A 5 part interview series made by CSADD as training for service members on different important issues. Seaman Sadie shares her very personal experience of rape. Thank you to all who helped put this together.
Пікірлер: 217
@reneenapier86694 жыл бұрын
She is brave for sharing her story. She didn't deserve it.
@jennifersanchez36774 жыл бұрын
First off, I’ve heard so many cases like this. Never victim blame. But I have been in the military for a while now and you cannot just think it’s okay to sleep in a room full of drunk males. Red flags everywhere. Doesn’t matter who you trust. Never trust anyone under the influence. I applaud you for taking the brave decision to tell your story. Young military service members don’t realize the dangers out there.
@ursulasmith64024 жыл бұрын
Those blokes had no right to hurt her!
@ruthtruthinireland3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Jennifer, 99%.... that 1% that I don't not so much disagree with, but think that you could have worded differently is when you said "you cannot just think it’s okay to sleep in a room full of drunk males" Obviously this young trusting girl thought that is WAS ok as these guys were her friends... I'm pretty sure in hind sight (and hind sight is an amazing thing) that she would now agree that it's not a good idea to sleep in a room full of drunk males... friends or not. I suppose what I'm saying to you is this... you could have worded it differently, your wording made it sound like she should take some of the blame.... and she was 100% the victim here. Now she's a survivor with a cautionary experience to share with others. It's now 2020 and this happened over 8 years ago, I hope this young lady is getting on with her life and moving from strength to strength in her career, her dreams and her relationships.
@raew52633 жыл бұрын
Exactly right. Why on earth would she bunk w/a room full if guys? Stupid really. Glad she got justice. Brave
@Stgfre2 жыл бұрын
You blame the female sailor Seaman Sadie for being raped. Are you for real?
@TheHasselhoff111 Жыл бұрын
She was just a kid. Probably her first time away from home to an extended period of time. I hope she's doing better...
@rodriguezadam118 жыл бұрын
I miss my gf and searching this made me so worried about her and how guys would try to get at her like this but I can only pray that nothing like this ever happens to her.
@Thomas-rw4dx5 жыл бұрын
Dont worry, the navy is full of gay dudes so she only has to worry about walking in on Petty Officer Dingleberry's gay porno
@cant_touchthis694 жыл бұрын
If shes ugly, you have nothing to fear
@lisatelly24184 жыл бұрын
It happened to me while in the Navy...please try to find her...maybe she's thinking of you too.
@Cognitoman4 жыл бұрын
thp lol!
@STATUStheSHOKWAVE4 жыл бұрын
1 out of 4 women in military get raped. That Is just the ones that report it
@kevindevore717111 жыл бұрын
It's very unfortunate that she experienced this. No one should have to go through it. It's even worse because it's supposed to be someone you trust with you life when you go into combat.
@mog95017 жыл бұрын
Evey thing she is saying is true I know people in the us navy and Marines it happens all the time
@MsUa1254 жыл бұрын
It happens all the time? Then why do they say women lie and ruin men's careers when it's the men who ruin their own careers by raping!
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
@@MsUa125 Cause they still view women as unequal in the military. It's been fairly recent to allow women into all roles of the military.. Victim culture and the one person who does lies they believe it's now lies 1000% across everybody else.They don't take things seriously, unless you have evidence *good luck sneaking in a video camera/recorder or having witnesses..* or multiple people come up for the same person, they'll harass and haze until people pull out of the process or if you stand together it's still other legal precautions necessary. Takes a long time with no guaranteed.. If you try moving, the new place will just know the stories in advance, but this time without any familiar people or friends present.
@Eric3454 жыл бұрын
Cupcakes Viola Because they protect each other.
@betofernandez62995 жыл бұрын
This makes me angry
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
Least someone cares, thanks :(
@JasonfromMinnesota9 жыл бұрын
I watch this and think if she was my daughter who would send their daughter to war to be attacked by her comrades
@shiwan454 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad my daughter didn’t join the military and trash like this happen or any place . I would be in prison
@Ajishly12 жыл бұрын
She is brave as fuck, and even as a stranger to me, I am proud of her.
@christophertheexplorer537011 жыл бұрын
While she may or may not be an actress these incidents happen a lot and to a shipmate it is a very disturbing ordeal. It truely effects everyone in the Navy. These issues are serious and are real.
@mrs.tiffanykallio69693 жыл бұрын
You are so incredibly brave shipmates! Thank you for sharing your story!
@taniaperez19894 жыл бұрын
This gave me chills! 😰 why this still happening in our military! I hope she is doing well! God bless her!
