Coming Out to my Dad ON CAMERA (FTM)

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Ean Ross

Ean Ross

8 жыл бұрын

Hello! I'm Ean. I am just now starting my transition and so far its not been easy. Coming out to my dad was a big deal for me and I'm glad with how it turned out.
Email me any time for anything at ean.ross.duffield@gmail.com
or DM me on Instagram @just.a.raven or @radio.active.raven

Пікірлер: 661
@freyugh
@freyugh 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" MY HEART BLESS. HIS DAD IS THE BEST.
@btshasruinedmylife74
@btshasruinedmylife74 7 жыл бұрын
Sister Daniel oh hello phandom
@pearlious
@pearlious 7 жыл бұрын
PhaNDoM
@sierrasheadquarters9520
@sierrasheadquarters9520 7 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh my heart did to
@michellcestoni2780
@michellcestoni2780 7 жыл бұрын
Sister Daniel i also felt something when he said that.
@lanerose2165
@lanerose2165 6 жыл бұрын
Sister Daniel I STARTED CRYING SO HARD AT THAT
@chisasakamoto7308
@chisasakamoto7308 7 жыл бұрын
"Some kind of sexual thing?" "You've got a girlfriend?" "You've got a boyfriend?" "You wanna have an operation?" "I finally have a son."
@helenalovelock1030
@helenalovelock1030 8 ай бұрын
He knew didn’t he ?
@phxboa6137
@phxboa6137 7 жыл бұрын
AWH "I finally have a son!" Oh my gosh!! My dad wouldn't have even talked to me about it, but congrats! ~
@phxboa6137
@phxboa6137 7 жыл бұрын
Edith :3 ikr!
@hhhowle
@hhhowle 7 жыл бұрын
Faithee Same
@pearlious
@pearlious 7 жыл бұрын
|-/
@Codiliabra
@Codiliabra 7 жыл бұрын
same
@shaniavegara3032
@shaniavegara3032 7 жыл бұрын
it cracked me so much XD
@NKC228
@NKC228 6 жыл бұрын
"You got a girlfriend?" "No-" (whispers) "You got a *boyfriend* ?"
@mercuryofthestars9485
@mercuryofthestars9485 4 жыл бұрын
sharpshooter lol
@Horrorangell
@Horrorangell 7 жыл бұрын
This makes me wish i had a dad like yours My dad is transphobic, homophobic, and is super religious. Edit 11/24/2023 (7 years update) I completely forgot I posted this until now haha, I’m on testosterone now and I went no contact with my family. 👍 Turns out they were actually really abusive! Shocker how abusive people tend to be like this! I remember watching these videos all the time when I was like 11-14, in retrospect, it doesn’t seem like so much time had passed. I’m 20 now and didn’t expect to come this far tbh, I wish all of the trans people who relate(d) to me 7 years ago luck! Shit can be hard! Boys, ladies, enbies, etc-you got this, it gets better!!! You’ll inevitably become who you truly are ❤️ even if it hurts like hell, you’ll rise to achieve your happiness ^_^
@bravosierra1146
@bravosierra1146 7 жыл бұрын
you have a great dad
@rebelhexits7066
@rebelhexits7066 7 жыл бұрын
SAME! my father called me garbage when I came out!
@addrenalyn3834
@addrenalyn3834 7 жыл бұрын
Jellyton same but everyone in my family except my dad
@Geeky.rainbow.vampire
@Geeky.rainbow.vampire 7 жыл бұрын
Jellyton same
@wowcactus5539
@wowcactus5539 7 жыл бұрын
Jellyton same. And I'm Maybe trans Idk. I Think I'm agender and gay. ._. Yay
@Raelyn
@Raelyn 7 жыл бұрын
"My parental instincts are telling me to tell you it's just a phase, but I know that's not helping because I'm sure you'd feel like I'm not hearing you, I don't want to be that parent." That is actually so beautiful. The amount of understanding there is heartwarming. Naturally so protective, but still putting your thoughts and feelings first. You have such a great dad.
