CLEAN WITH ME & my ADHD

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Жыл бұрын

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@rachelcoleman5050
@rachelcoleman5050 Жыл бұрын
I find this kind of truth so beautiful. Waiting for the inspiration to clean, persevering and giving yourself grace through the process, and overcoming minor inconveniences. Dang, is cleaning the kitchen preparing us for life? lol! This, to me, is a beautiful description of what self-love actually looks like on a day-to-day basis.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
great analogy! that actually made me feel better about the experience since i struggle with the “grace” part.
@rachelcoleman5050
@rachelcoleman5050 Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene thank you girl! Girl I understand that all too well. The journey to grace. Sometimes it feels like the free things in life are the most difficult to fully receive at times lol. Yet, you are doing your best and that’s what matters. I hope you have a great day!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i hope u do too!
@rachelcoleman5050
@rachelcoleman5050 Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene one more thing sis, please forgive me in advance because I never comment this much ever 😂 but when God tells me to tell someone something I have to because I know it’s bigger than me. I feel this so strong, this video could literally be made into a short film and submitted for an Oscar. Im telling you that’s how much your video impacted me. I am so excited for what’s in store for your life 🤍
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
youre too kind 🥹
@JessicaTam
@JessicaTam Жыл бұрын
This is so real and I appreciated seeing so much of myself in it. I also think we don't often see excellence (the quality of your videos, your attention to detail) paired with ADHD, so it's nice to see that duality represented. :- )
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
that’s very refreshing & somewhat surprising to hear as Ive only noticed more & more lacking in consistency and what I would consider a downgrade in my quality so thank u for that!
@Hannahchannahyisrael
@Hannahchannahyisrael Жыл бұрын
​@@abetweene no please don't think that. Your editing style ages like fine wine. I'm learning from you!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thank u so much 🥺
@drebugsita
@drebugsita Жыл бұрын
First time I"ve seen an ADHD cleaning video and as a fellow ADHDer I"m so here for it! Thank you! I never would have guessed that you are because your space is extremely well put together and intentional (complete opposite of mine). But knowing the you are too is giving me hope, making your channel all the more inspirational
@lucijakaraman15
@lucijakaraman15 Жыл бұрын
Please do more of these! My boyfriend has adhd and sometimes it's hard for me too understand why he can't do some basic stuff for cleaning. This gives me so much perspective! Thank you!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thank u for taking the time to learn & empathize with him instead of judge 💕
@pronouncedzara
@pronouncedzara Жыл бұрын
ariane, you are too real for this 🥺💖 i appreciate you showing just how frustrating it can be to clean w/ adhd. losing steam halfway thru is a struggle. i love that you have your systems & mental lists, for me it’s notion lol. sending love, you’re doing phenomenal!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thank u love! the struggle is real but im learning & hoping to make some significant strides
@ushine4me
@ushine4me Жыл бұрын
Please keep doing more of these!! I relate to this a lot. This past Sunday I had a lot more "cell phone breaks" than usual. Thank you for sharing. It is very motivating.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
that must be really frustrating. the “extra” expenses are definitely my least fav part. i always get the casetify cases with the bumper. would highly recommend if youre in the market for one
@SheraLoverConMasFlow
@SheraLoverConMasFlow Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene I think she meant “breaks” as in interruptions of her tasks not the phone physically “breaking”😂😂
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 omg i didnt even consider that?! thanks
@ushine4me
@ushine4me Жыл бұрын
@abetweene I wasnt going to say anything, but i did mean interruptions lol. I was just happy you replied ☺️ 😊 🙂
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
😅 my brain is definitely broken. always feel free to correct me!
@hadiy101
@hadiy101 Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy to realize how things like compartmentalization and different organizing techniques for people with ADHD are so similar across the board. I didn’t have many friends with ADHD growing up, I didn’t even realize I had it. I thought the way I did things was so different and wondered why it felt so difficult and why I’d drop things midway and it just makes me feel better to know I’m not alone!
