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@IamSpidey007 Жыл бұрын
Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
@sofialavish1072 Жыл бұрын
Your views are awesome. Yes, you are doing great.
@basupandey3866 Жыл бұрын
Sir one video porn addiction par banaiye 🙏.
@varunmittal3617 Жыл бұрын
what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it
@beyondgoodandbad7019 Жыл бұрын
Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour
@sanhitakelkar3691 Жыл бұрын
The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.
@yashpalchaudhary9752 Жыл бұрын
Stop eating cooked food....eat fruits...women will be free from kitchen and life will be good or do household chores.
@nikitafernandes461 Жыл бұрын
So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child
@nikitafernandes461 Жыл бұрын
So true 💯 maam Nowadays many girls who are working they are not willing to have kids
@AbhishekKumar-xh7ic Жыл бұрын
@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations
@soakinlife_11 Жыл бұрын
True
@AngshumanVI Жыл бұрын
Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.
@arijeetmohapatra2933 Жыл бұрын
Ekdom thik dada
@bradyoung804 Жыл бұрын
@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past. Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically. Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.
@MrShagiFpv Жыл бұрын
Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars. Regards.
@AngshumanVI Жыл бұрын
@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.
@jamannaman980 Жыл бұрын
@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal ! Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking
@akshaypatyal3228 Жыл бұрын
All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards. Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.
@Tushar2525 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, the example which the Amit Sir is giving about nunu ka papa, that he is the real champ who is fighting with all the struggles for nunu, i want to clarify that acharya ji is simply asking, pls for once ask the champ, how is he feeling inside, he is so full of anxiety and stress yet he is forced to kill himself daily in his job because he has an additional nunu who should be fed with all his requirement. He so dearly wants to get rid of all this struggle but he has created additional responsibilities. And in what state of mind he has created them, early marriage, early child without knowing and understanding the realities of the world, now with these additional responsibilities (irreversible or very hard to reverse) he has created for himself ( pls remember in not a very conscious state), the champ is not left with much freedom to change his situation and live a free life. He is bound to continue living his life, be a slave in some office and even thinking of freedom from this life brings chills to him by the mere thought of not earning enough for his kid and family. Pls for once ask nunu ka papa , is he really happy with the way he is spending or going to spend the rest of his life. Further saying that goal of life is that sustainability and what we will do with all that gyan, my mind is anxious , i am in a very stressful state, and the purpose of gyan is to relieve that anxiety, stress and freedom of the people who are in existence right now. It is certainly cannot be just to rotate the chakra of birth of child. I hope i am able to pass on what i think about this. Thank you.
@poojasharma-xc9un Жыл бұрын
Any one really exploring spirituality will not go after people like Acharya Prashant! His spiritual ideas are funny and babyish and too bookish He is a joke in front of Real gurus like Sadguru🙏
@creativehome3869 Жыл бұрын
This shows you don't want proper society around you bhand bankar fir na hai .when you are disabled to take responsibility of any one this is simple way to escape from it.I do agree marriage is a strong consistiuton it should be followed properly.
@akshaypatyal3228 Жыл бұрын
@@creativehome3869 no sir my comment does not show that I dont want proper society. u need to read it and think clearly for some time. As i already said most people will miss the point U just proved it.
@akshaypatyal3228 Жыл бұрын
@@poojasharma-xc9un lol nothing can be said now
@annibhardwaj6914 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.
@annibhardwaj6914 Жыл бұрын
@dimplekataria406 marriage is dead because, you can be involved in relationships without a formal commitment
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
I am turning 43 this year 😅
@pandeyrajjesh1 Жыл бұрын
Hardly 1 percent is unmarried above 40... How come marriage is dead institution? Is there any logic or just immature comment of a unmarried person.
@mahirtaneja6512 Жыл бұрын
@@dimplekataria406gradually our society is welcoming all these types of live in relationship n all such things
@annibhardwaj6914 Жыл бұрын
@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values? How many people are producing helathy children
@fagu8238 Жыл бұрын
Waiting for acharaya prashant ji's reaction 😂.....both of them ar correct from their point of view...but sir is more practical than prashant ji's view. Sir is more on how normal people function and their needs but prashant ji focus on deeper and deeper meaning of every institution..
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Lagta hai vedio ko theek se nahi suna.
@sofialavish1072 Жыл бұрын
Dum Maro dum guru ghantal hai uska toh dimag kharam acharya prashant is achar voh bhi basssi ho chuka vala. Mr Sago talks sense.
@sushhiiiАй бұрын
He doesn't give a flying F
@AnonymousAlien20995 ай бұрын
Before someone starts agreeing with this guy's opinion, let me tell you this guy is an astrologer, real estate agent and a marriage counselor as well. So be careful. He is like that WhatsApp uncle who takes offense at puny things and misinterprets the other person.
@Gaurav4u22 Жыл бұрын
Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only. A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom. What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc
@ssca2z21114 күн бұрын
Wo murkh...ak high spirituality pe hai to dusra to km ka hoga na....sab high wale dhundenge to high wala kyo krega marriage...use bhi phir aur high chahiye
@dr.sangitavaidya3657 Жыл бұрын
आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?