@themonstersofmen9997
@themonstersofmen9997 7 жыл бұрын
"You've probably already guessed this.." "You've got a girlfriend." Totally my parents lol I love your dad! Ugh, wish my parents would say that but...they have a son already. Whale they're about to get another!
@mhstopmotion2607
@mhstopmotion2607 7 жыл бұрын
😔😔 I haven't came out yet, idk how they will react my dad says he loves his "daughter" 😢😭
@themonstersofmen9997
@themonstersofmen9997 7 жыл бұрын
Mh stopmotion So do mine, but if they truly love you, they will accept you. If they don't accept you, you've still got so much support from friends and other family.
@mhstopmotion2607
@mhstopmotion2607 7 жыл бұрын
+Tyler Smith thank you 😊😊
@Codiliabra
@Codiliabra 7 жыл бұрын
Tyler Smith I have two brothers, here is a new edition.
@Codiliabra
@Codiliabra 7 жыл бұрын
That's what I said; You have two sons, here's a third.
@brinnyboovbgpcip-s5253
@brinnyboovbgpcip-s5253 7 жыл бұрын
"Pretending to do an essay" Five seconds in and I already relate
@abbymonroe7710
@abbymonroe7710 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" That is the best fucking dad I've ever heard in my life!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@rowenf.2984
@rowenf.2984 7 жыл бұрын
currently binge watching every trans coming out video to try to prepare myself to come out to my mom
@santiv4
@santiv4 5 жыл бұрын
did you?
@weneden3823
@weneden3823 5 жыл бұрын
Didja?
@jackhere9154
@jackhere9154 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly my life
@ericgyeoul
@ericgyeoul 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@milesthemothman7650
@milesthemothman7650 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@Elmiria
@Elmiria 7 жыл бұрын
Person: are you crying? Me: No!! I just have something in my eye... Person: and what was it? *laughing* Me: TEARS!!!!
@somerandomperson6851
@somerandomperson6851 4 жыл бұрын
Nice Undertale reference.
@ajfireball2487
@ajfireball2487 7 жыл бұрын
father of the year right here. omg im jealous
@naomicahill2073
@naomicahill2073 7 жыл бұрын
B L E S S, "I finally have a son!" B L E S S S S S S S S S S S S S S S S BLESS THIS VIDEO, BLESS YOU, BLESS YOUR FATHER B L E S S
@macoffeeprettypie
@macoffeeprettypie 7 жыл бұрын
The dads reaction is the best! Mine was just sorta like "I feel disrespected that you don't want to be called your birth name anymore its the name I picked for you" yeah... I'm a teensy bit jealous
@hidewariii7982
@hidewariii7982 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, that's exactly what my dad said to me :/
@maxdoesthings3575
@maxdoesthings3575 6 жыл бұрын
My mom said the same thing
@leonlecameleon8237
@leonlecameleon8237 4 жыл бұрын
my dad reaction was the same and that's hurt a lot
@FuzzySockZ
@FuzzySockZ 2 жыл бұрын
My mom... didn’t accept me :(( But I’m scared to come out to my dad even though I know he will accept me since he said he would support me through it. He told me “I’ll even support you if you think your a boy” 💗 still scared though
@helenalovelock1030
@helenalovelock1030 8 ай бұрын
Omg I’m not 100% my adult child is trans however I’m thinking back at things I have said over the years and this is one of those “I picked your name”, along with other things I’m sure I have inadvertently. Feeling extremely guilty I may have hurt feelings 😢😢😢
@DanaBanana94
@DanaBanana94 7 жыл бұрын
Your dad is a great one. He sat down, talked with you and showed interest in understanding how you feel. That's a big fortune and something to be proud of. I wish you all the best :>
@creativerose7391
@creativerose7391 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" My heart.
@landon6465
@landon6465 7 жыл бұрын
"You wanna meet with someone you met up on the Internet" .......... my dad........
