My grandmother once told me that a woman’s home reflects her personality and that has stuck with me for many years ❤️

Growing up I've always been taught that as a black female I am to be tough, provide for myself, as well as "boss" in these eyes of others. As of resent I have been breaking away from that due to God showing me through the bible that I suppose to be a soft kind hearted women (opposite of all I've been taught) I want to wear dresses, be submissive (in the right moments) soft spoken, as well as a homemaker. I'm turning 20 this year and I get so much slack for wanting to be a feminine women. I just wanted to say I feel so safe on your channel. I learn more about what I want to do as well as how to do it. Thank you for somewhat being a role model for me ❤️

My mom and dad moved in with my husband and I in 2011. My dad died in 2013 of cancer. My mom has had cancer, too, but was all removed surgically. She had a hard recovery with me as her caretaker. She will be 87 in March. Long term care is hard but manageable with the help of my Lord and my husband. God bless you as you care for your Grumpy!♥️🌹♥️

I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother, my condolences to you and your family

In our Family, I usually help my Mom with most things she needs. But I can’t take all the credit. She had six of us and each one does something better than another, so that particular person assists her with the gift they were blessed with. Now, my Mother is blessed with health and an exceptional mind so she can do everything without us but since my Dad passed 17 years ago someone is by her side. You see my Mom and Dad had a love affair with one another. She still reads all the cards or notes he left her. Lots of beautiful memories. He treated her like a Queen. 💕

Wonderful video dear Nikki! I‘m an artist from Austria and I’m working on my own creative business from home. I‘m not married and I don‘t have children. But I live in a house with my parents, doing the homemaking, cooking, cleaning... for them. All the best for you and your lovely family! 💖✨

Cleaning can be so therapeutic! Your house has really come together beautifully, Nikki. XO

Nikki, I just want you to know how much you have helped me up my standard of clean. I consider myself a pretty sanitary person in my home but your example of the routines and keeping that bar high for every single day has really helped me. I realize now how much I would let something get filthy before I cleaned it. Now I don’t wait for it to look dirty. I just clean it regularly. Sounds gross but I didn’t think it was going too long without cleaning it but you really helped me see that every single day is the day something should be at its best, not a day that something should be in the process of degrading until I decide it qualifies to take time to clean. I realize now just how not clean I was before. You have given me a lot of understanding for how to keep my house clean. Your curtains have inspired me too and I wish you did more interior decor videos. Feminine decor is so rare.

Loved that moment of your family laughing in the kitchen! 🤍

Watching you clean reminds me of my mother who was often so angry while cleaning. I feel her outbursts still. 😢 Luckily I learn from you the happiness of cleaning and caring for a home.

I’m so sorry for the loss of your Grammy . I know it’s hard, my condolences to your grandpa and your family 🙏🏼

Nikki I am so flattered that you answered my question and used my name I felt so honoured ,as I said you are an absolute delight your family are so blessed to have you as we youtubers are also.Thank you so much.

The houseplants paired with your elegant decor have an enchanting effect. 🌿

God bless you. What a beautiful message and video. Family is every thing and each generation is such a blessing. I'm 56 and still miss my grandma. She lived to 96 1/2 . .she's been gone 7 years. I try to be a good and loving grandmother to my grandchildren .. . . counting my blessings.

I haven’t watched your videos in awhile. I am so sorry to hear of your Grammy’s passing. God bless you all 🌷

Its sooo heartwarming to hear that there are grandchildren like you!!! I know of awful happenings where parents are totally blindsided and neglected.... we don`t realize how quick time flies and we in the same position..old and frail....Its our duty to find time to do good.... so much meaningless time spent on things that bring no value to a person ..... you don`t have to look far to gain blessings in your life...its right under your nose!!

So true. I would visit my parents every Sunday after church once I started having my children. As they grew up they too started bringing their kids which are the great grandskids to see my parents after church. Those moments are so precious. My father passed in 2017 And my mom passed in 2021,my father in law passed in 2016 my mother in law passed in 2019. I am so grateful my grandkids had a relationship with their great grandparents

What a lovely home you have. I loved the moment with your family in the kitchen :-).

You will be forever grateful that you took loving care of your Grammy.........however, I offer my sympathy and love. I like how you send a pic of the “honey do” task. Think I’m going to try it. Blessings

Love the idea of "text/picture honey-do list!", because then you don't have to show him and he can complete the task as he can. Another great video, Nikki! You're in my thoughts and prayers!💟

I don't have a honey do list as I'm a single mother. I've bought an 1858 farmhouse that I'm restoring on my own. I've learnt to do most things for myself and am ok with that. I also run a sanctuary so can't really have designated days for anything. If a call comes in for a rescue I need to drop everything and help that animal. Btw, my children are all adults except for my youngest who is only 17. It's just her and I now and it looks like when the time comes she will take over running the sanctuary. Love your uploads though xx

Recently found your channel. Your videos are absolutely beautiful. Thank you for all that you do! 💕

I treat my stay at home status as a job. Just like my husband goes to work and works every day from 9 to 6 I feel responsible to also do work in the day hours. Some times I look at the dishwasher and think why do I have to do this again and then I remind myself every job has the monotone tasks that need to be done.

