynt Ай бұрын
Loss of dignity? Says who?
@trinadee8029
@trinadee8029 7 жыл бұрын
Some of these doctors who don't agree with this are only looking out for their bank accounts. They don't care how much pain you're in, how bad you suffer. As long as they are getting paid off your illness they want to keep you alive. When you have been given a diagnosis of some terminal illness, it should be your own decision and no one else's choice. Nobody will be able to bear the pain for you. The government needs to stay out of people's personal choices. They have no right to dictate to someone how long they should suffer. Trust me, it's all about money with most of the doctors and big pharmaceutical companies.
@bm928
@bm928 7 жыл бұрын
Trina Dee you are so right and they destroyed my life with their greed I haveno quality of life left bcuz they took my thyroid in in extreme pain everyday I'm slowly dieing I look horrible I was beautiful before they did this to me they want me to keep running to them they are picking me apart for money and there's nothing I can do about it but suffer. GOD HELP ME!!!!!!!
@trinadee8029
@trinadee8029 7 жыл бұрын
Belinda Mcmann sorry to hear about your suffering. I hope GOD ALMIGHTY will grant your request for a healing and stop the pain. GOD is able and there is nothing too hard for GOD. Be blessed and get well sooner than soon.
@christyr5080
@christyr5080 7 жыл бұрын
+Belinda Mcmann I read an article where things like MDMA and LSD are given to end stage cancer patients to help their pain. I know it's illegal here but f@#k em.
@ariaalexandria3324
@ariaalexandria3324 5 жыл бұрын
"First do no harm" should never include "first, make the patient suffer until death."
@mainecoon6514
@mainecoon6514 5 жыл бұрын
Christy R, I hear that England gives dying cancer patients heroin. That is not legal here in the USA. We are supposedly a great country, but in many ways, it SUCKS!!!
@charmagneq
@charmagneq 5 жыл бұрын
You Beautiful, brave, amazing miracle. Live on Brittany, your legacy is moving forward and is getting stronger by the minute. RIP Angel 💚
@iloveanimals3034
@iloveanimals3034 9 жыл бұрын
Brittany Maynard is a person that I very much admire. To just think that you have that amount of courage and optimism is so amzazing to me. I am so sorry this happened to her and I will always remember her. Thank you , Brittany. I am sorry the worst things happen to the best people.
@dominamortis8045
@dominamortis8045 7 жыл бұрын
How can the government tell us we can't die? It's our body, our life and some people who are in so much physical, emotional pain have to go through so much to get the ok for a choice that should be theirs. While I wish everyone would try other things before suicide. Every suicide is sad. But sometimes people really are at the end of their rope.
@suzyloo21
@suzyloo21 7 жыл бұрын
I have no family and I want that right. I don't want to sit in a nursing home helpless being slapped. I had horrible daughters but that would be what theyd do to me too. I have that right. So far in 2 years, I've been raped, had to call 911 and no one came to the hospital accept one that used me all up. I had no visitors. I accepted that. I want to go.. That's not life being tortured by mistreatment or disease.
@annaconigliaro2907
@annaconigliaro2907 6 жыл бұрын
Azmol Hossain you do realize that suicide is legal whether or not you have a doctor's help.
@Angelbabylove1218
@Angelbabylove1218 6 жыл бұрын
If it’s a logical choice like this it’s fine. I have faith that God would understand.
@keyannalee2432
@keyannalee2432 5 жыл бұрын
Domina Dawson amen
@billieglidewell9018
@billieglidewell9018 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@A-Oreal
@A-Oreal 9 жыл бұрын
It is very brave for her to chose death over suffering! Very Brave! I hope to be able to be that brave if ever....
@SaneMillennial
@SaneMillennial 9 жыл бұрын
The problem is she can probably cure herself by going fully raw vegan and possibly trying things like cannabis oil. There are natural ways to get out of the way of your body so it can heal itself. She's giving up way too soon w/o enough research.
@A-Oreal
@A-Oreal 9 жыл бұрын
Heather Riede Interesting! I hope they will consider natural cure to see if it works.
