5 Social Skills SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF

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I want to share with you 5 secrets that will get people to LIKE you. WITHOUT people pleasing, being fake, or feeling manipulative. Just like learning makes IQ smart - learning these make your EQ smart. Despite what some say, charisma and likability are learnable skills. the problem? No one teaches you this stuff - so no wonder so many people struggle in this area. Rather you want to use these next dates to increase the chances of a second one, everyday life improves interactions with whoever you meet, at work climbing the ladder makes more money, and incorporating just one or two of these tips can make all the difference. Literally, dozens of tips, re-frame, and techniques, but I want to share with you five of my personal favorite.
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@clarkkegley Жыл бұрын

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@stanserilla9077 11 ай бұрын

Hi baby

@dream-nz9yb Жыл бұрын

Also, stop trying to force a “connection” with everyone! Be kind and genuine. If you’re desperately trying to find something in common, it’s really obvious and not attractive. Especially to anyone who has read the book that all of this advice came from.

@Pbcvl Жыл бұрын

book name?

@dream-nz9yb Жыл бұрын

@@Pbcvl how to win friends & influence people

@Virvepaulina Жыл бұрын

Yess!! Find your own peeps 🧡

@railanna Жыл бұрын

@@dream-nz9yb omg this book it's amazing

@miracles424 11 ай бұрын

This guy teaching how to get people addicted to you and to like you and im in 20 seconds in the video and I hate him and hate his mouth and his teeth and his eyes are annoying 😫😫😫😫🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ this guy in the video is not attractive asf and I’m blocking him bye

@amberbiggs Жыл бұрын

Drawing attention to similarities between you and the other person is a big one for strengthening connection. Also, having your own hobbies/fun things you enjoy doing, and then talking about those things makes you so much more interesting of a person to talk with. You come off energized and like you are actually awake in life, not just going through the motions of work/eat/sleep.

@happisakshappiplace.6588 10 ай бұрын

Interesing point.

@SeanLunny Жыл бұрын

Being authentic is always the best thing to do in any scenario

@lebronejhames7265 Жыл бұрын

Lol maybe 8/10 times 🤷‍♂️ gl tho

@loadapish 9 ай бұрын

Until you realise nobody likes who you really are. Then what

@takla2129 9 ай бұрын

@@loadapishfuck their opinion on me, care only about what God thinks of me

@augustgirl2905 9 ай бұрын

@@loadapishit isnt possible that nobody like who you REALLY are unless you are just an ahole, maybe your reputation is damaged, we like what is desired. Change spaces, an undervalued item can be a fan favorite in another market. Talk to people who values you and the rest will follow.

@lofisky4355 9 ай бұрын

@@loadapish8 billion people and no one likes you?

@CaahAragao Жыл бұрын

Great video as always!! Thanks for the help 🤗

@merelymystic Жыл бұрын

Needed this! I started noticing the past month that I don’t make much eye contact I look past someone or around the room. It was because I was more anxious. I’m now aware and have been trying to look at the eyes more . The only way I noticed this in myself was bc I was talking to someone who wouldn’t make eye contact and then it hit me I was the same .

@williamhedelin4602 9 ай бұрын

First time watching you Clark, and I must say that you are a great storyteller! Love how you talk about examples happening in your real life or something that you came across which captures our interest, to then later on connect that with a social skill. Keep it up brodie👊

@Dil.Careem 10 ай бұрын

Our experience with tip number 4 really resonates with me, and I can relate to the struggle of accepting compliments and the realization that my "humility" was, in a way, a form of backward arrogance. It's interesting how sometimes what we perceive as humility can actually be a mask for insecurity or a fear of vulnerability. When I started forcing myself to accept compliments genuinely and simply say "thank you," I, too, felt exposed and vulnerable. It made me confront my ego and the discomfort of being seen and appreciated for my strengths. However, just like you, I recognized that this discomfort indicated an area for personal growth, much like a form of shadow work.

@tulumconcierges88 Жыл бұрын

GREAT CONTENT! THANKS, CLARK!