@hiroshigenn464
@hiroshigenn464 7 жыл бұрын
my dad is racist , homophobic , transphobic and everything else, but he talked to me my sister talked to him, we are all trying to educate him, headspace talked to him, he thinks people will laugh at me, but im his child and hes trying his hardest, i'm talking to him again this weekend i dont know whats going to happen
@soysaucesnag6965
@soysaucesnag6965 6 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a really intolerant person if he’s also racist. How the fuck can you discriminate against people who can’t change theirselves of change the way they feel ffs.
@toddtoure7041
@toddtoure7041 7 жыл бұрын
my family unfortunately are religious and phobic.
@philip2001
@philip2001 7 жыл бұрын
me too sometimes I believe just in heaven but sometimes I think there were just assholes who wanted power and stuff so they wrote something who called bibel and tell ppl to kill they children if they are gay or trans and stuff...
@bravosierra1146
@bravosierra1146 7 жыл бұрын
nothing unfortunate about that.
@philip2001
@philip2001 7 жыл бұрын
Sir BravoSierra ye
@arieljones7421
@arieljones7421 7 жыл бұрын
Todd Toure my dad is like that too even though I haven't came out to him my dad has been wanting to know about my change in appearance and attitude and everything and he said that he would rather have me tell him that I'm lesbian or whatever instead of keeping it to myself and he said that he would be a little hurt but he would rather have me tell him instead of keeping it to myself and that is what gave me the boost to actually think about telling him. Trust me you parents love you and they will love you no matter what. Don't be afraid. I hope this helped🙂🙂
@EliIsDumb
@EliIsDumb 7 жыл бұрын
Mines religious, but not phobic.
@thisisnothing.6898
@thisisnothing.6898 7 жыл бұрын
Your dad is the best! My mom always said that she would love me no matter what and she has transgender and gay friends but I feel like I'm not ready to come out to her yet. My dad and I don't really have a relationship so I don't give any fucks there. But the rest of my family is pretty transphobic.
@s.c7879
@s.c7879 7 жыл бұрын
Finley is a potato I totally understand what you are saying I'm transgender ftm and my mum is so supportive of all LGBT stuff but I can't tell her I just can't
@thisisnothing.6898
@thisisnothing.6898 7 жыл бұрын
Safsaf Rabbit I know right!
@edwardelric8395
@edwardelric8395 7 жыл бұрын
Rayegon is a potato I understand bro
@swissrolll
@swissrolll 6 жыл бұрын
This is Nothing. Same, everything you just said is basically my family
@cameronkirstein
@cameronkirstein 6 жыл бұрын
This is Nothing. My family is transphobic
@nirvanaqueen4123
@nirvanaqueen4123 7 жыл бұрын
I like how your dad is playing the guessing game.
@drewmiller8825
@drewmiller8825 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU GUYS Reading your comments made me cry and I'm glad that people can be inspired and see that a lot of good can happen and there will always be a bright side. I'm just a socially awkward kid, like I don't expect to be an inspiration and I'm just so happy I could something. Thank you guys so much
@hatsuneriku1998
@hatsuneriku1998 7 жыл бұрын
Ean Ross I love u so much I am a boy and I'm 12 and I really have a hard time with being transgender but now I am ready to embrace it and I'm going to tell my parents that I'm Transgender thank you so much and God bless u
@elliot7404
@elliot7404 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It's nice to see how your dad reacts. Listen man in my eyes you're a guy.
@onlyklance.9394
@onlyklance.9394 5 жыл бұрын
@@hatsuneriku1998 me to! same age and everything!
@cookiemonster3147
@cookiemonster3147 2 жыл бұрын
You are such a brave boy and your father's reaction is so cool. I also wanted to come out (as mtf) at your age but that was in the 80s and there was no internet and no support for it. I'm finaly out sinds two years.
@eg_manifest510
@eg_manifest510 5 ай бұрын
@@hatsuneriku1998 so you're... 18 now? How's life treated you since then? Genuine question cause I hope you're doing fine and dandy
@tylerhill2048
@tylerhill2048 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" Congratulations, on this momentous occasion! I'm so happy for you and it makes me so happy to see other TransGuys with accepting environments unlike my own xx
@oliver4803
@oliver4803 7 жыл бұрын
I freaking love your dad. I'm watching a ton of coming out as FtM videos to prepare myself for coming out, this one, your dads reaction, it really helped me. Thank you thank you thank you so much.
