Chaplain recalls visiting Mark Gerardot after wife killed girlfriend and then herself

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ABC News

4 жыл бұрын

Rev. Manuel Howard said Mark Gerardot "was distressed, very emotional" at the police station, where Gerardot was being held for questioning while authorities continued their investigation.

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@star_light_kid
@star_light_kid 4 жыл бұрын
This man is 50. Let that sink in...age is not a determinant of maturity.
@20greeneyes20
@20greeneyes20 4 жыл бұрын
He is a narcissist
@SUGAR_XYLER
@SUGAR_XYLER 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 55 and still act 12
@Mop222
@Mop222 4 жыл бұрын
Star light Kid, he is pointing himself in a very good light. Are we really to believe that he was trying that hard to ease his wife through his mess, I don’t think so. Yes, I am judging. I am a great believer in people not going behind their partners’ backs.
@ninagianni2513
@ninagianni2513 4 жыл бұрын
but the penis does not age, it's still 18
@AfricanGirl
@AfricanGirl 4 жыл бұрын
@@ninagianni2513 🤣😂 but with age it doesn't work has much when men get older older lol
@angiep2749
@angiep2749 4 жыл бұрын
This man is despicable! Total narcissist and loving the attention. Something tells me that this wasn't his only affair. The wife should have walked away and allowed Karma take over.
@irenes8689
@irenes8689 4 жыл бұрын
For some people it's hard to do that when they are deep in love. It's hard to walk away when you have given your life to that person and know it's you right to fight for that relationship.
@mariecampbell3373
@mariecampbell3373 3 жыл бұрын
Karma takes too long.
@kimberleyphillips6671
@kimberleyphillips6671 3 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes.
@tetethatsme28
@tetethatsme28 3 жыл бұрын
Totally a narcissist, he's sick
@marklarson601
@marklarson601 3 жыл бұрын
No one comes out this clean except Meredith’s widower.
@tigerladylily
@tigerladylily 4 жыл бұрын
When my ex husband told me he was having an affair. I just let him go and never confronted the woman. I love my pride morethan that man. Thank God.
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I mean, if they have an affair, who the hell would want them back anyway.
@treaty8631
@treaty8631 2 жыл бұрын
He told you and you moved forward, bravo....just move on ...hes not worth your time.
@ABS-oh8jt
@ABS-oh8jt Жыл бұрын
That's good, I did the same but there are just some people out there who just are not that emotionally and mentally strong in moments like this ... this dude is scum , its just a pity she could not see that and just be glad that she was free of him now.
@deescott8312
@deescott8312 4 жыл бұрын
Selfish man still making everything about him after what he caused
@20greeneyes20
@20greeneyes20 4 жыл бұрын
Yes because he's a narcissist
@cindybotones328
@cindybotones328 4 жыл бұрын
very selfish my gosh he's acting like a victim.
@tiffanykern170
@tiffanykern170 4 жыл бұрын
I would lose my mind if the love of my life did this to me. He should have stopped the affair and stayed with his wife, I mean I would have done the same thing if it was me bc my man is my life and I can't live without him and for this Jack ass to leave his wife of 24 years for a woman 15 their senior, Shit that is just wrong. So know two woman are dead bc he couldn't keep it in his pants. He didn't pull the trigger but in reality he is the one who murdered both of them..
@tellurye
@tellurye 4 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanykern170 I see what you are saying but I respectfully disagree. He should not have stayed with his wife - he clearly didnt love her anymore. He should have NEVER had the affair, left his wife, wait till meredith leaves her husband, and THEN started a relationship with Meredith. I see what you are saying but I wouldnt want someone to stay with me if they dont want me, even if they are the love of my life. I love my wife too much to be selfish. Now, I wouldnt be happy, obviously, but I wouldnt want her to stay if she wanted someone else. You are an awesome, strong, woman Tiffany. If the love of your life doesnt want you, its hard, but let them go. You deserve so much better. Easier said then done, but dont let others decide your life. YOU decide your life. You are woman - let me hear you roar! :)
@itscool770
@itscool770 4 жыл бұрын
tellurye I agree 100% if someone falls in love with someone else they can’t help that but what they can do is leave their significant other BEFORE cheating.
@mariaelda6271
@mariaelda6271 4 жыл бұрын
And now, he has a book. He's making money out of the deaths of the women he claimed to love. Boo!!
@marizdean5638
@marizdean5638 4 жыл бұрын
First, he dismissed the fact he is very much married, the woman who made her life w/ him and kept her vows.then he had the nerve to enumerate his wife's negative attitude then to top them all up he made himself available for somebody as unfaithful as he is.and I am using the present tense here because I'll be very surprise if he's living alone now.so I say he may not be guilty if when asked did he killed them? But he is guilty because he cheated and may as well shot them both! He could have evaded the temptation and left.broke w/ his wife first.who knows?? Both women would have fared better???
@Tamtam-re6ry
@Tamtam-re6ry 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not true the money goes to a great cause AGA adoptagoldenatlanta.com get your facts straight. Actually read the book..... he wrote this for a reason, part of this reason was how close he was to not being able to move forward with his life. Judgement is not something you have a right to do unless you actually read the story!!!!
@speteydog2260
@speteydog2260 4 жыл бұрын
Tamara Rinneard Lol yeah right
@knowsmebyname
@knowsmebyname 4 жыл бұрын
Tamara he has put himself out in the limelight. That makes judgement fair game. Most of us don't care about his book and where any funds go. Are instincts are telling us all we need to know about this "person". And person will do as a descriptor. He does not qualify to be called a Man.
@knowsmebyname
@knowsmebyname 4 жыл бұрын
our instincts
@Leonaza7
@Leonaza7 4 жыл бұрын
Is it me or he’s acting like he is the victim here?
