China’s Leftover Women Distraught: 36-Year-Old With Master’s, Owns Home and Car, Remains Unmarried

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China Observer

China Observer

Ай бұрын

Girls, do you know what it's like to be 36, unmarried, and without a boyfriend? It's not the independent, clear-headed heroine you might imagine. In reality, I'm afraid of dating, afraid of relationships, and can't even think about marriage. It's not because I'm not trying or that I'm not good enough. I have a master's degree, started a business, and bought a house. But when it comes to marriage, I feel weak. I've gone on many blind dates, and just the thought of being judged for my age makes me not want to go again. Even if I meet someone I like and we get along well, if I show any temper, they'll say, "You're not young anymore. If you still don't understand things and need me to coax you, why am I with you?" Because of my age, many things become intolerable. So, maybe love is something for the younger years, and if possible, it's best to enter marriage when you're young.
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@kyrenthang8633
@kyrenthang8633 Ай бұрын
No man has ever said, "Check out her "Master's degree!".
@Jaegerrants
@Jaegerrants Ай бұрын
Never mind that the degree is rarely worth the ink it's printed with.
@well-blazeredman6187
@well-blazeredman6187 Ай бұрын
And no woman has ever bragged to her girlfriends about how thrifty her new boyfriend is.
@blackvillain4479
@blackvillain4479 Ай бұрын
Damn girl that master's degree is looking thick as hell!
@ssesf
@ssesf Ай бұрын
I may have wanted a cute girl, when I was young but I certainly also wanted an intelligent, educated women. It turned me on if I could speak with her in 3 different languages without any of them being our native tongue.
@ericwilliams1659
@ericwilliams1659 Ай бұрын
She sure has a nice pair of degrees.
@dwaynejones1555
@dwaynejones1555 Ай бұрын
Successful men don’t even care if a pretty woman lives with her parents or works at a fast food restaurant.
@Mojaveknight17
@Mojaveknight17 Ай бұрын
Some do depends
@TheMinchio
@TheMinchio Ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@chadmiesterDonovan
@chadmiesterDonovan Ай бұрын
You said it yourself "some" Not most. Finding and pointing out exceptions doesn't change the general situation. Majority don't care about marrying down
@HorseRadish403
@HorseRadish403 Ай бұрын
A woman would never marry a guy that works at McDonald's.
@bochog7587
@bochog7587 Ай бұрын
Well said
@Chepicoro
@Chepicoro 17 күн бұрын
Once I dated a chinese woman... the only woman that openly asked me how much money I make per hour... no thanks
@PetoS
@PetoS 16 күн бұрын
Try eastern europe, you will on first date make full interview about your asset.😂(what you have, where you work, how much per year you bring home)
@Chepicoro
@Chepicoro 14 күн бұрын
@theprogram863 I totally agree with you... But was tactless from her
@TearfulNight
@TearfulNight 14 күн бұрын
Looks like very country same situation now .. all woman after money
@illbeevan
@illbeevan 14 күн бұрын
😂😂
@Chepicoro
@Chepicoro 13 күн бұрын
@theprogram863 yes she came to Montreal to study a post graduate something...but she had more than a year in Canada at that time
@tkul8150
@tkul8150 22 күн бұрын
Meanwhile the other documentary channel reports that 50 million Chinese bachelors could not find wives in China.
@user-tp6kr4fw2k
@user-tp6kr4fw2k 20 күн бұрын
Yeah. That's why the ones who are really leftover in China are leftover guys. 😂
@benjaminnanaadjekum9092
@benjaminnanaadjekum9092 17 күн бұрын
They're not finding wives because they're 30 and above and also having a bachelor's degree 😅
@troublesome1101
@troublesome1101 17 күн бұрын
Most chinese men don't have higher education so women won't pick them. Rich men or men with higher education won't look for financial capability or degree when looking for a wife, only if they feel attracted. She could work as a waitress and marry rich. Doesn't work the other way as women tend to look for someone with equal or higher financial capability.
@Kira-tb7jv
@Kira-tb7jv 15 күн бұрын
Rural man unable to find wives Urban women unable to find husband
@passingthrough6433
@passingthrough6433 14 күн бұрын
​@@troublesome1101when you say that men wont look for financial capability in a woman it kinda sounds like those men avoid financially capable women lol. Women dont usually think "oh i need to get my masters to find rich men" its more about being that, financially capable. I'd rather be single and financially capable than single and financially insufficient/dependent,, tough economy single or in a relationship imo
@toonami99
@toonami99 Ай бұрын
"i would consider it" "i would have to be out of my mind" ok that got me.
@bendyloco
@bendyloco Ай бұрын
🤣 as soon as he said she had more wrinkles she didn’t want to hear anymore after going on and on, that was too funny
@flacodeltoro6675
@flacodeltoro6675 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@skylinec83
@skylinec83 Ай бұрын
Dude was SAVAGE. Truthful, but DESTROYED her.
@penlavits3305
@penlavits3305 Ай бұрын
Yea 😂
@poodlescone9700
@poodlescone9700 Ай бұрын
I thought the dude was a simp until he turned the tables on her.
@siskasiska5040
@siskasiska5040 Ай бұрын
This is like a business proposal rather than marriage proposal.
@user-2c5Goi0fr8id-m
@user-2c5Goi0fr8id-m 28 күн бұрын
As much as I think of Hollywood movies as corny, they still beat the Chinese marriage market.
@blainer8374
@blainer8374 27 күн бұрын
That's unfortunately how it is in China. I even had my wife come to me with a paper contract when we had a bust up in order to settle it.
@tomaccino
@tomaccino 27 күн бұрын
Was marriage ever done out of love? Historically, marriage was about bringing the wealth of two families together, especially the ones of nobles and royals. We still keep this tradition today for some reason...
@Theprimaryfocus
@Theprimaryfocus 26 күн бұрын
A marriage proposal IS a business proposal.
@siskasiska5040
@siskasiska5040 26 күн бұрын
I am one of Chinese decent, we still carries Chinese traditions for some of important celebrations; wedding is one of them where parents will request dowry, however we never sets or request the amount. Yes, it is up to the individual to sets up the standards of their better half, however at the end of the day, good guys don't always come with the added bonus (financially stable). I wasn't so financially stable before I met my other half (I didn't have the good career), he was the main breadwinner (yet he still marries me, without all the financial calculations), he respected and supported me to further educate myself and I'm earning much more than him now and yet we never calculate who buy what for the kids and that is how it should be. It is sad, but those ladies might missing out on genuinely good guys.
@sandeeppunia3853
@sandeeppunia3853 17 күн бұрын
Man's choice - Young and Hot Woman's choice - Intelligent, caring, simple, sophisticated, educated, rich, handsome, emotional, tall, funny, crazy, dangerous, heman, superman, batman, ironman, brack Obama, respectful, confidence, honest, romantic etc etc
@ruzimabonieck6908
@ruzimabonieck6908 13 күн бұрын
young and hot and loyal last feminine that's enough
@metatron8386
@metatron8386 8 сағат бұрын
Short list there for the women missing 290+ additional features.
@ConstantlyRepeatingMyself
@ConstantlyRepeatingMyself 34 минут бұрын
Obama lol! Hell no!
@Visionary20248
@Visionary20248 25 күн бұрын
Marriage and career are two different domains. Don’t let them overlap.
@squizzyicetea
@squizzyicetea Ай бұрын
Women don't want to be judged by their age the same way men don't want to be judged by their income
@jaschan2006
@jaschan2006 Ай бұрын
In society, men get more pressure to not judge a woman by her age than women being told not to judge men by their income. I do have friends who married women in their 30s and 40s though they didn’t have kids. Income-wise it may not be much better. That sucks for both parties.
