chasing your dreams is hard!
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4 ай бұрынRiayn Christina & Paloma Malfavon get into the behind the scenes of trying to chase a dream, feeling stuck & balancing your life, your job, your dreams and your wallet!
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About Twenty Whatever
Twenty Whatever features Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon talking candidly about navigating your 20's with your friends through different phases of life. (formerly Sierra Unfiltered)
chasing your dreams is hard!
• chasing your dreams is...
0:56 intro!
2:49 the ikea relationship test | Costco, Ikea memberships & Sam’s club babydoll
6:01 how old is “old”?
13:01 knowing what you want vs going through the motions
15:42 the village, the vision & the struggle
20:46 being realistic with resources
25:07 “pivot!”30:02 balance & being spread too thin
35:00 Miley Cyrus & Victoria Monet getting their flowers
39:46 the rejection of it all
45:22 trying, getting out of your own way, & support!
47:54 Woo Girl Minute!
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@TwentyWhatever 4 ай бұрын
let us know what you are chasing after & working towards in the comments below💕
@kellymanfredini3835 4 ай бұрын
I am chasing retirement. Lol.
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
@@kellymanfredini3835 amen ^ lol
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
@@kellymanfredini3835i’m jealous hahahahahs
@kellymanfredini3835 4 ай бұрын
@riaynchristina haa haa. I feel like I was 28 yeasterday. Back then, my boss would ruffle my hair like I was five. I was 38 when I became an award winning author. Now, at 44, I am a director for a rural food pantry and am in the middle of a major capital campaign where I have to raise 7.5 million. I plan on stepping down in five years (at 50). It will be a quasi retirement. I would be too bored if I didn't work at all.
@GhazelG 4 ай бұрын
Chasing my dream of becoming a dentist!
@cece0131 4 ай бұрын
I truly hate how every fiery woman was told to be a lawyer 🙄🙄
@kassiel6673 4 ай бұрын
I’m 31 and I work in the corporate world but teach at a dance studio part time. an opportunity came up to be a background dancer in a musical so I thought “ what the heck, why don’t I just try” so I sent in a tape. I GOT A CALL BACK. even if I don’t get to be apart of it I’m so proud of myself! 😊
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
AHHHH PERIOD!!!! that’s sooo amazing!! love this for you kassie 🤩🤩
@mirablossom2672 4 ай бұрын
My woo girl moment is that I’m going on to my first professional work conference next week in Vegas! After a few years of feeling so undervalued in the workplace, I feel appreciative that my current employer sees the value in me to pay me fairly and invest in my professional growth. Corporate girlies out there: you got this 🎉
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
yessss cmon corporate 😍😍
@caseyhansen4467 4 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉 woooohooooo congratulations girly
@katepark709 4 ай бұрын
Amazing 👏🏻 👏🏻
@mrs.e3909 4 ай бұрын
What I didn't realize in my twenties was that I would always feel like my "young girl" self inside, despite age. I uses to think that as people aged they gained some type of different inner self that matured beyond that youthful feeling, but the terrible fact is that no matter your age, you are still living young inside. We should carry our dreams until it is the only strength we have left in our body, even if that dream is to live each day finding one small thing to be grateful for.
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
amen ❤🔥
@deborah1424 4 ай бұрын
I could have listened to 2 hours of you guys talking about this topic, it’s so interesting! As a girlie in her twenties trying to pursue her creative passion as well it’s so reassuring to hear that you’re not alone. Maybe life is about that, it’s about chasing the things you love and it’s all about the journey of it all? Idk!
@Itsamandalau 4 ай бұрын
Yes!! After listening to this episode, I'm coming to a realization that maybe this whole living life thing is all about the climb, as Miss Miley Cyrus once said haha
@jennaalden3658 4 ай бұрын
as someone from Sweden I must correct you - its Lingonberry sauce not cranberry sauce :) it's one of the most traditional meals in Sweden! and yes the Ikea version slaps.
