My wedding officiant offered, as part of his services "Point me to the one or two most unmanageable relatives and I will befriend them at the rehearsal party and keep them engaged during the reception so that they don't cause drama." and we added a $200 bottle of scotch to his payment because he did such a great job at that.

I'm so tired of this narrative that men are dragged into marriage and miserable. If your so.miserable there's divorce or idk, just don't ask in the first place.

To make a woman terrified her soon-to-be husband is saying "I do not" the night prior to the actual wedding is so messed up I just don't understand what was going through their brains to think that this was a good or a funny idea at all I would immediately kick them all out of the wedding.

For anyone who’s worried, it doesn’t get sad after 30. It gets SO MUCH BETTER. Dating when you’re financially stable, secure with yourself and established as an individual saves so much time. Found my wonderful guy after 30, and have never been happier. I also had lots of people tell me I was wasting my “prime years”. What a sickening and antiquated ideology 😅

I will never understand the "bride dragging/chaining/tying the groom against his will" joke - most of the time the guy is the one proposing. Like DUDE, if you didn't wanna get married you didn't fucking have to.

Remember ladies, always have a designated wine spiller in your bridal party if someone shows up in white.

The closest I got to "odd" at my wedding was having a Superman symbol on the fingernail of my ring finger -- my husband and I met in a Superman chatroom online. Oh, and we had a lady with a computer up in the church balcony transcribing the ceremony for our online wedding guests -- about 40 people from our chatroom group attended the wedding that way. (This was before live-streaming was available.) We had about the same number of people in the church as in the chatroom, so it was a very small wedding.

I feel so bad for laughing at the “Cheap Two-Bit Tramp” wedding invite if it’s real. Whether it was a joke or not, it’s very well-written.

The girl who offered to be hired to tell others that “it’s not their day” I WOULD HIRE SO FAST

Ha! I have a story kind of like the "praying for the single girls" holier than thou bride...so my ex husband, after he had a thing with his assistant for months and lied about it the whole time when I confronted him, predictably he left me for her and then married her. About 6 weeks after our divorce was finalized, he called to tell me that he wanted me to hear it from him and not gossip that yes, he was indeed with the girl I accused him of cheating on me with. I asked when it started- he said "doesn't matter, I didn't love you anymore." Then he promised me that he would pray for me that I too, would find my true love like he had found his... 🤢 To this day (last I heard anyway) he tags all his social media with the hashtag "truelove." As if to convince himself, his family and friends and God that he was destined to leave me for her. All I can say is that I am a better, happier, and stronger person now and am more genuinely myself without him. Sooooooo thank God!?!?! 😆😆😆 💖

People who purposely mess around with someone's allergies should be brought up on charges.

If my groom had turned up in that state, there would have been no wedding. What an absolute jerk!

My son got married on Sunday to a wonderful, stunningly beautiful woman who I am so glad to formally have in my family. Here’s some hints future mum-in-laws. Ask what the other mother is wearing, if the bride wants that co-ordinated with the bridal party, anything but, etc. when finding your dress, get it okayed by the woman your son is going to spend the rest of his life with. It’s not about you but your first formal way to welcome her and show you respect her as much as you hope she respects you. If you don’t like each other, try harder. Be the bigger person at all times because nobody, especially your son, wants to deal with That mum-in-law. My ex husband was there with his lady. We were all lovely with each other because a) it wasn’t about us and b) we are adults old enough to have children old enough to get married c) I like them. C) didn’t matter, it was just a nice thing that happened.

What I’ve learned for my wedding from this series: 1) always have some tough friends as a “no wedding gown/crasher” security team who will prevent anyone wearing white from even entering the venue. Also have some to quickly remove interruptions during the ceremony/crashers during the reception. 2) never have the bachelor/ette parties the night, or even week, before the wedding. 3) have trustworthy members of the wedding party defend the cake. 4) it’s better to have asymmetrical wedding parties than have unwanted members in the parties 5) the photos are for memories, not aesthetic (honestly crazy that needs to be said).

