Weird how women want to justify their past so much. If it's so healthy then embrace it. Show everyone the fruits of that past.

Brian, you MUST get Ben Shapiro, or Jordan Peterson on here. The women will loooooose it

The girl in the helmet should be the cohost at this point

One of the big reasons for avoiding sex while dating is proper discernment. Sex will emotionally cling you to them, cloud your proper discernment of whether or not they will be a good wife to you. This is why a lot of marriages fail. After marriage, you have ALREADY discerned the facts on whether she will be a good wife, and will be loyal to you.

Thank you! I've been preaching this message about the Hook-Up Culture for years, primarily because I've seen too many people get "trapped" in marriages and long term relationships, when they should've broke it off sooner than later. But because they're so enslaved by their own lust and desire for sex, they ignore all the red flags. And even when the walls come crashing in, they never want to blame themselves. It's always the other person's fault.

Marriage should be like a cake 🎂. *The baked layers* are the foundation of the relationship; _love, friendship, faith, culture, character, conflict resolution and communication._ *The frosting* are the shared activities & experiences; _vacations, hobbies, children, friends & family experiences, faith bonding experiences, etc._ *The decorative icing and ornaments* on top; _intimacy and sex._ The cake can only be made in that order. Sex is important, but it's the demonstration of the words "I love you."

Waiting until marriage is very important but I doubt the onlyfans girls would understand that

What a Chad, the amount of self-control this man has having those genetics

Preach it brother!

The prostitute chick on the end seemed like she was genuinely unaware of the fact that men don’t want to marry prostitutes 😂

this is why im celibate. i chose to see life out and now im older and girls half my age have body counts higher than my age. now i dont talk to anyone.

“Sexual intimacy is a part of a relationship” 1) Can’t that intimacy be handholding, kissing, cuddling? Things that happen only with a romantic partner? Is it only one thing for her? 2) I’m only sexually intimate with my spouse, yet I manage to have many great relationships with other people.

You don't even have to take religion out of it. The statistics show that people who wait to have sex and don't live together before marriage have a higher success rate in marriage. It also turns out that MOST of the people in these statistics are practicing Christian's. If non-religious people want successful marriages, they don't necessarily need to become Christian, they just need follow what the Christian's are NOT doing before marriage.

Thanks!

Brian is really trying not to get demonetized by speaking about Christianity :-)

The Christian guy and the woman on his right, they're very intelligent. They bring up good points, they are also very well-spoken and they possess a solid set of values.

Let’s put this in a simple example there are 2 relationships. One with the guy gets sex nonstop before marriage and after marriage the guy gets no sex. The second guy who is virgin and is dating a virgin spending time together getting to know each other no sex just activities finding common interests and get married has sex then some time after no sex. Which relationship do you think will die out first?! The one with nonstop sex because that is what the whole relationship is basically based on with the other one is nonsexual memories and experiences! They didn’t have sex for a long time which made it more special and at the same time if it is gone they still have a lot of stuff to do together still because it isn’t as a big part of their lives compared to the first couple!

I’m not a religious person and I still would. Never hsve casueal sex with someone I’m not going to marry

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Also if you wait till after marriage to have sex the sex will help you bond more and lean on one another more though those tough first few years Where as if you'd already been having sex before marriage it's just another Tuesday night and your marriage will have nothing positive and unique to it that you didn't already have before marriage

That chick with the glasses had a good point, in those statistics , most of those succesful couples were probably christian,so way harder to get divorced. Also dude ,let the woman beside you speak xD.

4:11 No you can’t, because all you are focused on is lustful thoughts. He just explained why it’s detrimental to a marriage and a relationship.

