It’s ok fellas I cried like a baby. I was the on duty paramedic that pronounced my dad deceased. Hardest thing I’d ever done at the time. Recently my daughter beat leukemia so that rank’s just as high. This beautiful soul makes my wife and I cry every time he sings.

I have watched his performance like a hundred times already and I cried a hundred and one times.

As a Tongan, we are taught the cycle of life. Iam would’ve spent 2 -3 weeks mourning with his family and reinforcing his lineage and bonding with his family line. I am so happy that you both feel his emotion as men, but also our culture that respects life, calls ownership over family and protects the legacy of every soul that’s gifted to us - just as Iam has perfectly represented us. ❤️🇹🇴 Thank you for feeling. Your families are blessed to you have you both. Much respect. 🇹🇴

Hawaiian girl here, and I cannot get enough. I go to bed hearing him sing and wake up to it. I’m humming them all day. What a gift he has given us all. AI used to sell the full versions of each performance. If they still do it, Iam’s catalog will be part of my playlist for sure. Can’t wait for his album and concerts. He deserves to win. If he doesn’t, it won’t matter. The world has fallen in love with him already❤

For the edification of the content creators, James Blunt writes his own songs. This one was about his father who at the time was terminally ill. He felt he wanted to eulogize him while he was still alive. Luckily an organ donation from a distant relative saved dad’s life and he’s still with us.

I’ve lost count on the amount of times I watched the video but every time I watched it, I still cry

What people really don’t understand is that it’s ok to breakdown and miss the the people you loved, nowadays generation it’s all about social media attention just to be remembered for a DAY and forgotten in seconds smh

Sung and dedicated by a grieving son to his beloved Dad. Listening and Thinking of my brother who succumbed to cancer.😢

I cry every single time I hear him sing this song. I’ve watched his audition so many times and each time I weep. I literally sob. His voice carries the pain of losing his daddy. I wish I could hug him and hold him and comfort him through the loss of his father. I don’t ever remember listening to this song until I heard Tongi sing it.❤❤❤

You two did the best reaction to Iam Tongi’s performance. This was very honest and genuine.

Amazing , he should cover this song completely...I love his version more than the original..God bless his voice and God bless Hawaii

You cried in front of camera and I cried while looking at my phone.😢 Yea, that kid poured his heart out singing that song. Thank you for sharing your personal story. 💜

I just recently lost my son and this song is so touching it makes me cry all the time.

Iam Tongi 💯 Has all our votes His angelic voice is extraordinarily beautiful, have never heard a more beautiful voice that's comes so natural, like melted butter ❤

everytime i revisit that audition , thought tears would stop at one point, but i was wrong..i too had to hold someone dear to me ,holding her in my arms. the last word I told her, Mama its ok, i will be ok. Not even a minute passed , she went peacefully....

My Mothers best friend said something to my Brothers and I, the day before she passed. She said, “sometimes they just need permission too let go. So all of you need to talk too her, and let her know it’s okay”. I’ll speak for myself, I did just that. I let her know that we’re okay, and that I wouldn’t leave my Dad (step) hanging. That I will be here for him. And she nodded with a look of…that’s just what she needed to know. That day she refused her lung treatments, and passed over night. Mr Blunt, I’m sorry but this song is no longer yours. It belongs too Iam Tongi now. Your raw reaction Gentlemen was incredible.

My wife and I have an IAM addiction .....Can't get enough of him. He has such a peaceful presence about him.

I have watched this 100x but still bring me tears,his voice just touching ❤

Aloha From Hawaii Guys - I appreciate the support for our young islander. Moreover, I appreciate the reflection you both shared - very heartfelt. I've watched many of these reaction videos for Iam and I'm not surprised by the reaction of the men. Our relationships with our families and the expectations that we have as men by society makes most not speak of such emotions as we hear in this song - at least not publicly... The circumstance and the words of the song bring out an emotion we as men feel BUT in most cases are not in the habit of expressing. This song brings to life what we all feel deep within our rough exterior. Yes, the thought of having our parents leave us to continue the journey alone but then knowing the cycle repeats itself is a lot to take in... You have have earned a sub. Mahalo!

This song is an emotional trip for me. My dad passed 14 years ago from cancer. Final monts where nothing could be done, he just spent them at home. One night his nurse woke us up 2-3 am, stating he was leaving, for us to tell him goodbye. We went to his room and we saw him making a huge effor trying to stay with us. We thank him for his life and everything he did for ours. Told him that we love him, will always do, and that eventually, we'd be ok. After that, he just left in peace. Such a strong moment. This song takes me back to that precise moment. I enjoyed your stories, thoughts and reflections.