@NativeNYerChicHK
@NativeNYerChicHK 4 жыл бұрын
Leonaza7 He is acting that way but he really is just a self absorbed Douchebag. He’s not to blame for his wife’s murderous actions but he holds a whole hell of a lot of responsibility for creating this entire situation.
@Bereft777
@Bereft777 4 жыл бұрын
Seems like he has been and done a lot. Victim no... traumatized yes
@jcrockoo7
@jcrockoo7 4 жыл бұрын
@@NativeNYerChicHK but he did the right thing by immediately confessing to her then filing for divorce.
@helenpatterson3858
@helenpatterson3858 4 жыл бұрын
@@jcrockoo7 He didn't immediately confess. He was distant with his wife, that's why she had him bugged to find out what was going on.
@rollothecat2010
@rollothecat2010 4 жыл бұрын
He cheated on his wife and wanted a divorce. Unfortunately, his wife was unstable. She took his girlfriend away (killed her) and then killed herself. It was a difficult situation as soon as he got the girlfriend while still married. Maybe there was some deep seated sense within him that his wife was unstable. We need to be careful with the people in our lifes not to betray them. You want a divorce because your spouse is unstable? Be very patient. Get the divorce first before pursuing a new relationship with someone else. It is not a betrayal that way. It is hard to buy his victimhood because by cheating on his wife, he made her a victim first. Also, women need to show solidarity: do not have a relationship with a man married to another woman. You too need to wait until he is no longer married. I know I sound prudish, but this is just f*ing common sense: do not betray SOs in relationships. Do not entice others in relationships into betrayal those relations. Wait and do it in the proper order. You are adults. You should have mastered deferred gratification and patience. What a mess this guy made of his relationships.
@janetwhite2706
@janetwhite2706 4 жыл бұрын
He is responsible for this mess. So sad, he'll get to go on with his life, probably meet someone else and carry on. I can't stand him.
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 3 жыл бұрын
I know. I wish the wife would have just cleaned him out and moved on.
@everythingbobbywolfe
@everythingbobbywolfe 3 жыл бұрын
@@wordswordswords8203 amen
@marieson7418
@marieson7418 Жыл бұрын
True. He is a shame!
@mambostirfry
@mambostirfry 2 ай бұрын
I am so with you. He is a very self-centered man, possibly with a personality disorder. I wouldn’t trust him with yesterday’s news.
@JustASmallTownGirl85
@JustASmallTownGirl85 4 жыл бұрын
The only tragedy I see here is what Meredith did to her eyebrows, and Mark being born without a spine.
@AURORATHEANIMATOR
@AURORATHEANIMATOR 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Truth.
@speteydog2260
@speteydog2260 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on! 👍🏻😁
@kellyberes7835
@kellyberes7835 4 жыл бұрын
PeacefulWeapon wow
@Victoriagenix
@Victoriagenix 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 🤣 yea right. Her eyebrows are so ugly for a woman with all the achievements he claims
@patriciasantiago8955
@patriciasantiago8955 4 жыл бұрын
That is an awful thing to say. His wife was sick and needed if someone love you anymore it does not give you the right to kill someone else. Meredith's husband did not go anyone. She was obsessed
@dustfreequeen5151
@dustfreequeen5151 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he's acting like the victim shows the characteristics of a true narcissist!
@poseidonofthesea3682
@poseidonofthesea3682 6 ай бұрын
HE WAS THE VICTIM.
@keitos18
@keitos18 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is most likely a narcissist and the symptoms such as manipulation, victimization, entitlement, double life, graduerism, and lack of empathy is evident.
@JasmineDev
@JasmineDev 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts when I listened to him.
@HeidiG11
@HeidiG11 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on👍
@SUGAR_XYLER
@SUGAR_XYLER 4 жыл бұрын
He looks like a girl's worst nightmare
@Blackhebrew01
@Blackhebrew01 4 жыл бұрын
Boom you hit right on target
@melaniewilliams6740
@melaniewilliams6740 4 жыл бұрын
amen.
@phillipsmom6252
@phillipsmom6252 4 жыл бұрын
This guys a punk. He has the balls to write a book about it.
@harryd747
@harryd747 4 жыл бұрын
Are you fucking kidding me??? He wrote a book ? What a fucking piece of shit. I hate this guy even more now. Maybe he will use some of that money to fix his charcoal colored teeth. This guy is a home wrecking con man.
@hectorabcdefg9076
@hectorabcdefg9076 4 жыл бұрын
You must make money somehow. Kim kardashian made a sex video lol
@phillipsmom6252
@phillipsmom6252 4 жыл бұрын
Hector Lalalala ....That’s sex, not murder. You knucklehead.
@radiokilledthevideostar3329
@radiokilledthevideostar3329 4 жыл бұрын
Phillips Mom did he?!?!?
@phillipsmom6252
@phillipsmom6252 4 жыл бұрын
Radio Killed The Video Star ... yes
@suziej2796
@suziej2796 4 жыл бұрын
The chaplain nailed it...he said he was sitting across from the individual who was the catalyst for two deaths but that he was challenged not to judge him. He continue to show this man compassion. 👍🏽
@ginac895
@ginac895 Жыл бұрын
I have no compassion for Mark. He tortured and gas-lit his wife with his constant lying and drove her to insanity.
@poseidonofthesea3682
@poseidonofthesea3682 6 ай бұрын
THIS IS ALL GENNAIR'S FAULT. She is a narcissist. She came onto him and pursued him, he never loved her.
@sheilajohnson6478
@sheilajohnson6478 4 жыл бұрын
He screwed up two women’s lives, all because of his selfishness.