@barnaliadhikary9421
@barnaliadhikary9421 27 күн бұрын
Men don't give birth to children...women do... So men should be judged by their income...no woman will accept a parasite... If men could share 50 % pregnancy then we could consider his less income
@barnaliadhikary9421
@barnaliadhikary9421 27 күн бұрын
​@@jaschan2006wrong... That's sheer male victim playing...in society women are wayyyy more harshly judged than men in anything... Men are encouraged to judge women by age, looks, fertility,sexiness, household chores skills plus income now. Patriarchal Beauty standards are a burden on women. What you say contradicted the contents of the video... It's men who are judging women more for their age .. than women judging men more for their incomes... Women are pressured to lower their standards mostly even if she is highly successful... Society privileges men
@Oksanallex
@Oksanallex 27 күн бұрын
But both female age and male income might be an obstacle to having children.
@AIartificalIntellige
@AIartificalIntellige 27 күн бұрын
​@@Oksanallexfalse. The poorest have the most kids. Geriatric women, do not.
@liamc4113
@liamc4113 Ай бұрын
Go find herself a handsome boy who works at McDonald.
@newera1892
@newera1892 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@youtubewatcher4792
@youtubewatcher4792 Ай бұрын
And on a positive note. McDonald employees in the US make more than 150,000 RMB (20,657 USD) a year.
@meddlingmage23
@meddlingmage23 Ай бұрын
I was thinking - these leftovers can get with each other. They have the education, house, car, money.
@liamc4113
@liamc4113 Ай бұрын
@@meddlingmage23 yea, double the happiness.
@ManiBalajiC
@ManiBalajiC Ай бұрын
@@youtubewatcher4792 that's so poor in american standard.
@Phoenix-King-ozai
@Phoenix-King-ozai 24 күн бұрын
"Masters degree" The most overrated thing on the planet
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
do you even know how hard it is working to get one? 😂
@joelwarren6005
@joelwarren6005 3 күн бұрын
​@@blake7075It depends on the program and where one obtains it. I have several myself, but I value the first one above the others since it's the one concentrated in my actual field of expertise (mechanical engineering), while the others are more of an accompianment to that discipline (engineering mechanics, business administration and finance). I'll also admit that the first one is valued more since I was able to get it at an internationally renowned private university, over the others which were acquired at state universities. There's definitely an (intrinsic) value to them, but unless one has a similar experience where one can relate to the challenge of getting one, the only real metric of (extrinsic) value for a Master's degree is the income increase one can arguably justify in having them.
@malvinelpinnoy
@malvinelpinnoy 7 сағат бұрын
​@@blake7075still overrated
@NarutoShippuuden921
@NarutoShippuuden921 5 сағат бұрын
@@blake7075 i have a master's degree, its hard but nobody cares about your education, thats just your achievement and thats it, i dont care about others education, in faction i dont give a bullcrap thats not what i ask when i meet a new person and i might never actually ask that unless they open a subject
@MightyPessimist
@MightyPessimist 27 күн бұрын
Keeping standards high means you may never find someone. But if finding someone is not something you care about….you in a win win situation.
@Wabu1
@Wabu1 Ай бұрын
"i'd rather die than settle" ok we get it
@sleepinglaffey3886
@sleepinglaffey3886 Ай бұрын
Patriotism of Winnie PorkPooh #slopagandpa #miseryindex - With stimulus and measures, China's debt will be at 400% to 500% of its GDP in the next decade, according to Reuters. -Chinese 🇨🇳 property Ponzi sector, which accounts for 30% of GDP, is crashing -Exports and imports, accounting for 37% GDP, are down. -Foreign investment is falling over 90% compared to it's peak in 2018. -Foreign visitors are down 96% compared to the pre-pandemic level in 2019. -Consumer prices are experiencing hyperstagdeflation. -Youth unemployment hits over 21% (in reality 50%+ after eliminating faked numbers), a record. -It's fast shrinking workforce is 10 years old than neighboring countries. - During the years 1990-2021, the US printed 6.5 time more money while China printed 147 times. - It has printed more money than the US and Japan combined, while it's economy is only half of them. - Current Chinese debt-to-gdp is already highest in the world, at 300%, according to Bloomberg. Mengze harvard daughter: lives in US brother: australian green card daughter in law: british green card sister: canadian citizen brother in law: canadian citizen second sister: australian green card second brother in law: australian green card WOW SO GOOD Organ Leeks #sloprosperity #theskydontlie
@owenb8636
@owenb8636 Ай бұрын
It's so weird how the women describe how miserable they are being alone but at the same time they absolutely can't compromise on small things
@carlkev1265
@carlkev1265 Ай бұрын
The problem solved itself eh.
@poodlescone9700
@poodlescone9700 Ай бұрын
I am OK with this. We do not need that kind of attitude in the gene pool.
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 Ай бұрын
fixed:" "I'd rather die" (period)
@RAS_Squints
@RAS_Squints Ай бұрын
Amazing how she plays the victim saying there is such high standards, then goes out making a list of her standards xD
@LikaLaruku
@LikaLaruku Ай бұрын
When there are 35 million more men in your country than women, you have the right to be picky.
@123chargeit
@123chargeit Ай бұрын
@@LikaLaruku You also are going to stay single. Nothing wrong with high standards but you should be realistic in what that will lead to. If your standards matched what you can actually date you would be dating them already.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
​@@LikaLarukuThese women are being picky, all right. They're picking the option to become a leftover woman. 😂
@ShinLeeChan
@ShinLeeChan Ай бұрын
@@LikaLaruku And since when money or master degree made couples happy? So, are you marrying someone for what they have or for what they are? Being picky doesn't make any sense... If men were so picky Heyden Panettiere would die single. We have preferences and that's a whole different thing, but I never let my preferences turn my eyes blind at the point that I wouldn't recognize a good match even if it's way too different from my preferences. Femminism instead, is trying to drag women at the bottom of the sea. Remember, a rich man can marry even a poor woman if she has a good character, 'cause it's what men pursuit when they come back home from 12-14hr of work.
@AzureBat
@AzureBat Ай бұрын
​@@LikaLaruku The title of the last video on her read that the number of leftover wahmen is over 100 million. GG you played yourself😂
@hamaidmk
@hamaidmk 14 күн бұрын
You need to understand one thing --- A rich man with a house, car and a stable job will never go after your money but he will look after a young girl for physical attraction and mental peace.
@Apollo1011
@Apollo1011 4 күн бұрын
And willing to take have babies and care of a home and family
@ConstantlyRepeatingMyself
@ConstantlyRepeatingMyself 31 минут бұрын
When you get old, that young girl will take your money and leave for you to die by yourself. She will be off with her boyfriend on a nice vacation provided by you. Good luck. Men think they can handle young women but only with the help of Viagra.
@b.lloydreese2030
@b.lloydreese2030 14 күн бұрын
I was married to a chinese woman from beijing just before she hit 30. We were married for 12 years and much of it was her abusing me and just being generally difficult and hard to live with. Ultimately she cheated on me because she wantes revenge on me for not earning enough money. Let them stay single
@stellatong5002
@stellatong5002 Ай бұрын
Not everyone is marriage material
@floycewhite6991
@floycewhite6991 Ай бұрын
She's not.
@MukadisAymen-ui8fy
@MukadisAymen-ui8fy 29 күн бұрын
For sure 💯💯💯
@yanliew4027
@yanliew4027 28 күн бұрын
Fengshui. Look at the year of birth n its compatibility with other years!
