6 Charming Habits That Make People Obsessed With You

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In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling.
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0:00 - Intro
0:07 - #1: Have fun
0:21 - Absurd analogies
1:09 - The mind's eye method
1:37 - Deadpan humor
2:52 - The fake walkoff
3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories
3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing
4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments
5:51 - #3: Create authenticity
6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it
7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you
7:22 - Show that you like who they are
8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke
8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble
10:05 - #6: Self validation
11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence?
12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence
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@erikn8047
@erikn8047 4 ай бұрын
All what I got from this video is: "Be more like Ryan Gosling"
@nopseudosleft56
@nopseudosleft56 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@nothingwsthesame
@nothingwsthesame 3 ай бұрын
not a bad motto
@PagesofWisdom313
@PagesofWisdom313 2 ай бұрын
And really, just be more fun :)
@veduci22
@veduci22 Ай бұрын
"Just make a banter like a Hollywood actor on a talk show for old people"
@officialDZX
@officialDZX Ай бұрын
Lol I bet it would work tho
@speakevermore
@speakevermore 4 ай бұрын
One thing I notice makes people very likable is to listen intentionally and remember things about your conversation partner, then casually mention those things in a later conversation. It makes the other person feel special for having a place in your memory.
@alexandresavardo
@alexandresavardo 3 ай бұрын
Demonstrating that you believe the other person can be interesting, and thus deserves your attention (which will provoke something to stick inside your memory most likely so you can later recall it like you mention), makes so much sense. That's a core belief of mine that helps I think: everyone has a story to share, something to teach you. Memorizing things about people can come by so naturally if you approach things this way.
@gummy5862
@gummy5862 2 ай бұрын
I mean I guess, but whenever I do that people seem to take it for granted. There’s no getting through to damaged people.
@hase8442
@hase8442 13 күн бұрын
Me with adhd forgeting even the smallest details:
@aaronlewis3378
@aaronlewis3378 10 ай бұрын
“ Want it, but don’t need it.” That’s one powerful sentence.
@taten007
@taten007 10 ай бұрын
No it’s not 😂
@paulduggan2
@paulduggan2 10 ай бұрын
Agreed 👍🏻
@iLL_WiLL_
@iLL_WiLL_ 10 ай бұрын
I think that may have stood out the most of the entire video. I liked all the suggestions, but the reassurance that you'll be OK when things don't go as you plan them is something that is so valuable. Currently it is something I struggle with, but seeing it casually mentioned like this offers a reminder and I hope one day it becomes cemented within me.
@BurnJK
@BurnJK 10 ай бұрын
Love this
@Vivi_9
@Vivi_9 10 ай бұрын
@@taten007 no u
@DrasticSkuba
@DrasticSkuba 10 ай бұрын
About 8 years ago, give or take, I heard a similar thing on one of your videos that changed my life forever. "Even if things don't go to plan, know that you'll be ok." It really turned my confidence around when I started to put it into practice. I went from a dead-end cleaning job in Scotland to having the guts to move to China for now going on 5 years as a teacher. I've made authentic friends and I am in a great relationship because I now feel comfortable navigating interactions because I WANT to have them, not because I need something from the other person. Thank you, Charisma On Command
@justjoshin7740
@justjoshin7740 6 ай бұрын
thats amazing do you speak the language ?
@DrasticSkuba
@DrasticSkuba 6 ай бұрын
@@justjoshin7740 Thanks man! As of the end of August, I am now on my 6th year here. I know just enough Mandarin Chinese to get myself into trouble, but not enough to get myself out of it :D My learning of the language isn't structured, so I know a random assortment of simple and advanced stuff, but my fundamentals are very shaky at a primary school academic level. I can manage my classroom in Chinese for the most part, but I can't always answer every random question from the kids (kids ask a lot of random things), so I need some help from my fellow room teachers from time to time
@entreprenur00
@entreprenur00 5 ай бұрын
Men, FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE - Have a strict morning routine. - Invest in stocks, bonds, shares & funds. - Income Generating Activity eg business or a farm. - Lift weights. Eat healthy. - Read books. - Learn a skill & foreign language. Have DISCIPLINE.