@numinumful3815
@numinumful3815 4 жыл бұрын
half of the pupulation cheat, including women. its not that hes satan and rest of us are saints
@tellurye
@tellurye 4 жыл бұрын
Typical c_nt - you take ZERO responsibility. Meredith CHOSE to have an affair with a married man (she was married as well, by the way) and Jermaine CHOSE to murder suicide them both. THEY made those choices, not him. He's just a pig.
@carolynabbott888
@carolynabbott888 4 жыл бұрын
Two women who both wanted to be with him don't forget.
@luvlullaby4062
@luvlullaby4062 4 жыл бұрын
tellurye EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@houstonconservative1776
@houstonconservative1776 4 жыл бұрын
He caused the deaths of two women
@arivledaba2376
@arivledaba2376 4 жыл бұрын
Its just disgusting that he can still smile after all what he had done to her wife.
@TravelBoss-
@TravelBoss- 4 жыл бұрын
From part 3 to this? The way this story was rolled out was horrible! Why not just post the story in one video? We dont even know how they both got shot 🙄
@verawallace9055
@verawallace9055 4 жыл бұрын
She broke into the mistress house ,shot her and then herself
@UrbanCommentBot
@UrbanCommentBot 4 жыл бұрын
They neverrr post these in a sensible way. Like the previous post stated, they want you to tune in or watch on their platform.
@balenciagalifestyle2361
@balenciagalifestyle2361 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree! Idk if I’m stupid, but I’m confused asf.
@verawallace9055
@verawallace9055 4 жыл бұрын
@@balenciagalifestyle2361 its not too Confusing if you see part 1 and read the Comments
@mariaalexander427
@mariaalexander427 4 жыл бұрын
I Googled ABC News the affair part 4, 5 & 6.
@jozettemarquez3923
@jozettemarquez3923 4 жыл бұрын
What ever happened to loyalty? He drove this poor woman to end her life and the other woman's life. Did he ever stop to thinking of the betrayal he did to her? She was loyal, and expected him to be also! He's sugar coating his affair, as if she was supposed to be ok with it! This was all caused by him!!
@dixieblonde2208
@dixieblonde2208 3 жыл бұрын
I agree , same as you said !!!
@ashleytaccone5298
@ashleytaccone5298 Жыл бұрын
I know 😫
@bumblebee5059
@bumblebee5059 Жыл бұрын
Exactly the sole reason for the traumatic event
@ForeverSweetx3
@ForeverSweetx3 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this old man needs to be checked. In his interviews he acts like he didn't know what was happening with his mistress and that it just happened. He's a grown old man! He knew and he's just as responsible for these deaths as his wife is.
@Maxwell-yk7jt
@Maxwell-yk7jt 4 жыл бұрын
The Wife Never Deserved To Go Insane Because Of Her Husband R.I.P She Never Deserved To Die I Hope Her Family And Friends Recover 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@m0here239
@m0here239 4 жыл бұрын
Why does he not realize he literally is the reason why any of this started and like he’s alive at the end of the day.
@majalovric6920
@majalovric6920 Жыл бұрын
NPD.....
@GLD9191
@GLD9191 4 жыл бұрын
The pastor isn't judging, but I am.
@VIZZIONASMRtainment
@VIZZIONASMRtainment 4 жыл бұрын
Are you God?
@20greeneyes20
@20greeneyes20 4 жыл бұрын
We are not to judge God is the only one, he will meet his maker. We all will have to stand before God and answer what and how we lived our life here on Earth. Yes He alone was the cause of it all. All our actions have consequences. As you can see. Thou shalt not commit adultery. See what it caused .....It's a no brainer......
@VIZZIONASMRtainment
@VIZZIONASMRtainment 4 жыл бұрын
@@20greeneyes20 He is not the cause of it all, if you say that he is you're giving authority to other women to do crazy things if their husbands cheat... If your husband cheats, move on, ask for divorce yourself and take the dogs.
@GLD9191
@GLD9191 4 жыл бұрын
@@VIZZIONASMRtainment no, My name is Lily, it's next to my picture 😉and i am judging him. Are you gonna judge me for judging him? Both of you can keep on pretending you don't judge anyone.
@VIZZIONASMRtainment
@VIZZIONASMRtainment 4 жыл бұрын
@@GLD9191 How am I judging you? I only asked you a question.
@sophialewis5474
@sophialewis5474 4 жыл бұрын
Besides my own experience, I have never been able to see another narcissist in person. This guy is textbook.
@kisharodriguez9218
@kisharodriguez9218 4 жыл бұрын
This man thought the grass was greener on the other side no one won from this
@justshady
@justshady 4 жыл бұрын
He's still alive MGTOW
@fauxmanchu8094
@fauxmanchu8094 4 жыл бұрын
Kisha Rodriguez He fell out of love. It happens. A lot.
@tellurye
@tellurye 4 жыл бұрын
Uh, he won. He got two snatches. One killed both of them, so now he doesnt have to hear them whining, and hes not dead nor in prison. Making $ from his books, and hes on to get more snatch. Yeah, I say he pretty much won that situation.
@wendywade6474
@wendywade6474 4 жыл бұрын
He told his wife he wanted a divorce, there is life after divorce. No need to kill someone else and then take your own life. It's very sad.
@sharonmcduffiealabama3928
@sharonmcduffiealabama3928 4 жыл бұрын
He's the one to blame and him alone!
@stephc3874
@stephc3874 4 жыл бұрын
Sharon Alabama no he’s not. She had no self control. She pulled the trigger. He’s partially to blame yes. It takes two to cheat. Meredith was also married, her husband remained sane.
@sharonmcduffiealabama3928
@sharonmcduffiealabama3928 4 жыл бұрын
@@stephc3874 yes he is.
