Constance Wu Opens Up About Having to Work with Her Abuser

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Constance Wu talks about the time she was accused of plagiarism in the eighth grade and how working with her abuser on Fresh Off the Boat impacted her enthusiasm when the show was renewed for a final season.
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@IMArt-kx2ci Жыл бұрын

What's unfair is that she still thinks she has to apologize for crying some well deserved tears that she has had to unfairly cry on her own. Well done. You're very brave and I hope you'll heal better now. Bravo.

@siiiiiuu7 Жыл бұрын

You wouldn't believe the amount of viciousness I've read online towards this woman. Calling her every name in the book. I, myself, don't know if I could ever have the courage to face such wickedness and I totally understand why she's in "sorry" mode. It's scary to out yourself as a victim because so many people, unfortunately, do stand with the abuser. She's incredibly brave.

@jonnyfendi2003 Жыл бұрын

@mzsurr who is her abuser??

@noraisacoff6649 Жыл бұрын

This exactly. It's so moving to hear her speak about this, and I wish she knew she didn't need to apologize for anything at all.

@mysterious-benefactor Жыл бұрын

@@jonnyfendi2003 sounds like the producer on the first production she was in. I'm not going to IMDB it for u. But I hope that helps.

@felisd Жыл бұрын

@@noraisacoff6649 So many women are socialized from a young age to be positive, to apologize if they weren't anything except happy and positive or even assertive. This didn't become clear to me until a day I was working with a group of women, and every time any of them spoke up about feeling uncomfortable about something, or suggested something, or wanted to say anything that could be construed as negative, they always prefaced with "I'm so sorry, but". I counted 20 "sorry"s in the course of 5 minutes. Constance probably knew she didn't have to apologize, but the fact is: it's ingrained. We shouldn't cry. We shouldn't speak up. We need to "be strong". And crying is seen as a weakness - especially in a professional setting. Even if the crying is cathartic in nature, which I think it was a bit for her here. It sucks, and it's something women in general need to unlearn.

@rushjl92 Жыл бұрын

"engage in curiosity and empathy before going straight to judgement" I love that

@Countrygirltori24 Жыл бұрын

"Be curious, not judgemental" - Ted Lasso quoting Walt Whitman (although Walt Whitman never said that)

@rachelpradhan Жыл бұрын

"When someone does something out of character for them, it usually means that something is going on in their life." This hit me in the heart - the times I lashed out would be the times I was under a lot of personal emotional pressure that I couldn't talk about with anyone. And then came the shame from lashing out would just add to the emotional pressure - and the feelings of worthlessness.

@Kuchikopi13 Жыл бұрын

That breaks my heart. I’m so sorry. I’ve felt the same about this and being labeled as something not true to you due to immense pressure. I hope all gets better and in those moments you feel in control of your narrative. Much love 💕

@xidiamond6851 Жыл бұрын

It wasn't out of character. When the story first came out it was reported that people who knew her were not surprised

@ft.jackjimmy7282 Жыл бұрын

@@xidiamond6851 well apologies to those people for some of us being terrible at being happy and kind 100% of the time while going through tough and stressful situations. We’ll try harder to hide our pain and keep a nicer external appearance for their comfort.

@gargisingh5884 Жыл бұрын

Going through this

@name...........n Жыл бұрын

This can only be said by someone who is mature and experienced

@yellowonesdontstop Жыл бұрын

Aww Seth handled that so compassionately- more like a friend than a talk show host self-conscious about keeping the show from getting awkward.

@mindyengledow6860 Жыл бұрын

Seth was very sweet about it. He didn't make too big of a deal out of it so she wouldn't get more upset but he was empathetic.

@mfpendle Жыл бұрын

He could've gotten the tissues out before the break.

@mindyengledow6860 Жыл бұрын

@@mfpendle 😊 Lol, I like him. I've liked his humor since Saturday Night Live.

@elizabethdalton-jandreau5588 Жыл бұрын

Just when you thought you couldn't love either of them more...

@ruscular Жыл бұрын

I really admire the way Seth handle this, and embolden her to share her side of the story and make her feel validated. She is the star of fresh off the boat, and her talent just amaze me and makes me laugh so hard. I had no idea that she was fresh off to acting as well.

