Cost of Surrogacy - In-Depth Breakdown | Dads to Twins

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The Marzoa Family

The Marzoa Family

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When surrogacy comes to mind, usually the first question asked is, "How much does surrogacy cost?" Well that's exactly what were going to discuss, in grave detail, in this video. Everything from egg donation costs to medications to invitro fertilization (IVF) to attorneys fees to surrogate expenses! Our journey took place in Florida, so these costs will hopefully be beneficial to many wanting to pursue a journey within the United States.
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@MarleneOrtiz562
@MarleneOrtiz562 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh, your video is amazing, Im an ovarian cancer survivor. At age 13 I had a full hysterectomy and now that my fiancé and I are researching surrogacy I never imagined it would be such an emotional journey. I cried so much during this video because it seems sooo unattainable. I hope to be in your shoes one day. Thank you again.
@wiinidiaz
@wiinidiaz 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! What a woman! The hormones, the emotions, the responsibility; can money really buy that? Your babies are truly gifts of 💕 love 💕 to you. Thank you for your honesty and sharing your journey to parenthood. 😊
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
You're right on! She is the most amazing woman we've ever known. No price tag on that! Thank you for your beautiful comment!
@GoBlue79
@GoBlue79 3 жыл бұрын
This level of openness will help a lot of individuals and their dreams. Exclusive and informative presented with lots of fun to soften the blow. I must say that just before the final cost reveal, I had to open a second bottle of bourbon! God bless you and your amazing family.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, David! Definitely tried to soften the blow as much as we could with some comedy because its a soft pill to swallow. Glad that showed. Hope you're not too drunk, haha! 😉 We appreciate all the love! ❤
@Bingeworthy
@Bingeworthy 2 жыл бұрын
I have always said I wanted to do this. Its cool to finally start looking at it and learning about the process even tho im not quite ready today. So thank you guys for sharing this very detailed video and congratulations on your twins 💜💜
@CLance-mo7bo
@CLance-mo7bo 3 жыл бұрын
150,000 is a lot of money 💰, but you got your hearts desire ♥ NOW LOOK AT YOUR FAMILY???? YOU ARE HAPPY, LIKE YOU WON A MILLION, WHICH YOU DID. IF YOU COULD SEE THE SMILE,OR JOY ON YOUR FACES ,WHEN YOU LOOK AND KISS YOUR TWINS .IT IS PRICELESS. ENJOY YOUR JOURNEY. THANKS FOR SHARING.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
They're priceless! This video was made to help others wanting to pursue a surrogacy journey and inquiring on costs, because ultimately there is a cost to it, but our boys are priceless to us.
@laurastadler1905
@laurastadler1905 2 жыл бұрын
I applaud you for this video and your transparency! It’s super insightful and helpful to everyone. Those babies I’m sure were worth every penny!
@melaniecox7816
@melaniecox7816 3 жыл бұрын
So informative guys. Thank you so much for the people who are seeking this for themselves. I have not seen this honest information anywhere until now. God Bless you all.❤
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Just trying to do our part to help others wanting to pursue a surrogacy journey! ❤
@AwesomeSpencer
@AwesomeSpencer 3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate all of your guys’ videos! All are a huge eye opener for so many of us that are researching this process. This vid was so informative! You two are a huge inspiration for us lgbt individuals that want to start a family. Thank you!!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Glad we could share our story to help others wanting to start or plan for a journey of their own! ❤
@grumpyoldlady_rants
@grumpyoldlady_rants 3 жыл бұрын
Holy guacamole!! I had no idea - but then you can’t put a price on having a family. Congratulations, guys!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely priceless to us. Shared to help others wanting to pursue a similar journey. Thank you! ❤️
@Motherkayy
@Motherkayy 2 жыл бұрын
aww I love this 💜 I am about to be a surrogate but interesting to see IP side. You all are a Beautiful family 🥰
@jankinzett5847
@jankinzett5847 3 жыл бұрын
I have never ever seen such contented babies! You are both so dedicated and attentive. You are one of the happiest gay families I have ever seen. You can teach all parents a wonderful lesson on perfect parenting! Love to you all. The twins are blessed! Love to you all
@kimberlysongbirdwallace8605
@kimberlysongbirdwallace8605 3 жыл бұрын
" Bless and highly favored!!" Yes indeed!!....❤it. I was always curious about the process. Wow! Thanks for the info....
