Communication Skills: Change Your Life Forever

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@ashleycastillo6037 5 жыл бұрын

I want to learn how to speak with nothing but confidence. I'm always nervous and it makes me look like I'm lying at times. I HATE it.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us. You should check out our 254 unstoppable confidence series, I'm sure it will be helpful to you. It's in the description. #BTA1007 Luka

@Shootrnet_ 5 жыл бұрын

Me my entire life 🤦🏾‍♂️

@Yasser.Abuharba 5 жыл бұрын

Same thing with me.

@djkhalid291 5 жыл бұрын

This is exact problem with me too.. I never lie but my honesty looks like a lie when I am just 😟

@fathallahawb8878 5 жыл бұрын

Evan Carmichael h

@ryanpeavler1483 6 жыл бұрын

These are the people who should be teaching children.

@zeustrys2710 5 жыл бұрын

Ryan Peavler I wish I could thumbs this up more

@newtonmunenekaibiria6623 5 жыл бұрын

Ryan Peavler Absolutely

@theempress2064 5 жыл бұрын

True

@elleblue620 5 жыл бұрын

couldn't agree more

@wonwonees 5 жыл бұрын

agreed

@HeatherGerhardt 5 жыл бұрын

Learning to listen to "hear and understand" instead of listening to respond will help communication every time!

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and thank you for watching :) #BTA937 Luka

@sanjeevshukla2871 5 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done.

@anuratnraghuvanshi5626 5 жыл бұрын

Impractical

@marianworkman3120 5 жыл бұрын

Heather Gerhardt I agree, listening is the first key to communication. Second, is the ability to understand and follow through. Last, if you're not sure of what is being said, ask him/her to repeat it for clarification.

@jefferyc6557 4 жыл бұрын

Some of us have an impulse to "cut off" or overtalk due to many mental matters. Most isn't due to habit but due to disability.... I can be very short in convo until the topic excites me and that's only due to the desire to connect yet you might not wanna play with me since you would end up feeling stupid due to the fact we technicality involved my interest and not yours.

@Minkagurl 7 жыл бұрын

Definitely makes a lot of sense. I grew up in a hostile atmosphere. A lot of anger and negativity. I'm working on changing from negativity to being positive.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. Hope you'll push through! Be #Positive :) #Believe #BTA467 Luka

@Minkagurl 7 жыл бұрын

Thank-you!

@gratefulforlifeandkindness 5 жыл бұрын

@@Minkagurl same here hope your doing well

@brepre321 5 жыл бұрын

@joeannmaillo 5 жыл бұрын

You definitely can do it redreticent7. The fact that you are on here searching for this content shows that. Don't ever stop trying! Blessings!

@amazingazn123 7 жыл бұрын

#Beautiful quote: "I don't know how to think, until I write it down." Robin Sharma. Also, when you write things down, you solidify your thoughts.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Agree. :) Thanks for the comment and for watching The Howling Chihuahua. #BelieveNation #BTA443 Shine

@euniceryllefuentes2979 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah.. me too I write it down, and it continuously flows.

@veronicacbueno8085 3 жыл бұрын

@@euniceryllefuentes2979 I’m going to have to try this out

@cartergomez5390 2 жыл бұрын

I have to remember to take notes when I read a book. I never thought about it until Jay Shetty talked about it.

@anthonydera4381 Жыл бұрын

Taking note not an issue for but making out time to go through that and out them into practice a big deal for me I wish there is a solution in this

@dannyflores6631 7 жыл бұрын

Using the language of leadership instead of using the language of the victim stuck out to me the most. I will be working on including positive phrases and words in my vocabulary instead of negative phrases and words. Thank you for the video Evan, helps a lot.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Awesome to know that you will include positive phrases and words in your vocabulary Danny and that the video is of help to you. Thank you very much for watching! :) Always #Believe in yourself. #BelieveNation #BTA271 Shine

@philluis7687 5 жыл бұрын

It's been 2 years since you said that so plz tell me what kind of improvement you got?