I was a COVID bride. We still wanted to get married but not endanger anyone. So we just had us, our parents, my hubby's brother, and the officient meet at a park. Honestly, it was so beautiful and special that I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. And we can always have an anniversary party someday if we want to.

I am adoring that the one-leg mermaid "skirt" is caught under her other foot. One step, and BAM! she's down for the count

Personally the thing I couldn't stop thinking with mermaid skirt lady was "how does she walk without tripping?"

I’m Puerto Rican and this tackiness is not a thing! On behalf of my people, WE DO NOT CLAIM THEM! 💗

Ok so they don’t show the rest of the video that’s at 6:49. The guy who ruined the cake,, the groom promptly punched him in the face.

Both of my parents were drunk af at their wedding and they both agreed that it was the worst day of their lives (my aunt is very dramatic). Still going strong more than 28 years later💖

My husband is at it again. Just heard a shout from the other room: "New Charle Darble video!" Yep, I am very convinced he believes this is your name now.

It's always been really sad to me that when it comes to the majority of weddings the women try so hard, plan and are excited for the event and a lot of the grooms/their party treat it like a joke. They get drunk and ruin something that's supposed to be special for both of them, but especially to the bride (most of whom dream of their wedding from a young age)

At first I thought the dismantling of the bouquet for each girl was a nice gesture and got rid of the desperate nature of the bridal toss but the praying just shot the desperate level right back up with some added condescendence from the bride

true story - at my cousins wedding when we got there I thought I got to the wrong venue because I saw at the entrance another beautiful bride who wasn't my cousin. I blushed and said congraulation to the bride and went out to search for the right wedding venue. long story short - it was the sister of my cousin's groom! the audacity!!!

I don't think I could ever get married to someone whose mother has that much hate for me

I love binge watching her videos their literally all I watch on here ❤

If i ever get married, my future wife would be protected from toxic people

After 30 was the best time, stopped worrying about being alone, stopped caring about how other ppl saw me, traveled alot and on my own doing what I wanted, dated who I liked, stayed out all night, slept in the middle of the bed, and in general just enjoyed life.

Man, the worst thing about my first wedding was the groom. But I got rid of that problem eventually.

For throwing the bouquet, at my cousin's wedding they asked all of the married couples to dance. As the song went on the DJ asked those who had been married less than a day to sit down (if course the newlyweds), then those who had been married less than a year, and so on. The last couple still dancing got the bouquet and the garter. My family has continued this instead of throwing the bouquet but there were some pissed off girls at my cousin's wedding😂

Actually I read somewhere that if one of the parties is drunk, the wedding is invalid on the grounds that the person is not fully in control of their faculties

I spit out my water when Charlotte said, “she certainly isn’t copying anyone.” Lol…nope. That wedding outfit is definitely unique!

For the extremely drunk groom: is that even legal? I mean, surely they waited until he was sober to at least sign the wedding certificate, right?

Years ago, I went to an outdoor wedding on a 95-degree, sticky, mid July day, held in a cow pasture where the couple were going to build their future home. The bride was in a wheelbarrow, wheeled in by the groomsmen, and unceremoniously dumped in front of the tree stump altar. Then began that odd, 1990s tradition of the bride and groom just holding hands and looking at each other while an ENTIRE song by Martina McBride plays on a boombox and the sweating congregation just sits...watching the bride and groom watch one another, for about 3.5 agonizing minutes. When the couple (finally) said "I do," the groomsmen shot a potato gun and then swept up the corn-fed bridesmaids and made off with them over their shoulders. I've been to quite a few weddings and I can say with absolute certainty that was the most memorable one I've ever seen. 😳

💕 😂🤣😂🤣😂 OMG I loved the wedding invitation 😂 I haven’t laughed like that in a long time

My best friend isn't a fan of this bouquet-throwing 'tradition' (neither am I, btw), so, deciding that she'd have her bridal bouquet made of dried flowers (with a matching floral garland on the head instead of a veil), she simply booked the artist who made them to give a small master-class for all ladies present (7 in total, if memory serves) so that each could arrange to their taste a smaller neat bouquet for themselves with any of the materials and accessories in the colors used in the wedding decorations provided by the master. This was some years ago, a non-traditional, rather small and quiet wedding. There was none of that 'pitiyng poor singles' feeling or a girls rugby game, instead all the ladies brought home a nice small decor that reminds of that happy day every time one looks at it.

