This comment has nothing to do with this case, I just want to take a moment to thank judge toler. I was going through a horrible situation and hurt, I literally healed myself and kept my head up with dignity and pride all due to your advice . My kids are happy and thriving bc I'm more balanced and a relationship that I had given up on and came to peace with came back stronger and better than ever, bc you taught me how to react like a grown woman and what to focus on......myself.....so from the bottom of my heart thank you, thank you thank you♥️

He is addicted to gambling and she is his "bank"

This man ought to be ashamed of himself letting girls spend the night!!

They have both found unhealthy outlets to manage their daily stress.

20 years???? That means she was 15 and he was 22?!?! That’s not a gd look!!!

Is it just me or did anyone see how the wife Rolled The F@#K Out after the judges ruling! 😲😆 lol

She said it. She always has to pick up the pieces or find resolution for HIS gambling problem. Staying with him without resolving the gambling addiction would be just asking for more of the same so I'm glad she left.

If she was 15 and he was 22, then she spent her youth being with him. Now that her kids are older she’s trying to enjoy her life. This happens a lot when there is a big age gap and the younger person didn’t get to enjoy themselves before being tied down. Plus he’s a gambling addict...they both need to move on.

Someone who rejects your marriage proposal twice can bully you into marrying them? How?

He gambles way too often- but dang, she is partying WAY WAY WAY too much... Who has all that energy anyway? 😆

Dude said FINANCES!!!!!

OH YES DIVORCE COURT JUDGE YOUR BEAUTIFUL WISE AND MAKEUP ALWAYS ON POINT NICE NECKLACES I LOVE YOU AND YOUR ADVICE I WISH EVERYONE A GREAT LIFE BLESSINGS

Im not surprised he's letting his son's have girls sleep over. He was 22 sleeping with a 15 year old

They've been together for 20 years & married for just 4. This is the first situation wherein I feel like maybe they just shouldn't have gotten married. How much money does a man have to have to be able to stay in a casino for 8-10 hrs?????

Grandma said never marry a gambler and this is why. Grandma is never wrong.

Sometimes we just have to realize when someone doesn’t want us

Ummmm, according to their current ages, if they have been together a total of 20 YEARS then she was only 15 and he was 22 when they started dating 😮

They're too old to be clubbing and gambling. They're always broke and being ratchet. Terrible role models for their poor kids.

I feel like both of them cheating

He said finances?? Isn’t HE the reason for their financial issues? That took b. A. L. L. S.

Lol this dude wants to jump in last minute and try to argue his way outta paying her that $300. Naw bruh, you giving her that money 😂😂😂😂 lil' ol' gambling, money-flushin' ass lol.

10:18 woman behind husband falling asleep. lol

She's beautiful. Love the cheek bones.

She beartiful i definitely understand that accent😂

Lmao she talking about her kids being a bad influence knowing she a bad influence

Am I the only one who notice the change of necklace that judge Toler is wearing in every episode? 😊😊

At the 9:10 mark, He definitely is cheating - when "he's at the Casino", and she tells him she'll come by there ,and he's no longer there. Casino is just the coverup

She in the club five nights a week. She doesn't know who spends the night there.

Does he has any teeth? She needs too drop him and not look back.😂😂😂😂😂

I'm not going to lie, if my wife spent Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and sometimes Sunday in a club I'd think she was either cheating/ putting herself in a position where she could cheat.

His tight mouth is triggering me in a negative way...

I wonder what he would say if the girl asked to spend the night over a boy's house or if she asked to have a boy to spend the night at their home?

Did these people even want to get married? Like, seriously! Sixteen years of their nonrefundable life minutes have been spent only to get this mess in return? I don't get it.

Is he out of his mind? Letting your sons have girls spend the night. Wtf?

#Huhh? What did he say would keep him in the marriage? I rewinded it about 10 times and still don't understand, I guess whatever he said was rude? At 1st I thought he was snag a tooth becuz most folks with no teeth talk with their mouth half opened but then again it look like he got tobacco in his mouth. I just can't deal with someone feeling as If I'm a babysitter, momma, or in the relationship alone, Jus be alone then, 20 years or not. If someone is pulling you down it's better to get up & go.

So basically he just wants to be married to support his gambling habit. Yikes!

loving these classic episodes!!!!

i like the way she THINKS, i like the way she LOOKS & I LIKE the way she handles her BUSINESS; i am talkin' about judge TOLER, she's all that and a bag of CHIPS!!! the WORLD need her wisdom to help us figure out how to APPRECIATE one another, guide the younger generation in the right direction... bc how can they get right, watching us do wrong... i dislike that she's gone away; AS IF she can be replaced? what didot made that decison, to CHANGE her and the scenery that was workin'?

House always win Grandma told me...

She needs to take classes, painting, wine poetry etc not clubbing on every outing, she to grown for that

I like the club atmosphere = RATCHED!!!!!!

Yeeeeuuuppp .... he was cheating ! He probably got somebody else!

Casino and the club ??! After 20 yrs together y’all ain’t grown up yet??🤦🏽‍♀️

They should’ve lied about how long the been together bcuz 15 and 22 that ain’t right 🥴

Hey both of ya are JACKED UP one FOOL blowing money at the casino the other FOOL running the STREETS together time it seems like they look for a reason to be apart

The face that lady made at 5:07 tho!!! 🤣🤣

The husband can be called addicted gambler.