@celiceforbes5722 4 ай бұрын
As a fellow Swedish person I second that!👏🏽
@ajiseimei 4 ай бұрын
Sweden represent👏💪
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
omg??? i’ve never heard of a lingonberry!! 😅🤩
@morgandeen 4 ай бұрын
I worked as a vet receptionist since 2020 trying to work my way into the vet field. Through my job, I ended up getting into school to become a licensed vet tech. After dealing with complicated health issues, I have finally decided that I don’t want to fight every single day & push myself to “achieve my dreams” like everyone says. I’ve always loved office work, and I’m still in the vet field… now I have became the lead receptionist at my clinic. It’s my first week with my new role, but I’m very excited and happy that I’ve realized my dreams have changed and I am satisfied with this and not struggling every day to do what I thought was my dream 😊
@emmmmaaaa4444 4 ай бұрын
My woo girl moment this week is respecting myself enough to set some healthy boundaries. I also feel like I’m slowly coming out of my postpartum depression and that’s for sure helping with everything!
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
LET'S GO HEALTHY BOUNDARIES. STAND STRONG !!
@emmmmaaaa4444 4 ай бұрын
@@palomamalfavon ahhhh thank you! That means so much❤️❤️
@mosaic2476 4 ай бұрын
queen p your chat at the end made me sob. it's not a dream like what you're referring to, but all my developmental years were deeply traumatic, so the dream i'm chasing is helping my bodymind to become a kinder place to live in
@madelynjones1372 4 ай бұрын
Hi riayn and Paloma! Just listened to the podcast and my woo girl minute is that I just started volunteering and shadowing with audiologists so I can one day help bilingual kids with hearing loss! That’s my goal is to help those who might have a language barrier in the US still have access to getting hearing aids and cochlear implants!
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
you go girl
@aksez2u 4 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh - the double communication barriers of ESL and hearing loss! Good for you!
@madelynjones1372 4 ай бұрын
@@palomamalfavon thank you so much! You inspire me❤ thank you for all you do
@madelynjones1372 4 ай бұрын
@@aksez2uthank you so much!!❤
@kyliechristensen4461 4 ай бұрын
Woo Girl Moment! I’m a month away from finishing my student teaching and graduating with my BA and my teaching credential! I also have an audition for Beauty and the Beast in a few weeks! We always need singers and dancers, so I’ll never stop chasing that dream. 😊
@mollyb5404 4 ай бұрын
And we need teachers that sing and dance! Congratulations girl!
@kaylinjones8894 4 ай бұрын
I hope you girls can truly see the growth that you've both had - from creative content to your intentions and actions. It's inspiring to see, and I have no doubt that you both will reach your dreams because you truly deserve to ❤
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
wow thank you 🥹😭
@kellymanfredini3835 4 ай бұрын
20's are for having fun 30's are for chasing/working on your dream and still have lots of energy. 40's enjoying your hard work realized. I saw my success in my late thirties and early forties. And ladies, perimedipause starts earlier than you might think. Medipause (1 year of no period) is normal between 45 and 53. This is some "old lady" insights.
@mooreaporter5228 4 ай бұрын
Please do a viewer Q&A episode sometime! :)
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
👀
@emileeann5938 4 ай бұрын
Backyardigans remixes went way too hard 😂
@TwentyWhatever 4 ай бұрын
Backyardigans had no business being THAT good tbh 😂
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
the backyardigan remixes on tiktok are what really kept the world together during lockdown.
@jennaalden3658 4 ай бұрын
Im a tech girlie. I'm an AI Engineer and have been coding and working in corporate for the past 12 years. and Im here to tell you its never to late to change lanes because im about 1 year away from quitting my job to become a real estate investor 🤣. I started flipping homes last year, and I've been able to make more money with that than I do at my day job, so I've made a 1-2 year retirement plan. Most people think I'm crazy because I have one of the best jobs in the world, but I'm so tired. I just want to make acai bowls and workout on the beach at noon every day and not ever be in another Teams meeting.
@Lynzeigh 3 ай бұрын
Acai bowls and workouts on the beach is the dream life!
@kirstijamison5028 4 ай бұрын
My woo girl moment is that I will be finished law school in 15 days! Thank you for another great episode, I love all of you!
