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We as PEOPLE need to do better honestly...it's not just men who do awful things xo

@@antayafairless9028 Yet he was taking accountability unlike most men.

Amen!!!!

@@antayafairless9028 that wasn't necessary; he mentioned men in this instance due 2 the case here.

So true

That was my exact thought!

it's a man thing... women my never understand... men cant take cheating..especially if they truly in love... I c a man that's trying monitor his feelings an just knows he cant take being cheated on... I think it's a input output thing..

@@caldwell4129 It's a PEOPLE thing. PEOPLE are damaged by being cheated on. How many episodes of this show have we seen women tracking and trailing, checking phones, snapping on random women for looking at their man the "wrong" way? But she still stays and keeps having kids by him. DEFINITELY not a sex/gender thing.

@@misslauren6798 I understand..I'm just saying from a mans point of view.. an dealing an knowing guys.. it something about a woman letting another man up inside her when it supposed to belong to her man... it does something to a man that causes him to never love like he once love... an a black man that's a good man or not so good of a man ..doesn't like to feel he a sucker ... so they try not to love but so much. He wants her that's y he kept putting kids in her ...hoping no one else wants her.. because he knows how guys are.. an guys not starting ready made family's they may pretend to.. to get what they want... that's his frame of thought... this is how guy think when they dealing with someone they really love... I'm referring to good guys... but most black American women dont want a good man anyway..

Fucking testify.

Yes I have learned this the hard way

Agreed

Or any other woman for that matter

Omg unbelievable man a dam shame

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You can love yourself and demand respect.. Don't let anyone treat you like shit

called common sense.

You'll never live long enough to make all the mistakes there are to make, so be wise enough to learn from others mistakes and well beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Awwwh.

@@GiftedVisionary which is not so common.. plus knowing better does not mean you do better

There's lots of men that are depressed and mental health issues but are afraid to tell someone because of being labeled as weak or not tough enough. Especially in the black community. Women have all the resources for themselves in dealing mental health and abuse. NOT MEN

Jeffrey Laury not true black women have it the worst, we have to do because we know we can’t depend on no one to help us. We have all types of mental problems but we have to be there for the kids and family. We have to put our big girl panties on and keep it moving because we have children/people depending on us.

@@jeffreylaury6549 women have ALL the resources ?! Come on. Your comment didn't even touch on the fact that ..he has all the resources as well!!!! No one will say "sorry I will not see you as a therapist because you are male ". If someone labels him that sucks but YOU STILL GO! you still get help! Saying men don't have the resources is straight up misinformation. I absolutely agree men are sometimes labelled as weak but honestly as a woman in therapy I also have been so you sitting there and making it seem like women have it easy is silly. The comment you are replying to is CORRECT. he does need therapy ...that's on him and this is no one's fault but his own. It's on us to get mental help.

@@mariel.4566 yeah that comment upsets me. Women have plenty of issues and men have the exact same resources....no one will go "sorry I cannot see you as a therapist because you are male " insanity. Yes some IDIOTS label men getting help as weak but so what ? They need to get over it and get help anyways. I hope this man gets help.

Agree that I don't think he is completely trifling, but he doesn't have the skills/tools/examples to do better. I feel sorry for us women having to raise these men.

He is disgusting and he sounds so ignorant

I don't know how women put up with that BS. I wouldn't raise a daughter to accept that from a man. Insecurities are very unattractive, and uncontrolled/unmitigated fears ruins your life.

@@suciojay1604 Here here. I dated a guy who was insecure and tried to isolate me, but that didn't work! That's why I don't know where that person is

@@erinjohnson4273 good for you for escaping.

@@suciojay1604 I was way too strong minded. And even though I've been out of a relationship for two years, I'm letting my real King find me

I doubt he will tho. Sadly

Facts

💯 from experience.

That's actually not always true.

Men are not that difficult as women think what you mentioned is kind of something a woman would do but he sees something and men for sure are not going to walk away from a woman unless he has a good reason to

Open Heart, Savage Mind that is so true!

He knows what goes on at those BBW woman's club events and Facebook groups. I thought everybody knew what that was all about.

@ There is somebody for everyone. (Just watch My 600 Lb Life, damn near all these people have spouses or significant others.) You could have kept that particular opinion to yourself...🙄

@ "He's a loser. He's too sensitive." 2 Separate statements. She didn't say he was a loser BECAUSE he was too sensitive. I happen to agree with the "he's a loser" part...Because of the way he did his woman. And her insult was specific to THIS dude. Your insult was about weight and skin tone and could easily be applied to LOTS of people, men and women. So don't try to turn it into a sex/gender thing. The original commenter just COMPLIMENTED a Big women, then you reply insulted a big woman, and threw in an insult about skin tone.

@ But, he is a loser,and, too sensitive. And, other things. She is faithful, honest. She is a good woman.

@@misslauren6798 Thank you.

@ what a disgusting thing to say , im glad not everyone is as shallow and judgemental as you , otherwise you will be single for life , cause believe it or not you can look the best and still be an ugly person , but based on your comments im sure you have heard that before , have a nice day

He's a common breed of dusty in Dustystan and she is a common brainwashed damsel who gets distressed by him. Let me end there because the dust is too much...I'm starting to sneeze 😷🧹🧹🧹

Gurlllll 😂

The mere fact that he said he wants to be careful who he gives his heart to but he had no problem having 3 children with her is astounding.

I know right, I though they married until late in the show.

What did his Dad do? Anything?

There's just not enough love in this world pretty baby

Other man? She was on here before?

@@InfiniteUmbra judge started the case by explaining that. Watch the episode from the start...

Same here but I’m trying to get myself back together again

In his defense I do the same. People are pretty easy to read if you pay attention

She needs to send this man back to his mama too much insecure he is just a damn headache

Lol ur not wrong

Yes that’s true but it sounds like he saying he not gonna to listen to any practical advice and that its gonna take God himself for him to listen and take heed.

I agree. She jumped into this relationship before healing. Now she is four years in with three more kids

I know this is old but.. FACTS

Read Judge Lynn's book

Where did you see their wedding photos? I want to see them too! 💜💜

Where did you see their wedding photos? I wanna see them too! 💜💜

@@treasurechest3955 they showed the wedding photos in the first seconds of the show

I’m with u hell I am 45 l thought 💭 she was a couple of years younger then me at the most!!

If he woulda told me that during the dating phase, we sho wouldn't be in the relationship soon to get married phase......all that is is a red flag😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I don’t know how you could ever trust a man after that shit

Ain't nobody checking for her that's why she got that BBW woman's group...That shit ain't nothing but a freak party I'm willing to bet she gets down at those events that's why he's not invited.