In your case, cold approaching was a good thing. At that moment

@@SRK6IX A good thing not because he got the female but because he learned things of how females really are.

@@kzariuscook1275 Exactly

that's only benefit of cold approach

@African American Guy i don't need to watch those crap bro, i used to cold approach like crazy not long ago. It works but you have to approach 20 girls to get 3 numbers !

Or maybe she’s not interested

@@rhysmason7430 both options are valid, some girls think they are good looking when in reality they are average.

@@capalot6028 you right

I never really looked at it like that, appreciate the insight

@@capalot6028 that is so so TRUE

Frr he be spittin

Nah sometimes you need to force yourself to improve

He isn't always right. In this case he's mad wrong it's just his opinion. Cold Approaching can help you if you wanna work VOLUME. Especially if you've never been rejected before

@@samramos1470 I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

lowkey felt this

Tru. Guys gotta stop worrying about approval

Agreed. Plus, you end up becoming confident asf

But it's still a waste of time

@@SuperMurray2009 this guys don't get the point You can't get sex by cold approaching

So it doesnt work

@@MrOdaddy2011 it does work if your game is solid.

Wrong if you have bad game girls will easily friend zone your ass in social circle. Not every guy has the advantage like other dudes

@@rickyticky3350 thanks my confidence about cold approaching just went all the way down

@@7inisterskits I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

That wise man didn’t know himself enough

That man isn't wise

If I'm at a club, i have no choice but to approach GROUPS of women...they dont go to the clubs by themselves.

@@clayliving maybe go with some friends you too

💯

Nonsense, cold approach is the equalizer, waiting on choosing signal is just wasting your life

You have the right mind set, we as men always get the short end of the stick, we don’t get a break in life we have to do everything, girls don’t approach of make the slightest effort so the man has to take the initiative

What if you don't have a social circle ? Then warm approach will never work cuz you never approached in your life

Rejection sucks

Getting women is not the same getting women who are interested in you

Makes absolutely no sense

@Anon I don’t agree with talking to women first It’s too much validation and can end in rejection Leading to much darker and deeper shii after taking too much of it

Exactly what I was thinking 😂 😂 If they only make it obvious to Tyrone's and Michael B. Jordan's how in the FUCK are you going to get consistent play? It makes no sense. Just talk to the girl if she say's yes you still have even more game to work on because it doesn't stop with getting the number. next there's texting game and all the bullshit that comes with that and then there's charisma, can you talk her into sex? Can you woo her into a relationship? it's so deep and some of us need so much work socially I think cold approaching might be the answer for a lot of us who go ONLINE to learn how to talk to people in real life instead of just... TALKING TO PEOPLE in real life 😂 😂

@Anon there’s always prostitutes and crackheads

I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

* Some

It's a number's game

This the most woke comment on the subject but these idiots are too fxcking blind to listen bro,let the sheep be sheep my brotha

Bro you'll never get pussy listening to these dudes. Just do as u please

You broke this down pretty well

Cold Approaching ain't worth it

I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

That’s cap. Girls love dudes who other girls choose up on.

Yeah lol I agree. It sounds good in theory to just be like "nah I don't approach girls, I let them come to me" but in my experience that doesn't really lead to any results. Meanwhile, as soon as i start regularly doing the cold approach stuff I get multiple dates each week.

I hope you not watching porn. Its stops you from seeing signs. And makes you a pervert around women. As everything will be about sex in your mind. And its not a normal thing to hook up with a girl everytime you go out😂 first of all why do want to catch stds and STIs.

@@carlnxumalo3864 Nikka what😂😂

@@tajiri7 Porn is poison, pretty much what hes trying to say 💯 It's known to desensitize you from noticing a lot of signs women will throw at you.

I’m 5’5 and I have to beat ‘em off with a stick my problem is usually I’m good til I open my mouth ion have no game but I look like I run thru 🐱

You said you can dress, that's cool. 5'6? Height really not as important as you think. You not getting choosing signals? Get in the gym ans get your body right.