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Happy to share! Thank you for your comment! ❤️
@anguse4030
@anguse4030 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing the information with us. They are super important to for because I am also thinking about having a kid/kids of my own. Your movie gave me a direction to work on.
@walliegoolsby5389
@walliegoolsby5389 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree every parent should take the psychological testing. There would be less abuse.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
💯! Should be mandatory!
@jerrseyy1088
@jerrseyy1088 Жыл бұрын
So thorough! Thank you soooo much for the details.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@mahang115137
@mahang115137 3 жыл бұрын
A cpuple of beautiful, amazing boys are priceless. The cost is merely a process and what you got....uh.....way, way beyond the value of money. Looking forward for the next, next phases.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
We couldn't agree more! Just sharing so others can get an idea of what it does cost, should they want to follow our footsteps. Thanks for the love! We appreciate it! ❤
@ciel222
@ciel222 3 жыл бұрын
GREAT info👏👏👏 , it 's something that need to be plan years in advance.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Definitely need to plan years in advance! ❤
@joycekaminski1943
@joycekaminski1943 3 жыл бұрын
They are beautiful boys and you are so lucky to have found such a wonderful surrogate.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! She is godsend. We love her so much! Will forever be grateful to her.
@KeralyHernandez
@KeralyHernandez 3 жыл бұрын
Priceless! ❤️
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely! ❤😘
@tomcouture4441
@tomcouture4441 3 жыл бұрын
They are worth every penny! What beautiful boys and Dads are so nice too!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Best money ever spent. Can't really put a price on it for us but for the sake of the journey, there is a cost. Thanks for all the love, Tom! ❤
@wilsonxx2010
@wilsonxx2010 Жыл бұрын
I'm a single man in my 40s . Seriously looking into it . I live in india . Used to live in Miami . Great video . Very informative.
@dominicjoe9711
@dominicjoe9711 3 жыл бұрын
I am shocked 😱, but parents will do anything for the sweetheart❤️❤️🥰🥰
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah its a high figure and you are right on. So worthwhile for our sweet babies! ❤❤
@jt2844
@jt2844 3 жыл бұрын
Very informative! Thank you for sharing.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Happy to share! Thank you for the feedback!
@cesarmtz4743
@cesarmtz4743 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the information honestly helped me a lot .. gracias 🙏🏽❤️❤️
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! ❤❤
@linavilaa
@linavilaa 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information 🙏
@cindybomeilyn-meetthereyes
@cindybomeilyn-meetthereyes 3 жыл бұрын
Omg we love your videos so much ❤️ My fiancee and I are getting married & starting our fertility journey very soon ☺️ already freaking out but saving as much as we can 💪🏽🙏
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Awww! Congrats to you both! Can't wait to see your journey and share in the love! ❤❤
@cindybomeilyn-meetthereyes
@cindybomeilyn-meetthereyes 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily thank you 😊 we will be definitely sharing it in our KZfaq channel.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
So exciting! Can’t wait to see it! Saludos!
@kimberlyholt2241
@kimberlyholt2241 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all are amazing dads and such a beautiful family!💜💙
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@alexander8272
@alexander8272 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your information 😊
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@jamesgraham9369
@jamesgraham9369 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for the detailed cost structure. Hope to soon have a baby(s) with my partner. Love watching your journey videos. You have a lovely family. Happy Christmas 🎄
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Our pleasure. Happy to help anyone wanting ot pursue a journey. Best of luck to you and your partner! Happy Holidays to you and yours as well! ❤
@GauravKumar-xu6gm
@GauravKumar-xu6gm 7 ай бұрын
You need surrogat Please contact me
@Jagman94
@Jagman94 3 жыл бұрын
I love this!!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@vrajeshparikh4163
@vrajeshparikh4163 2 жыл бұрын
Respect !!