@yanliew4027
@yanliew4027 28 күн бұрын
1991 Year of the sheep should pair well with any year! 1988 year of the dragon only pairs well with year 85 ...
@marcmarcelmercado8949
@marcmarcelmercado8949 8 күн бұрын
it's alarming when they are increasing in number.
@yadusolparterre
@yadusolparterre Ай бұрын
"It's Johnny Depp or nothing" "Why am I single?"
@Carnyzzle
@Carnyzzle Ай бұрын
now I ain't saying she a gold digger
@Enigmatic22
@Enigmatic22 Ай бұрын
@@CarnyzzleBut she ain’t messing with no broke N[][][][]’s
@bradolfpittler2875
@bradolfpittler2875 Ай бұрын
Why not settle for Brad Pitt?
@P.90.603
@P.90.603 Ай бұрын
And they want young Johnny Depp.
@Wanwan-mq3jw
@Wanwan-mq3jw Ай бұрын
Not Johnny Depp. Only Johnny Depp in his 20s .. ouh too late now 🎉😂👍
@peruanitocourier1804
@peruanitocourier1804 10 күн бұрын
"Why you sleep with one lady in her 40's when you can sleep with two girls in her 20's?" - Peruvian proverb.
@LaitoChen
@LaitoChen 16 күн бұрын
Men react to "Masters degree" like women react to "pokemon card collection". She needs to get a clue
@pyrioncelendil
@pyrioncelendil Ай бұрын
The crux of the issue here is that Chinese women won't marry below their station. Peter Zeihan pointed this out years ago as one of the exacerbating factors to China's inevitable demographic implosion: there's no shortage of men in a system that's absurdly patriarchal and practiced rampant female infanticide during the One Child policy, but that's enabled Chinese women to be picky about who they'll marry. She's not distraught that she can't find a guy, she's distraught that she can't find a guy that meets her criteria.
@Ravalin
@Ravalin Ай бұрын
exactly, I live in an area that has a ton of chinese people living here and dating apps are filled to the brim with them and ones that currently living in china that are shamelessly gold dig even past 36. They much rather die alone than to ever "settle" for a more humble lifestyle. Sadly know plenty of western girls that like this as well.
@SeArCh4DrEaMz
@SeArCh4DrEaMz Ай бұрын
Totally agree, there is such an imbalance between men and women in china, I can't believe women in china would have a hard time finding a partner... They seem very picky, asking a dowry, "non-negotiable"... cmon...
@UlshaRS
@UlshaRS Ай бұрын
Lots of incels whining about standards they have expected of women being flipped on them when they aren't being forced by family into marriage
@Ravalin
@Ravalin Ай бұрын
@@SeArCh4DrEaMz yeah, think having too many options get to their heads. When I was much younger the single's things I go to had a 11 to 1 guy girl ratio and even the most "humble looking" girl there has a swarm of guys hovering around her. Sadly many of them thought too highly of themselves and wouldn't settle for anything less than perfection and now most of them are still single and pushing 40 with zero clue.
@jrpark05
@jrpark05 Ай бұрын
"The crux of the issue here is that Chinese women won't marry below their station." That isn't just a Chinese problem, but a global problem, especially in countries where feminism has taken root. Hypergamy is a problem in women the world over.
@vipondiu
@vipondiu Ай бұрын
Younger women are not "percieved" as more fertile. They are
@MrJames-eb6rp
@MrJames-eb6rp 28 күн бұрын
💀
@tomaccino
@tomaccino 27 күн бұрын
Hence the meaning of the word "to perceive". It's used correctly.
@AIartificalIntellige
@AIartificalIntellige 27 күн бұрын
​@@tomaccinoyou used the word as a definition. You high?
@tomaccino
@tomaccino 26 күн бұрын
@@AIartificalIntellige No, I'm low and miserable, but I know what "perceive" means. Now go away... I'm depressed.
@sassuki
@sassuki 26 күн бұрын
Absolutely. Officially, you get more problems starting 35, but even at 28, many women are forced to have a caesarean in order to deliver! So definitely the younger the better!
@lesterksi4521
@lesterksi4521 22 күн бұрын
You get married because you're in loved with each other. It doesn't have to be fantasy land perfect.
@OGtruthserum
@OGtruthserum 22 күн бұрын
This is what the Chinese fail to understand.
@user-dc3zs6ux3x
@user-dc3zs6ux3x 2 күн бұрын
Exactly I agree
@alfonsbhagat9995
@alfonsbhagat9995 Күн бұрын
She - my money is my money and his money is our money. She - I want my husband to make more money than me. Him - i am making more money than you and I will go for a younger and more feminine girl. Ok bye😂😂😂😅
@TheFriendlyPsychopath
@TheFriendlyPsychopath 28 күн бұрын
The way she talks about what she has she dont need a man, she needs a wife.
@619AGT
@619AGT 27 күн бұрын
I’d say more like what she really needs (or wants) is a servant.
@user-tp6kr4fw2k
@user-tp6kr4fw2k 20 күн бұрын
​@@619AGT the same as guys usually do
@henrymlim
@henrymlim 18 күн бұрын
I am all for female empowerment but it's got to be fair to both males and females. The women nowadays look for men who will do everything she asks for (even the absurd requests) but are excited by bad boys and rich men. It is almost impossible to find a rich, bad boy who also does everything she asks for (except in stories e.g. Christian Grey). I do not scold my wife for screwing up but she would once in a while be rude to me when I did not get things her way. Instead of asking "Did you mix up the order?", she would say "What is this?". I immediately told her off for trying to harp on that 1 single incident out of multiple things I successfully did for her. Women can be ungrateful.
@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 12 күн бұрын
@@619AGT and you don't when you seek a wife?
@619AGT
@619AGT 12 күн бұрын
@@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 IF I was searching for a wife right now, which I’m not. And even if I was, I wouldn’t be looking for a potential spouse just so I can see them as a servant.
@Dogsrcute823
@Dogsrcute823 Ай бұрын
“From the countryside” is the greatest insult for Chinese
@andrewt.5567
@andrewt.5567 Ай бұрын
Then they showed a countryside girl that was more attractive anyway.
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 Ай бұрын
America: "she from the streets!" China: "she from the countryside" LOL
@Selvokaz
@Selvokaz Ай бұрын
and yes I've met some of the sweetest Asian possibly Chinese women in the countryside or downsouth here in America.
@victorye7150
@victorye7150 Ай бұрын
​@@Selvokaz The Chinese city girls view the countryside men is like American city girls view blue collar men. No status!
@-whackd
@-whackd Ай бұрын
Countryside values are great in a woman. They're often healthier too, and want children.
@pear-zq1uj
@pear-zq1uj 14 күн бұрын
The problem is they treat it all like a business arrangement, listing their income, houses, etc like it matters when it comes to loving someone. No wonder they're single, they have no clue what love is
@ankitait2
@ankitait2 15 күн бұрын
I heard of similar phenomenon with 30 something Japanese women. They ended up marrying foreigners (Indians and Americans primarily, but also Chinese and Laotian) and are reasonably happy. 30s is not old to have children, Chinese and Indian women of the past (1940-1960 generation) had healthy babies well into their 40s.
@derek4412
@derek4412 4 күн бұрын
By 37 years old one quarter of women can’t have any more children. Yes, it’s possible to have children around 40 years old, but it’s much less likely
@billytan888
@billytan888 Ай бұрын
The older Chinese women who have good education and career think that is good enough to get a successful man. But all the successful men want is women who are young and hot.