@Orangeotterpop
@Orangeotterpop 9 жыл бұрын
Heather Riede Actually she cant. I am glad you are so qualified to make that assessment and glad you think you have done more research than her doctors (Main and 2 other doctors required by law in Oregon to get the medication in lethal dosages), I understand there are youtube videos and google but I am pretty sure that does not qualify you as a Neurosurgeon, Neuropharmacologist and a Neuro-Oncologist. Even the entire American Cancer Society says there is no evidence. But hey! You saw some hippies on youtube say it cures it right? Also you are unaware of the different types of cancers, what they do and how locations in the body can be treated in one way and not others. Look at her scan, do you see that? Do you understand parts of the brain? That whole section of her brain isnt brain tissue, its a gigantic lump of cancer thats already moved into critical parts. I find it amusing you do not even understand "Raw Vegan" how long do you think it takes for the body to see full on benefits? You think after a couple weeks of eating raw veggies and almonds the cancer would magically go away? She is terminal there is no going back, learn the brain, the type of cancer, look at her mri
@TheGoogilly
@TheGoogilly 9 жыл бұрын
Orangeotterpop Can't take cannabis oil? And you are qualified how to say this? Can't? Won't.
@Orangeotterpop
@Orangeotterpop 9 жыл бұрын
Gillian Hart She cant be cured. I am also qualified being an RN / ONC. So yes considering I work in oncology I would say I am more qualified than you.
@rluc3634
@rluc3634 4 жыл бұрын
The doctor has no idea what he’s talking about I watched my sister die from brain cancer there is no living life while gasping for air laying there with headaches totally incapable of moving not knowing anything except that you need your diaper changed this is the more humane way nobody should interfere in that dignity and humane process
@1JUSTPASSINGTHROUGH
@1JUSTPASSINGTHROUGH 2 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you has to go through that!
@1JUSTPASSINGTHROUGH
@1JUSTPASSINGTHROUGH 2 ай бұрын
He needs to sit down and shut up. This is not HIM that has gone through this!
@pamDLA
@pamDLA 9 жыл бұрын
Until you've actually lived through this with a loved one, or are currently experiencing a terminal illness, you really have no voice as to what is right or wrong. Cancer minimizes your choices. How you let it affect your final days should be up to you. Bravo, Brittany, for taking control of your situation.
@tashaulrey5582
@tashaulrey5582 Жыл бұрын
Agree 💯 I seen my dad suffer
@Bombo505
@Bombo505 5 ай бұрын
My grandma had cancer. Battled it for 10 years and went out peacefully in her sleep. She said people who end their lives are ignorant and donot know God. She said she would rather suffer in agonizing pain for years than suffer for all eternity. To each their own. My grandma was a strong woman. She was patient.
@uniquenews2056
@uniquenews2056 9 жыл бұрын
Stage 4 Giloblastoma is the most deadly form of Brain Tumor. It is fatal ! My friends husband had Stage 4 Giloblastoma and he suffered so much. His Quality of life was very bad. All the treatments he received made him so sick and he ended up in a wheelchair. He suffered right up till the end. Poor guy. His wife and family had to watch him suffer for 8 months. I Respect Brittany Maynard's right to die with dignity without suffering and having her family watch her suffer. She will die anyway why not have her die peacefully and with dignity. May god bless you Brittany Maynard and lift you up to heaven. Don't listen to all the haters it's your right.
@goruby2
@goruby2 9 жыл бұрын
For God to bless you and lift you up to heaven, you have to seek his forgiveness. That is her most important decision right now.
@aaronsigcha1424
@aaronsigcha1424 9 жыл бұрын
***** I agree with you. That is the most important decision she should make now. Because if she decides to take her life, without know God, then she will not be saved. It's sad, but true.
@lisaruiz5410
@lisaruiz5410 9 жыл бұрын
my husband lost his life to Glioblastoma and i will say this type of death is horrible. we werent aware what type of suffering he was going to go through we had to find out the hard way.
@kenirainseeker539
@kenirainseeker539 9 жыл бұрын
Aaron Sigcha It's easy to tell other people what to do when you've never had to deal with what they're dealing with. Shut up already.
@aaronsigcha1424
@aaronsigcha1424 9 жыл бұрын
Kendall Raine Neither do you so what's your point?
@MultiTesseract
@MultiTesseract 9 жыл бұрын
All these people yelling about God, and sitting in their comfy chairs at home opining that this women should have chosen suffering for six months, let me tell ya' something. You weren't there when she was born. You weren't there to comfort her when she cried. You weren't there to pay any of her bills or ease any of her burdens either now or at any other time of her life. In fact, you are, like me, complete strangers, who won't be there now that she is dead, either. What grotesque arrogance, then to traipse into this woman's life in her final moments and demand suddenly that she go through months of pain and worse to honor your own apparently quite narrow little beliefs. Unfortunately, for you, this woman lives in a free country, and she and her family and REAL friends, the only people that matter, made their decision and honored her wishes. May other people with REAL compassion express their sadness and condolences to the family for their loss. And everybody else? YOU. DON"T. MATTER!!! (Thank goodness)
@valsedonia
@valsedonia 9 жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@windwoman3549
@windwoman3549 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Finally, an articulate and compassionate response to the stomach-churning arrogance & idiocy I see all over these message boards.