8:39 He provided secular data, and they did not want to accept it. He then mentioned that based on the word of God, it seems that the data supports what scripture emphasizes about sexual intimacy before marriage. When he added this, he was still rejected. In other words, he gave a position that was secular, and they still did not like the information. No matter which angle he gives, they will reject it because they do not like what it states about their actions. Edit 9/24/23 A. 5:22 Her: "Do you think that because that statistic of people who probably are willing are going to wait till marriage to have s(e)x or don't live together until they're married tends to be more people of religion, which includes divorce is a sin, right? So, I think that would skew the statistic a bit." 7:19 Brian: "I would encourage you when it comes to having s(e)x before marriage to try to make a secular argument because not everyone is religious, so not everybody subscribes to God's word." B. The reason that Brian shared this is due to potential rejections of the Christian guest using scripture, although the Christian guest started with data. Brian is sharing this due to the current reaction in this video, along with other videos where the same discussions take place. The point the Christian guest is trying to make is that when you place the marriage/s(e)x on biblical principles (basically something greater than your own temporary feelings), you have a greater chance of having a long-lasting bond. In reverse, because people tend to place what they want in the moment above everything else, they tend to create unhealthy bonds. C. "My happiness" is putting one person's temporary feelings above everything else. After all, happiness and feelings change like the wind. Besides, your husband or wife isn't responsible for your happiness. Staying together does not mean that the people are "unhappy." A more logical conclusion is that they take their vows more seriously than someone who would instantly leave because "I am not happy." D. 9:50 At this time marker, she highlighted that her earlier point was not explained well. Because it left room for misinterpretation, she said that the Christian guest misinterpreted her position.

Crazy how some of these girls on here couldnt find their way out of a paper bag.

With all the horror stories from my christain school waiting until marrige is a bad idea to me

Muslims are even more stricter then Christians in this regard

Sex before marriage is how you get a body count >1, so it goes hand and hand in the discussion...

That mong Asian girl is hilarious

He's right about the whole early sex and the woman's values argument. Every man, whether they want to admit it or not, always loses respect for a woman, the moment they have sex, unless they are engaged or married.

"What about post nut to Clarity'?😂😂😂... What a follow up question

Brian debates are not about convincing the opposition its about convincing others

😂😂These young girls don't give af about what you got to say. They are in America 🇺🇸 living in the land of the free enjoying their young lives partying and sleeping around with all the guys out there bc they are cute until it's too late.

Changed the like ratio from 666 to 667 for Jesus 🙌🙏😁

This podcast is way better when Brian is not there.

Where are their parents in these Senarios

Never thought id say this but, Where TF did Brian go?

Sex before love is lust and sex is better when your in love doh these young girls just don’t understand at all bless them.

All these misguided girls will never be wives. It’s so sad.

Anyone have the full podcast link please?

Beatin-cheeks!! 😂😂😂 what a name.

Marriage material is someone who does not purposely raise their chances for divorce. Sexual relationships outside of someone's spouse automatically and exponentially raise the chance for divorce. Sex in general, makes relationships look better than they may be. Statistically, you are able to overlook bothersome things when having sex. It causes people to marry when they shouldn't and helps spouses work through things when they need to. Also a woman who simply watches porn has a higher chance of divorce than even a man who watches porn. Nevermind someone who was a porn star.

I know so many people that do studio corn and some people that do OF. Some are delusional and some are fully aware of how they look to the world. I know people from all walks of life and treat all with respect. But we do have sit downs and many know why I don’t agree with but they understand I don’t hold my views against them because I’m married and in a 16.5 year relationship.

304 thinks she is Yale material. Didn't we all at 15?

Holmes is so exciting, blue sweatshirt is about sleeping..

In truth, what the man in the blue shirt says is fully accurate. The more people you sleep with, the harder it is to dedicate your life to your marriage.

Christ that guy had a hell of a time making a point

9:23 GOT EM!

Me and my man love that I do solo cam work

I just want to say, you cannot make these 304 understand the positivity of being chaste. When you live this kind of life, you cannot expect understanding of morals

Does anyone know why zyzz is in the corner? I didn't see him on the last podcast (R.I.P. zyzz we're all gonna make it brah🕊🕊🕊)

Christian CHAD indeed!

If you can't make an argument without using a stupid fairy tale book as your evidence you don't have an argument.

It's better to have sex before marriage to determine your sexual compatibility with the person. This is common sense.

Chad speaking facts up in here.

Religious or secularised you need to stand back and say how do you build and maintain a society. Because technology,our egalitarian society has carried us far enough to let us forget about the long term effects/consequences of our actions in the moment

God saves sinners.

I have lived with a few guy and it ended. So I will never live with another man. I will date but never move in with one another

I do not believe in fairy tales lol..

They are ruining their wives

2:29 come on this guy is BS-ing. theres no way he never had sox.

3:48 I don’t agree with this, as a male. Before i get to the point where I want to sleep with a woman, you MUST give me some type of positive conversation. If we can’t talk I don’t even want to be around you.