@AbhishekKumar-xh7ic Жыл бұрын
Are karni hi kyun hai barbaadi(shaadi) ? Jab roz alag alag varieties kha sakte ho to phir wahi ek hi baasi dal chawal khane ki kya jarurat hai. Pata nhi iss modern century mein bhi kaise kaise chutiye log rehte hain jo shaadi ke chakkar mein rehte hain🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 marriage=💩💩💩💩
@sandeepshivathaya Жыл бұрын
Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god. I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
You are wise.
@ajeetkanaujiya2290 Жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@anjusingh5082 Жыл бұрын
You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
@@anjusingh5082 When you maintain a safe distance, they think you do not want to keep relation with them.
@anjusingh5082 Жыл бұрын
@@ashitmukherjee5934 They should no their limits ( everyone has ), don’t interfere in others matter , neither allow them in your space .
@vera3091 Жыл бұрын
Agar log shaadhi nahi krenge to loan lekar sangwan ji ke real estate kaun kharedega
@dr.ankita4336 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@notrohan680811 ай бұрын
😂
@fearfactory788111 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ashutoshpatra218411 ай бұрын
Wow! U r the guru everyone should follow.
@kumarkeshavj11 ай бұрын
बिल्कुल सही पकड़े हैं जो इंसान अपने फ्लैट बेचने के लिए ही बच्चे पैदा करवाना चाहता है 😂😂
@siddhantsingh7606 Жыл бұрын
Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls Жыл бұрын
Marriage is a defunct institution. 💔💔 Stay single stay happy. 🙏🙏
@simranseera9279 Жыл бұрын
A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts. Sir agree with you 💯.
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Right
@sukantasahoo4278 Жыл бұрын
Define a good marriage if possible?
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
@@sukantasahoo4278 A good marriage is a compromise for the welfare and peace of the children.
@gaurawsingh5744 Жыл бұрын
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
@krox477 Жыл бұрын
I disagree
@sheelamallya4988 Жыл бұрын
I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏
@kalyanichatterjee1711 Жыл бұрын
You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Marriage ke mamle mein Prashant ji is a big zero.
@rajendrameena150 Жыл бұрын
@@ashitmukherjee5934 or Global consumption ko rokne me big hero. which is the root cause of today's Environment change.
@bhushan326 Жыл бұрын
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs. These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.
@AbhishekKumar-xh7ic Жыл бұрын
@@bhushan326marriage=💩
@atkareprathmesh14 Жыл бұрын
being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.
@sourabh_mishra Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@siddhantsingh7606 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what acharya prashant said
@dakshmehta Жыл бұрын
Rightly said! 🙌
@krox477 Жыл бұрын
aam janta Mane kya?
@dipanchakrabarty17895 ай бұрын
Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.
@adornis0078 Жыл бұрын
Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam... that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path.... but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...
@shaheershaikh5027 Жыл бұрын
ive been watching your videos for the past few months.. the amount of knowledge that you provide is immense. Full respect sir
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Right you are.
@IamSpidey007 Жыл бұрын
Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
@AJAY95952 Жыл бұрын
This is personal with acharya prashant.. 😂😂😂 Love this counter view.. ❤
@sanskritiverma8010 Жыл бұрын
8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.' I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶
@utkarshpathak8268 Жыл бұрын
how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Aur samjho.
@varunmittal3617 Жыл бұрын
Right. AP trying to change it.
@sandipdattaroy1984 Жыл бұрын
Thats the typical Hippi thinking 😅
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
I am not marrying because i don't want any women to go through labour pain. Lets free women from pregnancy.
@shikhapandey24211 ай бұрын
I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!
@MrShagiFpv Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.
@sk-en8dv Жыл бұрын
Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed
@FauziaPires9 ай бұрын
With 140 crore population Indians don't need to force themselves in marriage.😊
@Rishu_49128 ай бұрын
Congratulations your bloodline ends here😂 80 sal ki umar me jab marega to chita ko koi ag lgane wala nai milega
@vaibhavchari82022 ай бұрын
@@Rishu_4912Marne ke baad kaun sa pta chalega ki aag lagaya ki nhi ?