@catalinacurio Жыл бұрын

There’s nothing a bully hates more than being ousted! Well done for speaking up. 🌸

@3dsmaxrocks699 Жыл бұрын

Nothing like trying to sell a useless book too🤣🤣

@fadleadam Жыл бұрын

@@3dsmaxrocks699 u broke people are so annoying

@classictalkies Жыл бұрын

@@3dsmaxrocks699 Ah.. another bully outs themselves…

@3dsmaxrocks699 Жыл бұрын

@@classictalkies Let me guess, you think Christine Blasey Ford was telling the truth too🤣🤣 And Trump raped E Jean Carol🤣🤣 #believenowomenever

@Michael-wx7dr Жыл бұрын

@@3dsmaxrocks699 nothing like another sad person who rushes to discredit a woman speaking out about being abused...

@ikerina Жыл бұрын

*_"'I think it's important that we engage in curiosity and empathy before we go straight to judgement. Because if somebody does something out of character for them, usually something's going on in their life"_* a wise advice to all of us

@mamaduck9370 Жыл бұрын

Bless you, Mr Frazel. And Seth and team, for letting an uncomfortable story be told by a strong young woman and supporting her emotions.

@burnyizland Жыл бұрын

She's 40. But I agree with the rest.

@drebugsita Жыл бұрын

@@burnyizland Was anyone asking for your opinion on what constitutes young?

@burnyizland Жыл бұрын

@@drebugsita Did I ask for your opinion? Did the OP ask for your defense? 40 is not young. 40 is the start of middle age. That is not my opinion, that is fact. Why, are you insecure about the fact you're ageing? This is the internet. Everyone has the ability to speak their mind. Get over yourself, you're not in charge here and there is no manager to speak to.

@transphotography Жыл бұрын

@@burnyizland Are you a teenager or younger?

@mamaduck9370 Жыл бұрын

@@burnyizland lol fair enough. I'm 52. Age is relative, no?

@joshuawestlund Жыл бұрын

It took me 25 years to tell my own parents about sexual abuse by a family member. It is very hard to talk about and my own dad screamed at me for not telling him sooner. If you haven’t been through it, you don’t know what she felt but those of us who have completely understand how hard it is to talk about with others. She was graceful and brave. I completely understand the embarrassment and shame she felt (and obviously she shouldn’t have to feel that way but it is natural and why it’s so hard to disclose to anyone, much less millions of people) but she pushed past that. This helped many people, I assure you. Reclaiming your dignity after abuse is hard. She’s on the right path and many of us struggle to find that strength. And having compassionate thoughtful friends who listen is a blessing. Seth knew that and that’s why I appreciate him.

@moniquewrites9046 Жыл бұрын

And thank you for sharing your heart. I pray healing for you as well.

@cestwhat1317 Жыл бұрын

I've known of incidents where the family knew and either swept it under the rug, or scolded the victim. Beyond cowardly and disgusting.

@joshuawestlund Жыл бұрын

@@cestwhat1317 but it’s often more subtle, like with my dad. He feels like he failed - or at least that’s the best way I can explain it. But how can anyone tell their own dad he can’t see or talk to his brother. I tried and it didn’t go well. Thanks for engaging this tough topic. The fact that you commented is great.

@RaymondHng Жыл бұрын

@@joshuawestlund I was a victim of inappropriate conduct by someone at work. But I was too afraid to report it for fear of internalized victim blaming. Thoughts of "why did you stay in the office after 5 PM?" were running through my head. I did not want to relive the incident by retelling it. I just wanted it to stop.

@joshuawestlund Жыл бұрын

@@RaymondHng I’m here for you anytime

@BlueTearDconnor Жыл бұрын

Bro... I almost cried with her, you can feel her emotions through the screen, I love Fresh of the boat and I had no idea this was going on, it breaks my heart, what a brave and strong woman. 👏

@BikerDudeLebowski Жыл бұрын

Dude, I'm still crying after ... 3 minutes seeing this interview. She had it tough, as have too many others. #metoo had a long time coming, let's not forget there still is all kinds of power play abuse going on!

@burnyizland Жыл бұрын

@@BikerDudeLebowski You gentlemen are giving me hope. I'm so used to bros online trying to outdo each other in their bullying and misogyny. I'm glad you both felt this one appropriately and had the courage to say so.

@ezzb Жыл бұрын

Same. Fresh of the boat was my go to feel good show, the humor, the childhood vibes. Is just heartbreaking to hear that she was going through such pain while doing the show.