@VeraWill
@VeraWill Жыл бұрын
Wish. Major moment happening here. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for removing the embarrassment and stigma surrounding this and also giving more hole to those suffering the diagnosis. More PLEASE! oh, and... Learning the psychology /cognitive theory behind ADHD has helped not associate natural biology with my worth. We got this!
@JulieVeganEats
@JulieVeganEats Жыл бұрын
This video made me feel so seen. I also have a chaotic cleaning routine. I have trouble focusing on one task at once. Not officially diagnosed or anything for me but the struggle is real!
@LuClu81
@LuClu81 Жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed at 40 and I’ve gotten tealky great tips from my therapist, who also has adhd.
@timtamtums
@timtamtums Жыл бұрын
For the corners of the sink, try using the baking soda but with a cloth wrapped around a chopstick! That's what I do and it helps me get into the corner and I just rotate and spin the chopstick to drill in the baking soda lol
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
im gonna try it! thank u
@coolgirlzofleisure
@coolgirlzofleisure Жыл бұрын
i know youtuber talk a lot about lighting change and background sounds and honestly the light change didnt bother me at all. Your place is beautiful in all the light changes. so please don't let the lighting not make you shoot a vid. your vids are always amazing. x
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thank you love. im so particular about lighting cause it changes the mood but ill try to be more forgiving 💕
@naerainbow1
@naerainbow1 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this is so relatable. This weekend, I had nothing but cellphone breaks. I'm like, why am I not capable of doing this.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
your now the second person to mention frequently breaking their phone so now im convinced i must be dodging a bullet with my cases.
@yalazha
@yalazha Жыл бұрын
"anxiety, with a side of chest pain" Girl I am recovering from chest pain right now and this is making me laugh with how relatable this is XD
@sjazzy2007
@sjazzy2007 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your transparency and bravery. This video brought me to tears. It’s so hard to clean with ADHD I always get distracted or I find something else to do and come back to what I was originally doing.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i dont understand why its so difficult but we gon get thru it
@melindalynette
@melindalynette Жыл бұрын
hey Ariane, you know, i do the same thing where i rinse my gloves off tons of times while washing dishes. i think i do it bc if i don’t, the soap from my gloves transfers back onto the glass, so might as well rinse both. i love you. thank you so much for all the work/effort you put into your channel and videos. i think months (if not years) ago i asked for a video of you washing dishes and here we are 🙌🏾 i think a great video would be what cookware you suggest for those just starting out (young adults/newlyweds/college etc). thanks for sharing yourself with us ❤
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
oh no, lol! well im sorry it took me so long! ill add that request to the list 💕
@latmcb9863
@latmcb9863 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I think. It's so easy to get overwhelmed. I am trying to make sure I focus on one task at a time. Hopefully it will eventually get easier. Thanks for another terrific video.
@abundantuniverse1987
@abundantuniverse1987 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video my life is a mess sometimes and I get down on myself and it gets worse, I use bins too, and I get distracted too, and it's all just part of the process!! Thanks again for this video I really admire you!
@gbengaishere
@gbengaishere Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed the flow of this video - it felt honest and true to your experience, and I'm sure it will resonate with a lot of people
@hairea54
@hairea54 Жыл бұрын
This video is sooo me!!! And hilarious at the same time!!! It’s so refreshing to see the real ness !!! When keeping it real goes right! Thank you boo!!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
lets just say this was a mild one! 😅 u dont wanna see my low lows 😂
@itskashima
@itskashima Жыл бұрын
Really appreciated this video. I have started to slowly talk about my ADHD on my channel but I haven't named my condition in videos yet as I am still coming to terms with my diagnosis. I hope to one day be as vulnerable as you to make content that can help others who need to see this kind of content.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
youre not alone love. take all the time u need to process
@JanBamboo
@JanBamboo Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this video, I absolutely loved it🥹
@loveofwonder
@loveofwonder Жыл бұрын
I was thinking just yesterday about looking up videos on cleaning with adhd. It's like you read my mind. Thank you
@suneegrl
@suneegrl Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Love! I'll bookmark this and come back to it as I think I'm going to hire a professional to deep clean. I need help with the reset, but I'm hopeful I can maintain. XOXO💖
@cierrajoy
@cierrajoy Жыл бұрын
I love this style of video! I relate to this so heavily 🤍
@chizeller3510
@chizeller3510 Жыл бұрын
This video was everything! i felt so seen 😊 thanks for being so open + transparent ❤
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
its the least i can do 💕
@pinkaventadors
@pinkaventadors Жыл бұрын
thank you so much. this is so real!