@paulaw418
@paulaw418 4 жыл бұрын
No. All share some blame.
@paulaw418
@paulaw418 4 жыл бұрын
@Eliza Grogan did I say there were winners here? No. But he too is responsible for what happened. All 3 share some blame. Obviously the brunt of the blame falls on the murderer, but none here are innocent.
@jasonvegan5761
@jasonvegan5761 4 жыл бұрын
WTF ABC, where is Part 4??? 🤦🏻‍♂️
@balenciagalifestyle2361
@balenciagalifestyle2361 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@robinallen5157
@robinallen5157 4 жыл бұрын
Nightline is supposed to be putting out the remaining story (?)
@mariaalexander427
@mariaalexander427 4 жыл бұрын
I Googled ""ABC News The Affair part 4" 5 & 6
@samylynch5185
@samylynch5185 4 жыл бұрын
they're going to hang it over our heads
@melliethemua7388
@melliethemua7388 4 жыл бұрын
Jason Vegan right 😩
@whoisimani44
@whoisimani44 4 жыл бұрын
The mental anguish and abuse he selfishly put his wife through was ridiculous!
@rustyrose1959
@rustyrose1959 4 жыл бұрын
He can be thankful there was no way he was a suspect. He tells this story so void of raw emotions, unsympathetic and guiltless that you would think he had something to do with the murders. Trying to make a profit from this story seems heartless..
@sammmuela6759
@sammmuela6759 4 жыл бұрын
What a horribly selfish man! I saw him on Doctor Oz and he gave me the creeps! He even plugged his book!! You can tell he’s never cared for anyone in his life, except himself. Poor women. RIP
@20greeneyes20
@20greeneyes20 4 жыл бұрын
All our actions have consequences and this is a good example.
@katcol2284
@katcol2284 2 жыл бұрын
I love how he wants to put it off on his wife saying she had a mental problem but in this situation a real psychologist will tell you it’s impossible to diagnose her. Because of the stress he created that pushed her over the edge.
@EricaLairson
@EricaLairson 10 ай бұрын
It was reactive abuse. He was a narcissistic asshat!
@poseidonofthesea3682
@poseidonofthesea3682 6 ай бұрын
His wife was a narcissist
@edt501
@edt501 4 жыл бұрын
Let's not forget the Mistress's husband. He was left out in the cold as well.
@tylernf2387
@tylernf2387 3 жыл бұрын
People only support the woman that has been cheated on. Even when she is a cold killer-
@crazychase98
@crazychase98 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@YTfancol
@YTfancol 3 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine the despair and fear Jennair felt at the callousness of her husband and at the ending of life as she knew it. She clearly went insane.
@carmenlamontagne4948
@carmenlamontagne4948 4 жыл бұрын
He would have cheated on the affair partner as well. Cheaters have a problem in life. This guy did not want to stick around when things were down. And the affair partner? She participated and cheated as well. Shallow worthless people.
@diamonddia5545
@diamonddia5545 4 жыл бұрын
I must agree with you .Cheaters are primmitve low humans with zero respect
@janina8559
@janina8559 4 жыл бұрын
Cheaters are the problem when committing murder? Ok well I shud have a bunch of cheaters in my life gone smh wtf kinda sense is that? Chic was cakoo!
@MrMJmusicLover
@MrMJmusicLover 4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is man made. God said to be fruitful and multiply. Means Go around and have as much sex and as many babies as you like.
@diamonddia5545
@diamonddia5545 4 жыл бұрын
@@MrMJmusicLover Good luck with women who gonna cheat on ya cz of ur poor theory sorry
@maryluvsmusic9298
@maryluvsmusic9298 4 жыл бұрын
Carmen Lamontagne, I think that’s a little harsh. But anywho...he should have set the wife up with some cash or a job & moved on then. He should have actually kept his penis in his pants but the damage was done & he just did her wrong. She was emotionally unstable. Reminds me of Betty Broderick...u can’t just be with people & play with their emotions & then move on to a young tender & live happily ever after. In a better financial situation. It’s sad that she let her emotions get the best of her & make such a drastic decision but u never know what sets people off! So all you cheaters out there...pay attention, this situation can happen to anyone.
@HavenGal
@HavenGal 4 жыл бұрын
If I can't have him, you can't have him. I feel that! I can't imagine my husband cheating on me and leaving me for someone else. That woman taking my life and my spot. He's a horrible man and he should take responsibility and not blame his wife. His wife was getting older and felt she couldn't start over. It's overwhelming for her to lose it all. She shouldn't have killed the mistress but all 3 sold themselves for their actions.
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. She was getting older, about my age. But should could have at least gotten a good settlement out of the divorce one would think. She probably could have had a decent life without that prick. I wish she could have gotten some help. That man was not worth it.
@DesilovesJesus
@DesilovesJesus 4 жыл бұрын
Why have affairs if you can break up ?
@balenciagalifestyle2361
@balenciagalifestyle2361 4 жыл бұрын
Because a lot of times even though the wife gets heated on they don’t want to let go! They fight for their husband!
@kauntroap6339
@kauntroap6339 4 жыл бұрын
why murder when you can get divorce?
@VIZZIONASMRtainment
@VIZZIONASMRtainment 4 жыл бұрын
@loverofbeauty& truecrime Exactly! Why did she want to keep a man who cheated on her? Why wasn't she the one asking for the divorce?
@rammos9171
@rammos9171 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing with a man having more than one.
@irenes8689
@irenes8689 4 жыл бұрын
Because he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He loved controlling someone and making them misreable all while experincing the rush and excitement of cheating. Gross man indeed.