@penguinqueen421
@penguinqueen421 11 ай бұрын
I had to have my uterus removed after the last baby i had. I am now looking into surrogacy to complete our family, this video was so educational and so helpful to me, thank you so very much ❤
@TracyPerkins-dy7fm
@TracyPerkins-dy7fm 8 ай бұрын
Adopt
@penguinqueen421
@penguinqueen421 8 ай бұрын
@@TracyPerkins-dy7fm we are looking into adoption as well but i want more biological children as well so surrogacy is definately in our plans, or uterus transplant surgery. ✌
@kitcath
@kitcath 2 жыл бұрын
I will be doing my 3rd Fet next month. The first two we lost it. :( we talked about surrogacy, but we can't afford it. 😔
@taragetter
@taragetter 10 ай бұрын
As a mom to twins, I think any amount paid to a surrogate would be a bargain- growing two humans is INCREDIBLY taxing. And I had a great pregnancy and birth! Sounds like you planned well as a couple and have been blessed with a wonderful family ❤️
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 10 ай бұрын
Definitely agree. She deserves the whole World in our eyes. It was very taxing on her and we are eternally grateful to her and her family. It was no easy feat. She is part of our family now and will always be. ❤️❤️
@RIVERAFREDDY
@RIVERAFREDDY 2 жыл бұрын
Guys I love the way you both explained the process. Me and my husband want to continue the process one day and we also live in a Florida, I would like to see if you guys can share information about the clinics and resources you both use 🙏🏽 we started the process in California but definitely way more expensive that’s what you’ve expended.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
Write to me on Instagram @daniel.marzoa happy to help!
@RIVERAFREDDY
@RIVERAFREDDY 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily We don’t have instagram :’( but will continue following your stories !! Do you have FB ?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
@@RIVERAFREDDY you can also email us at dads@themarzoafamily.com
@3MTPL
@3MTPL 2 жыл бұрын
Thx for sharing this.For somebody who can afford this budget. its fine. Personnelly i can afford for that but as a humanright activist aswell i think life should be easier for everybody. It shouldnt be a business. Anyways i am happy for both of you. you guys deserved that ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 sending love from Thailand.
@RuReady115
@RuReady115 2 жыл бұрын
U give us all hope
@Atl404sFinest
@Atl404sFinest Жыл бұрын
I love this content! Thank you for your story and breaking down your financial commitment to growing your family 😊
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Happy to share! Glad it was helpful! ❤️
@fernandoalmeida7867
@fernandoalmeida7867 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! You are amazing! Unfortunately, I have to give up this dream!
@mercymercti0zeaz738
@mercymercti0zeaz738 3 жыл бұрын
Aww dont give up bud just keep saving little by little out of every paycheck and after time youll be able to achieve your dream. I know thats not really an issue for me since im so young i have plenty of time to save but others dont have such privilege. Hope evrything works out
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Never give up on your dreams. There are ways around the cost and organizations that can help, including covering many expenses related to surrogacy. Men Having Babies is a great organization that offers grants you can apply for that help with this process. Check them out for more information.
@fernandoalmeida7867
@fernandoalmeida7867 3 жыл бұрын
@@mercymercti0zeaz738 Thank you very much for the encouragement.
@fernandoalmeida7867
@fernandoalmeida7867 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily Thank you very much for the encouragement! I live in Portugal and nothing is easy here. We have already tried adoption, but it takes 8 to 10 years. We are on the waiting list, but it will be difficult. The supports here are non-existent. It remains for me to be happy with families like yours that I accompany. A tight hug
@doc1704
@doc1704 3 жыл бұрын
@@fernandoalmeida7867 .... Awwww... Hug for you buddy. Why do they make adoption so difficult? Prayers for you
@starkersk
@starkersk 3 жыл бұрын
After this video never ever agin think about the money. They are yours and they were wanted loved and perfect xxx
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
It’s never about the money. Video is meant to help others wanting to pursue a journey similar to ours. Our boys are priceless to us. Thank you.
@sam8676
@sam8676 2 жыл бұрын
Also what medical insurance company did you use to provide for your surrogate and was it hard to find?
@frencheskaterencey5690
@frencheskaterencey5690 4 ай бұрын
That's why i like to be a sorrogate mother to help other couple who want to be a parent
@catherinerush1842
@catherinerush1842 2 жыл бұрын
This was helpful
@Pedro-qm1of
@Pedro-qm1of 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@tOnySi
@tOnySi 3 ай бұрын
thank u for this. me and my partners on a journey.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 ай бұрын
Best of luck on your journey!
