The Family Heirloom story- Um, if I had to make the choice between going into debt or selling my cheating ex-fiancé’s family engagement ring, I would DEFINITELY sell the ring. Does he really expect her to take the debt AND give the ring back, when it’s ALL his fault? The ring being sold is HIS fault. Those are the consequences of his actions. Idk why people are like “that’s so messed up” so is breaking a girl’s heart and then leaving her in debt WTF?? Actions have consequences. People are soft.

For the first story: if the ring meant that much to him and his family, he wouldn't have shrugged it off. She offered to give it back even though she didn't have to. Once it was given over, it's legally hers and she can do with it as she wants, heirloom or not. And, since he decided not to help with the costs, I don't blame her for selling it. Hell hath no fury, buddy.

An engagement ring was meant to ensure that a man would stay faithful to his promise of marriage. Back in the day, men might get engaged to get sex, then break up and the woman's reputation was sullied (if they married it was not). If the breakup was his fault, she was entitled to sell the ring to support herself since marriage with anyone "decent" would be off the table. That poster damn well had every right to sell that ring. Hope he learned his lesson to not give heirlooms to someone he was not serious about.

Every time I hear the first story about the ring I laugh. He's the only one to blame, she told him multiple times and it would've been nice if she reached out to the family before selling but he laid his bed multiple times w poop then got mad he had to lay in it. I honestly believe anyone who thinks she's the only AH in the situation are bad people who either excuse cheating or have no sense of responsibility for their choices.

Judge Judy says that the ring is a symbol of a promise; he broke that promise, girl keeps the ring. She's not the ahole.

A woman I've been friends with since we were barely out of diapers was cheated on by her fiance. She took the engagement ring and smashed it with a 15 pound metalworking hammer. It was a $20K USD ring. She had the ruined diamonds reset and a hook formed in it so she could wear it as a charm on her necklace. They worked together, so he got to see it daily for ten years. She is one of the many Queens of Petty.

Story 1. She asked him for help paying for the cancelled wedding. She told him to get the ring multiple times over multiple weeks. He bragged to friends that he read it and said op wouldn't dare. She warned him shed sell it to offset going into debt. She is NOT the AH. He is. He could have picked up the ring. Hope she saved those messages, cause that WILL hold up in court.

The heirloom story.... NTA, she was cheated on and gave two warnings, he had an opportunity to collect the ring, especially as it was 'sentimental' and 'precious' but the cheating gollum underestimated her. If he hadn't cheated she wouldn't have needed to sell the ring to pay for wedding debts in the first place. I love this amount of petty. Much love from London, England 🇬🇧 ❤️

For the 1st one: any of the commenters saying she is horrible for selling a family heirloom, it’s the son’s fault. He obviously didn’t care enough about his own family’s feelings or about this heirloom if he said SEVERAL times he DIDNT care. So, no. She is not the AHole. She kept her promise and gave him AMPLE time and warnings only to be ignored and not just that but he KNEW the friend would tell her about how he didn’t care so he indirectly said it to her face. She is NOT the ahole, he is. And that family should be pissed at HIM not her for this. He’s the one that never went to get it back, he also cheated on the woman he gave that ‘precious’ heirloom to and he !!!!GAMBLED!!!! that heirloom. If anything, he should be made to buy it back for the family and never given the right to have it for any future marriage he may weasel himself into. Edit: love all your comments! Also I would like to add that legally she does not need to give the ring back because it is considered a gift. Wedding rings legally belong to those that you give them to. He wouldn’t have much legal backing if he tried to sue 🤷🏻‍♀️ only wish I had kept my ex-fiancé’s ring when his dumbass decided to be dumb and sold that sucker 😂

I feel bad for the first family that they birthed such an ahole that would cheat, causing the end of the engagement, then refuse to help push for THEIR wedding because he thought she was weak. Truth is, he knows she's a good person, or at least tries to be so he thought she'd be a push over. Nice people get sick of being taken advantage of.

