Love this guy. Thanks for sharing your knowledge

I really regret not talking more about contributing to society in a positive way. That's so important

@@ColeHastings you knocked it out of the park, and it's a message many young people need to hear.

This post is a video in and of itself. Great post

Thx for your service and your message!

@Kuba P but most of people think nice and respectful people are the fools

@Kuba P i swear dude that’s true, even girls when you treat them well they will think you are weak or weird, treat them like sh** and they will admire you

@Kuba P I dont think they are weak, they just take you for granted. Being nice is so not a common occurence. When you're acting nice, people feel somethings wrong. In another way people are also constantly chasing. They want to be after those who dont easily give respect. Sort of reverse psychology.

You are all right. The problem is, humans have used their Ego to built the world into hierarchies. So whenever you show respect to someone, they see you to be down the ladder and try to take you for granted. The world has become a surviving world instead of a heavenly world. So people perceive those who want to be kind as stupid. The truth is the love and respect you show to others is a reflection of what you are. Thank you.

Same

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JT I see you everywhere?!!

@@chris-pk5so its the grind, I believe one day JT its gonna have a big following 🔥

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@@trippycog fr

I respect that mindset a lot

Hmm frfr

Thank you. People judge you based on how you dress, income, zip code, car house etc. and then determine if you 'deserve' to be respected. No way am I blaming myself for that type of ignorance from people who don't even know me.

@@nettakay2116 Self-respect is the only way to get respect from others. Without self-respect, we can't understand what we expect respect to be.

​@@WHOAM1894 Re-read your first comment where you talked bout people choosing not to respect you based on their own insecurities. That's what I was agreeing with. Your second comment is the total opposite...blaming a lack of self-respect for the insecurities of others.

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Soo true......

Society hates nothing more than individualistic personalities that arent common.

I agree

My family members dont accept me. Because i can be alone, they think im weird and failure.

Right 💯

Nope not 100% true, other people are very shitty as well

You can respect yourself and still be disrespected

Thanks For saving my time

@@The_Lovey_Informer if you really respect yourself, you'll stand up for those who disrespect you

Indeed

What do you mean?

This quote brings me to the realization, actually everything he says is true, but in opposite form..... We start disrespecting ourselves and our bodies, when we are presented with disrespect, or lack of love rather.

@@heidiharris9227 I agree 100% I always say sometimes people aren't depressed or hate life until negative or disrespect comes to them even if you have good vibes that can all be demolished

@@gabrielguzman6018 yes it's so true! That's why we must be careful to love at all times! If we can love at the best of our ability!!

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Talk that shit

So what is it

​@@Joshdifferent it's a weak as fuck statement mane. i let it hit directly. heart-to-heart man i was hoping for a feeling. i got nothing. this feeling is fake as anyone's bullshit. It's simple. He forgot and so did you bit encouragin that shit add a lil bit haha. Negative energy agitator yeah, I been there too it don't matter. I don't think about what others do I'm found. I'm all about me. I didn't let others in for years to SPITE me. I know my truth. Deep down I lock it down now. One last Fear is never near the creation of it. Balance & Composure defeats every thing in mind for me

@Arthnel Edwards 1-2-3 strikeout I never saw the bat off his shoulder move an inch

Yeah that is lol. I had smiliar situations. Im learning you really can't get people to respect you better rather find people who naturally want to vs who don't and kicked them out.

And if your short, especially if your a man

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I have felt that.

There are good people out there still. It's just there in the minority category unfortunately. Being Christian I was always taught to respect people no matter what so it bothers me that people feel like they can disrespect others because they view them as weak. Idk I just hate what the world is coming to

@@mario125ww good people are rare, in fact, there's a high probability that you'll never meet them in your entire life

@@joel8708 I agree that the safest options is to be selfish to some degree however I would say christian people I. General are good people. In my life, Christians have the higher probability of being extremely pure if they truly trying to be like Jesus. And I met a few of those

@@mario125ww Are Christians Good People? but if most of them sow ignorance and homophobia. They are often closed-minded and archaic.

Agreed. But also take care of yourself as well!

@@ColeHastings haha of course my friend, to change the world, you must first BE the change!!!