Such a lovely video, I always enjoy watching your channel. But it makes me sad today because I don't have my parents anymore, both of them are in heaven. My mom died in 2005 and my dad in 2006. He died from a broken heart and wanted to be with my mom. Also my grandparents are there too. You are a very loving kind soul and I can see you are a good person. It's so nice to see this because its hard to find good people these days. 💕. 🥰

I so appreciate you Nikki. Your channel name suits you, as you truly are an inspiration. You bring such peace and beauty to others. Routines, in such a chaotic time, are extremely helpful. Praying for you and your family. 💕💕💕

We don’t have a light facing the backyard from our deck so installing an outdoor light is on the honey do list. Recently changed out some ceiling fixtures.

Having a home maintenance list with pictures is a good idea. One less thing floating around in your head. I personally like doing some of those more than some cleaning tasks 🤭 cleaning toilets and mopping/steaming 🤭 so I'd probably swap some of them lol. I think a list posted on the fridge to pick from could be a good idea for some.

Nikki, you are the a pitta me of a proverbs 31 wife, plus honoring your father and your mother and your grandparents and you are so gentile in everything that you say and your actions show the elegance of womanhood of being a woman, wife, mother, friend, and a family member, as I have watched you during this video the gentleness of how you take that beautiful vase of flowers in your bedroom and you gently dust them in place them back gently on the dresser, I feel is the way that God treats his children he gently nudged them and he loves them and he’s very apparent that you have a love for your home your family and friends and it exudes over these videos and it inspires and gives women courage to step out and take care of their family and take pride in their home. You haveTreasures in heaven pretty lady, and the Lord will look at you and say well done my good and faithful servant. Nikki, thank you for your kindness that you show people and I would just like to say that I am legally blind and I use voice text when I make a comment so if there is misspelling or an English error please know that you can read between the lines and figure out what I am saying,🙋🏻‍♀️

If there was another life I would pick to come back as one of Nikki’s pets ❤️❤️. They are always cozy hahahah

I liked the dog ears peeking over the couch and pillows 😊

What a timely video !! I was just telling my husband I am feeling burnt out cuz everything is filling up my schedule and I can not do my routines for myself and my home

I just loved this video! Peaceful yet encouraging . I love this legacy that your grandmother left. 💕 I love the glimpses of your family. What a great idea taking a picture of things that need done. I wonder what you do to keep clutter at bay? Keys.. shoes.. coats.. toys.. everyday ? Thank you.

One major thing on my Honey-Do list is installing a new kitchen sink. I have white sink now but we just recently acquired a like-new 2nd hand stainless steel sink..so my husband will be switching them out.

One of the greatest honor's I've had was to help care for my Aunt, I adored her and she's has been gone 18 years and I still miss her deeply. When she was in her last stages but still home I worked full time then after work I would drive a hour each way to sit with her to give her husband and children a break. She could no longer speak but her eyes still told me how much she loved me, holding her hand and stroking her hair gave me time to tell her what she meant to me. When she passed her family was on one side holding her hand and I on the other. By doing this I had peace when she passed and I know I will see her again.

Thank you for this video! I am on two high blood pressure medicines and still have high numbers. I took my bp today as I watched and had the best numbers in a long time! Very comforting to watch your videos!

How do you maintain your bedsheets so white? Please share us your jewellery collections.. And how you store them.. Also love to see your baby birds.

You have inspired me! Please keep making these beautiful videos. God bless

You really inspired me to implement everything that I have learned from my grandma even more. Yesterday I tried a recipe for biscuits she used to make when I was a kid and although they don't taste as good as hers, they certainly brought back childhood memories and it always makes her so happy to see how much I have learned from her too.

We are in the process of building a new home and he spends almost all his free time working on it so I guess you could say that is his honey-do list. 😄 Continuing in prayer for your family. 💕💐

Hi, Nicki, My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your dear Grammy! What comfort it must have been to her to have you and your Mother and family offering her such peace and love. Sincerely, Deirdre

Some of you are very fortunate to have your grandparents that's not the same for all us. My maternal grandmother passed before I was even born my surrogate grammy(my sisters grandmother) passed away in 2016 and my paternal grandparents have been gone since before I even knew about them. Both me and my husbands fathers have passed so we only have our moms living. Sometimes we aren't blessed with the best or most perfect parents but we only have one set of parents and we owe it to them to pay them the highest regards as much as we humanly can(that means a lot different things to many of us) I enjoy spending time with my mother in law, she's the polar opposite of my mother yet thier lives share some of the same tragedies..it's amazing how one person takes a tragedy and turns it into a victory yet the other person decides to live in self pity and regret...the story of our lives...some of us will take those tragedies to our graves with us. Anyways love others always as long as they are breathing they deserve love even when they least deserve it! Peace and Love to all of you! 🙏🏽💖

I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandmother, pass on my condolences to your dear grandpa,, love and hugs to you all xx

Nikki, you are absolutely correct, there Is a peace, I call it a still comfortable peace that comes only from God, when we continue on in life after the passing of our loved ones that we took care of. I do not have any regrets, or any guilt. I took care of my Mom from 2005 until her passing in Sept 2020. It was only the last year that she became totally depended upon me. It was an honor, a priveledge, and yes, a joy to have those years and that time with my previous Mother. God was there each and every step of the way. I find myself smiling often as I recognise her in me😊. You were and are a Blessing Nikki. I tell everyone, always honor their elderly, or ill family members. The reward will be with them for the death of their lives❤

Your home is so pretty💕💕🕊!!!