@arkadeyellow2931 Жыл бұрын

As a man, I have tremendous admiration for any woman who had the strength to talk about being sexually harrassed or abused. It's obviously one of the most difficult things to do. Good for you, Ms Wu.

@3dsmaxrocks699 Жыл бұрын

Mega Ultra Simp🤣🤣

@jonnyfendi2003 Жыл бұрын

…but wont actually name her abuser. So this abuser can abuse others cause she refuses to name him…and u wonder why she’s getting backlash??? Get a clue.

@sox1085 Жыл бұрын

@@jonnyfendi2003 she has nothing to do with the abuser’s actions. He abused before her and after and nothing she does can change that. I’m glad she got away from the psycho. She’s not god. She’s not a police officer. Quit putting the onus on the victim. What is wrong with you jonni!?

@lizabethhuntley9360 Жыл бұрын

I can see from her emotion on this interview why she wasn’t in the position to share the full story any sooner than this. There’s obviously still a lot of pain there. And as far as people needing a name, she’s just now got to the point she can talk about what happened at all. She might not feel ready for the intense public backlash she would get from naming someone, who would no doubt call her a liar. She may never want to open herself up to that and I wouldn’t blame her.

@3dsmaxrocks699 Жыл бұрын

@@lizabethhuntley9360 SHE'S SELLING A BOOK!! Jesus...it's so obvious!

@Wewhosee-im3ii Жыл бұрын

This poor girl😢 I remember people were calling her “ungrateful” not knowing what she was going through.

@xidiamond6851 Жыл бұрын

Because she was ungrateful. The alleged harassment had nothing to do with her tweets. She said she handled it years before and was just angry she couldn't do other projects. She admitted that it wasn't about the harassment in her nightline interview

@Nina7x1887 Жыл бұрын

I mean if her abuser was an important member of the set and a new season meant she would have to interact with them again, wouldn’t you be frustrated. I would. I mean tweeting was not the best idea but people react differently so I’m not gonna crucify her for that. We sent perfect either people make stupid mistakes.

@nyahcat1379 Жыл бұрын

@@xidiamond6851 handled what years before? And when did she say it wasn't about the harassment? She hasn't been open about her trauma until recently, so if she said it a couple of years ago I assume that was when she was covering up the real reason. Regardless I don't think it's kind to call her response "ungrateful" when speaking about the site of her trauma. Aside from FOTB being forever associated with trauma, regular people complain about opportunities all the time. Venting is normal. Kids complain about school but wouldn't drop out no matter how hard it gets. Adults complain about work with no intention of quitting. Just because Wu is a famous person, she has to act like a happy, perfect robot all the time?

@Peechiness Жыл бұрын

@@xidiamond6851 she said she handled it as in held it inside, become stoic. however she said " one cannot will something away" trauma like that comes out somehow and that was when she mentioned the tweet that people called her ungrateful for. That tweet was it coming out subconsciously bc she had to cont working with her abuser. THAT aside, I hope you never get cheated on and then when you want to file for divorce I hope people call you ungrateful to your spouse. toodles.

@jazzmusic008 Жыл бұрын

@@xidiamond6851 Women have to be grateful only men are allowed to be ambitious. DiCaprio didn't have to ask if it was OK if he could finally leave the sitcom he got his start on. Why should this lady. Her life was moving on. She could have said it nicer, and Twitter is a stupid place to look for empathy, but sounds like she got piled on for years and some Asian American actress DM'd her so much about the shame she brought to the AA community she tried to kill herself. Pretty over-the-top when she was basically saying she'd rather be doing bigger things...

@nalanan Жыл бұрын

She is so strong to open up about this and good for her for being able to stand up to her abuser in the end. She had to put up with it for way too long. And it's so nice that there's a talk show host that will actually actively listen and not interrupt. However, it's also so messed up that she has to tell Seth "thank you for not making fun of me" on the topic. That says a lot about the feedback she's been getting for probably years now. My heart goes out to her that she can continue to heal and move forward!

@Silfverr Жыл бұрын

@@sterlingboyns4883 lol "read the room"?? How Beta can you be?! LOLOLOLOLOLOL

@AS-rr9km Жыл бұрын

@@Caterpillartears Ayyyyyye. Throw a rock at a woman’s window, I’ll make it my friend instead of those people 😅

@xenophile84 Жыл бұрын

I don't think I've ever seen a guest cry on a comedy talk show like this. It's so brave of her to speak publicly about these painful experiences.