@wifi326311 жыл бұрын
You do not understand the experiences of another unless you have experienced them, and sometimes not even then. Just because you would not have made a particular choice or agreed with it does not mean the person who did make that choice is bad or inferior or deserving of blame for it. You do not know what influenced that choice, either, unless the person tells you.
@naileaolivas27884 жыл бұрын
Wow I can relate... I never thought someone had such a similar story
@mallorymcguire8334 жыл бұрын
Going to a hotel room with a bunch of drunk guys and wearing a 'shorty' nightgown? That's got to be the dumbest thing - it's like college girls getting drunk at a frat party and going into the back room. It's a tough way to learn that lesson, but how naive can you be?
@SpinningSage3 жыл бұрын
But no means no Mallory
@Justfriescom3 жыл бұрын
Feels bad but natural selection
@James-qu1bw4 жыл бұрын
This is why I'll never get drunk or high in the military. Shit like this could happen.
@DIVISIONINCISION4 жыл бұрын
Yes, pale Eagle.
@James-qu1bw4 жыл бұрын
@@DIVISIONINCISION Is this 2pac? You're alive?
@WheatleyGLaDOS3 жыл бұрын
This is why you ALWAYS go off post with a TRUSTWORTHY battle buddy who will actually cover your 6!!! Too many soldiers are getting Article 15'd and discharged because of this stupidity. SHARP is no joke.
@SpinningSage3 жыл бұрын
That you could rape someone? He was drunk She was sober
@SpinningSage3 жыл бұрын
@Tracchofyre blaming alcohol for rapist's actions isn't cool, ever!
@bikervet00722 жыл бұрын
Women join the military because they want to serve their country just like the men do. It’s supposed to be a team where we watch out for each other. I never saw anything like this happen when I was in the Army though I have no doubt it did after seeing so many videos like this. She is incredibly strong for coming forward and I’m glad her attacker faced justice instead of it being swept under the rug.
@wakeup39874 жыл бұрын
Strong woman and it was good that the pos got jail. His wife should have got a sentence to for her threaths.
@TheHasselhoff111 Жыл бұрын
I wonder what ever happened to this woman. She was just a kid...
@ralphhull42223 жыл бұрын
Oh man she's so sweet this was hard to watch
@almohvn33 Жыл бұрын
She is a little baby. So glad she survived this, so glad she stayed in! Girl.. you are sooooo strong!
@jayceekillian164812 жыл бұрын
You are so brave and amazing. I am so proud of you Chief Killian
@runaaufbrennen75934 жыл бұрын
This made me tear up and it's taken a lot not to cry. I'm so sorry this happens in ohr military and is one reason why I'm actually kind of happy I didn't join when I was younger, even though a part of me wishes I still did. I already have a long history of sexual abuse and just... The military is supposed to be a brotherhood. A family. Doing AFJROTC throughout high school gave me a home during that harsh time in my life and something to look forward to and just... This stuff makes me sick. I'm SO proud of our vets and our soldiers who do good but there are way too many stories of not only assault but shunning and of the people they're supposed to be able to go to for help not believing or shunning or worse and... The corruption seems to know no bounds. Not even in something as honorable as the service. To all who have suffered this while serving, my heart breaks for you a million times over. Thank you all for being strong and sharing your story.
@jonstremel74674 жыл бұрын
The Black Flame Cauldron I’m so sorry to hear about what happened. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re right that this is still a problem and the military is still struggling to help those in need.
@runaaufbrennen75934 жыл бұрын
@@jonstremel7467 Thank you for taking the time to read this and to share this video. Things like this are hard to hear but SO incredibly important.
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
Similar to me except I'm still in the process of MEPs..a part of me wants to bail, but knowingly hearing I might think about what if I did join? or worry of regret has me here. I'm trying to be brave but I'm absolutely terrified of this stuff happening to me. people just say it happens everywhere anyway but..like it's more present when the ratio is 1 girl to 20-30 guys so..
@4SkinChan11 жыл бұрын
Either way I wish you good luck and hope you get justice in your case, rape is RAPE.
@GamingCentral806 жыл бұрын
I remember in the navy that they trained us to believe that if two sailors had sex while drunk it was the male who raped the female. Regardless if both parties consented at the time. If she regretted it a day, week, year later she could file a rape claim and he would get prosecuted. Even if you took a woman out to dinner and she had a single glass of wine she couldn’t consent and you could get in trouble. Eventually this lead to us just drinking alone with guys only, which would upset some females who felt they were being unfairly excluded and guess what you could get captains mast for that too. After years of this we eventually just started to bang each other instead of looking for women. You could drink all night with your fellow sailors and feel safe in his arms knowing that your boy has got you and won’t tell anyone or report what happened.