@llothar68
@llothar68 Ай бұрын
Not in china
@Twiceonasunday
@Twiceonasunday Ай бұрын
And willing to have babies
@poodlescone9700
@poodlescone9700 Ай бұрын
These women do not realize that the high value men they desire with equal income and education do not want to marry a woman acting like a dude. They want a lady and being young is a bonus.
@BrotherHood-xh9sg
@BrotherHood-xh9sg Ай бұрын
Well, there are a bit more of standards. They don't want a hoe, they want kids that are theirs (so she must be loyal and willing to have children), and other standards like that.
@LikaLaruku
@LikaLaruku Ай бұрын
Only the richest & sexiest Chads in China can afford to be so picky. There are 35 million incels in China who would gladly marry a woman twice their age for the tiniest chance at having kids.
@michaelgeorge819
@michaelgeorge819 Ай бұрын
overly-materialistic, shallow, soulless people looking for other overly-materialistic, shallow, soulless people.
@briandrake6881
@briandrake6881 Ай бұрын
Sounds like Los Angeles.
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 Ай бұрын
I actually don't blame the people I blame the culture... the traditional cultures no longer work in this world of technology... and no modern culture impresses me at the moment...
@A_Hanım
@A_Hanım Ай бұрын
This is kinda true lol
@aleluia01
@aleluia01 Ай бұрын
@@therearenoshortcuts9868 who makes the culture? people do
@baffinsansterre
@baffinsansterre Ай бұрын
Ego is the ennemy.
@Ryublood
@Ryublood 28 күн бұрын
When that interviewer cuts off the interview. I laughed
@9B17
@9B17 27 күн бұрын
9:06 Check out her reaction when she heard she has more wrinkles. 😂
@DoritoBot9000
@DoritoBot9000 15 күн бұрын
Because she had absolutely none and the dude was just trying to be rude and verbally hostile at her, it’s reasonable to feel shocked
@oodo2908
@oodo2908 Ай бұрын
Is Rice Kernel actually saying that NO ONE warned her? Give me a break. Grandparents would assault her ears nonstop.
@birdstwin1186
@birdstwin1186 Ай бұрын
Exactly, I know grandparents in Asia always in youngsters ears about having children. Everytime they see them, its the only topic. She too busy focusing on the masters now her fertility is down...
@piotrmajewski5978
@piotrmajewski5978 Ай бұрын
She lies for clicks and attention. Never trust celebrities, they are all fake.
@oodo2908
@oodo2908 Ай бұрын
@@birdstwin1186 Yeah! I know a Chinese woman who had crazy standards and didn't have a Master's degree or properties. She ended up marrying a US naturalized Chinese guy when she was around 43. I'm not sure how much older the Chinese guy was. But she only got married to have a US citizen baby. She shipped the boy off to China and won't take care of him. He's like a present for the grandparents to raise. She bitches at the husband, tells him fuck you, and all that on the phone. Hates his guts. Imagine how much worse these Master's women with property could be?
@patescortez88
@patescortez88 Ай бұрын
Men who like her told her. She thought she knew what was best.
@ronnelacido1711
@ronnelacido1711 Ай бұрын
From her narration, she's a career woman. Women like that are always ambitious, goal-driven and independent-minded. Stability is their foremost objective so they spend their younger years after college achieving that: all work and minimal private life. I don't understand why being a so-called "leftover woman" is an issue for them when being independent and financially-stable is the better alternative than being penniless and homeless.
@Tigerous
@Tigerous 28 күн бұрын
As a single man in my late 30’s, I feel like most women just look for a fantasy instead of a relationship.
@anshuldwivedi1919
@anshuldwivedi1919 27 күн бұрын
True
@furubayashisea5396
@furubayashisea5396 27 күн бұрын
When their standard are too high..they demand more instead of equal. But later offer nothing in the relationship.
@decade10hl
@decade10hl 25 күн бұрын
@@furubayashisea5396 The worst thing is that they dont have the idea of 'standards are too high' instead they only think 'you dont work hard enough/generally not good enough'!
@VeniVidiVici456
@VeniVidiVici456 24 күн бұрын
True.
@Truth_Teller1111
@Truth_Teller1111 23 күн бұрын
Well said, and as unfortunate as that sounds, it is the ABSOLUTE fact and reality. Women do NOT wanna live in reality NOR listen to facts, they just wanna keep dreaming and live a fantasy, while big brother who’s literally everywhere reaps off their money. I’m SO glad men are FINALLY having the last laugh. Well deserved.
@mtnbikr107
@mtnbikr107 26 күн бұрын
Wait, the CCP doesn't give you a husband with your social credit card?
@jerome4214
@jerome4214 6 сағат бұрын
This is actually a very funny joke, hats off to you bro 🥹
@picknroll929
@picknroll929 17 күн бұрын
I feel bad about that girl in the marriage market.. She was told no because she's too old and too short.. Dang....
@borkug1566
@borkug1566 7 күн бұрын
Start feeling bad about all the men she rejected with her crazy standards...
@Zakaros1000
@Zakaros1000 6 күн бұрын
and she rejects a lot of men because they are poor or no having the opportunity in life to get a degree... so nope....
@AlvinLeong-me3iu
@AlvinLeong-me3iu Ай бұрын
The men she wants got lots of options...
@maix139
@maix139 17 күн бұрын
yes just like she have options too
@troublesome1101
@troublesome1101 17 күн бұрын
No she doesn't that the whole point. 🙄
@johnl2613
@johnl2613 9 күн бұрын
@@maix139 If she has then this video wouldnt exist LoL
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
honestly she should just marry a foreigner or a lady instead of staying in a closed-minded environment
@Despond
@Despond 2 күн бұрын
@@maix139 Yes the option to be alone for her whole life.
@Warder-hn7pe
@Warder-hn7pe Ай бұрын
Can’t think of a single man that married a woman for her education.
@oscargrainger2962
@oscargrainger2962 Ай бұрын
No it was their massive t**s.😅
@SomeThingMaybe
@SomeThingMaybe Ай бұрын
"Can’t think"
@UlshaRS
@UlshaRS Ай бұрын
Seem to be a lot of men looking for children to make their brides. If you don't see the problem you are part of it.
@NightinGal89
@NightinGal89 Ай бұрын
The smart ones do. Because they want smart kids, I've known a few who purposefully married smart women.
@PiroKUSS
@PiroKUSS Ай бұрын
​@@NightinGal89A Master's degree doesn't make one smart.
@gapguru3076
@gapguru3076 16 күн бұрын
You can't please everyone these days, so just might go with the flow...Hahaha!
@paulmurphy8993
@paulmurphy8993 17 күн бұрын
As a 62 year old man these girls are right in my wheelhouse!
@Me-fy8ue
@Me-fy8ue 14 күн бұрын
U are much too old
@KeithRingo
@KeithRingo 13 күн бұрын
​@@Me-fy8ueGeorge Clooney is 63.
@dimitri652
@dimitri652 9 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@eropoe6032
@eropoe6032 2 күн бұрын
Yes you need them as your grandkids
@TheMinchio
@TheMinchio Ай бұрын
A top tier man already has money, houses and cars, now wants a pretty young girl.
@neilrivera4194
@neilrivera4194 Ай бұрын
Exactly😂
@BamBamKiwi
@BamBamKiwi Ай бұрын
Yes sir.
@JohnDoe-kg6gy
@JohnDoe-kg6gy Ай бұрын
He wants his own LEGACY. How he gets it? Making his own family. Women between 19-23y.o. have stronger, smarter and nimbler babies.
@Wushibuxiaobaibu
@Wushibuxiaobaibu Ай бұрын
in China this man has been married for a while and can have a wife and a xiao san.