@@jonc3214 Good points. Approaching a woman can indeed catch her off guard and in some cases even scare her if she is all by herself and not in a public setting. This cannot be understated. But if you think your odds at cold approach are bleak, your odds as a male are even worse via a dating app. The best way to approach a woman is when she is in a group of at least two or more. Just the act of singlehandedly approaching a group of people will impress the girl, not to mention impress the group as well. Especially if you are putting off a fun, sociable, and friendly vibe and the group you are approaching is bored and complacent, which they usually are. If anything you are cultivating a gregarious personal quality. You might even get invited to be a part of that social circle and network.

You couldn't have said this any better

Even choosing signals doesn't work. A girl can give you all the ioi and still reject you

Real men ( Kings ) don’t approach peasants ( women ) alphas get chose, betas do the choosing 🔥

@@kylemurray8994 Actually real men do approach women because real men go after what it is they want.

@@kylemurray8994 how many women have you been with ?

@@logicbomb8977 Lost count. I’m definitely 100+

@@kylemurray8994 they left you alone after that response didn’t they? Guess they thought you was one of those lames that jus be talkin on the internet lol

Work on yourself

I never understand why rejection is an ego boost and years down the line she be crying why I'm lonely while everyone else are in a relationship

Well you if you go out 2 times a day then it's not bad. It's better then staying home and Jack off. Other days you can always use it to build yourself and continue with hobbies etc. In the end you ain't losing anything your actually growing emotionally

How is that working out for you? You have to approach cause they ain’t gonna come to you?

@tracer073 it's possible. I'm not worried on women now though that was such a stupid thing to be chasing in the past... become successful and they will flock to you

@@jah96 it sounds good but that’s the worst advice ever, that’s just an excuse to not go out there and put in the work. who said you can’t do both you gonna sit behind a computer or desk till your 30 something, while missing out on valuable lessons and expirences

Facts !

why do you care about giving women those things you mentioned ? you seem to be over complicating it.

@@Chris-xt1ik The fact you even have to ask that tells me you're clueless, no offense. At this point I don't care to explain obvious shit especially over the internet to someone I don't even know. Watch more red pill content and hopefully you'll figure it out one day 💯

Facts, I done it and sometimes I get numbers but yeah this shit is energy draining. As a guy you are literally just boosting their ego more. That's why I limit it now when I feel like it, especially if I see the signals. Others than that I'm not playing that game anymore, it's not worth the energy in this current society. This is the blackpill

@@kfreedom470 It really isn't worth the energy and effort. A lot of these women don't even appreciate a man moving like that because they expect it. That's a different level of arrogance right there, I don't care to contribute to that mindset anymore. There's enough men doing that shit, with nothing of real value to show for it 💯

This

Cold approach always works…if you are going after nasty chicks. The more attractive a woman is, the less likely it is to work. So don’t act like you are batting 1000% with cold approach.

@@JohnBeezy3 Lmao this is cope. You don't have enough game to pull a baddie so u shit on others

@@JohnBeezy3 tired of losers like you complaining 🤦🏾‍♂️

@@JohnBeezy3 That's an excuse you tell yourself because you're too scared to approach woman. So you say only low class nasty women like cold approaches. The fact is, every woman loves a cold approach if the man is her type, smooth, and has balls. You lack those things.

true, and once you approach her, maybe it is then that she will will give you choosing signals, and the cold approach may be the only way for you to stand out among the vast majority of men who are afraid of the cold approach

Nah cold approach is lame

@@SuperMurray2009 it is lame to dudes who are afraid to do it. Just like skydiving is lame to mofos who are scared to do it lol

Attraction can't be created fam

@D&B Well it worked before so 🤷🏽‍♂️

Choosing singles is bs and such a joke, it’s like depending on the lottery to get money instead of actually chasing after it

He is desperate as fuck

Facts

I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

Exactly this. But I do think for the women who are extremely beautiful and are narcissist to them it makes you look thirsty. Because they just think “ omg another thirsty guy is trying to get w me”. Then she tells her friends about how she rejected another guy to boost her ego.