@kelly4250
@kelly4250 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad to see there are still people with reason and compassion on these boards...the reactions are sickening and, I agree, very arrogant.
@sailorsgal08
@sailorsgal08 9 жыл бұрын
Damn right!
@april4136
@april4136 9 жыл бұрын
Chelsie Trangmoe
@brendaross7955
@brendaross7955 2 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace
@bobbybrown1250
@bobbybrown1250 9 жыл бұрын
I can't believe the disgusting and disrespectful comments people are leaving. Most of you aren't human I think…
@joaosoares2376
@joaosoares2376 9 жыл бұрын
God judges, i don't. To take such decision, must have been hell to the poor girl, only she and God know what she is going trough.
@bobbybrown1250
@bobbybrown1250 9 жыл бұрын
Joao Soares EXACTLY!
@johnmalko1808
@johnmalko1808 9 жыл бұрын
Jerusha Palihena Modern day American Christians: " Hi we believe that only God can judge others, but we still believe that since we are his children we can judge creation too since we are that special, now if all of you will excuse us...we need to go back to having sex before marriage, molesting children, tolerating our daughters to wear provocative clothing because we care more about their happiness than we do about this little thing called "modesty" or whatever it's called in the bible, oh and one more thing we're going to support our troops overseas because even though Jesus specifically commanded us to not fight others with our hands, we will still fight anyway because sending thousands of 17-25 year olds half way around the world to drop bombs on entire villages and cities is definitely justified in Jesus's name as long as we believe that it is justified in his name, and last but not least if any of you disagree with us then you are definitely going to hell"
@bobbybrown1250
@bobbybrown1250 9 жыл бұрын
John Malko pretty much accurate. That is the case now a days sadley.
@youtubeuser9496
@youtubeuser9496 5 жыл бұрын
+John Malko I hate how judging they are. If they can do that shzt and still qualify themselves as one. They are lying to themselves
@colehersom3598
@colehersom3598 9 жыл бұрын
Dear comments section, Enough with all the comments talking about how she took the coward way out and how this is not what 'God' wants and she is going to Hell. You need to stop judging the people who have to suffer though these terminal illnesses while you just sit there wit your comfortable life, not having the dame situation and therefore mindset as her. Thank You
@k0smon
@k0smon 8 жыл бұрын
+Cole Hersom She will be welcomed on the other side no matter what caused her death.
@rebeccaabel4589
@rebeccaabel4589 7 жыл бұрын
Cole Hersom I totally agree I am Christian this is personal matter. People have the right to make thier own decisions. Stop bringing God into this.
@billieglidewell9018
@billieglidewell9018 4 жыл бұрын
It is my life - let me choose! Not a doctor!
@sydneyprescott3374
@sydneyprescott3374 4 жыл бұрын
Brittany: it's mainly sadness now Report: sadness, of...???? Me: SERIOUSLY REPORTER!
@Rella412
@Rella412 9 жыл бұрын
As a person that watched my grandfather die from liver failure and stagger 4 cancer I completely understand where she is coming from. It's devastating watching him transform into someone he never wanted to be. He was an amazing man and to his last days he still demanded a smoke and a beer. What she is doing for her family in the long run is a honorable thing. For her family to have only known her as she really was is not bad.
@oceanpier
@oceanpier 9 жыл бұрын
I find it very cold and callous that people choose to stand by their beliefs and criticize Brirtany, over having compassion for the incredibly difficult situation she finds herself in. I have nothing but compassion for her and the utmost respect. And, I am sending her strength in a time that is incomprehensible to me as I am not in her shoes. My biggest wish for her is to diminish the fear she must feel.
@mainecoon6514
@mainecoon6514 5 жыл бұрын
Brittany said that she isn't killing herself, cancer is. I don't remember her exact words, but she said something to that effect. I felt the utmost compassion for Brittany when she talked about wanting to start a family with her husband. She wanted to live, but not with excruciating pain from cancer. She was one courageous woman.
