for once in my life I'm listening to someone basically describe me in very great detail.

I'm over 65 and just learning all of this. Thank goodness, nothing is impossible with God! My biggest issue is I grew up with an alcoholic and I'm married to one! Talk about triggers! I have no family and am isolated. Thanks so much, Tim, for all you are doing to help us feel we aren't worthless!

Every time I listen to Tim Fletcher speak, I think he is the smartest person. I have learned so many things from this gifted man of God. Thank you, Tim and thank the Lord. 😃

I’ve been listening to two of your videos everyday since I found you. You are an invaluable help to me. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏻😊

Disorganized attachment... hypervigilance.. Fear driven brain develops in complex trauma.. Cortisol causes memories to remain fragmented and emotions unresolved in implicit memory... Fight/flight will hi-jack prefrontal functions, emotions will overwhelm and control reaction to stimulus.. Goal is awareness to notice yourself slowly learning to respond to stimulus/triggers, be gentle and understanding with yourself as you would any child learning to do something new..

I so appreciate his comment at the beginning about hurt people hurting people and the extreme guilt and shame that keeps washing over me about traumatizing my children. I see it, it was completely unconscious. We didn’t form an attachment, I had no idea I was supposed to do that 😢 I am trying to take his advice and not beat myself up as much as possible

Amazing how you describe in such exquisite detail aspects of my life i never knew as i pushed myself away from myself. Not even decades of useless "therapy" could possibly uncover what you have done in the space of a video. Thank you. Let the healing begin. !!!

So grateful for finding this channel on you tube. Cant thank you enough.

.this is the information I have been looking for for YEARS.., therapy, books, other channels (some are great) university lectures upon lectures on psychology, philosophy...this is only the second video I have watched on this channel but already the information so far is invaluable...thank you so much..

💖 Thank you. Your talks are really helping me to gain insight into my CPTSD. I do have a counsellor and therapy. It is a long process full of ups and downs. Your talks help me to see the whole picture of CPTSD and my part in keeping the dysfunction rolling as an adult, the physical/mental/emotional dysregulations and why it takes so long and my willingness to do my part to heal. I know the brain can heal and grow as I mature but it has not happened without a lot of hard work and determination to make this happen. Sometimes I forget that there is positive everywhere if I look for it and I have days where I feel so tired and hopeless about this whole life mess but I keep walking towards healing and accept the crappy days as just part of life whether related to trauma inflicted by others or self-inflicted which tells me I still have a long way to go and there are no shortcuts.

This is so helpful! I appreciate this level of detail in his speech. I have absorbed so much information that I can use to have compassion for myself. Thank you cannot fully express the help I have received from this Ministry.

You have outlined my whole entire life through this series. I’m understanding my own brain and why and how i tick. Its amazingly accurate. Thanks…

Oh, and I’ve been listening to them in sequence. Very beneficial. This one in particular, I will listen to more than a few times, and take notes. 🙏🏻👍😊😍

Thank the Heavenly Father that He also gives us the Holy Spirit to Supernaturally heal us and get down into the places of our hearts and minds that need work beyond our comprehension and capability to do ourselves! Amen

Omgosh. Just found Tims videos a few days ago... Its like hes talking about my life and I maybe even feel a little validation, wow, thought id have to be the one to do that. Ive been taking notes like crazy. I want to watch everything. Thank you so much Tim Fletcher, bless you

I HATE adrenaline! When I was little, I went into FREEZE and I could not, literally, move. I have had fibromyalgia for most of my life, beginning around 17 years old

your video is blowing my mind. I have never heard anyone explain CT like that before. thankyou

Where did this guy come from? It's a perfect explanation of what I do and why I feel so confused and afraid and I don't know why

This guy knows a lot and is really into it -- interesting stuff --- I've suspected for a while this complex trauma stuff is what I've been going through

Thank you Tim! Im learning so much. Very encouraged to heal

EXCELLENT!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Explained very well.

Tim & team: this is incredibly informative. Thank you 💖

Thank you for all the info. .... helps me understand so much of my 'symptoms'

It seems Tim is wasting a lot of energy trying to project his voice to the room even though he is mic'd to a P.A system. The knowledge he has is priceless.

Tim's amazing ❤❤

19:30, this just described a lot of my adult life.

This man is absolutely brilliant!

Tim, thank you, for the borrowed hope. Amen.

Saving lives a video at a time! ❤

Bless God for brain healing

I just feel like I’m learning all of this too late 😭😭😭 I know that’s not true but the feeling is overwhelming.

Wow, having a visual of what's going on is so helpful to me.

Thank you

Thank you for these videos. Very valuable information!

May God bless you

The brain work is hard, but it's proved to work because finally we have something in common with other diagnoses: stroke and dyslexia. These both require brain work in methodical ways and small achievable steps in order to pave new neural pathways so function can proceed better. I used CBT and felt afraid of something taking over my mind: it was hard enough to think through life without messing up the way I think. Boy! I was wrong. The other diagnoses made me realize this neural development was both vital and possible, so I dove in (despite my doubts). Nearly 3 years later, I don't have to think about how to think often. It's become automatic. And as it changed my mind, my stress and other issues dissipated. If anyone else is afraid or doubtful about brain work, trust the research; CBT has a great track record.