@jasonwallington2121 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Constance. I was falsely accused of plagiarism by a teacher. When the people who you expect to believe in you don’t it can be excruciatingly painful. I’m glad your drama teacher advocated for you.

@ArtemisScribe Жыл бұрын

Me too! My experience was nowhere near as awful as hers but even nearly 2 decades later I still vividly remember the conversation and how hurt and angry it made me.

@tiffanyanderson9437 Жыл бұрын

Same here! I was in grade school & didn’t realize my teacher I couldn’t have possibly have written this one book report. My mother came up to the school to raise hell. Thanks, Mom! I can’t believe Ms. Wu’s teacher was allowed to spread that slander to other staff members. Outrageous.

@villanessa Жыл бұрын

I was too!!

@lakerooster Жыл бұрын

sounds like the actions of an insecure and jealous teacher -- no proof, but "she couldn't possibly have written that" - who says that? immature and egregious, coming from a teacher.

@nikitajohnston9792 Жыл бұрын

I was accused twice, once by my 10th grade English teacher and the second time by one of my first year university professors. Thankfully in both instances I had my research notes and old drafts I had saved to prove that I had in fact written both essays, and both were made to apologize to me by their department heads, for making accusations without doing due diligence of finding proof for their own suspicions. It still was very embarrassing, upsetting and stressful, and made me question whether it was worth working so hard to get those good grades, when many of my peers seemed to be having more fun getting by with Bs and Cs. I am lucky to have supportive parents and other teachers in my life who encouraged my hard work and passion.

@sslall88 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Seth, for being so compassionate. Instead of being scared that a moment might be awkward and try to blow past it, you showed empathy. It’s so nice to see. Your kindness impacts more than the people you are talking to directly, it helps others who have been in similar circumstances feel better. And it’s such a great example to others. Constance, you don’t have to apologize for having or showing emotions. Being able to be vulnerable shows strength. It’s people who can’t handle seeing it for even a moment that have issues. Good for you for being honest and genuine even when it is difficult and painful. I hope writing and sharing is helping you heal.

@333houseoflight Жыл бұрын

Well said

@MB-px7en Жыл бұрын

Omg, she is so clear in her delivery despite being overcome by emotion. I love Constance so much; I'm so sorry to hear this happened on the set of such big show.

@pavilion3064 Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing, to even be able to talk through that amount of pain and then to be so clear, concise, eloquent and to the point still.. just wow. Amazing!

@sonnykong1312 Жыл бұрын

@@pavilion3064 definitely agree

@maximusprime3459 Жыл бұрын

Fake. She cried on cue in every interview.

@mitzebender4679 Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you spoke out, Constance! As someone who was sexually assaulted by an attorney I worked with fresh out of school, I understand exactly what you mean. I didn't want to lose my job. And the attorney even told me no one would believe me and he would make my life and my family's lives miserable because I'd actually punched him in the face (so he said he would bring assault charges against me, etc.). I think it's important to shine a light on this kind of behavior and every time another brave person speaks out, the more abusers fear getting caught. Thanks, Seth, for being an empathetic and supportive listener.

@catlover4319 Жыл бұрын

I am truly sorry that you had to experience that and thank you for sharing your story with us ❤ send you much love that you are in a better place now

@RVCfilm Жыл бұрын

Ugh. That's such an important story because so many people like to believe that sexual harassment is a case of mutual misunderstanding -- when in fact many harassers do a very careful calculation, picking targets that nobody will believe, at points when they are vulnerable in their careers or vulnerable financially. And then of course when victims do come forward, they are accused of wanting money and not being trustworthy precisely because they are in vulnerable position. (And if they come forward in a book, they are accused of just wanting to sell copies of their book.) I am sorry that happened to you.

@lynnebucher6537 Жыл бұрын

@@RVCfilm you're so correct about how abusers operate. It's not a random accident when an abuser selects their target, other than the uncommon case where the guy is totally high and half out of his mind. They look for vulnerability and the least chance of repercussion for their behavior.

@mewesquirrel6720 Жыл бұрын

You punched him? In self defense? Unfortunately we can't use that either 🙄

@advocacynaccountablity Жыл бұрын

Thank you *so much* Constance. Super important to talk about this. Sexual harassment is about control. It's about intimidation and it permeates everything in the environment that we experience it in - and for many of us that's our careers. It holds us back. It alienates us. It tells us we had better watch our backs. It tells us we're not safe. It's VERY appropriate to cry about this. And it's not fair that we have been made to.