@alisalehi6991 4 жыл бұрын

@@philluis7687 been 1 year sincr ypu saif yhat. Did you take any action and what was the result?

@user-cs6pr2kq9w 4 жыл бұрын

@@alisalehi6991 it's been 3 months since u watched the video what is your results?

@alisalehi6991 4 жыл бұрын

@@user-cs6pr2kq9w forgot everything. If you haven't figured it out yet, youtube is just some mental masturbation as "we/us" call it. Really hard to remember to use them

@theoysterknife8541 4 жыл бұрын

Language is everything...because not only are you speaking to the world but you’re also speaking to yourself...and influencing yourself. You’re shaping the new you every time you project your thoughts and ideas to the world.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed :) #BTA1290 Luka

@sohaibahmed226 7 жыл бұрын

From now on I will speak more positively and look forward to the future instead thinking about the past.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Awesome! That's the way to go sohaib! :) #Believe #BTA534 Shine

@phillipstyles9258 6 жыл бұрын

i have been living in the past for to long

@illshooghzzara7926 5 жыл бұрын

Good men help English

@itsmytubeme 5 жыл бұрын

sohaib ahmed great

@marcelabermudezdelatorre3441 5 жыл бұрын

And you can also read the power of now by echarte tolleband it’s going to be easier than you think ... my experience which has made my life happy and easy

@samestudiocreation9867 6 жыл бұрын

I’m transforming by watching such amazing videos. KZfaq is a best place to learn new skills. I hope someday I’d also get chance to contribute for the betterment of our society.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

#Believe in yourself! :) #BTA852 Luka

@thestar_ 5 жыл бұрын

Can you please help me? I have a fear of speaking jn public

@imchrstnvrgr05 5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@annettefluit3496 4 жыл бұрын

@@thestar_ have you considered Toastmasters? Its a fun place to learn & apply new skills.

@kwazirich8447 4 жыл бұрын

Word.

@krisztinajuhasz4537 5 жыл бұрын

1. Listening Trying to listen to the persons' thoughts. Maybe also after he finished the talk you are still listening and trying to obserb the other persons's point of view instead of giving immadiate reactions. After a time you will realise you already started to be interested in the other person's opinion and trying to understand the other people's thoughts instead of feeling an immadiate pressure tor prove your right. If you learn how to listen carefully you will realise people start to tell a bunch of things that would not be told even if you'd asked them about. This one has brought new perspectives to me and this is on of the most powerful one. 2. Being interested in the other one We are not always interested in other's opinion. From practicing the first one you can build a constent persistent and conscious desire to understand and get to know the other person. If you are not interested in the other person it's better not start any conversation at all. 3. Being interested in the topic When you don't feel connection between the topic and yourself, your speech, mood, face, and body will transmit it. How do you expect anybody to care about something what does not interest you at all? Don't react immadiately to questions. Think a bit. How do I connect to this thing? What interesting stories do I have about it? How do I feel about it? So for example: You have to talk about an apple and after you have to talk about your favourite movie. You will feel the difference, everybody will feel the difference. Find the connection, find interesting personal touch with it. Best tradesmans are expert in this 3rd topic because they can find the most attractive perspectives from a really usual object also in order to persuade you. 4. Breaks Speak less but give more powerful thoughts. Slow down your speach insert breaks to emphasise things. Don't care if the others try to speed up the conversation. If you carry on you'll realise they will feel the pressure to slow down to you not the opposite way.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us, Krisztina. I love it! #Believe :) #BTA1015 Luka

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

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@emari98_97 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! 👍🏾

@CyberLife3 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙂

@colinjoconnell 4 жыл бұрын

Speaking with not only confidence but, a purpose is the most important thing I’ve learned when it comes to communication.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

#Believe :) #BTA1606 Veljko

@angelahagin4288 6 жыл бұрын

I am going to change the way I speak to reflect my leadership qualities rather than being a victim.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that :) #BTA919 Luka

@krystinadowdell2920 6 жыл бұрын

“I don’t know what I think until I write it down.”