4:40 After we got engaged, my husband’s mother was talking about what she was planning on wearing (I’d had the ring on my finger for A WEEK!! We hadn’t even told everyone yet…). “Oh yes, I saw a lovely ivory dress that would be great for a wedding!” (Iv… ivory? 🤔 Ma’am, that’s a shade of white…) She didn’t understand the issue. Her name is……. Susan.

I just recently went to a wedding where the bride called for 3 specific single women to receive the bouquet on the stage with the words of love for these 3 women who are the best people she knows and love but “always single”. I want to say I know it comes from the place of love but I would be embarrassing af since all lady are at least 37 years old.

My aunt had the bride dragging the groom as her wedding cake topper. Kinda reflects their marriage currently pretty well actually! 😂

Have to say: 1. Girl who almost had cake dumped on her had a gorgeous dress and I'm glad it wasn't ruined. 2. Too drunk groom's best man is a real one. 3. The only acceptable use of a "bride dragging the groom" topper I've seen was at a fake wedding for a murder mystery dinner.

Before I even watch this, I appreciate that you put out content nearly every day. I remember how you said that YT’s algorithm has put you in a “bridezilla” “ bad wedding” rut. Try over the top sweet 16 parties I’d watch that!!! Love your content!!!

Odd that I never hear the word "LOVE" mentioned in any weddings these days. It's always about how good everything looks or how much money is spent.

6:00 AHHH!!!! it’s vampireapplogist!!! i love their tumblr 💖💖💖

The drunk groom…I’d be sooo pissed if my future husband was so drunk he had to be held at the ceremony. 😂

My husband and I were invited to a co-worker's wedding, a person that we were close friends with. We attended the ceremony, and when we got to the reception, found our seating cards, but there were other people sitting in our seats. We told them they were in our places, but said they wanted to sit with their friends, so would we mind sitting elsewhere? Ok, we looked around the hall, and every seat was taken. There were 4 other couples, all standing looking confused, because there were people in their seats as well. turned out someone invited 10 extra guests without telling the hall. So there were no more tables or chairs for us, or food. (we asked a server if they could set another table, and they said they didn't have any more, or 10 extra meals) My husband and I had driven all day to attend this wedding and were starving, but there clearly wouldn't be a place at the table or a meal for us. Our choice was to stand around and watch other people eat or go home. We stopped at a restaurant on the way. Btw, there were only a dozen people at the wedding, but easily 100 people at the reception. How fun it was to eat at cracker barrel in full formal attire.

See I was smart about the inlaws . I dated my husband for 2. 1/2 yrs and engaged for another 2 1/2 yrs . So I got to know how mean selfish and a bully my sisters inlaws were before marring my husband. I had a very small wedding with my father two bother inlaws and my 2. Daughters. Just of the peace. It was beautiful.

I'm one of the younger kids in the family, and when I was 10 my older sister got married. When she went to throw the bouquet I stood way off the side, out of the way. I wanted to see, but being a 10 year old boy I did not want to be in the line of fire. Well, my sister did some weird twist of the wrist when she threw it and it came sailing straight to me. I couldn't get out of the way for the other people and it was either catch it or get it in the face, so I caught it. Everyone laughed and they did a re-throw, but none of my other siblings ever got married until after I did.

If my groom was drunk at the wedding ceremony, there wouldn't be a ceremony.