@snackgila
@snackgila 4 жыл бұрын
His selfishness caused tragedies..
@semones57
@semones57 4 жыл бұрын
This preacher is wrong Mark wasn’t the only catalyst to the two ladies death, but the women he was having an affair with ask him for a drink first. So if you are going to accuse someone of something make sure you include everyone.
@teresacatherine6866
@teresacatherine6866 4 жыл бұрын
Highbaby9 Who cares who asked who first.If you are married, the answer is NO, and one should be running fast the other way. Yes he and the mistress both are responsible for cheating, thats a given.
@juliemulcahy3899
@juliemulcahy3899 4 жыл бұрын
So he says, she's not here to confirm she asked him out. He's a liar, he lied to his wife.
@velvetbrown74
@velvetbrown74 4 жыл бұрын
​@@teresacatherine6866 Remember...she was married also. She said I love you first, and probably seduced him sexually first. I would wager my entire year's pay on that one. I'm not absolving him but these predatory women get away with their seductions because nobody wants to think that women can be cold, calculating , evil and narcissistic. They wear a perfect mask and are supreme actresses. Underneath, they want to win and tear up marriages because they are envious. Many of them are highly successful. They target vulnerable men--older, immature, recent job loss or change, mid-life crisis, death of a loved one, marriage problems etc. She's no innocent little sweetie. Probably used NLP on him from the first conversation which is why he was so intrigued from the start. It's mind-control and it's very dangerous. The target becomes obsessed and addicted so that the predator can extract supply.
@maziewinston2196
@maziewinston2196 4 жыл бұрын
Karen P. Damn Karen, I actually agree with this.
@velvetbrown74
@velvetbrown74 4 жыл бұрын
@@maziewinston2196 Thanks....I know it's hard to believe because we aren't like those women but they actually study Neuro-linguistic Programming and practice it. There are actual classes online that you can take to become a master manipulator. Many of them have studied psychology. They all have a natural predilection for this behavior but once they figure out that they have a talent for it (usually as little girls), they practice it and educate themselves in whatever way that they can....online, books, sales seminars, etc. They take it very seriously. Bizarre I know but true. There is also a book called "The Rules" that many of them use to trap and control naive and gullible men. A married man is always better supply for them because pulling a man out of a marriage is "proof" in her mind that she is better than the wife. Sometimes I think it is more about hurting the wife than it is having the husband. They want the wife's life. Reminds me of those cowbirds that lay eggs in other bird's nests.
@randomlifeoffola3719
@randomlifeoffola3719 4 жыл бұрын
He absolutely disgusts me! I just don’t understand how he can sit up and even begin to say that his wife was living a double life. 😱 His infidelity and complete lack of respect for his wife, resulted in two women losing their lives.
@ChrisTheSaver
@ChrisTheSaver 4 жыл бұрын
this guy doesn't deserve any women. Had a heavy heart watching these series. Sicko
@anyastar8
@anyastar8 3 жыл бұрын
When he saw his wife lying on the floor, he went to her and said, "baby, what did you do?" HEY JACKASSS! You did this to them.
@corrinaconklin7737
@corrinaconklin7737 4 жыл бұрын
He should have ended his first marriage first. Once he realized he wad in love with this other woman. He did this. He may not have pulled the trigger, but he did this. 💯💯💯
@ernieartgirl3927
@ernieartgirl3927 4 жыл бұрын
He was going to end the marriage and he confessed the affair. She killed instead of getting the divorce!!! Her actions cannot be justified!! What she did was wrong. She was controlling and did not want the divorce. She couldn't accept it and made the wrong choice to murder instead!!!🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
@irenes8689
@irenes8689 4 жыл бұрын
You are right what she did was wrong. But it also shows that you may not really know what it means to really be in love. This woman was fighting for what was rightfully hers and that was he husband. When she finally figured out that it was really over she had a major melt down. It not easy to walk away from someone you've built your whole life around and if it is something definitely wrong. And like I said earlier she was still wrong for killing that other lady.
@ernieartgirl3927
@ernieartgirl3927 3 жыл бұрын
She should've just sued him for half of their estate and drained him somehow. That would have taught him a lesson. Just saying. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@teeshante
@teeshante 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Has anyone explained to him that he broke her. TWENTY FOUR YEARS!!! No children, moved across the country in the midst of him having an affair, almost 50 yrs old. What did he think would happen? God just about literally tapped him on the shoulder to put an end to this when he got the job interview in another state.
@ivetalonso9518
@ivetalonso9518 4 жыл бұрын
When you play with people's emotions, you don't know what the outcome will be. Husband and mistress played with wife's emotions, the death's are on him! Sadly, he will go on to live his life and the women paid the ultimate price.
@radiokilledthevideostar3329
@radiokilledthevideostar3329 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what he gets. He did this mess to himself periodt
@kimberley5592
@kimberley5592 4 жыл бұрын
He's on Facebook.. widowed ...is his status...with still her pictures on there...saying that she had a mental disorder is why she did what she did...nice guy
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 3 жыл бұрын
god, how icky
@rckkeller9437
@rckkeller9437 4 жыл бұрын
You won’t find happiness based on the misery of others. That’s not how it works.
@KitKat-cm8rf
@KitKat-cm8rf 4 жыл бұрын
Millions of likes for this comment.
@sundelong2727
@sundelong2727 3 жыл бұрын
Affairs are not physical as we have been told but it’s more involving with your ego . Most people falling in love other than their spouses are very vulnerable emotionally . They needed to be loved is one of main reason why they are having affairs . Also I wonder what Mark’s lover sees in him ?
@dougsteeleguitar
@dougsteeleguitar 3 жыл бұрын
"My world is gone"...yet he's still alive.