@bluelights9686
@bluelights9686 5 жыл бұрын
did u come out?
@santiv4
@santiv4 5 жыл бұрын
Oli Ver how did it go?
@killercereal4567
@killercereal4567 7 жыл бұрын
your dad is a good man. i realized that uh-oh, im actually a dude, about two years ago, and i am not to anybody, out of fear of my parents. very fundamentalist christians, very conservative and right wing people in the bible belt. watching this made me ache to have a relationship like this with one of my parents. not having that, is a void that will always come back to haunt me. cherish that, please, for those of us who will never have that in our lives. go to a therapist. get help. they will diagnose you with gender dysphoria and get you the help you need to go on hormones, if you so desire. coming from a mental health professional, im sure your dad will feel much more at ease. god bless both of you.
@shawndamon6372
@shawndamon6372 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son" ❤ best moment made me happy. I feel happy for you❤❤
@kaydenlyric6605
@kaydenlyric6605 7 жыл бұрын
I finally have a son OMG💓💓💓
@JeffAMiller17
@JeffAMiller17 7 жыл бұрын
Congrats on making such a big step and coming out! Your dad sounds awesome and so kind. I'm glad things went so well!
@drewmiller8825
@drewmiller8825 5 жыл бұрын
I love your pfp
@shane4508
@shane4508 7 жыл бұрын
I'm not crying... I just have something in my eye...
@Elmiria
@Elmiria 7 жыл бұрын
Shane Hicks was it tears?
@shane4508
@shane4508 7 жыл бұрын
JaiUniverse how did you know?! 😂
@clairedurand6576
@clairedurand6576 7 жыл бұрын
Haha this is the best reaction ever ! "I finally have a son !" love it, congrats
@vessenprince9801
@vessenprince9801 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" awwww i smiled so big!!!! his dad is the best!!!
@rylenddk547
@rylenddk547 7 жыл бұрын
You're dad is so goofy aw! OML I'M GONNA CRY AWS
@girlsdanceforever23
@girlsdanceforever23 7 жыл бұрын
Damn you have an accepting father
@Liv-li4kz
@Liv-li4kz 7 жыл бұрын
I about cried watching this. I'm cis, but I love to watch and learn about trans people to further my understanding. I've never been -phobic to anything and I'm Bisexual myself, but I really love learning about this. I watch a lot of Stef Sanjati and GiGi Gorgeous to better my understanding and I love the support your dad had for you, Ean. I'm happy for you.
@rylenddk547
@rylenddk547 7 жыл бұрын
SugarSpiceAndEverythingNice I LOVE STEF AND GIGI. I wish all Cis people were willing to get educated like you are. I am transgender and this means the absolute world to me.
@fiinureedus6539
@fiinureedus6539 7 жыл бұрын
You're great. I think every cis person should research about being transgender even a little bit :)
@Liv-li4kz
@Liv-li4kz 7 жыл бұрын
Anything to just understand my fellow humans more :)
@jess-lr5pp
@jess-lr5pp 5 жыл бұрын
SugarSpiceAndEverythingNice sameee❤️
@nitzanshu4695
@nitzanshu4695 6 ай бұрын
Bicis gang :p
@helianthu5
@helianthu5 4 жыл бұрын
"i finally have a son" that- that sparked my joy
@sonofcar9980
@sonofcar9980 4 жыл бұрын
I love your profile picture!
@helianthu5
@helianthu5 4 жыл бұрын
@@sonofcar9980 thank you!
@avilaoppa7563
@avilaoppa7563 7 жыл бұрын
Subscribed ahh this gives me hope I'm too scared to come out to my parents or like anyone
@rylenddk547
@rylenddk547 7 жыл бұрын
call me daddy Don't come out until you're absolutely ready. Don't feel like you HAVE to do this, that this is something you're hiding or that this is the only thing that makes you, you. You are valid regardless if they know or if they don't.You probably already know that lol, but I just wanted to say it anyway.