@isaiah4401
@isaiah4401 3 жыл бұрын
Great video 🤝🤝❤
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🏼
@awaazima7586
@awaazima7586 Жыл бұрын
Wooowwww amazing..... cost money so much...but the twins are healthy,cute , blue eyes and sooooo cute...GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️ AMEEN.
@user-qn1xp5eg4n
@user-qn1xp5eg4n 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful story guys ❤. Question I don’t think you mentioned the name of the clinic, the one you in Boca Raton. Can you please provide the name? Thanks
@brothaonanadventure3573
@brothaonanadventure3573 Жыл бұрын
I feel SICK to my stomach at that price. My god I'm impressed by your commitment to building your family. This is the path my fiancee and I are hoping to take. I should have had a bottle of wine like you said.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
It definitely was not easy and took years of planning and saving and loans, which were still paying, but worth it for the outcome.
@brothaonanadventure3573
@brothaonanadventure3573 Жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily I promise you, it may take a decade (we are 32) but when it's official I'll come back to this comment!
@christopherstewart9654
@christopherstewart9654 9 ай бұрын
Hello my wife and I have just started our journey and are on the egg bank selection portion. When I see the amount y’all had spent that seems to also fit our budget cost. For that price was it a single lot of eggs? I see a lot that only offer a multiple lot plans, and we would like to know if one could also work. Thank you and congratulations on your boys it’s truly such a blessing!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 8 ай бұрын
Im not sure how to answer your question. We used an egg donor and did one retrieval from her. We paid for all the eggs for ourselves to increase our odds. It was a fresh donation, not from a frozen egg bank. The more eggs you can get, the better your odds are of success. I’m not familiar with single lot and multiple lot but whichever gives you the most would be the best option. Hope that helps!
@KevTheImpaler
@KevTheImpaler 5 ай бұрын
I went the Eastern European route, which is much cheaper (about a third of the price). However, what I had not reckoned on was how much I would have to pay British lawyers to get him home and to get a parental order. That will cost another £30,000. An unjustified and extortionate expense IMO.
@mercymercti0zeaz738
@mercymercti0zeaz738 3 жыл бұрын
Well i know its expensive and ive already done so much research so i do onow that expenses vary. Since i am so young i can be saving now so that i dont have to push so hard when im ready to have kids. But still EVERY SINGLE TIME I HEAR THE PRICE MY HEART!!!! MY CHEAP HEART!!!! IT HURTS!!!! SO BADD!!!!🤣😭
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
What a great thing you are doing! Preparing early so you're not caught off-guard! It's definitely not an easy endeavor to take on! Thanks for the love! ❤
@rozzieawori6414
@rozzieawori6414 3 жыл бұрын
wow that is EXPENSIVE !!!!! But those babies are sooooooooooooooooooooooo cute
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Worth every penny! ❤ Thank you!
@marilucemartinsfernandes5767
@marilucemartinsfernandes5767 3 жыл бұрын
traduz em português os vidios de voçes pelo menos nas escritas adoro os vidios de voçes
@Kickinitwithd18
@Kickinitwithd18 10 ай бұрын
Hello I’m in Florida and I wanted to know what agency did you guys use? I’ve heard horror stories about the risks of surrogacy, but you guy’s success gives me hope.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 10 ай бұрын
We used Family Formers in Florida.
@GauravKumar-xu6gm
@GauravKumar-xu6gm 7 ай бұрын
You need surrogat Please contact me
@user-tf9xw1ij2b
@user-tf9xw1ij2b 3 жыл бұрын
Прекрасные дети, хорошие родители! Привет из России!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Hello right back to you! Thank you!
@PhucTran-cl6mt
@PhucTran-cl6mt 2 жыл бұрын
Thank for your amazing informations. Can we know about historical medical record, education, and appearance of egg donors?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, they provided us with all that information about our donor and much more as well. We knew a lot about her family and their medical history and appearance as well (height, weight, eye color, hair color, occupation, etc.).
@marilucemartinsfernandes5767
@marilucemartinsfernandes5767 3 жыл бұрын
assisto todos do início por isso o apelo em português
@fashionlavender4573
@fashionlavender4573 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video. Please which agency did you use?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Family Formers in Palm Beach was our agency.