@daniboyd7963
@daniboyd7963 4 жыл бұрын
My, Me, I ... this a-hole caused all of this and he is somehow the victim? Meredith’s husband should file a lawsuit against Mark
@Silver-cl2bd
@Silver-cl2bd 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you chaplain. You did it right.
@SymonFirst
@SymonFirst 4 жыл бұрын
If he's so saddened by the situation, it's so hurtful to him, why in the hell he trying to profit off the situation. Go away, change your name and start a new life.
@JuanMendoza-sp5vt
@JuanMendoza-sp5vt 4 жыл бұрын
Dont understand how he dont get the hard questions I truly feel hes the one to blame i as a husband feel as though I can make or destroy my family if I make the wrong choice so I choose not to
@JuanMendoza-sp5vt
@JuanMendoza-sp5vt 4 жыл бұрын
@UurdChuluut Negen I hate to say this but ur right about these channels specially if they are white
@wendyferry2967
@wendyferry2967 4 жыл бұрын
He sure doesn’t seem like he felt bad. He felt bad the gf didn’t live. Selfish man.
@mattfirth987
@mattfirth987 4 жыл бұрын
Guess you shouldn't of said your vows to a woman. Then get into a love triangle
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 4 жыл бұрын
Really playing with fire. Let the wife move to new state with no job only to let her find out by herself that he's already left the marriage. So they're both dead now because of him. She would have already been in a bad way after losing her job, although there's no excuse for murder.
@mariaalexander427
@mariaalexander427 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, he was the culprit, but it's not like he told his wife to commit this murder/suicide.
@y2ksurvivor
@y2ksurvivor 4 жыл бұрын
said like a gas lighter. hmm.
@fauxmanchu8094
@fauxmanchu8094 4 жыл бұрын
MARIA ALEXANDER Exactly. 👍👍👍
@MrRocktex1978
@MrRocktex1978 4 жыл бұрын
ay Maria Alexander nunca digas de esa agua no tomo porque te tomas toda la jara. La vida da vueltas
@irenes8689
@irenes8689 4 жыл бұрын
You are so right. She was wrong for killing that other girl. But her heart was broken and she didn't see any other way out. She still is a victim as is the other woman.
@dneecie3059
@dneecie3059 4 жыл бұрын
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO LOVE AND COMPASSION.....SHIT HAPPENS....WHAT COUNTS IS HOW WE DEAL WITH IT AND HOW WE USE OUR EXPERIENCES TO HELP OTHERS
@misahua9197
@misahua9197 3 жыл бұрын
Left his wife of 24 years for a fling he had for a month. Yikes 😳 I love my husband but I will always love me more.
@mimim7026
@mimim7026 3 жыл бұрын
Smart of you! We are supposed to love our children unconditionally, but not our partners. If your partner hurts/betrays/abuses/abandons you - LEAVE. (Also, don't murder anyone or kill yourself over it.)
@chriscooper7642
@chriscooper7642 3 жыл бұрын
Love that chaplain. I know God must bless him.
@paulazemeckis7835
@paulazemeckis7835 4 жыл бұрын
God what a wimp that widower is. He brought it all on himself. Too weak to get a divorce. Marriages end sometimes. Be a decent person and move out and divorce.
@Isaacand716
@Isaacand716 4 жыл бұрын
What he did was wrong . I get it. But listening to the wife say I cannot accept it...you screwing that pooch and seeing you happy . She’s living my f- life . She knew he wanted to move on but she wanted to get back at him . Tragically that was the end result
@paulaw418
@paulaw418 4 жыл бұрын
@@Isaacand716 No way. Cheating is not "moving on." You're supposed to split up BEFORE you start "dating."
@mariaalexander427
@mariaalexander427 4 жыл бұрын
I agree that she chose to stay & obsess over the affair. That being said, I also believe it triggered some mental health issues or brought to the surface something that was lingering in the background of her mental state.
@Sandragoldenlee
@Sandragoldenlee 4 жыл бұрын
@@Isaacand716 Grow up. It usually doesn't happen that way.
@fauxmanchu8094
@fauxmanchu8094 4 жыл бұрын
Paula Zemeckis Listen to the videos carefully. He wanted a divorce and move on, she did not. She was hanging onto a dead marriage and refused to accept reality. He fell out of love, it happens. A lot. Seems like she was a controlling person.
@bloopnation
@bloopnation 4 жыл бұрын
Rather than string along a divorce, it's best to move out, communicate ONLY via a lawyer and maintain no contact, even when it's settled. OR don't be a douche bag and have an affair.
@wordswordswords8203
@wordswordswords8203 3 жыл бұрын
very good advice
@bloopnation
@bloopnation 3 жыл бұрын
@@wordswordswords8203 Thanks!!
@rdp4654
@rdp4654 4 жыл бұрын
his soon to be ex got the perfect revenge by killing the love of his life! I dont think she intended to do it at first but once she decided on killing herself it was not a far leap to take his love interest with her so he would also have nothing to go forward to and nothing to come back to just like her so she knew him well!
@juliajohansson7058
@juliajohansson7058 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is just a plain cheater that fell in love with his younger mistress.He had an interview in another state for a job but He called his mistress and told her that he wanted to be with her and turned down the job. So why didn’t he call his wife and told her the truth. She did it, but he pulled that trigger by playing her to the edge.
@onlyonesky9611
@onlyonesky9611 4 жыл бұрын
Jannair loves Mark to death but what he did in return? He dumped his wife after found a younger and more successful woman, a very evil man. Meredith is a very ambitious woman, she had an affair with a married man and dumped her husband. They deserve each other.
@fashionista1972
@fashionista1972 4 жыл бұрын
This guy makes me sick!!