@sam-yn1pz
@sam-yn1pz 4 жыл бұрын
"I finaly have a son!" OMG THATS ADORABLE EBHDUDIDIF88F
@maicienicole3727
@maicienicole3727 7 жыл бұрын
I'm glad your dad was so involved with knowing more about the situation and actually TALKING to you about it. He seemed so understanding and that's how parents should be. Also, your lisp is so cute iM SCREAMING
@drewmiller8825
@drewmiller8825 5 жыл бұрын
Right? My mom just shut me down as soon as I mentioned it
@chloeemarchese5308
@chloeemarchese5308 4 жыл бұрын
“I finally have a son!” Me- *mental breakdown noises*
@bananamanchester4156
@bananamanchester4156 3 жыл бұрын
Your Dad is super empathetic, you can tell he doesn't know much about being transgender but he's trying his best to understand your feelings :)
@jennyjay7816
@jennyjay7816 7 жыл бұрын
I hope you understand how awesome your dad is ☮️❤️
@Bolt12144
@Bolt12144 7 жыл бұрын
your dad sounds awesome and understanding and very calm
@tylerjosh5097
@tylerjosh5097 7 жыл бұрын
I would never be able to do what you did. Coming out is such a huge thing and my parents/whole family is super transphobic. I came out to my older brother as bi and he was okay with it, the rest of my family is homophobic. I think your dad too this fairly well compared to other people so congrats man!
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
you can do ANYTHING you're ready to do.
@Dariraine
@Dariraine 5 жыл бұрын
Everybody: I wish my dad was that respecting Me:I wish I had a dad to tell…
@blissandbubblegum
@blissandbubblegum 8 жыл бұрын
Dude this made me have all the feels since I actually just sent a letter coming out as trans to my parents and I don't know what their reactions will be yet, but I'm so proud of you for having had the bravery to do this! Also, I think it's so cool that you're from the Denver area because I actually live in Colorado Springs!
@ryuukenta8490
@ryuukenta8490 8 жыл бұрын
+blissandbubblegum (this is Ean on my other account~) oh cool! I wish you luck on coming out! it was hard for me but I did it sooo.
@blissandbubblegum
@blissandbubblegum 8 жыл бұрын
My mom was more accepting than I thought she would be, but she said to wait until later to tell my dad.
@ryuukenta8490
@ryuukenta8490 8 жыл бұрын
blissandbubblegum im glad for you :)
@blissandbubblegum
@blissandbubblegum 8 жыл бұрын
thanks bruh, you too
@karmaplant1801
@karmaplant1801 6 жыл бұрын
blissandbubblegum oh my god more trans Colorado guys!!! What are all of you doing here?
@leigh4810
@leigh4810 7 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm so glad it didn't go negative. I'm shitting myself for coming out Ftm trans. I'm so scared that I could end up homeless
@leigh4810
@leigh4810 7 жыл бұрын
I'm only 15
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
you can make it through
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
I was 13 when I came out.
@BunnyThesploot
@BunnyThesploot 7 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, you can do it
@Max_Nappy
@Max_Nappy 7 жыл бұрын
When I came out to my dad, his reaction was cool, like he said to me "But you know it's okay if I finally have a son ! You can be anything you want to be and don't forget that I will always love you no matter what you wanna do or be, I love you my son
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
thats so sweet
@Max_Nappy
@Max_Nappy 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah it is ! :D Even if my parents and brothers still use "she" and it piss me off, but I hope they will use the right pronouns.. one day :/
@aureliawinchester1901
@aureliawinchester1901 7 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a dad like you.