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and for posting the quote. :) #BelieveNation #BTA721 Luka

@sethmachel5979 6 жыл бұрын

krystina dowdell

@davinkim7930 6 жыл бұрын

That is true. I know how I feel about what I am thinking. But, I really dont know what I am thinking when I am thinking!

@marks7067 6 жыл бұрын

I know what I'm thinking but can't find the words. any suggestions? I really want to improve my communication skills. in a social situation my mind wonders and I forget what people are talking about.

@krystinadowdell2920 6 жыл бұрын

mark salazar when I worked in sales I used to write my own scripts. that way when I practiced I was using my own words so that when I spoke it was easier to find them. I have the same problem with my mind wandering too, what helps me is asking questions about what they are talking about. For me if I give my mind an objective before hand like saying ok I need to be able to have a general understand this concept that they are talking about, then it sorta predisposes me to want to ask questions too. Hope that sorta helps :)

@seidylz936 5 жыл бұрын

I literally have the worse communication skills ever.. I always stay quiet even when i know they are trying to be nice and just have a normal conversation i make it so awkward to the point where ppl ask me if im ok that i act weird and i cant say nothing back bc i hold back so much by the time i know w to say its pretty much late and i just end up looking dumb

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us. I hope that the video is helpful to you. #BTA957 Luka

@MonPetitPois68 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Seidy, I recognize something in what you're saying in how I am in my social life. I've been looking into how to get on top of anxiety on KZfaq and it is helping me. Maybe it will help you too as I don't think it's down to communication skills: we've got them, we just need to get them out there!

@kayem3824 5 жыл бұрын

Maybe they think you are cute.

@joeannmaillo 5 жыл бұрын

You're just observant. You need to feel like you have something to contribute before you speak. Easy fix. Start filling yourself with knowledge. Read up on things that don't normally call your attention. Read about current events, things are happening all over the world. Next time your in a social setting, you have interesting facts you can recall about whatever it is that you did research on and the interaction will give you confidence. Just remember to breath and tell yourself "I got this" cause you totally do girlfriend. Start small, among people you already know, friends and family but about tough things like politics and religion. Use them as testers and you will eventually feel ready to talk to complete strangers about all kinds of things. Just take it slow. You got this mama.

@ms.1576 5 жыл бұрын

I can completely relate to you. Speaking with anyone I feel when I talk, what I'm thinking in my mind does not come out when I speak. I need to become better. This video is helpful

@createrjesus 5 жыл бұрын

Communication is one key to getting what you want out of life. I also learned that I gravitate to the people I'm most like or want to be like.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching Darrielle :) #BTA1114 Luka

@checkyourownmirror9267 6 жыл бұрын

Use the words and language of leadership and be yourself from the heart. Thanks evan!

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing :) #BTA897 Luka

@ceciliacruz4884 7 жыл бұрын

Viewing all your uploaded videos each day was certainly lifted people..please, don't get tired helping people this way. Thanks Evan..more power!!!

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for the support, love and appreciation Emma, for sure that makes us inspired to keep doing our best. :) Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA273 Shine

@maureenwernli1819 7 жыл бұрын

Emma Gaceta

@ResurrectionUph 7 жыл бұрын

😪

@lynnrose0418 7 жыл бұрын

I love this topic!

@AdrianaGirdler 4 жыл бұрын

Communicate AND connect. I love that perspective. Cheers!

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Cheers :) #BTA1294 Luka

@dakurlzz21 3 жыл бұрын

Starting a journal is the best first step to begin applying all of these techniques. There's so many thoughts in our heads, most of which aren't even our own. The thoughts in our head are not us, they're merely what happen to us. "I don't know what I am until I write it down."

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome, thanks for sharing. #Believe - Feb

@anthonydera4381 Жыл бұрын

@Ness thoughts in our head not ours..... I thought we are as a result of what is going in us which is our imagination and thoughts generated by our perspective about life, things, concept and the world in general

@RiazMeghji 4 жыл бұрын

Being more human is a message we can all benefit from right now. Breaking the pattern of formalities by actively listening and communicating with emotion are great takeaways. Thank you!