@annathomas1155
@annathomas1155 Жыл бұрын
Please make more of these, Ariane 🙌🏽
@chernyylebed2050
@chernyylebed2050 Жыл бұрын
I’m a clean freak and watching this makes me believe in humanity. Thanks, queen 💗
@steph7697
@steph7697 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Just thank you for this realistic video.
@davidthescottishvegan
@davidthescottishvegan Жыл бұрын
A inspirational & motivational video Ariane because I need the motivation to clean because I think it's the most boring job that has to be done ( we must waste a lot of our time throughout our lives cleaning since it's a repetitive job) love 🥰 the video and love 💕Ariane.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
lets just say i actively avoid adding up the amount of hours we sleep and clean throughout our lifetime out of fear alone 😟
@sraquemo8
@sraquemo8 6 күн бұрын
You have summed up perfectly what I feel when cleaning! Thank you so much
@emilymao
@emilymao Жыл бұрын
You could try doing kintsugi (Japanese art form of taking broken pottery and using gold to glue them together) to fix your plate! There are kits on Amazon :)
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i was actually thinkin about that. not sure if i wanna add gold to the piece but it would certainly compliment the blue.
@alana.banana
@alana.banana Жыл бұрын
I recently noticed the same thing myself when it comes to wasting time doing the dishes washing off my gloves so often. I do it to rinse off the suds so I don’t have to rinse the dish again if some drips from my gloves. I invested in one of those sink grates by finding one that would fit mine on Amazon. I set aside large dishes for the end and am able to scrub all the small ones at once, set them on the grate away from the water and then collectively rinse them. I can even get a head start on rinsing all the silverware by putting them in a cup that needs to be rinsed anyways. It’s saved me so much time and I don’t dread doing the dishes or causing dishes anymore. Definitely helping me have a healthier relationship with food because of it too! Hope this helps!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
great tip!
@harpharp7909
@harpharp7909 Жыл бұрын
Watching this while I clean my house is definitely helpful thanks for making this real video to show me some inspiration!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
my pleasure!
@IreneIsaac
@IreneIsaac Жыл бұрын
U don't understand this video was perfect timing I just started cleaning wow love this motivation 💕
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
Perfect!
@I8RABBIT
@I8RABBIT Жыл бұрын
I love these type of cleaning/straighten up videos! I feel less alone seeing someone else's thought process when tackling their space, my mind has a million thoughts a minute 😂😂😂, I'lll go to make coffee and end up reorganize the utensil drawer (because in that moment in no longer makes sense)😂!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
out here just blindly following every thought that comes to mind! 😅 im convinced we need supervision
@I8RABBIT
@I8RABBIT Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene Yes, love that a cleaning supervisor!
@Hopischwopi
@Hopischwopi 10 ай бұрын
Oh my, yes! When I am already stressed, overwhelmed, etc. there could be the smallest inconvinience and I am either shutting down or crying. I really try to be more gentle to myself, allow those feelings of frustration? anger? I don`t really know but I try to allow them, give myself the time or maybe even see if I need something else before I can continue with the task. Thank you for being open about it :)!
@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers Ай бұрын
This video is everything I was looking for! Instant sub. I got ADHD too and it's been ADHDing hard for recently. Tryna to put my off-day to good use and set my space to rights today. Ty!
@shorty5ftnothing
@shorty5ftnothing 9 ай бұрын
This made me a new subscriber. I also have ADHD, and this has given me so much hope and tips to help with my own self care. This is beautiful to see the duality and the process of giving yourself grace through it. Thank you, this has helped more then you know!