Statistics can only show a map of the people who statistics were taken so statistics are kinda not real they are just points for argument and to enforce your ways and beliefs into someone's life.

Ladies the net is forever😉😉

The constant interruptions makes the show very unwatchable.

At this point I don't call it a Preference it's Common sense. Not to date 304s.

He's not a Christian if he rejects the Holy scriptures. Also, why does he talk with the same affectation as Chase?

only fans is not for me, thanks for proving the the less desirable do exist

Whether to believe in religion or not the key factor remains the same. Sex before marriage lowers your chances of a successful LTR. He is right that it clouds our judgment of one another which in return causes the quick open and end relationships

The problem with "try to make a secular argument..." is that if you take God out then ALL you have left is evolutionary approach which is: "if it feels good, do it". The whole mess we are in is because Adults behave like toddlers and only chase sensations and immediate gratification. That usually happens when you put the material/flesh before the spiritual/purpose!

*M’fer could sell a fish water..*

That one girl looks like Val Kilmer

yea agree fully with him i would also add if a man is having sex with a woman before Marriage why would he marry her ? like the old saying why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free look everyone has their own preferences but some advice to women if you genuinely want to get married and start a family do not have sex with the guy before marriage because putting it bluntly if he won't wait till marriage before sleeping with you he's not gonna stick around for the long term same advice is vice versa as well to be honest

People this is my advice, live together before marriage as much as you need. If you're going to fall apart it's much better than divorce, but if the relationship is strong after a few years.. Maybe 2-3 maybe more (you figure it out how much you need), I for example married by wife after 12 years (but I'm sure we're an exception coz there was no pressure on us to marry). My sister though married quickly and after 3 or 4 years divorced.. If you're not pressured into it, go as much as you can without marriage until you understand one another well and want to go the extra mile.

This guy kind of sounds like a new Steven Crowder

The women on the far right looks kinda familiar to me.😐

Brian you should get Pastor Paul Washer to get to the podcast.

Guys, believing in any religion is not woth it? Trust me , look what is happening now in Israel and Palestine? Just think of it deeply?

is bro in the blue shirt shy?

These women make me sick

Get brandon Tatum

I'm wondering why this girl in the background is wearing a german picket helmet. Is this any kind of statement?

You not married the person you slap.. You have new boyfriend again, breakup again, boyfriend again....

Women hate me because I wear no makeup and still get a lot of game. I don’t do that to them I like their makeup but why all the hate cause I choose not to?

Who is the guy in the blue???

So he thinks he should live by the "word of god. Does that also mean not eating cloven-hoof animals, or wearing fibers with mixed threads, keeping slaves and concubines?

The asian chick in the WW1 germany hat is throwing me off

7:40 Brain but the challenge of pair bonding have nothing to do with religion…….

Being a wife isn't a preference. Don't sell your soul to the devil. Don't do drugs. Don't do porn.

One more thing about sex after marriage is that the sex might be BAD.. This might be a dealbreaker for somebody. I don't say that you'll divorce if the sex is bad, you can have lovers on the side, but is this a happy marriage if someone seeks to satify needs on the side? Marriage should make people happy, at least that's my sentiment.

Yeah but your evidence is not evidence bro

Na Christ is king.

Yeah that is just not true Mr Christian virgin boy lmao, monogamy is not built into people by our Creator, like his opinions are. So clouded by his religion is pitiful but hilarious this episode is about him making a fool of himself lol

why is that promiscuous girl with the spike helmet in all the videos??

i think when she says that the statistics are skewed because people who are virgins when they marry tend to be religious and so they divorce less on principal, she's seeing that a marriage that is miserable or even abusive but stays together because they "have to" isnt exactly something to aspire to.

Brian is good until it comes to religion and marriage. He’s still lost there.

10:14 taking out the God part makes you a bad Christian they need to feel the conviction (and the cognitive dissonance iykyk) when they know they not living right

I mean I will take that exporn girl in a relationship but a short relation maybe a night or two or even every once in a while but nothing serious, in my opinion that’s is what they are good for after all.

You dont have to religious to know that God's way works.

If marriage were what it should be (and has been, even if imperfectly), waiting would have more meaning. If more than 50% (56% iirc) are getting divorced, waiting doesn't pack the same punch.

He is saying that if he signs the marriage paper he will be more in to her partner because he signed a paper??? That's kind of weird for me