For that last story, if the bride wanted it to be a surprise wedding, she could have easily just said please don't wear any white, cream, off-white, etc. or just have a color theme like "hey, we are having a party and I think it would be fun if everyone wore blue" and message people she knows she wants to be in the bridal party to wear a different color than the other guests. Proper planning and there would have been no issue, just having people show up in whatever kind of opens the doors for others wearing white instead of the bride.

With the first story, absolutely not the ah. She offered to give it back to him after he tried to screw her over in more ways than one, he said he didn't care and tried calling her bluff on it too. That fact that he wait til a year along and ONLY tried to get it back when she told him it was sold, tells you how indifferent he was about it and he most likely one gave a damn when it hit him of how pissed his family was going to be when they would find out that the family heirloom is now gone because of his lazy, apathetic, worthless ass couldn't grow up enough to take responsibilities for his own fuck up. Op gave him more time than I would have, because I wouldn't even have told him it was sold.

For the last story, can we just bring up the point again that after she found out it was a wedding, she offered to LEAVE because she was wearing white? Like, that's a good friend right there, but no, the bride is just gonna say "it's fine" and then be mad about it later. You can't spring a wedding like that and be mad when it's not "picture perfect".

I was at a large (roughly 200ppl) wedding once, where the cake was nearly 3 hours late due to rain then when it arrived the delivery person DROPPED it! The bride's aunt just hustled to the local grocery stores and bought ALL the cakes while the bride actually smiled and danced and did NOT let any of it ruin her day. That girl was a class act!!!

I want to know why, when we stand up for ourselves, we are considered in the wrong? the woman who sold the family heirloom was not the AH. she gave Mr. cheater 2 chances to get it back, even after he had crapped on her and disrespected her by thinking she was too gutless to stand up for herself. she did what she needed to and those who don't understand must be doormats and let themselves be run over and used. BTW Charlotte, love the hot 🔥 pink blazer!

For the heirloom story originally wedding rings were meant for a way for the bride to have some money if something happened to the groom. When women couldn’t get everyday jobs or any jobs and had to be a housewife they couldn’t get money, if the groom/ husband died or cheated the woman would be able to sell the ring to get a decent amount of money to stay a float for a while, while looking for a new partner. So the bride used it for its original intended purpose.

The first story - if the ring was so important to him and his family he should have made it a priority to get back. He literally responded with “I don’t care” when she threatened to sell it.

Fun fact: under contract law in order for a contract to exist “consideration” needs to be given between the parties. It can be as low as £1 but needs to be worth at least that. Engagement rings are the original form of consideration and were genuinely supposed to be so if a man pulled out, and the woman was an old maid and her reputation hurt so she couldn’t find a new suitor, the ring would be to support her life afterwards. Not quite as romantic as it seems eh.

The heirloom story: he expected her to have high moral values regarding the ring but didn’t return that same energy with the wedding expenses

I got married in late November. My best friend at the time, who was also going to be my maid of honor, invited me to a Halloween costume party at her place. I dressed as a lady of the evening, black lace jacket, black fishnet tights, high heels,red satin dress with slits up both sides, blonde wig and heavy make up. Imagine my horror when I opened the door and everyone was facing it, yelling "Surprise! Oh yeah, I was certainly surprised! It was my wedding shower...

Honestly, on that last one, if I were the bride and throwing a surprise wedding and my friend who I wanted to be my MOH showed up in white, we’d both be laughing our asses off the entire night. Making jokes about the groom forgetting who was the bride and shit like that. It would be a great story for years to come! But that’s just me and the way I look at things sometimes.

My best friend was with this nightmare of a man for 7 years, they got engaged and bought a house together. The wedding planning commences and she's doing most the work, as usual. Months pass and she walks in on her fiances doing the devil's tango with the girl he told her not to worry about. They break up and he refuses to deal with the house, she contacts him over and over nothing. She is left to deal with the house entirely on her own. Since he involved himself in exactly zero way she got to take all the money they made on the house after selling it. The house went up 80k in market value and she got to keep all that money to herself!