@dxxoo768
@dxxoo768 Жыл бұрын
So true and yet you just keep going and pausing and pivoting. Great day!!!
@justbecause.parker
@justbecause.parker Жыл бұрын
Ommmggggg this is literally my head when cleaning organizing😂🥴🤦🏾‍♀️. Thanks for sharing this! 💛
@librarylady6mena368
@librarylady6mena368 9 ай бұрын
I think you’re brilliant. This video illustrating how the ADHD brain works is absolutely perfect. I love how you wash dishes, so thorough it gives me peace. Thank you.
@bijismythe551
@bijismythe551 Жыл бұрын
So I feel like I just get lazy but maybe my mind is sabotaging me.... Either way, I find it helpful to set a 15 min timer for a space to clean/organize and so much more gets done! I can def focus for 15 mins . Maybe that can be useful to you or others out there :)
@Autismcureforbianca4
@Autismcureforbianca4 Жыл бұрын
Wow! This video is so on point… This is exactly how my brain work😩😩 Great video 👍🏽👍🏽
@paulaha5044
@paulaha5044 9 ай бұрын
This really helped me today. Thank you
@abetweene
@abetweene 9 ай бұрын
youre welcome. hope ur day feels better
@amberc9053
@amberc9053 Жыл бұрын
The coffee thing is so true. I'm looking now to get evaluated for ADHD because I've learned, at 30 years old, that I exhibit a lot of symptoms.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
if u decide to, id love to hear your experience
@kristinabecker3959
@kristinabecker3959 Жыл бұрын
I had no idea you have adhd 😮 I was just watching one of your shorts and thought: „she must be so organized and probably has amazing habits and routines.“ I was diagnosed at 29 and now trying to figure out how I can manage it. Thank you for opening up! I would love a video with a compilation of the most helpful things, habits etc. that helped with your adhd ❤
@msmiami212
@msmiami212 Жыл бұрын
There is something about 29 and the “running out of time” phenomenon because, same!😂 I do a weekly hour-long, silent Zoom call with a friend just to get some work done. Wishing you all the executive function.
@kristinabecker3959
@kristinabecker3959 Жыл бұрын
@@msmiami212 omg that’s such a good idea! Thank you so much 🙏🏻
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i dont understand the science behind it but “body doubling” really works. for me its only effective though when the person is physically present.
@user-it4rt5wf4p
@user-it4rt5wf4p 9 ай бұрын
I had no idea body doubling was something that had a name or that other people did!
@nikki2112
@nikki2112 Жыл бұрын
I can completely relate..thanks for sharing
@tamannatazz5800
@tamannatazz5800 Жыл бұрын
😭 how do you know that I needed this
@Hannahchannahyisrael
@Hannahchannahyisrael Жыл бұрын
I've never related to someone so closely!!! I love the way you articulate your thoughts so clearly!!!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
💕
@2HotAtlanta
@2HotAtlanta Жыл бұрын
Need more of these videos!
@naileditsheree7235
@naileditsheree7235 Жыл бұрын
So real. ❤
@WereTheLindsays
@WereTheLindsays Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@alisastrickland8385
@alisastrickland8385 Жыл бұрын
Oooooo girl! Lol I appreciate the “Realness” in the video. It’s stressed me out but I understood at the same time lol ❤❤❤
@gingerhalo123
@gingerhalo123 10 ай бұрын
This inspired me to clean my bathroom which had been ROTTING for almost 2 months at this point. Thank you.
@abetweene
@abetweene 10 ай бұрын
youre welcome
@faithandworksasmr8130
@faithandworksasmr8130 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos and items, all of them. Can we have a review of your wet vacuum cleaner please
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thanks! there are so many on youtube that would do it so much more justice than i ever could. they provide side by side comparisons to with similar products and i found them useful so would highly recommend.