@Rishu_49122 ай бұрын
@@vaibhavchari8202 mrne ka process hi itna darwana hai btadia to rat ko so nhi paoge
@7teenseventeen2 ай бұрын
@@Rishu_4912 Apne matlab k liye jo bacche paida karte h wo fir unpe ehsan jatate h ki hamne ye Kiya humne wo kiya Matlab k liye bacche paida nahi krne chahiye ki Hume kon aag lagayega Marne k baad😂😂 Abe kya pata tumko tumhara end kaise hoga Aur baccha kya pata aaye ho nahi Marne k baad aag lagane To tumhara investment to doob gya fir 😂😂😂😂
@amandeep2557Ай бұрын
@Rishu_4912 yehi to sabse bada myth hai.. tumhari auladein tumhara sath in future uski bhi guarantee nhi.. Chita ko aag dena to dur ki baat h
@sajalboris Жыл бұрын
This is what I looked in my parents and this is what we need. Thanks for making us aware sir. Respect❤
@sayonisinha904 Жыл бұрын
महोदय, जो विवाह नहीं करते न, उन्हें समाज में अधिक सम्मान मिलता है क्योंकि ऐसे लोगों को progressive ( प्रगतिवादी ) माना जाता है. मैंने स्वयं यह अनुभव किया है. और मेरे साथ भी ऐसा होता है क्योंकि मैं अविवाहित हूं और इस बात का मुझे काफी गर्व है. मेरा भाई भी शादी शुदा नहीं है. हम अपने शानो शौकत पर खर्च करते हैं. Foreign tours जाते हैं. ज़िन्दगी मज़े से कट रही है. मेरे शादी शुदा मित्र गृहस्थी में पिस पिसकर रह गए है. तनावग्रस्त है. Incerement के लिए भी तनाव में रहते हैं. Overtime करते हैं और अपनी सेहत बिगाड़ते हैं. लेकिन मैं और मेरा भाई हंसी ख़ुशी समय बिता रहे हैं. हमें boss blackmail भी नहीं कर पाते लेकिन जिनके बाल बच्चे है उनको blackmail करते हैं - तुम्हारा ट्रांसफर कर देंगे. हमें ट्रांसफर करेंगे, हमें कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता, लेकिन बाल बच्चे वालों आतंकित रहते हैं. हम तो उन्मुक्त पंछी हैं - liberated. मैं तो नृत्य, रंगमंच, साहित्य में अपना खाली वक़्त बिताती हूं जिस कारण समाज में मेरी इज़्ज़त और बढ़ गई है. So, I am the winner.
@ABHINAV6562752 Жыл бұрын
Bahut badia madam , waah kya soch hai , main bhi aise hi rehta hun , sab mujhse jalte hain , aur fir batate ki life mein bahut kuch miss kar rahe ho shaadi na karke , main unse baat hi nahi karta ab , akele mein jo mauj hai woh saath mein kahan
@dr.ankita4336 Жыл бұрын
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@hemant------- Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for you wrote over here. I got some clarity about single life. I will have decent earning and will roam the world and will have all the fun of life.
@krox477 Жыл бұрын
Yup freedom should also be discussed. We Never talk about good parts about not marrying
@prakharprabhat585 Жыл бұрын
बुढ़ापे का क्या प्लान है? अगर काफ़ी बीमार पड़ गई तो कौन सेवा करेगा?
@ssss9178811 ай бұрын
Jisko sansar mein magan rehna hai wo isko sune jinko dukho se mukti chahiye wo Acharya Prashant ji ki sune simple
@parthamp4751 Жыл бұрын
You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.
@ssss9178811 ай бұрын
Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho
@adityanihalkumarsingh211611 ай бұрын
bahut film dekhte ho beta 😂
@amandeep2557Ай бұрын
Aisa kuch karke jao Jo dusre log bhi apko yaad rakhe.. apne liye to har koi jeeta hai ..
@dickstar9112 Жыл бұрын
Acharya Prashant is talking about uplifting of consciousness not material consciousness. If someone needs one witness for one's life then it is ok. Main thing is life has no meaning but majority can't accept it without being mad so they find the escape through meaning ( like kids, witnesses, God, spirituality, etc). Neither birth nor death is decided by us so to engage ourselves with thought we make material or spiritual goals... Be detached then nothing is needed. Still if you want to pursue job, marriage or consciousness and spirituality then go for it. I agree that Dharma can't decided by only the writings in books.
@MPatel84 Жыл бұрын
Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.
@binayakchakraborty8193 Жыл бұрын
"144 crore hum aise hi chetna jaga ke nahin pahuche hai. Kuch aur bhi jaga hai humara" 😂😂😂 Sirji bahut naughty hai....
@sukantasahoo4278 Жыл бұрын
The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.-Albert Camus
@rajendrameena150 Жыл бұрын
Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.
@yashpalchaudhary9752 Жыл бұрын
Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu
@yashpalchaudhary9752 Жыл бұрын
Are yaar meena bhai hoke itta complex thoght process leke chal rya hai...kya yaar
@prashantgoswami87209 ай бұрын
उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi
@BALVINDER-Singh Жыл бұрын
Few more Logical Guru Ji after watching all of your platinum membership content: 1. Suddenly you get respect in society and your family. 2. You not only get Deh ka sukh, you also get on time Tea, Food, clothes, clean house emotional support, moral support and etc. 3. You also get a single partner lifelong to help you each other. 4. You get to know how to handle responsibility for your family. 4. You get to know about sukh and dukh. ऐसे 50 पॉजिटिव reason or hai. और अगर हमारे parents भी शादी नही।करते तो वो कहा से आते हम कहा से आते।
@kanchanmoon777 Жыл бұрын
& the myth is nowadays married couple doesn't gets respect . Most people pitty over married couples , rest of the world doesn't even care about the two people as couple. Respect is given more generally for the position of job if anybody is getting these days !!
@ghanshyam1990 Жыл бұрын
There is only one thing that gets you respect, money.
@BALVINDER-Singh Жыл бұрын
@@ghanshyam1990 Sir kai Gadhe paise le ke ghoom rahe hai duniya. Please check.