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1537 Veljko

@najahwilliams9478 5 жыл бұрын

Watching this just confirmed what I aready know...how you talk to yourself and the stories you tell yourself is very important!! Applying those lessons is a different matter,but we're all a work in progress!! Loved the excerise about changing your language from one of victim hood to leadership

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! :) #BTA1232 Luka

@LOL13176 7 жыл бұрын

I don't know what i am thinking until i write it down.

@katrinauzzanti8092 6 жыл бұрын

The victim language vs. Leadership language really resonates with me. I'm ashamed of how often I use "Victim" language and I had no idea. Since I have been watching your videos and those of other leaders I am definitely seeing a common theme of positivity and optimism. Not only in their language but in everything they do. It's really making me examine my internal and external dialogue and attitude towards things with my business and personal life. Thanks for compiling these talks.

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

hi Katrina,I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

@elizabethcruz7997 3 жыл бұрын

Being present and not in our head is the most powerful way to connect with others, from a place where there is no ego therefore not judgement but understanding of the people’s world.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

That's awesome. 💪😊 #Believe - Feb

@michelleorocio6810 3 жыл бұрын

The way I talk to my self is one of the most important things to pay attention!

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Agree! #BELIEVE 💛😊 - Ahmed

@ambiguoustherapy9054 4 жыл бұрын

I loved, "talk with feeling and just say how I feel" for my personal life . Thanks.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching :) #BTA1367 Veljko

@tiklyspade5065 4 жыл бұрын

Most important life changing advice i have ever received. Bless you all who read this

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ferdinand #Believe :) #BTA1502 Veljko

@1979bojack 7 жыл бұрын

Evan all of the points were very good. The one that stands out the most for me: Tell Your Study. By doing so people can not just judge you for what they see on the outside. But if you tell them your study it leaves little room to judge. Thanks Evan

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching Jerome. :) #BelieveNation #BTA271 Shine

@edekineruanga991 6 жыл бұрын

This is good for me. My communication had been only 45%

@999vysakh 4 жыл бұрын

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@monicarosebounds9732 7 жыл бұрын

thank you. I have been looking for a simple and organized way to find my self and create a created way to make a successful life with it.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Monica. All the best to you! Perhaps this video might be helpful to you, in case you are not able to watch it yet: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/esCKpNlhxtWUZmw.html :) #BelieveNation #BTA294 Shine

@maryritz1676 7 жыл бұрын

Excellent - I think what really stands out for me is the authenticity part. We can learn and improve communication skills - but we have to be true, it has to be from the heart. And I see you have it in you Evan, thank you.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Agree. It's best to be authentic...be yourself. :) Thanks for sharing your thoughts Mary. Much love. #Believe #BTA533 Shine

@magicfay 3 жыл бұрын

"use the language of leadership" definitively is a gold one

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

I agree. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts about the video ❤️😊 #Believe - Ahmed

@karthikvempati3808 6 жыл бұрын

I loved the last point of matching and mirroring. Its good for one to one communication.It's really important to know what the other person is like so that we can adjust our gestures and words which can influence them. Peace.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it :) #BTA870 Luka

@siteenx 6 жыл бұрын

This is AMAZING! Thank you for summarising how to communicate well!

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it :) #BTA842 Luka

@racquellepakutz5685 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the amazing content! As an entrepreneur, it’s hard to find the right inspiration, but Evan you always hit a home run! Thank you! ❤️

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1474 Veljko

@Storesdavidal 6 жыл бұрын

I agree being honest and authentic helps you build a good relationship.

@hanzlearningsolutions 2 жыл бұрын

Good communication skills is the ability to listen more, consistently being a better listener will allow you to become the best communicator because you are learning more than you are talking as well. That has been the one key I Have learnt for sure. Thanks for sharing.