I’ve watched IAM ‘s Audition so many times and have cried each time, Thank you for your kind words in support to this young man. I can relate to the father and son relationship, although I am a daughter but the eldest who was at my father’s side in his last hours., I feeling emotionally for you as well. You made me Cry! Holding and rubbing my father’s hand, telling him it was alright to go to sleep, I relate to that song there as well.But doing so at such a young age, is harder and so Sad, love that last line of comfort. “It’s my turn to chase the monsters away.”

Losing my brilliant, funny father to the curse of Alzheimer's and dementia, I can say that how Iam feels, to a man who lost his father, that feeling never goes away. Dad's monsters, I couldn't chase those away. When it really hit was when I was back at his house, unpacking the small box from the care home. I broke down finally and started crying. "I'm sorry, Dad. I tried so hard." My dad passed when I was 56 years old. Iam is only 18. What an incredible, brave, strong young man Iam is.

I know how he feels, I lost my father in 1988. We were 8 children in the family. In 2011, I lost my little brother, he was 43 years old when he passed. I was 10 years older than he was and I more or less raised him. He was always with me so when he passed away it was losing my own child. It took me 9 years to get over it, only to lose my closest sister in 2020. (not from Covid). They were the two closest to me and yes I was so unhappy with GOD. Why take the two that I was closest to. I still cry and often I go to call my sister but remember she's not there. Thank you for sharing. Ontario, Canada. Love always.

"Try to be the strongest person at your fathers funeral" - I greatly appreciate your reaction video to this beautiful audition💛💛

That's not emotional stress. That's heart, soul and passion.

Holy shit what a review! I stumbled upon this by accident and you guys are right on point! Fantastic song, cover, and review!

I have watched this young man sing and I love him. His singing reached my heart. My father died 10 years ago and now this his singing I have cried and I miss my dad.

I cannot hold back my tears each time I watch his audition 😭😭😭

You two gentlemen are brave & honest just as IAM & all the " boys" who loved their daddies are....Thankyou for sharing your heart with us

This song hits men differently than women, so I'm not surprised to see so many tear up.

I've watched many of Iam's songs, and he has an extraordinary power to emote. The judges cried during his performance of Sound of Silence -- not normally a tear-jerker. And he is now Top 5 in the competition. He brings emotion to every song he sings.

Of all the reactions to this song, I love yours, the way you two break it down so beautifully, well done! I love the part where he sings feel my hand on your own, looking to his father, who would sit nxt to him nd harmonize.

It touch my heart,everytime i hear this song,and sung by people that has a beautiful voice that comes from the bottom of there heart.👍

James Blunt must be so proud of watching this boy sing his song with such truth to it. It gets me every time 😢❤

You guys are killing me. Now I’m crying again. I still love you guys❤

Just tell your father you love them. This song is forever attached to my soul.

This is so far the best reaction to Ian Tongi song ❤ your both are great men with big hearts thank you

The song hit me hard but the reaction by these two men hit me harder.so beautiful..

This song was written by James blunt after he found out his dad was dying. Beautifully, it was a fan of this song who donated an organ to james blunts dad and he is still with us. This song saved his dads life

🤙🤙🤙🤙 Hana Hou William Tongi. Amazing performance on such an emotional and sad song. It take courage and strength to deliver this. 💯💯🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇦🇸🇦🇸🇹🇴🇹🇴🇹🇴 Aloha Nui William Tongi. Rest in Peace Sir Rodney 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

This is my first time seeing your videos. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and heart. Tongi is a treasure and needs to be protected at all costs! #newsub

The hardest thing was losing my Daddy Christmas day 94. And let me tell you, Daddy's hold a very special place in their children's hearts. Especially if that child is a girl, I was his baby. I love y'all's honest emotional reaction

This broke me 😭! You ready to chase the monsters away? My grandpa’s, my father are all in heaven now and now, I am preparing my son for when it’s his turn to chase his monsters away 🙏🏼

James wrote this somg for his dad after finding out his dad had end stage kidney disease. A long distant relative reached out and donated his kidney. His dad is live and well to this day.

Incredible moment by William tongi so emotional made me miss my dad so much who passed away back in 02. The discussion and sharing you did after the performance was beautiful appreciate it so much

Your reactions are so humble, kind, understanding, and loving . . .

Made me cry too... his sorrow and grief in losing a loved one is felt in the song.

A true man sheds a tear 😢...what a beautiful voice and I wish him all the look in the world,hes a credit to his dad to his family and 100% to himself 🌟

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your emotions and stories.

I cry every time I watch it. It is one of the most heart wrenching songs sung so beautifully by this young poly boy. Awesome! Thank you.