@onestepatatime158
@onestepatatime158 3 ай бұрын
Which of these things you do?​@@entreprenur00
@pippin45
@pippin45 10 ай бұрын
Of all the tips in this video, I think the one I have the hardest time with (and many other people, I'm sure) is mixing playful humility with genuinely accepting a compliment. The playful humility isn't necessarily the hard part, but being able to accept a compliment in genuine and charismatic way is tough!
@jaredlash5002
@jaredlash5002 10 ай бұрын
First, you need to be able to genuinely accept a compliment (no need to be charismatic, just be appreciative). A simple "thank you" with a genuine smile works. Something that I do, and which helps boost my own self-confidence, is I'll reflect on their compliment later on, and accept it at face value. Another way I work to help myself believe the compliments I'm given, is if I feel comfortable in the moment asking, I'll just ask, "Oh? What do you mean?" with a smile. That way the person complimenting me knows that I'm not offended, that I'm genuinely curious, and they have the chance to elaborate (which I can then take and reinforce the positive thoughts). If you're always turning a compliment into a joke, it tells others that you're not self-confident and you'll appear to deflect or be uncomfortable with compliments. Most nice people don't want to intentionally make someone uncomfortable so you'll stop receiving as many compliments. Also, playful humility should be readily apparent that it is a joke; would you want a friend or colleague to beat themself up in front of you if you complimented them?
@itsiwhatitsi
@itsiwhatitsi 10 ай бұрын
@@jaredlash5002 would be funny if some people would beat themselves up if you compliment them tho 🤣
@TheGeneralDisarray
@TheGeneralDisarray 10 ай бұрын
Just smile and say, "thank you, you're very sweet." or something similar
@TheGeneralDisarray
@TheGeneralDisarray 10 ай бұрын
In fact you can push this further if the compliment comes from someone you're interested, and make sure the response makes it clear you like them. Just change the word "sweet" to "beautiful/lovely" etc.
@bobthebuilderhecanbuildit
@bobthebuilderhecanbuildit 10 ай бұрын
I usually will say, “aw/wow thank you, that means a lot. my ego can never get enough compliments, please keep them coming”
@Sparks.u
@Sparks.u 10 ай бұрын
I just want to say I was so akward in highschool and your videos got me to a point where I actually can interact with people positively. I have transitioned into more stable stuff now but I was a freelance model for my early twenties and I really think a large part of my success was you teaching me a formula to apply to conversations. So thank you ❤
@MirabelHawks
@MirabelHawks 8 ай бұрын
Hello how are you doing
@noeliagutierrez4223
@noeliagutierrez4223 5 ай бұрын
How do you get into freelance modeling?
@Sparks.u
@Sparks.u 5 ай бұрын
@@noeliagutierrez4223 I had a few photographer friends ask if they could take photos of me to build their portfolio and sort of fell into it through that. Though I should say it's lots of promotions work, think car shows and bar openings. If you want to be an actual fashion model, build a portfolio, go to angencies and try to get them to represent you. If someon says they are a headhunter and approaches you on the street, always look the agency up online and call the number associated with the website, not the card the man on the street gives you as a safety measure.
@Sparks.u
@Sparks.u 4 ай бұрын
@@Nopeasaurus no it's actually pretty boring with lots of admin work. That's why most people go with agencies because it's frustrating dull to book and negotiate contracts alone. There are lots of beautiful people, there are not as many beautiful people wanting to negotiate contracts and maintain consistent working hours.
@xoxo_dd886
@xoxo_dd886 10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love Ryan cause hes a great example of an extremely likeable and confident person who everyone would love to be around
@joannacummins4839
@joannacummins4839 8 ай бұрын
Canadian eh!
@therb_
@therb_ 10 ай бұрын
Well Ryan is quick witted, and that does at least 60% of the heavily lifting in his charisma lol
@Vivi_9
@Vivi_9 10 ай бұрын
That is a skill anyone can develop
@ZeeJayBay
@ZeeJayBay 8 ай бұрын
@@Vivi_9 How?
