This lady has more balls than the husband. Proud of strong women like that!

Seeing her packing the suitcase I was a bit angry at her bc I thought "why do YOU have to leave the house?" But to my surprise, she was packing his clothes and put him outside the door. I just love her.

To quote Crazy Rich Asians, "it is not her job to make him feel like a man. That is his job. "

Omg, he just told her all the reasons he *didn't* want her as a wife, and still expected her to not want to go through with the divorce?

The wife handled the situation so calmly. Her facial expressions and the words she said. I aspire to be that emotionally strong. She's amazing. And the ending part where the husband didn't choose the mistress. That'll teach her a lesson not to be a home wrecker.

As a guy, there is no excuse for having an affair. For someone who have health issues and for a lady to work her ass off to take off the load from your back. He sure is ungrateful. The reason she did so much was out of love for him and her son yet all he see is restriction…. If he didn’t have the health he probably would have been in the ground even before he have a divorce. To all guys out there who are married please appreciate your wife sacrifice instead of nitpicking everything she limit you. Maybe it’s for the best for you.

See, he kept what he hated about her to himself. If he had talked to her calmly and found a decent way to do so they could have worked out the problems. Her being too bossy and him too weak. He married her anyway even knowing these and yet instead of talking or divorce he thought cheating was the answer. In the end he paid for it

He is pathetic. He complains about her taking charge for everything but then he begs her to get rid of his mistress. He couldn't even do anything himself.

Love this scene… no matter how many languages the excuses the husband gave… they are universal excuses… personally heard the exact words myself. Great script!!!

I love this scene of karmic retribution where the other woman is rejected. She thought that he would naturally go to/for her once the wife finds out about them. He thought that he could have the best of both worlds. Both got nada!

This guy reminds me of those males who are already married and have kids but acts like teenagers because one of our friend is like that actually. His parents his wife always need to take decision on behalf of him and he always act with impulse. Seriously they really need to except this part that where they went wrong instead of blaming others

He does wrong but blames her for him cheating. Wants her to get rid of the girlfriend.

Too classic. I even saw my dad's face on the husband. My dad always blame my mom for her strong character instead of reviewing his own weakness. He needs my mom to help him making decisions and to resolve problems. But he never be pleased. He is good at depressing others by his strong "language skills" and always make mom feel guilty for not let her husband "shining".

He seems to miss the point of marriage.. he works on creative side . She does the brunt work. Which he ducked anyways, and bore and raised their son .. that’s an executive job 6-figures $100K+, without maids, or assistant in today’s term, and she probably came out even if not short on compensation. He berated and blames her for his irresponsibility drinking, and abusing money, and why she had to take over signing and making sure the blue firework company ran well, and he feels inadequate? Oh Please child !! A real man wouldn’t need to be in this position.

A lesson in what not to say if you’re trying to save your marriage 😂

He acts like a unsettled teenager with anger issues and blames his wife for managing his stupidity

Love that she kicked that cheater out and then he kicked the mistress to the curb I hope she sues for divorce and then re- marries rich, handsome and single.

One thing I learned from this man cheats when he feels insecure because the woman is better than him. So he is scared she may leave her.

Among the 3 female lead actresses in this drama, Tong Yao to me is the best actress. Love her acting.

The most frustrating part when all the love, tender care and sacrifice given being slightly perceived as controlling and regard as the big mistake which will bang on head of a wife and giving feeling helplessness 😥

这种事发生了 就再也无法修复了 信任都没了 我绝对不会让我的孩子三观被影响

If you are married, the first priority is your family. feel something wrong or problem?? talk. that's what communication is for. when there is a problem, you do not focus on finding a solution but instead create a new problem, finally there is justification, self-defense, scapegoating others and play victim. very unfortunate isn't it??

Cheating is the most unforgivable

And that’s why ppl should at least do a Pre-marital Course and for some they can add pre-marital counseling. Marriage doesn’t “just happens” you have to invest in it and keep working on it. Think of it as a house there is always maintenance and work to do on it. Let me add an edit in case there is doubt from my comment: Cheating is wrong and inexcusable.

He blamed her hoping her guilt would make her stay. She turned that on him and his face says it all. He knew he made the wrong move. If I'm ever cheated on I hope I can be as strong as she is in this scene.