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
Bhai dukh hi to sahan nahi hote...! Asli problem hi vahi h
@coolthakur1 Жыл бұрын
Bilkul sir ji, you are leading from the front in educating all of us on social,financial and psychological issues. Shat shat 🙏
@pratap2975 Жыл бұрын
Sir,please don't skip this comment Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation. You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different *Answer my question* If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents] Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤? Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment* This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment] Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by. This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent??? You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after? The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them
@SK-hg1pb Жыл бұрын
'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"' self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people. Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion
@akashyadav1335 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@akashyadav1335 Жыл бұрын
@@AnimeshSinghweb There's no bigger crime in the World Than Giving Birth.
@allinone518 Жыл бұрын
Exactly bhai inko bass inki course bechani hai platinum subscription vali😂😂😂😂 aur inko lag raha hai shadi band padegi toh mera dukan bhi band hoga.
@pratap2975 Жыл бұрын
@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?
@akanksha_chaturvedi Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP.. I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi
@anjusingh5082 Жыл бұрын
AP ke toh face per hi bitterness and arrogancy hai . And his talks is not applicable in practical life you are right .
@kumarabhishek106411 ай бұрын
He is clearly saying if you believe in it, do it. If not, ignore it. Where is the problem? Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Millions of successful marriages exists and they are more successful than people who think it's burden. People need to cope with contrasting opinions
@dipanchakrabarty17895 ай бұрын
Dekho..... Aap ko Acharya Prashant accha nehi lagta.... Iska matlab thodi na hai ki woh galat bata rahe hai?? Yeh nehi. Practical lives mein humans bohot suffer karte hai, bohot hi..... Matlab hadd se zyada ham suffer karte jaa rahe hai...... Kyunki hamari behoshi.... Aur galat tarike kaa jeevanjapan, agar koi luxurious lifestyle ke khushi ko vog raha hai aur dusre haath mein environment, climate and iss nature ko haani pohcha raha hai.... Toh yeh toh sarasar galat hai naa?? Toh Acharya ji yehi kehte hai..... Satya bolte hai woh, insaan galti karta hi rehta hai, seekh nehi leta, aur sab ko majboor karta hai kasht, peera dene ke liye, swarthi insaan hai sab. Inn baton ko samjhane ke liye ek bitterness toh zaroori hai.... Hai naa?? Agar bohot hi shanti se inn baaton ko AP bolega toh kaun shunega?? Pehle se hi haam andhkaar mein dube huye hai. Agar ham ek simple, kam se kam baasnayon se bhara jivan byatit karte toh Acharya jee ko itna bolna nehi padta. 🙏🙏
@Solace_peaceАй бұрын
Aacharya ji ka raasta kathin hain...mehnat lagti hai...aur aapko chahiye instant noodles toh jaao phir chapprrion ke paas
@devrajshellagi9843 Жыл бұрын
Soo true.. Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something.. Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something.. We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas.. Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..
@pallavi35943 ай бұрын
I think to go with marriage or remain unmarried is presnol choice.And neither any counceler nor Acharya can change thought.We all as a human being grows up with different situation and all the thought and experience makes a perseption about a particular idea.The people who have grown up in traumatic situation will Always remain against marriage.On the other hand people who have enjoyed life since childhood and observed happy married life of parents will be in support of marriage.
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
Yes....agree last 18 years se parents ke bhaynkar jhagde or unka divorce or last 3 salo se bhai or uski wife ki traumatic love marriage bhayankar jhgde or unka divorce jhelne ke baad aaj 33 ki ge me bhi main depression Enxiety Panik attack se lad raha hu....! Shadi naam se bhayankar nafrat ho chuki h
@Pdrock2001 Жыл бұрын
I disagree with your take on Acharya prashant on marriage . He simply says , what you bow you shall reap meaning choices have consequences . So if you marry a violent woman or a girl who disrespects/compete with men you will suffer endlessly . Also the law situation in India is heavily tilted in favour of women and is in most cases Anti men , so you will blame the man then as well ? . No if marriage is idealistic then both the participants must be the ideal candidates as well otherwise don't marry .
@raspberrypaper3562 Жыл бұрын
Same holds true for women getting married to entitled, angry, violent men. Women have seen how their mothers have been treated and no longer wish to spend their life in a depressing state. Especially with financial independence. Hence the reluctance to get married. And men seldom want to change. Hence their reluctance in accepting this breed of independent no BS women. To kahaan se shaadiyaan hongi. Ho bhi gayi to kahaan se successful hongi? Kyun aaj tak Hamaari society mein shaadi ki succcess Ka Bhaar lakdi ke Chup rehne Aur sehenshakti ko diya Gaya tha. Lakdon ke Upar nahin tha. That has changed. And no one taught men how to change. Hence the institution of marriage will suffer for the next generation too before things start balancing
@seer7152 Жыл бұрын
You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏
@apoorva5894 Жыл бұрын
So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.
@mahishri326 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍
@gaurawsingh5744 Жыл бұрын
😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.
@gaurawsingh5744 Жыл бұрын
Disagree... 1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
@poojachourasia562 Жыл бұрын
Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society
@vijaylaxmi3305 Жыл бұрын
Jisne gul khilaanay hain woh marital knot mein rehkar bhi khila dete hain.