@sathira_anuk5179
@sathira_anuk5179 8 ай бұрын
​@@ZeeJayBaypractice
@dsweet5859
@dsweet5859 Ай бұрын
@@sathira_anuk5179 facts
@DaoDepictions
@DaoDepictions 10 ай бұрын
00:16 1. Go into conversation with intention of having fun 03:27 2. Tell funny, embarrassing stories from your past 05:51 3. Create authenticity in your conversations 07:10 4. Make people feel good around you 08:58 5. Be playfully humble 10:08 6. Self validation
@fewntug3760
@fewntug3760 10 ай бұрын
Bless you
@DaoDepictions
@DaoDepictions 10 ай бұрын
@@fewntug3760 🙏🙏
@Chrisko1492
@Chrisko1492 10 ай бұрын
It‘s just the same things over and over again on this channel… I liked it when they analysed celebrities. But nowadays it‘s just the same advices you can read in any self-help book.
@walkinghills
@walkinghills 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@godloveskaren
@godloveskaren 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for doing this!
@riku575
@riku575 10 ай бұрын
after seeing this I realize that the reason I remained calm the other week in a big presentation over zoom where I had massive technical issues is because I thought the stakes weren't that high. Now I just need to apply that to other areas!
@H0ffmans_Girl
@H0ffmans_Girl 10 ай бұрын
“Do you guys need help with the cameras?” That was so funny, definitely gonna use these tips!😆
@AA-xb2zm
@AA-xb2zm 10 ай бұрын
Just pretend you are constantly in front of a camera, that will make you memorable.
@dacrazydragon
@dacrazydragon Ай бұрын
how to be ryan gosling tutorial
@lucasnikodemus8813
@lucasnikodemus8813 8 ай бұрын
I feel it's so rare to see Ford laugh out loud and the fact that Ryan is able to make him do that multiple times IN THE SAME INTERVIEW is remarkable😂🔥
@puh8825
@puh8825 7 ай бұрын
To anyone trying to "become confident" let me tell you something: confidence is not something you are born with. Confidence is a skill, a habit, or even, sometimes, an act. The "confident" people around you have spent months, maybe years developing their ways of getting around in social situations and you can do that too, it's easy, but also A LOT of effort and repetition.
@Meitti
@Meitti 4 ай бұрын
Its a mindset. When you stop caring about what others think of you, confidence in a discussion becomes really easy.
@JayM928
@JayM928 2 ай бұрын
This is the first comment I read here that wasn't fortune cookie BS. I always watch these and think, "oh, yeah? The guy that walks on stage and women scream and fall over themselves to throw their underpants at him has confidence?" And all I need to do is be more like that guy, eh? My comment was: nothing makes me more confident than realizing I should act more like someone else. Your comment makes more sense to me than the whole video. Thanks.
@rsswng
@rsswng 10 ай бұрын
Ryan is pretty much Stoicism personified - great video example!
@Matt_Nor
@Matt_Nor 10 ай бұрын
If i understand right, you may refer to the part where the award is handed out?
@sweetsupernova631
@sweetsupernova631 10 ай бұрын
“I feel a ken in you” lmao I always knew he seemed nice, is handsome, etc but did not know he was actually funny 😂
@7b8yx5b3o
@7b8yx5b3o 10 ай бұрын
Hey, I've learned so much from this channel and would like to make a suggestion for future videos to help the advice be more applicable: using more realistic examples. The celebrity examples are helpful for general principles, but they're mostly performers (celebrities, talk show hosts, etc) interacting with other performers, and the extremely larger-than-life personalities/interactions are not only extremely rare in real life among strangers/acquaintances, but people like that would come off as mentally ill. For example, where I live (Pacific Northwest), touching people at all is very odd unless you're already very close to them, and people don't usually speak in such an animated loud way. Something to consider if you're open to feedback. Regardless, this channel is grade A content, so thank you for it!
@CoreyLennox
@CoreyLennox 5 ай бұрын
Fair, but I don’t think you’d get nearly as much clicks with general principles and NOT having a famous celebrity in the thumbnail/examples!
@loveescape9848
@loveescape9848 10 ай бұрын
These videos have helped me out in my personal life and professional life. I'm less in my head and more in the present and part of me is coming out that I never knew existed and it's making me connect with people at a higher level. It's incredible how small changes in your delivery changes everything. Anyone doubting taking tips from these videos, don't doubt it. take it and own it.
@user-cg8ue5ek9q
@user-cg8ue5ek9q 10 ай бұрын
Congratulations my friend 😊
@user-cg8ue5ek9q
@user-cg8ue5ek9q 10 ай бұрын
Keep it up!