@alejandrameneses449
@alejandrameneses449 Жыл бұрын
This video made me laugh, say "same" so many times and finally hella frustrated and pissed. Im super hard on myself for not being able to finish things in 1 sit, so seeing more people like me managing to handle life in our own way makes me feel not so alone
@moni925
@moni925 Жыл бұрын
Going to try your bin technique. Usually when trying to put something away, I end up working in a new area instead of finishing the original room I was starting out in.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
my problem exactly, lol. hope this tool helps
@sevenoctobers7471
@sevenoctobers7471 7 ай бұрын
This was excellent. Thank you for keeping the imperfect parts in. Give yourself a pat on the back :)
@ndeyjasseh9486
@ndeyjasseh9486 Жыл бұрын
I always come here for realness and to recharge but this is the one 😢I feel so seen! 🤣💀 thank you for being you and showing us that ❤️‍🔥🫶🏾
@soonsims
@soonsims Жыл бұрын
GIRL, that is literally me cleaning my apartment. I get distracted all the time!!!!! Its so frustrating... I had to laugh because everything you did described is literally100% my thought process. Thanks for sharing! ❤
@Nse204
@Nse204 Жыл бұрын
Content creators and "influencers" get so much hate online. People resent them for "not having a real job" but after finding your channel I genuinely think, "Man, I hope she can make a living just off of this content because she seems like such a nice person."
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
🥺thats so kind, thank you!
@deceam208
@deceam208 Жыл бұрын
This might sound weird, but this is exactly what I'm looking forward to when I eventually move out! Love this video Ariane!!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
and i hope u receive it! having your own space is a blessing. im grateful.
@Peinaj
@Peinaj Жыл бұрын
Ok so this is me- a fellow Gemini, perfectionist which almost naturally makes me a procrastinator and after watching this, I'm almost certain I have ADHD. This is my exact struggle. This was so satisfying and enlightening.
@rjsmiley89
@rjsmiley89 Жыл бұрын
Great video very relatable
@MithMathy
@MithMathy Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I have so much cleaning to do today and tomorrow and seeing my adhd struggles reflected here while I get started is so helpful for reducing the overwhelm! Like it's okay, it'll get done, one step at a time. I may also need some "supervision" from a friend later when I tackle some of the clutter that I can't figure out what to do with (is it trash? Can i donate it somewhere? Should I keep it and create a home for it somewhere? - it's so easy to shut down and put everything in a box and hide it in the closet 😬😆)
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
yes you will! thats legit the hardest part! the decision fatigue is crippling, so delegating, definitely a great idea when decluttering 👍
@acarrotte571
@acarrotte571 Жыл бұрын
I actually kinda like the light changes lol it's relaxing almost
@thatbitch5200
@thatbitch5200 Жыл бұрын
you can put some soap and water in the blender and blend that and wahla it cleans itself!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
that technique is great for immediately after use but i unfortunately let food dry in it so i had to scrub it off by hand.
@PuppyGoLucky
@PuppyGoLucky 10 ай бұрын
this is too real haha i'm laughing and cringing at how much i relate and that I'm also procrastinating watching your video rather than doing my cleaning 😅
@demeahjanae22
@demeahjanae22 Жыл бұрын
I found out I may have ADHD from my sister who’s a psychology major 😭 I asked her if coffee made her sleepy like me and she told me why it did and I was mindblown
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
same 🤯 i was so clueless why everyone depended on coffee so much to the point of addiction, when it did “nothing”
@sarahvasquez580
@sarahvasquez580 Жыл бұрын
I admire you and the beautiful content you create. It is comforting to discover you have ADHD just like me.🤗
@bri120195
@bri120195 Жыл бұрын
So relatable 😅
@crystalalesia
@crystalalesia Жыл бұрын
Whew somebody that understands me 😩😩😩
@jessieduncan1461
@jessieduncan1461 11 ай бұрын
I have never seen such an accurate depiction of what I experience any time things in the house get out of control. I'm sending this to EVERYONE
@lovelyA88.
