Coping With Uncertainty

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4 жыл бұрын

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The world is an uncertain place. Things change fast, and it can be difficult to see what's coming next.
But with the right approach, you can make things easier for yourself, learn to be comfortable with uncertainty, and be prepared for whatever the future brings.
Here are six simple strategies for coping when things get messy.
Fear is a natural reaction to uncertainty, but you can't let it rule you.
Worrying about the future is pointless. So don't ask, "What if?" Ask, "What will I do if?"
Knowing how you will react if things do go badly takes a lot of the sting out of the worry. Feeling out of control can be scary.
So, instead of fretting about the things you can't affect, focus on the things you can. Work out what you can do, and do it.
You'll probably feel better for knowing you're doing something useful. Plan for various possibilities, not just the outcome you think is most likely.
Build in contingencies so that, whatever happens, you're in a solid position to deal with whatever comes next. Being agile means you're able to respond quickly to differing needs or adapt to changing circumstances.
Think about developing new skills, which would not only make you more valuable, but give you new career options too.
At the same time, be alert. Stay on top of changes that could affect you and your business. The sooner you know about something, the quicker you can react!
Uncertainty can cause anxiety and stress, which can damage your health and get you stuck in a vicious circle. Exercise helps clear stress hormones from your body, while meditation and mindfulness can help you relax and reduce anxiety.
Talking to someone you trust can also help you find perspective - a problem shared is a problem halved.
One of the greatest causes of unhappiness and stress in uncertain times can be comparing how we think things "should" be with how they are.
But ask yourself, "According to whom?" Often, the answer is "nobody." It's always good to have goals, but make them your aspirations, not your expectations.
If you can accept uncertainty for what it is, prepare yourself for various outcomes, address your worries head-on, and manage your personal stress levels, you'll cope much better in "interesting" times.
And, hopefully, put yourself in a position to deal with whatever comes your way.

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@celeb_lounge
@celeb_lounge Жыл бұрын
Your goals should be your aspirations not expectations Very well said
@careerrebels
@careerrebels 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful way of explaining such a complex issue
@olgastarobinskaya9011
@olgastarobinskaya9011 3 жыл бұрын
i agree
@chrismarklowitz1001
@chrismarklowitz1001 2 жыл бұрын
0:37 Face the fear 0:58 Focus on what you can control 1:22 Mitigating the risks 1:41 Be agile and alert 2:12 Take care of yourself 2:43 Manage your expectations 3:09 Concluding statement Wonderful video thank you for putting such helpful content out there. The only thing I would ask is what order should I try to do these in
@MindToolsVids
@MindToolsVids 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Chris, we suggest trying them in the order that they appear in the video. Let us know if these strategies help you!
@_Neutralizer
@_Neutralizer 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this is very helpful. Lately, I've been worrying about my future almost all the time and it made me feel anxious
@MindToolsVids
@MindToolsVids 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped! This year has been full of uncertainties and it can be hard to stay positive about the future. When you need to manage your anxious thoughts, you may find our article on Dealing With Anxiety useful: www.mindtools.com/pages/article/dealing-with-anxiety.htm Let us know if it helps!
@fluffy6299AJ
@fluffy6299AJ 4 жыл бұрын
Anybody else extremely uncertain about everything during quarantine??
@ryanfresh8521
@ryanfresh8521 4 жыл бұрын
Even when we're at phase 3. I'm still badly shaken from 3 months of quarantine.
@stefanadamek367
@stefanadamek367 3 жыл бұрын
YES.
@user-ct2hu8js8j
@user-ct2hu8js8j 3 жыл бұрын
It's getting better.
@Adixon5
@Adixon5 3 жыл бұрын
11 months later.... yes!!!!
@AirisuSG
@AirisuSG 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video and I feel calm already. Thank you.
@chhandashreedua2079
@chhandashreedua2079 3 жыл бұрын
such a refreshing style!
@mhdfrb9971
@mhdfrb9971 10 ай бұрын
This is literally what Stoicism is all about
@arnotown6874
@arnotown6874 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for this!
@zaferonder80
@zaferonder80 Жыл бұрын
Love it.. Thanks very much.
@hei_zart5690
@hei_zart5690 3 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly helpful.
@Kristiana-mb9lk
@Kristiana-mb9lk 3 жыл бұрын
This video put a smile on my face, not sure who I could talk too, exercise I’m must look at that once more and give it ago again! 😊 🙄 tie up lose ends.
@Metaphyical0samak
@Metaphyical0samak 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@nidhikmth
@nidhikmth 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much, I needed this. :) It is so well explained and funny ! I feel much better
@AMANKUMARSINGH-yp1qz
@AMANKUMARSINGH-yp1qz 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊💛
@cccsss123
@cccsss123 2 жыл бұрын
This is actually a very useful and important video for traders..
@sk61181
@sk61181 3 жыл бұрын
It's an amazing effort, this video. Most suffer into years or decades before even arising to the thought that uncertainty can be coped with and even if they do, the lifelong burnout leaves little hope & energy to put up against it.
@dolce.luna08
@dolce.luna08 3 жыл бұрын
Me
@MyLegsAreKindaLong
@MyLegsAreKindaLong 2 жыл бұрын
very useful, thanks
@etherioussanjudraganeel3163
@etherioussanjudraganeel3163 3 жыл бұрын
Great video and explanation
@freeguy3751
@freeguy3751 2 жыл бұрын
That stick figure guy is funny!
@shifinshaji8888
@shifinshaji8888 3 жыл бұрын
True in stock trading 👍
@DuhaMohammad
@DuhaMohammad Жыл бұрын
The last strategy 👌
@muskduh
@muskduh 11 ай бұрын
Thanks
@YBCause
@YBCause Жыл бұрын
I’m going to spend the evening with someone awesome and I don’t know if it’s a date or not. The video actually helped me haha
@TheExplosion
@TheExplosion Жыл бұрын
How did it go
@rithistewartx5908
@rithistewartx5908 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video ❤️
@lucila5466
@lucila5466 3 жыл бұрын
1:36 my approach to relationships lol 😭
@noana9365
@noana9365 3 жыл бұрын
This is adorable! I cant stop laughing
@abdelz1617
@abdelz1617 3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@sabinasyahnahzalaydakissy8115
@sabinasyahnahzalaydakissy8115 Жыл бұрын
menunggu hasil wawancara kerja membuatku merasa sangat cemas, i know the theory but when it comes to act, i feel lack
@bron2645
@bron2645 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@MindToolsVids
@MindToolsVids 3 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@letsgoBrandon204
@letsgoBrandon204 3 жыл бұрын
0:30 - Wait a sec. Where did he put that umbrella?! 😲
@srinp8726
@srinp8726 2 жыл бұрын
preparing for uncertain things means you are afraid of uncertainty. isn't it ?
@joshuacamargo6107
@joshuacamargo6107 3 жыл бұрын
:o
@wizardnotknown
@wizardnotknown Жыл бұрын
Most unhelpful video ever.
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