@slawck9635
@slawck9635 10 ай бұрын
How did you get so good at reading people in these different situations? Truly awesome content. I keep coming back to this channel👍
@joemomma8058
@joemomma8058 7 ай бұрын
This video just explained how to be Canadian. Humour, humility and honesty.
@finnisaloser3224
@finnisaloser3224 5 ай бұрын
How to be Ryan Gosling
@DeityOfValor
@DeityOfValor Ай бұрын
You can't
@jennyjennyable
@jennyjennyable 10 ай бұрын
I knew Ryan Gosling before he became famous. After Mickey Mouse Club. He is genuinely a super kind, very thoughtful guy. He’s a rare, unique, amazing soul.
@futuregootecks
@futuregootecks 7 ай бұрын
Wow I never paid attention to Ryan gosling before but the man is a charisma legend. Thanks for this video
@Literally_Batman_123
@Literally_Batman_123 7 ай бұрын
Step 1: be Ryan gosling
@DraxTheDestroyer
@DraxTheDestroyer 10 ай бұрын
Being yourself but being the most confident version of yourself is the safest and best thing we can do. We might not all have million experiences to share in conversations but we can all still be fun people to hang out with!
@HuugyBearInc
@HuugyBearInc 10 ай бұрын
Watching these videos every once in a while has helped alot over the last couple years!!
@aquinas_pilled
@aquinas_pilled 10 ай бұрын
It is flattering to be featured on such a popular channel. Its actually literally me in the thumbnail
@Sajjadmosaheb
@Sajjadmosaheb 7 ай бұрын
Oh this video was amazing, the best way to start your day thank you so much
@stefanravalli6940
@stefanravalli6940 4 ай бұрын
As an aside: my wife once literally saw Ryan Gosling run into LA traffic to rescue a dog. He legit rescues dogs I guess.
@TORULEZ10
@TORULEZ10 10 ай бұрын
Needed that message at the end, thanks Ben 🙏🏾
@christophercohen418
@christophercohen418 10 ай бұрын
The first joke, the Jackson Pollock joke, was also great because it was callback to a joke that the comedian to his left, Greg Davies, had made earlier in the interview.
@salomemunoz2110
@salomemunoz2110 9 ай бұрын
actually, it is the opposite. Greg said it after. He even looked at Ryan when he repeated the joke
@frances1227
@frances1227 4 ай бұрын
@@salomemunoz2110yeah ive seen those clips soo many times and I didn’t realise that until recently
@VictorYamaykin
@VictorYamaykin 10 ай бұрын
"The stakes aren't that high" - I appreciate that knowing the ground is underneath you and you're not walking a tightrope
@areyoufriendly
@areyoufriendly 5 ай бұрын
Great supportive clips 👌 Really ties together with the voiceover to make a point.
@antonsimmons8519
@antonsimmons8519 10 ай бұрын
I already do most of this stuff, but now I know how to use it consciously. Thanks.
@johannabonana5306
@johannabonana5306 9 ай бұрын
This feels so good to believe. I am living vicariously through his confidence. It's no big deal. The sun will rise once more.
@kirandeepchakraborty7921
@kirandeepchakraborty7921 10 ай бұрын
Ryan is a good man. More than that actually.
@Bonbonbon739
@Bonbonbon739 5 ай бұрын
Ryan is just a great example of a polite down to earth person
@guywhoasked903
@guywhoasked903 5 ай бұрын
"the stakes aren't that high" I needed that. Thank you so much!
@BurnJK
@BurnJK 10 ай бұрын
This is so cool. “You don’t have to be perfect for people to like you”
@theoafvp-theoafv8537
@theoafvp-theoafv8537 9 ай бұрын
My man took the im literally Ryan Gosling to a whole new level!!!
@michaelkclark6981
@michaelkclark6981 10 ай бұрын
I like the video . Thanks for posting this. Honesty is important. So is doing your job and researching before interviewing.
@eudanielramos
@eudanielramos 3 ай бұрын
Loved the video. Ryan is truly amazing!