That mistress could marry only by stealing someone else's husband.

So it's her fault he cheated because she's exceptional. Shame on her for being smart, beautiful, strong, focused, a great mother, a business woman....someone who also always cleaned up his messes. What was she thinking by being too capable? Is the fool for real. He's incredibly insecure. Mistress hade him feel like he's the man which he liked. it's his own fault if he's not the man he wants to be, how dare he blame his wife. Good on her for putting him out.

I've watched this clip thousand times but can't get over it.

Its hard to give an open opinion because its a couples problem and solution, my opinion is that she has find whats right for her and her son. And the only thing I can see is that when you cheat you end up as a victim without acepting the wrong you did,its easy to blame others for your mistake. A marriage is a day yo day work, comunication is so important from the beggining and compromise for the best.

Its never the job of a woman to make him feel like a man. An affair no matter the excuse or reason is always wrong.

Es muy triste, esa mujer si que es fuerte, yo llore mucho cuando me entere, por que pensé que todo estaba bien, confiaba ciegamente solo yo creía en que todo estaba bien y eramos felices, pero pum, cuando te enteras y te pones a recordar todo se va a acomodando y es muy triste muy feo sentir eso 😔

Makes sense…. Everything he has is her doing. He had skills as an artist and fireworks designer but in terms of life skills it was all the wife: house, business. family life. Now she deserves a life with an equal partner: someone who will share the responsibilities and take care of her for a change…….

"I can't live without you" bullshit that people spread after they caught cheating "Am I a man in your eyes" Astrid Leong Teo can answer you "It’s that you’re a coward. You gave up on us. But I’ve just realized, it’s not my job to make you feel like a man. I can’t make you something you’re not." Ugh cheaters disgust me, the only love that is unacceptable is an affair

Shes so brave to handle evrything...

He was a weak men in my view if he didn't liked anything about her arrangements tell her talk with her .u remain quiet what is she supposed to think .you never voiced out your opinion . Cheating on her and giving it a excuse of this all about her being controlling He just couldn't digest the fact that she was better than him. And why in every series u try to show men can't take strong women .they can't be submissive .they will cheat to hurt her . Many men are not like this

My late father was a serial womaniser and always cited my mum's excellent ways to make money stretch, make do and mend and just be a better person as his reasons for cheating. He cheated on her until the day she died. My mum would cry and rage at him, she gave me all sorts of reasons for staying with him but, looking back, I think she loved him deeply. I wish she'd come to live with us because I really believe she'd have lived so much longer. But she was very ill by then and didn't want to be a burden.....not that she ever would have been.

It's nice when women don't ask and beg.

“要不要做的这么绝” 🙂你觉得呢

2:53 ...the guilt..... the accusation....as soon as you realize the consequences of your actions, you blame the other person.... #classic

This couple in the drama has the most hurtful story. The extent to which the mistress goes and husband goes, destroyed his perfect happy married life. Dreams and gifts his wives treasured blue fireworks were given off to the mistress. He even brings her to his town, rents an apartment for her. Went too overboard. This is too sad.

infelizmente só quem passa por isso chora junto com o que ela passa nesse drama.

Gu Ji chracter portrayed well the lady who does this role is too good betrayal is something no one can take it so easily

Все любовницы должны испытать этот момент, когда их тоже не принимают, они как черти из ада лезут и лезут в чужие семьи, а мужчины такие слабые, что противно просто даже находиться с такими, как он.

The only cdrama with justice so far

Also a real man wouldn’t packed himself already saying she can have the apt or split after sale because son needs a stable place and mother.

Omg! Were you thinking of your son when you first started this affair? Each time you went there?? No. So don’t now. He lost that right.

出軌只有0次跟無限次、為了孩子在裝沒事、反而更影響了孩子、勇敢面對更是為了孩子好！

Esta foi a melhor protagonista pra mim de muitos doramas. Queria assistir mais doranas com mulheres fortes e equilibradas, mesmo diante de tanto sofrimento.