@hopelove6001 Жыл бұрын
@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
You are right.
@vijaylaxmi3305 Жыл бұрын
@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
I am turning 43 this year without marriage. I am not marrying because it will brings lot of legal complexities in my life due its patriarchal nature.
@AshokKumar-zw1vk Жыл бұрын
In kaliyug, if one wants to grow spiritually he or she shouldn't marry so that time can be saved
@aditshukla Жыл бұрын
Thats good, but if done in a natural way. My Gurudev says, nothing artificial can ever give pleasure. What Prashant is doing is, insulting and humiliating the institution of marriage. This is not just wrong, but extremely hazardous for the society. Why? Any normal person, who has emotional and sexual needs, but is hesitant for responsibilities, he will get seriously misguided by Prashant. Such a person can't become a proper sadhu, to dedicate his time and efforts for spiritual development since his other desires are unfulfilled, and hearing all this negativity, he cant even become a proper family. Hence, न घर का न घाट का। India has seen many stalwart sannyasis and saints, but noone has demonised grihastha ashram like this person.
@nasimparvej4183 ай бұрын
Normally I don't do comments sir however I want share my opinion and understanding about "marrying someone who can take to a higher state". It is obvious that if you want to marry someone who is financially or by education or by position is on higher state then for that person who is going to marry you who is below his/her state would be something that will not be matching the criteria. It is so simple to understand and is actually adopted in our very society. Fact I think you might missed out here sir is that, "Marrying someone who can take to a higher position/state" isn't about marrying to a person who is in higher state/position. Its about pairing up with a person whose companionship can boost all the good aspects, good vibes, potential, knowledge & creativity of both of companions. Please forgive me if I hurt you.. Namaste n Pranam Sir
@sushermurmur364 Жыл бұрын
Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.
@girijajoshi3419 Жыл бұрын
Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
i am turning 43 this year without marriage.
@salaar75 Жыл бұрын
@@hemangshrivastava9561According to you, how's your life going? Were you single all the time?
@yashpalchaudhary9752 Жыл бұрын
@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
@hemangshrivastava9561 R u happy at present ?
@broseph4677 Жыл бұрын
guruji shadi toh krne ka bahut man hai but kaise karu agar parents ko bola directly for arrange marriage and vo ignore krdein bas even when iam making 40-50k a month and online matrimony is waste of time , how to find a partner ? iam 24 years old man
@jayzxd4400 Жыл бұрын
40-50 k isn't enough brother marriage is not a game. Earlier 50 k were enough but now 1 lakh is essential to do marriages
@Travel_Junkie007 Жыл бұрын
@@jayzxd44001:14 u make 10 lakh then also won't be satisfied
@dimple894 Жыл бұрын
You are contributing a lot to develop the thinking of young generation for good society. Thankyou so much sir 😊
@anshu0110 Жыл бұрын
I love discomfort 🤠 Too much fun Too much adventure 🔥🔥🔥 . One Can't love anyone more than like an unmarried one
@scienceenthusiast9858 Жыл бұрын
Yes . Life is struggle
@SupriySinghLife2 ай бұрын
Yes😊
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
Aap shadi karoge ya nahi ? Kya decision liya h
@anshu0110Ай бұрын
@@ashuvijay7031 nhi
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
@@anshu0110 aap male ho ya female or aapne budape ka kya socha h or logo ko kya reply Dete ho ?
@conversingcricketwithutkar5343 Жыл бұрын
Namaste, Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide. Dhanyawaad🙏
@mynk97 Жыл бұрын
How do you know this
@RajeshAllem8256 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree with your logical and critical analysis. Enjoying watching your videos and enhancing my levels of order of thinking.
@rameshwarrathore36453 ай бұрын
Osho has given more clarity on this, and also he said, " तर्क वेश्या की तरह होता है, वो किसी के भी साथ निकल पड़ता है..। So all listener's, marriage is a very very delicate subject।try to handle it carefully 👍🏼
@ashishdhiman2007 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir , for clarity on this. Keep guiding us ❤
@PRANSHU49 Жыл бұрын
Kya baat h sirji! You are truly India's Jordan Peterson :)
@tedlasso2887 Жыл бұрын
No " Acharya Prashant " was destroyed in this Video 😂........ Anyways Great Video Sir Learned a Lot
@deepjain49915 ай бұрын
I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...
@AbhishekKumar-ff9vg Жыл бұрын
Buddha s message 1. Life is pain.
@GouravTheQuester Жыл бұрын
ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅
@pradeepkumarsatapathy6391Ай бұрын
मे भी आचार्य जी की बातें सुनना चाहता हूँ क्या वो गलत अर्थ बताते हैं? क्या है गीता की असली अर्थ और सारांश??
@pradeepkumarsatapathy6391Ай бұрын
मुलभुत बात क्या है गीता की जो आचार्य जी नहीं बोलते है, कहाँ चूक हो रही है?