@Pavlos_Charalambous
@Pavlos_Charalambous 4 ай бұрын
The self laugh trick were you laughing at a mistake you just made, it's actually very effective and reminded me of of an early 20th century politician and diplomat from my country It's during the talks about the peace talks after ww2 and his giving a speache in English that was basically self-told In some point he realize that he made a mistake pause gives a Naughty smile towards the camera and continues - a master piece
@mindtheprivacy
@mindtheprivacy 2 ай бұрын
Its like hes incredibly PRESENT. Amd confident in himself.
@Communication-sw6pd
@Communication-sw6pd 10 ай бұрын
The best tips I've never even heard of before! Awesome!
@aVeganMia
@aVeganMia 10 ай бұрын
A truly excellent video!!! Thanks for sharing!
@ShlomoTv
@ShlomoTv 10 ай бұрын
Awesome content like always! Thank you
@atthecore4560
@atthecore4560 10 ай бұрын
It's amazing to see just how difficult confidence is for some people. Extrovert personalities understand this better than most when they freely express themselves and receive ostracized belittlement. On the other side of the coin, Introvert personalities can have a tremendous amount of confidence when they're focused and goal oriented.
@Vampress09
@Vampress09 10 ай бұрын
What I learned from this is I need to see more Ryan Gosling interview. "Fecal Jackson Pollock" has me in stitches.
@joeymartinez7171
@joeymartinez7171 10 ай бұрын
As someone who has done charisma university, it is actually amazing and great
@syedraidarsalan4685
@syedraidarsalan4685 10 ай бұрын
Great that you finally made a video studying literally me.
@MariaEduarda-ln2ep
@MariaEduarda-ln2ep 4 ай бұрын
The guy saying "you're better than that" while Ryan is having the time of his life being Ken 😂😂😂
@godloveskaren
@godloveskaren 10 ай бұрын
Really helpful! Want more videos like this! 🙂
@Mr.Wannabe
@Mr.Wannabe 10 ай бұрын
This video is about How to never be boring in conversation and how to stop worrying and start living 🎉 Thanks a lot for this great video, hope it goes viral ❤
@anonyvatedalexander5902
@anonyvatedalexander5902 10 ай бұрын
Dale Carnegie
@Kaorak
@Kaorak 10 ай бұрын
What are the most important soft skills to have? The ability to understand people's motivations. If you don't understand people, they become arbitrary. You'll live in a world where people screw you over for no reason, and you'll waste a lot of energy being angry and depressed. You might also think people's actions have something to do with you when they don't. This will mess with your self-image and hinder your interactions with other people. You'll have a lot of trouble resolving conflicts because good conflict resolution requires both parties to see the other person's side. This will cause you to lose friends and put you at a disadvantage in your career. It also makes people hate you.
@YardenAmiel
@YardenAmiel 10 ай бұрын
He is a really funny guy! I actually laughed 3 times here 😂😂
@ABhonestopinion12
@ABhonestopinion12 9 ай бұрын
Ryan Gosling is extremely charismatic! His personality is so attractive and damn he's soooo fine!
@andyyoo8018
@andyyoo8018 10 ай бұрын
You should do a video on Shawn from Psych, he is very either 1 charismatic, or 2 just the main character.
@BartoszKa-zx4tw
@BartoszKa-zx4tw Ай бұрын
These are the people that were having mentors through their lifes and have been taught how to communicate on the best level. A person from broken family with no good look, support from close ones or money has no freaking chance to develop this kind of self confidence to be part of the 'funny' community.
@_MC529
@_MC529 10 ай бұрын
So nice of you to make a video about (literally) me :)
@patmarek1222
@patmarek1222 10 ай бұрын
Kenergy 😂 Ryan G is hilarious what a great guy to learn from ❤
@super266
@super266 5 ай бұрын
Step #1: don't forget to be handsome.