@zeus2405
@zeus2405 4 жыл бұрын
For every action there's a reaction. Shame on him.
@tylernf2387
@tylernf2387 3 жыл бұрын
Cheating on your wife is not the catalyst for murder. You’re an idiot and affairs are common in the United States.
@ashleylynn2701
@ashleylynn2701 4 жыл бұрын
So so sad.
@aimeek1236
@aimeek1236 4 жыл бұрын
He's acting like this was done to him. How come the men always get away scot free?
@everythingbobbywolfe
@everythingbobbywolfe 3 жыл бұрын
I seriously believe there should be a legal precident set that could allow a court to charge him with some sort of involvement like an involuntarily manslaughter charge. Cheaters need to be held accountable more than just in civil court
@ninakay1813
@ninakay1813 4 жыл бұрын
This man is not a human, he makes makes a wild animal looks good
@nauveikune8206
@nauveikune8206 4 жыл бұрын
I have no remorse for this man and his mistress. They both knew what they were doing they both knew they had the duty of care for their partners and still wanted to take the risk because it was “exciting” what a selfish thing to do. You make your bed and now you gotta lay in it. I wonder if he went to merediths funeral and how interesting that would have been for her family and ex husband.
@creolelady182
@creolelady182 4 жыл бұрын
he was glad to be rid of her but he is like a lot of men who dont have the guts to tell his wife that he is bored with her and so he acts it out
@tylernf2387
@tylernf2387 3 жыл бұрын
So, it makes it right for the woman to not file a divorce if her husband cheats on her BUT instead get back at another women. Your feminist ideology is infuriating
@creolelady182
@creolelady182 3 жыл бұрын
@@tylernf2387 no, she should have filed for a divorce but that marriage is all she had. She did not want to give it up . Women are naïve about men. She should have just moved on
@tylernf2387
@tylernf2387 3 жыл бұрын
@@creolelady182 Ok, but he didn’t “act it out.” He told her the honest truth that he was in love with another woman. Then they were planning to move to Delaware. I don’t see how the husband is at fault for his wife murdering his mistress AT ALL. I agree, women she not be reliant on their husbands. She should of got a job 🤷
@rosalierivera8832
@rosalierivera8832 4 жыл бұрын
Why would anyone want to buy his book?
@sarahh367
@sarahh367 4 жыл бұрын
He is very narcissistic for not seeing how he alone caused this! He hurt his wife so deeply that she snapped !! Knowing that your spouse is leaving you for a younger gal is one thing ..hearing every word would be to much for anyone !! He alone caused this ..
@EricaLairson
@EricaLairson 10 ай бұрын
It was reactive abuse. He was a narcissistic asshat!
@sueallen7750
@sueallen7750 4 жыл бұрын
I'm judging. This man caused 2 deaths due to selfishness. He was married. She was married. 4 lives changed forever. 4 victims. 2 dead.
@AwfulDog1
@AwfulDog1 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Let that be a warning not to allow yourself permission to pursue temptation if you are in a committed relationship.
@liselottenormannsrensen7867
@liselottenormannsrensen7867 4 жыл бұрын
And the Oscar goes to........ The grieving husband🧐🧐
@elviragonzalez428
@elviragonzalez428 4 жыл бұрын
Youre, the one to make this MESS The remorse is to late in this situation.!!!!.
@vannagogh6725
@vannagogh6725 4 жыл бұрын
What remorse?
@GossipGyal1
@GossipGyal1 4 жыл бұрын
He was cheating ?
@sundusshaq3725
@sundusshaq3725 4 жыл бұрын
Mariam Diarra that’s my question
@chibi_rabbit
@chibi_rabbit 4 жыл бұрын
Yep he had an affair on his wife of 24 years.
@sundusshaq3725
@sundusshaq3725 4 жыл бұрын
Sally Syrup now he doesn’t have to worry abt his wife knowing. 🤣
@paulaw418
@paulaw418 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@cooliipie
@cooliipie 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone does
@dellatompkins3789
@dellatompkins3789 11 ай бұрын
Love this chaplain and pastor. Beautiful heart.
@denisetinto9538
@denisetinto9538 3 жыл бұрын
He is to be BLAME. He was too damn selfish and the mistress she got what she deserve leave married men alone.
@cocojennful
@cocojennful 4 жыл бұрын
He’s the villain!
@tylernf2387
@tylernf2387 3 жыл бұрын
Totally not the murderous stalker wife. This generation is filled with stalker girlfriends, which is why I choose to sleep around with guys. No baggage
@gricel8402
@gricel8402 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he feels guilty?
@sophialewis5474
@sophialewis5474 4 жыл бұрын
Nope. Looks like an NPD to me. If so .....has no empathy gene so doesn't feel a thing. You'll note his smirks. The smirk of the narcissist.
@irenes8689
@irenes8689 4 жыл бұрын
He doesn't
@dahlialady4131
@dahlialady4131 4 жыл бұрын
Looking at his athletic figure and hair, i bet he knew bloody well that he is an attractive guy. The poor wife, she must have been heartbroken to snap. What about the mistress husband? He should be interviewed too.
@achiengcaroline5920
@achiengcaroline5920 3 жыл бұрын
He's not attractive
@mimim7026
@mimim7026 3 жыл бұрын
Not attractive to me at all. But skinny, geeky, freckled white guys have never done it for me...
@mimim7026
@mimim7026 3 жыл бұрын
FWIW, I don't think his wife or mistress are all that sexy either.
@Palmstream_
@Palmstream_ 4 жыл бұрын
a case of "fatal attraction" gone "reversal of fortune?"