Cuz talk wit his mouth closed lol 😂 😁😆😁😄😐😑😶😬

How is he going to talk about finances he's the one gambling thousands of dollars away every week! This man is truly the definition of foolish

When he gambled away the rent, electric/food money, I would have just🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️and don't look back.

He needs Gamblers Anonymous.

I thought they were much older

She had no funds for bills,but she has funds to go clubbing 🤔

Ladies, please think twice before marrying addicted gambler! Children will go to college.

The MRS., Really Needs to RUN. 👟👟💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨The MRS., didn't have anything to be at Home fore, beyond the Children. I find it VERY interesting that The Trifling Good for nothing had the nerve to think the MRS., should be sitting around the house while he's out an about. . . SMH!

I wish they would quit answering for each other.

Pardon me, my honour, is this guy high? Indeed, Miss Green is chasing a ghost. He looks unconcerned about this relationship.

He is wanting to punish her for the things and problems he causes. Typical Ninja move!! Gurl learn the game!!

Did yall see the lady in the back 5:07

That's why they say to do what you love and let love find you. I love dancing too, so whoever I date or marry will probably be met at a dance. Giving up dancing to suit some guy's ego is not an option. Tell him to sign up for a player's card at a casino with a club. That way he can play with some free credit coupons and she can dance at the same time.

I wonder if they would let their daughter sleep over a boys house. Would they let a boy sleep at their house??? WOW

Together time won’t help two people who are escaping one another in the first place

she brutifull lol

They seem a lot (not little) immature. clubbing & pissing away money @ the casino,they act like two brothers living as roommates. These two will always be broke together or separated because they don't know how to be Adult & do Adult things with their money, I feel empathy for the children because the "Mom" acting as a big homie to their Son,so to justify her clubbing without the kids getting upset with her & to have her son be a in home babysitter to his younger siblings she pacifies the son by allowing girls to come over to spend the night in his room unsupervised@ some point she gotta sleep or leave to go clubbing & the baby machine is then activated what good is a no closed door policy if no one is there to watch when it's being closed I guess they don't have to close the door if mom & dad is always gone🤷‍♀️I wonder if she's gonna stop clubbing when that first grandchild she helped her son get comes along..js

If she would stay home instead of in the club, she would know what her children were doing. How can you expect your children to do the right thing if they have no good role models?

Good video

A mother shouldn't be going out four nights a week your daughter's watching what you do show respect for yourself and they will grow up having respect for themselves

Your momma told you right. If a man is overly jealous, it’s because he knows what he is sneaking and doing. I wished I believe that years ago. I thought he was so crazy about ME! You can imagine what a wake up call that was!!😳🥵

Nice show

15:50 what did he say??

Why we ain’t see his teeth 🤔

I’m waiting

When and who takes care of the kids?!?

Why did the judge award her that money without any proof that the tablet was even worth that much(receipts etc...) when in other cases she didn't award money because they didn't have receipts....she just took her word for it....unless they are iPads or anything Microsoft, tablets aren't worth the material used to make them

No good has ever come of clubbing or gambling. Why can’t they take long walks , go to museums, or do volunteer work, as opposed to drinking and shaking a behind in a club or wasting money gambling? Makes no sense....

He looks like Marvin Hagler

Is it just me or is that bailiff damned hot?

Clubbing mum and gambling dad , rnr in your home is ridiculous. Unhealthy parenting, these 2 are irresponsible people.

16 Yrs and you don’t know if you want to get married. The answer is NO.

I don't have a lot of friends but the ones I do have don't come to my house around my wife that's a no no

you have to raise kids and agree together... letting your son girlfriend spend the night is just WRONG!! you teaching them that fornication is ok !! my son moved out to lay up with his gf, that tells me that her mom is as ratchet as her !! she too old to still be clubbing he to old for gambling !!

They both are cheating.

So this man done took every penny to gamble with and now want to leave , Black Man Black Man Black man get it together

Are these people grown ups???

Jesus they both need Froyd!!!!!

Two tamikas in one day , I don't like that lol thank God mine is spelt differently ....lol....love me some DC

Learnt??

16 years ? That’s a long ass time to be with someone

Both are behaving badly. Heathen behavior.

Y’all really be crying about the ages. Yes he was 22 she was 15. IT HAPPENS. Not saying it’s right. But it happens A LOT. Can y’all shut up

Hate gamblers

This is a very beautiful couple and I just say that they need time apart to get in tune to themselves and allow God to leave them in their next Direction clearly it's not healthy going and playing three and four thousand dollars in a casino that is not going to take care of you is not going to give you health coverage is not going to secure you a beautiful new home beautiful clothes paying for the children's college degree or vocational skills for whatever they may choose I see the casino is nothing but the devil's household and we need to stay away from it not lecturing but I don't like no casinos in terms of the club the clubs can be fun as opposed to a casino but it comes a time where you just got to get in tune to your higher self and just walk away from that this young lady didn't deserve to have to deal with a man that's a gambling addict and then he want to come and pick a fight with her I'm so against gambling addicts because I've seen so many people lose their homes take their lives many marriages have been destroyed because of a dope fiend alcoholic as well as a gambling addict not a good thing these to good people can make it if they allow God to leave their lives.🤔🌬️😲🤑🥇🥈🥉🌪️🤐🤧☹️

Bad women for bad men period! Clubbing and casino both bad

My pops used to let me bring chicks through and everything was cool

The woman has bad sense of dressing.

He got another woman r gay.. She got another man r gay..

If he says it OK then it's OK. He the man

How can they appreciate a good woman when thier mom goes to the club 4 days out of a 7 days a week? That's showing them women don't respect men.