@EvanCarmichael 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb

@malikathegoddess 6 жыл бұрын

Keep it up! The videos you make help our generation get ready for what is truly important for building personality and confidence. You are appreciated! 💞

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the love and thank you for watching. Much love! :) #BelieveNation #BTA667 Luka

@Barry88487 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Evan, you're surely among the giants over there. Simply one of the best. Thanks for changing lives of so many.❤️❤️

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Much love :) #BTA1262 Luka

@lindiwemaepa573 3 жыл бұрын

Lesson for me was Connection. with people. Using the Leadership language rather than victim language. Building Rapoo

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

That's awesome! Thanks for sharing. 😊 #Believe - Feb

@lindiwemaepa573 3 жыл бұрын

@@EvanCarmichael I Believe. I just Appreciate your Energy. Love & Light Always

@Thomas-nr1pr 3 жыл бұрын

4 years later, and this is one of the best videos i've seen! This info is way more then just 'talking'. His knowlegde is amazing, and is helping me a lot lately!

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it Thomas, thanks for watching! #Believe - Feb

@WilliamTChilton 7 жыл бұрын

I've watched this three times already, I Love it and appreciate it. Communication is a big deal for me, I'm currently a great communicator but I strive to be a master at it! Again Thank you man all of the videos are really helpful in my journey to my success! #Actionismyoneword

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for watching it three times William. :) Glad to know that you loved it and the videos are helpful to you, thanks for the appreciation. All the best to you! Always take #Action. Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA279 Shine

@astambalto6766 7 жыл бұрын

thanks a lot Evan, this was very giving and deeply interesting! I have been presenting stuff my whole life as a professor so I have experienced the meaning of what you put up of principles!.I love and appreciate the way you use others, the way you credit experts in the field of communication....

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the appreciation and for watching Asta. :) #Believe #BTA473 Shine

@luisperalta6693 7 жыл бұрын

When I started watching these videos I used to fell asleep but I kept watching after two years im runing my small business thanks to all who share their ideas and their knowledge with us

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Awesome story. :) All the best to you and your business! #Believe #BTA498 Shine

@wondda.6516 2 жыл бұрын

The language of leadership plays a major role in our lives,i am very negative person and my choice of words are toxic. This video helped me to know the words to use in my daily life from now on

@EvanCarmichael 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to know that. 😊 #Believe - Feb

@GhoshCompany 4 жыл бұрын

I am blessed to discover this video. I am happy to talk on these principles as it is critical for the world to understand how we communicate with each other. And fundamentally, I feel excited to talk and every can do so by training. I think, with good communication - the world will be a great place to stay in.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1537 Veljko

@Sam-jo5lu 5 жыл бұрын

This Video Really Teaches lots of good stuff and the intuition is you really working Extremely Good for Peoples who Really want to Develop Effectively Communication Skills.........

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful to you Sameer. :) #BTA996 Luka

@enochchejieh4432 3 жыл бұрын

God bless you, Evan Carmicheal.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Yayyy! Thank you. 🙌 #Believe - Feb

@adeltata7457 4 жыл бұрын

Loved it! Thank you, Evan, for these videos I can't explain how they keep me going.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that :) #BTA1328 Luka

@rubendigital4786 6 жыл бұрын

Great advice, it is amazing how much more you can do when you are more positive.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful to you :) #BTA841 Luka

@rimpahalder4839 5 жыл бұрын

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@zinemeki3017 3 жыл бұрын

I have a difficult meeting with my doctor today and I am going to mirror and match my ideas with her. I hope it works today. I came here to solve a problem . It will work!

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Good luck Zine. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@rodelsaguian3500 3 жыл бұрын

Be conversational. Language of leadership.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

#Believe :) #BTA1680 Veljko

@SpydiOne 7 жыл бұрын

Evan I'd like to thank you for the daily inspiration and motivation. Your videos help me a lot bringing out the best out of me everyday.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that you're feeling inspired by our content, it means a lot. That's awesome! Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for the support. :) #BelieveNation #BTA421 Luka

@damianavar9939 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Evan! You are doing a fabulous job inspiring and motivating thousands of people globally. Just discovered your channel like a week ago now. And watching it every morning has become a ritual of some sort for me. Thanks for doing a great job!

