So there is something that this life is longing for It's not a desire It's its destination It is not something a desire that you created or I created It is just longing to go towards a certain destination The only choice that we have is either to move towards this destination consciously or unconsciously Any way we are moving whether to go towards it consciously or unconsciously If we are dragged towards something unconsciously Even if we are dragged towards heaven we will suffer the dragging isn't it Yes Now we grab you and we'll drag you out You don't know where you are being dragged You will suffer this We will take you and put you on a beautiful beach but that's later But right now all along from here to there you are going to suffer it terribly isn't it So if you walk towards anything or if life drags you towards a certain direction and you are unconscious about it you will suffer the process immensely So if you look at it consciously if you go towards it consciously then the process becomes beautiful That's all the choice we have really