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
wow that’s a huge accomplishment!! congratulations 🤩
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
Maybe it's a Whoo girl moment, maybe it's not - I decided (because of you all) to make a KZfaq channel, this episode lit a fire in me to keep going!! and a bonus, I am applying to medical school this year!! wish me luck haha.
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
WOOOO!! YOU GO KIRSTEN!!!
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
@@palomamalfavon THANK YOU!!!!
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
Building community is so important for thriving, this is something I learned late in my 20s It makes me so happy just to see people around me winning
@mari.jimgo22 4 ай бұрын
Bob the Builder and Handy Many are the reason why I am now an architect
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
HAHA! their impact 🙌🏾
@Itsamandalau 4 ай бұрын
Omg that is so cute!! So proud of you!
@ArielleSoto 3 ай бұрын
My name is Arielle, and I have had a KZfaq channel for 10 years lol I have been posting on and off because of the fear of not being good enough. Now that I'm 29, I really want to start posting again, but I have a two year old with autism and sometimes I don't have time. But any chance I get, I do try and post. And the reason I want to get over this fear is to teach my son that it's okay if not everyone likes you. As long as you're chasing your dream and it makes YOU happy, then that is all that matters! I love you guys so much. Thank you for this episode 💕
@XK_tyX 4 ай бұрын
You ladies are a breath of fresh air ❤ so glad we get to continue the pod while Sierra is on maternity leave!
@babysparks66 4 ай бұрын
I loved this episode! It flowed so naturally and the conversation was relevant and important! ❤
@meglud8681 4 ай бұрын
It’s my birthday, I’m 30! && it def feels like I’m “late” for something. I’m def not where 20 year me thought I’d be, and I totally feel that pull between having a career and building a family. My heart breaks for myself, cause by all means I should be fulfilled and yet there is still a pull.
@ptaradactyl14 4 ай бұрын
Happy birthday!! Welcome to the 30s!
@ptaradactyl14 4 ай бұрын
I'm chasing my blue belt in karate right now! I started in July last year, and it's totally changed my life!
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
cmon blue belt!!! 😍
@ptaradactyl14 4 ай бұрын
@@riaynchristina ahhhhh! Thank you lovely!!
@julianarichardson7370 3 ай бұрын
Chasing my dream of writing and publishing a book! 📖
@definingmyessence 4 ай бұрын
Love this! I honestly was thinking about quitting content creation this week and I don’t usually get that feeling because I love it. It was that my car situation is bad and it’s been out of my control since last summer. I’ve lost out of opportunities and just over it. I’ve been trying to stay positive about it and this helped. I definitely understand the brain not having a budget when it comes to content so I just have to come up with more ideas
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
don't stop girl. not now 💓
@definingmyessence 4 ай бұрын
@@palomamalfavon I’m going to keep trying. I already made a new list of ideas 💗
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
i say i’m gonna quit every other week hahahah!! it’s a part of the process i think lmfao! but we are all in this together! 🤩
@definingmyessence 4 ай бұрын
@@riaynchristina I think what made this feeling worst was that I have friends that just quit their business and I can’t let that get to me
@keirra9110 4 ай бұрын
me as a person with a disability and getting told you can’t work people not wanting to give you a chance to work for them because of that disability. i am 32 soon to be 33 in June i sometimes wish i could work. now i am trying to find a hobby that i could do and maybe turn into a job. when i was younger i didn’t dream of what i could do. now just wish i could work. do anything at this point.
@alexaramos7714 4 ай бұрын
I LOVED Handy Manny! I was like 13 still watching it in the morning before school 😂
@taraallison5250 4 ай бұрын
going to graduate school for art therapy and becoming a licensed mental health counselor !!! 😅💗
@tashintomorrowland 4 ай бұрын
Love this, girls! I’m 32, in my mind 30 was going to be the end of life… can confirm my life is just getting started! Riayn congrats on the rebrand! Pics are gorgeous. Hope you’re loving maternity leave and your beautiful baby, Sierra! 💕
@cassieorosz8528 4 ай бұрын
Late to the party this week, but love the episode!! Hyped me up for all the things!! Woo girl update: I just accepted the position in California today!! Should be moving in the next couple of weeks!!