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the channel and to #BelieveNation Damian. :) Glad to know you are inspired and motivated by our videos. I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. Thanks for the appreciation and for watching! Much love. #BTA294 Shine

@vikaskondabagil1741 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Evan. My name is Vikas. I am a citizen of India living in Bangalore city of India. As always, I will not miss watching any of your KZfaq videos. This video of yours especially is very very exciting for me as I believe it contains a lot of useful information for me to learn about in life. Your videos are very encouraging for me both physically and mentally in order to be fit. I request that you keep making videos like this to inspire me and a lot of other people who get inspired from this! Thanks

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Will do Vikas, thanks for the support! #Believe :) #BTA1658 Veljko

@dirkscholten9995 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Evan, be authentic, HAIl, Connect. Loved Tony’s take on repor and explaining why Milton Errikson was so great ❤️ by going to his client’s level.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and thanks for the love, Dirk :) #BelieveNation #BTA911 Luka

@takaliteratop10maria 7 жыл бұрын

amazing video!

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA289 Shine

@sandracruz7897 3 жыл бұрын

Oi BH

@foysetiawansetiiawan6961 6 жыл бұрын

Hearing the spekers said is one of my way learning english. I dont know how good my english, but i just want to improve it.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Make it happen! #Believe :) #BTA910 Luka

@fxzeromasta 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video - I am trying to improve my communication skills and after watching this i feel motivated / encouraged.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that :) #BTA809 Luka

@1949824 7 жыл бұрын

God bless you and your gifts like this to us. Grateful thanks

@marcelinepascalekeedikekoa2789 7 жыл бұрын

Perfect 😌👌🏽 thanks Evan

@lancesamples9716 5 жыл бұрын

Robbin's story about the doctor that mirrored people was my favorite in this video... #majorkey

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that :) #BTA921 Luka

@doniyorabduvokhidov1862 4 жыл бұрын

Mine too

@ipriyanshujain 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Evan for making this video. The most important thing I learned in this video is What Robin Sharma said what not to talk about: 1. Don't talk about what we hate to do, talk about things we love to do. 2. Don't talk about problems, talk about opportunities. 3. Don't talk about what makes us tired, talk about what makes us inspired. 4. Don't talk about the past, talk about the future. 5. Don't talk about what broke our heart, talk about what opens our heart. 6. Don't talk about what de-spirits us, talk about what we are fueled by. 7. Don't talk about things in our life not working, talk about things in life are working. 8. Don't talk about your pain, talk about your pleasure.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1569 Veljko

@christopherkwongian4844 4 жыл бұрын

Communication skills is something that everyone should be well equipped with as it is vital not only in the field of public relations but also to conduct a business. This video really tells you how to brush up on your communication skills so that you can be a better individual!

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

That's right Christopher! Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1499 Veljko

@Khp1983 Жыл бұрын

Either communicate well in stagnancy, or move well in silence…

@klbonnell 3 жыл бұрын

You all have it in you to be great! Dont hesitate embrace yourself and become a leader in positivity

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Let's go Busta! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

@yosig2609 6 жыл бұрын

I REALLY needed THIS! Thank you

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful to you :) #BTA919 Luka

@rosaruby757 6 жыл бұрын

Yes sir ( The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces ,,,,The right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace ....

@edluisrivera3317 5 жыл бұрын

We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. Best part.!

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it :) #BTA1267 Luka

@richardfuture9616 6 жыл бұрын

this is wonderful,I learn alot from this thanks.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Glad it's helpful to you :) #BTA859 Luka

@user-fy1uj9nn9o 7 жыл бұрын

keep up the good work Evan! Your channel is really awesome and helpful, Thank you a lot for all of your work that you put into your videos and they turned out so amazing!

