Could You Forgive a Cheater?

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Could You Forgive a Cheater?

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Is cheating a forgivable offense? We discuss the fallout from #KevinHart’s cheating allegations. Plus, is “American Idol” eyeing #KimKardashian as a potential judge?
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@BabeyCapricorn 3 жыл бұрын

"As long as he comes home to me" Lord may I never be that woman.

@LunaNovaTarot 2 жыл бұрын

What if your man made the same amount of money as him? And you’re pregnant with his kid? Maybe they have an agreement that he provides her and their soon-to-be child with all the materialistic things they could want , nice house/car/nanny/clothes etc and in return he can see people on the side ? Or maybe it’s just during pregnancy? She seems awfully chill with it to me for it to be a betrayal or a shock to her. I think personally she cares more about the lifestyle she can have with him over actual love at this point. Hell she might even have someone on the side too? We never know what’s going on behind closed doors … especially mansion doors!

@diannaa.62 2 жыл бұрын

@@LunaNovaTarot I do kinda see if u had no way to sustain yourself and ur kid, meaning no college degree, job experience or talent, then yea by all means, even more so if your kid has a disability. That’s the only good reason I can think of to forgive a cheater.

@LunaNovaTarot 2 жыл бұрын

@@diannaa.62 absolutely ! But also in this case it hasn’t actually been verified he definitely cheated (as far as I’m aware) If he had admitted it to her and confessed ESPECIALLY publicly I would be saying run for the hills and don’t look back! But as of that moment she said she thought it was just rumours and gossip

@zayxzayzay8305 2 жыл бұрын

@@LunaNovaTarot If a person is with a somebody just so they can take care of you financially then they're just a gold digger. Also why be married if your not going to respect it? This is why it's important for everybody to always have their own money so they don't have to put up with disrespect for the sake being provided for. Women have to realize they that can make it on their own and not need anybody to do it for them. They have the power and the ability to take care them selves they just have to want to do it.

@bellankhor4187 2 жыл бұрын

Okayyyy

@didntask4793 3 жыл бұрын

Cheating isn’t “ups and downs in a relationship” that’s the END of a relationship. If we agreed to only be with each other and you pulled this, that just shows your intentions.

@Anthony-fu6cl 3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY! If you cheat, the only "up" you might see is that prenup.

@TT.3123 3 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@TT.3123 3 жыл бұрын

@User572 right?! Or health issues. You are so right!

@yourfavoriteoompaloompa139 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly who tf thinks that

@X_scarlet_x1 3 жыл бұрын

@@Anthony-fu6cl “The only “up” you might see is that prenup” that line is so iconic 😂

@FlwrPetalsOnVenus 3 жыл бұрын

9:50 “ok friend of Kim” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Adrienne was NOT feelin that 😭😭😭

@jazziesworld103 2 жыл бұрын

@Travis Lane but Adrienne does it for they status not weather it right or wrong

@TheTruthAintInYa 2 жыл бұрын

Had me rollin

@poz_veto555 2 жыл бұрын

The way Tamera laughed when Loni said “Friend of Kim” 😂

@secretwhispersasmr8259 3 жыл бұрын

This isn't going through hard times together, this is just him putting her through hard times 🤣

@LadyC285 3 жыл бұрын

For real

@TheTruthAintInYa 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@nouunii 2 жыл бұрын

👏🏽🤣

@user07-awubt01 2 жыл бұрын

Say that again!!!!

@MadaraUchihaaXx 2 жыл бұрын

Well, if i was her, forgive him, shut up, and deal with the fame and money he earned ya

@missydomtom 3 жыл бұрын

loni was on fire , to Adrienne: " here we go, friend of kim" !!!! I was not ready!! she made my day!!!! she is telling what every one is thinking!!!

@omphilemoerane2569 3 жыл бұрын

Why does she go so hard them?😂 Where were they and their HUGE social media following when everyone was calling her a homewrecker back in 2016?😂😂

@cookiecookielookies 3 жыл бұрын

@@omphilemoerane2569 ikr. It’s bc of Kim’s social status that Adrienne wants to be good friends with her. Maybe she gets benefits from that 🤷🏻‍♀️

@sos5371 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@leonibrown87 2 жыл бұрын

I’m rolling 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

@deamula4570 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@d.g6059 3 жыл бұрын

No cheating is not a up and down in a relationship it's a deal breaker.