@burthuffman2802
@burthuffman2802 3 жыл бұрын
OMG! There are 4 lucky boys in your household and all good looking!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@MarthaLopez-ft7ti
@MarthaLopez-ft7ti 3 жыл бұрын
Mucho $ , pero tienen unos niños hermososss, y uds son unos excelentes padres😍😍💕🙏
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Muchas gracias! Nuestros hijos no tienen precio. Este video es solo para ayudar a otros que desean emprender un proceso similar al de nosotros! Gracias por su cariño y apoyo! ❤❤
@Will-pz2fw
@Will-pz2fw 4 ай бұрын
Would you guys mind sharing which agency you guys worked with through your journey? Thanks a lot!❤
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Agency is Family Formers in Florida., our home state.
@LILROMANXD
@LILROMANXD Жыл бұрын
For people panicking you need to understand that this should inspire you to have good credit because of good credit you can get loans and you won’t have to pay this out-of-pocket, so what can your credit go to college?be successful and have a credit I just overall just have a credit because w good credit you can get loans and what have you and you won’t have to pay all the stuff. Just a word of advice …
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Yes! Credit is very important to upkeep and maintain becuase without it, we would not have our children! You are 100% correct! :)
@tyrikferron339
@tyrikferron339 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this. i must start working overtime now lol.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453 Жыл бұрын
I hope you guys wrote it off on your taxes!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
You can't write-off surrogacy in your taxes. Not possible.
@asmindavarela7582
@asmindavarela7582 2 жыл бұрын
I have a few questions hopefully they can get answered My sister is willing to carry my baby if I’m not able to but I want to use my egg and my husband’s sperm with that said is the process more expensive or less as well do I have to pay everything up front or dose is it by payment methods if possible
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
I would say it’s a little less expensive if your sister is carrying. A lot is upfront but in steps.
@martinarobinson2732
@martinarobinson2732 2 жыл бұрын
My wife and I wanted to transfer two eggs into our surrogate, one from me and the other from her. Is this what you guys did to achieve twins?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s exactly what we did. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@catylopez219
@catylopez219 3 жыл бұрын
Por favor me encantan, no hablo inglés, y no se pueden traducir sus videos me ayudan????
@lyn3078
@lyn3078 Жыл бұрын
just got to say WOW
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s insane, we know. ❤️
@mcoychua11112011
@mcoychua11112011 11 ай бұрын
Hi there this video is so helpful!!! Me and my husband are actually discussing about the cost now. And this sets an expectation. Thank You!!! I have question tho, i wanted to ask things for clarification. Not sure if i understand it correctly, so you two where the sperm donors right, like 1 of each and then 1 egg donor. Form 2 embryos with each of y’alls sperm and injected to 1 surrogate only? When i ask our agency they said they cannot do that it has to be 2 different surrogate. So it is possible to have 1 surrogate carrying the twins?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 11 ай бұрын
Yes, that is exactly how we did it. One egg donor, we are both the sperm donors, using one surrogate. Not all clinics will follow through with this because there is always a small chance of a split and you can end up with triplets or quadruplets if they both split. Multiple births are also more risky and increase your chances of a NICU stay, which happened to us. Our hospital bill was about $150k, so make sure you have good insurance to cover all, if not most of this. Hope that was helpful!
@mcoychua11112011
@mcoychua11112011 11 ай бұрын
Got it this was helpful. Did they explain those risk before you guys decided to have 1 surrogate for both?
@mcoychua11112011
@mcoychua11112011 11 ай бұрын
Also last question was your surrogate a known friend or from the agency as well. Thaaaanks again and more power to your fam!
@aaroncooper1147
@aaroncooper1147 2 жыл бұрын
Did you guys have to pay all of that upfront or do they give you some time
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
You have to have all the money ready to go but you can separate the earlier parts until you do. For instance, you can do the egg retrieval and freeze embryos me then take a break and wait for the surrogacy component, but for the most part, you need all the money ready for a smooth process. You pay as the process proceeds so it’s not all upfront but you’ll be paying every week or two as required. There will be a payment schedule to be followed via an escrow company.