@bms77
@bms77 5 жыл бұрын
Victoria Katherine they’re standing by beliefs that other PEOPLE have told them were true is what gets me.. stubborn is all
@jacquelinegraham4036
@jacquelinegraham4036 5 жыл бұрын
I would.never criticize her..but hope and belief and fighting...for life...she deserves to live...and there r people who never died after cancer
@irisheyesofbelfast
@irisheyesofbelfast 5 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelinegraham4036 Glioblastoma Multiforme is a death sentence.....always. In my 28 years as a neurosurgery RN, I have NEVER had a patient survive GBM and it is an excruciating death. I also believe our Father is a loving, understanding Father and would NOT punish one of his children for ending their suffering.
@MrUltraworld
@MrUltraworld 9 жыл бұрын
My Sister died two years ago from a brain tumor. She was not in any pain, nor was she having seizures. She passed away naturally with her family beside her. If this woman is suffering, has no chance of recovery, she should do what she feels is best.
@meganescobar4641
@meganescobar4641 11 ай бұрын
I appreciate this woman’s bringing awareness to this issue. I have been through cancer. I don’t look forward to it again. I would like to have to option to be able to make my choices, if need be.
@judedeprey6831
@judedeprey6831 4 жыл бұрын
We lost our son when he was 29...The parents, God bless you, you will be in our prayers. The pain never goes away, it does ease with the passing years, but it never goes away. You guys are so awesome!
@jimmyhenry1502
@jimmyhenry1502 9 жыл бұрын
i hate cancer, i might have make the same decision if i have the similar condition. i will not let those stupid cell to give me pain and stress, period,
@johndisette8308
@johndisette8308 6 жыл бұрын
I would absolutely do the same thing, I wouldn't want my loved ones watch me turn to a horrible skeleton where I'm not recognizable, I want to go out looking like myself with no lingering suffering for myself and family.....
@gabbymerritt7937
@gabbymerritt7937 4 жыл бұрын
I just don’t know why this is such a fight and debate for people. They’re suffering and they’re going to die anyway. Why try and keep them from an easy, fast, painless death when the death they’re up against is a long, drawn out, painful, tiring process? They’re already going through so much. They’ve lost control over everything in their life. If they AT LEAST want to be in control over their death, let them. They deserve that much. I feel so sorry for people who can’t have this.
@elijahgibran7569
@elijahgibran7569 4 жыл бұрын
Gabby Merritt because some people are aimless, blind idiots.
@machineislove4973
@machineislove4973 6 жыл бұрын
Because of this beautiful woman and many others our dear friend chose to end her suffering on her own terms in California and at home with her husband and son. RIP Elaine. ❤️
@tyronewills7935
@tyronewills7935 2 жыл бұрын
Oregon
@rmilkyswife
@rmilkyswife 9 жыл бұрын
Britney, you are so beautiful. God Bless you your husband will love you forever. Pretty big shoes to fill. You are stronger than me.
@chizobauchay2024
@chizobauchay2024 3 жыл бұрын
Stephanie l understand
@SuperDisneygurl
@SuperDisneygurl 9 жыл бұрын
After losing my mother two years ago to a sudden stroke, I honestly would have preferred being able to properly say goodbye. Finding her with a complete loss of brain function and no chance of ever living again was horrific. From experience, it is a choice everyone should have when faced with terminal illness. I am respectful towards others in regards to acknowledging everyone is entitled to an opinion. I cannot respect someone who inappropriately comments about her choice and even more so to those who are quick to say she is committing a sin. Passing judgment is just as much of a sin as anything else. She is a truly brave, beautiful, and inspirational soul. May her beauty continue to inspire and her family be at peace knowing she is not suffering.
@stephanielynnmarcum8933
@stephanielynnmarcum8933 9 жыл бұрын
Prayers to you and your family !! I have had a lot of loss in my family. Both of my Uncle's past away because of cancer and we seen the pain and suffering. What you are doing is very brave and best for you and your family .. Do not allow haters vile words hurt you none they are cowards and never walked a mile in your shoes to even understand. I know if I ever have to face what my family or what your going threw I will be very proud to do what your doing ... God Bless !!!
@KaraBug1
@KaraBug1 7 жыл бұрын
Very brave to look death in the eye! Thank you for sharing this with us!
@Johanna040713
@Johanna040713 9 жыл бұрын
If she's still alive... I pray for her. I pray for her family members as well.
@dredoc1
@dredoc1 9 жыл бұрын
Just wait and see all the disgusting religiously-driven comments. These bullies are embarrassing, ridiculous and immoral, like their dogma.