@blackbird5634 Жыл бұрын

So glad she wrote about her abuse and working through it. She's strong and smart and aware and obviously someone to keep an eye on in the future as an influence.

@micahsnow346 Жыл бұрын

Can I just say that Seth handled this with a lot of grace and compassion. He saw that she needed a moment and sent us to commercial so Constance could gather herself.

@harriet.z Жыл бұрын

As a young woman who has to navigate this adult world by herself a lot, I felt so seen. Everything she shared was so genuine and resonated with me. Never understood the hate she got. I applaud her. It’s so cathartic for me. I feel so vindicated on her behalf.

@quyen8059 Жыл бұрын

So compassionate for Seth to bring this up and I feel so much for Constance in this situation, she’s so strong and sending so much love to her

@SupaTang Жыл бұрын

This is such a powerful interview. 👏🏾 Constance...thank you for sharing.

@frauwu1900 Жыл бұрын

I like how Seth put his hand on the edge of his desk and offered the possibility of comforting touch but left the initiative/decision to her. That was handled well considering the context. Also he didn't address her crying and calmly listened to what she had to say. That's what I wish for whenever I get overwhelmed by my emotions while talking about something important to me.

@iamsherlocked345 Жыл бұрын

When I told someone about being drugged and sexually assaulted that person was very much like this … he listened to me and it’s why I liked him.

@frauwu1900 Жыл бұрын

@@iamsherlocked345 I'm glad you had someone like this to listen to you. Hope you are well!

@iamsherlocked345 Жыл бұрын

@@frauwu1900 it made me like my guy more he respected my wish of no fake pity ( my furious anger at finally realizing I’d been drugged didn’t scare him away). Because of him I am seeing a therapist now and have dealt with my anger at he who I don’t name… I say a voodoo doll is too good for him. It’s a process and that feeling of uneasiness is something I’m not used to… so I take everything day by day because it’s how I manage my ptsd/anxiety.

@dorkiecookie Жыл бұрын

@@iamsherlocked345 I am glad to hear that you are going to therapy and had someone who listened to you and got you the help you needed. That’s a true friend! Of course things will get better, but sometimes we just need one person who believe in you to turn our life around.

@iamsherlocked345 Жыл бұрын

@@dorkiecookie honestly deciding to talk about what happened to me was a turning point. I never thought not remembering something would still mean you still know something did happen.

@siiiiiuu7 Жыл бұрын

When she cried, I cried with her. So many of us, woman, man or child, have been through situations that we decide to "take to the grave" because it's easier to. It's hard being crucified for something you did as an act of self-protection. Despite some of the vile responses I've seen on other platforms, I'm so proud of her and hope she focuses on all the positive support. Also a huge fan of her work.

@jestempies Жыл бұрын

Good for you for opening up. Those things need to be talked about and we need to stop them happening.

@advocacynaccountablity Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@zachcouch8654 Жыл бұрын

Talks about it when she is trying to sell a book.

@sadlystuckinreality Жыл бұрын

Seth, I am so glad your guests feel comfortable enough with you to open up like this. I am constantly reminded of reasons why you're my favorite talk show host.

@sg3428 Жыл бұрын

That’s difficult thing to open up about no matter how many years has passed

@brianwalsh1401 Жыл бұрын

The worse thing is keeping it to yourself which is what most people do which eats people up on the inside and poisons their life.

@OhSkyeLanta Жыл бұрын

Between this and “Jokes Seth Cannot Tell [so let’s bring in people who can]” I’m reminded of why Seth is one of my favorite late night hosts ❤❤❤

@DanielTsosie Жыл бұрын

Wow. You can tell she has been holding that pain in for awhile. It's ok to have feelings, you are human.

@drebugsita Жыл бұрын

I am now a die-hard fan of hers! Every word she said was totally relatable - if someone does something out of character it really is worth getting curious, because it usually does indicate that something is going on. We are so quick to judge. It is so hard to witness your abuser going about like they are some stellar person. I've lived this with my narc mom. But whatever the scenario, it is re-traumatizing not to be believed. So grateful for her message. And crying is healing! There is no reason to be ashamed for it

@susannehuber3996 Жыл бұрын

I’m soooooo glad that we are finally allowed to speak about our abuse. 😢 it’s still horrible but not talking about it hurts even more.