My parents did a surprised wedding too. At first, they pretended it was a big party to celebrate their 25th years of love, and only me, my lil brother and the celebrant (a family friend) knew that it would then transform into a wedding celebration. The thing is, my mother didn't want a big white dress since, you know, she didn't felt like a young virgin anymore after getting two sons that were now grown adults (we were both chosen to sign the papers at witnesses, it was pretty cool tbh). So she decided to celebrate in a cream casual dress, that was way more fitting to her style and taste anyway. The thing is, my aunt (mom oldest sister) came to the party in an incredibly detailed edwardian white dress... So yeah, it could have been awkward, but fortunately, nobody cared. First because that aunt had always been obsessed with edwardian clothes so it wasn't the first time she showed up dressed like that, and will not the last time too (I know since I've lived with her an entire year 'cause she lived closer to my university, and yes, her entire lifestyle and wardrobe is edwardian, it is not just for show when she's going outside). Second because everyone was just so happy and emotional over my parents finally getting married after so much time. So yeah, nobody could have stolen the show since everyone was so overjoyed by the surprise. And third, nobody knew it would have been a wedding, so why get mad? Moral of the story, if you're focused on having a good time, your wedding will be incredible, and that's it. Seeing my parents so happy inspired me a lot for my own wedding, so my husband and I got a really simple ceremony that we ended up enjoying a lot exactly because the simplicity and the low cost made all the stress go away. 10/10 would recommand to anyone.

For the story where she was uninvited because she couldn't bring cake: She would be petty if 30 people were at the ceremony and she wasn't invited, she's not petty when there are 150 people involved.

The wedding ring is an investment- AND a safety net for the bride in case the marriage is in bad faith. For situations JUST LIKE THIS. Plus if you don't want to risk losing a family heirloom don't give it to someone else, especially if your doing things that could cause the person you gave the heirloom too to no longer consider you family. Exs family shouldn't be mad at OP they should be mad at their son who played dumb games with something so important to them.

For that last story?? The bride demanded that her friend should wear a very specific, form-fitting dress to a surprise wedding after she RECENTLY GAVE BIRTH and had the gall to be angry at her friend for not being able to wear that specific dress?? That girl needs to throw the whole entire bride out the door, wow!

for the first story: if i was the grandmother i woud've been like "go girl i truely love ya to bad we dont get to be realated you absolute queen

Charlotte I’m a 57 yr old man and I truly enjoy all your vids. I watch them while killing time on my midnight shifts. Been married to a wonderful woman since 1999 and can say no drama at my wedding. Keep up the great work!

Pink power suit? Yes ma’m I WILL join your all female rock band. ELLE WOODS WHO?!?

On top of the wedding in the last story being a surprise, OP offered to not attend/step down as maid-of-honor once it was revealed what the situation was, and her friend insisted she do both. I don't think she gets to complain about the wedding being ruined if an out was offered and she didn't take it.

Story 1 - NTA. He got everything he deserved. The only thing she might have done prior to selling the heirloom, was offer to sell it to her ex’s family directly, prior to selling it online.

At first I was mortified that she would sell that ring, but by the end of the story my petty would have removed the stones and melted the gold, then sold it all separately. Good luck with that family curse buddy!

My husband and I got married two hours after it was announced that is was legal in our state. We got married on the steps of the county courthouse in a hurry fearing another court ruling could stop us. There was no time to invite family or friends. But there were over 100 other couples either getting married, just having been married or waiting to be married all around us. We each got a rose and hugs from the County Executive, and several hugs from random people passing by. It was a lovely wedding!

I worked with a man a few years ago and my husband and I received an invitation to a Memorial Day cookout at his house and told to come wearing extremely casual clothes. Everyone showed up in jeans or shorts or sundresses. We had a lovely catered BBQ and after everyone had pretty much finished eating, the man asked everyone to gather in the backyard for a few minutes. Once we were all in place he got up and called a man forward and said that this man was Reverend So and So and he was there to perform his wedding ceremony. NO ONE, to my knowledge, had a clue we were going to a wedding, and he later said that he deliberately did not mention what it was because he felt that if he had told us that it was a wedding, but he wanted everyone to dress casually and he didn't want anyone to bring a present, some people would have gone against his wishes and dressed up and/or brought a present anyway. He's probably right. I thought, hands down, that was the best, most low stressed wedding I had ever attended.

With the first story,the fact that she was the only one paying for the wedding should be a red flag for her..