@tripseven9912 Жыл бұрын

I have been trying to find a mentor for quite sometime now and man did you hit on everything I need to hear! thank you man.

@aaronmatthew7280 Жыл бұрын

Another great video! Can’t wait for the next one

@princeofpeace2915 10 ай бұрын

Another good tip is active listening in conversation. For instance when someone talks about something they like even though you may not be on the same page, mention it in your response and ask intentional questions about the subject that point to the interest and the person your talking it. It shows you really care what they are talking about and want to know more about them rather than saying “that’s cool and than moving on to another subject.” Also be sensitive to the conversation. Share the conversation. Don’t take over and do most the talking. Don’t dominate the conversation. Make it fair, share some of your thought and also leave room for them to share there thoughts. And most importantly ask questions. If they don’t ask back on your thoughts than I highly recommend you make room in your response with your thoughts so than you don’t feel drained. Not everyone has these social skills or awareness so don’t be a stranger to advocate for yourself by including your thoughts in your response just in case you talk to someone who lacks that social grace.

@worldeater1498 Жыл бұрын

“The eyes chico, they never lie”

@ukulele-covergirl Жыл бұрын

You sure about that? 🌺

@Kevzult Жыл бұрын

Good advice here. Having good social skills are definitely a must have in life and I know so many people that would benefit from this. A lot of people don’t even know that information like this is out there!

@marksantana295 Жыл бұрын

Very empowering content, thank you!

@jeanshelbybooks4154 Жыл бұрын

This is so helpful for me personally, but also for my next story. There’s been something missing with one of my characters and your first tip is perfect! 😊

@beautygabriel6684 Жыл бұрын

True talk, you seem real to me and relatable. It's one of the reasons I like ya.

@alphamorion4314 Жыл бұрын

Regarding tip number 4. I used to be one of those people; in many ways I still am. But at one point I realized that my "humility" was being a sort of backwards arrogance: i found myself having a much harder time grappling with my ego when I started forcing myself to just... Accept the compliments. I realized that just accepting, and genuinely just saying "thank You" was making me feel vulnerable and somewhat "exposed", so I started forcing myself to doing it more and more. I though "Wow, if it is feeling so hard to do, then it must mean learning how to do it it's good for me.". Kinda like a shadow work thing, If that makes sense

@alexroman3288 Жыл бұрын

thank you for all the information, you are really helping a lot of people🙏

@ACRUZ-xw9qe Жыл бұрын

This was great, thanks!

@danielw4796 Жыл бұрын

I've always had problems with keeping eye contact. But then someone told me "Look at their eye color, notice if there's a difference between the eyes". It gives the mind something to do, it's not just staring... Works for me :)

@dream-nz9yb Жыл бұрын

I’m going to try this! Thanks for sharing

@lasvegasplease Жыл бұрын

Vinnie Jones, of all people said, that if you look at one eye and not both of them, it makes it easier.

@trainsandmodelshungary Жыл бұрын

Really helpful, thanks! Might incorporate this video into my English classes. 😍

@scarlettbetz9109 Жыл бұрын

These videos are so good. Great information.

@cle_robin_an Жыл бұрын

the biggest thing in communicating is sometimes having a goal to reach through the conversation good video:)

@Domzdream Жыл бұрын

I had an appraisal today with the head boss, made lots of eye contact while engaging the other interviewer. Nailed it !

@maggieborek8499 Жыл бұрын

I really like the 1st tip. I have a lot of anxiety around talking with people at work when it comes to confronting them about work issues. My thoughts take over, and I chicken out of communicating what is important to me. Thanks, Clark, for putting it in perspective for me 😊👍

@DanielleAlbright-ew1zo Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢🎉🎉🎉🎉

@Kino1211 Ай бұрын

Great vid thanks.

@ratedbywomen Жыл бұрын

Very very very good video!!!

@JenMarco Жыл бұрын

Great video!

@Theasaurous Жыл бұрын

Always fun informative videos to watch! Love it! Also.....your eye contact lol.