@jessicarobles651 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@AnimatedBlast Жыл бұрын

Why? Who gives a damn 😂

@wenzizikalala7650 3 жыл бұрын

Yo Loni's so mean in this episode but she ain't wrong 😂😂😂🤣had me laughing the whole time

@buhlemnau8341 3 жыл бұрын

she was letting it all out. 😭😭😭🤚🏾

@lisagentles8461 3 жыл бұрын

@Travis Lane hy6

@GalaletsangSeema 3 жыл бұрын

True 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@charrissejohnson5657 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@nav_1050 2 жыл бұрын

Comedy isn’t always nice 😂😂

@ceeare12345 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve never been married (though I’ve had 3 boyfriends who wanted to marry me.) Because I take marriage very seriously. I’m a Christian and if a spouse cheats, you have every right biblically to divorce them! Cheating is an absolute dealbreaker for me. No excuses. I’d rather be alone.

@TT.3123 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!! I’d 100% rather be alone than put up with that.

@santamariadey9817 2 жыл бұрын

True, he might end up infecting you with STDs

@dscjmc6513 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you you think like that I’m w someone who cheated on me and I’m disgusted by myself working on myself currently

@ceeare12345 2 жыл бұрын

@@dscjmc6513 You deserve a faithful partner.

@dscjmc6513 2 жыл бұрын

@@ceeare12345 thank you 🥰

@zandiswatembe13 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly Loni was on a roll this episode😭😂I can’t with her

@yana212 2 жыл бұрын

I know a girl who was cheated on when she was pregnant. She miscarried her child and when they ran test to figure out what was wrong it was determined that she had gonorrhea and it ended the pregnancy. That's how she found out her man was cheating smh

@sarahb426 Жыл бұрын

That is the saddest thing i might have ever heard. This comment alone may cause depression

@rahulhp9890 3 жыл бұрын

Loni had me dying of laughter 😂😂

@victoriahuynh 3 жыл бұрын

the producers of the show are realizing that the original ladies are the reason the show works

@oofx2698 3 жыл бұрын

Once a cheater, always a cheater… I’m not shocked by this behavior by Kevin. Honestly, it’s just disgusting at this point how many times he’s done this and how many allegations there have been. Over👏🏻 him👏🏻

@TheFuronda 2 жыл бұрын

Loni had me wheezing this episode 😭😭😭

@dscjmc6513 2 жыл бұрын

She’s foolish for staying w a cheater but remember sometimes there’s a lot more going on i.e: selfsteem issues, financial issues, personal fears

@evelynmarx6212 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@Thewifelife40 2 жыл бұрын

Loni's Kim K impersonation was fabulous 😂😂😂😂 I loved it cause its very accurate!!!

@tiamarie6997 2 жыл бұрын

Right Loni “friend of Kim”🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣

@jin8640 3 жыл бұрын

the way people stay with someone that cheats on them is beyond me. i don’t get it.

@tanvia.d5331 3 жыл бұрын

Me neither! . I have known a friend whose boyfriend at the time cheated on her multiple times. She still went ahead and married him. Now she has 2 yr old kid with him. I have no idea how she did that!!

@nomthimalunga7880 3 жыл бұрын

@@tanvia.d5331 its CRAZY 😂😂😂

@auramonroe6966 2 жыл бұрын

They DICKmatized 😂😂

@vannah0411 2 жыл бұрын

The crowd was so brutal this episode😂

@sailor6322 2 жыл бұрын

LOOL loni really was on one this episode 🤣🤣 i wish she was like this all the time

@jadaimani4510 3 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOOOO LONI !!! "Friend of Kim!" LMAOOOOO nah no way

@adamsey_mame9043 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad they waited a year to post this episode 🤭😆😃😅😂🤣😭LONIIIIII !!!!! Had me laughing the whole 14:45 straight ‼️‼️

@jens8223 3 жыл бұрын

It's a repost

@eireneomoniyi1184 3 жыл бұрын

That's what I was saying. As soon as she mentioned Freddie I was like but he did cheat on u

@micahm2177 3 жыл бұрын

These hardships are only allowed when it's men that cheat, it's never worth it, leave. Really surprised four women did not pick up on this when Adrienne read that comment out.