@loser5136
@loser5136 6 жыл бұрын
This honestly made me cry I my self am a FTM and I have been wanting to tell my parents I’m trans (and Pan ) for months but haven’t had the courage or self esteem to do it. This honestly gave me hope that my parents will be supporting
@kmrnsch2414
@kmrnsch2414 7 жыл бұрын
Omg your dad is so awesome... My dad wouldn't ever understand. I hope your transition goes well. 💗
@_22day
@_22day 7 жыл бұрын
"i finnally have a son!!" i died. this needs to be everyones father
@miiiiiles4099
@miiiiiles4099 6 жыл бұрын
YOOOO I CLICKED THE LIKE BUTTON AND IT WENT FOM 1.7K to 1.8K I'M SO PROUD
@LauraVCaldwell
@LauraVCaldwell 6 жыл бұрын
omg your dad is the best. like seriously. he took this so well. my parents would never, ever react like this. I'm so happy for you man
@WrestlingWithPokemon
@WrestlingWithPokemon 7 жыл бұрын
I'm the only "girl" in my family and they have always loved it. My grandpa just passed and it feels weird having trans feelings now, I don't know why though. None of my family knows I have these feelings. I think the only person that would be really accepting is my brother (aka my best friend 😂😁). I have always hated the way I've looked (every female part), since a young age. This video helped me gain a little confidence coming out. Btw, your dad is sooo supportive and I love it.
@macabrechildren64
@macabrechildren64 7 жыл бұрын
honestly wish my dad was as accepting as yours.
@selenazacarias223
@selenazacarias223 7 жыл бұрын
Just like me pansexual and transgender
@VileCarnival
@VileCarnival 6 жыл бұрын
Selena Zacarias Same!
@lucid2208
@lucid2208 5 жыл бұрын
Selena Zacarias Me too :D
@getoutofmeswamp9491
@getoutofmeswamp9491 5 жыл бұрын
SAME! : )
@pastelbear2466
@pastelbear2466 5 жыл бұрын
Selena Zacarias SAME FAMALAM
@whatthefrank5941
@whatthefrank5941 5 жыл бұрын
I'm bi and transgender
@katpeters7896
@katpeters7896 7 жыл бұрын
your such an adorable bean omg go you! your such a role model
@seraagius2450
@seraagius2450 2 жыл бұрын
I'm currently watching every KZfaq video I can find about trabs coming out and this video have me some sort of hope that when I come out my parents will support me
@lucasevans379
@lucasevans379 4 жыл бұрын
Dad: “I finally have a son” Literally everyone: “EEEEEEEEEEEE” 😱😱😱😍😍😍😍😖😖😖❤️❤️❤️❤️😍🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💙💙💙💙
@camerondewilde475
@camerondewilde475 7 жыл бұрын
I am honestly here on this video, because I looked up "How to come out as Transgender to your dad" while in school...I am crying because I wish that my dad was as supportive as yours, and would actually sit down and talk to me about it and to just be supportive... You are an inspiration....💙💜
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
Hey you can get through whatever happens. Just do what makes you happy and let them think what they want. Whilst he may be your father, if he's not going to accept you then thats his loss.
@Cicada-Screams
@Cicada-Screams Ай бұрын
I truly wish I had a father like this growing up. Not even necessarily accepting right off thr bat, just someone I felt like wouldn't immediately dismiss me or put words in my mouth. I get a hard time wrapping my head around people having healthy relationships with their fathers, but when I see it hurts so much. He seems like a good guy.
@emmettlee4229
@emmettlee4229 8 жыл бұрын
This gives me a boost of confidence to tell my father about me being Transgender. I am already out to some parts of my family including my mother. seeing your video opens me up a bit to tell my father. Your an inspiration!!! Don't ever give up Ean. 😃
@iwillcry
@iwillcry 7 жыл бұрын
okay your dad is the sweetest, idk how you two are now months later, but that was such a great start!