She is a great role model 🙏

The best scenes and acting in soap opera. I love how strong she is and how she handles herself. But he is right. He is the older son she has to take care of.... lol

True being in a loveless marriage can suck especially when you're supposed to be equals but you don't feel as an equal not everyone can be mentally or emotionally strong I kind of understand him but he was completely wrong on cheating on her he should have told her or talked it out and then if they wanted to get a divorce then they do that then he's free to date whoever

Whatever was the big problem between 2 partners cheating shouldn't be option ...🔪🔪🔪🔪

Did anyone miss the reality of his he man decision to build more blue fireworks to show off for that little girl. The fireworks building exploded, killed 2 people hospitalized 3 people and bankrupted his business. That’s what his cheating did. He also lost his family, and the life of the girl was corrupted. Karma caught up to both of them. He should have been a good man. He knew his wife is honest and doesn’t play games with anyone. I’m glad she finally threw them both out. 😤

Essa mulher arrasou nesse dorama assistir só por causa dela 👏👏👏😍😍😍

She is strong if he thought all those things he never told her till now ,like she said are you finished with excuse for sleeping with another,who is sorry now

All the greviences that he has should have been discussed with his wife a long time ago, and not use it as an excuse for cheating. He has the responsibility to let his wife knows how he felt then overcome the issues together while still in the marriage. That is the basis of keeping the marriage apart from love, trust because it's a partnership in marriage.

当你犯错时记得自己有孩子吗??? 而且是一错再错

Que fuerte que le diga que no puede vivir sin ella o sin su hijo cuando lo único que ha hecho es engañarla, traicionarla, mentirle tanto a ella como a su hijo y en ningún momento ha pensado en ellos. Por no mencionar que como el poco hombre que es le echa la culpa de todo a ella. Caradura

I think that in order for him to stop saying those stupid things about not divorcing is this: would you forgive me, take me back, if i cheated on you, and paid an apartment in this same building with my lover for months?

This is so not something I would normally watch, but after watching a few clips, I will have to put this on my list. That woman is one tough cookie, and I’m fascinated as to how this will all turn out. And that home wrecker being rejected in the end. Yes!

Pathetic man. Blaming her, saying that she's the reason he cheated...?

Прекрасная дорама, здесь и подруга её стала любовницей, но кто бы не стал на ее месте с таким мужчиной, а саперница гудзя напористая наглая и уникальная, решила вырвать это сокровище из семьи

Pero que desgraciado 😡 que bueno que lo boto de su casa, después que ella asumió todo por él... Y esa chica del final tuvo lo que se merece 👀

"We should save our marriage for our child" Dude, you didn't give a shit about the marriage or your child when you were cheating so why the hell would she want to put up with you any longer? And to use your son to try and guilt your spouse into staying with you is beyond wrong. Trust is like a balled up piece of paper. You can unfurl it and try to smooth it out but it'll never be what it was before. Who wants to stay in a marriage where there's no trust? And the mistress was seriously a dumbass if she genuinely thought he was going to leave his wife and child for her. That's what all cheating men say and they never actually do.

Que classe essa mulher tem.. Ñ sei como seria minha reação...

一个那么好的女人愿意当你老婆跟你同甘共苦一生一世 爱你爱得彻彻底底 然后你做啥了？ 就因为她太完美了让你感到很没用？ 他妈的叻 对！你没错你就是没有用 根本就不是男人

This man's lowest point where there was definitely no lower he could go, is that he released what seemed like pent up, for years, complaints about his wife. The things he said were ridiculous because it was these things she did ▶️ for him and their family that were intended to allow him to be the artist he wanted to be and she believed him to be. She removed distractions from his artistic flow so his works could be uninhibited. She saw his worth, his ability, his need to be who he is...and bent herself to accommodate what he loved most - creating mesmerizing fireworks displays. She didn't encourage him to leave an established company to hinder him, but to expand him so letting him loose to create freely. 'Create freely' is the gist of what she gave up of herself for him. Her gift to her beloved. She let others look down on her, tolerated men hitting on her as a means to seal deals, lived days full of meeting needs from sunup to well past sunset. What's so low about what he said is not so much that he felt these ways a long time - but that he hadn't realized and appreciated it was all 'the' plan for balance and success. A good, generous, and giving plan. She in essence fed him a feast while only taking crumbs for herself...and did so willingly and happily without complaints that he needed too much or wasn't capable in some ways or was unmanly or just a taker never giving... . To open his mouth and say such things to her to explain/excuse his desire for infidelity was monstrous. Oh yeah...he seriously wanted to do what he did and was in love. He just didn't like the smell of the ____ when it hit the fan.