@dscjmc6513 2 жыл бұрын

Cheating is not a mistake is a choice. Cheating is a reflection of someone’s character

@nishnish12 2 жыл бұрын

Loni is a straight talker and that's why I love her so.

@simphiwehlatshwayo5007 3 жыл бұрын

I could never forgive cheating, I don't care why or how he did it I have forgiven cheating before and I become toxic towards myself, all I could think of was him cheating, I became so insecure and had a low self-esteem you cheat am out, good-bye

@berylhall2204 3 жыл бұрын

Loni's glam squad really turned up👍👍, she always got her funny on too 😁😁

@MajesticMyronn 3 жыл бұрын

The whole point of American Idol is to have people apart of the judging who have experience in music and are apart of the music industry ! Kim at that time had a HUSBAND who is in music... They could’ve had Kanye on

@deer1843 3 жыл бұрын

They can’t afford Kanye 😭

@mireillem3150 3 жыл бұрын

Loni is a mes and I'm here for it!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Izzylopezz 3 жыл бұрын

HELL NO cheating isn’t a mistake the only mistake you’ll make is losing your wife in the process! Bye dusty

@nkt.11 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@katelyn888 2 жыл бұрын

"Bye, dusty" funniest thing I've read in awhile

@thelovelyone2828 2 жыл бұрын

"dusty" 🤣🤣🤣😆

@jadawashington1234 2 жыл бұрын

LMAOOOO

@lisamoonstrike5613 3 жыл бұрын

SMH... LONI, LONI, LONI🤦🏾‍♀️...🤣🤣🤣🤣

@snoopz2 3 жыл бұрын

Business woman or not, she has no business judging people with actual talent, Kim is nice and all, but hell nah, why not get people who actually sing for a living, do the judging.

@itumelengthokwane5096 2 жыл бұрын

I think she'd make a good judge tbh

@dalatuy104 2 жыл бұрын

If u have a good ear for music without having been a singer or in the music industry I still think u could do it. Sure there might not be much constructive criticism when it comes to vocal techniques and how to adjust ur vocal muscles according to each songs but ppl who love music could still hear what's good and what isn't I would think u know.

@emekaemmanuel5258 2 жыл бұрын

Loni is my spirit animal 🤣🤣

@drtash21 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah women tolerate cheating WAY too much. A guy would NEVER take a woman back knowing there was another guy making his woman wet like the ocean. He wouldn't be able to take it. The relationship would instantly be over. But you women, you'll take him back fifty-leven times because you love him and "it's what men do". My dad has never cheated on my mom in the 40+ years they've been married. Maybe that's why I have a zero tolerance for it. It's too normalised today, esp. by women.

@thelovelyone2828 2 жыл бұрын

I agree. The first time he cheats, it's over, he's out, he can pack his bags. If you take him back, you're giving him the ok that he can do it again and you'll still stay. I've never understood why people take cheaters back

@Kspachannel 2 жыл бұрын

So true and a lot of women just by saying that that’s what men do teach their daughters to stay through things like that

@Selbeauty04 2 жыл бұрын

I could never take back a cheater. I don’t care about the “never say never.” I Simply will not. To me if I carried our children for 9 months, changes to my body, depression, postpartum. On top of that falling back with my career being a mother. All of that just to get cheated on is a no for me. I wouldn’t be able to sleep & everytime I look at him I couldn’t forget it. I can’t imagine having to live the rest of my life visioning him with another women. Truth is if the women cheated most men would say hell nah & walk away. I think ppl look at women like we naturally forgive, hell nah 🤣.

@zayxzayzay8305 2 жыл бұрын

Tamera and loni were the only ones keeping it real.

@isabellejoseph3387 2 жыл бұрын

I loveeeeee when Loni talks lmfaoooo

@jens8223 3 жыл бұрын

If it would've been the other way around and she was caught with a dude, I promise you he wouldn't be walking beside her

@tashawilliams8093 3 жыл бұрын

Of course not.