After watching a lot of videos from this series I was surprised how many people value the wedding more than the marriage. I don't know, maybe I got lucky having a wife that values us more than a dress.

The first story, she might have asked the family to buy it back, but mostly a ring from great granny is less important, than suffocating in debt! It did not seem importand to her ex in any case.

The bride in the last story could honestly have turned that into a hilarious memory. Imagine a photo of the bride in her wedding dress and the MOH in her white lace dress both pointing at each other and laughing. That's a unique moment that you wouldn't have gotten if the wedding hadn't been a surprise. But instead of being positive, she let it ruin her day.

My mother had inherited many priceless heirlooms from my great grandmother who traveled the wotld in the early 1900s. She spent her life collecting things such as cloisonne jewelry from China, a riding crop with hidden dagger from Egypt, Arabian swords and maps etc. My dad was a drug addict and got into my moms trunk of treasures, stealing almost everything to pawn for drug money. She didn't find out until some time later after they divorced. She didn't ever really get into the trunk so that's why she didn't notice sooner. It was suppose to be a safe place for them to be kept. They were to be handed down to my brother and I but now there is NOTHING for us to inherit. That was literally it. We are not wealthy people by any means and there is no way to replace what was lost. These items woulf have been worth a fortune now.

For the heirloom piece, she was NTA. Even setting aside the fact that he was a total A for cheating and still planning a wedding, that he also didn’t contribute towards monetarily, (which in my opinion is justification enough to make someone be petty and sell a family heirloom) but she was still nice enough to offer it back to him. He sat on it and acted like he didn’t care. IMO, this was karma and at least she got some money back that was wasted on the cheating ex.

The first story NTA She warned him and he called her bluff plus screwed her over by cheating and on the money spent on the wedding. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

With him not chipping in or co-signing on the Loan is a RED FLAG. If he really wanted that ring back especially if it was a Family Heirloom he should of helped his ex pay for the wedding. She gave him plenty of chances. He GAVE her that ring in what is essentially a down payment on their life together. He blew it

The last story sounds like something that would happen with me and my bestie. Although it would be totally fun to surprise my bestie with a last minute wedding we have rules against it. Since high school we always find a way to dress alike even without trying. For prom she had her dress custom made and spent a lot of time designing the dress and finding a seamstress she could afford that could do the work. I bought the first dress I tried on because I didn't want to go, I knew my mother would approve of the dress, and I knew my mother would disapprove of anything I wanted to wear. Long story short we wore the same dress. Thank GOD it was different colors and material and we are very different sizes so a first glance you wouldn't tell. But if we stood next to each other long enough you would see it's the same dress. It never bothered us though we still laugh about it. However, some people thought I did it on purpose and knowing she worked really hard to get the money to buy her dress when mine was only 80 dollars, think that I am some kind of stalker ahole.

The Italian comment brought me to tears. It’s so true. 150 people wouldn’t even cover the immediate aunts and uncles in an Italian family. 🤣👏🏻

The ring story: what she should’ve done is pawned the ring. Take the cash, pay off the loans then give him the pawn ticket. If he wanted it back he could paid back the pawn. 😂

NTA in the first story, he cheated and refused to pay his fair share. She warned him that she was going to sell it, it's on him that he didn't go and get it as soon as he could.

Honestly, I don't think grandma would be too happy at the fact he cheated on her to begin with so I like to think his great grandma was up in heaven going, "Show him you mean business girlie!"

For the story about the girl that sold the family heirloom ring, she should have kept it and said he could get it back when she finished paying off the expenses for the wedding. Also, honestly either way NTA because I mean come on. He proposed to her with the family heirloom, cheated on her, when she paid for almost everything if not everything he refused to pay her back anything, he then underestimated her, she even warned him several times without him even attempting to come to an agreement or even responding (which ghosting someone that you once ‘loved’ and were engaged to that now has $20,000 worth of loans to pay back on a day that was meant for the both of you and that at the time she wouldn’t have had to worry about paying back because she could’ve if they had gotten married and I mean I don’t think it was the best decision for her to pay for everything but its kinda hard to prepare for something like that when you’re under the impression that you will be together forever). So yea, she is not the A-hole at all but to the shitty ex-fiancé….. Sucks to suck dude, and too bad🙃

"I thought I was the queen of petty" - Charlotte 😀 . You are definitely the queen of petty . We also know you are assiduously preparing for the role of Aunt Charlotte for your future nephews and nieces ("with great petty comes great responsibility") 😁 .