@marciaeovino3584
@marciaeovino3584 4 жыл бұрын
My dear Mom died from this. She suffered terribly! She had a stroke that left her paralyzed on one side and she couldn’t speak. Even before the stroke her speech was garbled. She got huge painful bedsores. She suffered horribly! Too bad that option wasn’t available then.
@meghanmorningstar4394
@meghanmorningstar4394 7 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart, what a beautiful young lady inside and out
@arianaxrose1
@arianaxrose1 9 жыл бұрын
Those of you judging her, saying she's selfish... you don't even know how she feels, how her family feels, what they struggle with every minute of every day! It takes an extremely courageous person to make the choice that she's making... and I'm sure she does care about others, if you'd take the time to watch her videos she specifically states that she is scared of what her mom (brittany being her only child) and her husband would do without her. And that she hopes they can move on, she wants her husband to move on and make a family later in life. So selfish? No, not even in the slightest!
@bms77
@bms77 5 жыл бұрын
Just don’t mind the confused brainwashed religious morons
@Anonymous-ix1dz
@Anonymous-ix1dz 9 жыл бұрын
When I see all the mean comments about HER decision, I just wanna ask : Why, why are so many people evil nowadays?
@susanwilson3514
@susanwilson3514 3 жыл бұрын
So glad this bill is passed in New Zealand 🇳🇿
@jacquesmitcalitz915
@jacquesmitcalitz915 5 жыл бұрын
I only saw this now.. and want to say thank you for being strong for yourself and and everybody else that needed to understand. R.I.P
@sarahlings
@sarahlings 9 жыл бұрын
The right to Dignity
@cbmathews0440
@cbmathews0440 9 жыл бұрын
"God will understand, and if he does not, than he is not god, and we need not worry"
@misswilliam6857
@misswilliam6857 5 жыл бұрын
This is just too scary...
@nspain33
@nspain33 9 жыл бұрын
Were you never told as a child that if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all. So much hostility, so much anger, so much to-do about something you don't believe in to start with! "Me thinks you even know not your own heart. Tis what unknown crime is this?" The thoughts spoken of one more than 500 years ago. How far have we actually come?
@nancybeveridgetaylor3256
@nancybeveridgetaylor3256 4 жыл бұрын
As a retired nurse who has worked in both CCU and hospice, I have total support for people with life limiting illness to make choices for their own care within reasonable circumstances able to be treated responsibly. Meaning, those who might be pressured into suicide by relatives for inheritance, etc.
@Mich-tr4bt
@Mich-tr4bt 5 жыл бұрын
Just an amazing story and so eye opening. We tend to focus on so many things in our life that have very little meaning overall and fail to focus on the fact that this will all end someday. I had forgotten about this story but it was in my KZfaq feed today and I watched it again with tears streaming down my face. I believe that Brittany Maynard's life was meant to change others lives and I hope she is somewhere in heaven souring in spirit and without the horrible tortures she felt on this earth.
@nandobaby87
@nandobaby87 9 жыл бұрын
This was HER life and HER choice period. How can anyone dare pass judgment on a woman who was facing death. Instead of being harshly criticized and judged, her legacy is that of a brave woman, who was able to face the reality of her cancer. She was a strong, brave, intelligent woman. Someone said selfish??? You can't be serious, right?
@patriciawashington8780
@patriciawashington8780 2 жыл бұрын
she is so brave. God bless your soul
@Broxerlol
@Broxerlol 9 жыл бұрын
How to lose faith in humanity: Read youtube comments.
@sashastokes4651
@sashastokes4651 8 жыл бұрын
bless her heart..... may fleets of angels carry her home
@jesusisgod4ever65
@jesusisgod4ever65 8 жыл бұрын
+Sasha Stokes youtube: A DYING MANS LAST WORDS, A MESSAGE FROM GOD
@ServantOfChrist05
@ServantOfChrist05 4 жыл бұрын
But she ended her life and thats a sin
@veenessa2540
@veenessa2540 4 жыл бұрын
She committed suicide...I don't think they carried her to heaven...she probably regretting now...
@simonsmoggyborolad7881
@simonsmoggyborolad7881 4 жыл бұрын
@@ServantOfChrist05 its only a sin because a man made book says so. Its not a sin to take your life if you cant take the pain no more. Ffs wake up im a Christian and don't and will not believe in a man made book written for man to suit man to try and keep you sheep in line. I donr stay in line im not a man made machine like you fake bible bashing so called Christians.