@abhijeetlele Жыл бұрын
13:10 to 13.24 you literally won my heart ❤️
@kushsharma75477 ай бұрын
Agreed. Running away from your responsibilities is easy. Living in this imperfect world and trying to make it work is hard. The institution of marriage has lasted for centuries now.
@sgvlog2147 Жыл бұрын
Sir ji achariy prasant kamtlb ye nai ar sab keliye v bo nai bolte bo une keliye bolte hai jo logo dhoka dhadi chiting bure risate mai phase hau hai un realit truth samjha te aur ase risate chode ke aage jine keliye umidi daite hai kiu ki sare marriage sare couple semtari ka life nai jite kite loga apne marrige life mai painfull aap koto pata hi hoga ek galta insha bina soche samjhe chulia to life kinti kharap hoti hai ye hama ne khuda dekha hai kiy kiy sehena padata hai aap apne biyakatigat experience se mat bole sehi guidece dijiye
@PS-oy1el Жыл бұрын
Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.
@raspberrypaper3562 Жыл бұрын
Every class. It’s the same mentality of Most men across all socio economic strata. Difference is the middle middle and upper middle class boys do have jobs and education. Baaki Basic mentality Wahi hai.
@gagandeepsharma7972 Жыл бұрын
so dont marry even no boy is interested to marry
@rahulgupta_131211 ай бұрын
@@gagandeepsharma7972i wanna marry!!…who are you to generalise all boys?…Ek ladki reject krde toh Tera ego hurt ho gya hoga and and ab shaadi nhi krni🤡
@gagandeepsharma797211 ай бұрын
@@rahulgupta_1312 usne upar comment dekh kya likha hai "most boys in this class are chapri" Ye generalisation nhi laga tujhe ?? lekin mera comment tujhe generalize lag gya hai is bewakoof ko koi btao most of the boys in middle class are struggling and working hard No one marries a unemployed ye alag hi duniya mein rahti hai
@rahulgupta_131211 ай бұрын
@@gagandeepsharma7972 tabhi mai nit mai betha aur Tu aavara gardi kr rha
@amrit_one Жыл бұрын
I don't know much about Prashant and I don't know much about you.. whoever you are. But I think there are 4 types of people in marriage or single category : 1. They are married and are very happy in their married life . 2. They are married and are very unhappy in their married life , they suffer everyday in marriage and got stuck. 3. They are single but unhappy & unsatisfied in life. 4. They are single and are very happy , satisfied and enjoying daily life. So one type of this person can't impose his way of life on others. Solution - Spirituality or self-awareness or self-knowledge . Most importantly this guy in video wants to impose his beliefs system on people.Very wrong.
@bollywoodmusicnetwork25014 ай бұрын
We don't need your Pure Knowledge Guruji . I'm 37 still single with a great life. Thanks 🙏
@akankshasingh710610 ай бұрын
Acharya ji ne kabhi nhi kaha shadi mat karo. Kaha hai hosh me karo aur Idhar hosh ka matlab hai bas sex ke liye mat karo, bas financial gain ke liye mat karo, bas looks dekh ke mat karo, akela feel ho raha hai toh mat karo bas. Sole reason hoga toh kabhi khushi nhi milegi. Shadi sab ke liye nahi hai ye aap logo ko accept karna hi nahi hai, Isliye lakho logo suffer karte hai shadi me par just because they like the idea of family and scared of being alone. Acharya ji ye hi samjhate hai jab hosh me karo shadi toh shadi sahi rahegi, Saath chahna galat nhi hai par a kisi pe emotionally depend puri tarah se hona galat hai. Ye family ka gyaan bohot acha hai isko de de ke hi zindagi barbaad ki hai logo ne. Sab ka jeena ka way alag hai Sayad sabko nhi chaiye ye sab jo aap Bata rahe hai par aap partner aur family ye sab itna glorify karte hai ki sab phas jaate hai aur suffer karte hai.
@raspberrypaper3562 Жыл бұрын
One gets married for emotional fulfilment and companionship which of cours cannot be equal on daily basis. But what does one do when one is faced with exploration and red flags right at the beginning of an alliance? Everyone has expectations form their life which they want to fulfill. Some can be compromised upon but not all. Your core values need to align. Just like in your video about joint families, I have refused alliances because I have had an extremely independent upbringing and they wanted me to give up my career and move cities and stay in a joint family. I am not okay with that. And yes people do change with time. But Sir, your upbringing doesn’t. If someone has been taught to value relationships, then the present times are extremely troublesome for such souls. Because finding people with morals and values is next to impossible. Why would one turn a blind eye and enter an alliance just to take a chance? Ask those people who are facing divorce or have gotten divorced because of this. Now what? I am not saying that don’t get married. But equal give and take and alignment should be there is terms of values, commitment and honesty. Rest today someone likes dal. After 5 years they might not eat dal at all and that’s ok. That’s really not an issue. Rushing into marriage is not advised for anyone. But deliberately rejecting alliances just for the heck of it also is not advised.
@yashpalchaudhary9752 Жыл бұрын
Keep following acharya pareshan
@aditya-ml6km Жыл бұрын
How are you going to live a married life if both partners live in different cities? LOL Isn't this logical?