@mohhingman
@mohhingman Ай бұрын
and particularly not one with the baggage and ego of owning their own house and associated body count.
@josephjohnson1057
@josephjohnson1057 Ай бұрын
"The only way to fight against this unfairness is to remain single." Unlike the workplace, the dating market has no obligation to be "fair". At this point, you're not fighting anything. You're resigned to fate.
@ZhierOrreih
@ZhierOrreih 19 күн бұрын
No wonder they could not find a suitable mate, there's a requirements.
@underby2483
@underby2483 20 күн бұрын
Lady embrace the privacy and independence. Believe me.
@rintsuchimi9695
@rintsuchimi9695 Ай бұрын
like my mother used to say, all of us will grow old 1 day. The young ones used to judge, criticise and insult the older, now they are old they are feeling the pinch of the very same judgement they had on older people.
@user-2c5Goi0fr8id-m
@user-2c5Goi0fr8id-m 28 күн бұрын
I feel like it's the other way around: when I was young, it was always the "old" --- parents, relatives, teachers, professors, bosses, authority figures who always scolded, complained about, criticized, got angry with younger people .... Now they still do, even though they are on social security/pensions, dependent on younger workers.
@pink1237480
@pink1237480 25 күн бұрын
​@user-ky7pz8-yt I would have to agree with you. They always do that, and unfortunately, age doesn't always equal maturity.
@shivanikaushik1269
@shivanikaushik1269 24 күн бұрын
So true
@AlvinLeong-me3iu
@AlvinLeong-me3iu 22 күн бұрын
it is tough
@pepetovar5012
@pepetovar5012 20 күн бұрын
Indeed
@simshengvue4642
@simshengvue4642 Ай бұрын
The Great Wall of China
@jrpark05
@jrpark05 Ай бұрын
😆
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
Bro, that was a ROAST! Keep cooking! 🔥
@robotninja1186
@robotninja1186 Ай бұрын
undefeated
@bradolfpittler2875
@bradolfpittler2875 Ай бұрын
This comment literally made me LOL 😂😂😂
@NR.gamer241
@NR.gamer241 Ай бұрын
Bro is not roasting instead he frying them black
@jonp341
@jonp341 18 күн бұрын
I've never asked a woman on a first date: " Yo, let me see your master's degree before we go any further"
@jacla666
@jacla666 28 күн бұрын
If a man is looking to get babies and raise a family, I think it's only natural that they would avoid someone in the age where it's getting increasingly difficult to get a baby.
@rebeltheharem7028
@rebeltheharem7028 Ай бұрын
These women are basically looking for purely for a business transaction, like its still the old times when women were bought and sold like commodities. You are looking for something in high demand with low supply, mean while you are only offering something in low demand and high supply. Its basic economics. Lower your standards and you can easily find someone. But its your choice to either be forever alone, or settle for less.
@A_Hanım
@A_Hanım Ай бұрын
Yes, this is really sad. All these achievements and education, and still they don't know anything out of what patriarchal society forced upon them. That's why feminists always claim toxic masculinity is bad for both men and women.
@KyranSparda
@KyranSparda Ай бұрын
Look for transaction in love, then you won't get love, you will only get another transaction. These women played themselves.
@Devi_Seona
@Devi_Seona Ай бұрын
She shouldn’t lower her standards, alone is better than downgrading your own value.
@SodiumSyndicate
@SodiumSyndicate Ай бұрын
@@Devi_Seona She has no standards to lower, she is SUB STANDARD.
@the-chipette
@the-chipette Ай бұрын
You would say the same thing about younger women. You just want control.
@cenationofjnu
@cenationofjnu Ай бұрын
They are looking for a guy that either does not exist or out of their reach. She is rich and well educated. SO obviously she wants a guy who is handsome and richer than her. AT this age, finding such guy in this time of economic uncertainty who wants to marry her, chances are very slim...
@wokenessaplague5387
@wokenessaplague5387 Ай бұрын
Plus they can't do without hours of makeup and beauty filters.😂
@Alone47
@Alone47 Ай бұрын
Correction: They want a guy who is tall, not dark, handsome, rich, faithful, and loves her.
@patrickt49
@patrickt49 Ай бұрын
It's basically 0% at this point.
@trompell0
@trompell0 Ай бұрын
​@@Alone47height isn't everything. I'm six four and most women discard me quickly when they find out my income isn't high. It's all money then it's looks. You don't have wealth modern women simply do not even consider you doesn't matter how you look.
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx Ай бұрын
@@trompell0 That wealth thing also dies out in a few years, once they realize that they have no income, no home, no kids, no husband, no hope....and have to work like hell for the rest of their lives. Even a quiet life away from work environment is good enough for them. But at that age, nobody wants them anymore. Therefore, cats and wine in boxes is all they have got. As a thumb rule, if a woman isnt married by 20 years old, then there is a serious problem with that woman.
@gilles366
@gilles366 24 күн бұрын
Don't get married. It is not worth the trouble. Stay single have fun and enjoy your life.
@randomaluxsaga7bviews3seco63
@randomaluxsaga7bviews3seco63 23 күн бұрын
Yes this >>>
@jarodarmstrong509
@jarodarmstrong509 22 күн бұрын
Been married 3 years and couldn't disagree more. How about 'use your head and choose a team mate rather than a play mate'
@rohithak9419
@rohithak9419 22 күн бұрын
Well said
@gilles366
@gilles366 22 күн бұрын
@@jarodarmstrong509 Only 3 years! Good Luck. 🤣🤣🤣
@TheBlueboy7777
@TheBlueboy7777 21 күн бұрын
That is true, i m 33 yrs old and single! I m practically free for any pressure! I prefer to get rich and play video games when i reach my old age plus i love modern and advance technology!
@Dtitilator
@Dtitilator 26 күн бұрын
Degrees are mostly red flags. They're opinionated, assertive, and argumentative because having a degree and a career means they're mostly not going to give that up for simply love.
@jamisedenari2449
@jamisedenari2449 7 күн бұрын
Not true. You just want control.
@Dtitilator
@Dtitilator 7 күн бұрын
@jamisedenari2449 same with the women with careers. _"I have a career/degree so you listen to me."_
@jamisedenari2449
@jamisedenari2449 7 күн бұрын
@@Dtitilator no. No women ever said that to a man outside of an educational atmosphere. Face it you men just like to control.
@DC-wo2yb
@DC-wo2yb Ай бұрын
Now you can live life as a man with all that success, find a nice young 22 year old young man to take care of.
@andrewt.5567
@andrewt.5567 Ай бұрын
At 20, I would have accepted an attractive sugarmamma.
@danielnguyen2624
@danielnguyen2624 Ай бұрын
untill that young men take all the money, use their body and leave.
@JosephAdams93
@JosephAdams93 Ай бұрын
@@danielnguyen2624that’s why we invited marriage.
@manifest2203
@manifest2203 25 күн бұрын
Yes she can marry fertile m4n (better sp5rm quality) with a prenup. Or she can go to a sp4rm ban6k.
@Truth_seeker-bl5mi
@Truth_seeker-bl5mi 23 күн бұрын
Lol who in their right mind will choose an older woman to be their life partner except for maybe one night stands
@zeorhymer6
@zeorhymer6 Ай бұрын
Women with a masters, a career, house and car don’t need no man. They are strong and independent
@aleluia01
@aleluia01 Ай бұрын
Excellent comment! They "would like" a man around, obviously on a higher level then them, just to show off to their friends with their "capture"
@SAICENKITTY77
@SAICENKITTY77 Ай бұрын
You have everything, cmon,....be happy now !