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

Hi jessica, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

@estellelima-kitshoff9018 3 жыл бұрын

@angietorres4753 3 жыл бұрын

I have the hardest time to communicate with my parents. I asked my mother "what do you want to do for mother's day?" I asked her because she never likes any of my suggestions. Her response was "I don't know." My mother is not a planner. We are the type of family that plans Thanksgiving the day of. I hate this. I know hate is a strong word but I do. Anywho, today again I asked her the same question. She responds "Can you help me clean this?" I then told her "Listen, I asked you last week and I'm asking you again the same question, why can't you just give me a straight answer?" Honestly, because I was raised like this, I was like this. I'm now changing but it has been a difficult change. My mom finally responded only after I said I would help her clean something. When dealing with communicating with my parents it has taken A LOT OF PATIENCE & PRAYER.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you for sharing Angie. Thank you. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb

@aznraisin1760 5 жыл бұрын

Tony Robbins take on building rapport through matching and mirror is something I’ve experienced talking to someone one on one. I totally get what he means when we tend to like people similar to us, or someone we aspire to be. Ways I can improve on my communication skills are being more curious and empathetic to others, expressing how I feel, and using words that are uplifting instead of negative.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and thank you for watching :) #BTA943 Luka

@romariasa9343 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this amazing video. Today I'll do better than yesterday and tomorrow I'll do better than today and it will like this everyday. I am so glad to find your channel that I subscribed. Warm hug from Africa.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard! Thanks for the love and support :) #BTA875 Luka

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

hi maria, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

@alicegabriel-akhagbenin5704 5 жыл бұрын

To be always real. and authentic helps you connect to others fast.

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

#Believe :) #BTA946 Luka

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

hi Alice, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

@lusumrice2236 5 жыл бұрын

It really hit me when the one guy was talking about not speaking about your past or speaking so much on your failures so I'm going to work on that about speaking of my future and building up in my life. Great video thank you

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonated with you :) #BTA986 Luka

@mahmoudhassanmohammed2604 4 жыл бұрын

The last two minutes in the video are more important and inspired because they are from inside the heart and indicate that you are a person with a message to the world and the Humanity. I wish you progress and prosperity because your videos changed the way I think, my view of the future, and the knowledge of many important and useful concepts in our lives . keep moving Bro Evan

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Glad you're feeling inspired and thanks for the support #Believe :) #BTA1519 Veljko

@susanavargas9185 6 жыл бұрын

I like the HAIL and matching and mirroring ideas. Thanks for making this video.

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching :) #BTA852 Luka

@cyrusmudaliar9174 5 жыл бұрын

hi susana,I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

@various-typical-classic-ar3614 6 жыл бұрын

I don't know what I think until I flip a book and write it!!

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing :) #BTA839 Luka

@jianzhongli1821 3 жыл бұрын

Communication is key to successful life. Totally agree with that

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed. Thanks for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

@VinceTaneri 3 жыл бұрын

Matching and mirroring really work. After thinking about it, I noticed that people who I get along best are those who I mirrored unconsciously.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Yayyy! #Believe 💛😊 - Dondon

@pragnakiri8587 6 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love watching your videos. I wonder if we have more videos about improving organising skills to create more time to get personal time to enjoy life

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

I'm glad that you enjoy them! Thanks for the love and thank you for watching. You should check out this video, it might be helpful to you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/esCKpNlhxtWUZmw.html Much love, Pragna. :) #BelieveNation #BTA755 Luka

@vvivek9503 5 жыл бұрын

You are great ! That's what I include it to be generous,kind and polite in my communication

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Much love :) #BTA1156 Luka

@lifelessons1594 4 жыл бұрын

Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts #Believe :) #BTA1582 Veljko

@cedricjones2625 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Evan. This was very insightful. Keep up the great work!