Do you exercise a certain way, or eat a special diet to stay in shape. I'm tired of struggling with my weight and wondered what you do...You look great!

Lovely video Nikki 💗 thank you for sharing. My list of things to do around the house is so long 😣 but it will eventually all get done. My hubby helps out where he can but doesn't really have a clue when it comes to DIY as he was never encouraged by his dad, health issues stop him from being able to help much now as well. Thankfully both my parents were very encouraging when it came to DIY projects and so I am very comfortable tackling them. My dad will always help out if it's a slightly bigger project or something I've not tackled before. Loving the new series, can't wait for the next one xx

New Here, your style is beautiful, thank you for sharing

Lovely video 🌸🌿

Don’t really have a honey do list, but my home is in need of one 😂

I love this style of video that you’re creating here. I can completely relate to what you are saying and it just makes me smile to realize I’m not alone in the appreciation of the simple things that bring ease and peace to my day. Monday has always been my housecleaning day of choice too and people who really know me, know this!

Beautiful as always.

i really love watching some of your cleaning while relaxing but love this 🥰💗

Dear Nikki, my sincere condulences on the loss of your beautiful Grandmother. I've been thinking about how you always stay so graceful, well measured in your delivery of your vlogs and just simply so beautiful....and then I realised you just don't have an ego. I will be drawing from your wisdom today and try to moving forward. My eldest daughter moved out of the family home yesterday, by youngest daughter sadly is back in hospital so I find it very hard to stay focused but I will think of you. XX

You are so adorable Nikki .love from Aussie 💕

I want to make my house like this. It's so beautiful🧡💕💕👍

My sincere condolences on the loss of your grandmother.

This is probably silly, but I don’t think I’ve done a one day cleaning since I’ve been married. I should though, the whole clean a bit every day feels exhausting mentally to me and I feel like I can’t enjoy my home. I’ll try this way and see what happens! Crossing fingers it helps me like housekeeping more!

No regrets here. We just moved to be closer to family. So far it's been easier than I thought it would be.

I don't have a honey, to do a honey to do list.

Beautiful video! I love your bedroom and house. Have you recently repainted your rooms?

Yes, you tube is for sure my vice.

Hi Nikki, Looking forward to seeing your daughter’s room more especially that white wardrobe! Would you feel a lacy bralette would be good coverage for a dress like that with a deep V? Thanks for the inspiration! Julie 🌷

Your time management skills are astounding and inspiring! You are helping your grandpa from 6-8, how do your children get ready for their day/school?

Your home is lovely Nikki, like a soft romantic dream!

Can you share how you had time to do everything when your kids were distant learning?

What revelation: Not noticing when it's not a problem (after fixed), only noticing when it is! Turns out to be a human frailty b/c we are set to look for threats, for things wrong, etc., to stay safe. Thanks for reminding me; I do this too and need to remember to spot the things that are right, not just what's wrong.

Hi Nikki, I just love the way your purse fits so perfectly on the bench. Just wondering where you purchased the purse and if you find it holds what you need? It seems like such a good size.

I absolutely love your videos! I’ve noticed that I’ve been more aware of my posture around the house while I’m cleaning. Do you have an Instagram? Thank you so much for creating such beautiful videos!

Oh o must have missed the passing of your grammie I am so sorry to hear that !!!!

Dear one, please tel how to chose earring for round shaped face.. I mean stud.. Also what color suits us.. What tray is that you have in your tv room.. On that small table.. As well as in the bathroom.. Near washbasin, where you keep hand wash and flowers.. Its nice.. Those Mirror trays.. Could you help me lose weight.. Effective workouts.. Love your videos a lot..

Hi Nikki what type of cleaning cloth is that you're using?

Dearest Nikki, I had no idea your Grandmother passed away, did you mention that in one of your regular videos? I am truly sorry, you were such a great help and love to her. Your Grandmother was a very blessed woman to have had a granddaughter as yourself. You were there when she needed you. Physically she is gone, but she would be forever in your heart. She was a great inspiration to and taught you how to be the great lady you are. I am so sorry for your lost.

Is your Mom still living in her little house? I miss seeing her in the videos.

I have a problem with serving my family because most people of my family are really toxic and I don’t know how to deal with that because one day I have My grandma as a good friend and the other day she just hate me

I use to be able to clean my whole house in 1 day but now being 67 I can't do it all in a day.

So sad about your grandmother I didn’t know who is living with your grandpa