It was so funny because he thought she was packing to me when in fact she was packing his stuff. 😵🤣🤣

Thank God when my sweet mom had me I came out a rock. I’ve been thru devastating stuff in my life, pick myself up, pray to my Lord, and get on with it, until he calls me home❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

渣男出軌時沒有想起孩子。

Eu gostei, ela não ter voltado, além de ser traída, teve que suportar colocar a amante para correr, que humilhação pior, quando ela disse que aquele era o pior momento da vida dela, coitada, ele teve o que mereceu, sim, pode ter sido impulso, mas não pensou neles mesmo, sem vergonho, não deu valor a ela do lado dele que cresceu junto, sofreram juntos, ainda ter que arrancar dinheiro suado que ela ajudou a erguer dos negócios para a amante

We dont have to beg for love,it is painful ,but is going to happen again,give him to the other you will see the results.

I was angry with him but when he said to his mistress " I will never choose you". That make me feel pity for him...

I waited for her to say, "congratulations, you're not my son anymore" 😭

And here I thought she's leaving!!! 😂😅

So disgusting, main topic is cheating yet he changing the topic and trying to be the victim. I don’t even know how he started his “company” and was in the “best team”

El q hace una vez lo hará siempre aunque duela es la mejor desición L relación jamás volvería a ser igual😤😤😤

I like guchia strong character. D husb is just making an excuse for himself

It always surprised me after they cheat they suddenly want to remember the kids and talking about stay together for family what kind of messed up crap is that while they cheating did family and kids disappear only to come back when they are caught

Hay hombres q se sienten inferiores ante la mujer cuando es exitosa y tiene la capacidad de ser más q ellos es una pena pero en la vida real también es así eso no justifica su infidelidad se acaba todo.😩😩

Essa esposa é uma criatura excepcoonal, esse marido canalha, aprontou sem dó e sem piedade e não mereceu a esposa que tinha. Se fosse comigo, nunca mais queria ver a cara dele.

At the very last second the husband realized: wtf all that packing was my stuff…

U cheated with a married man so what u expected??? Roses n sunshine??? A cheater is always a cheater!!!

Disculpa, pero ningun hijo merece llevar la carga de una infidelidad, creo que el merece crecer en un ambiente de sinceridad, y que le haga crecer como persona, y en donde el padre fuerza y utiliza a su hijo como excusa x su herror, la mujer es libre de elegir, segun donde ella se sienta tranquila y feliz consigo misma, pobre infeliz que se xree con el derecho de elegir, la estavilidad, emocional de la esposa e hijo,, en mi pais, nosotras, elegimos, divorcio

Quem foi muito longe foi você, não tem direito de reclamar nada com ela muito menos tenta manipular essa situação querendo reverter era pra ele assumir o erro e só pedir perdão.

This really the reality of life that makes un happy family

Otimo esse dorama to assistindo é uma reflexão da vida como o ser humano é extremamente egoista

This is one of my favourite movie . I can watch many time

They should ever got married in the first place and now she is paying the price of her activities and he will to pay the full price

What is the name of this drama???😀

Pls can someone tell me the title of this drama thanks

If you are a man take responsibility for your actions.

Great example for men who cheated their wives but it's so sad when separation is .....😭

Shouldn't have been messing around with a married man

Would love to watch this but with out eng subt it makes it really difficult!!

當初再看時一直以為顧家收的是她自己衣服，最後才發現他都是拿許幻山衣服XD

Este esposo no tiene disculpa... Tenía un hogar hermoso una esposa fiel, abnegada, un hijo....No tiene cerebro, no merece perdó

I would kick him out and take away the apartment .remove the bank account if they joint and let him deal with his own problems

Assuming he spoke up from the beginning and conveyed how he felt no control then they would be better. Sometimes if you can’t approach your partner directly start to show what you need or feel in little ways. He claims he lacked control over everything then from the moment they moved in him fixing the furnitures and arranging the space although may seem pointless is a step although small towards having control you can’t immediately fix a problem like his. Blaming your partner when you have this sort of feeling is wrong because you can start grabbing control in the littlest things

Nothing but 30 looks so good but I still have yet to watch