Aloha gentlemen, as a Kanaka Mauoli full blooded Hawaiian, the traditions of every Polynesian culture, whether Samoan, Tongan, Tahitian, New Zealand, Kanaka Mauoli, Mauori...etc... The respect of our Grandparents, parents, and Children is always furst n foremost #1. Our upbringing is so different compared to any other culture in my own opinion. We all end up helping each other no matter the circumstances. Our way of singing is cultural, meaningful and Love for one another. Granted some of us have flaws, but we always strive for success and making sure our next generations learn and become great young adults as it becomes their turn to take their futures and move forward for their next generations to succeed in their own lives. Mahalo for your reactions. It was very heart felt, and loved n respected by all Polynesians. God Bless you and your Ohana 🤙🌺💯 Mahalo from Hawai'i nei 🤙🌺❤️

That last line is like a punch in the feels

We love you guys reaction’s I watch it over and over and I still cry keep up the good work.

You two are so great to share your feelings. Thank you

love this raw reaction from you two ♥️

This song is amazing and as a man I want to cry but also as a man we tend not because we want to show we’re strong and that we’re not weak but I do cry but I cry alone. This song is what I think of my dad. My dad has been my hero since I was a little boy and now he’s still showing that he’s always been a hero and a best friend that I’ve wanted my whole life. If my dad sees this I just hope that he knows that he’s my best friend n a hero. Love you Dad

My nana passed away 2 years ago. She held on for us.. She was in a lot of pain. My mom, who is the oldest, didn't want to let her go. I told her that its selfish to want them to stay for our sake. I told her she needs to let her go..that my nana is staying because we are asking her to... i told my mom to say goodbye to her and that it's ok to go... We love her and will miss her 😢. She went to her room and told her it was ok.. a few moments later my nana took her last breath. This song hits the heart and jurked my grown man tears out. I wish the best for this yung man and his family. Tongi..ur dad is very proud of you with or without an American idol. Much love brother 🙏.

My father passed away may 8th, 2017. this song brings back so many memories of that time, i wish this song was out when he did pass. Iams iteration of this song breaks my heart, because i know every single feeling he has. Love you dad and i miss you everyday!

I love Iam...he is a soul searcher...he gets mine everytime...this song should be on the radio...God Bless this 18 year old young man...he is the real deal...❤❤❤❤❤❤

Oh it hits.... he even reminds me of my son... I cried hard from his performance

Thank you for the honesty of your reactions to the wonderful rendition of this unbelievable emotional song.

Beautiful video, I applaud the great wise words and true feelings you guys expressed, I too felt everything from this video of iamtongi too. I cried about every time I watched his song and that was about 30’times now.

Guys your commentaries made me feel seen and appreciated. I was the strongest person at my dad's passing and I was able to held strong for my mom and brother. "Dad, you can go." Those were the hardest words I had ever said in my life.

Find his showstopper audition. And his latest in Hawaii. He does hit his notes cleanly! Please keep following him. He could win.

The perfect audition song but wow it really touched every soul everywhere - beautiful song 💞

Thank you for your beautiful reactions in terms of words and comments about such an emotional performance. Dad is still here with us and such performances by a strong young man and the emotional reactions by the judges keep reminding us that one day, we have to say goodbye 😢😢 with our Loved Ones, and it hurts😢😢😢. Thank you for being real, Honest and truthful about your reactions.

Absolutely stunning ❤❤❤❤i cry eveytime i listen to it he sings with soul it grips at your heart amazing ❤❤

You guys nailed it right on the head for me. I am so very blessed and I kiss the skies everyday because my father is still alive. But nothing is forever and watching the pain and grief of others who have lost their parents is gut wrenching. Knowing that our parents will leave one day and not knowing how we will take it. I just cry every time I watch this performance. Iam Tongi is our Hawaii boy and a gift to the world.

Thanks for putting your raw emotions and comments out there.

I’m new to this channel but as a sensitive man myself its beautiful to seeing other men that aren’t ashamed to be sensitive and caring. I really connected to the mustached man when he talked about his discussion with his children.

Thank you for this video. Immediately one of my favorite songs, and your commentary made it even more meaningful. I wish I could give so many more thumbs ups. Thank you so much!

Amazing words from both gentlemen's.