No, because if you go direct on a woman by text, she will not notice many physical cues that she will notice in person(body language, communication skills, voice tonality, etc). Also, women are exponential more likely to reply to a physical cold approach than a "text cold approach"

I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

I never gave a fuck about talking to girls and they were not on my priority list as I always chase the bag and purpose. But I realised a lot of girls are giving me choosing signals. Due to no experience and approach anxiety I missed out on these hot girls. As a lesson, I made myself get out of my bed and go to the malls, and look for the best the hottest of the girls I have ever seen. And guess what I saw her. The fear kicked in, I took 2 steps towards and her and 5 steps backwards. I wanted to leave and run and just as I did that, I felt a pain in my heart because I was repeating the same thing I did when the other hot girls were giving me choosing signals and wanted me to approach but I never did. So going back was no option. I gathered the courage and confidence and for the first time cold approached the most gorgeous girl I have ever seen. Hot, young, blue eyes, red jacket, brown gold hairs, pink skin colour. The cold approach went like it always does, I said excuse me what’s your name? She said why as she was caught offgaurd. I said I wanted to get to know you better, but she said no thanks. I politely left. I faced on of my biggest fears, even tho I took a hit on my unshakable self esteem and confidence which made and will make so many hot girls give me signals, I had to do this to gain the confidence and experience by facing this fear to approach the next hot girl that gives me signals. Now that I know I had the balls to cold approach a unique hot girl in the shop, that you don’t see everyday. I can approach the same chick but who is giving me choosing signals easily. So it was more about me trying to back off but still making myself do it than getting the girls number. Even tho if she did give it to me if would be amazing but as a first time approaching a girl ever and cold aswell, it was certainly gonna be a failure. I don’t plan to cold approach ever again but this one time will be enough to push me to approach the girls who like me. I don’t regret approaching this hot chick but I do regret not approaching the girls who liked me and wanted me to approach and now I have face the fear on the extreme level and will approach the girl who likes me.

imo, I think Approaching in person is better than just swiping on tinder. Sure you can go through 10 women faster than you could in person, but I think it's important to not rely on an app and actually be social. Not to say tinder does not work because it can, but I just like the idea of being in person more. People see more of your personality based off how you express yourself more in pe4rson than on an app.

Idk bro, I feel like cold approaching works for me a lot better than tinder. Yeah tinder works for some people but they kinda have to be attractive you know? I haven't really gotten a single message from a girl on that thing and I've been using it for months. With cold approach I actually get results, because I feel like you just skip the line ahead of the 100 males trying to text her online and just talk to her and shoot your shot. Works for me. But trick is, you dont just say "I think you're hot", you take the awkward out of it and say for example approaching a random girl walking up on the street, "hey, I know this may seem a little forward but, I just saw you walking up the street as I was walking down over there, and I had to come over to say hello and tell you how nice you looked". They love the compliment, and you don't seem much as a creep you know? And let's be real, most men who get 1 number every 10 swipes would be ecstatic. Cold approaching means, you get to pick your standards as well. And honestly, who gives af about what other people think right? What, your good friends are gonna either, tease you a little bit, or cheer you on, and it's even fun to do with friends bro. But back to the fact that you said you value your time, well I kinda just do it if im going shopping or going to the movies or something like that.

It’s easy work tbh

Nah cold approach is lame

I personally wouldn’t cold approach a girl out of the blue if she has not given me any sort of indication of interest I’m against the cold approach why go up to someone if they have not given you any sort of choosing signals what’s the point ???

I know one thing for sure...NY women are hard-core and stone faced. So cold approaching is basically something you don't wanna do. The only ones that give choosing signals are the fugly one that no men want.