@mossiris816
@mossiris816 5 жыл бұрын
OMG WHEN HE SAID THAT I FELT SO FUCKING HAPPY "I finally have a son YAY" My heart felt sooooooo much happiness
@monouphobia4332
@monouphobia4332 4 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son." OMG my heart melted
@paintmyseoul6868
@paintmyseoul6868 5 жыл бұрын
AWHHH HIS FIRST REACTION THATS SO CUTE “I finally have a sonn! :D” AWH I LOVE HIM
@shelzykid7166
@shelzykid7166 7 жыл бұрын
Your dad seems super supportive. I'm afraid to come out as trans to my dad because I don't really know where he stands on transgenderism. I'm coming out to my mom in a couple of hours today. I hope everything is going well for you and I hope you have the support of your family!
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@sallie5321
@sallie5321 7 жыл бұрын
Your dad is awesome! He's so supportive!
@ashleyflores9704
@ashleyflores9704 7 жыл бұрын
That is great! He took it so well! Congrats! You are very brave!
@mothtings
@mothtings 4 жыл бұрын
This is great, it made me cry. Im so happy for you
@ssnopess9305
@ssnopess9305 5 жыл бұрын
I hope everything is going ok ur so brave! Good luck with your transition:)
@transtastic9294
@transtastic9294 7 жыл бұрын
awe that was so sweet. best of luck. I'm starting to document my journey as well. I go to see my physician next week on Wednesday. I'm so excited. you are awesome. stay strong and we are here for you!!!
@jazellecontreras2929
@jazellecontreras2929 6 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you I just started watching your KZfaq channel and I love that you told your dad
@shaalahlangton8225
@shaalahlangton8225 6 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you made this video and your dad's reaction really was amazing. He was patient, had questions but let you talk. I hope your journey continued well.
@jessaphillips1926
@jessaphillips1926 4 жыл бұрын
“ I finally have a son!“ 😭❤️
@chanz5148
@chanz5148 8 жыл бұрын
You give me a lot hope!! I love you!!!
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
@Emerlyschaos
@Emerlyschaos 7 жыл бұрын
Omg his reaction I love it I'm so happy for you
@4.archie
@4.archie Жыл бұрын
My entire life I was aware that I’m not quite like other girls. I didn’t have many crushes on guys, I wanted to play with the boys more than the girls. Nothing pissed me off more than when the boys were playing football and mom wouldn’t let me play, or told them they if I joined they weren’t allowed to play the game properly because I was a girl. My older brother that’s closest in age with me is 18 months older than me. He was allowed to have BB guns, knives, build clubhouses, etc.. The only time I got to do any of those things were when she wasn’t around. Even after being older than he was at those ages, I’m still not allowed to. My brothers have always said I was more like a boy-sister or something along those lines, even saying I was more of a boy than some of the boys they knew. I came out as Bisexual near the end of 8th grade, almost three years ago. Pretty much everyone in my family knows and supports me, or at least doesn’t care. My dad doesn’t know, and I have no intention of telling him. Everyone else in my family, I have no problem telling if they don’t already know regardless of their feelings or reactions. Everyone who’s reaction I care about already knows and is okay with it (other than my dad). I knew I was a boy inside before I ever even heard the term Transgender. When I finally found the term I think it was the summer before or right after I turned 11, I thought I had finally found what I was and a way out of living my life like this but then I started hearing about how people thought about it. A lot of my non-immediate family is homophobic, and most people (immediate and non-immediate) are at varying levels of transphobic. Some minor changes have been made in my life recently, but I’m hoping it will lead into a good direction for me. I had some important conversations and I’m getting a job soon. I’m going to be working on getting my driving permit (should’ve been working on the licence by now, but I have driving anxiety), then eventually I’ll be moving out and onto college. My mom won’t let me cut my hair again, but I can’t stand living like this. I can’t stand the idea of having to go through big life events like this not being happy and not living true to myself. I don’t want to go through another 2-4 years of school getting called by a name that doesn’t feel like mine. I feel like I’m lying to not only everyone, but myself as well. I’ve been nonstop trying to be the person I should be and that some people want me to be but I can’t do it anymore. I think it’s time to tell someone in my family how I’m feeling, but I don’t know who. I want to start somewhere though. I’m thinking possibly my sister. She has some strong opinions about a lot of things, but I know she would consider what I have to say and my feelings about it. Regardless of her own views I know she’d be there for me and try to help me.