@RiversBliss5 жыл бұрын
WTF.
@Cognitoman4 жыл бұрын
Lol I’m dead
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
And that class is why the Navy is often nicknamed gay squids.
@Freedom_LoneStar4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@themmmfamily71304 жыл бұрын
Fuck no
@gaborkachs2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for Sharing. All the love for this brave women.
@anthonyparreno6479 жыл бұрын
That guy is a POS. Stay strong, SN Saddie.
@theannouncer55385 жыл бұрын
Anthony Parreno my dumbass thought that POS was a rank for a second
@whitneydavidson3457 Жыл бұрын
The amount of sexual assault in the military is unacceptable
@looksok33274 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing OMG !!! how horrible!!!
@beautifulqueen42913 жыл бұрын
Praying for her this needs to stop
@howardjohnson2138 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for what happened to you. Thank you for saying something.
@jonathanm96374 жыл бұрын
Im a man and it happened to me
@lunagarcia54924 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry and it shouldn’t happen to anyone
@coolcat57984 жыл бұрын
@@lunagarcia5492 your beautiful
@coolcat57984 жыл бұрын
Sorry brother keep your head up
@jonathanm96374 жыл бұрын
@Island Mamaz a man
@nate72494 жыл бұрын
In the navy?!
@TheWakeyup4 жыл бұрын
This was messed up
@msluvbug134 жыл бұрын
She seems like an actor. I hope this is really because this is real life for some women serving our country.
@scole78110 жыл бұрын
Why is she confessing? Did she do something wrong or is this the same old victim blaming that happens in the military.
@goleafsgo84962 жыл бұрын
Realize this is a very old post but still relevant in my mind. Now of course not being a female I can never truly understand how this impacts a womans life. But why would a woman ever contemplate keeping a baby conceived from the result of a rape? I would have thought (again as a male) you would be screaming "get this thing out of me". Terrifying ordeal for women and hoping they can recover and please don't feel shame or guilt you didn't ask for this at all.
@micheleotero15162 жыл бұрын
I was in the airforce it happened to me year s 1984 to 1990.
@carlosc54794 жыл бұрын
strong woman bless u🌷
@lxslie0244 жыл бұрын
I want to join the navy but with what’s happening and hearing about women getting raped I’m having second thoughts
@rosetaetienne70294 жыл бұрын
I wanna join the navy too but I'm kinda scared
@rosetaetienne70294 жыл бұрын
How old are you? Im 15
@lxslie0244 жыл бұрын
Roseta Etienne fr tho mfs be harassing women and men
@rosetaetienne70294 жыл бұрын
@@lxslie024 exactly. Like this is crazy asf
@lxslie0244 жыл бұрын
Roseta Etienne I’m 16 😔
@MsBlkz3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and happy to hear the guy is in jail. I think It would be nice if you moved out to a different place and start over
@jesusgil99714 жыл бұрын
I love this girl, stay strong beauty
@AERO-ARMED Жыл бұрын
She is too beautiful to be S.Assaulted! Anyone in general does not deserve this, As a Sea aviator cadet. Things like this can happen in the course rooms at night when we sleep! These children are literally making loud noises( and to the beds) all night. And they are only 9-13! 😅 But you are a warrior, it was very brave of you to come out! I am proud of you..
@marvinceg.genzola11693 жыл бұрын
Being in the military everybody should know how to control their drinking (im referring to your friends chief) each one of you should be responsible for one another. And i admire your bravery by the way.
@ginabelah10044 жыл бұрын
#Justice for #VanessaGuillen & #LaVennaJohnson
@cynthiacuriel5404 жыл бұрын
Where is Vanessa?
@brittanyscott38093 жыл бұрын
It is deeply disturbing that she was found deceased. Somebody did something to the girl which is why she disappeared from Fort Hood. And another soldier, a male, from Fort Hood disappeared from Fort Hood too. And he was found dead as well. He was a Calvry Scout Sergeant. Somebody killed him too.
@tahir11562 жыл бұрын
Coward man was attacked this innocence female....shame on him.