@lovelyA88. Жыл бұрын
15:02 the fact that I can relate to this so much just makes me crack up! 😂
@AudaL
@AudaL Жыл бұрын
Man everything else sometimes be cool but dishes and stuff on the counter overwhelms me the most 😭resonate with this for sure
@valentinare6471
@valentinare6471 Жыл бұрын
I fill a little bowl with hot water and detergent, wash everything and put everything washed in the sink, only after I’ve washed everything I rinse. I feel like that I use less water, it’s just a suggestion for anyone that wants to give it a try. By the way the gloves are really pretty
@Flower4229
@Flower4229 11 ай бұрын
I also moved this summer, just a week ago! I was in my last place for 8 years, so I’m feeling very discombobulated. The amount of art i have is insane, I don’t even know what to do with it all! Can you do a decorating planning video? Congrats on the move!
@abetweene
@abetweene 11 ай бұрын
Sure i can! Hope you get settled soon 💕
@Flower4229
@Flower4229 11 ай бұрын
@@abetweene yay!! Tysm and same to you! 🪄📦
@Aaprriil
@Aaprriil Жыл бұрын
I keep a spray bottle w vinagre and dish soap to spray down dishes when I know I won’t do them for a while
@AWanderingEye
@AWanderingEye 9 ай бұрын
I really appreciate your showing just.how.many.towels you go through in your process! So many don't and I wonder are you using that same microfiber cloth you started with? no rinsing? what the.
@abetweene
@abetweene 9 ай бұрын
lol
@user-jq2yi5js5v
@user-jq2yi5js5v 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful house beautiful kitchen 😍
@abetweene
@abetweene 4 ай бұрын
thanks
@annoramoringlan2515
@annoramoringlan2515 2 ай бұрын
This video literally explained my brain 100% thank you for your vulnerability
@WIL2BFREE
@WIL2BFREE Жыл бұрын
Love the video. What laundry detergent do you use or do you make your own?
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i either use dr bronners castile soap or dedtegerent cause i can buy it in one of my fav perfume scents
@janyw6367
@janyw6367 9 ай бұрын
9:57 this. Switching chores as you clean may seem chaotic to non neurodivergent, but it’s how we stay productive by maintaining interest. Forcing a system on us or being told we got to do things a certain way just takes even longer because our brain doesn’t comprehend the “why.” I’m still trying to find my system, but I’ve learned to accept that I’ll take longer than most people to do things and take comfort that the task will be done. Hopefully it’ll become quicker as I find what’s right for me.
@jenniferirvin2325
@jenniferirvin2325 10 ай бұрын
The accuracy of what it’s like to have ADHD sis so real and this is also why my cleaning lady is the real MVP of my life 😂
@carolinelabbott2451
@carolinelabbott2451 Жыл бұрын
Came here from a short on sugar wax. KZfaq recommendations actually being useful for once. Happy to have found you. :)
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
lol, i love when the algorithm be algorithming😅
@1800marsbars
@1800marsbars Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the relatable video. I wonder why the sun changing light bothers you so much ? That you count down the light changing . To me that was more triggering then the sun moving.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
since it’s a behind the scenes format, i included the countdown to emphasize how frequent lighting changes happen as an added insight. i thought it may bring more understanding to why my usual content is edited the way it is. i think it bothers me so much because its a cue that I have to adjust my camera settings for consistent footage (meaning less work in post production) thus interrupting my work flow. and because it takes so much time & effort to even get started, thats not only frustrating but detrimental because finally reaching a state of focus is fleeting. distractions of any kind with an attention disorder means if i lose inertia, i lose all motivation to continue and quit involuntarily. What im often left with is all effort but no results, and that vicious cycle is both physically and mentally taxing.
@neenaeverafter
@neenaeverafter 27 күн бұрын
Felt so seen ❤❤❤
@tripudium17
@tripudium17 Жыл бұрын
So good, thank you! Another thing that sometimes helps is a 5 minute timer and then forcing myself to go to the next thing. I can't get bored in 5 minutes right...? Ha. Also: What dish gloves are those? I tried going on the kitchen section of the website and it wasn't there. It also wasn't in the blog posts.
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
i can get bored in 5 seconds. it’s impressive, lol. looks like the color may be sold out but these are the gloves 😉amzn.to/40vSQpC
@tripudium17
@tripudium17 Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene Thanks!