@EvanCarmichael 5 жыл бұрын

Much love! :) #BTA1248 Luka

@iamgrutt6241 6 жыл бұрын

wow..Im speechless.your videos make me want to be better.. THANK U

@EvanCarmichael 6 жыл бұрын

That's awesome to hear! :) Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. #Believe! #BelieveNation #BTA755 Luka

@thanksinadvance. 3 жыл бұрын

The messages in this video gave me so much energy. I wrote down many things and I can’t wait to research more about this topic. I love it! Thanks for sharing this.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Tia. Glad you liked it ❤️🙂 #Believe - Feb

@BlancoNatura 4 жыл бұрын

Wow... Number 3 is something that I can start doing, awesome. Is like what you focus on you expand it

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Go for it Marisela! #Believe :) #BTA1585 Veljko

@yvonnekendall9165 7 жыл бұрын

I have just recently started watching your videos and I love them. They have been very beneficial to me. This video, in particular, has been very helpful as I have always conveyed my message best through writing, however when giving information verbally, I tend to lack the ability to truly give my message. Thank you so much for sharing I will be using the information in this video to better myself. =)

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Glad to know it is helpful to you Yvonne. :) Thank you very much for the appreciation and for watching. Welcome to the channel and to #BelieveNation. I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. Much love. Always #Believe in yourself. #BTA533 Shine

@amitshah6804 7 жыл бұрын

"match and mirror" really found connecting.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. #BTA271 Shine

@SoccerFan2krazy 6 жыл бұрын

good

@chicongphan1480 5 жыл бұрын

actually I havent understood much .. maybe bc my english is not good now. If you have time, can you say what you think about "match and Mirror" ... in your own words.

@christinedozier2154 5 жыл бұрын

Chi Cong Phan it means to watch what the other person is doing and copy them in similar ways so that they like you back

@faithmungai7213 3 жыл бұрын

This conversation has really inspired and empowered me as a yoga teacher. Having learnt the communication skills also the HAIL.

@EvanCarmichael 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Glad you're feeling inspired 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

@gastrobypasssurgerypatient9638 6 жыл бұрын

"Thank you for SHARING such valuable information"

@sarouhong9084 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your doing this for us . I really appreciate. I am learning from yours a lot . #Believenation

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Glad to know you are learning from the videos, it means a lot to know that they have #positive impact to you. :) Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA280 Shine

@alexanderSnilsson 7 жыл бұрын

Great tips - currently working on being more assertive ( fourth pillar from Nathaniel Brandons bok The six pillars of Self-esteem) and having good social skills makes it soo much easier! Great work, as always. /Alexander

@lisamichelin2055 7 жыл бұрын

loved this video i am a salesperson this is great information my favorite part all of them and I think the biggest refresher for me was Tony Robbins talking about mapping and pacing

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Glad you loved it Lisa and it will be of help to you. :) All the best to you! Thanks for watching. #BelieveNation #BTA273 Shine

@4_flor628 4 жыл бұрын

I'm going to try to be authentic (relaxing myself, as if in a typical conversation) and let it come from the heart when I need to speak in front of a crowd... thanks!

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! #Believe :) #BTA1576 Veljko

@kalenacarpentier7476 7 жыл бұрын

Wow Evan, I just came across your account recently and couldn't stop watching your videos. So many helpful tips and information, so inspiring! Definitely taking notes for my business. Keep it up :)

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Glad you found our channel Kalena. Welcome to #BelieveNation and I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. Stay inspired...always #Believe. :) #BTA415 Shine

@juliefordreister 4 жыл бұрын

THIS is a saver, thank you Evan. I teach social skills to people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and other cognitive differences. This is timeless, and truly for everyone. Thank you.

@EvanCarmichael 4 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching :) #BTA1448 Veljko

@TxFw 7 жыл бұрын

Stellar. Idk anything about your book, but even this short piece was enough to make me want it. The guy who talked about leadership language vs victim vocabulary spoke most meaningfully to me. Thank you.

@EvanCarmichael 7 жыл бұрын

Great to know that you resonated with Robin Sharma's words. As for Evan's book, you might be interested to check out: evancarmichael.com/oneword/ :) #Believe #BTA449 Shine