@user-jq8jy8ld4u Жыл бұрын

It's basically about the dream life of people with social anxiety. Thanks for spreading those tips!

@SR-hf3hx 9 ай бұрын

It doesn't matter if they like you or not...you do need them to respect you for sure

@vanessaLavey 11 ай бұрын

This is awesome! 😊

@Patriotgirl1130 4 ай бұрын

U deliver great content - glad I found u. Plus you’re easy to look at 😉

@ishaat_plays 10 ай бұрын

Solitude, self love is the key to many love 😊❤️

@DanaWood-cc6fv Жыл бұрын

Great informative video

@nerd26373 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing us this video. It really helps out a lot in self improvement.

@IsupportTrains999 11 ай бұрын

Nice advice bud!

@gavinvelayuthan9726 Жыл бұрын

Clark. MY MAN always on point inspired by you. GAVIN FROM SOUTH AFRICA

@71kkt Жыл бұрын

Loving your vibes...❤thanx again for another winner 🏆 🥇 🏅 👏 😉🙏🏻💯 💙

@battletoads22 10 ай бұрын

I quite like that first one. I'm guilty of spending way too much time in my head, and as a result, it does take me away from the social aspect. I'll try to remember this.

@Teedo_Don Жыл бұрын

Excellent video

@zagrosqazy3798 Жыл бұрын

Really good job

@abrahammorales3266 Жыл бұрын

This is great!

@dflorez1982 Жыл бұрын

Have a great week clark

@bonolosolomon Жыл бұрын

Everytime I watch your videos I leave having learned something.

@sanjay_107 Жыл бұрын

Bro got the vibe subscribed ✅

@GrowingonVancouverIsland Жыл бұрын

Your content is a 10/10 awesome 👍👍

@johnpoprik1502 9 ай бұрын

Clark, you don't need to mess up twice. Most people will not notice if you mess up once, unless it's really bad. If I mess up and mention it when I come off stage, usually people will say, "really, I did notice."

@baloxe Жыл бұрын

thank you for your tips i agree with you

@hlewis5217 Жыл бұрын

Also exercise and drink coffee. My confidence has been sky-rocketing ever since!

@Domzdream Жыл бұрын

It took me forever! To get used to taking compliments. I was always - yea thanks but it can still look better…..etc. Just say thank you. Return it with a likewise compliment. Extra brownie points.

@RARochester 9 ай бұрын

Just " don't care "; it's refreshing and the freedom you feel makes you standout.

@rajchaudhary2795 Жыл бұрын

Yaayy Clark new vdo...❤

@arricammarques1955 9 ай бұрын

The art of caring less remains priceless.

@gerrycorona5071 Жыл бұрын

Glad to see you still have the Mustang :)

@trevbeats77 Жыл бұрын

Thank you...

@stephaniewood7611 Жыл бұрын

This is great

@Candiceemry Жыл бұрын

Clark’s voice is so comforting

@Amorosa.x Жыл бұрын

Do you have a podcast? I would defenitly listen to you for hours

@crzyboproductions 9 ай бұрын

Thank You for this information like 👍👍

@bekind3050 10 ай бұрын

Be KIND & GENEROUS. Everything will follow❤😊

@BeeVloggingComedy Жыл бұрын

Great video man ~~~!!! Enjoyed watching this !

@MoneyInvestHub Жыл бұрын

Here are 5 secrets to enhance your social skills and make yourself more attractive to others. These techniques will help you to connect with people in a genuine way, without resorting to manipulation or insincerity. Charisma and likability are skills that can be learned, just like any other skill. Unfortunately, most people are not taught these skills, which is why so many struggle in this area. By incorporating these tips into your daily life, you can improve your interactions with everyone you meet and even climb the ladder at work. While there are dozens of tips and techniques,

@giab4262 Жыл бұрын

Dude you're so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You have me cracking up at every other words you say you are something else I love it 🕺🕺🎉🎉🎉

@idrishariz982 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@sweetartforyou Жыл бұрын