@simonsmoggyborolad7881
@simonsmoggyborolad7881 4 жыл бұрын
@@veenessa2540 again another person who knows naff all.
@melflo4651
@melflo4651 7 жыл бұрын
This is a heart wrenching story!!!
@diazfan5986
@diazfan5986 7 жыл бұрын
POOR BABY!!! THIS IS HORRIBLE, I DONT KNOW YOU AND I AM SITTING HERE CRYING MY EYES OUT, with all the messed up crap I've done I would trade places with you in a heart beat
@jameysummers1577
@jameysummers1577 6 жыл бұрын
It is YOUR life, no one elses. Nobody has the right to tell you what you can do with it.
@gaylalynch1599
@gaylalynch1599 9 жыл бұрын
She is an amazing spirit…and she made a very difficult decision. I can understand the reasons for her choice, and can say I would want to do the same; however I don’t think I am brave enough. We don’t know until we walk it in our own shoes…because no one else’s will ever fit. The really ironic part of this is that she has so much to give to others... everyone around her, and now even those who never had the honor of meeting her. She is truly a beautiful Child of God
@veganforlife1203
@veganforlife1203 4 жыл бұрын
Respect her choice and prerogative🙏for her own life
@elitestar
@elitestar 6 жыл бұрын
i feel like this is the hardest thing to do because it is going against every instinct in your body to fight for survival.
@hesanflicka
@hesanflicka 9 жыл бұрын
Look up Tracy Snelling's story and you know that Brittany is making the right decision.
@harpers1niter
@harpers1niter 9 жыл бұрын
I can't believe all of the hate here. It's really sad to read these comments, I wish I hadn't.
@dhucke4assembly
@dhucke4assembly 9 жыл бұрын
Avoid social media then, which I try to do.
@jameshalleluyah8133
@jameshalleluyah8133 9 жыл бұрын
So much hate against this woman for avoiding tremendous pain.
@samrussell4065
@samrussell4065 7 жыл бұрын
When a Health System earns money through the continued (and profitable) existance of a serious/terminal patient, it seems worrying that an individual's decision is discarded. If you can't decide your own existance, what can you decise?
@kaylakincaid2972
@kaylakincaid2972 7 жыл бұрын
This interview was very powerful and I sincerely hope it helps clear up some of the misconceptions about physician's aid in dying. If this practice is used correctly (only in terminal cases), I feel that it could help a lot of people. And in some ways, it would help the family. I realize how delicate this subject is. However, if someone were to be in constant excruciating pain and be accompanied with many various health concerns dealing with terminal cancer, the option to have a physician help with their death would cross their mind. These cases are not about suicide -- they do not 'want' to die. These people do not want to be in terrible for the pain of the small remainder of their life. I feel that the right to die in terminal cases should be a human right. The people who decide to do this have put a lot of thought into their decision. They do not wake up one morning and just decide this. And as mentioned in the video, only about half of the people who have the prescription take it. The drug is used as comfort in a way. The patient knows that if the pain becomes too unbearable, they are able to pass in a peaceful and painless way and have the people they love by their side.
@CMRinehart
@CMRinehart 9 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't dying be private instead of public? It will be for me.
@shellilove9478
@shellilove9478 9 жыл бұрын
I think they should broadcast people in their last days in souless ICU. They have our elderly hooked up cause they have insurance screaming for their lives mostly demented and you call that humane. OMG!!!
@sneekz07
@sneekz07 9 жыл бұрын
She is advocating for others to have the choice not to be eaten away by a terminal illness.
@thomascampr
@thomascampr 9 жыл бұрын
She had an AGENDA and not one God would be happy with.
@Dan-ys8nk
@Dan-ys8nk Жыл бұрын
@@thomascampr You sound judgmental. Shameful. There's no hate like Christian love.
@ahkhan5092
@ahkhan5092 8 жыл бұрын
This brave woman has left many questions about life and death.And behind her there would be endless philosophical debates.
@INFJnaturally
@INFJnaturally 4 жыл бұрын
Debate? Over what? Individual freedom of choice over one's life? She wanted to live. But, she couldn't. Given that, why take every day of suffering to come? I'm so glad Brittany had this release. She was adult, thoughtful, responsible, and made a difficult choice that made sense for her.
@lindap.5310
@lindap.5310 9 жыл бұрын
My thoughts and prayers are with you Brittany. I feel the same way you do about choice. God and prayer can get you through. There are so many people praying for you. God be with you !