I have heard your talks thank you, its very healing. the problem is healing is a living hell, cv19 is just one ore layer of stress its like 9/11. I have little reason to try anymore b/c all energy is taken up by trying to survive and for what? why bother in a world where it is unsustainable, totally unaffordabable. spiritually painful.

Brain trauma explains a lot in my life,

This is quite confrontational

Hello! I am not sure why you do not have 500 million followers. Really. The enemy is a deceiver and you speak truth. So, I guess that's why.. but just for the momemt. And then. BAM! You tell us how the God of the universe presemts Himself to us, in the midst of this dysfunction. I am praying your messages gets out to the 🌎. So much brokeness. Thank you for tying the science, psychology and Jesus altogether ❤ .

Exactly descibing me 😢

Powerful

I’ve had complex trauma from hour one, non stop. But it will soon. Please give a little clue of how I can die in peace.

My brain is.. I don’t even know. Im a high functioning person. Mother psychopath sadistic narcissist, complete abandonment - humiliation and abuse phisical and mental. Father was removed from the pic. Step father a drug addicted violent abusive mad. I witnessed so much violence until 11. After that I was adopted by a emotionally distant family. I don’t know how is possible to recover from this. I don’t even know how I can sustain the life I have, my career.. I am an extremely agreeable person but kinda distant and very hyper vigilant. People tell me I give them peace… inside of me is just freeze and pure anguish. CPTSD. Fibromyalgia with I guess is going to MS. Doing carnivore diet to help my body heal/ But my heart? My soul? I have no idea how.. I’m watching all this videos.. I know it’s gonna be a long long path. I don’t want to be around anyone, I just hate people and at the same time I care deeply too much about others. Just not that much about me. I did not know love.. i did but so so little and not from my primal caregivers. I was severely abused. I have too much love in my heart I just don’t know how to give it without being crossed and abused… I’m the perpetuasted hero and rescuer.. going through this dark night of the soul.. don’t wanna see anyone and need to start again my own path.. learn my own rules.. But how does a heart heal after something so brutal.. I’m using mushrooms also, micro and macro. I’m starting to cry properly at 32 .. all this pain.. I don’t wanna waste my life.. i love art, painting, wrote a book, made music.. im an artist.. but in a broke human.. I hope I can make this .. the emotional triggers are heavy but yes.. this videos help.: I just want a normal life.. thankyou again

Somebody give him a glass of water please :))

bless your heart !

Where can I find more about the brain of c-ptsd?

What are the benefits of becoming a member under Tim Fletcher? More so, I am watching all the KZfaq videos, but are there more available by becoming a member?

my so-called "best friend" maliciously violently brutally viciously raped me. he raped and tortured my soul. left me. without warning. abandoned and betrayed me. discarded me, like garbage, for another. may he suffer for what he's done to me. now I am traumatized and suffer major PTSD. I have constant hyperventilating debilitating paralyzing panic attacks. I'm being buried alive. 999-trillion layers of rage and grief suffocate me.

What is the solution tom the protocol I mean I know now how messed up I am now

Okay but I have two thesis of what it could be: -Warren focused on families whear the womam wear exhausted and therefore couldn't properly care and given ample time and/or the lack of other stress factors the mothers would've played just fine -or you are well I suppose the inability to form helathy relationshis that are needed for healthy development is called negelect so that would make it negelect and you wouldn't techniqually be wrong -

Give him some water!!!

Does anyone know the speaker's name? This is the only explanations of this phenomenon in childhood development I've found. The specifics match my experience exactly.

things here are too much stress

Could anyone please tell me what is the area in the brain that produces cells is called?

What is this man’s name?

Addicted to adrenalin

At last

I like the previous 6 videos, I find them very informative, they helped me better understand some behaviors that were puzzling me. But this one I'm very disappointed with, here's why: The picture of the two 3-year old brains is lacking the attribution you can see in the document linked from fdrliberated.com/stefan-molyneux-abusing-dr-perrys-brain/, it's from a paper by Dr. Bruce Perry and the child with the small head suffered extreme neglect including malnutrition, being raised in a dark cage under a staircase apparently. So it's not true that cptsd causes that kind of under-development. It's obvious too, because if 90% of people have cptsd, which I think is about right, then 90% of people would have abnormally small heads. The next major blunder is saying that the cervical ventricles are "cell growing regions" for the rest of the brain. What?? Where did you get that from? And then you say that the corpus callosum is underdeveloped in cptsd, and that people have trouble remembering details because parts of this bridge are missing?? Again, do you have any evidence for this? The fact that you're making all these dubious (just plain wrong, in my opinion) claims with the same confidence as in the previous videos, now is making me doubt everything you said before, and that's very disappointing. Please redo this one with sound science, or just remove it. I don't think there is any need to exaggerate the damage done by cptsd, it's bad enough.

I think you put too much focus on these it is not correct. I know a friend who unlike me did have a loving parents ..but while I have my own issues, she is too narcissistic and on the edge to be always a warrior and pushing what she wants. So I mean everyone is broken in some way don’t blame ppl with abuse or neglect too much. Love can Laos create narcissism

You happy on your pedestal of lies. ?

I have a super high startle reflex. I scream and scream if anyone walks up on me and I don’t see them coming. I had to put “shop bells” on all doors in my house so I know when my husband or son is walking into the house so I know they are here. Otherwise, if I don’t hear them walk into the room, I scream like someone is stabbing me. I cannot control it at all. It just happens. Very embarrassing.

Thank you