@MadFlourish
@MadFlourish 9 ай бұрын
you are just proving to me that I have wayyy too much stuff because if my space looked like yours does b4 you cleaned I would be living a great life rn loll
@abetweene
@abetweene 9 ай бұрын
Lol, this was only the beginning 😅 I dont think I have the courage to share what the worst of it looks like.
@lovelyA88.
@lovelyA88. Жыл бұрын
Would love to see more insight into your systems and lists etc… How does matcha help you/recipe?
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
what ive heard (from the very little research that i did, lol) is it may be due to an amino acid that purportedly increases focus & reduces stress/anxiety
@lovelyA88.
@lovelyA88. Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene cool, I’m going to look into this. Thanks ☺️
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
yw! oh, and to answer your question as far as a recipe, I generally go for a matcha latte with oat milk & hint of chai or matcha latte with pistachio milk.
@lovelyA88.
@lovelyA88. Жыл бұрын
@@abetweene I’ll have to try this thanks! 🥰
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
yw
@Nse204
@Nse204 Жыл бұрын
Oh I want to ask as well: is that an induction stove? Do you find it genuinely easier to keep clean than a regular flat electric stove?
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
yes, it is induction and id say it is indeed a bit easier. I didnt have many splatters when using electric but since the heating mechanisms differ food tends not to really stick on the induction because it doesnt burn & cake on
@steemdup
@steemdup Жыл бұрын
I do not have a dishwasher, so I hand wash and dry. Actually, I prefer this because stuff comes out of the dishwasher needing to be rewashed. But maybe that's just me lolol Btw, salt makes an excellent scrubber for crusty dishes, as well. Love your floor mop - I need one. And a housekeeper 🤣
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
I would love to be that person. I was poking fun at myself like who does it? cause how can someone be that sufficient 😅 im jealous
@ohheyjesss_
@ohheyjesss_ Жыл бұрын
Love this voice over 😍 I find my dishwasher saved me more money on the water bill cuz me and hubby water too much water doing them by hand 😩. Btw Who’s the singer at about 7:30 ?
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
thanks! sorry, I browse/use so many tracks, I don’t know the artists by heart but if you have Shazam app on your phone it’ll find any song by listening to a short sample.
@tori-lq4oh
@tori-lq4oh Жыл бұрын
Hi 💓 Where did you purchase those little plates at the 12:19 mark? They are so cute. Thank you!
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
they’re available on yesstyle
@Nse204
@Nse204 Жыл бұрын
Ugh, and the broken dish: yeah I got a brand new, not cheap, handmade terracotta planter. It broke the day after I got it. Been there. One other thing: I know those mops are sold for hardwood and engineered wood floors, but they are really really bad for the wood. The problem is the steam. At around 26:03 it kinda looks like I can see where the moisture has been absorbed along the edges of the wood in some areas, there's that faint line of darker wood? If you're a tenant this probably doesn't matter. But if you own your place I'd consider switching to using a slightly damp microfibre mop that isn't pushing steam deep into your floorboards to avoid warping/cupping damage in the future. ❤
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
no worries, this mop doesnt produce steam. its just a wet vac so it immediately removes the water thats distributed and the floors dry within 45-60 seconds. The damage at 26:03 was actually pre-existing before i moved in.
@willowtree9900
@willowtree9900 Жыл бұрын
8:13 omg too real! I also wash my gloves off before the dish, but mainly so i don't get stuck in a loop of rinsing off dish, soapy glove transfers suds to dish, rinse dish again, soap gets on dish etc..
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
lol, exactly!
@auntiem71
@auntiem71 Жыл бұрын
I am the parent of a adult child who approaches tasks in this manner. This is how he cleans. It takes patience to deal with as his mom we get through it .
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
he appreciates your patience 💕
@patricewilliams2059
@patricewilliams2059 Жыл бұрын
Hi! Where did you get your gloves? Lolol
@abetweene
@abetweene Жыл бұрын
here amzn.to/41gFkXL
@AudaL
@AudaL Жыл бұрын
13:55 chaoticcccc deflee how my brain be feeling
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