@shelly18286 ай бұрын
Uncle ji Namstey . I have recently come across your channel and subscribed it . Apki sanatan vali example bahut realistic lagi . I have listened to acharya Prashant for long time but was not clear what he actually want for his follower to do. Mainey pehli baar unki vichardhara par dusra perspective suna . Bahut sahi laga . Thank you
@gopesh21 Жыл бұрын
Following you for some months and found your videos very helpful in having clarity, very well explained.
@himanshuverma3984 Жыл бұрын
Sir, Delhi-NCR, Bangalore ki ldkiya dekh kr to mujhe ab ladkiyo pe trust to raha nahi. Or aap jesa bol rhe hai mene to shadi me ladkiyo ko yahi sochte huye dekha hai ki ab pati mujhe kuch materialistic gains krke dega. Or jb unka bhram tut-ta hai shadi k baad, tb faltu wale jhagde or kich-kich shuru ho jati hai. I'm not against marriage at all, it' just that I'm born in the wrong generation.
@Cuedope7 ай бұрын
Delhi ncr ki hi acchi lagegi toh trust kaise ayega gaw ,( village ,) ki ladkiya dekho kitni sabhey hai....ladki aisi jagha dekhogay toh dimag ki padel hi milegi
@dikumari15 Жыл бұрын
Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏
@vaibesb4u8 ай бұрын
I don't completely agree with what sirji said ,marriage should not be forced upon an adult
@AKANKSHYAChoudhury-km3oo Жыл бұрын
Great Mag, excellent clarity giving video for youth in present and future generation
@VikashKumar-nb3nd Жыл бұрын
Sir more respect to you.. plz keep bringing such content.🙏🏼
@divyanshsen930711 ай бұрын
Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤
@Ashenvale-Ай бұрын
Sir the problem here is not that people don't believe in marriage as a good institution , the problem here is that the powers that be, have corrupted this scared institution. I am not a misogynistic person, and I really respect and have always stood for liberal laws for women when it comes to what they want to wear or how late they want to work, and independent women. My own mother was a gynecologist and had to attend emergencies in the middle of the night....and i have tremendous respect for that. Its the corruption of society and the poisoning of the minds of women by American media, and the destruction and corruption of family values in general, that combination is dangerous . Coupled to that, the laws and the judges in India have not evolved to keep pace with this. The Laws in India in general are not gender neutral or practical to begin with. Its not a passing phase as you suggested. Men are choosing to remain single or go into a live-in relationship and are afraid of commitment not because they are stupid, but because the laws of the land have been framed in such a way that Marriage as an institution has destroyed the very basic element that it was supposed to protect and that is to provide stability and protection to both parties involved. A man today has to be either incredibly stupid or suicidal to sign this death contract where he will be signing away basic human rights for him and his family, if he ever enters into this contract with someone unknown
@SK-hg1pb Жыл бұрын
This is a fantastic video. I was desperately waiting for someone to call Prashant's bluff. I have seen many of his videos and disagree with him about 80% of times. I agree with everything you have said in this video, in fact they are my own thoughts. This video should reach as many people as Prashant's videos. He is misleading young people and taking them in wrong direction. Please continue exposing Prashant's bluff. If you want, I have many of my own views of disagreement with him, I can share with you. I am surprised how young people ask him for direction about their marital problems and issues. From a guy who has never married, how can he give any opinion about marriage relationships? He says "I can see what's happening around me". But there are some things in life which you MUST experience in order to understand its gravity. Observation just doesn't cut it. Thanks for this video, finally someone has guts to call spade a spade.
@soumendash3911 Жыл бұрын
Sir yahan to app membership se zyada knowledge de dediya. 🙏🏼 Thank you
@ashitmukherjee5934 Жыл бұрын
Amit sir ji is very liberal.
@prabhaschandrabagdi16517 ай бұрын
Family run nahi kar paunga. Isliye maine Sadi nahi ki hai. 42 yrs age . Kya Mai galti kar Raha hu sir? Reply please 🙏
@ashuvijay7031Ай бұрын
Aap khush ho kya abhi
@prabhaschandrabagdi1651Ай бұрын
@@ashuvijay7031 abhi to khush hu. Lekin future me jab main bimar pad jaunga tab mera dekhbhal kaun karega, ye soch kar parisan ho raha hu bhaiya..
@pracheekapoor46537 ай бұрын
Very true ,great video, sir. When i first started listening to Acharya Prashant I felt depressed, perplexed, and hopeless. I even started questioning my near and dear ones and made big fuss out of everything, which resulted in sleepless nights, anxiety, and bad health. I think its great u gave us a good clarity on this topic.
@kalyani9806 Жыл бұрын
Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.
@SarojTudu-li5xe11 ай бұрын
Best analysis Sir ,thanks for the guidance. 🙏🙏🙏
@telegoholic Жыл бұрын
Sir you are the source of enlightenment for youth like us🔥 Keep showing your blessings like this🙏🏻
@accessashutosh10 ай бұрын
Prashant ji ki kafi baate logical nahi hai, he sounds misogynistic also lot of times. I just skip his videos now. You very correctly analyzed his views. 👍 Thanks Sir.