@icemann4699
@icemann4699 Ай бұрын
Not everything. In China, a woman being alone, especially in later life, is not what it hyped up to be. You are the only child, parents are gone and no family members to be with. Coming home in the evening, you often look over your shoulder and in the closet and making sure all doors and windows are locked. You eat dinner alone and watch tv by yourself. You want to go out for fun or to dine out, but no one to go out with. Wanting to do some leisure travel, but no one to go with to enjoy and share in the experience. You may have a few friends, but they are often not there for you and they have their own life and even married or moved away. You then grow old and alone in your home. A cat can help ease some of that. You can talk to your cat.
@ThinkingJames
@ThinkingJames Ай бұрын
​@@icemann4699 Its fun to be alone. So peaceful. Never depend your own happinness in other people. Being alone means freedom to do anything in the world. Money is the game changer though.
@icemann4699
@icemann4699 Ай бұрын
@@ThinkingJames I can understand being alone may suit some people. For most women, it's tougher trying to go out or travel alone.
@mihismith
@mihismith 17 күн бұрын
Sell the house and move to a rural area, sell the car and buy a tractor - you’ll have hundreds of men eager to marry you!
@user-jx3ms6pd9m
@user-jx3ms6pd9m 14 күн бұрын
That could be true
@user-vo3um6ox7b
@user-vo3um6ox7b 7 күн бұрын
Let the older women sacrifice her standards, and accept the younger men who will come to benefit from her.
@ogremgtow990
@ogremgtow990 Ай бұрын
Maybe you should do a video about Chinese Valentines Day where women were hitting the guys presenting flowers to them because the gift was not good enough. Even Chinese men are learning it may be better to be a Bachelor and just not deal with entitled women.
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx Ай бұрын
They shouldn't try to buy a cow when they can milk it for free.
@Pinkywiththebrain
@Pinkywiththebrain Ай бұрын
Yeah a pig shouldn’t be trying to buy a cow.
@ogremgtow990
@ogremgtow990 Ай бұрын
@@Pinkywiththebrain You sound like another Leftover Woman
@Vaginasaurus-Lix
@Vaginasaurus-Lix Ай бұрын
Been Done Already.
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx Ай бұрын
@@Pinkywiththebrain Noone needs a cow who thinks her opposite sex is a pig. Milk is good enough.
@P.90.603
@P.90.603 Ай бұрын
All I hear are women wanting men with money. I rarely hear any woman want a good man. Look for a good man with a good heart. A man that doesn't harm or cheat others.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
Dude, have you not heard of 50 Shades of Gray? Women don't want good guys, they want the Machiavellian man that's a millionaire.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
@@P.90.603 And all women want bad men. That's why women are single and become leftover women. Make sense?
@michaelyuan3382
@michaelyuan3382 Ай бұрын
For women, good means money, not kindness or consideration or integrity or morals.
@michaelyuan3382
@michaelyuan3382 Ай бұрын
@@P.90.603 Relationships built out of greed are the natural result of the extreme, unconscionable capitalism under a brutal, immoral, totalitarian system that China has followed. The Chinese are not naturally evil, but their political system has made them so.
@newtrollaccount384
@newtrollaccount384 Ай бұрын
The same advice should go for men. Look for a good heart.
@breakpack
@breakpack 22 күн бұрын
Look, women can have the highest standards they want in a man. Guess what? Men can have high standards too. I can see men and women staying single. I believe men will handle growing old, single and alone better than women.
@doctorshawn3461
@doctorshawn3461 3 күн бұрын
Me: I am 48 years old, 6 foot 5, doctor, never been married, no kids, very wealthy, I would go out with that 36 year old Her: No you are too old Me: Okay I will just go out with a 28 year old
@melvinong5768
@melvinong5768 Ай бұрын
Leftover girls in Cantonese:- 1. orange at the bottom of the basket 2. The sugarcane that can't be sold 3. The thing that fills the gap of the stove
@shadowfilm7980
@shadowfilm7980 28 күн бұрын
For me it’s much much better to not be married! Love being single and free. As a guy.
@sassuki
@sassuki 26 күн бұрын
What happens when you get sick or have an accident alone at home?
@yuppers1
@yuppers1 24 күн бұрын
I think that's true of anyone, guy or girl. Though, statistically, girls are happier single. At least in the US.
@Princess-us5so
@Princess-us5so 23 күн бұрын
Exactly the saddest thing is not them never getting married. The saddest thing of all is these women might not ever realize how lucky they are. And then not embracing where they are and wishing for a pasture that's a lot of times for a woman is not even greener on the other side. I saw the way the men were talking; it's all about control. It's sad that many of these women may spend the rest of their lives miserable thinking only of the man they lack instead of being happy and embracing their singlehood and having friendships and family that will ACTUALLY CARE about them. Same goes for the lonely men.
@vsixerred3511
@vsixerred3511 20 күн бұрын
It seems you have not learned from her story 😅😅
@of8ightandse7en16
@of8ightandse7en16 18 күн бұрын
@@sassuki u marry for that reason ? hire a maid then
@77loneranger
@77loneranger 22 күн бұрын
"I'd rather die than settle." See you at the funeral director.
@SOttY-im6ve
@SOttY-im6ve 17 күн бұрын
She needs to travel out of china find a foreign Man, Chinese Man are doing it, Still inside the Box!💔
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
foreign men indeed would give her a chance, she just needs to go out and explore other countries 🤣
@DungarooTV
@DungarooTV Ай бұрын
If someone loves you truly then they won't care about your age, wealth or social status.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
You still believe in love? YIKES! 😱
@DungarooTV
@DungarooTV Ай бұрын
@@angrydragon4574 It's rare but still exists.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
@@DungarooTV You're right. But love is so rare that you're just chasing ghosts at that point.
@jaschan2006
@jaschan2006 Ай бұрын
Tell that to these women
@DungarooTV
@DungarooTV Ай бұрын
@@jaschan2006 Unfortunately, Asian culture is still very old-fashioned so it's hard being a women in traditional Asian countries such as China.
@admiraleveleigh8573
@admiraleveleigh8573 Ай бұрын
“Doesn’t everyone deserve love? Also if you want to be with me you need a degree, property, and you need to pay me 50000 RMB” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 These people deserve to be single lolol
@123chargeit
@123chargeit Ай бұрын
Everyone might deserve love but they do not deserve rich and good looking. Its china you can't through a stone without hitting a single man. If your single in China as a women its your own damn fault.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
Even Chinese men know that this "love" nonsense is a farce.
@ShinLeeChan
@ShinLeeChan Ай бұрын
Yeah absolutely! As if I would throw out of the window my money for an old woman who has her job in mind h24.
@WestCoastAce27
@WestCoastAce27 Ай бұрын
Odd that in India and other countries the dowry goes from the bride’s family to the groom. She’s really arrogant.
@angrydragon4574
@angrydragon4574 Ай бұрын
@@WestCoastAce27 India got this one right.
@wiseguysim
@wiseguysim 3 күн бұрын
Too picky, too high standards & long demand lists contribute to this..
@brianclark4040
@brianclark4040 25 күн бұрын
Woman was concerned about feeling like she would be judged in the dating arena…..welcome to our world (men everywhere)
@uckBayNguyen
@uckBayNguyen Ай бұрын
She is already married... to herself
@BillionairesArentYourFriends
@BillionairesArentYourFriends Ай бұрын
Seriously. Who cares about height so much that they'll stay single forever? Chinese women.