I've attended a surprise wedding before; all the brides' maid, groomsmen, and the parents were in on the secret, while all the guests attending didn't know. That's probably the best way to do surprise weddings. Everybody in the wedding party was color-coordinated and the only person wearing white was the 6-year-old flower girl.

Hehe, I had platenum blond hair at the time of my brothers wedding. But his wife’s family convinced her that my hair would overshadow/outshine her in her white dress.🙄 so they tried to gang up on me to get me to DYE it to whatever color they chose that they considered ‘natural’ and a ‘background color’.🙄😂 (that’s after I payed for almost the entire bridal shower, and personally did the most physical work for their wedding prep, and kept everything realistic (a lot of crazy people) so that it would all work out.) it was so stupid, and out of spite I kept my hair platinum and hold the reputation of many of the guests for looking drop dead gorgeous😂😂😂 and I regret nothing.

As I have seen her channel over the years I do realize how talented this girl is! Besides having a funny personality and being gorgeous ; she is talented! She can sing and act … she deserves the 2 million subscribers!

girl, you are rockin that pink blazer. Love your fashion sense.

For the last Story: I would have laughed so hard about my MOH showing up in white for my surprise wedding and the running gag of the day would be that it's us who would get married and not me and my husband :'D

LOVE THE PINK BLAZER, love all the accents, LOVE EVERY BUT OF CHARLOTTES. But, duh, right? Hilarious as always! Never change 💜

Your wedding related material is my favorite especially Bridezillas!!! Thanks for making me smile and laugh♡♡♡

I got married in 2020 and I had maybe 15 people. It was outside in a park and it was perfect. I was low key happy to use the covid as an excuse to keep it extra small. No one got mad, everyone understood. And there were a few my husband and I didn’t want to invite so it worked out. Lol

I imagine grandma was rolling in her grave when her shitty grandson gave away her ring with no intention of living up to its meaning. HE tarnished the ring. And if it was so important, he should have gotten it back immediately instead of playing and getting played. Boo boo to him, and if his family can’t see it, boo hoo to them too.

"CEO of Petty" LOVE IT! Keep the blazer it looks really good!😊

Thanks to these videos i have all sorts of advice and ideas to do and not to do for my wedding, thank you so much Charlotte for this great content!

Yeah so.. I was very recently uninvited from an old friend's wedding citing health concerns. I was invited instead to an interactive livestream of the wedding. Turns out that I was the only one in the chatroom of the interactive livestream besides a few of her older relatives, which makes me think it wasn't just health concerns. And to add insult to injury, the livestream was clearly an afterthought at best. It started and ended promptly at the start and end of the ceremony, and it was filled sideways. Not just sideways, but sideways in portrait mode! So a horrible viewing experience and I didn't even get to be a part of the reception at all. Even though it was virtual, I literally got dressed up like I was going IRL and I even bought Champaign so I could toast with everyone. It was a huge letdown. I also haven't heard from said "friend" since even though I reached out to her by text after the wedding to wish her well and everything. Obviously, she just decided that she didn't want to be friends anymore and didn't have the "heart" (guts) to tell me directly. Oh well, good riddance.

The last one couldn't possibly have known there was going to be a wedding. What is wrong with people? If you want control over dress code, then tell people what's going on.

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My parents had 400 people at their wedding… they most certainly would not have been able to plan a wedding during a pandemic lol. Glad the bride stuck up for herself and didn’t invite her”friend” to the wedding. It’s very obvious that that first bride wanted her cake and eat it too! The fact that she would even ask where her invitation was to OP’s wedding either shows that she is very entitled, or just expected not to get caught in the act of using the bride. Know your worth! Don’t let somebody get away with using you.