That wedding invite sounds like it was written by Jane Fonda’s character in Monster in Law, which J-Lo’s character had a nut allergy 😂😂

my son got married during Covid. he and my daughter in law already lived together so that wasn't a health thing. it was just parents and siblings and a couple of friends. oh and the photographer and the officiant. we all met on a mountain.. we all live in and around the Smokies. there's a small overlook that has an amazing sunset view near us. we all pulled up and stayed at our cars which meant we were still very close but, nobody was within 6 feet unless it was the person you already lived in the same house with. it was beautiful.. and i mean really, really beautiful and sunset was too. they had the big ole shindig when we were allowed to again because they'd already passed their deposit refund dates. everyone wore masks to that one too though even though it was also outside. they just wanted to keep their original wedding date.. they'd chosen it for very specific reasons. my right hand to God i couldn't choose which time my daughter in law looked more beautiful. i'll die never understanding why covid was so hard for people to comprehend. maybe being the granddaughter of someone who didn't survive TB helped.....tuberculosis, the pandemic my Mom's generation had to survive. wearing a mask wasn't a political statement back then. go figure.

9:10 plot twist she intoxicated him so after the event he will feel obligated to legally marry her (as everyone thinks they are married and else he will look like an asshole) because he actually doesn’t want to This probably isn’t true but imagine 💀😭

I love those “bride dragging the groom away” cake toppers. Really let’s you know which of your friends are misogynists and that you can leave the wedding early bc in 2 years time they’ll be getting a divorce anyway.

Susan is the Karen who won’t call the cops, passive aggression is her style guide.

That mermaid skirt on a single leg took me out! 💀💀🤣😂🤣😂

The journey your face went on when you saw the olive guy.... 😂

9:46 it's sad after 30 to not be married I'm 52, never been married & don't ever plan to. Nothing sad about it. I like being alone. Not 24/7 but pretty dang close lol 😂 I'm very comfortable with myself.

I love how there was the bride not wanting attention. It’s an odd way of taking the attention away from her, but refreshing difference to the usual bridezillas. Lol 💖

💓💖 I love ALL your videos. And thank you for making me laugh and helping me heal during and after my divorce proceedings. I'm so much happier now!! 💓💖 Thank you Charlotte!! You're awesome, sweet, kinds, sassy, smart, cute and just an all around joy!!

I love that you find this content and do what I would do! You are hilarious!

I’ve always hated the bouquet toss. So at my wedding I also took my bouquet apart but instead of giving each single person a flower and praying for them to find the right man, I had written cards to both my family, my husband’s family, and the maids of honor and groomsmen letting them know how much I appreciated them and their help with our wedding and handed them the card with a flower from my bouquet.

You can never go wrong with my Aunt’s advice ( which I strictly adhered to).....a Mother of the Grooms job is to “ wear beige and keep your mouth shut “. Never fails.

You’re so funny 💕 your wedding videos are my favorite. I am currently on a quest to watch all of them.

Charlotte, that is why I subscribed to your channel. You speak your mind. Gotta love us open, honest, no filter gingers😆😆

I’m a little scared of what else could be coming out of the dark depths after seeing this video. Some of these people should not marry, or reproduce. 🤦🏽‍♀️💗

So, when my brother got married his (now ex) wife was like 8 months pregnant. The cake topper included a baby crawling after the bride and groom. As for the fall-down-drunk groom...I feel like you can't actually consent to getting married. Like being that drunk would make it invalid.

The one with the stepmom (7:52) is from Tre Cool, the drummer of Green Day. Sarah is not disrespecting the bride here in any way. Her dress is blue-ish and Tre's suit is light green ish. Tre's daughter never had issues with Sarah's dress. So please don't judge that one if you don't know anything else than the pictures.

I love that wedding bathing suit/one leg skirt thing. Fabulously original. I'm not sure I'd wear it but I appreciate it's quirkiness.

I would cancel the wedding if my fiance showed up drunk! OMG!

I used to work for a catering service and learned Mothers-of-the-Groom can be very difficult to please. More often had drama with HIS mama than any other "contributor". Mother-of-the-Groomzilla video PLEASE! She really needs more attention!!!

💗Well that takes “dirty” martini to a whole new level

Charlotte - "Hey, that's the day after my birthday!" Me - "Hey, that IS MY birthday" What's up my September sister! The petty makes so much more sense now 😂😂

I and an ex did semi crash a wedding by accident. We wandered in. But we just had a drink, spoke to some guests and wished the couple a good life. We were given a gift bag and were having a good convo with the parents of the Bride. Then left. I like to think it was fun and not disruptive.