@justinbriggs1636
@justinbriggs1636 Ай бұрын
Handsome af
@pasonwheatgrass1831
@pasonwheatgrass1831 10 ай бұрын
Ryan is always well dressed and makes every interview more fun. Whereas Ken naked and in the middle of the floor makes things awkward and wondering why I am here. LOL
@WilliamJonesChess
@WilliamJonesChess 10 ай бұрын
Best Moments for me. Words in [square brackets] are my own thoughts Each key point I have put a heading for me to refer back to. But also making each key point useful for anyone reading it. For me, my top moments are Embarrassment Awareness Strategy 4:40 Compliment plus Joke 8:08 Superpower Moment 11:47 Ridiculous Comparisons 00:58 It is like the sun. I cannot stare directly at this dish towel !! Deadpan humour must lead to a smirk to show you are joking [so important to smile so then people know it is a safe space. Your face shows seriousness but you break then tension with a smile and a laugh] 02:23 Ryan to interviewer: I feel a kenergy between us. I feel a ken in you [ sounds like You have got a friend in me. Is he changing the words from Toy Story when Ryan says I feel a ken in you. This could be clever word play. In Toy Story 3, Barbie and Ken were 2 characters] Confidence Strategy 03:28 tell stories at your expense. Laugh when you tell them. ‘I wish I could say here you have to wear this but it was my idea to wear this outfit.’ Embarrassment Awareness Strategy 03:58 when you emphasize you are aware it is embarrassing, this invites others to laugh at you. Use this as a go-to story when meeting new people. 4:40 When your brain sends your toungue to investigate. Compliment plus Joke 08:08 You know I cant do the string dance. No one can. I had a friend die trying to do the string dance. [This is so funny. I don't know about you, dear reader, but I burst out laughing here !] Calmness Serenity Outlook 11:00 I thought someone had been hurt. Turns out they just read the wrong name off the card. [ High quality perspective moment by Ryan] Superpower moment perspective 11:47 It is a superpower to go into a conversation knowing you don’t need anything from it. Want it don’t need it.
@godloveskaren
@godloveskaren 10 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊.
@WilliamJonesChess
@WilliamJonesChess 10 ай бұрын
@@godloveskaren You are very welcome. Which was your favourite point? Out of these 3 points which I mentioned at the top Embarrassment Awareness Strategy 4:40 Compliment plus Joke 8:08 Superpower Moment 11:47 It is the last one on Superpower Moment 11:47 How about you?
@godloveskaren
@godloveskaren 10 ай бұрын
@@WilliamJonesChess superpower
@MirabelHawks
@MirabelHawks 8 ай бұрын
Hello how are you doing
@MirabelHawks
@MirabelHawks 8 ай бұрын
Hello how are you doing
@SteveFriederang
@SteveFriederang 8 ай бұрын
Well done!
@sirkyan9463
@sirkyan9463 8 ай бұрын
I don’t even know why I am watching this, since I am already literally Ryan Gossling 😌🙃
@infiniteaaron
@infiniteaaron 7 ай бұрын
I don’t need more friends. I’ve got too many as it is. Haha. Thank you for sharing this video!
@ibobomarvel9778
@ibobomarvel9778 3 ай бұрын
my best part of this video is " Want it don't need it, u'll have another opportunities and no matter what, u'll be okay".
@Jml15
@Jml15 10 ай бұрын
Great episode!
@FactXpert-ok4hp
@FactXpert-ok4hp 5 ай бұрын
Confident is the Freedom of doing anything you want to do. You can get this freedom if you dont expect something from outside, because then you try hard to get this or force that. Hava simple goals for example: A funny conversation, not a that they like you only funny. Or anything else. And if you accept yourself with your strenghts and weaknesses the meaning of other peoble become irrelevant because you know what you are and what you want you dont need a meaning from outside. Thats also the trick to become fearless in society because noone and nothing can hurt you or bring you out of concept because have your own very strong meaning of yourself and about what you want from live. Take this mindset if you want to become free in society. Much Success!
@deedeewhipple4668
@deedeewhipple4668 5 ай бұрын
Wow, I didn't know I liked Ryan Gosling so much. Thanks for the video.
@dennisni5600
@dennisni5600 10 ай бұрын
the video made me a Ryan Gosling fan. no joke the way he is just super good. you have to take over.
@martinmiller7241
@martinmiller7241 Ай бұрын
Fantastic video! Thanks!!
@funnytv-1631
@funnytv-1631 10 ай бұрын
Every life has positive and negative ingredients that make up one’s history. Take a moment to let gratitude move through you now. Every pain that has grown into wisdom. Everything you know now that you did not know before. Ask how much you like who you are and create kindness around your answer, no matter what it is. Know that you have power over who you want to be.