@josephjohnson1057
@josephjohnson1057 Ай бұрын
@@BillionairesArentYourFriends It's the same in America.
@BrotherHood-xh9sg
@BrotherHood-xh9sg Ай бұрын
​@@josephjohnson1057as well as Japan, Europe (especially western Europe) etc.
@RogueChibi
@RogueChibi Ай бұрын
Haha cant marry them when they are married on themselves
@alexvig2369
@alexvig2369 Ай бұрын
@@BrotherHood-xh9sg buddy, don't delude yourself that Eastern Europe is any better. It is absolutely not. Legion of Men is wrong, he just grew up in America so he doesn't see this. I'm from Eastern Europe and the same things go for that area as well, but the people just have less money.
@mah7961
@mah7961 Ай бұрын
As always the wall is undefeated in any country.
@garsox
@garsox Ай бұрын
It's heartless
@ceoatcrystalsoft4942
@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 Ай бұрын
@@garsox its called facts and reality. You can say gravity isn't real, but it doesn't stop you from falling when you jump
@garsox
@garsox Ай бұрын
@@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 yup, brutal reality...
@lizacopeland2388
@lizacopeland2388 Ай бұрын
No such thing is a wall! I got married for the first time at age 43 and my husband and I just celebrated our 7th anniversary. No kids just two cats and two dogs.
@tedzehnder961
@tedzehnder961 Ай бұрын
@@lizacopeland2388 Good for you. Maybe you can give marriage advice to these women.
@syahirulfadhli4255
@syahirulfadhli4255 21 күн бұрын
"I'm very lonely but I'm not getting into a relationship until I found my Saint" Mmm yes.
@rozolux6115
@rozolux6115 22 күн бұрын
What is wrong with marrying a rural guy ? Is it not a guy ?
@TearfulNight
@TearfulNight 14 күн бұрын
These girls are materialistic .. who want another materialistic soul
@serbrawl7981
@serbrawl7981 20 сағат бұрын
It depends. Do you harvest corn or cereal. Thats very important
@dennisestradda9746
@dennisestradda9746 Ай бұрын
The wall is undefeated
@CLXH
@CLXH Ай бұрын
She has a Master's degree from a university but hasn't even passed elementary school in her relationship education. That's the reality.
@KallusGarnet
@KallusGarnet Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 she still doesn't understand what men want
@G2rtTr
@G2rtTr 29 күн бұрын
I am amazed how we men tell them that we do not care about education but they still do not want to accept it and try to lead with that first I am working towards my masters degree in Computer Science and I do not care if my future wife is a high school drop out or has a phd. My dad did not finish high school,mom still wanted him because he was a hard worker. That is literally all that matters when it comes to these things,I do not judge someone on superficial things like social status or money or education. Age is somewhat important to have babies easily but that's all. Attitude and personality. Someone kind is enough. She has not slept around and has had very few partners and relationships with men (im happy with the range of 0-4). Has no debt. Wants to be a mother. Age between 20-30. Dont be obese. That is enough and I am ready to compromise on things if I meet the right person. I genuinely do not think that those things are hard to achieve for most women. But yeah that is my ideal wife. Im still young (22) but when apporaching 30 I will start looking for this kind of woman I guess.
@Labyrinth6000
@Labyrinth6000 29 күн бұрын
@@CLXH no man has EVER looked at a woman with a masters degree and be like, “Ooooh, look at Dat Masters Degree!” They gonna look at her face to sue if she’s pretty, and the body to see if she is fit.
@moonlightpaw5868
@moonlightpaw5868 27 күн бұрын
@@G2rtTrYou are awesome
@kojoefante
@kojoefante 24 күн бұрын
Facts
@JeSsE10mCcOy11
@JeSsE10mCcOy11 5 күн бұрын
"Master's. Master's! She has a Master's Degree! See? Nobody cares" - Dennis Nedry
@esashaik1372
@esashaik1372 15 күн бұрын
Since when has marriage become a degree. You either marry the person because you like him or her.If you marry because of social status its not love its just bragging rights.A relationship will not last long like that.Marrying for fame is not love its fake just as the degree they hold.
@sr3821
@sr3821 3 күн бұрын
Excuse me, mate. Are you from Asia? It sounds ridiculous, but for many Asian parents, their children marital status is kind of a badge. It tells people around them that they have raised their children properly. And FYI, they care a lot about what their grandparents, uncle's, aunts, siblings, cousins, even neighbors say.
@erahstenirev8141
@erahstenirev8141 Ай бұрын
If it's ok for the left-over women to list their criteria of choosing men purely based on material and physical aspects, then it is also perfectly ok for men who are 'qualified' to choose partners based on age and disqualify these women. It works both ways. So I don't see what the left-over women are complaining about.
@LoneWolfOtaku
@LoneWolfOtaku Ай бұрын
Becoming the very man they are seeking
@therearenoshortcuts9868
@therearenoshortcuts9868 Ай бұрын
some of them should just transmaxx and embrace each other LOL
@AzureBat
@AzureBat Ай бұрын
They wouldn't date themselves. Because, they can't paradoxically be taller, richer, smarter than themselves. And thus, not be up to their own standards...
@Sluchayniy
@Sluchayniy Ай бұрын
@@therearenoshortcuts9868did I really just read that 😂😂😂
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
@@therearenoshortcuts9868 too bad China doesn't allow homosexual marriages, otherwise marrying each other wouldn't be a bad idea! 🤩
@janpawel1297
@janpawel1297 28 күн бұрын
so in China advertisments like "mature ladies in your neigborhood willing to met you" are not scams ?
@raphaelfrancis4509
@raphaelfrancis4509 Ай бұрын
Hahaha!!! "I would be out of my mind!" He is correct.
@MarksmanSpecialist
@MarksmanSpecialist Ай бұрын
No man ever: What's her education qualifications? But every man ever: Are her eggs fresh and working? How many man have ran thru her? Am I the atm in the relationship?
@demonwolf570
@demonwolf570 Ай бұрын
"Empty egg carton, you don't have any eggs!"
@daleksupreme922
@daleksupreme922 Ай бұрын
I would like to introduce you to India. I really matters there
@Labyrinth6000
@Labyrinth6000 Ай бұрын
Don’t forget can she cook and is she nurturing?
@mikhailbotnovik1594
@mikhailbotnovik1594 Ай бұрын
Men: I don't care about her education Also Men: I'm worried that I might be an ATM. Pick a side dudes. I personally want a career oriented wife
@demonwolf570
@demonwolf570 Ай бұрын
@@mikhailbotnovik1594 Those are 2 completely separate categories. If she's loving, not ran through, and pulls her weight around the house without nagging him too often, a man would happily provide all he can for her. If she's bossy, lazy around the house, and has had more bodies in her than the average inner city subway system, then no shit a guy won't want her. She'll likely divorce him for no good reason and rob him of his assets and money.
@vimukthiaravinda6288
@vimukthiaravinda6288 9 күн бұрын
Most of these women don't know what is love, and that is why they going to live alone in their lives. So sad to hear this in the current global society
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
everyone defines love in their own way, just like these women. Men wanting younger and hotter women isn't unconditional love either. we live in a modern society now. all those men not having wives (if you haven't watched the other documentary on leftover men) are going to end their lives alone for the same way. it isn't as simple as saying 'women don't know what is love'
@theguybehindyou4762
@theguybehindyou4762 28 күн бұрын
Choosing a party girl just because she’s younger? I’m no feminist, but even I can agree that is unreasonable.
@misterjones7522
@misterjones7522 27 күн бұрын
Beauty is a requirement for men-face it
@theguybehindyou4762
@theguybehindyou4762 27 күн бұрын
@@misterjones7522 but not the only one.