@miekadegerness676 жыл бұрын
Wow how sad for this young woman . Just very sad no one believed her .Specially sad for the Child . It was Innocent yet part of her and All Children Belong to GOD , But all do not see it as I see this , Even in Civilian Courts The woman here where I live Her Husband Cornered her and Trick her only to Rape Her after leaving her Husband He beat her then Raped her so bad . Putting her in the Hospital .These so called men need to be Castrated , Rape is an Evil act
@ChrisXCXCX5 жыл бұрын
Jeeze how terrible.
@cablepupp5 жыл бұрын
Oh I know this story producers made it into a. Law and order SVU episode or someones simular 😏😉
@tralalal12311 жыл бұрын
this is truly laughable. how many "she deserved it markers" do you see? "shorty pajama shorts"? the writer really threw in everything including the kitchen sink, huh?
@user-qs7by5nm1g5 жыл бұрын
SHIT BAG!
@tiffanysuttle-thrower70314 жыл бұрын
Thank you.❤️🙏
@rachelgarcia43014 жыл бұрын
I'll never ever blame a girl for rape. No means no. But she was unbelievably naive & foolish. What the hey was she doing in that hotel room? To help you understand my reasoning: it would be a crime to rape me on the street at 2 am, but I'd be wise to be home in bed rather than making myself vulnerable.
@adrianajimenez4342 Жыл бұрын
It's terrible what happened here but as a military female you should never ever get a room with a bunch of drunk men, I mean come on, it's like you are asking for it.
@dafnneperez9577 Жыл бұрын
I agree. She trusted them way too much and thinking that because they were married or had girlfriends she will be ok. Bad mistake.. her mother or someone should taught her better. Feel bad for her, she was young and naive.
@adrianajimenez434210 ай бұрын
@@dafnneperez9577I agree
@STATUStheSHOKWAVE4 жыл бұрын
1 out of 4..AND thats just the ones who report it
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
yeah they believe it might actually be 1-2 since 50% go unreported..meanwhile men are at a fairly solid 1-10...1-8 for likely unreported.
@ahmed-wy9yq2 жыл бұрын
In Islam thats why there is a distance between men and woman
@JeriDro Жыл бұрын
she looks ridiculous in that uniform, what are we doing?
3 жыл бұрын
I was raped by #JonathanTylerMoore on the #USSPrinceton in 2005 and when i attempted to report it, I was covered up with a bad paper(OTH) discharge. He got an honorable discharge and now works for #Amtrak.
@gijane8804 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but I would of gotten my own room, friends or not!
@SavageLion_4 жыл бұрын
Guess you could say she was on the boat.
@c4c5154 жыл бұрын
Self control is mastery
@rushcummins82577 жыл бұрын
I hate Trucking
@sanmarco201111 жыл бұрын
Seaman Sadie is an actress!
@jimmyhenriquez75373 жыл бұрын
She’s lucky she’s alive a lot of women die
@umpus2 жыл бұрын
Is it real or a recreation by an actor?
@jonstremel74672 жыл бұрын
A recreation based on a real story
@stanleymcvay92832 ай бұрын
This one time- at band camp. 😊
@planet96664 жыл бұрын
Justice
@coolcat57984 жыл бұрын
This is sad
@jeffreyrichardson4 жыл бұрын
douglas brothers best scott lauries laugh at sky fest pruniers choice crest
@auntemmyd16044 жыл бұрын
I LOVE AND BELIEVE YOU!
@TheRTM4 жыл бұрын
Lol that kind of thru me off when this demure waffle of a woman said "graded my ass"
@fakeemail95332 жыл бұрын
Ur very beautiful young woman from Jeff
@cant_touchthis694 жыл бұрын
I wish i was in the navy
@jlewis1226 жыл бұрын
They only believed her because he knocked herbup
@jefferydoyle52763 жыл бұрын
Ur a very beautiful young woman from JEFF
@drewott92669 жыл бұрын
Hanging out with a bunch of trashed dudes, what did she expect?
@chelseadee39 жыл бұрын
to have a fun time with her friends and not get raped?
@slackerreviews44069 жыл бұрын
Drew Ott You're a fucking idiot.
@ananaja56525 жыл бұрын
Fuck off with your disgusting victim blaming moron
@JuicedUpLemon4 жыл бұрын
Drunken men are no ones friend. Lesson learned.
@dannydmoney3054 жыл бұрын
Zoot Suit Riots
@rushcummins82577 жыл бұрын
A straight men's can't live without sex let's keep it real But not the way he approached you, there's some stupid guys
@themmmfamily71304 жыл бұрын
Rush Cummins seriously 😂😂
@4SkinChan11 жыл бұрын
I don't support rape, but let's be honest here she put herself in this position. Stayed in a hotel with a drunk who grabbed her ass, I mean common really? Not to mention she was wearing "booty" shorts and instead of going to the authorities she tried talking to him when he sobered up WTF? Personally I feel for other women who were truly raped but this case is the fucking worst example of rape.