@aazh9869 Жыл бұрын

Omg i didn’t think I could love Constance or Seth more than I already did, but I do after this video. Thank you to both for this interview ❤

@mmw5022 Жыл бұрын

I love when Seth leans into Constance after she shared her Truth, he is such a sensitive and caring person.

@penelopenem Жыл бұрын

Constance, thank you for writing and sharing. From recognizing the beauty of a mentor standing up for you as a kid, to sharing your emotions about the abuse you endured- you are a total CLASS ACT. ❤

@JanetArogundade Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy she was able to open up like this

@prenks23 Жыл бұрын

Hearing Constance share her story, I could swear she was telling my own. I'm humbled by her courage to be so open and vulnerable in that moment. And I am so, so glad to know she is no longer in that situation. Seth, when you told Constance that when you go to work, it's the work that should be hard, and that it was unfair for her to have to carry that additional burden... it was like something inside me finally clicked back in to place. Thank you. I've been waiting over a decade for someone to say those words.

@xochic4256 Жыл бұрын

Omg, her talking about trying to move on without confronting that trauma and those feelings catching up to you sooner or later made me become a waterfall because I am literally going through those feelings catching up at this very moment and having to confront them, it is very important to get help, she is so brave, kudos to her

@mgg5418 Жыл бұрын

I love how Seth is reaching out to her across the desk to show he’s supporting her. It was hard for her to carry this alone for so long, good for her that she can talk about it now and not carry this in secret anymore. It doesn’t make everything right but at least it makes the burden a little lighter to share it with others.

@HaiFisch_TV Жыл бұрын

Class act as always there Seth! Well handled.! And thank you Constance, you are the strength we need displayed

@clkou Жыл бұрын

Wow, after reading Jennette McCurdy's biography and now this, it's pretty depressing to see how wide spread this kind of behavior is but kudos to both of them for working through it in a positive manner. 👍 Hopefully these stories encourage others in similar situations to do the same.

@tiararoxeanne1318 Жыл бұрын

Jenette McCurdy, Elizabeth Giles, and so many others had it worse, way worse than what they were dare to say in a book. Not to diminish what Constance Wu has experienced, but a lot of (ex)-child stars have experienced worse sexual abuse since they were young, with their parents look at the other way...

@maximusprime3459 Жыл бұрын

I believe Jenette over this bed wench any day. Gillies married a much older man proving grooming was in there somewhere along the way...

@seand6576 Жыл бұрын

I'm very proud of Constance speaking up and coming forward with this abuse. People need to know how difficult of a position this is with the tremendous public pressure to stay silent. The abused are filled with fear of retribution with how we see victim blaming done today. You have my full support.

@LeenaHou Жыл бұрын

I just burst out in tears.. Things that she said is too familiar. Thank you constance for sharing this story and thanks to seth for being kind and makes her feels safe and heard

@merhipsyhealing9467 Жыл бұрын

She's so brave and her vulnerability is STUNNING!

@seidenschnabelfederflugel5441 Жыл бұрын

Dont be sorry for crying! You have every right to cry. I'm sending my hugs and love. ♥️♥️♥️ Thankyou for sharing your story. I'm very sorry that happend to you. I know how this feels.

@detailsmove Жыл бұрын

the way Meyers handled this moment is world-class. I'm glad to hear Constance clear up the situation and I'm excited to see where her career goes moving forward, been a fan since FOTB

@jamesafenton Жыл бұрын

Curiosity and empathy before judgement. Yes! Love this lady

@Therealmegalollie Жыл бұрын

I’m so proud of her!! ❤ those tears are nothing to apologize for!

@terrygigliovoss9635 Жыл бұрын

He was so sensitive to her. He should be do more supportive moments for people in pain.

@phoebesmith9089 Жыл бұрын

Seth did handle that well… like a loving, compassionate friend and man should. It’s sad that she feels like she needs to apologize for her feelings. But I get her. I get her well.

@VieenRennes Жыл бұрын

She is strong and courageous. Those are tears of bravery honestly.

@thesmileyeffect Жыл бұрын

I love Seth even more for how compassionate he was with her in this moment.

@desireeespinosa3954 Жыл бұрын

What a brave and wonderful young woman

@mamacito1795 Жыл бұрын

Wow I remember the hate this lady got and infact when I saw who it was I was like "isn't she supposed to be stuck up and ungrateful". She's exactly right, you don't know what's happening behind the scenes. So glad this didn't tarnish her career as it did with so many others. Her continued success is the best revenge on that slimeball

@PokerPillar Жыл бұрын

We love you, Constance. Those are tears of bravery.