Much love to you

@@ColeHastings your a real one Cole, truly! I would love to someway somehow make something with you as a smaller creator. Just a boy dreaming big haha

It's not true at all

much love

I cannot change myself eventhough i am trying , im so nice to others , but i feel that make them deal arrogantly or disrespect me sometimes , and still i let it slide i cannot be rude to stop it from first time i always give many chances before i blow up hhh , bcz i know that my patience has limits and i have to set up boundaries and speak up for myself , and what happen they bcm chocked and refuse to appologize , that is why i decide to take a distance from the friendship and be far. But this make me sad sometimes especially that i immigrate to foreign country and i need a friends so badly i feel that i cannot enjoy nothing without them and at the same time i cannot be with someone who does not respect me and that think themselves r superior just bcz im modest person and i dont like to show off. I always care a lot abt anybody how he will feel before saying a word and i never want to hurts their feelings , as a result i recieve the opposite in the return.and one thing i do respect everyone and i dont care how they look or what is their religion or their education level.what really matters for me is their personality and values but unfourtuntley they don't.

I think it's a great opinion with a lot of truth but I don't understand our culture obsession with looks respect is different in different places. But I ultimately agree that in order to have respect you must respect and love your self first

Pretty spot on

@@ColeHastings Loving it so far man 🔥

That's what I'm here for brotha

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Excellent comment bro 😎

Love that

I absolutely disagree with that statement.

@@AmbientWanderer what's your take? Curious to hear

@@ColeHastings well, i'm not saying that giving does not provide some sort of benefit/ value or happiness, because it absolutely can do. But just giving while not looking at our own flaws will not reflect so well on those that we are 'giving' to. If more people were to focus on self improvement then 'giving' or sharing our experiences or knowledge to others would be far more valuable to those who need it. I think we also need more honesty from people and society in general, with less pampering and more hard honest truths. How often do people say to someone with a bad posture or if they are overweight , say "hey, you need to really fix the way you look because it just does not look good" instead people tend to hear the same old rubbish such as "just be a nice guy, and you'll be fine"or "you look great just the way you are" etc... Sorry I know i went a little off topic, but i just wanted to express how i feel.

@@AmbientWanderer I think it depends where you are in your life. You have some good points. I think we all have improvements to do and we can’t give someone what we don’t have.

I agree.

Definitely show it to some friends; this stuff takes years to work out for most people, myself included.

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Im an infp i feel your pain

ISFJ : Completly agree

Oh pls believing in MBTI is like believing in Tarot cards..

@@notstonkss9417 mbti is somewhat believable than Tarot cards

@@thesevenkingswelove9554 it's just a silly way of placing labels on yourself

much love brother

i felt this in my first job. still traumatized to this day.

Happened to me too but I don't think it was my fault. People decide if they're gonna respect you in 10 seconds, the same way women decide if you're good enough for them. Being 6ft tall works in both cases. It's hard to not respect a guy you literally look up to.

@@Gaze73 talking like that is only wasting time you could be bettering yourself. no bitterness, only a drive to improve

@@rksilvally Yeah I should work on being 6ft tall.

What that

@@Aaron-fb6mb A book by Doctor Robert Glover. It explains how to get what you want in life, how to handle confrontation the correct way, not to come off as passive aggressive, relationship goals etc. Honestly it's like the mens bible to greatness. Check it out mate

Woah

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Divine timing my guy

Exactly😳

Damn! What are you?

What comes around goes around

@@jbela Yup.

@@jbela Karma

Thanks man! Usually I like storytelling a little more but maybe this is optimal

Had to do it to em

I think it's partially subconscious bias due to the fancy type being in group with them and having weekend adventures they can regail each other with; and then of course the better looking you are the more likely they are to be attentive to your care yeah.

You can't change human nature man and it doesn't make you special to. You can dress casually and not buy into certain parts of it but if you look bad, people can tell you don't care, you look underconfident etc, it illicits a natural negative response and I dunno why you would do that to yourself.

@@MingusTale i didn't say that it makes me special but a person who "looks bad" may be because they suffer from depression (skipping grooming as one of the signs of depression), imagine how a person must feel who is depressed and on top of that is being treated like a second-class citizen or like air, like they don't even exist or they may have overslept and were in a hurry or they're taking care of someone and cannot find the time to look after themselves (a sick family member or parents who take care of kids often have baggy eyes or just put a coat over their pyjama) i don't judge people based on their appearance because i don't know what that person may be going thru, it may be "human nature" to judge people how they look but i don't know why you'd treat a person differently just because they "look bad", sounds like lack of empathy and a superiority complex

@@FruityHachi I'm not saying I don't have compassion for people who don't look great. That I just ignore them or sth. I'm saying in society it helps you and there's no point not putting effort into yourself. Unless you're actually depressed like you said, there's no excuse. If someone is depressed, they can't function in many ways that they would prefer to, of course one should have empathy for that. I also don't think we should be obsessed with our appearance to the point of insecurity. It's about having that mindset you should have for everything - take control of what you can reasonably control, and accept what you cannot. You can control your haircut, your clothes, and being vaguely fit. You can't change your face, your entire body type, your race etc. People underestimate the impact of the things that are under their control and are pretty low effort once you get the hang of it.