I absolutely adore your videos 🤍🤍

@timmy2210 8 ай бұрын

Nice video👍

@scofieldvisuals Жыл бұрын

Also when someone complements you you can tag on thank you for noticing (blank). And boomerang it back to them. This is what worked for me

@ButchersNailsEnjoyer 9 ай бұрын

Man i love how literally going into public has become not only overly complicated, but a legit market for coaching 😂

@aquila1993 9 ай бұрын

lol I had the same thought

@cj-gunn Жыл бұрын

You had me at "borderline drinking problem"

@Flo-sn7zv 9 ай бұрын

not saying it everything was groundbreaking and new to hear but i agreed with all points

@twotonepatek Жыл бұрын

Never thought i'd see Superman open a KZfaq channel!

@AmazingNature365 9 ай бұрын

Good vid

@eliadvo Жыл бұрын

I really love, "mess up twice."

@mgyulai1417 8 күн бұрын

You keep bringing up hollow earth in your videos and it's one of my friend's special observation. And he is truly one of the most interesting person I know 😂

@deltasanakiss9781 Жыл бұрын

Genius person

@Ninsidhe Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately eye contact for Autistics and neurodivergent individuals is a major difficulty- I can *do* it but then all my focus goes into dealing with the eye contact and I have almost no ability to process what the individual is saying. Autistic culture, like the d/Deaf culture, has a whole different swathe of social and interactive cues.

@anwaralemseged7884 Жыл бұрын

Hello nice guy am listening your lecture .# the thing is am cooking my launch to tomorrow on work or job this great hunting much stuff

@Soundoushamamti 8 ай бұрын

Be real to win the heart not just the game ❤

@Mr79Shahin 10 ай бұрын

I’ve never been able to maintain eye contact. It has held me back all my life and has prohibited me from forming relationships.

@tonymonroe9709 Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Clark 👍

@RocketVet Жыл бұрын

6:50 is so spot on.

@johnnyweissmuller5838 9 ай бұрын

As an alien lifeform trying to pass as human, this was really helpful

@BrosciuttoJZ 9 ай бұрын

Great advice! Also, I can't put my finger on it but this guy reminds me of some celebrity

@sprts1v1 Жыл бұрын

thanks

@debragassaway7786 9 ай бұрын

My mom used to say learn to laugh at yourself. So if you have an embarrassing moment most times I just laugh with every one else. I don't feel they are judging me. More like saying ooh my! I've done that before.

@obamas.7963 Жыл бұрын

I agree, Apple Store staff are very polite and friendly im a way your willingness to buy something increases

@zanedzikonski4234 Жыл бұрын

Was with ya till you said that’s why celebrities share personal vulnerabilities. I see all celebrities as fake and figured they knew sharing vulnerability was a way to connect but that for them there is some sort of motive, agenda or manipulative programming going on. Perhaps I need therapy…or perhaps I’m right 🤓

@user-td7sj3zl4s Жыл бұрын

cool video, but as a non-native what I'm really grateful for it's the phrase "snooze fest" 😁 thx man

@golvic1436 4 ай бұрын

Eye contact is a tough one for me. I need to do it more beucase I get a ton of anxiety with eye contact. Need to get over it.

@adrien8653 7 ай бұрын

Ty 👍

@rajchaudhary2795 Жыл бұрын

Man your perspective 😊❤just woww

@Divine_Guidance_Coaching Жыл бұрын

Love u friend ❤

@mararuelas6071 Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂 ‘ Just so you know I have a borderline drinking problem’ I love how you occasionally throw funny scenarios.

@user-er2xl6rh5p 11 ай бұрын

Thanks

@TrillOleg Жыл бұрын

Your a wise dude Ben Affleck.

@falcons9659 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@DariClifasefi 10 ай бұрын

your a boss bruh

@RenePeraza 9 ай бұрын

I think you meant 'uninteresed' in the small talk section. Disinterested refers to not having a vested interest in a matter, like a judge should be disinterested in the court case, letting justice be served fairly. Just helping out your great content!