@babaayman9658 Жыл бұрын

Ms. Constance Wu You don’t need to apologize, and thank you

@lNoWayAroundItl Жыл бұрын

I feel so much for Constance. She is amazing. I also feel embarrassed if I ever cry in from of others, even when fighting it it comes out. It should be nothing to be ashamed of but still feels like loosing control.

@doublefeature Жыл бұрын

really moving interview. sucks that she felt the need to apologize so much because emotions are nothing to apologize for, they are valid no matter where you are. i'm glad this was on seths show because he's just so genuine he made it comfortable.

@Marie-jz1qw Жыл бұрын

I don't know her personally but I am so proud of her for standing up for herself. Thank you Constance for sharing and for your bravery

@ririko8128 Жыл бұрын

As a fellow victim I can see that it is still too fresh to her to talk about it, that's why the crying and the "sorry for crying". Once you've been sort of free of the abuse/abuser and It doesn't hold you so much, you know It's okay to cry, to be serious, to make fun or light of anything kinda related to it... I wish her so well, she's in a path to light, power and just overall good in her life 🖤

@stefoehmen Жыл бұрын

I teared up too. Over both stories ❤

@blahblahpocalyspe8323 Жыл бұрын

Her character in Fresh off the Boat was my favorite and this whole time I'm laughing this woman was suffering.

@zorby6286 Жыл бұрын

She was fantastic on Fresh Off the Boat. I'm so impressed by her not bowing down to external pressure. Anybody with a soul can see that she's speaking the truth.

@classictalkies Жыл бұрын

Man, Constance is amazing. She didn’t have to share her personal trauma, but I hope it is healing to her, and helpful to so many others who have been in the same circumstances. ❤

@petiteetoile8376 Жыл бұрын

She is so strong. Seth handled this very well

@YawaruSan Жыл бұрын

Good for Constance on opening up about her past, and kudos to Seth for being supportive there. It’s a sensitive issue but it needs to be addressed publicly so victims don’t have to shoulder the burden alone.

@soffiegirl1027 Жыл бұрын

The fact that it’s so closely beneath the surface that easily is brought to tears in just talking around it and not even in detail, demonstrates not only how traumatic it was for, but how vulnerable she feels in sharing it. She’s was incredibly brave to share it and I hope it helps to embolden victims to address their trauma too. 💙

@vickytrue8142 Жыл бұрын

I am happy that Constance Wu is letting it all out, sharing what she was not obligation to share , sometimes that is the best thing we can do, really love the way Seth conducts hard topics for his gests, it amazed me how he can be funny and kind at the same time.💕💕💕

@85jacob85 Жыл бұрын

My teachers hated me too. Nice to hear you had a good one.

@spiceyhotpot Жыл бұрын

Good for her to come out with it, she was awesome in FotB.

@rubentrevino5374 Жыл бұрын

Constance Wu is my girl! Very powerful interview, well said part at the end about showing empathy.

@seerpou Жыл бұрын

she shouldn't have had to apologise for crying which is so natural having just spoken about your trauma and abuse in front of the world.

@aaronpeart Жыл бұрын

This interview is terrific. She’s great, super honest and fun (heard of her but never saw her work), Seth is friendly, fun, and still respectful. In about 6 minutes.

@miguelurdaci7884 Жыл бұрын

She's just so freakin' real, if that's a thing. A breath of fresh air. How she deals with the dark stuff is just amazing. Some people just have a special light.

@egrace3738 Жыл бұрын

Seth. Your compassionate support of Constance is a perfect example of exactly HOW to actively listen and respond to others. 🙌

@lalah9481 Жыл бұрын

Tears are earned, no need to be sorry for having or feeling emotions. Very powerful words Ms. Constance. Your strength and empathy are inspiring. I felt every one of those tears. Thank you for sharing your experience, I feel a little less alone. Seth, as always, a gentleman, a gentle man, genuine, funny, and a scholar of life. Empathy is taught, we are not born with this skill. I am so thankful Seth has set the bar so high! Thank you.