@user-qs7by5nm1g5 жыл бұрын
I disagree with what you said! So how can you tell the person has a trouble past or who has an issue with alcohol just by looking at them! She was at the wrong place at the wrong time! SHIT BAG!
@wilfredl2315 жыл бұрын
What a stupid comment
@ayanour75 жыл бұрын
4SkinChan It does not matter what she was wearing! She can wear whatever she wants, learn how to control yourself. ASSAULT IS ASSAULT. She put trust in someone who she truly didn’t know... she did not know this was going to happen! He should’ve known better he’s the married one with a kid! She even tried to push him away. If you do not know your limits when it comes to alcohol then you shouldn’t be drinking. That’s the reality of it honey.
@BY-yb3vs6 жыл бұрын
Why woman should join defence service at all....? What nonsense is this. ? You want to work 24 hours with Sex starved men ....and expect them all to control them. ....that's too much!
@PilatesEmmaB4 жыл бұрын
are u serious????? how about why should pervert men who cant control themselves be allowed to be deployed????? instead of blaming the victim maybe u should blame the RAPIST
@JuicedUpLemon4 жыл бұрын
I'm female and joining the navy, this year. Women can serve and never be raped but what happened to her was to be expected. Never follow a drunk man into an enclosed space. It's (rape) not right and I'm not condoning it but she made a series of bad decisions that allowed him to make the worst bad decision. Rape is a crime of opportunity, so women have to be vigilant about giving men the opportunity to rape them. Dont get drunk with a bunch of sex starved men. The moment he grabbed her ass was the moment to call a taxi to take her back to make a report, tell her other guy friends and leave. Say "Hey, I'm going back to the barracks. O boy, has been very disrespectful and grabbed my ass. I'm no longer comfortable hanging out with him." Then back to the barracks to snitch immediately.
@divyasingh45054 жыл бұрын
Men are raped too
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
@@divyasingh4505 Doesn't come close to a womans experience. 1-2 women, men are 1-10, they don't get there insides ripped up, forced to get surgery just to pee again, possibly get pregnant, or never be able to have kids again thanks to the damage. So k bye
@weiberfeind10 жыл бұрын
I don't take any womans accusation as truth.
@odonata_faerie846010 жыл бұрын
You're a disgusting human.
@weiberfeind10 жыл бұрын
odonata_faerie Innocent until proven guilty. She made the accusation and it's on her to prove it happened.
@odonata_faerie846010 жыл бұрын
Definition of pulling a fast one, don't you think?
@olivianichole2889 жыл бұрын
Some women are telling the truth...the bitches that lie doesn't discard the fact that rape does happen
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
@@weiberfeind Because everyone happens to have camera, recorders and 30 different eye witnesses all the time right? Give me a break. In Canada it's Guilty until proven innocent, the correct way.
@bellefemma22214 жыл бұрын
She wanted it..cuz ...no way in hell I would go partying with a bunch of men.
@Cocolicious11114 жыл бұрын
Don't victim blame, that's awful. I hope you never experience the same thing otherwise you'll understand. She went out with some friends, seemingly MARRIED friends at that. She wasn't even the drunk one, he simply overpowered her, doesn't mean she deserved or wanted it because the chance a woman against a huge drunk man is already shit. She could've went with all girls and might've happened. The reaction to her coming forward is just purely disgusting.
@Mytesmyth4 жыл бұрын
Shorty pijama shorts? Yeah you’re asking for it partner lol
@Defender783 жыл бұрын
why the F did she get a hotel with a bunch of drunk guys, even if they were friends from the same unit...3:37 after the incident she took a cab home... WTF did she not just take a cab back to base AFTER the bar?
@KristinaUSA-x5n2 жыл бұрын
Was I asking for it at swim and dive practice at 16 tied up at New Mexico State University swimming and dive practice where my pediatrician and psychologist drugged and abuse me and other children and videotaped it and photographed it and failed to treat blunt force head trauma from having my head slammed into concrete?
@thegreat10095 жыл бұрын
This is FAKE
@personanongrata15098 жыл бұрын
She so perdy in her little sailor costume!
@kevintinoco20058 жыл бұрын
It's not called a costume it's called a uniform but she does look pretty