​@@MingusTale "I'm saying in society it helps you and there's no point not putting effort into yourself. Unless you're actually depressed like you said, there's no excuse." some people may just not care what others think of them and don't dress/groom to impress strangers, some people have different priorities may consider it more important to take care of their kids/a sick family member or to hurry somewhere or whatever else they may get dressed up for a date night but not when they're grocery shopping just because someone doesn't look great is not excuse for others to treat them differently (i'm not saying you do, but others, that "in society it helps") of course that you should control what you can (haircut, clothes), but i disagree that it's excusable for others to treat a person differently just because they're not groomed/dressed up

No if u are not nice I dont want to be around u at all healthy people doesnt stand people who are not nice🎉

Are you sure they're friends?

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Indeed, cause it makes you feel less vulnerable subconsciously

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Sorry about that

thats terrible :( i cant believe your instructor would interrupt u like that

You just need to be super in believing in yourself that you can do it and don't give damn to anyone's opinion.

Thank you for watching

Okay?

@Kuba P No, op just has an inflated ego.

Not everyone you meet is going to like you but that's ok. They'll be missing out on alot of things.

I’m still going through that faze with friends

@@lukeclark3506 everyone had them at some poin but some person got attached on them :/

@@alexandrualex1085 l guess we ALL do

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im having the exact same problem. My friend group doesn’t really take me seriously anymore.

@@brockisbackinaction1234 read catcher in the rye. i promise, it'll change ur life i also recommend ditching them and just completely ignore them. yes its fucking hard, even 10x harder for me cos the whole school knows im the funny guy and everyone like yo "say sum funny". dont give them attitude tho cos they'll make fun about it. only make 1 joke with them and make them feel close then boom just ignore. its been working and im glad cos i realised those arent my real friends.

lets go! thank you

Relatable. I respect everyone, not to please. Just because I'm like this and like this I'll be. It's funny how, like you said, people start thinking they can take advantage of that. When I see someone do that it feels like I'm watching a primitive animal thinking they will fulfill their greed somehow.

Funny thing is, we have been told that we have to learn how to fit in. And that gets mixed in with plenty of things including survival as a human. And when we try to be compassionate and attempt to fit in, some kids find that a problem and treat you as a problem, even though it could be your first time trying to interact in a way to just put yourself out there and be honest. The thing I never realized in my past is that not many people will come to try to give you advice you need to learn from any mistakes you made. Some mostly just patronize you and criticize you. Make fun of your character and think you're not worth to be around with. Thing is, I wasn't told enough that I need to just live my life not worrying about validations, whether due to circumstances that find me trying to reach out to others to prove to them in ways I shouldn't, or something of the lines that must be thought about. I struggled to interact with people since I didn't know how to and didn't have a clue on how to pull it off. I did make some friends though, some people who struggled like me and we did some stuff at least. Still, some of the effects I got gaslighted on still remained to some degree, although I'm making steps to better myself without worrying with other people think. And that's something I refreshed. I only was trying to learn and grow, the issue is that some of the things I was taught lacked additional lessons that should help people learn how to appreciate and respect their self-worth, and the people I interacted with were too immature to see a boy back then trying to figure out what to do to live life. I don't think I even realized that some of the things I was doing was that of a people pleaser. All I know is that I never asked people to make fun of me, nor did I give them permission to. And people like that are bad enough to separate from because even though some have learned better than others in some places. There's still some lesson to go in talking to people and being a A-hole is no excuse for your actions to ridicule to someone who was a rookie at living life and wants to be better. I do need to increase my self-worth and respect in myself, in fact, I had it within me, I just didn't know to bring it out and I wanted people to help me enough to see my own abilities and work to improve it. I just interacted with some of the wrong people who have their own problems.

Cause I reckon that too! people are mean and rude to me, so what does that suppose to mean..