@NoOneHere2Day
@NoOneHere2Day 9 жыл бұрын
Why do people pray after the fact? You know that does nothing but give people false hopes.
@lindap.5310
@lindap.5310 9 жыл бұрын
***** There is nothing here that is after the fact. Prayer can get you through anything be it sickness or well being. Brittany is going through so much and has made the hardest decision of her life. I just heard of her story 2 days ago . If I were in her place, knowing there was people praying for me would be comforting ! Only God knows, there is always hope. No one should be getting angry or arguing over this wonderful young lady's life . I know everyone has an opinion but I hope it will stay kind. Blessings to all
@MrCrapkin
@MrCrapkin 9 жыл бұрын
If you actually knew your faith you would know that God is the ONLY being that should be capable of creating and destroying life. I am praying for her to make the right decision and not take her life that God has granted her. I will pray for her to realize that this is NOT the way God intended for her to go. There may be pain and suffering but it will all be worth it if you are faithful and trust that God will help you and be at your side as you battle. For at the end of the rainbow is a beautiful reward of Heaven
@Stefarcherrrr
@Stefarcherrrr 9 жыл бұрын
what in anyones right mind thinks she is selfish or that she cant think cuz her tumor, youre dead wrong and you make me sick to my stomach. i watched my grandfather and father slowly dying from cancer and other terminal illness. I would have rather them do it themselves than suffering everyday and going through the worse of the worst. you people who believe shes wrong for making a choice for herself, are idiots. this story makes me cry and i only wish my dad could have done that. knowing would be way better than finding out from someone telling you and not being able to say goodbye. this woman is a hero for people who dont get that chance, fight the power girl! you deserve it.
@Howdy1836
@Howdy1836 9 жыл бұрын
RIP; Thank you for the fight!
@twstf8905
@twstf8905 4 жыл бұрын
She was absolutely STUNNING.
@fredguysalt
@fredguysalt 7 жыл бұрын
She is an intelligent person plus her mom is a lovely mother.
@kelly4250
@kelly4250 9 жыл бұрын
I'm reading these comments and I can't believe how hateful you people are :( Did it seem like it was an easy decision for her? People deserve to live and die with dignity--my heart goes out to her and her family. I see that she died today...I hope that she's at peace! Figures that the most judgmental commentators here are Christians--wow, way to be compassionate and loving the was "Jesus" was...you should be ashamed...quit forcing your beliefs on others. Seriously, I can't believe how heartless people are these days. My hope in the human race is decreasing day by day.
@dannyoneil5058
@dannyoneil5058 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian and I could and would not tell her what to do,she is one of the strongest most brave people I've read about, may whoever she believes in meet her with open arms.
@olyacarell6434
@olyacarell6434 Жыл бұрын
the problem isn't that these people are 'bad christians', the problem is that christianity (and all other religions) are false and man-made concepts with not a grain of truth behind them.
@olyacarell6434
@olyacarell6434 Жыл бұрын
@@dannyoneil5058 you should grow up and stop believing fairy tales.
@lanam9764
@lanam9764 9 жыл бұрын
Dear Brittany I can understand what you feel i fact I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer your video brought tears in my eyes...you seems to be a beautiful person with love around you...and you mention something that I will carry on is take like to the fullest ..and I need to do that with my husband and family whom I love deeply...
@marrun7708
@marrun7708 6 жыл бұрын
Now She is R.I.P... Agree totally with her decision. Thank you for the debate. (feel sad...after how many years...?) May God give Comfort & acceptance to her husband & Parents. Thank you again.
@datubeda
@datubeda 9 жыл бұрын
I pray to God she and her family don't read all these comments by so many idiots who lack love and compassion. I'm not even sure I would agree with her choice if it were me, but it's not me, it's her. And it's not for me to judge. Not with something so heavy and so personal. I cannot imagine what it is like to walk in her shoes, and I pray that myself and my family never have to. I pray for Brittany and her family during this time. She displays an amazing amount of beauty, courage and love on the inside and outside.
@samann95014
@samann95014 9 жыл бұрын
I would choose 'Death by Dignity'.
@flournoymason8961
@flournoymason8961 5 жыл бұрын
My first cousin died of brain cancer and she would have been better off if she had done this.
@Jason-oh6ky
@Jason-oh6ky 9 жыл бұрын
Speechless. No words to express. Sad.........