For the first story, if the guy really was serious about the ring, he would've agreed immediately to help pay the expenses. But nope, he was too prideful and tempted fate with the "you wouldn't do it" that's literally asking for trouble and that's what he got. He rather not help pay so the consequences of his actions led to a family heirloom being sold. The question is why didn't his family advice him to help pay the debt so that the ring can be returned? it's like a ransom, they do this, they get the ring back, but didn't so it's goodbye great grandma's ring. If the family really wants the ring, the guy might as well buy the ring for the family ;P

“With great petty comes great responsibility.” 😂😂 I am LOVING the girl from the first post. NTA. Not even a little bit. She warned him TWICE!

The last one sounds like a prime example my mother would give me against surprises. Like, the last time my fiancé surprised me with a visit, it was just.... horribly planned. little financial shortages, people scrambling to prep, just,,, yeah. he's planning on visiting for my birthday next year (it's very early in the year) and we are planning much better than the last time. If you're going to throw a surprise, you have to anticipate 1) being fully and completely prepared for anything, and 2) anything the victim of your surprise might do when they are under a different impression about what's happening

Ok Charlotte, I have been watching you for quite a while now. You are the funniest!! OMG you're my daily addiction 😂

1st story: In many (but not all) places the family heirloom is returnable. I would have suggested approaching the ex-fiance's parents about their AH son and the ring to bargain for compensation for costs. Mummy & Daddy can take it out of AH's hide afterwards and maybe save the heirloom for a sibling instead.

As someone who has been a bride, weddings can be extremely stressful, expensive, and mentally and physically draining. So, I can see now why some brides can crack under the pressure. My wedding was small (like thirty people) and I later learned that some drama had gone down between the bridesmaids, but my best friend and MOH did her best to keep it all away from myself and my husband. It's not like I would have blown up at anyone, but my BF and MOH knew that I had been waiting for a year and a half for this day (hubby and I were separated 2020 - mid 2021 because of COVID restrictions. He's English, I'm Australian) so a lot was riding on it.

That's what engagement rings are for, they are promissory notes!

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It really depends on the size of the family and culture. I had a 150 people wedding and that was considered very small in the Slavic community. People have around 400 people at the average Slavic wedding. Also I have a giant family. My family alone was around 90 people, we didn’t even invite all our relatives… I have 9 siblings, Both my parents have 6 siblings. Imagine how fast that adds up once you add kids and spouses, not to mention some cousins, great uncles etc. my grandpa was one of 13 ...

Sharing my messy coworker story: Not as a teacher but during my time at Extended Day (after school program), an old friend from middle school started working at the program. We were initially extremely excited and caught back up since we used to be like best friends, but I soon found she grew to be very immature and petty. I wasn’t too psyched working beside her since she treated the kids like friends but I did like getting the opportunity to talk with someone I was fond of…until she started getting messy. She told me she was best friends with my husband’s ex wife which was shocking (what are the odds of that?) Not only that but 1. She knew the ex had been cheating for months and let it go on at her place 2. she literally wanted to make us all friends again…not kidding…long story short, his ex was the girl who consoled me when my husband and I originally broke up in high school, then started dating him literally a week later. I didn’t even learn this from her, another friend told me to check her Facebook…classy. My husband didn’t even know we had been friends and that she played both of us like a fiddle back then until I showed him the message log years later+ her cheating so he definitely didn’t want to be friends with her either! We are homebodies who just like to relax without drama but her presence in my work-life became an every day stressor. The old friend started trash talking my husband’s mother. She is the sweetest lady in the world, non-meddling, and very passive so it was a little weird that she even had those sorts of complaints. I told my husband who of course didn’t like that and sent her a message to please stop talking about his mom. She blew up on him with paragraphs of nonsense and he just left it on read. After that, she started telling the CHILDREN at school-yes, the CHILDREN-that I was dating “her best friend’s ex-husband.” I was just like… 😰!! My boss at the time was really lax and he didn’t feel it was as big enough issue as I did so I went above him to the program lesions who said they would move her to another program. Problem solved, right? Nope. My boss mistakenly overbooked our program by like 20 or so kids and we needed another worker to stay in ratio so to my surprise, I come back the next year and she was still present at the program. I tried to make it work but it didn’t take long until she started with her antics again so I got fed up and left to a different school myself. This whole situation soured my relationship with my boss since I was shocked he didn’t care and he was shocked by how I was handling the situation. He felt I should have just dealt with it since you won’t always get along with who you work with…which is true, but this dilemma went far beyond that in my opinion. She was sharing my personal life with children. That was just so unprofessional and weird! It made for an unnecessarily uncomfortable environment and I felt embarrassed being near kids and parents I had previously worked with for two years…I had worked with them since 3rd grade and missed their 5th grade goodbye walk around school leaving…it was heartbreaking. If not for that situation, I probably would have worked at that school as a teacher since it’s one of the most prestigious schools in my city with awesome parent support, having worked at the after school program there, and my parents were friends with the principal’s family. I did end up at a great drama-free school close to my house though. I was blessed with the exact school and grade I was interested in and got to adopt/inherit the resources and skills of a wonderful 40 year teacher. I hope to never see that girl again and I PRAY she does not become a teacher… 😥