@alifkazeryu8228
@alifkazeryu8228 26 күн бұрын
@@theguybehindyou4762 and being young and friendly too. there you have it. 3 main component that men want in women, beauty, young, and friendly. friendly would mean she won't give us a hard time by being hissy most of the time. young would mean moldable so we could influence her (and not being influenced by everything else). beauty is obvious. men have time, women don't. welcome to reality sir.
@raze956
@raze956 26 күн бұрын
@@theguybehindyou4762 being young, beautiful, firendly. ideally some nerd interests like magic the gathering for me, but thats optional. when i was 15, i liked the 18 year olds. when i was 25, i still liked them. im 34 now, and still do. will probably when im 50, and 70. i dont care what anyones morals say to this, its what i like and thats it.range 18 to 25, in very good cases to 30. over that? nope
@Brenda-ny1gw
@Brenda-ny1gw 25 күн бұрын
​@@alifkazeryu8228hmmm I'm a woman and I want to mold my husband ad I'd be okay supporting the family lol
@JosephArimathea29
@JosephArimathea29 Ай бұрын
Never feel pity for these women's cause you know they had hundreds of guys chasing after them in their youth. And even now if they wanted they could get marry, but they wont settle for anything less than mr prince lol
@julija5564
@julija5564 Ай бұрын
guys do chasing women about 40-50 years. Nowadays gus waiting when women will be chasing them.
@mariod.4809
@mariod.4809 Ай бұрын
They dont need your pity because its not their fault.. living in a morally and economically corrupt society will guarantee loneliness, better be alone than with an imbecile
@zootallures6470
@zootallures6470 Ай бұрын
No woman should settle for less than Mr Prince and no man should settle for less than Mrs Princess 😉
@JosephArimathea29
@JosephArimathea29 Ай бұрын
@@zootallures6470 your starting to sound like my ex wife's divorce lawyer 😉 minus the last sentence
@TheMinchio
@TheMinchio Ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@ksl-988
@ksl-988 Ай бұрын
The middle-aged dude with the ponch thinking he's going to nab an 18-year-old that he can "control" is just as hilariously deluded as the 30 year-old woman with a master's degree thinking she's going to nab a millionaire.
@hassanas.benjamin3818
@hassanas.benjamin3818 23 күн бұрын
"I like her because she was easy to control". lol! Ohhh lord!!!. Men just need to marry themselves. smh
@stripedrajang3571
@stripedrajang3571 6 күн бұрын
Well, women are naturally submissive. That's what they are built for. It's when women deny their natural state, that they run into problems.
@szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821
@szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821 6 күн бұрын
Leftover women in China are called "gold miss" in Korea. I can not believe 35 years is old for a woman. I mean WTF!! 35 years is still young!. You Chinese men get old too. We all get old and when you Chinese men get old and sick and become disabled, you is going to take care of you? Not necessarily a young wife but kind kind-hearted wife. Do you understand me? Kind kind-hearted person is more important than just young girls. Youth is not the most important but the heart is.
@sr3821
@sr3821 3 күн бұрын
You know, South Korea has been a wealthy industrial country for quite a long time, so the people have adjusted their values to it. China is the "new kid on the block". Pretty much of their values and mindset still stay in agricultural stage. So, they are pretty strict about age requirement (particularly women's age).
@jimmyhvy2277
@jimmyhvy2277 Ай бұрын
She demands , Men drop your standard , while she will not lower her standards ! Enjoy your Cats !
@Princess-us5so
@Princess-us5so 23 күн бұрын
It's just the age thing that's a barrier, she meets all other standards and the women themselves arent requirimg men for age. What do you mean?
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
i'd rather live with cats than not with an equal
@benyomovod6904
@benyomovod6904 Ай бұрын
Drizzle Drizzle is a worldwide trend
@rashadwhite849
@rashadwhite849 13 күн бұрын
I would never unmasculine or downplay myself for a woman this whole feminist movement is going crazy
@echo8289
@echo8289 14 күн бұрын
I dont care if i will be single forever..i can be happy with my self ..i have a lot of things to do and learn ..as long as I can sustain myself financially..Sigma woman here...
@jwill540
@jwill540 14 күн бұрын
Nobody cares male female dating dynamics are inverse.
@headradio07
@headradio07 Ай бұрын
"You're older and have more wrinkles, right?" Bro didn't even hold back 😂😂😂 9:15
@hungthinh
@hungthinh Ай бұрын
5:55 Her: are you dating? Him: you are bit old. ....damn go for the kill with first sentence 😅 EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
@jjones0822
@jjones0822 27 күн бұрын
She starts by identifying the group of suitors she knows are presently available to her, but doesn't go there to get one.They are not serious people
@abcdef89038gakrbxk
@abcdef89038gakrbxk 24 күн бұрын
If you have good job and you are independent too...then why worrying for men?? If you get one be happy and marry him if not just adopt kids or go for ivf and have your own family...
@sS-dh4ms
@sS-dh4ms Ай бұрын
Relationship in China is purely business. None humans feelings involvements. They will be struggling until revolving into humans feelings
@Wanwan-mq3jw
@Wanwan-mq3jw Ай бұрын
Marriage is Business for all women all over the world. Remember once u should marry.
@blake7075
@blake7075 6 күн бұрын
@@Wanwan-mq3jw marriage is business for men too, many of which don't offer unconditional love. remember that too.
@stefanhofer-jz7fk
@stefanhofer-jz7fk 5 күн бұрын
​@@blake7075 men are more naive. If not there is no real benefit for a man to marry. U can even have several girl friends and they would not even care if they chase u. As long as ur not married
@meddlingmage23
@meddlingmage23 Ай бұрын
"most older single women have high education, high income, and high intelligence." - that's like if I was applying for the NBA, and I said I'm good at cooking, swimming, and kicking a football. Totally irrelevant.
@Devi_Seona
@Devi_Seona Ай бұрын
It’s because you are superficial, you aren’t a high value man yourself, but an actual high value man is attracted to intelligent women.
@TheLeftRbabieskillers
@TheLeftRbabieskillers Ай бұрын
Right on! If they were highly intelligent, they would have figured out what it takes to get a good man.
@brianperry4815
@brianperry4815 Ай бұрын
If there SO INTELLIGENT how come they can't do what women in the past did since the beginning of man. Get a mate.
@newtrollaccount384
@newtrollaccount384 Ай бұрын
@@brianperry4815 Chinese women use to have no choice. These women are about two generations away from having their feet bound.
@brianperry4815
@brianperry4815 Ай бұрын
@newtrollaccount384 Talk about no choice. A man is told from the ti me he is little more then a toddler that he MUST provide and sacrifice for society, for his parents and for his family . He is usually told he is a demon because he is a male . He can't be proud of who he is because society says so. He is not allowed to cry or fail. He is a worker drone for the collective society. Who has it harder? Also he must pay for the sins of his father according to modern society. Read Nora Vincent book to be a man. Personally I am glad that men are walking away as it's no longer worth it. Let society and these women crash and burn. Like in John Galts speech . This is what they created let them to it. Let them go down as it all crumbles down.
@CaptCanuck4444
@CaptCanuck4444 8 күн бұрын
The mid-30s jaded and unmarried woman is a worldwide phenomenon.
@Navostar1
@Navostar1 12 күн бұрын
When she was younger it was okay to be picky, no she’s older she’s upset that men are picky.😅
@AntonioGSilva-iu6cj
@AntonioGSilva-iu6cj Ай бұрын
Being happy never seems to be among your priorities.
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