@smolenbyy
@smolenbyy 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!!! My dad would've never reacted this way but I'm so happy for you
@lexaarizona3249
@lexaarizona3249 6 жыл бұрын
Omg the whole time I was smiling!! I'm so happy for u!! I'm gonna cry
@jamescampisi9884
@jamescampisi9884 7 жыл бұрын
Bless this sweet sweet man. "I finally have a son".. That's fantastic!!
@birdtutorialart
@birdtutorialart 6 жыл бұрын
Why is this so pure I love this
@C0rvidC0rpse
@C0rvidC0rpse 7 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" GOD BLESS HIS HEART AND SOUL
@C0rvidC0rpse
@C0rvidC0rpse 7 жыл бұрын
Also can I mention you look kind of the onceler from the lorax (PLZ DUN HATE ME THAT IS A COMPLIMENT) and It's great
@thereselinde4517
@thereselinde4517 7 жыл бұрын
You are so lucky, having such a wise and understanding father !
@cxllum1517
@cxllum1517 6 жыл бұрын
"I finally have a son!" That made me smile 😊
@amitaiw8037
@amitaiw8037 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a good video. It's very inspiring to hear this and your dad seems amazing! "I finally have a son!"
@daimianadrien2643
@daimianadrien2643 5 жыл бұрын
I love watching positive coming outs but i always get envious. I wish my coming out went as well as this
@user-lw8cp9cj6i
@user-lw8cp9cj6i 5 жыл бұрын
Awe I love your dad’s reaction, honestly you’re , even lucky that you have a family like that- 🖤
@organtraderj0es369
@organtraderj0es369 2 жыл бұрын
Awe his reaction is so pure! I love it so much. I can only hope my family is half as supportive as yours. Congratulations man!
@dubbydubbyquacke6140
@dubbydubbyquacke6140 7 жыл бұрын
oh wow! I'm ftm and named Ean too! that's so interesting, I've never known anyone else with our name!
@dubbydubbyquacke6140
@dubbydubbyquacke6140 7 жыл бұрын
I loved this BTW. very cute, fellow Ean.
@eanross3583
@eanross3583 7 жыл бұрын
I just saw this! BUT HEY. lol yeah I've never known anyone with our name either; My family thought I was gonna be a cis guy before I was born and they were gonna name me Ian but I turned out to be what I am lol. I was going to go Ian but I wanted to keep my initials. :D thats really cool though
@matthewskinner436
@matthewskinner436 7 жыл бұрын
You are so Brave to do this, you are amazing and so inspirational xx
@aaronanderson5094
@aaronanderson5094 6 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is how coming out to my mum could go when I finally do it so thank you for this. It gave me a bit more confidence to come out.
@miles4061
@miles4061 4 жыл бұрын
Your lisp is absolutely adorable!!! His reaction just made me cry my eyes out! Maybe one day I’ll get there 😭
@Elijah-xu3yi
@Elijah-xu3yi 7 жыл бұрын
i laugh when im nervous too and people get angry at me for that yikeS
@mandatron1539
@mandatron1539 5 жыл бұрын
Your dad seems so wanting to understand and be by your side, this is how is should be. Happy for you dude, hope your transition went smoothly xx
@jean-louisecarroll2447
@jean-louisecarroll2447 5 жыл бұрын
This brought up memories of my own coming out, my heart was in my throat the whole time I watched this. I'm truly so happy for you. It's a long journey, I hope you stay safe.
@boogiebong420
@boogiebong420 6 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing!
@Carl.jpeg_
@Carl.jpeg_ 6 жыл бұрын
AHHH u gave me courage to come out to my mom thank you I’m soo happy. Literally watched this video then just said it to my mom it’s was crazy
@doktor1388
@doktor1388 5 жыл бұрын
Your dad reacted so lovely! He sounded very excited while saying "I finally have a son!". I'm gonna watch your other videos in a moment because I'm really curious how it went on you. I'm so happy for you, I hope you got everything that you wanted and you're happier now!!
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