@MajesticMyronn 3 жыл бұрын

I think as a man the idea of having to come forward because you HAD to... let alone shows me where your morals are... the best way to not be in a situation like this... is to NOT CHEAT ! Period point blank ! As much as I do like Kevin and his stand up that kind of reckless rhetoric and pattern can truly rub off and set a tone where his kids may either look at him as a role model and either follow after him or resent him for cheating on their mother !!

@jadesmith7983 3 жыл бұрын

Very true!

@nabrna3663 3 жыл бұрын

THIS!

@ratitrajectory6664 2 жыл бұрын

Some girls stay with a cheater cos they are so "in love" or have children with them or are financially dependent on man. But seriously cheating is a deal-breaker. The person consciously choose to cheat on you knowing that it would disrespect and hurt you. Love these girls:)

@brandenj7038 2 жыл бұрын

Insecure women financially and emotionally find reasons to stay...be strong women....cheaters stay cheaters...you deserve true love and better

@angelvillalta9810 3 жыл бұрын

I miss Tamera so bad and I loni just speaks facts

@nkt.11 2 жыл бұрын

Yes tam speaks the truth, gracefully

@CottoncanzyAnnchristine 2 жыл бұрын

I love loni, she always keeps it real 🤣❤️

@nkt.11 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, she was holding nothing back

@Mike-ri3ub 3 жыл бұрын

Also, this audience is so wild!

@ceeare12345 3 жыл бұрын

Dang Loni was feeling some type of way this day lol

@slytherinfan1188 3 жыл бұрын

Tamtam looks lovely in pink 💫💗

@jadesmith7983 3 жыл бұрын

Have I, Yes. Should I, No. I realized that you teach people that it's ok to lie and gaslight you just to sell you a dream that your getting monogamy from them.

@givememagic4588 3 жыл бұрын

Hmm I'll forgive him (eventually maybe) but I'd never taken him back, hes out on his ass with his stuff being lit on fire

@greyx3441 2 жыл бұрын

Loveee Loni here!!

@gabrielaquevedo6753 3 жыл бұрын

I personally couldn't forgive a cheater. You cheat on me, we are done. That is the lowest thing you could do to me. If you're going to do this to me, then what else are you doing to do?

@lizmariequinn 2 жыл бұрын

Me either bcuz I know me and ik I culd never trust u the same ever again. I culdnt feel comfortable even cooking for u without thinking abt putting laxatives in it😂

@kingly1407 2 жыл бұрын

Homie at 6:02 was looking guilty as hell when Tamera was talking about cheating lmao

@asefawsoliana5009 2 жыл бұрын

I love loniiiiiiii I love her honesty.

@rasheakorren 3 жыл бұрын

I miss the original FIVE girls !!! But since Tamar and Tamera left, it hasn't been the same 😔

@LalaLala-jz4td 3 жыл бұрын

So true they had the best chemistry and i loveeed their personalities

@itzy0763 3 жыл бұрын

I stopped watching. Now I just watch old videos

@bupedoes2447 2 жыл бұрын

Try watching the new 4 its actually a nice dynamic. I was the same as I liked all 5 but the 4 gives a different vibe

@ritajit4730 2 жыл бұрын

Adrienne looks very 70's glam here, i'm all for it!

@riverx6802 2 жыл бұрын

She needs glitter on her outfit, then it’d be glam! Also, lots of color!!

@beth1188 2 жыл бұрын

I did and he cheated again smdh. Cheaters don't change they get better at hiding it

@isabellejoseph3387 3 жыл бұрын

Damn and Freddie’s goofy ass cheated. He lost a GOOOOD ONE

@andreamoss2322 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE LONI! She is so Detroit in this clip!

@smaao 2 жыл бұрын

Thank God for Loni. Tell it how it is🙌🏽🙌🏽

@ec6621 2 жыл бұрын

Women are more likely to forgive an affair than men. Women are more likely to blame "the other woman" instead of (or in addition to) her cheating husband. Men are more likely to wholely blame his cheating wife than "the other man".

@cassiecakegames1057 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think I’ve ever been this early

@zintlecele316 2 жыл бұрын

Loni looks good👌🏿

@Notplayingnow 2 жыл бұрын

Good on Loni. How you get them, is how you lose them.