@grosesful
@grosesful Ай бұрын
I've noticed sometimes when I'm having a conversation especially with ppl i don't know i feel i got nothing to lose and throw one pun after the other, also many people tell me a lot that even though i don't talk much, when I do say wonderful things
@evermoore66665
@evermoore66665 10 ай бұрын
Guy in the thumbnail is literally us.
@SemiSweetNilla
@SemiSweetNilla 3 ай бұрын
Gosling is a good role model in social skills and attitude.
@zerospecs2331
@zerospecs2331 9 ай бұрын
2:28 The interviewer at this point was hysterical 😆😆😂
@amossivan3819
@amossivan3819 10 ай бұрын
Please do a video on RFK Jr's technique of using "the high ground maneuvar"
@Canadian_Networth
@Canadian_Networth 3 ай бұрын
I think you just have to be so happy with your life and situation that it just exudes from you. Someone who is suffering financially and not doing well just can’t feel like stirring up a convo
@chrishaugh1655
@chrishaugh1655 7 ай бұрын
11:56 straight up ripped that line right out of Matthew McConaughey's book Green Lights lol...
@trazle_1379
@trazle_1379 7 ай бұрын
Got it become Ryan gosling
@goose003
@goose003 9 ай бұрын
Jajjajajajaja i knew it. I even said " it's like Ryan wanted to play this role his entire life!" Jajjaaja niiiiiice I knew it
@kerrj7285
@kerrj7285 2 ай бұрын
Damn he smooth!
@try_wk4687
@try_wk4687 9 ай бұрын
im thankful u made a video over me
@CR-wb1cc
@CR-wb1cc 11 күн бұрын
This video is full of good advice that could even be used to have a friendly feeling with a stranger which can also be cool, on the other hand I think you have to be careful not to get a notebook in which you will try to respect all the requirements of this video. The problem is that human interactions and seduction are very complex, much too complex to be calculated in advance and during, that's why like Whether you're a racing driver or a musician, it's so intutive that thinking about it slows it down makes it less natural and can cause the crash by taking the example of the racing driver. So for me the best is to take the advice of this video, have them in mind but don't try to articulate around it during a conversation otherwise you lose your naturalness and then you lose absolutely all the charm of a human being
@melodysplay9156
@melodysplay9156 10 ай бұрын
I've watched all videos from this channel and thought I could use the knowledge i got, but in actual application I freeze and forget what to say 😂
@sancho608
@sancho608 9 ай бұрын
Because that’s not your natural behavior
@helloryantanaka
@helloryantanaka 10 ай бұрын
Excellent video.
@curiousconsultant7922
@curiousconsultant7922 9 ай бұрын
Besides the point but "The Nice Guys" is such an underrated movie
@abduxamidov1314
@abduxamidov1314 10 ай бұрын
Mr. Charlie it would be great if you create content on Threads as well. We're waiting for you there.
@geoeira
@geoeira 12 күн бұрын
thanks for that last tip
@joebadgley3630
@joebadgley3630 7 ай бұрын
This is why we have leaders and followers and thats the difference. Can be thought to an extent but the true leaders see things rather quickly and read situations and individuals to know how and where to go with others and THAT isn't something one can learn.
@aly.campos
@aly.campos 10 ай бұрын
ryan gosling is That Girl for so many reasons
@jeremy_logan
@jeremy_logan 10 ай бұрын
😂as someone who has to drink 4 beers just hang out with my best friend, I'm gonna need to keep watching your videos
@heyrobgray
@heyrobgray 5 ай бұрын
So be Ryan Gosling. Got it.
@sujeethange8033
@sujeethange8033 10 ай бұрын
This is so good
@dewidukongchannel7712
@dewidukongchannel7712 10 ай бұрын
the ability to speak without feeling bored has many benefits in various aspects of life, both in personal relationships and career.
@L-BOZO1223
@L-BOZO1223 10 ай бұрын
Loved this video
@DryEther
@DryEther 10 ай бұрын
Liar
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr 8 ай бұрын
Just really enjoyed the video 10/10✨.. and lot of information to develop and be the Charming man
@JoeMama-bg1im
@JoeMama-bg1im 2 ай бұрын
i literally thought in my mind "well i would say 'its like looking at the sun' but he probably wouldn't say something like that"
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