@tenzinsonam6408
@tenzinsonam6408 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, did the surrogate use her own insurance for prenatal visits and delivery and you guys paid for her copayment, deductibles etc? Thank you
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
We were able to use her insurance because her policy didn’t have a surrogacy exclusion, which most do, so we lucked out. We did pay all copays for prenatal after IVF clinic and once boys were born they were put on our insurance for NICU stay and we had to pay some of her birth fees as well but we had a primary and secondary policy which covered our boys completely. That NICU bill was more than the entire surrogacy process so it’s worth having good insurance.
@tenzinsonam6408
@tenzinsonam6408 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily I see. Thank you very much.
@thathorrorchick9297
@thathorrorchick9297 Жыл бұрын
I am in Jupiter, FL and I am interested to know what agency you used. I have just been told I am not able to have children (while actively trying for the past year). I feel very very overwhelmed!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
We used Family Formers, which is out of Palm Beach/ Jupiter.
@sam8676
@sam8676 2 жыл бұрын
Hi guys Thanks for a great video, how many cycles did your donor do? Can you explain how much it would have been if you had to do multiple transfers with multiple embryos?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
It all worked out for us on first and only cycle and first transfer as well. We had three tries with our clinic plan and I believe additional tries would be about $10k as long as we have usable embryos.
@Fernand0Inoa
@Fernand0Inoa 2 жыл бұрын
Parece que mi sueño de ser papa difícilmente se hará realidad con esos precios, con eso compro una casa.
@quincy189
@quincy189 2 жыл бұрын
whats the total cost?
@thefreedommovement
@thefreedommovement Жыл бұрын
I am not an especially healthy person, but I got working lady bits I’m not using. Apart from any medical costs, I wouldn’t want any compensation to give a loving couple the child they’ve always wanted. Got nothing else going on in my life, so if you’re looking for an oven, I got one ;)
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Bless your heart. You are a beautiful soul and we appreciate your offer very much! ❤️
@thefreedommovement
@thefreedommovement Жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily to be honest, it’d be REALLY nice to not get cramps for a few months too… whenever I don’t get my uterus pregnant, it throws a massive hissy fit and hurts like a b :P
@shivkrishnair3702
@shivkrishnair3702 3 жыл бұрын
💟
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@Mac_an_Mheiriceanaigh
@Mac_an_Mheiriceanaigh 3 жыл бұрын
To be honest, was expecting worse!! Not that it isn't still daunting!!!
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely can get much worse if you have multiple failed attempts. We had issues with egg donors but they were during selection process. Had we proceeded with one of those donors, we would have had costly issues. Also, it’s very important to have good health insurance for surrogate and for one of dads at minimum, which will kick in once they’re born. We got hit with over $150k in medical bills but our health insurance and supplemental covered everything minus a few expenses. Best of luck!
@kanegrey7697
@kanegrey7697 2 жыл бұрын
@The Marzoa Family What insurance did you have? So all in all you paid nowhere near 150k?
@candycane9264
@candycane9264 Жыл бұрын
I’ll just wait for the grandkids
@sayeedshakib4502
@sayeedshakib4502 2 жыл бұрын
How much total cost in surrogacy??
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
Total spend is at end of video…
@RuReady115
@RuReady115 2 жыл бұрын
I would hold that over my kid’s head till at least college 🤣
@josephsundaytomiwa
@josephsundaytomiwa Жыл бұрын
I wanna try this, I wanna help a family who's can't make a baby surrogate mothers are a blessing
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
You are amazing and I’m sure will be an incredible blessing for a family! ❤️
@RobertBrown-gr7vh
@RobertBrown-gr7vh 3 ай бұрын
Video Please Please Please Please
@kayc421
@kayc421 3 жыл бұрын
What agency did you guys use for your surrogate?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
Agency is called Family Formers out of Florida.
@kayc421
@kayc421 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily Thank you!
@mm11108
@mm11108 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily Did Family Formers help you with the donor eggs as well? Or you needed to find another angency for donor eggs?
@peterdeng1620
@peterdeng1620 Жыл бұрын
which instituition did you use?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Our agency was Family Formers- if you’d like us to link you in, please let us know. Clinic was boca fertility.