@danacole2451
@danacole2451 3 жыл бұрын
Gee he Seems Sooo Shocked! Are you kidding? He KNEW...his wife was being emotionally destroyed & he Wants the Public to buy his Book...any proceeds he gets is a Smack in Every womans Face that was cheated on..he needs to Start a Charity for Women whose Spouses Left them hanging High & Dry & Need Money for Rent & Food
@loralieisa
@loralieisa 8 ай бұрын
Men get cheated on as well. Less than a year ago a man jumped out of a high rise building because his wife was cheating on him. The fall caused his death.
@velocitygirl8551
@velocitygirl8551 4 жыл бұрын
I love that chaplain ♥️🙏♥️
@LMatison5608
@LMatison5608 3 жыл бұрын
This guy seems off. I feel like he knows more about what actually happened
@ItsAllison-ub3vx
@ItsAllison-ub3vx 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely not fully accepting responsibility for his actions. If your marriage is over, fine. But get divorced before you bring someone else into that world. Especially if someone is "completely mentally ill", like he was claiming the wife was. Very seldom do affairs make things better....🙄
@EricaLairson
@EricaLairson 10 ай бұрын
It’s called monkey branching- one of the key elements in narcissism
@EricaLairson
@EricaLairson 10 ай бұрын
Mark was the one with the personality disorder
@raquelb731
@raquelb731 4 жыл бұрын
This pastor is 💯! Challenging
@sharbear4248
@sharbear4248 3 жыл бұрын
It’s impossible not to judge Mark; if it weren’t for his choices none of it would’ve happened. I do not find him sympathetic at all.
@feliciajohnson1668
@feliciajohnson1668 4 жыл бұрын
You ruined lives sir!!!😢🔌
@samanthagaytan8747
@samanthagaytan8747 4 жыл бұрын
His fault 💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️
@anthonybock9403
@anthonybock9403 4 жыл бұрын
You play with fire sir sometimes you get burned.
@yvettemonique9080
@yvettemonique9080 4 жыл бұрын
People go through things.. relationships don't last sometimes.. sometimes people fall in love an cheat it sucks but it's LIFE he wanted to a divorce and she couldn't handle it the way she went about it was HORRIBLE.. i understand she was hurt but regardless this man is going to live his life. i pray for him.. & everybody involved.. it's sad and again it sucks but this is life everyone needs to stop blaming him like woman don't do things like this as well. she didn't deserve to get hurt but at least he was there and didn't leave her for cold.. he tried and was doing what she asked.. sometimes things just don't work out and that's okay! i wish she thought about everything before she made this decision to end the woman's life and her own.. such a sad story.
@despinacharalambous1728
@despinacharalambous1728 4 жыл бұрын
The wife believed to death do us apart. The other woman was a man thief, a cheater to her husband and was building her happiness at another womans expense. No sympathy. He is just a self-centered , faithless, scam bag.
@user-eu3qy8uf7f
@user-eu3qy8uf7f 4 жыл бұрын
@@despinacharalambous1728 True!!!
@fauxmanchu8094
@fauxmanchu8094 4 жыл бұрын
yvette monique Best comment. 💯💯💯 You're looking at both sides of the story.
@user-eu3qy8uf7f
@user-eu3qy8uf7f 4 жыл бұрын
@@fauxmanchu8094 Both sides? Yeah sure ya betcha! The side of the other woman cheating on her husband with yours. Your husband cheating on you with a married woman. Both sides lying about it till caught red handed or red something else. Both "sides" apparently forgot their marriage vows and other promises when it came time to "tickle their fancies." Its a law of life: Stay away from other people's spouses and live long and less stress and trouble. Play that stupid game and someones gonna get burned. Remember the couple caught in the car and shot to death brutally in Philadelphia-google it. Both were in committed relationships but were in that car playing "both sides." Well that ended the same way this ended. Now how 'bout that!!!
@despinacharalambous1728
@despinacharalambous1728 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-eu3qy8uf7f when they decide to cheat they would eventually take the heat. Cheating opens the door to evil which burst in with vengeance.
@nicnicolette842
@nicnicolette842 4 жыл бұрын
Selfish man he was part of what happened he needs to be held responible
@gayled1169
@gayled1169 3 жыл бұрын
I can't grasp the appeal of this man for those two women!
@diamonddia5545
@diamonddia5545 4 жыл бұрын
This can happen when one decides to cheat and not try to fix marriage ... i don't blame him but still he was the trigger
@NativeNYerChicHK
@NativeNYerChicHK 4 жыл бұрын
There is a real difference between blame and responsibility. He’s not to blame for his wife’s murderous actions but he holds a whole lot of responsibility for creating the entire situation. He’s nothing but a self absorbed douchebag.
@TheVesylum
@TheVesylum 4 жыл бұрын
imagine trying to justify murder. you get a divorce, you don't murder people.
@jcrockoo7
@jcrockoo7 4 жыл бұрын
@@NativeNYerChicHK I don't understand. He did the right thing by confessing to her and then filing for divorce.
@helenpatterson3858
@helenpatterson3858 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheVesylum I knew a guy ....actually grew up with him living next door. He was a pretty cool dude. Musician on the side while he supported his family working construction. Tim married Kim. They had 2 kids, a boy and a girl. She decided to leave him and he just said " till death do us part" and shot her dead then killed himself. Left 2 teenage kids behind.
@diamonddia5545
@diamonddia5545 4 жыл бұрын
@@NativeNYerChicHK That's it
@mrssclarkie5474
@mrssclarkie5474 3 жыл бұрын
This man is revolting 🤮
@cindyleopard3373
@cindyleopard3373 3 жыл бұрын
So what happened..Is there a part 4?
@gabrielatuyac868
@gabrielatuyac868 3 жыл бұрын
You are not the victim! You have blood in your hands.
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