Omygosh…you are a wonderful human! I appreciate you! 👍❤️

Love you amazing pink judge jacket! Need the lip combo from the Petty Queen!

I was invited to a wedding were the dress code was "sand colours or white". You cannot take the spotlight from the bride and groom because they are THE BRODE AND GROOM! In said wedding (next to a beach) the couple even changed and wore clothes that didn't tell them part. We still all new they were the bride and groom and honestly it was the best wedding I have ever been to!

The second story about the number of people invited to a wedding: If they want you there then you WILL get invited. My friend got married at the height of covid. Beach wedding. 30 people total, including the catering, photographer, essential family like parents, and guests. She wanted me there. I mean REALLY wanted me there. So much, so that she bumped a cousin whose kid is literally named after her JUST so I could have a +1, and then arranged for that +1 to be someone whose sole purpose in getting invited was to drive me to the venue. I don't drive, so this sole act right there is the yardstick by which I measure every person who makes excuses for why they can't get something done.

That last one is such a series of unfortunate events. The bride could have said, "just not white because we've booked a really fun photographer and have a cool idea and its gotta be a dark color"

Thank you Charlotte for not doing horrifically long introductions in your videos 🥰❤️

30k left to the 1 million mark!!!! Let’s do this Tater Tots! We can get Miss Charlotte beyond the milestone and make her a legend! Well, she’s already a legend but more people will know just how legen-wait for it-dary she truly is!

"I thought I was the Queen of Petty" You are not the Queen of Petty. You are the *Goddess of Petty*

That pink is gorgeous and Charolette looks gorgeous in it!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕

Always love your makeup, Charlotte. :)

My one petty wedding idea: for the guests I feel obligated to invite, I might put loose glitter in the envelopes with the invitations.

If you uninvite someone to your wedding how are you expecting to get invited to theirs? 🤔

i love your videos and your face. your smile makes me smile. and the scandals!🥰

Gorgeous blazer! Rocking it Charlotte!

I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather, Charlotte! I know it's been a while, but I'm still sending you and your family positive energies.

Am I the only one that would love to go to Charlotte's wedding?! Watching her entertain me every day I feel like I know her 😅

Love the blazer I was just thinking I need a pink blazer. Get out of my head!!!!😂

I love your pink jacket!!! It looks beautiful on you!!! 💕💕💕

Never take a loan out to have a wedding.

Personality on point. Power pink suit on point. WE LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE ♡♡

With respect to the first story, consequences. Tough luck for Jake. P.S You rock that pink blazer!!!

Love your videos! You can always get me lol

Laughing with Miss Charlotte makes my day. Grieving the loss of her grandfather 🥺 with the rest of her community makes us all family. Sending you prayers and hugs Miss Charlotte. ❤️‍🩹

The last wedding situation, since it was an accident and such it could've been spun into a cute old timey tradition where bridesmaids wore similar dresses to fool bad spirits/intentions. I feel as though it could've still been a positive and bride decided to focus on the downside even when it was by her own design

Absolutely love your personality 💕

❤❤❤ sending positive vibes and love to one of the few realist youtubers in the game. XOXOXO ❤❤❤