@SwatiBajpai83 ай бұрын
Sir, absolutely love how you dive into explanations. Glad I came across your channel
@vikasthareja7050 Жыл бұрын
Bhramakumari ने भी शादी को बैन कर रखा है | राम और कृष्णा ने भी विवाह किया |
@anshu0110 Жыл бұрын
Humne ban nhi kar rakha humara kehna he Shadi karni hi he to pashu pakshiyon se karo 18000 se karo 1 Lakh se karo. Sabse karo
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
I am turning 43 this year still not get married 😅
@iiiiisse Жыл бұрын
How is your life , are you happy or want to marry
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
@@iiiiisseI am happy being single and busy with my profession, health & fitness.
@sonujain23486 ай бұрын
Wow kese Ji rhe ho
@pallabbiswas27265 ай бұрын
I have crossed 48 last Nov & still an unmarried virgin. Only problem is that people don't let me live in peace.
@ramansingh771223 ай бұрын
Akele kaise rh lete ho Human family m rhte h
@love5259611 ай бұрын
mere dada ji mere paida hone k pehle hi chale gye thee, par unki kami aapne puri kr di.... like a grandfather guide his grandson ,,, love you a lot sir ☺☺
@Jaiswal2212 Жыл бұрын
Listening to you regularly has really made a big difference in my life....tahe dil se aapka dhanyawaad sango sir
@amanvlogs-i1i Жыл бұрын
Woooow गुरुजी ये प्रश्न मेरे मन में भी उठा की अगर सनातनी शादी ही नही करेंगे तो वेद पुराण आध्यात्म पढ़ेगा कॉन सब खत्म हो जाएगा "" lower class "" bagehswar dham में busy h 😜😜😜😜😜😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏🙏 nice clarity
@Raju-qf4is Жыл бұрын
Kucch khatam nahi honewala hai.140 carore hai ab bas bhi karo
@gourika6954 Жыл бұрын
Please make a video ki kya ladies ko gold jewellery khareeda bahut jaruri hoti hai just to show their relatives ki humare pass bahut gold hai. Even if she doesn't like all these things. Kyuki aisa karne ke liye kai baar hum apne husband ke upper unnecessary burden daalte hain. Mera to ye manna hai ki paisa jod ke gold khareedne ke bajay us paise se hum kuch skills aquire karnen jisse ki or paisa kama saken. Or husband ko financially support karen.
@vivekrana2003 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@gourika6954 Жыл бұрын
@@vivekrana2003 you want to say ki jeruri hai Or you also want a video on this topic
@anmolsajjan Жыл бұрын
Gold purchase ke baare me already vedio hai...
@vivekrana2003 Жыл бұрын
@@gourika6954 2nd one
@vivekrana2003 Жыл бұрын
@@gourika6954 as per astrology wearing jewellerly for a female improves their venus,which is vital for females. As per me you should buy jewellery which you can wear,almost daily not the one to be kept in locker
@saurabhkathpalia363811 ай бұрын
Superb Video Sir.. this video was much needed, considering where youth is headed.. you are doing great work..I am glad I came across your channel..
@ghanshyam1990 Жыл бұрын
Sir, I am now 30+, unmarried. I came from lower middle class family, for a decade plus i was either in books, or work. No one came to help. But now that I am in a reputed place, earning well. I see that based on that only several marriage offers are coming where I'm being seen as a cash-cow. The girl normally puts in no effort to msg or get to know me. Social media and dating apps have changed the game totally where most men are excluded. I think it's unfair and given the laws in our country against men in marriage, I think this MGTOW movement you spoke of earlier will get stronger. My simple question is that in my time of need and loneliness if no girl came forward to support me, why should i do the same financially now?
@nikitafernandes461 Жыл бұрын
Marry a girl who is very simple, leads a simple life and less nakhre, behaviour is good does not party and has job of her own
@rhythm_budz Жыл бұрын
Sir ye taking stanatan Dharma to kitab wala agle is unique... Great observation.
@nandinimutreja9540 Жыл бұрын
It is very amusing to see that someone is so practical & logical in your age. I wish all elderly people watch your videos & take some inspiration 🙏🙏
@jamimazada7428 Жыл бұрын
Ap sansarik ho aur acharyaji adhyatmik hai. Maine shadi ki aur waise rahi jaise apne bataya. Ek din bhi sukhi nahi rahi. Talaq hua tab bhi dukhi thi. Lekin acharyaji ko follow karne se life achi ho gai hai Acharyaji ka level apse bahut upar hai. Please don't compare yourself to acharyaji. Apki aukat nahi hai budhe.
@1PrashantRaj Жыл бұрын
Aapne shadi karke hi kya ukhad liya.
@navpan185 ай бұрын
Unhone to bohot ukhad liya tum kya ukhad rhe
@MrRKO-lu1ho17 сағат бұрын
Tu aake inke video pe comment krra hai ...aur kya ukhaadna hai unko
@akashyadav1335 Жыл бұрын
Aap Raho Comfort Zone Main Hamein kuch or pyara he. Kisne kaha hum shadi nhi karenge humne to vivaah kar liya he sab se. Abb isse jada comfort kisi ko kya hi mil sakta he