@TwentyWhatever 4 ай бұрын
omfg! congratulations!! that is so exciting 💕 sending you all the good moving vibes xoxo
@cassieorosz8528 4 ай бұрын
@@TwentyWhatever thank you girlies so much!!! 💕💖 Much love from OH (but not for much longer… 😉)!!!
@jordanjones857 4 ай бұрын
This pod came at the perfect time! I'm trying to figure out what I want to do after I graduate from college in a year and I really want to go to grad school for creative writing but not sure how practical it is. But after hearing what y'all have to say I think that it's worth it to apply to some schools and see what happens!!!!
@Jenalamah 4 ай бұрын
Love the candidness forreal
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
🥰
@ebsaroonij8533 4 ай бұрын
i’ve been watching this pod on/off throughout my working day & watching the views go up is making me so proud of you girlies 🥰
@destinywilliams2354 4 ай бұрын
Gosh I love this episode so much❤
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾
@iambatman9420 4 ай бұрын
My dream is to get a PhD in math 😊 it doesn't make sense to pursue in this stage of life, but maybe someday ❤️
@BreyerGalsStudio 4 ай бұрын
I left a job that was holding me back from my goals of being a veterinary assistant/tech and got a new one that is helping me learn and grow! So proud of myself that I didnt give up and I know 5 year old me would be so excited
@Viry1905 4 ай бұрын
Yep, as a 30's stay at home mom, without a carrer, sometimes i feel judged even by myself for not pursuing a carrer...
@aksez2u 4 ай бұрын
Actually, I think what you have is the dream of a lot of people who don't have the option to stay home with their kids.
@Viry1905 4 ай бұрын
@aksez2u I know, I'm living the dream, at least mine 😅 and I'm so grateful for that, but there's situations where one can feel very judged for not be an independent woman, it's not necessary that people say something but the looks they gave...
@aksez2u 4 ай бұрын
@@Viry1905 I understand. And I think you can be "independent" and be a stay at home mom at the same time. Every couple has to negotiate how to work and have kids at the same time. It's always hard and your choice is a 100% valid one.
@marianateigao1256 4 ай бұрын
My woo girl moment is that in May I will present my Master thesis to finish my degree of Micro and Nanotecnologies Engineering and in June I will immigrate to Belgium from Portugal to start my first job ever in a lab
@aimeewoten6148 4 ай бұрын
In the thick of nursing school 😂 as a mom of 2. Chasing my dreams everyday!
@miamravle5586 3 ай бұрын
Me chasing my dream: finishing up my first year at The Boston Conservatory for Flute performance!
@kynelson13 4 ай бұрын
I'm chasing a dream too I guess. This is also kind of my "woo girl moment," but I have committed to going to a college to study music performance and am working towards a career as a professional musician! It's pretty scary to me but I know it's what I want to do
@heydirle 4 ай бұрын
I think this was one of the best episodes yet ❤
@cfuller1994 4 ай бұрын
Sams club pizza pretzel slaps! Sincerely, a previous sams club employee
@TEACASTRO 4 ай бұрын
We got sams club and costco in Florida🥰 love both
@hailey5412 4 ай бұрын
Dream chaser here! Started an art business doing textured art this year 🤍
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
I really think that we need to normalize building each other up, rather than talking ISH about each other. There is enough sad stuff to go around, let us be positive toward each other.
@irenathompson9776 4 ай бұрын
Love you ladies!!!💕💕💕
@rebeccaernette1749 4 ай бұрын
It took my parents the week of my wedding to realize i was serious when all i wanted after graduating high school was to move out and get married. Its so stupid that women have this double standard, i love being dependent on my husband because he will always take care of me. Other women dont like that, and want to live their best life independent from a man. I have never looked down on a woman for having a career and being happy in it, and wanting more out of it. I dont like when some look down on me for wanting a more "traditional." Arrangement with my husband. We respect each other and thats all the matters in a relationship 😊
@patriciasmith7282 4 ай бұрын
I'm 53, alone and still don't have my shit figured out
@kaitlynnogueira 4 ай бұрын
what do you guys do as a job or to “pay the bills”? please elaborate lmfao im curious
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
social media/marketing girlieee, my newsletters about plumbing products are *chefs kiss*😌
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
full time editor for multiple clients :)
@allyterese8778 4 ай бұрын
My dream is to balance a career working with kids that doesn’t drain me with being able to do theatre. (You said to drop links you can peep the channel if you want)
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
Honestly!! Same, I would perform in musical and dance shows FOR FREE, because I love to do it.