@elyssagoldstein9656
@elyssagoldstein9656 5 жыл бұрын
Comment : Although this is a truly heartbreaking story, I think it is important to realize that Brittany has the capacity to make her own healthcare decisions. In the medical field, it is determined that the patient has capacity if he/she does the following: First, he/she uses reasoning to make and communicate a choice that is consistent with their values and goals. Second, he/she understands the medical situation and prognosis, the nature of the recommended care, the alternatives including their risks and benefits, and the effects on his/her values. In this case, Brittany understands that she has malignant brain cancer and is only expected to live for six more months. As she mentions in the video, there are not currently any cures for her prognosis, and she is conscious of how her decision to end her life will affect her family. She has reasoned to end her life “on her terms”. Although this decision may not mirror what many people believe she should do, it is consistent with her values. I believe this opportunity should be available to more people who are suffering from terminal illnesses. If they have the capacity to make their own healthcare decisions and they choose to end their life early to avoid pain and suffering, they should be able to do so. In my opinion, a doctor respecting the patients wishes will not only respect their autonomy, but will ultimately act in beneficence by “doing good”. I believe it is inhumane to extend the life of a terminally ill patient who is living a miserable quality of life and being held on life support against their will. Moreover, I would like to emphasize the fact that Brittany made this decision while she had capacity. It is important to recognize this and talk to newly-diagnosed terminally ill patients about their wishes while they have the capacity to make these decisions. This will respect the autonomy of the patient and help physicians define the grey lines of beneficence vs. maleficence in such situations. With that being said, suicidal patients are considered not to have the capacity to make their own healthcare decisions. A thorough psychological evaluation would need to be made for each case to understand the nature and course of the patient’s thought process before any decisions are made. With that, I still believe terminally ill patients with capacity should have the option to end their life on their own terms.
@ReligiousZombie
@ReligiousZombie 9 жыл бұрын
Of course the majority of medical professionals oppose assisted suicide. By keeping someone alive, you can preserve the cash flow with doctor visits, procedures, tests, surgeries, etc.
@mauigirl4056
@mauigirl4056 9 жыл бұрын
Bless you Brittany, and your family. Thank you for your courage in bringing forth your message, one of immense importance for anyone with a terminal illness. We should all have the ability to make the choice you have made, whether or not we choose to make it. You have shown such grace in your journey, as has your family. May you rest in peace, Sweet Girl. Farewell.
@patriciafoster3347
@patriciafoster3347 4 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t WANT to die. But she’s going to. I support this decision. I’ve seen others who do this for the wrong reasons. One..I can’t find now...a young woman who was simply extremely depressed. She was NOT seriously ill.
@SaraLanvin
@SaraLanvin 9 жыл бұрын
I have nothing but respect for Brittany. No matter how many times people call this practice "cowardly," I will never believe it takes less than self assurance to commit to something so firghteningly oblivious. At the same time, having watched patients and family/friends die of illness, there is an eternal legacy that lies with someone who fought until the end, no matter how ugly or brutal. I have more respect for someone who dies in the midst of battle than someone who quits in the corner.
@StsFiveOneLima
@StsFiveOneLima 7 жыл бұрын
It is my life.
@lyricalaska
@lyricalaska 7 жыл бұрын
It costs a considerable amount of money to pay for the drugs to end ones life.
@JesseWright68
@JesseWright68 4 жыл бұрын
If one doesn't own their life, what do they own?
@kevinblanch
@kevinblanch 9 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU BRITTANY , WITH LOVE
@mariahavery4612
@mariahavery4612 9 жыл бұрын
She is do beautiful! I respect her decision god bless her and her family
@jeremyn2008
@jeremyn2008 9 жыл бұрын
What a powerful interview RIP
@LUVLELEO100
@LUVLELEO100 5 жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS HER & HER FAMILY😢🙏🏽Please make this process less painful for them all.
@skandalex3463
@skandalex3463 9 жыл бұрын
Brittany I'm with you! Alex from Germany .. I'm fascinated, so fascinated of you
@suzy1739
@suzy1739 9 жыл бұрын
She's an amazing person......I don't think any healthy person like us can say if she's smart or stupid.....I can NOT judge her..I'm not in her shoes..we ALL want to live..that's human nature, but to be told I have 6 months to live, and will suffer....this is a very hard choice ....
@wendyreeves1600
@wendyreeves1600 2 жыл бұрын
You should be given the right to make your own choice. Why make a person suffer more than they should
@crossing.the.cosmos84
@crossing.the.cosmos84 7 жыл бұрын
This is horrific...even more chilling because my name is Brittany too . So sad.
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