@annaman206 2 жыл бұрын

Loni really was real REAL

@daishaorgelato5113 3 жыл бұрын

Yeoooooo loni !!!! Yessss this is probably the realest and funniest episode EVER !!!

@tykiriaalexis 3 жыл бұрын

Tam was STUCK @10:00 😂😂😂

@jg7538 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with Tamera fully! They onus is always on the woman to keep her vows when men don't

@siyolisemakaka6013 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Loni's impersonation of Kim killed me

@smartcookie1094 3 жыл бұрын

She better stay with Kevin because that is how she got him in the first place. She cheated with him on his wife, I don't feel sorry for her.

@kendaljones930 3 жыл бұрын

I love loni's impersonation. lol.

@LuzdoSol00 3 жыл бұрын

No. Its so wild, who is cheating in the middle of a pandemic!!!

@starblane1023 2 жыл бұрын

Loni Love said Where else she's going to go 😆😭🤣 and Adrianna said living her life that means she ain't got nowhere to go because he is her life

@raeniecethemakeupartist491 3 жыл бұрын

Loni is cutting up in this video 🤣😭

@bani7412 2 жыл бұрын

Jeanie that sweater is a no go, under any circumstances!!🙄💛🖤

@kashlynsmith5684 2 жыл бұрын

whoever is reading this , GET RIGHT WITH GOD! GOD IS SO AMAZING! HAVE FAITH! TRUST GOD! GOD BLESS!

@Mike-ri3ub 3 жыл бұрын

Can the audience shut up? I’m trying to hear the ladies saying their opinion and the audience thinks that they’re at church

@phumelelamantwana6300 2 жыл бұрын

I am living for this Loni

@aartisaggar2791 2 жыл бұрын

Loni is so mean to Jeannie as she’s trying to explain her point, stop bullying her Loni!! You are not always right!

@me23435 3 жыл бұрын

Ade pisses me right off I love loni keeping it real

@briijohnson9587 3 жыл бұрын

DID YALL FORGET SHES A LAWYER OR STUDYING TO BE ONE

@mknight993 3 жыл бұрын

I can’t watch the new real I come back to watch the old clips

@izzyem Жыл бұрын

i can 100% forgive cheating, cuz i have had to so… but i will never date that person again

@mikaylakimberly 3 жыл бұрын

Loni just real 🤣💯

@charmingheartphotography6758 2 жыл бұрын

People cant comprehend open relationships

@Mamamia90210 2 жыл бұрын

Well when the man has money these women will always turn a blind eye. Beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Hillary Clinton, the list goes on and on.

@xxgizelrixx5480 2 жыл бұрын

loni cutting jeannie off yelling “tam” like bro let jeannie finish talking i just hate how they treat my girl sometimes

@aleeshaali3650 2 жыл бұрын

Jeannie really be out here wafflin like mad but still has nothing to say😒😒 if you know what I mean...#tiresome

@uniquegirl90009 4 ай бұрын

Loni is hilarious!😂😂😂😂😂😂

@celestesharp6120 2 жыл бұрын

Iniko Parish and Kevin Hart may be presenting a united front publicly, you don't know what's happening between them in private.

@shestayready 3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@annie9573 3 жыл бұрын

This is the ONE time I’m not a fan of Loni’s comment...

@Joellsr 3 жыл бұрын

I miss The Real like this

@alahshattuck9144 2 жыл бұрын

You got ONE time with me. that’s all I’m going to say

@marcellacollins4697 2 жыл бұрын

A didnt have no words when loni said her friend

@isabellejoseph3387 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaoooo Loni mocking Kim

@schuh384 Жыл бұрын

I hate how it looks like Lonnie wants to talk but everyone else keeps talking smh

@ntombyomzulu1527 2 жыл бұрын

Long has no filter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@marcellacollins4697 Жыл бұрын

It would never be the same

@xxgizelrixx5480 2 жыл бұрын

It throws me off how loni shits on Kim but when she came on the show she was acting like a fan... pick a side loni n stick with it

@beatricelaurent5059 2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry I love loni and Tam😭😂😂💕