@bayaabricagerstung3309 4 ай бұрын
I wish I had dreams to chase. I was always told I had to be a doctor or at least a nurse. Now I don’t know what the hell I want to do.
@velvetstonebraker9874 4 ай бұрын
I loved Backyardigans, all those kids shows because I was the eldest child aka the BABYSITTER 😂
@adriannaacuna499 4 ай бұрын
Sams club is here in Southern California And my go to becuse scan and go. Don’t need to wait in line
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
scan and go?? 👀
@9081ms 4 ай бұрын
Pls make the podcast just Riayn & Palom!!! - it’s so much more interesting and we actually get to talk about our 20’s now instead of reminiscing about middle school / Disney every 5 seconds
@jennifermckibben3992 4 ай бұрын
Shit little kid shows slap! I’m 34 and I watched Bluey all day yesterday while my kids were playing in their room 🤣
@beccajean4418 4 ай бұрын
31 just left my caregiving job I had for 6 years. Loved the kids but need healthcare so bye 💔😢I am so sad. I watched them grow up.
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
lol, it took me a minute to find the comments haha
@jasperwinchell6569 4 ай бұрын
I mean this in a positive wake up call way but if your 9-5 has you meeting famous people in your field for dinner and having brand trips like… you’re closer than you think girls
@happilyellisafter 4 ай бұрын
Okay…I know neither of you want to hear this, but this entire conversation is RIDDLED with ideas and lyrics and concepts from Taylor Swift songs…Sierra can vouch for me on this. I LOVED this episode and conversation. Thanks for all the 20 whatever realness 💯
@allyterese8778 3 ай бұрын
Hi, I would love to submit for a woo girl moment! My name is Ally and I’m technically not a 20 something anymore. I just turned 30 six weeks ago. I am finally moving out of my parents house and starting a new job in a new state next week! This is a huge accomplishment for me as someone with chronic health issues!
@beccajean4418 4 ай бұрын
Hi dumb question. Did you buy a new couch?
@riaynchristina 4 ай бұрын
we did not lololol! we just took our a section of it and moved it ☺️
@kirstenholder7270 4 ай бұрын
I literally live across the road from IKEA
@TheRealAmericanIdiot 4 ай бұрын
Do you know about the infamous Handy Manny 'incident'?
@beccajean4418 4 ай бұрын
My dream is to be a tic tok vlogger but I am stuck at the 900 follower mark.
@cr8114 4 ай бұрын
paloma is very rich
@SamanthaM 4 ай бұрын
I’m 34 and I decided to chase a dream this year and pursue a career as a registered nurse 👩⚕️🩺 (even though I definitely do not feel smart enough!). I’ve had to sell my house and quit my full time job in order to do it, but I’m hoping it’ll be worth it 🙈
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
you are courageous!!! keep going my friend. you got this!! 💓
@SamanthaM 4 ай бұрын
@@palomamalfavonAh, thank you so much! 🩷
@TiannaSymoneOfficial 4 ай бұрын
this was SO needed! i’m in the process of starting my own wedding planning business and it’s single-handedly the most exciting but scary thing i’ve ever done! i’m the same way about not loving the corporate world so i want to do something creative but it’s so scary to believe in yourself and hope for the possibility of “if this is successful, i’ll be able to….” because you just never know! p & riayn - you are not alone, so many girlies are in the same place! 🤍 love you guys, thank you for this content!
@palomamalfavon 4 ай бұрын
Tiannaaaaa! SO proud of you my friend. YOU GOT THIS!! keep going
@beaniebun8779 4 ай бұрын
omg I just got the notification and this was posted 13 hours ago !! So excited regardless it came at a perfect time, i just put heat protectant in to do my hair !! ☺️🐾😄🫧🪷🪷🪩🪩
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