If I ever “crashed” a wedding, I’d just go for the food. I’d bring a present, duh, cuz it’s a wedding, but I would never try to ruin anything. That’s so rude. If you’re gonna crash a wedding, be polite and bring a present.

I enjoy these podcasts so much. The insight they give into the selfishness and sense of entitlement of some brides is almost beyond belief to me.

💖 that last story, though. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The “You’re regretfully invited” wedding invitation sounds like my mom when my wife and I got married

LOL that wedding invite literally sounds like the plot to the J-Lo movie "Monster in Law"

Always love your videos💖

I love how Charlotte can remember all of her bullies names but can’t remember her ex’s names😂

Can't wait till the day we get to watch the Potato queen roast her own wedding!! First, because Charlotte deserves the best of the best! & Whatever man is blessed enough to find/ keep her has gotta have one hell of a sense of humor. And we already know Charlotte can laugh at herself!! Not to say anything will go wrong or she'll be a bridezilla in any way! I just know hilarity will ensue!! Love everything you do Charlotte!!

"Tell me you're insecure without telling me you're insecure." LMFAO!!

The editing of your face onto every other face is really the comedy-icing on the internet-drama cake 😅 Bless you (and your team assuming you have one ❤) Chefs Kiss

Love your videos, they make me chuckle 💕

Ok. My husband who has worked in the wedding invitation industry as a cutter and type setter for 16 years would like to point out the BEAUTY of the invitation that you presented at 2:12. He shot up from his chair and out "That's so beautiful! I love Copperplate Upper and Lower!" The script font is very similar to Markham. He loved when weird invitations would cross his desk and would save them for me.

The guy that tore up the wedding cake needs his quack quack kicked.

Lmao the "I don't" flowers note made me laugh out loud.

Love your videos! 💗

I think the wedding dress goat yoga sounds hilarious. Stupid, harmless, and funny. I think that is why the poster said "unload" like give me the dresses you don't care about ( divorced?) Etc. Can't always find them at a thrift shop when you need one LOL

Dude, I'm getting married next year, and let's just say these videos are a healthy reminder of what not to put up with. 💗 Also, thanks for the entertainment Charlotte! 😁

💕 The ‘What not to do’ wedding compilation.

My wedding was small... the "church" was so small that they had to angle the pews to allow my full dress to allow me to walk down the aisle with my dad! I married after I was 30. We were together for 32 yrs, had 28 wonderful years together, married for 30. (the last four yrs were a bit rocky but we persevered). He passed a month before our 30th anniversary.

*another pearl of wisdom someone once told me: being married isn't about finding someone you can live with. It's about finding someone you can't live without 💖

I totally lost it with "Extra DIRTY" comment regarding guy in bathtub of olives. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The not throwing the bouquet: beautiful to give them all a flower, the tacky pard is the prayer with everyone 🤢

at 50 seconds: What you get when you can afford only half a wedding dress.

Love that your chair now chimes in with opinions. All this time your "broken" chair just wanted to co-host. 🪑💬💓

I was with a guy for 18 years. He was a child, and finally I got tired of being mommy, so, I left. At 45. I am 49 now and I love being single, I get to do what I want without anyone's feelings holding me back. Anc being recently disabled with an autoimmune disorder, I get to put this on my family too! I now don't let my family try to make things about them. If I ain't feeling it. I don't go to whatever gathering they try to guilt me into, saying" I just don't feel well enough to be social". Life us great if you quit letting others decide your worth and needs.my need it to do what I want. When I want. And screw the rest.

The bride should name (in this case, post the photobombed pictures) and shame the wedding crashers. And the internet will probably do the rest to identify them. Not saying doxxing is good but people like those girls don't deserve the courtesy of anonymity.

My uncle used to jokingly introduce his fiancée as his ball and chain to be. My aunt ran with the joke and brought out a plastic ball and chain during the reception and swung it around her head like a lasso. They’ve been together for 40 years and that ball and chain sits on their fireplace mantle.

My dad and 2nd stepmom had that cake topper (bride dragging groom)...