@spameranne Жыл бұрын

watching this next morning and really moved in a lot of ways. it's so unfair how there's this societal expectation for people to somehow just not be hurt by terrible things, and that the worst thing to do is to cry. Constance, if you're seeing this, thank you for being brave and speaking up about what happened to you. You never deserved that kind of treatment. I wish you happiness and healing. Seth....wow, thank you for demonstrating some seriously non-shitty behavior in response, you have no idea how rare that level of humanity can be.

@lancemadrid Жыл бұрын

She’s my hero . I’m so grateful for her vulnerable and powerful sharing. The message must be heard

@sarak3995 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love Constance Wu for being so brave, and I also LOVE Seth Meyers for being the most empathetic and compassionate host. Him reaching toward Constance is such a sign of genuine compassion for someone that has gone through pain. Like Constance said, “we engage in curiosity and empathy before going straight to judgement”, so well said.

@geegeezlouis86 Жыл бұрын

As a big fan of her and FOTB, I feel terrible that I just thought she was sick of the show itself and expressed it tactlessly. She's so right that if someone's acting out of character, you should think about why instead of rushing to the worst conclusion.

@ellekay4758 Жыл бұрын

She’s such a star, in every way ❤️ thank you Seth, for holding space so wonderfully!

@eshna2012 Жыл бұрын

She’s a wonderful actor, I’m glad she’s back!❤

@Msferedrose Жыл бұрын

Oh Constance ❤️ thank you Seth and team for letting Constance share this in all of its uncomfortable truth. This made me cry and feel so angry at the same time.

@halimaomar9820 Жыл бұрын

I wish I could give her hug. I feel her pain deeply. The amount of times she said sorry...like she reminds me of me during a similarly dark chapter in my life.

@JordiVanderwaal Жыл бұрын

I felt so bad about her feeling bad. :( Back when this whole Twitter drama happened I understood the point she was trying to make (when she said she didn't want to stay in the same role for so long and that she wanted to be able to work on other projects). But hearing the real reason she didn't want to continue there, just hurts. Fresh Off The Boat was such a good show and Jessica was such an amazing character. It's sad thinking she was having an awful time on set.

@CoryJones-yc9ie Жыл бұрын

Protect her at all absolute costs. Seth handled that really well - empathy and compassion for someone experiencing something very real.

@sneetchyone Жыл бұрын

She didn’t deserve what she went through. It’s so brave she’s being so vulnerable - it must be scary for her. She deserves all the love now. 💜💜💜

@sambathehusqueen9909 Жыл бұрын

My middle school english teacher would make me rewrite essays in class, cuz she didnt believe i could write so well (i spent my childhood living part time in mexico, and had just moved back when i started at this new school). It was traumatic, and ive struggled with writers block ever since. The few things i manage to get to papert are still great though 😊

@Woosaidthat Жыл бұрын

Keep writing! Conquer this and get published!

@UmbraIzas Жыл бұрын

Man Constance is such a strong spirit she survived this and all the hate from being in Crazy Rich Asians. She's so amazing for surviving and continuing her acting career when many would quit.

@StargazingDragon Жыл бұрын

What a really honest and beautiful interview. She's incredibly brave for writing about it and I hope this helps her heal more than reopening old wounds ♥️

@TheATLgirl1234 Жыл бұрын

Cannot WAIT to read her book! What powerful stories. I’m so glad she found her voice; the courage she has displayed is just astounding. Just ordered it!

@rosevinet873 Жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of her we need this out in the open. She's amazing and brave!

@availablerandomname Жыл бұрын

Constance is such an amazing person.

@kyougurlie57 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing!! It makes people like me feel ok with crying when you’re filled with emotions. It’s 100% ok!

@ebybeehoney Жыл бұрын

That's a bad teacher! What the heck?! Standing up to that abuser and rising above it all shows such strength.

@randalllaue4042 Жыл бұрын

On other shows she said that teacher blew off her behavior.

@loveshine7819 Жыл бұрын

Give her a tissue, Seth!!! 😭🤧

@Jah_LEASE_yah Жыл бұрын

God bless her! it breaks my heart how many times she apologizes just for crying. Girls feel how you feel! There is no shame in vulnerability and being honest with yourself and others about what you're feeling. There is only power and healing.

@vinttint Жыл бұрын

She's so brave and beautiful in her vulnerability and her honesty with how uncomfortable vulnerability can be when you're accustomed to not only the 'grin and bear it' mask that is expected of women, but also the 'tough it out' energy that BIPOC are expected to perform. I adore Constance Wu and wish her a lifetime of personally satisfying and validating work.