Great reaction, would be awesome to react to James Blunts version so you can compare the difference and see the emotion in both iam tongi and James. Back story if you decide to react to it James wrote the Song once he found out his father had a failed Kidney and they couldn’t find him a compatible Donor. So the song was pretty much a farewell to his still alive father but James assumed he wasn’t going to live for much longer. Once the song was released a distant cousin heard the song and came forward to get tested and was compatible so ended up donating a kidney to James father and ultimately saving his life. But the music video of “monsters by James blunt” was a single raw take of James with the feeling and knowledge of his dad going to pass. Hope you check it out ! ❤

Nobody, and I mean nobody, should strive to be the strongest person at their father's funeral. It's not only unhealthy, but it's inhumane and absolutely terrible advice. There's no honour in it, there's no character building worth having found in it. In fact I'd say it's the exact opposite. Break down. Feel your pain. Let it out. And then you go out into the world and you honour your father's life and become the best version of you that you can ever be. That's a good character builder with character with having. The funeral is for saying goodbye and breaking down, what comes next is for building yourself up stronger. My sister I told our dad that it was ok to let go, that we loved him and would miss more than he'd never known. We were holding his hands when we said it, and he removed his hands from ours and he fell asleep and a couple of hours later he took his last breath. It's so important for those leaving us that they know we'll be ok. We are so grateful we got to give that gift to him and to ourselves.

Thank you for your genuine reaction and sharing. I cried with you. ❤️

his rendition is better than the original...it has more emotional impact 😭

Amazing analysis! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on fatherhood as well as give a great breakdown of Iam’s performance! Keep it up fellas!

Bless you guys!!! Bless your families! Great reaction

Thank you guys for this video. It doesnt matter how many times you watch it. It still too emotional and I cry everytime. May God Bless Iam amd family and you two.

My dad died 3 years on march 27th. When he died he took my heart with him. He was my hero and my everything. When iam told his story and sang this song I felt his pain. I'm not OK and I never will be again. Iam has a voice of an angel.

You guys are amazing, your bravery and fearlessness to be this vulnerable is so deeply touching and admirable and I believe this will help many men and people in general.

Talofa from the islands, love your reaction and being real about life. Cheering for our island guy Iam, wish and hope all the best in his journey on American Idol 2023. Thank you so much for sharing.

I love how real you both are❤

Iam brought out so many. Feelings in me that. I have been suppressed for. Years I can only thank him for t hat release I feel better for him why I can't explain it but it happened ty for the video of him

Your grandmother is in the presence of our lord and savior Jesus Christ. I really enjoyed this reaction from you two. Very genuine reaction. I love how you said this is a raw example of humanity. Beautifully said.

Thank you for a heartfelt reaction❤

Grandfather passed away in 2020 In his home around family. I held his hand cuz he was hanging on. I told him those words. It’s oh k. Don’t worry about us. I’ll take care of everyone now. And then I felt his grip loosen and he passes with everyone around Love this video

I am so happy i stumbled across your video. This reaction vid is definitely one of my fav. You both did well. Wush you both all the best with yr families.

Bless you both for your honesty, integrity and beautiful reaction to a beautiful song 🎉❤

One of my top favorites on American idol

Beautiful reaction gentlemen. Great breakdown of the performance. 🤙🏾

From another Hawaiian girl from Beautiful Pana’ewa, Hilo, Hi…HE’S already WON!! My heart, mind and soul goes out to Dad Rodney and Mom - for Blessing us with their Humble Talented Son.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😢❤❤❤❤ Thank You so very much for your Awesome and Loving reaction… This is my answer to spelling the word LOVE….TIME…take care and many blessings to Yourselves and Everyone making time to view and share…❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you for reacting to this video and thank you for sharing your story

This is beautiful and I love this guy. He is a winner. Please react to James version which he wrote.

Singer broke me you destroyed me, Thanks for sharing

2 things .. i listened to this over an over an over... it was so beautiful. I also learnt something positive from this.... show as much love to ur parents cuz life is short... altho i do it i feel i wud show even more attension an love to them now.... god bless u IAM and ur dad RODNEY i kno he is smiling in heaven seeing u bro

A child always will look to dad to fight the monsters and keep one safe. This song still gets me after hearing both James Blunt and Iam Tongi's cover.

My men tried to keep as manly as they can. 😂 That intellectual breakdown of thoughts and values that comes with the song while trying to control the expressions are as funny as it can be(in a good way). Salute to you my men. You guys are very manly nonetheless!

Just joined. Love the narrative, I lost my dad 4 years ago. He was 97. His brithday was February 21. Was surfing You Tube. I discovered a wonderful singer. A prolific songwriter in James Blunt. Now have Blunt in my library. Subscribed to Iam's channel. Hope to follow him on his AM IDOL Journey. And goes well. DO iT BRA!

Beautiful guys 😅 you are beautiful, you make it even more emotional 😅 and i cried again watching your reaction