Keys To Attracting Men You Can Trust

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Keys To Attracting Men You Can Trust

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5 жыл бұрын

“Keys to Attracting Men You Can Trust”
This is part 2 of the interview series I did with Antia Boyd.
Part 1 Interview: • Trust In Relationships...
Part 3 Interview: • Creating Safety In Rel...
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QUESTION:
What can a woman do to now shift that, maybe not necessarily for this particular man, but to start attracting man that not only she can trust but also who trusts themselves?
KEY POINTS:
*** Here are three categories, and we can touch on each one and hopefully point in the direction that can get people to begin moving towards this on the path. It’s just something to begin contemplating looking at in your own life just perhaps beginning to open some of these distinctions and notice what you can start to live in to more fully.
Point 1: being able to trust in yourself
Point 2: being able to start to trust men
Point 3: being able to trust in life
* All of these happen concurrently but we can talk about each one of them and what that begins to look like because when you're able to trust himself you're able to trust in him and you're able to trust in life, a relationship has oil on it at that point things start to move into place.
* It STARTS in being able to trust yourself.
One way that women and men don't actually trust themselves is that the first thing they do - the first way that they actually betray themselves and break trust with themselves - is by trying to be what someone else wants.
Because they're not actually trusting themselves that they are good enough to be good enough for the other person.
They are not trusting their value if they were to show up fully which say their needs, their wants, their boundaries, or the things that they really want, and what ends up happening is because they're not voicing those things is they may start to contort who they are and notice how the other person responds and try to be in chameleon whatever it is they think the other person wants so they can be that.
And right there, they've created the first violation in themselves which is they're not trusting in themselves now.
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@JJtastic 5 жыл бұрын

I've also found that being truthful requires vulnerability. It's hard to be vulnerable if you don't feel comfortable with/accept yourself. In the end, loving yourself allows you to love others, wholly and truthfully.

@wandasexton643 5 жыл бұрын

This video was so on point. When you were single and you're dating in today's world you have to have transparent honesty. And most people are not. There's so much deception because there's fear with letting the person know who they really are. Men have told me that my honesty is it bit intimidating. But life is too short for BS and a good Christian woman should live her life honestly

@mellieburkette 5 жыл бұрын

This video speaks truth on several levels and is very pragmatic for all of dating and marriage age. Some have criticized me for not dating in almost 3 years since my divorce from a marriage filled with lies and sabotage. And while their was a long period of time that I grieved over the death of that relationship and the shattering of that once dream life, after much self reflection in a mirror that I finally was able to uncover and clear away the years of neglect and debris and dirt, finding a shiny new version of myself and feeling better than I ever have, I can firmly say I won't put up with incongruencies and lack of integrity in any new relationship. I know who I am, I know whose I am, I know where I am, and its now a waste of my time and anyone else's who doesn't look at life like I do and shares no common ground. Booty callers attract booty callers. Strippers will get treated like whores. Liars will flock to other liars. Birds of a feather flock together. So, I found my truth. I believe in my truth. I don't compromise on the big stuff anymore. And yet I remain hopeful that there is a small number of people like me that remain unharmed on the planet that I can form friendships with, as the "popular" vote is usually riddled with lies and half truths. Great vid.

@yahesmiroca17 5 жыл бұрын

Melissa Bruketta love ur truth, sounds much like mine, and ditto, there are beautiful spirits outhere ❤️🙏🏻

@MayaNature113 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. To get to know yourself first. Without this we can’t reveal truth to ourselves first and then to a partner. To continue opening up to yourself to be vulnerable ❤️ then with the other person

@jokermotorcycle 5 жыл бұрын

Love should come easy and flow like a river 😉

@sandrahideg289 5 жыл бұрын

Very insightful. Great discussion. Thank you!

@jacquelineleonte89 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the lesson

@Olechver 5 жыл бұрын

Great video!

@cindycinn2724 5 жыл бұрын

This is an awareness we always know but ignore great content but we have to learn how to relax....so we see a better picture What's happening

@claytonolsoncoaching 5 жыл бұрын

I like that. Relaxing to see the better, perhaps more true picture

@cindycinn2724 5 жыл бұрын

@@claytonolsoncoaching yes keep up the great work its appreciated thank you

@cindycinn2724 5 жыл бұрын

@@claytonolsoncoaching thank you that's a compliment from you i like your opinions and think you're one of the smartest men I've heard of...appreciated knowing relaxing helps

@mehwishowais745 5 жыл бұрын

Wow

@robellamullet3338 5 жыл бұрын

True...💓💓💓

@elaine48 5 жыл бұрын

No.

@memoryrinehart 5 жыл бұрын

I'm having a hard time understanding her speech from 6:21-6:31...Anyway Clayton love your messages but your backdrop too: flower(?) painting and wooden wall plaques.

@robellamullet3338 5 жыл бұрын

Hello.💓💓💓

@sam337711 5 жыл бұрын

Clayton should date Teal Swan. They're both hot and would urge each other to integrate their shadows; I'm ALL about it. Northwest, make it happen! hahahaaaa