@post1499
@post1499 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to offer surrogacy next year. Thinking no agency would be best for everyone. Just attorney and contract and add water bam.. family.
@jerseyg2291
@jerseyg2291 Жыл бұрын
May I ask how you do it without an agency? Thanks. I plan do surrogacy as well.
@Derekshearer15
@Derekshearer15 Жыл бұрын
What agency did you go with?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
Family Formers is the agency we used. Let us know if you’d like to be connected in with them.
@sweet89190
@sweet89190 2 ай бұрын
You guys could've hired a surrogate in Georgia in Europe. Even though you'd have to fly there, it still would've been more affordable.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 ай бұрын
We wanted someone local to us so we can take part in the entire process and go to clinic and doc appointments and be close enough so we could be attend birth, which we did. Worth every penny in our minds. Everything changes once you leave the country as well. Much more complex for paperwork, citizenship, etc. and that wasn’t what we wanted. :)
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453 Жыл бұрын
do you guys know which of the twins is your baby? i bet as the babies get older, you would know..
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
We have an idea based on how they look, but we haven't done any testing, and its just not something we really need to do. We love them both equally, so it doesn't matter. :)
@avdnbelem5227
@avdnbelem5227 3 жыл бұрын
Bom dia meus amores Denize Belém do Pará bjs
@avdnbelem5227
@avdnbelem5227 3 жыл бұрын
casal lindo aff kkkk
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453
@alexandrachampagnetaylor4453 Жыл бұрын
so the whole process from getting the egg to surrogacy was $150k? or was it just the Surrogacy was 150k?
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily Жыл бұрын
The entire process. Again, this was back in 2019-2020. It has increased a bit from that figure and it all depends on how successful your process is first time around. We know of people who have spent twice that and still don't have a baby, so luck plays into it as well.
@alqiamirzan9590
@alqiamirzan9590 3 жыл бұрын
So, total cost??
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
It's right there in the video! You can also checkout the breakdown on our blog: www.themarzoafamily.com/post/cost-of-surrogacy
@heatherhamilton9777
@heatherhamilton9777 4 ай бұрын
How did you both afford this?! We are trying to start are family and we are going to need an egg donor and gestational carrier. Without taking out a loan we are going to be saving up for years to accomplish this goal.
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 ай бұрын
Hi there! We saved for quite a bit and we did pull the rest from equity in our home. It was the only feasible way without having to wait a century to save it all. We were lucky to have a home we bought early before marriage that had a good amount of equity.
@heatherhamilton9777
@heatherhamilton9777 3 ай бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily You both have a gorgeous family! 💗
@user-so9ix7sj5u
@user-so9ix7sj5u 6 ай бұрын
I would never be able to afford this 😩 we are trying ivf one time if that doesn’t work unfortunately my chances of being a mom are zero .
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 6 ай бұрын
We thought the same exact thing and we made it happen. Hopeful it works out for you. Best of luck.
@paullenardabique2834
@paullenardabique2834 3 жыл бұрын
I want to have my own children thru surrogacy
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 3 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful! Start planning, its a process that takes 2-3 years at a minimum. ❤❤
@Joel-lq5gl
@Joel-lq5gl 11 ай бұрын
I think the dads should get a dollar per spirm😊
@JTBayArea
@JTBayArea 6 ай бұрын
Cost makes me want to 😭
@swampophelia2098
@swampophelia2098 2 жыл бұрын
Are the boys genetically yours or biologically related to each other, they are beautiful babies btw 😊🌈❤️
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, they are. They’re each biologically linked to one of us and to each other through egg donor.
@swampophelia2098
@swampophelia2098 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMarzoaFamily actually can I apologize for that question I posted it then went off about my day but thought about it afterwards and thought damn that was a personal question to ask. Il happily delete it if you would prefer that x
@TheMarzoaFamily
@TheMarzoaFamily 2 жыл бұрын
No it’s ok. We talk about this publicly and have no issue with it at all. It helps others understand the process. :))
@rohannasales2822
@rohannasales2822 2 жыл бұрын
Omg almost 7.5 M in Philippine money
@rohannasales2822
@rohannasales2822 2 жыл бұрын
But totally worth it because of super cute 🥰 babies..they are priceless ❤️❤️❤️
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